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/r/MensRights01/03/26 09:24 PM
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No because her husband is actually into her and doesn't require her to do a monkey dance in order to reward her with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:38 PM
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less marriages would be sexless if women were into men the same way men are into women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/26 01:35 PM
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It's the same
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:59 PM
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I'm pretty sure I sent it somewhere in the replies. If I didn't then it's Ellis L, Walsh A. 2000; Yao S, Långström N, Temrin H, Walum H. 2014; Palmer CT, Tilley CF. 1995;
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:59 PM
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Men rate most women as 5/10 which is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:52 PM
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There will never be a single universal way because women are individuals and not a hive mind. What about being a decent person? I know its hard to grasp since incels love this idea that we are some kind of strange alien species and not just normal human beings like yourself Human beings with entirely different lives, socialization and opinions on the opposite gender and dating. But trying to be a decent person has definitely more chances of success than plastic surgery. Nope, otherwise everyone …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:49 PM
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Totally not because these methods are inefficient. SMH, men are into women and are desperate for their attention. If there was a single universal way to get it men would already be doing it en masse. Especially if it was as easy as just changing personality traits and behavior
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:05 PM
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trying to push anecdotes as evidence and not having them accepted as such ≠ proving a point. I could say the exact same thing and name instaces of lookism I've seen IRL but it's not sufficient evidence
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 04:13 PM
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"What's the point dude, I could tell you another anecdote" oh my god bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:02 PM
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Why are you on this sub if you believe you can't speak for people outside of the group you belong to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:50 PM
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And you didnt present any actually evidence. You just claim blue pill isnt real because "Muh feelings". This subreddit has daily discussions full of it lol You dont link any sources to your actual evidence. What exactly am I supposed to send? I made a broad statement about the pills, do you want random studies just attached to it? There is no debate here. You are arguing about your own bias believe like a religious person that says stuff like "of course there is a god, you have to see the patter…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:44 PM
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Your post betrays a line of thinking: seemingly no proof seems to be good enough for you. It's possible to evaluate certain personality traits and see how are the correlated with sexual/dating success. In the context of bluepill, morally good traits are supposed to be positively correlated with sexual/dating success, while morally bad traits should do the opposite. But we aren't seeing this anywhere. Bluepill also undermines the importance of uncontrollable superficial factors, but there isn't a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:38 PM
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Betabuxx dead bedroom marriages lol. Women settle because Chad doesn't want them long term Marriage stats are also declining heavily and young women desire marriage less than young men. Because they aren't into men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:12 PM
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Belief in a just world
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:07 PM
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Physically attractive people are more likely to believe in a just world. That's bluepill Westfall RS, Millar MG, Lovitt A. 2018
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:04 PM
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"Your evidence is just random patterns" and not a single said pattern supporting bluepill People are usually inclined to believe the side that presents actual evidence for their claims instead of "Muh I won't give you evidence because you won't accept non credible bullshit and I have nothing else besides it"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 01:01 PM
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"Is there any sufficient evidence for bluepill besides anecdotes and fallacies?" "Well actually☝️ anecdote ad hominem strawman hasty generalization red herring, that's why ur wrong!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:53 PM
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Your point is proven by nothing. Bluepillers have a system of common beliefs, a couple exceptions don't account for the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:46 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:45 PM
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Most of ur takes both in the posts and comments on this sub are proven by nothing
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:42 PM
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People rated it to be better than everything else though. You're also being very stereotypical, women greatly enjoy sex. Your libido might be low if so many things are better for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:30 PM
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You can speak for anybody with enough data available
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:25 PM
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If lower status men voluntarily accepted their diminished status, then yes, we would not have anywhere near the level of societal tension. Just turn off your brain and natural desires because society decided to cater to women and Chad! I tend to agree. If they stopped using dating apps, stopped giving women social media validation, stopped using professionals Men are into women bro In a world of thirsty men, be a cactus You may have libido issues
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:50 AM
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No, is not biological. If it was, lesbians or women mastuebating themselves wouldn't be having more orgasms than with a man. Female orgasm during intercourse isn't required for pregnancy and reproduction. Male orgasm is a necessity. Female masturbation results in less orgasms than male one. There is less likelihood for women to orgasm from any kind of stimulation compared to men, it also takes way more time even in activities directly aimed at it. 1)men don't bother or still dont know that women…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 09:25 AM
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How is what I said wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 08:02 AM
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It is a consequence of them doing more work. Nothing was given. Except it was given. Average woman socially has the same innate advantages as a very tall attractive man with high trust facial features, like top1% type. Even more so than him, perhaps. How many hours have you spent in the last week creating, cultivating and maintaining social networks. Purposely? As much as women lmao. You make it seem like some kind of secret exhausting deliberate work. It really isn't lol My wife wasn't given a …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 07:12 AM
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Seems like the men where you are from have lost the respect of the women. And one can lose respect if they don't respect other or even themselves. It's everywhere besides muslim or african countries lmao Simps tend to lose respect because they aren'r respecting themselves. And it is hard to respect when they are disrespectfull towards you. They listened to women's advice, why aren't they succeeding? And looking on the internet and seeing what popular discourse about women is (women bad) it's no …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:55 AM
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It does. Your point would make sense if men were cheating overwhelmingly more than women - justifying women initiating most divorces. But both genders cheat in roughly the same amount
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:45 AM
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If you just start to flirt immediatelly out of first contact - probably. Would be taken good if you're attractive or a woman But casual interactions with a smile can warm up a parsons disposition towards you. If you have good enough craniofacial development, wide palate, good teeth, good soft tissue genetics. Or if you're a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 06:43 AM
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They also have better social skills and spend more time creating and maintaining social relationships. It's a consequence of what I said So when a women has shit go down they have a network of friends that can help them. Anyone is more willing to help them because they're women Men, because they don't maintain those networks, have perhaps 0 t 2 friends who can help them. Society generally cares less about men and is less likely to help and support them compared to women. See how that's based on …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 02:07 AM
