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One of the biggest reasons why I want to have casual sex. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 05:30 PM
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WTF. A woman you rate as 3.5 is far more attractive and cute to me than a woman you rate as a 7.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 12:03 PM
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I will one day, then I will become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:16 PM
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I have to, and I will, experience everything. I can't love a woman who has had casual sex if I've never had it. It's one of the reasons I need to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 06:02 PM
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Maybe it will, or maybe it won’t. I have to experience it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:05 PM
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Until I feel it’s enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:58 PM
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Yes, if that kind of woman exists for me, lol. Even if she does exist, she probably has far more experience than me and have had casual sex. I don’t think I can be someone like that unless I experience it myself first.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:53 PM
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There is no exact number. Just many as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:50 PM
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Just one woman being attracted to me isn't enough. It could just mean I got lucky. I need many women to be attracted to me so I know I'm desirable. Then I'll believe that someday I'll be satisfied, and only then will it be okay to get into a long-term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 06:43 PM
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What supplements do you take? I take omega-3, zinc, magnesium, L-theanine, and ashwagandha.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 05:07 PM
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Because every pill is bullshit, that's why I don't believe it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 08:48 AM
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Oh, I did not see that it was only a question for women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:12 PM
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It depends. If I tried, I could enter a relationship to get sex, but that’s not what I want. It does not make me feel desirable. On the other hand, wanting casual sex is hard because the requirements are much higher, you need looks and charisma far more than you do in a relationship. But if I want to feel desired, I need to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 07:07 PM
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When did I claim that there’s something wrong with women if a woman isn’t like that? I’m just saying that if a woman did something like that in the past but didn’t do it with me, then of course she doesn’t think I’m desirable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:58 PM
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I don't need any porn fantasies. I've seen women sleep with my friend after meeting him just 30 minutes earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 05:26 PM
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Why are obese women more likely to want casual sex? Usually, when I see women on dating apps who are looking for short-term relationships, they seem to be obese.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/26 04:11 PM
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I hate myself for not being able to have casual sex. It is only way I’ll ever get better
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:18 PM
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I desired my ex-girlfriend that much, but she did not desire me 100% because she cheated on me. Yes, it is possible for 100% desire to decline over time too, but my only hope is that I can always keep it high.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:16 PM
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Even if she wasn’t, it’s normal to mix up words sometimes, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:13 PM
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So they are lying ? Being in the right place at the right time doesn’t mean anything; you also have to be attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:09 PM
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Most women have at least one casual sex experience. Because I am young, this is the exact time women are having casual sex. Some women like it, while others do not; you can search on Reddit to find stories of women who have had good experiences with casual sex. A man's ability to have casual sex means he is desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 03:06 PM
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The majority of men would be able to have casual sex if that were common.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:55 PM
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Yes, it’s true. It’s not about ego boost only. womenhave casual sex with men they desire because it makes them feel desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:43 PM
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Then I am absolutely certain she desires me. If she does not want a relationship with me, then I will find other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:27 PM
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If women did not benefit from casual sex, there would be no casual sex at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:23 PM
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Yes it is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:19 PM
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like waiting a month
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:11 PM
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Because highly desirable men are in high demand, it is difficult for most women to get them. Instead, they prefer a comfortable life with men they don't fully desire, but desire just enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:09 PM
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I absolutely never claimed such a thing ever. WTF?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:06 PM
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It’s not, but it has to be high
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:04 PM
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You can enter an exclusive relationship after having sex on the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:03 PM
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She doesn’t wait long to have sex with you. She wants you often, messages you frequently, and tells you how hot you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:02 PM
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No, it’s not. 1% doesn’t even mean anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 02:00 PM
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I honestly don’t care about her past if I feel that she desires me 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:59 PM
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100% desire means she thought you were the hottest man in the world, but that kind of desire is truly rare. And I think the same way about the woman I would enter a relationship with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:55 PM
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I’m really liberal and would never date a conservative woman. But that doesn’t mean I’m not still afraid of entering a relationship with a woman who doesn’t fully desire me 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:48 PM
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Because sexual compatibility before marriage is important to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:46 PM
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Because who wants a relationship with a woman who only desires them like 50%, not fully?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:45 PM
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Because women here have said to men many times that a woman wanting a relationship with you means she desires you more than women who want something casual with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:43 PM
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It depends on many things and on men and women. For some women, sleeping with really hot men can be an ego boost, and for others, not so much. For most men, they benefit from casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:42 PM
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Desire is not 100% or 0%; it can be somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:40 PM
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Because highly desirable men are in high demand, it is difficult for most women to get that kind of man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:39 PM
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Your last point can only happen if she has never had casual sex before.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:39 PM
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They don’t have to be desperate. They just prefer living comfortably rather than being with men whom they highly desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:38 PM
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Yes, it can go both ways with both. There are some men who would have sex with women they desire, and men would then have relationships with women they don’t desire as much.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:36 PM
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If you both want marriage, it can be hard to know for sure, but I would not recommend waiting for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:35 PM
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Desire is not 100% or 0%; it can be somewhere in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:34 PM
