The more sex you have as a man, the more it shows that you are desired. It means you’re attractive, you have social skills, and you’re confident. Most men can’t get casual sex. If you can, that means you’re better than the majority of men in terms of traditionally masculine qualities.

You probably also have better job opportunities because of stronger social skills and greater confidence, and overall, a better life. You don’t have husband responsibilities weighing you down. Most of the time, you don’t have to wait for sex. You can also marry someday if you want, because you can. That’s why I say men should sleep around a lot when they’re young to get all the validation. If you can’t and want to, you have to do whatever it takes to achieve it, or you don’t deserve it. It’s my opinion. You can marry afterward because this kind of man can. Women should do the same. I’m not a hypocrite, but stop gaslighting men.

Women often tell a man he is “husband material,” not “hookup” or “FWB” material. I don’t understand why some women think this is a compliment. Men want women to tell them how much they desire them, how much they wanted to rip our clothes off when they first met us.

The only way “husband material” can be a compliment is if a woman has never hooked up or had FWB in her life and never had the intention to hook up.