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I was referring to RPers there. Basically the same group of men No, they aren't. That's why it works. They are. Most people aren't good at manipulation. It works for certain people because of Halo effect Ppl of all genders have a tendency to give the benefit of the doubt to someone we wanna like. If we didn't, most ppl wouldn't date at all. Chad for women and average woman for men No, it's not. Consent must be informed. If someone's lying, that's impossible. Consent is whatever wanted sex, that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:30 AM
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Women want sex as much as men, they are simply just way more selective. Even when women's sex drive spikes in ovulation they don't suddenly start being sexaully attracted to the average man they rated 3/10 yesterday. Women want sex with chads and other women as much as men want sex with women
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:08 AM
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Women's complaints are valid and men's aren't. You think so because you're a woman. Society also generally appeases the party with least interest Women want men who are not their partners to stop seeing them in a sexual way and to just treat them like normal people. Yeah women don't want to be wanted by unwanted men. Shocker. There would be no problems between men and women if men would do this. Yeah there would be no problems for women, women would just be choosing whoever they'd like to fuck, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/26 12:05 AM
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Men and women reportedly cheat in similar amounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:59 PM
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What she means is that for most of history, if you were a man, you wouldn’t have to change yourself to get a woman. Untrue, most men in history never reproduced. Aside from that there was always a competition on who gets women, specifically financial one. The decision just wasn't made by women a lot of the time. You just take the rich top10% of men for reference like most women do because they don't see majority of men as people. You would get an education, job, and living situation like normal,…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:43 PM
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Objective (adj.): Existing independently of personal feelings, perceptions, beliefs, or preferences; observer-independent and verifiable by consistent measurement regardless of who observes it. Some features functionally fit that description especially facial harmony ratios The simple fact that men rate other men higher than women rate men is sufficient evidence that beauty is not objective. women are desensitized and delusional. With growing amount of options they find smaller and smaller % of …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:18 PM
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Literally negligible lol. There are mathematically ideal proportions that are more liked by everyone compared to unideal ones. Di Dio C, Macaluso E, Rizzolatti G. 2007 shows it for sculptures, the brain literally reacts differently (worse) to unusual proportions. Slater A, Von der Schulenburg C, Brown E, Badenoch M, Butterworth G, Parsons S, Samuels C. 1998 also shows that certain beauty standards are innate to humans, as even infant babies spend more time looking at faces that were rated as att…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:57 PM
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Women have always been attracted only to a very small percentage of men. Nope not really, women are attracted to a larger percentage of men if exposed to less options. You are not in a desperate state because women are picky. You are in an equal state as women now, finally. Nope. It's an unnatural state that appeases the party with least interest that can use their natural desirability advantages, but punishes the party with most interest and forbids them from exercising their natural strength a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:41 PM
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They do, certain features are found attractive by enough people to make them universal and ignore the insignificant exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:35 PM
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(I’d also argue that distributions were discovered rather than manmade, but that’s a whole separate philosophy). That's what I was hinting at lol According to you, this would indicate a problem with the shopper rather than the flowers. Yeah because it's a rare occurence How would it be objectively wrong? 5/10 is average and covers the most people. If it isn't then ur attractiveness scale is useless and not viable. If you consider most people to be below 5/10 your placing the 5 in the wrong place…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:25 PM
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It's objective. Your brain measures it in 300-500 seconds. Certain features and ratios are more attractive to basically everyone. More harmonious and symmertical faces are more attractive to everyone. Developed bones are more attractive to everyone compared to recessed ones. Clear healthy skin is more attractive that sick one covered in blemishes to everyone. Tall height is universally recognised as a good and dominant trait in men by pretty much everyone. More facial contrast is more attractive…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:55 PM
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You could flip it that way too if you want
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:50 PM
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No I didn't say that lol. Women also tend to find the same men attractive. 10% of men receive 58% of women's likes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:49 PM
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Men who aren't having luck in dating and are turning to extremism to explain it in a way they're willing to accept... are getting access to women? Incels aren't dangerous men lmao they're rejected and bullied ugly autists. And that's in a non insulting way, because that's how they describe their experiences. Actual dangerous men keep hurting and abusing a new women each week because women keep choosing them Sometimes they do. No However, a man who cannot control himself for any length of time ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:48 PM
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There’s no natural law requiring that attractiveness falls on a normal Gaussian distribution. There's no natural law requiring anything to be a part of any manmade concept. Now use your brain and think why it's stupid to point out Just as I can go to a flower store and it’s possible that over half are wilted Then the average flower in that specific store is wilted, what wrong that that? it’s possible for over half of men to be below a 5/10 on the attractiveness scale. No, because it would be obj…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:28 PM
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Measured average height for women is 5'3. I, a heterosexual man, determine it to be 4'10 because that's my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:22 PM
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wants data refuses to look it up ✌️
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:18 PM
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Anyways people broadly agree on who's beautiful or not (Langlois JH, Kalakanis L, Rubenstein AJ, Larson A, Haiam M, Smoot M. 2000), even if it's "subjective" (it isn't, some features are objectively better and liked more, like good facial bone development, good hairline, tall height, wide frame and good health indicators in men) there is a general opinion shared by absolute most people.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:10 PM
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Average is an objective term. Median is more fitting tbh but these aren't really different. 50th percentile man is average/median. If a woman thinks he isn't she's biased and wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:07 PM
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Who else? Women who rate the median man as 3/10? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:04 PM
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It would take you as much effort to look them up by titles as looking them up by authors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 09:02 PM
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A) men are not physically afraid of being murdered by the random average woman. Women also aren't. They actively go on dates and hookup with random men they find attractive enough. They like the harassment when it comes from them. Also objectively dangerous, criminal, psychopathic, anti-social men have more sexual success than normal men. Women don't care about the danger in the slightest - it's just a cheap excuse for finding the average man unattractive and automatically assuming things about …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:51 PM
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It does tho. Lots of things in modern progressive societies completely desensitized women and made them delusional about what the average man looks like. They're completely unable to feel sexual desire towards the average man now. That's not the case in less developed societies with way less people, no technology and no drugs altering hormones and sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:46 PM
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It's not about being capable. Love is found, not built. Not really, you find a person good enough and build a realtionship with them. That's the reality for most people. In rare cases like yours it can happen instantly but it's just an outlier. Virginity is good. Failed relationships are red flags. Most women disagree. They are actually more attracted to men who are already in relationships more than to currently single men, you know, the men preselected by other women suggesting their genetics …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:43 PM