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Not every woman can have a relationship with the guys she actually desires. They just accept their second or third best.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 01:33 PM
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5 eggs, protein powder, Greek yogurt, and 500 g of chicken fillet.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:02 AM
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Good
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:33 PM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:32 PM
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It was normal. We had sex, and I left, but I felt good because I hadn't slept with anyone for two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:31 PM
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I personally don't have a problem paying for dates. Being a gentleman gives you a higher chance of having casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 07:00 PM
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Aren't you Indian? Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 06:02 PM
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Do you think he actually cares about looksmaxxing? I personally don’t think he does. I think he cares about whatever he thinks will make him money.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:15 PM
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I am meeting my ex tomorrow.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:10 PM
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Because he is not famous in France. Yes, some people there still know him, but the majority of his audience is from English-speaking countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 07:09 PM
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Looksmaxxing doesn’t even matter anymore for Clavicular. He has become too famous now; his fame carries him.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 06:59 PM
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You are obsessed with Clavicular, lol. I don't think even black pillers watch him more than you or some other podcasters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 05:55 PM
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I want to, but she cheated on me. Maybe sleeping with her one last time will make my feelings disappear.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 07:36 PM
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Should I sleep with my ex one last time?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 06:25 PM
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Being rich and famous can be a curse. You never know if women genuinely wants you or just wants your money and fame. That's why dating someone who is also rich and famous the only safe option.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:50 PM
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It doesn't matter if it's making my life hard. I'm combating it now and do feel a little better, but I still have a long way to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:19 PM
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It's how I feel: incompetent inside. I hate myself so much because my anxiety isn't letting me succeed at anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:11 PM
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I am tall and have almost a full head of hair, but I feel like I'm the ugliest person alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:08 PM
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Yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 06:05 PM
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I have to be perfect so that people ask my future girlfriend, "How did you manage to pull him?"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 05:54 PM
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So what?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:13 PM
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I do want it after I experience casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:09 PM
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New fear unlocked
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 01:02 PM
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True lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:51 PM
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<image> Based lol. Maybe I should've slept with my cheating ex's friends too.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 06:48 PM
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Alt women are my type, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:07 PM
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First time seeing an alt girl who's conservative and wants something short-term. How does that even work? lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:50 PM
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It can be both true. I would not call it object or number. It is an ego boost I need and crave, and women who give me that will always be liked by me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:26 PM
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I would. Why wouldn’t I like women who make me feel desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:22 PM
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I do feel lonely. I hope casual sex makes it a little better when I feel desirable. I am so used to loneliness that I can’t imagine my life any other way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:12 PM
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No, I mean men who can have casual sex often.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:08 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:45 PM
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Then you said men do this, and I said I have never done it personally. But I don’t care about what she did in the past if she wants to sleep with me. As someone who wants to sleep with as many women as possible, if I cared about and judged her for her past, I would be a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:42 PM
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Love them? Maybe not, but I would like every woman who would sleep with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:39 PM
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I don't believe in love that lasts, so I prefer sleeping with as many women as possible casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:34 PM
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But I never did it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:31 PM
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6 feet is not small, but it’s not that tall to make women go ‘wooah.’
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:30 PM
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I am 6'4" tall, so I can
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:21 PM
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I do want to see her. I don’t want to get back with her. I wouldn’t mind having sex with her at least one last time.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:20 PM
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I don't know. She says she wants to meet me and talk to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:15 PM
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God, my cheating ex sent me a message after such a long time. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:14 PM
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That’s true. That’s why you have to become more valuable than 80% of men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:03 PM
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Once a month? WTF, I’d rather have casual sex then.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:00 PM
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Would you have sex on the first date with someone you are interested in for a long-term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:41 PM
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No, many times they are the same people: women who have casual sex and wait with the men they want a long-term relationship with because they don’t want to be seen as sluts. But then they say they don’t care about being slut-shamed, even though they had casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:37 PM
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Did you have sex on the first date? Did you ever have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 05:33 PM
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Just because your ex was like that doesn't mean everyone who wants validation is like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 01:05 PM
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There is no correlation between the two because he wanted validation but did not care about others. That does not mean everyone is like that. I do care about people who validate me. Yes, I want to know if I'm desirable. I am willing to do anything for it, or I will do it until I know I'm desirable, even if it kills me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 12:22 PM
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No, I can't enjoy games as much anymore, but I'm still looking forward to a few games, like GTA 6, because I grew up playing GTA. It's a part of me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 07:34 AM
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Sounds fun to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:46 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I would never enter a relationship if we don’t sleep together on the first date, because I don’t trust that she actually desires me otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:40 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I've never experienced casual sex, so that's what I want most in the world right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:30 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I've never experienced casual sex, so that's what I want most in the world right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:29 PM
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It doesn't, but you can find new people
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:22 PM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:17 PM