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Fun fact : men are getting better. Compared to previous generations, men of today spend significantly more time with their children, do way more housework, care more about their partners pleasure/satisfaction, are way more anxious about their appearance and do way more self care, up to extreme methods such as surgeries. At the same time men spend more money on courting than ever before, still pay for most dates and keep being primary breadwinners for families - because that's what women "want". …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:31 PM
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What desperate state? Most men have zero options to choose from at most times and have to take whatever they can get. What “force”? Men, as the party with most interest, have zero power in dating so they're forced to conform to whatever dating system women make. Do you just mean that women won a form of economic liberation for the first time and now men have to be better? In a world of modern technologies and big cities women got an abundance of options which completely desensitized and made the…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:27 PM
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And then they bail after the fuck... Maybe Chad does lol. Heck, men also use term like "butherface" and talk about fuckable body, but an ugly face and about putting on a bag on the face before fucking. They're still attracted to her body's fertility indicators. Most attractive features are indicators of either good development, good health or good fertility. So yeah, these men are still attracted to these women👍 Many women say they're dating ugly men just because they're tall I don't think the b…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:19 PM
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Well if you just like women in general you don't really like HER in unique special way. If everyone is special then noone is special. Ehhhh it's more so that men are capable of it in more cases than women. Most people aren't much different from eachother as well. So you deserve to be alone. No woman wants be just a checkbox, we want to be special for out man. Hahahaha oh my god. Special for Chad, yeah. But women are also fine with sharing Chad with other women. Women are also the ones calling vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:10 PM
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Of which I am. And if women all find the same type of men attractive, it stands to reason that I'd recognize the names. By young I meant mid twenties or below and by old I meant over 40 if anything. So this proves me point that women find different types of men attractive. Women aren't all fighting over some Chico lookalike He's universally appealing to women even if not that known. He was like top 1 character in women's self insert fanfics, all because he looks good
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:00 PM
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I don't know who any of those men are. 🤷 Ehhhh they're all from different times so it's normal. These are mostly known either by young women or old women. But again, if you prefer to obsess that's y'all creating your own problems. No argument
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:49 PM
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Most men can't even take normal pictures. Any picture is a great one when it's Chad. Any picture is bad and laughable when it's average man. He could pay hundreds of dollars for a professional photoshoot and get no results because it was never an issue to begin with. Women's pictures aren't complicated either. Then average man is just unsuccessfull male slut. ? You don't even care about women as people. Why? You don't even care if you like her. No, men care a lot about that. They just like way m…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:46 PM
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A lot of them are. No, not really. They are a pretty small percentage of the population but they keep getting chosen by women for some reason. (Reading what they write can be truly disturbing.) The minority of men you choose to highlight And a lot of them are just pushed toward TRP, bc they don't accept that they belong in that category and should be kept from having access to women. They aren't kept from having access to women. It doesn't matter what they morally should be if women still pick t…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:35 PM
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Google the statements, the sources should come up as the studies are in open access
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:16 PM
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Because again, you're assuming that women will find every man attractive, the same way that men find every woman attractive. Most* Y'all obsess over Chad and fail to recognize that's your male projection of what you think women are attracted to. Chad is by definition whatever male that gets a ton of female attention. Tall, handsome(well developed facial bones, good health indicators), neurotypical. Jacob Elordi is Chad, Chico Lachowski is Chad, Alain Delon was Chad, whatever other famous dude wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:15 PM
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Yeah so u can't just get funny in a flick of your wrist and you can't really work into becoming funny if you don't have the right settings from the beginning
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:05 PM
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Being jacked does NOT matter if other factors like height and face aren't genetically above average. Lots of muscle is a male gaze thing, women are more attracted to whatever is acquired genetically/ naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:04 PM
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she doesn’t want though, The african dude is wanted tho, because his women don't have most things that completely desensitized and ruined women's perception of men in more progressive developed countries
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:02 PM
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Men often time talk about "post nut clarity" where they get disgusted by the woman. Maybe it's less male attraction and more "male hornyness" that makes them go for nearly every woman? Most men are attracted to women they're fucking lol. But if you have any actual data on the topic then send it pls While women have a smaller window of "female hornyness" True but even in that window women are significantly more picky than even the lowest (in a healthy range) libido men. Most men and male bodies d…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:59 PM
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Oh yeah sorry lol, didn't notice the word act. Anyways the meaning doesn't change. Men want to be loved by women the same way men love women, the same way women love women, the same way women love Chad. But they can't get it because of uncontrollable reasons, natural reaction to that is frustration and range. You can choose what you verbalise but you'll never change how you feel
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:42 PM
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That's from dating apps because men are obviously not able to make decent profiles. Problem is the profiles, not that all women have the same type. Oh my god. Can you guess the combination of words that gets men the most likes on dating apps? What showcases his amazing interesting personality the best? That's right! " 6' " 😂✌️link So look for the one. No woman wants to be chosen just because she gave him a chance. Find the one, approach only women you really feel the spark with. It's hilarious h…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:39 PM
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Yes. And they are constantly fighting/murdering and not getting anything done (chimps) or would be wiped out if a more aggressive species invaded (bonobos) Better than wagecucking most of your life away Only someone who’s lived with air conditioning, food surplus, beds, shelter, analgesics, constant entertainment, basic sanitation and lack of violence their whole lives would say such a thing My life has been below average in most of these qualities mostly but I'd still take constant enthusiastic…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:26 PM
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Ain't no way you managed to blame men for women becoming desensitized and delusional in the age when society got freed from those old fashioned norms. Men of today take the most care of themselves and are the most anxious about their appearance, we live in the least traditional society ever yet women like men less and less
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:21 PM
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Except that all the problems listed exist for people actively dating IRL
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:19 PM
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Problems exist because some of y'all expect women to act like you. Well people want to be liked. Oh the horror, it's a subchad man wanting to be liked by women. Problems exist because y'all expect women to have sex or date men they aren't attracted to. It's almost like unattractive men also have a sex drive and want to be loved because they're humans just like you. Problems exist because y'all don't listen and think you're experts on women. Observing the reality is better than listening to someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:18 PM
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women inherently have it SIGNIFICANTLY easier in terms of EVERYTHING related to social interactions, because of "Women are wonderful" effect. Women have a strong in-group bias, while men have an out-group bias. Both genders heavily favor women's actions over men's and rate them better. They trust women more, they like them more by default just for being women. That's also why women are significantly more likely to receive help and support when in need.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:05 PM
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Men would have higher standards if they weren't forced into a desperate state with no alternative options in modern society.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 06:01 PM
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And being jacked doesn't matter. It is a good bonus if someone is already attractive by other traits, which average man isn't. Average man is 3/10 physically in women's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:58 PM
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I also forgot to mention that a large part of humor is genetic. Neurotypicality and brain structure, as well as life experiences shaping your personality heavily rely on genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:57 PM
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The biggest dating problem is "the person i'm interested in is not interested in me". And sometime there is also "i'm not into the person who is into me". Men are interested in most women. Women aren't interested in most men. Heterosexual women are into men. Into a very small specific type of genetically blessed men, or fictional men. I wouldn't be saying I'm into chocolate if I only liked one specific taste that you can't find in most stores, that tastes nothing like a normal chocolate bar. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:12 PM
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Let’s see these studies you claim exist Google each statement, it should give you published scientific articles on the topic. We’re into men. Into a very narrow and specific type of genetically blessed men* I wouldn't be saying I like chocolate if the only chocolate I liked was an extremely rare taste that is nothing like any chocolate you would see in most stores. Just not in the way and degree that men want You're into Chad or other women that way and degree tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:08 PM
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maybe for millenia women have had to adapt to attract men for survival Women never had to adapt. The only thing massively culling them was death by childbirth, these were the only women who's genetics weren't good enough to have offspring (ironically, physically not good enough to give birth but still good enough to be "chosen" by men). And these are now fixed by medical involvement. we’re realizing that men haven’t had to evolve to attract women in the same way Men evolved tho. Just like women …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 05:05 PM
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All types of smile are creepy and have ulterior motives if they come from an unattractive men. At the same time all types of smile you listed would look good on a Chad with excellent craniofacial development, or on a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:58 PM
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How many times do women have to say that their attraction to men has a lot to do with who they are as a person If that was the case, dangerous, violent, destructive, criminal and abusive men would be incels isolated from society. Or at least they would be getting significantly less access to female bodies compared to normal men. In reality though it's the opposite - all these groups of men have significantly more sex with women than normal men. (Ellis L, Walsh A. 2000; Yao S, Långström N, Temrin…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:56 PM
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It would likely be similar to that of Chimpanzees or Bonobos. Ngl I'd take the life of an average macaco over average human male
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:39 PM
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High IQ is the most valuable and useful trait to succeed in modern society. Being in top percentiles of it usually leads to more success than being in top percentiles of other traits. You could just switch it for the general term "intelligence" if that's more comfortable to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:09 PM
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It's different type of men for each woman. 58% of women's likes go to the same 10% of men There is someone for everyone. Tons of people die KHHVs. 44% of 30+y.o. autistic men stay virgins despite higher sex drive than normal men. In China and India alone there are tens of millions of "excess men" who will inevitably die without every having a partner. Focus on finding the one instead of desire to slut around. Average man is focused on even getting a chance(still fails most of the time) and you'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:05 PM
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I never said otherwise. Nobody owes anyone anything
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:01 PM
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Have all men tried getting jacked Insignificant. Women like good genetics, not something purposely manufactured at the gym. They'd much rather take an anorexic 6'4 Chad with wide clavicles and narrow hips, or a bloated 6'5 dude with good bones underneath his fat who is a "soft cuddly manly bear with a dad bod" or wtv over the average 5'9 guy, no matter how jacked he is. and being funny? Perception of personality and humor are very heavily impacted by physical attractiveness. Halo effect is prove…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 04:00 PM
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If you want a mate, you have to monkey dance, just the same as ever other creature that reproduces does Because women aren't into men. And they generally dislike being with men who have to monkey dance. They'd much rather take the monkey dance(money, service, gifts) without the man. Unless he's chad, then he wouldn't have to monkey dance in the first place then. It's not like I disagree with you, that's our current reality. Women are interested in men that are interesting,but as humans we develo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:56 PM
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It would be much better this way. Sex is rated to be the most joyous, pleasurable and meaningful daily human experience. If humans just fucked like monkeys all day they'd be enjoying this far more than 9/5ing till elderly age and dying a few years later.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:51 PM
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Just the presence of a woman is valued more than the presence of a man. As I said, men compromise and stay in dissatisfactory relationships way more than women because they like women way more than vice versa, and have less alternative options.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:44 PM
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In my experience, all of this happens because most women take better care of themselves than most men. Nope. It's insignificant. Most men are genetically unattractive to women. No amount of self care would change this. Modern men take more care of their looks and body than ever in history, but women like them less and less. At the same time if you took away all self care from the average woman, even showers, she would still receive more attention from the opposite gender than the average self-ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:41 PM
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I can mirror that statement exactly and will be just as right. "men are not into women", "the common complaint of women is that men don't see them as a person, they only want to use them as holes. Except that men like women's personalities. Halo effect from men's attraction to women positively affects men's perception of women's personalities. Average man likes the average woman and desires both sex and romance from her. Unlike that common complaint of men is that women want relationship with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 03:24 PM
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Average man (who is unattractive 3/10 in women's eyes) smiling at a woman would be considered creepy and unwanted by them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:58 PM
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Nope lol, you just have a stereotypical media image of a young gay dude in your mind. Tons of gay men are as unkempt, dirty, hairy as straight men. Like the men you'd see posting in gay 18+ subreddits and getting no upvotes, and even then there's reporting bias and better looking ones will be more likely to post. care and nurture their appearance. Average male is genetically unattractive to women. No amount of self care will change that, nothing will make them sexually attractive to women. Not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 02:53 PM
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there are way more hot women than men. There aren't, objectively. You just have much higher requirements towards men and you're way more forgiving of women's flaws. Do you consider yourself straight/heterosexual? Then on top of that you have good looking men who as soon as they open their mouth go from a 9 to a 4. Women can be cringe, weird and autistic and have just as much male attention because men are actually into them and are way more forgiving of such behaviors. For example, autism in wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 11:11 AM
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It's sexual selection, not natural selection. Women in modern society more than often reproduce and have children with 'bad' males. In fact the most beneficial and important trait in modern life, IQ, is selected against - high IQ people have sex later, have less of it and have less reproductive success compared to average and low IQ people. Destructive, violent, psychopathic and criminal males don't just have as much sex and offspring as normal men - they have even more of it. The sheer amount o…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 10:50 AM
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Because trust me. Women don't wanna be approached by a stranger going out about on her daily routine. They want it at all times if it's Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 08:06 AM