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Because the majority of men cannot get casual sex. If you can, you're better than the majority of men. The more women you can sleep with, the more desirable you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:13 PM
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If you always stay at the peak condition for your age, you can make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:11 PM
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Love doesn't last. Novelty fades, and familiarity destroys it. The only thing that's truly endless is casual desire, because you can always find someone new. Sleeping with a new person every day sounds better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:05 PM
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Love doesn't last. Novelty fades, and familiarity destroys it. The only thing that's truly endless is casual desire, because you can always find someone new. Sleeping with a new person every day sounds better.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 06:03 PM
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it's necessary if you can't get on a dating app. If you are not desirable, you need intense self-hatred until you become perfect, or at least keep trying until you die. If you can't have casual sex, you will never know what true desire is. There is no point in living if you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:35 PM
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True, but everything I said is true. If you are not desirable, you need intense self-hatred until you become perfect, or at least keep trying. If you can't have casual sex, you will never know what true desire is. There is no point in living if you can't
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:30 PM
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This is not true. Most men know it's their own fault. These men lack self-hatred; they need more self-hatred until they become desirable. For casual sex, you need to be ready to sacrifice everything to be desirable, or at least try becoming it until dying, become desirable, sleeping with as many women as possible. Because life is nothing without being desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:25 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:51 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:45 PM
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I’m thinking about having a placeholder girlfriend for a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:15 PM
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My friend, I do know a few of them. He is tall, good-looking, and charismatic. Women throw themselves at him. His body count is really high, and he enjoys all the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:15 PM
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I’ve seen how women act when they’re actually attracted to men, and it makes you realize you should never settle for less.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:05 PM
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I said most women, not every woman. That's based on the books women usually read.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:30 PM
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Probably because harems aren't a women's fantasy. Women's fantasies are more like a 6'6", nonchalant billionaire werewolf man who has a soft spot for her, or love triangles.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 06:14 PM
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So, do women like being in a "Chad's" harem?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:35 PM
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You should calm down your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 05:08 PM
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I do agree. You have to do what it takes if you want to be desired. Men who can sleep with a lot of women are winners in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 02:19 PM
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You’ve been posting here for at least 6–7 years. Aren’t you bored?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:47 PM
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Asking her? She can lie, but that’s on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:19 PM
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It does to me. I will be no inferior to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:08 PM
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If that’s true, it’s one of the reasons why I should have casual sex to make sure my future girlfriend isn’t my best if I won’t be hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:04 PM
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How exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:01 PM
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Why is it unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:53 PM
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Still, you can be careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:17 PM
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Hahaha, you’ve had casual sex 23 times, so you have no right to tell me anything about casual sex. I can protected myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:09 PM
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You had casual sex. Do you have any STDs?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 04:07 PM
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I don't think they are the same men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 03:56 PM
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I don't mind never being loved, as long as I'm desirable for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 12:12 PM
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Like I always do, building the perfect body.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 11:50 AM
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Because when you expect the worst, you won't be disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 08:29 AM
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Men who can easily have casual sex won't have a problem getting into relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 07:46 AM
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I get that, you said you wouldn't date a man with a body count over 20 because that's too high, but 20 is already high. So does that mean you don't really care if it's high?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:20 AM
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Yeah, 20 is a high number for someone in their 20s, which means you don't care about having a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 06:11 AM
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Why? Most marriages fail. The novelty fades, and you end up in a dead bedroom, or your partner cheats on you, and you get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:56 AM
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Like, 20 is a low number, but it probably depends on your age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:41 AM
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I just read your comment wrong, but why would you care about your future husband? Just have casual sex forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:40 AM
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Then why are you blackpilled?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:34 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 07:20 PM
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I know a friend who has a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:35 PM
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Men are not high value if they do not have a high body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:29 PM
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Then there's no reason to care.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:22 PM
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If they can't, they should be mad at themselves first. If you want to be a high-value man who has the ability to sleep with as many women as possible, you have to put in the work.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:20 PM
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Who cares about being an asshole? Just do what makes women attracted to you. If women are attracted to assholes, then be an asshole. If they're not, then don't. If you want to sleep with as many women as possible, you have to do whatever it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:04 PM
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You should be able to have a FWB or a fuck buddy. That's one way to know you're desirable. It should be with a somewhat attractive woman, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:14 AM
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If you've never had the ability to have casual sex, then yes, you're not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 09:10 AM
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Most of the time, they are real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:21 PM
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Most of the time, they are very attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:08 PM
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There's no way I'm very attractive. Maybe it's just my height carrying me, but I don't mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 07:03 PM
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If you're getting at least one match every day on a dating app, Does it mean you're attractive or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:53 PM
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I still need to sleep with a lot of women to know what it feels like to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:17 PM
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It doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:10 PM
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I don’t disagree. Money is also important, but if you have looks privilege, money will come too
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:09 PM