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Am I wrong tho? Women are only worried about making moves and approaching Chads who are also the only ones who may consider these women not good enough. It's genuinely hilarious, "I wish men would shut up about their preferences and opinions so that the insecure beckies can be hypergamous and jump on Chad bones in peace". Women boost their self esteem by going on dates with their looksmatch who has to pay, jester and jump through hoops in exchange for their nothing but their presence lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 03:02 PM
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You don't get it. Discrimination is only when woman unhappy
/r/MensRights29/01/26 09:30 AM
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Why is this fear so common here? Because it's common irl. Dead bedrooms and almost sexless marriages are very common especially in older people. As soon as women marry and "secure" the undesirable men they don't have the need to constantly give them with sex anymore, so they either stop doing it entirely or only use it as a reward for good behavior or a holiday gift. Women don't sexually desire absolute most men. They don't find the average male body attractive at all, even above average ones fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:22 AM
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you'd find a lot more women making bolder moves to find men to date and their cripplingly low self-esteem would make a comeback overnight. Rich just getting richer, Chad just getting more and more women into his harem
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 09:08 AM
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Dude. Literally all a woman wants is for some healthy guy to get her off until she’s looks dizzy & exhausted. It’s not a complicated assignment. The "healthy guy" in question is also top5% in terms of genetic fitness lmao. Women feel absolutely nothing towards absolute most men or even feel sexual disgust in many cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:25 AM
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Women don't experience any sexual attraction to vast majority of men, and it heavily impacts women's probability of orgasm. There's no secret technique that will turn a 5'8 skinnyfat middle aged balding man into a sex god that makes women cum in seconds. At the same time men (or women) that women are actually turned on by don't have to put that much effort or learn anything. Sex is very intuitive, it's meant to be that way by nature. It's pleasurable when both partners experience attraction to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 08:22 AM
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So you don't feel empathy for men lmao, whole lot of words to say that without seeming like a bad person
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/26 07:25 AM
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Stay single and clinging to data. Sounds like a great life. I have a girlfriend. I only got with her after getting to an above average level in overall attractiveness. I just acknowledge objective reality instead of spewing bluepill cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:45 PM
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A vasectomy is a simple in office procedure and covered by insurance, sources: friends who got them and a doctor who performed them in his office until he retired. Poor dudes pushed into potentially runining their ability to have kids. Yk tons of men also advocate for circumcision and say it's better that way despite the proof it's not, purely because of indoctrination. Men's issues and suffering will never be taken seriously But neither is tubal ligation reversal. Which is a more intensive proc…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:41 PM
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I'm into men, like actually into all of them not just their bodies You aren't into their bodies. You already said that before. You aren't into the only thing that's distinctly male. If you basically want a living blow up doll of a partner it might be you who actually isn't really into the other gender. Pretty disgusting way to view natural healthy human sexuality. Likely a misandrist one too. If i experience arousal by men I'm still aroused by men. You aren't aroused by anything exclusively manl…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:19 PM
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The top 5% is gonna look different for me vs my sister vs my bestie vs my coworker. Same 10% of men receive 58% of women's likes on dating apps. Most women's types are incredibly similar. Tall, good bone structure, good health indicators, high-trust and approachable features. That's it. Some miscellaneous features like hair color may vary more but they aren't nearly as important as the ones I've mentioned. I've never chased the same men my friends did. My friends never chased the same men I did.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 10:05 PM
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Obviously a vasectomy is possible and reversible, Though I do really appreciate that doctors don't have a high barrier for vasectomies. They're actually extremely risky, the chances of them becoming irreversible are very high and only get higher overtime. After three years it becomes a 50/50 gamble whether it's reversible or not, and then lower and lower each year. Vasectomy should NEVER be advertised as a "simple, safe and reversible" procedure because it simply isn't. Not to mention that the r…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:40 PM
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Which is why women do better, because more of them care about being competent adults. Because they aren't into men. They do better single because they're single by choice while men are usually not. Society doesn't pressure them in terms of this as well - they're allowed to be virgins, even praised for it. Men actually care more about being competent adults because society shames them for not being that. Women can live with their parents in adulthood. Women can be jobless. Women can be fully reli…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:27 PM
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the problem with incels is that they are merely wrong How exactly are they wrong? They're involuntarily celibate. Celibate for unconte reasons. That's it. If you tied incels to the common beliefs(which I assume you did), they wouldn't be wrong either. Core part of their beliefs isn't just "looks are everything" but general genetic determinism which includes brain structure and therefore behavior tendencies. Autists and other neurodivergent people are overrepresented among incels and virgins in g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 09:13 PM
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They have. It's just alot of you guys only think about pussy, so you dont pay attention about anything else about women. Because they're into women. Because they experience interest towards them and aren't constantly looking for reasons to cut them off, unlike the way women do with most men. Also, the fact you made this about romance/sex proves my point. Nothing else matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:38 PM
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self hatred, resignation, sorrow Self hatred is the initial stage forced onto men by society that tells them something is inherently wrong with them from the moment they're born. Tons of men stay on that stage actually, a common redpill belief is something along the lines "hate yourself and push yourself harder, that's the only way to get better, everything wrong is your fault" or whatever. That's just the way to keep them in a hamster wheel. But after trying and failing, many realise the truth.…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:32 PM
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Nobody wants your jestering or jumping through hoops, Women do. They actually demand it from men they aren't instantly attracted to. A ton of additional efforts that would prove his usefulness and convenience for her rather than invoke any actual desire. We just want to be allowed to experience desire the way we do. Women are allowed to do it, and experience it very often either towards other women or extremely genetically lucky men. No ammount of ranting at me about my straightness making me br…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 08:01 PM
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Just acceptance and sorrow that follows it. Inability to get what you naturally crave and what you're pressured into pursuing by society will inevitably result in this. Most of the self hatred fades when you realise you aren't at fault and were simply just unlucky from the start
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:43 PM
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Men aren't stuck in their hometown either. True, they're unwanted everywhere tho✌️ It's easy for men too. The top5% men that you and other women actually find attractive* Yep, dating and fucking is EXTREMELY easy for them now. Some of y'all just prefer to whine and complain. Yeah because the experience is actually horrible for the rest of us lmao. As soon as women, who have less interest in men than vice versa by default, got the right to choose their partner and got such a huge amount of option…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:36 PM
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People aren't stuck in their hometown with their only option the 50 men from high school. And that's exactly why dating is hard for men and hilariously easy for women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:03 PM
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Both of these are harder to get on average than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:03 PM
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The current dating dynamic only exists because we have made life ludicrously easy for women. True. And it's not changing. As long as female consent and opinions are protected by law, and as long as they have access to modern technologies that give them an abundance of options, dating will only keep getting worse for the average man. Women's interest in men is significantly lower than vice versa by default. That's why they had to be forced into marriages and realtionships with men for the entiret…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 07:01 PM