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Because it gives you privilege in life, I want as much privilege as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:05 PM
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I can’t do that. Without it, I am an empty shell. I need motivation.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:02 PM
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Why is it an empty goal? It is a good goal for me to be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 06:01 PM
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You can think what you want, but you have to be desirable to be able to sleep with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:58 PM
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Yes, you have to resist that. I have had so many times where I wanted to smash my head against the wall until I felt nothing, but I resisted it. Harming myself won't make me able to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:57 PM
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If you want to feel what true desire is, you have to be willing to sacrifice everything. If you can’t have casual sex normally, you need to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:55 PM
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Oh, I do know what self-hatred feels like. It's the only real feeling I have, and it's the only thing that makes me want to become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:53 PM
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If you want to know whether you're really desirable, you need to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:44 PM
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Being angry at women won't change your chances. You should be angry at yourself instead. That's better. Self hatred can motivate you to improve and become perfect. One day, you might become successful enough to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:38 PM
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Depends in what way they're angry. If they're angry because they can't get laid and they blame women, then I agree. But if they're angry and blame themselves, then that's good. Self-hatred can motivate you to improve and become Perfect. One day, you might become successful enough to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 05:18 PM
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As long as she passes well, I don't have a problem dating a trans girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:00 AM
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What’s your type? Mine is a tall, 6' nerd alt girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 04:22 PM
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But I am tall
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:12 PM
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No, I can’t. I’m too anxious for that, but I’m trying to take natural medication to reduce it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:46 AM
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Because I don’t feel worthy, I have bad anxiety and low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:41 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:40 AM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 07:21 AM
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Therapist cannot help. I just have to become men I want to and enjoy all privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:22 PM
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t’s not about that lol I just want to be considered attractive I want women to desire me and want me and be thirsting for me
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:12 PM
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I simply don’t have motivation or passion for anything. I want to be considered attractive and also become rich, but becoming rich without being attractive doesn’t motivate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:10 PM
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I hope casual sex can help with my depression and make life feel better.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:06 PM
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I’m interested: what would be considered my looks match / my league? I’m 6'4", average-looking, and have an average income. What qualities would the women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:57 PM
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Better looking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:02 AM
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Does this couple look like a match? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 08:01 AM
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True, but being 6'4" helps
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:50 PM
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Do you think I can find a hookup today?" <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/26 05:44 PM
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Why did you want a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:28 PM
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Because the majority of married couples have kids? I said that if you don’t want kids, then being in a casual relationship is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:26 PM
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Love, more money, more stability and companionship, sharing everything together. But I don’t feel like most people have that. These kinds of people exist, but many people settle. Even if they love each other at first, it usually fades, and comfort and familiarity can turn into a stuck, boring relationship, or sometimes someone cheats. You should always enter a relationship knowing this so it won’t hurt you, or if you don’t want kids, you should stick to casual sex forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/26 06:19 PM
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Maybe, but I have to experience casual sex too. I need to experience everything possible so I don't live with regrets in the future for not experiencing it
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:33 PM
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How do you know? Maybe it will. LTR didn’t work for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:29 PM
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<image> Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:28 PM
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I mean you did remember many of them before. You commented many times and it had an effect on me making me want to experience it too at all costs and it fueled my self hatred
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:24 PM
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Tell me something good about the experience of casual sex and how good it feels, because I am losing a little self hatred. I need more motivation and more drive. Then I know I am not experiencing it, so I want it more to become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 06:13 PM
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My friend told me once that a girl wanted to have sex in her parents' bedroom, lol. Is this a kink?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/26 03:10 PM
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I mean, a girl giving me an expensive gift while not knowing me that well is much harder than having a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:37 PM
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The only way to know a woman desired me, outside of having sex with me quickly, is gifts. I love gifts, the more expensive, the more I love them. Maybe if a girl gifted me GTA 6, I would change my mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/26 04:34 PM
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I want a couple of hookups, feel desirable, know I am attractive, and then a relationship, which I want to start from a hookup so I know she desires me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 04:05 PM
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Personally, I am tall, and I am not really interested in trad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 03:57 PM
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Heterosexual men and women who place high importance on a romantic partner’s height are more likely to endorse traditional gender norms. Even my height isn’t in my favor. Don’t alt women like tall men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/26 01:36 PM
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I don’t trust anyone. I can’t trust anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 07:06 PM
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That’s what I’ve been talking about this whole time. Casual sex is the only way to know you’re desirable and that women actually want to have sex with you
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/26 03:30 PM
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Today is the summer solstice.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 12:11 PM
1

So many games, I don't remember every game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:31 PM
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I go to the gym almost every day. I used to play video games, but I can’t enjoy them anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:27 PM
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Not much nothing really feels fun to me anymore except lifting weights it’s the only time I feel happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 07:24 PM
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You two not replying to each other: Challenge impossible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:51 PM
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I mean yes they exist. I’m the opposite I want to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:47 PM
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I said a lot. What more do you want to answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:46 PM
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It’s simple: you ask stupid questions, I answer stupidly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:42 PM
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A status showing how desirable you are, which increases a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:40 PM
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More valuable than the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:09 PM
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It depends. If he could be in a casual situation with three models, it increase his status more than actually dating them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:56 PM
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Depends on body count the more you have the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:54 PM
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I’m not fixated on body count only. I’m not really a drinker, and I wouldn’t want to be with a woman who drinks often either. I’m not a smoker either, and I wouldn’t date a smoker.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:45 PM
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It does
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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Some people who have a low count want someone who also has a low count, and vice versa
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:38 PM
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A high body count in men is better because it shows how high-value he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:37 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:06 PM
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I mean, yes, but being 6'4 definitely helps. If I were less socially anxious, my “body count” would be in the triple digits.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 07:04 PM
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Lol, I like directness. Maybe you’re right, but I don’t have a problem getting casual sex with good-looking women. I get plenty of matches. Outside I don’t have a problem; it’s something inside that’s stopping me, chronic social anxiety.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:26 PM
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Ugly is subjective. But did she hook up with ugly guys? No, she would hook up with guys who were out of her league
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 05:14 PM
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<image> Ah yes, ugly women who had situationships and hookups. So much privilege, something I would kill for.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/26 03:13 PM
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You should sleep with all those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:28 PM
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I am 23
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:22 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:19 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:08 PM
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If you haven’t had casual sex, you will never know if you are desirable. And if your girlfriend has had it, you will always see her as lower than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:00 PM
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If you haven’t had casual sex, you will never know if you are desirable. And if your girlfriend has had it, you will always see her as lower than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 06:00 PM
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Because if you could never experience casual sex, that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:48 PM
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Of course it does
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:46 PM
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I remember you denied this many times in the past. Are you admitting it now and saying it’s okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:42 PM
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I guess then it means that “hookup material” is a better compliment than “husband material.”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:41 PM
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How do you know their height and dick size from here?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:38 PM
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How many proofs need to exist for women to finally admit that casual sex has higher standards in looks, and that most of the time their long-term partner will never be as good-looking as casual flings, with some exceptions of course?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:32 PM
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It’s not a maybe if the majority of women say it’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:30 PM
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Casual partners, most of the time, will be better looking than long-term partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:28 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:27 PM
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Why does it matter if it was 10 months ago? Has casual changed since then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:25 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 05:24 PM
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Maybe, but I will become as close to perfect as possible. I don't whine; I just vent. I do improve myself in irl for my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 07:36 PM
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Then you have more hope in my life than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:47 PM
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I just don’t trust anyone that easily anymore. I will become perfect and find a woman who will worship me, so I know I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:44 PM
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That’s not enough for me to know I’m desirable. My last girlfriend was also willing to date me, but things didn’t work out like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:39 PM
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I wouldn’t be obsessed with casual sex if women did not lower the sexual attraction threshold for long-term relationships or make men wait a long time for sex, because now casual sex is the only way to know you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 06:34 PM
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That’s it? I buried two bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 05:17 PM
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I meant, who has the most bodies here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:46 PM
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Who has slept with the most people here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:36 PM
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You can do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:22 PM
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My height compensates for my average face so much. If I were short, it would be over.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:33 PM
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There is nothing that gives me happiness. I don’t believe in love because I know it does not exist for me or will last, because no one can love me. So I’d rather just sleep around without any responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:47 PM
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I don’t have anything better to do anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:43 PM
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You are right about that; I did not consider it. But finding women who have never had casual sex even once is definitely a challenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:33 PM
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I know it will. I will do it until it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:09 PM
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I don’t have any other way to know or feel desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:04 PM
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I mean, maybe, but I do believe what I say. I also love arguing with people because most of them are hypocrites.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 06:00 PM
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It’s not that I just love arguing with people.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:57 PM
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I am not perfect yet, but I have to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:57 PM
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People who disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:55 PM
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There is nothing wrong with wanting to sleep with as many women as possible for validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 05:43 PM
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Yes, and I know from my friend who has casual sex how amazing it feels too. Casual sex is the only true desire. Novelty and being with a new woman every day is fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 02:28 PM
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She cheated on me with a man she had only met once, who is taller and better-looking than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/26 09:53 AM
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It does not make you desirable. Women need to choose you for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:50 PM
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I agree with the second paragraph
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:23 PM
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What is the manosphere? I don’t watch or listen to any manosphere. Everything I say is from Reddit, from female-dominated subreddits, or from real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:17 PM
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Most men can’t have casual sex in the first place, and if they do, they have to go for someone significantly less attractive to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:11 PM