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Because you only experience attraction as a man does and think anything that isn't the exact same isn't really attraction. Most women just don't experience it like that ever. If you only want women who experience attraction by simply looking at a guy you're going to be limiting you dating pool to a really small percentage. Having your attraction be based on more than just looks doesn't mean the attraction doesn't exist. All that because women aren't into most men lmao. Female sexuality isn't mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:49 PM
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Will NEVER happen in consensual dating
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:36 PM
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Observing and acknowledging the brutal reality ≠ self hatred. The fate of the average young man today is pretty sad and it's only getting worse by multiple metrics.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 06:25 PM
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women are better off single than men are because of this dynamic Women are better off single because it's always by choice, while for men it's mostly involuntary. That's it lol. and I genuinely believe that the male loneliness epidemic will be dwarfed by a female one in a generation or two Will never happen because women will always have inherent worth and value in the eyes of society, especially men. While vast majority of men are considered worthless by women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:28 PM
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women never had to deliberately work on their social skills to get attention because men are into women. That's it. They don't have to pretend to be someone else. Literally most they have to do is get into a conversation, because men are actually into women, while the opposite unfortunately isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:13 PM
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autistic women have zero issues in dating compared to NT women because men are into women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 05:03 PM
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Vote and advocate for better education, Medicare for all, affordable post secondary education, changes in tax laws, addressing vertical consolidation of corporations. Let's see some solidarity here my brothers. Women have been the voting majority in most progressive countries since the previous century, mostly because women live longer and outnumber men in the voting age. UK is the biggest example of it and it's becoming progressively worse for men and better for women in all the metrics you men…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/26 04:53 PM
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Female autonomy, or any autonomy, is entirely manmade. That’s why wanting to police women’s bodies and gatekeep us from having equal autonomy is the central theme underneath most violent religious movements, conservative movements, and manosphere grievance. Because in nature women's opinions and consent, as a biologically significantly weaker sex, wouldn't matter. They would also never be protected by random armed men like they are today. Women also don't have any physiological mechanism that wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 06:05 AM
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"Casual sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:31 PM
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Oh and obviously filtering everything you say. When you aren't attractive to a woman by default, she's constantly looking for a reason to say no. Women test men with all kinds of bullshit and it's exhausting. At the same time women and attractive men don't have to do any of these in order to get attention. They could say or do something wrong and it won't be a dealbreaker at all
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:45 PM
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These terms go together
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:35 PM
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Any man can have seven dates next week..... No not really, tons of men haven't been on a date for years because women reject them. Besides, even if we assume he has 7 dates, 4 of them will just be women going there for free food He may have to call 21 girls but it'll happen. Likely more if we're talking about the average man. No woman can guarantee she will have seven dates next week. Any woman can have 7 dates in a day if she just shows initiative herself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:33 PM
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Yoooo I think this was influenced by my post. So basically what I was talking about, most men are physically unattractive to women. So with the lack of physical attraction, men basically have to do a "mating dance" like birds in order to have a chance. If you noticed, only men have to make up some obscure dating strategies, pick up lines, purposely try to be a clown telling jokes that you don't even find funny but that are supposed to work, catch interest, try to make small gestures and moves, f…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:29 PM
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Yeah horny and desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:12 PM
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Men are desperate as fuck lol look at dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:10 PM
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Bro... It's the general rule. You didn't even Google? It's the general rule in species where males can't sexually coerce females Srsly, you didn't even Google? I did, google it yourself lol Nobody prevents female animals from choosing their mates. Male animals do. By forcing the act The fact that it had to be forced is evidence of its lack of efficacy Female choice in humans is a forced practice Demonstrably untrue. It's true, their birth rates are dropping and their women are hypergamous. Succe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:10 PM
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True to a point, a ton of Gen Z men never even tried because of how insanely unfair it is. Perhaps for their own good
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:20 AM
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Also studies point at the fact that humans aren't monogamous and change partners during their lifetime. Monogamy was chosen because it's better for unnaturally large groups of humans
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:18 AM
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Yep. The ones who make the most significant investment in reproduction are the ones who choose. That's how they maximize the efficacy of their investment. What are they teaching in science class these days? If they have the power to do so. Like in spiders or hyenas. It's not a general rule because the only thing determining it is physical strength advantage which doesn't always belong to females or males Bonobos. Recent research suggests that bonobos are more similar to our last common ancestors…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:17 AM
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Not really it just makes you seem impoverished and desperate imo. Same effect tbh. It's not something you would like to admit you did Even better results if u never go anywhere with them in the 1st place. True, I respect you for that. Many women disagree tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:14 AM
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Ehhh 1/3 reported that they did this, and it's pretty shameful and immoral to do that. Many more just didn't admit the truth. And it's not free they are going to try to touch you You're free to report sexual assault or harassment. Legally they can't do it without consent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 09:03 AM
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How is being with some guy you don't want, don't like and is jumping around supposed to feel empowering ? A third of women reported to go on dates just for free food. Just imagine, someone is paying real money and gifts just for your presence, while you don't have to do anything back. Think about it in non romantic sphere, some person u don't like and don't want around keeps trying to force themself in ur friend group or to be your friend. Except that they also buy you stuff and basically pay fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:25 AM
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Also obviously I'm careful when these topics come up around her, it's not like I'm telling her all the same stuff I'm commenting on here
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:22 AM
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So did we all. But most men didn't' cry about it. Because it's accepted and taught to them since childhood. Attractive men never had to do the same thing You seem angry and bitter. Closer to miserable and disappointed I'd say Just because you had to work at getting a relationship, that made you upset. Obviously it did. Realtionships shouldn't be "earned" by one person and simply given by the other. It should be about the same amount of mutual interest. But it's assymmetrical in almost all cases
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:21 AM
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I've been told this multiple times before lol, women just can't fathom that there are so many desperate men with no options, and how rarely the courting succeeds
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:17 AM
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Most women actively reap the benefits of this tho
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:14 AM
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It's not abuse that it funny and I'm not taking away the accountability from the abusers. The funny part is women's belief they can "see through" and detect bad intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:13 AM