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Yes, but not all hookups involve alcohol. You can have sober ones; that can make you even more desirable as a man if you can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:06 PM
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I mean, it won’t work for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:03 PM
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Why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:03 PM
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I don’t disagree, I’m insecure after what happened with my ex-girlfriend, but I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 07:02 PM
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Most women have hooked up at least once.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 06:58 PM
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I have naturally big legs for my body. I started lifting a year ago, and I’m gaining mass. It looks much better than when I had noodle arms. I’m 6'4".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 05:55 PM
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If looks didn’t matter for casual sex, most men would be able to hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:12 PM
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Yes, unfortunately it was a 40-year-old man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 04:06 PM
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Too many calories aren’t a bad thing if they come from nutrient-dense foods like avocados. Ice cream, on the other hand, is mostly full of sugar and will spike your insulin.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:09 PM
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Too much calories
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 03:04 PM
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Did not take long lol <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 02:35 PM
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Lol, some gay French-Canadian guy DM'd me. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 01:59 PM
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Just think logically. Of course, it’s men who have had a lot of sex before, especially casual sex. The more women you sleep with, the more experienced you become and the better you are at satisfying different women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 07:26 PM
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Great
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:58 PM
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Fun story. I’d probably hook up first how would I then want to enter a long-term relationship too because otherwise I would never know if I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:53 PM
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Probably, if you hook up first before entering a long-term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:45 PM
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Unfortunately, me neither, but I am not giving up. I am willing to sacrifice everything if it becomes necessary. I am willing to do whatever it takes to know I am desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:30 PM
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Q4A: What is the best casual sex you’ve ever had?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:24 PM
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Women say they make men they care about wait for sex because they don't want to be seen as a slut, even though they've had hookups in the past. In this situation, who are you lying to, yourself or him?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 06:43 PM
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It’s fun, why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 04:11 PM
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You can protect yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 03:34 PM
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I am not ugly, and I am tall even by Nordic country standards. The more relaxed lifestyle and drinking culture make it much easier to sleep with women, so I would sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:56 PM
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You can't reply without a GIF, can you? But I do agree with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:51 PM
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It's great. I wish I had been born in a Nordic country. I would have racked up numbers so high.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:47 PM
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What should we do to make casual sex more common, like in the Nordic countries, where people have sex first and talk later ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/26 01:42 PM
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I don't care about my sexual pleasure as long as I feel desirable.For me, casual sex is about feeling desirable. I don't even care whether I enjoy the sex or not
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 08:08 PM
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I could never enter a relationship with a woman unless she sleeps with me on the first date
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 06:51 PM
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Exactly, that’s good. That’s why I want to sleep with lots of women to know I am desirable and then find a long-term relationship afterward
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:17 PM
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FWB is a good indicator, if he is, but it depends. Having one in the first place is already extremely hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:11 PM
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He does not live in Canada and does not have a lot of lts. If he wants he can, women throw themselves at him
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:09 PM
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How do you know he is desirable to the majority of women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:05 PM
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They will still find one.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:03 PM
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I know through my friend who can sleep with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 02:03 PM
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Men who can have casual sex easily will not have a problem entering a long-term relationship if they want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 12:30 PM
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So, does that mean you are not a desirable man because you had a high body count before meeting your wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/26 10:25 AM
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Desirable men will have so many chances of having it; they will rack up numbers one way or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:36 PM
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It doesn’t matter; desirable men will sleep around somehow even if they don’t want to
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 06:29 PM
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Men who are desirable have a high body count. If you don’t, that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/26 04:58 PM
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That’s good for me. I want to sleep with as many women as possible anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 03:08 PM
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Maybe from the outside
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:46 PM
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I got 3 matches in the same day. That’s a new record.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 06:20 PM
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Everything
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:46 PM
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Because my anxiety is not letting me live the way I want to
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 01:42 PM
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Lol, so all women who have casual sex had a traumatic childhood?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:51 AM
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That's exactly why being casual-sex material is harder to be, because if a woman is willing to risk all that to have sex without any expectations, you are a desirable man
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 10:02 AM
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What are you talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 09:59 AM
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Days like this, my self-hatred gets so bad that I want to smash my head into a wall endlessly until I stop feeling emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 07:31 AM
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I just wish I’ll have a full head of hair at that age.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:47 PM
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Then when someone says “aged like wine,” only one person comes to my mind: Jensen Ackles. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/26 06:18 PM
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Harem is not about cheating. Harems are consensual relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:16 PM
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Yes, but wanting to have a harem is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:03 PM
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Why do so many women’s romance stories involve cheating? I get that it’s for drama, but why?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 08:00 PM
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I hope it goes well. You deserve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 07:40 PM
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Why don’t you like gym muscles?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:42 PM
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Great
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:29 PM
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How did your date go?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 06:26 PM
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Yeah, true, but the majority of women do like muscles, and for casual sex you need them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:33 PM
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It makes men look more aesthetic and can even influence facial appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:29 PM
2

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:29 PM
2

Women usually imagine steroid-filled dudes when you talk about muscles
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:26 PM
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Women not liking muscles is such a cope. Have you seen TikTok and Instagram? So many women thirst over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:24 PM
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desirable as convincingly attractive, where women compete for him, not he competes for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:01 PM
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If you have to ‘simp,’ that means you are not desirable. A so-called ‘alpha’ may have multiple children with different partners, so he is considered more successful in terms of reproduction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:57 PM
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Okay, I get it, but because of you I didn’t enjoy it. So I shouldn’t have it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:41 PM
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That’s not specific to casual sex only.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:38 PM
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I will judge that myself, then I will have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:36 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:25 PM
1

What?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:24 PM
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I don’t know. It’s impressive because last year, at the exact same time, I couldn’t even do one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:21 PM
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30
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 05:19 PM
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I want to experience everything. I won’t be inferior to everyone else. I will have casual sex, and then when I get bored I will find a relationship. At least I won’t wonder what casual sex is like, since most people experience it, and it’s highly likely my future girlfriend had experienced too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:55 PM
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If I don’t feel motivated to go to the gym, I remember I need to be someone’s hot fling or hookup, and that’s what pushes me to go to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:19 PM
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Then find another woman. It’s much easier when you’re casual, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:39 PM
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I get it. If they hated it, I would not force anyone to do it again. But if I never experienced that thing, then I never will. That’s why I advise having casual sex first to experience everything, because what if your future girlfriend has experienced and does not want to with you? because she hated it
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:28 PM
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You’re really obsessed with this topic, are you not?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 12:11 PM
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6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:30 PM
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Pretty good. I’ve never had any problems with back pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:23 PM
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I mean, I’m tall, so it makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:49 PM
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6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:46 PM
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It’s funny how many conservative and moderate women match with me even though I’m liberal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:41 PM
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How tall I am and how attractive I am, personally too.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 06:40 PM
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I am not lying about anything. Sleeping with as many women as possible will make me feel desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:28 PM
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Yes, I want to sleep with as many women as possible so I know I’m a desirable man, because most men cannot do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 02:40 PM
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Yes, I need to know I am desirable, so I need to have casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 07:39 AM
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I can actually do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:26 PM
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I will not be inferior to anyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:25 PM
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It doesn’t have to be exact, but as long as he himself has had casual sex, it doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:24 PM
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Yeah, I will become real slut sooner or later.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:20 PM
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That’s why you have to experience everything with casual sex, so that when you enter a long-term relationship, you won’t care anymore about what she has experienced because you did too
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:17 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:14 PM
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What disability?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:12 PM
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2
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:10 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:54 PM
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I personally would, if she really enjoys it. I don’t really have a problem doing things I might not particularly enjoy if my partner wants to, unless it’s too much.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:43 PM
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I’m not really a kinky person, so who knows? It depends on what others consider kinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:20 PM
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Depends, yes, most of them are not real, but you can find ones that feel real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:10 PM
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I mean, I do, because if I know it’s fake, I can’t physically enjoy it. At least amateurs feel real.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:08 PM
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I never watch that kind of porn. It turns me off. I prefer amateur stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:06 PM
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God, where do you all meet these kinds of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:59 PM
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Your boyfriend is either really confident or insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:58 PM
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Your boyfriend is fine you living with your ex lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:55 PM
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Why do you live with your ex? Do you not have a boyfriend?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:53 PM
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New thread: I declare my body count has not changed, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:47 PM
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<image> This is what they consider True Adam wtf is this lol it’s too ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:31 PM
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Yeah, maybe because becoming a Chad is possible, but to be a true Adam, you have to be born one. I hate these terms. I cringe every time I use them. I’d rather use ‘attractive guy’ and ‘attractive woman
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:18 PM
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Why is Chad more popular when there’s an even higher attractiveness scale, like “true Adam”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:11 PM
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Both girlfriends I had approached me first. I never had casual relationships, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 07:19 AM
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Nah, I want abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:12 PM
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Did I say it was impossible for all short men? I said it would be for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:09 PM
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Not yet, I am in my self-improvement phase for now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:08 PM
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I’m already doing so, but first I want to build a perfect body.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:07 PM
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I’m not going to seek out taken women specifically. That doesn’t matter, as long as I sleep with as many women as possible. She met him at work.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:06 PM
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Yeah this time I want to become a far more desirable guy. The guy she cheated with was also a fuckboy and now I will become one too at all costs not the guy women cheat on but the guy women cheat with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 07:02 PM
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6'4