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If your goal is to date why are you making choices that imperil that option. Which ones? You have stated that you are a helpless victim. You have lashed out against women. I haven't blamed any gender for this as it is not a choice to be that way for women or men. I just stated the truth lol All of that leads to you being single. I'm not even single, but I still had to jester around and initiate every single thing to get into my first(and current) relationship, always risking rejection and humili…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 07:16 AM
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Same thing lol. And consequences can always be drastic if you're unlucky enough
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:25 AM
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desperation is a constraint on men, not an empowerment of women. It's both, women really enjoy this position and actively exploit it. Surveys show that a third of women reported to have gone on dates just for free food. Women love all the free shit they get just for their presence, and they actually demand it to be that way. for example if a worker accepts exploitative labor because they’re desperate, you wouldn't say the employer has “full control over the economy.” Well the worker does it all …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:22 AM
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Sexual selection is seated with women. That's how it works for our species. Men are not without agency. But women will be the primary choosers. That's the natural order of things in an animal like humans. Nope. That's the order when you have a bunch of random armed men protecting women's consent and rights, both of which are manmade concepts that don't exist in nature. In nature humans would be displaying behaviors closer to those of chimpanzees, they have a similar strength dimorphism to humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:33 AM
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but its biggest weakness is treating women’s ability to reject as equivalent to full control over outcomes It's pretty much full control, men today are so desperate they agree to any conditions to achieve the desired result material, temporal, and risk-based costs women bear after selection. Women dgaf about any of these, the risk based thing is especially funny knowing that dangerous, criminal, violent gang member men get more sexual access to women than average according to a few studies. They…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 05:21 AM
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anxiety is the default state of an average man trying to date lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:09 PM
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they are desperate for a relationship They aren't desperate, they have a wide variety of available options and choose the best one If women were sexually satisfied, we wouldn’t be complaining about the opposite. They still date for the need of sexual satisfaction even if it's not enough in their opinion. It's very rare for them to prioritize something else above it unless they're just using the man Nor would men be complaining about being dead bedroomed, the most horrible thing that could happen…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 08:09 PM
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Walking on eggshells ? Overthinking your actions and word choice not to give a woman the ick or come off as a creepy weirdo. Basically being in a constant fear you'll do something wrong, in case with women it can be anything unfortunately. Unless she's attracted to you by default What exactly does jestering mean ? Trying hard to entertain a woman with your words and actions because she's not interested in you by default
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:54 PM
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“Men are vulnerable little babies with no agency” "Agency" is pointless if everything is still only done at a woman's mercy it’s barely a debate, It is pretty controversial
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:52 PM
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Again, you do have options No but you won't like them I have none many women out there are desperate for a relationship. None are. Otherwise more women would be showing initiative to average and below average men. You know, like men who purposely go for ugly women. I tried that too back in school days and it didn't work tho Only one man has ever wanted me that I know of and he's just normal Good for you. never tried to entertain me more than I did him. Women often overestimate their own efforts …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:51 PM
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That’s why many (the majority?) end up in relationships where they do most of the non-money-related work and are hilariously defensive and touchy about it. Women want to present themselves as hard working victims who aren't valued enough so they greatly exaggerate the difficulty and importance of that work, and often also present it as a service beneficial only to the partner, while it's actually for everyone including themselves (e.g. housework). It's especially true in modern times when most o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:45 PM
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It's a debate post
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:32 PM
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It's a debate post What do you expect people to do? People will do nothing because what's described in the post is inevitable in any developed sexually liberated society. What is your solution? None
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:31 PM
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Very few of them are born with a face that makes them unfuckable. In your perception, not women's. Average male in women's eyes has about the same attractiveness level as an unkempt overweight hairy woman in your eyes. Height makes a man marginally more attractive, but the way you talk to a woman can make or break the interaction. Doesn't matter if she isn't attracted to you from the start. PUA is dead you can't fool them into fucking you anymore unless ur above average looking
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:29 PM
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its because men on average dont invest as much as women do in friendships. Nope, it's a common reason listed but it's not as significant as what I said. The gap between voluntary and involuntary celibacy is huge. oh and also, at least in the past generations, the wife was basically a live in servant while also bringing home a salary. that surely makes your life easier. Not only is it untrue but also irrelevant to the modern day situation. i may always have a choice (because i became attractive, …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:24 PM
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You can demand to be treated like a princess And I'll get nothing because unlike women I'm not born with inherent worth between my legs nobody has to meet those demands. She will always have people willing to do it. I won't. You have options, doesn't mean you'd want to choose them. I don't, like most men I wish I could get these magical jesters you speak of, sounds fun, but they're not doing that stuff for me. That's what men are doing on dates. Do you go on dates? Do you go on them with average…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:18 PM
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Women are desperate No for respect No, men are. Studies have shown that men like nice women, but women don't like nice men. link non sexual interest in our person, Only from unattractive men. A woman will always want to be desired in return by someone she finds hot. In fact, women feel extremely frustrated if they aren't desired by their boyfriends. They also feel more entitlement to their partners bodies and sexual pleasure from them compared to men. link and competency Whatever you mean by thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:15 PM
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She will still demand men to treat her like a princess. She will still have a ton of other options. That's the main difference between men and women. You could go for someone you find unattractive (most men) to feel empowered if you wanted, to have them jester for you. But men can't do the same because they aren't choosing anything. Even the ugliest women will be the ones making demands if you're an average man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:06 PM
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preferring to be single Singleness statistically leads to a noticeably worse life quality in men, well-being, higher chance of depression. Studies show it's significantly easier for women to be single, and women are happier being single compared to men. Many reasons are listed for that but they always leave out the main one : it's by choice for most women and not by choice for most men. i have done it, You're female and you always have a choice. other people have done it Same with them thats wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:02 PM
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Hahahahaa oh my god, the good old "just stop caring bro". It only works when you know you always have an option to back down. You can't be desperate and just stop caring, especially about something you're naturally wired to crave. Like I said, even women failed at this despite being more capable in this field
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:50 PM
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Even women, who inherently want men and sex with men way less than vice versa, couldn't do this en masse. Doing that individually as an average man will change nothing and lead to you dying alone, because women will have plenty of jesters better than you to choose from
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:44 PM
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It's not what women say tho, they generalize and shame men for these qualities. Also if I stated my preferences the same way about women's qualities and traits they'd say I'm shaming women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:38 PM
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People shame women, too. And many women are also reluctant to do things for fear of shame. Way less. In the mainstream narrative a woman not giving a fuck about men is good and empowering, while men not giving a fuck about women is harmful, problematic, patriarchal, toxic masculine, justifies male loneliness epidemic or wtv The men and women who don’t give a shit about what other people think don’t give a shit if people shame them. They’re already doing whatever they want. People will react diff…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:35 PM
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Men totally are shamed for it especially by women. People say they aren't empathetic enough and have too much toxic masculinity. Unless the men in question are attractive ofc, then they're free from judgement
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:29 PM
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Men are shamed for doing the same thing tho
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:23 PM
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Women don't have to listen to anybody to attract men. That's why they take pride in hating on men or saying they don't give a fuck about what men think
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:17 PM
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Unless the "rejection" is unserious and playful, there is no point in trying further
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:48 PM
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this showed up for me first
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 04:12 PM
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Hahahahahaha oh my god. Rich people telling poor people money isn't everything
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:57 AM
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I said "happens insanely rarely" not never
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:52 AM
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So many dudes here seem to think “if she’s not constantly jumping on your cock, she’s not into you” but those are men who have never been in relationships and don’t understand that 99% of the time you spend with your partner doesn’t involve sex. It’s a lot of talking and hanging out and sharing chores. You're exaggerating but it's true that if she's not initiating intimacy regularly she doesn't really like you. Sexual attaction is essential, and women show it very often when they are actually in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:51 AM
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Yeah and they get away with the abuse lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:46 AM
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Genuinely baffled how you’re trying to spin this as putting men in a good light. It’s really quite pathetic to just think with your dick. Women actually like it, that's exactly what gives them such a huge deciding power and an abundance of options in dating
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:44 AM
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Extreme celebrity examples all over again lmao. Yet both of these men still had tons of women wanting to be with them somehow🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:42 AM
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Has nothing to do with the conversation. It has everything to do with it😂 A normal man would be deemed a dangerous, perverted creep for the same behavior Chad is praised for. Chad can get away with pretty much any behavior that would get a normie filtered out
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:35 AM
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Women also vet Chad. It's just Chad can get women who only care about looks and/or sex. Hahahaha oh my god. Women's definition of harassment is significantly impacted by the attractiveness of the harasser (Angelone DJ, Mitchell D, Carola K. 2009), they let way more sexual harassment slide as long as the man in question is attractive. P Diddy isn't ugly, but I'm pretty sure he had a whole industry feel threatened. Celebrity who had a good reputation until his allegations. Obviously people will fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:27 AM
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So basically what I said in my comment? Men have extremely low standards, lots of women are attractive enough for them to feel arousal and have sex with them. But only a handful of men are attractive enough for women to do the same. That's why women create realtionships with dead bedrooms and not men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:08 AM
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Yet 1/4 women still choose men who will end up abusing them😂 Chad is immune to the personality detector
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 11:02 AM
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Yeah because men are actually capable of desiring women outside of the top10% and enjoying relationships and sex with them, instead of getting with them purely for the convenience and benefits they provide.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:53 AM
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Vetting is for subchads only😂 Women only feel threatened when the man is unattractive to them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:47 AM
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"Settling for an undesirable woman" happens so insanely rarely compared to "settling for an undesirable man" that it's pointless to even raise this question. You would know if you were in such a situation almost instantly lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 10:44 AM
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a couple flings Casual sex Could be all serious relationships but they realized they wanted or needed different things, or someone cheated etc. Failed 6 serious realtionships lmao. Like I said it's even worse if she had "serious intentions" and failed with 6 different people before her husband. that's just the averages from women who reported their body count Women tend to underreport their bodycount because of a societal stigma around it, while men tend to overreport it. If anything average fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 07:08 AM
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7 means that it's guaranteed she had casual sex like the guy mentioned in his comment. Unless she had 6 failed "serious long-term realtionships" before her husband which is even worse lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:54 AM
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Average female lifetime bodycount is 7 lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:49 AM
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Maybe I’m misunderstanding because I’ve never had to question whether someone I’m dating was actually attracted to me Female privilege in full action being too concerned with whether you’re the “safe” option instead of being confident that you’re someone’s best is probably a self-fulfilling prophecy. If a woman is actually attracted to a man nothing will stop her. If he's actually the best option she will find any excuse to be with him
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:48 AM
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men don't make blanket statements based on an objective minority of people unlike women. "Not all men" is usually a response to calling men criminals, creepy, pdf or whatever else, which is illogical because it's objectively an insanely small amount of men that are the base for generalization. Blanket statements about women, however, are usually based on the majority of them, e.g. women making poor dating choices, being hypergamous, superficial etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/26 10:06 AM
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Well with what you're describing it wouldn't even be a relationship but a ton of additional stress for nothing. Probably not, but it's irrelevant because it's just an extreme example
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 09:21 PM
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Ehhhh miserable is a stretch, but in my worst times I probably would've accepted anything, so yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:52 PM
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Yeah because she knows she has a wide range of options to choose from that would gladly date her
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 08:42 PM
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Everything works for women on dating apps lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 06:20 PM
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“it’s not about your relationship with women, it’s about your relationship with yourself”. Strangely, tall attractive neurotypical men who were surrounded with female attention from the start tend to have a very good relationship with both women and themselves. You know, the men who are born with value in women's eyes. And same goes for majority of women who were also surrounded with attention from the opposite gender. The lack of women is not the problem, it’s just the symptom. Men are led to b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:48 PM
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Humans were never meant to have this many options, live among such huge crowds of people, have so many instruments that allow exposure to even more people(especially high tier ones). All that has made standards of the party with least interest (women) delusional and unrealistic, while the party with most interest (men) basically became starved and desperate for any female attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 03:29 PM
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According to studies, men feel significantly worse being single than women, their well-being and life quality decreases a lot. Singleness in men is also more likely to lead to depression.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/26 01:51 PM
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