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:55 PM
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My first girlfriend really liked me for my height and always complimented me. She also liked how other girls reacted to how tall I was. At least she didn’t cheat on me, and we broke up peacefully. My second girlfriend also liked my height, but she cheated on me with a better-looking guy who she had only met once. He was taller than me, somewhere around 6'6.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:52 PM
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I don’t see it as a requirement, but maybe I do for casual sex because it’s much harder for me to get, so you have to be better than most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:49 PM
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Why ? do you think being 6'4" has never helped me at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:43 PM
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Yeah, I was just talking about myself. I didn’t say all short guys are doomed, but being tall definitely helps with some of my shortcomings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:37 PM
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Nah, I’m too tall for that. I still have potential to achieve my goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:32 PM
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If I were short, it would be over for me, literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:23 PM
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I don’t think so, I’m average-looking
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:48 PM
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I know, and I am working on it because I want to become perfect one day
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:26 PM
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Yeah, a bit, but not much more like skinny fat because I’ve lacked muscle mass. At first, I wanted to lose weight so I cut for six months. After that, I realized it’s better to eat a small surplus to gain muscle first and then cut afterward.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:23 PM
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I’ve been lifting for 1 year now. I did a cut before, and it wasn’t hard. Bulking is much harder for me now.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:18 PM
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I agree, you have to become the best if you want women to choose you, whether for casual sex or a long-term relationship. That’s why I’m trying to become as close to perfect as possible and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:08 PM
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I am 6'4" and 200 lbs, currently clean bulking to build muscle. I’m male and go to the gym 4–5 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:08 PM
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I could never understand why people have such a hard time losing weight. Personally, I’ve never had that issue. I don’t crave food that much, and I never crave sugar at all. Usually, if I crave something, it’s salty or bread based, like pizza. Maybe it’s easier for me because I have to eat 3,000+ calories or more to gain weight. But I don’t even crave junk food much. Maybe I don’t know why, so I feel kind of like an anomaly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 07:04 PM
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Sleeping with as many women as possible and getting rich sounds like a fun life.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 06:59 PM
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That’s what I am implying all the time here: if you can’t have casual sex, you are not a desirable man, and you will never be truly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:31 PM
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Perfection is unattainable, but that should not stop us from trying to achieve it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:29 PM
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This time I will become a perfect, truly desirable man who can sleep with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:39 PM
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I had two girlfriends before. The last one cheated on me with a better-looking guy after meeting him only once.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:33 PM
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I want to sleep with as many women as possible, casual sex, not a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:18 PM
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I just wish I was that kind of POS person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:14 PM
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Unfortunately, I can’t do something like getting a girlfriend just to become more desirable to most women than cheat to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:10 PM
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I guess I should get a girlfriend to become desirable to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:07 PM
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I guess I should get a girlfriend to become desirable to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 04:06 PM
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in one study, 90% of single women were interested in a man they believed was taken, compared with only 59% when they thought he was single.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:46 PM
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I can’t anymore. Until I know I’m desirable for casual, I can’t love anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:14 PM
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I personally would never date women who want providers. Those kinds of women are always the worst. Trad girls and overly submissive girls turn me off too. I prefer women who are more in the middle ground.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 06:59 PM
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This depends on where you are from and your family’s economic status. It does not matter whether you are a man or a woman. casual sex is easier for women, but if I were a woman, I probably would not have casual sex because it is too easy and it has no value. Maybe only once out of curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 06:13 PM
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Yeah, maybe I hate summers too, but I’ve never heard of a “winter fling” before lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:48 PM
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Not often, unfortunately, but I’ve started trying at least
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:24 PM
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It’s not about making out on a playground; it’s about the teen love I missed. Other things are still possible for me to experience
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 03:16 PM
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Summer is coming, and I hope I can have a fling this summer. Many women have summer flings. I hope my future self will thank me for the experience, remember the summer fling, and not feel inferior to others.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:50 PM
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Lol, that’s ultra rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:18 PM
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So, you’re older than him? That’s rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:17 PM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:14 PM
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I am taller than your boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 02:12 PM
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It’s not only about making out.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 10:26 AM
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I missed many things. I didn’t have a girlfriend before I was 20. Yes, I can never experience that kind of thing now. I want to experience other things, but the more time passes, the more things I’ll miss if I don’t take action now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:02 AM
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I mean, she said so herself
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:59 AM
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That's why men need to experience casual sex to experience all this. This all makes me despise myself even more. If I don’t experience it now, I never will. I will sacrifice everything about myself if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:06 PM
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This is exactly why you need to experience this things when you’re young, because if you don’t, you never will. You yourself say that. That’s why I need to do anything to have it while I am young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:57 PM
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This is exactly why you need to experience this things when you’re young, because if you don’t, you never will. You yourself say that. That’s why I need to do anything to have it while I am young.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:57 PM
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It’s destroying me that I’ve never been someone’s fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 06:50 PM
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I’d rather get in the top 20% of men at all costs and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:34 PM
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Therapy cannot help it. Yes, maybe my insecurities won’t disappear, but I will sleep with as many women as possible until it will make me feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:33 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I can never be sure how desirable I am until I know I can have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:30 PM
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Yeah, for women it makes sense, but for men, having casual sex is much harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:25 PM
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I think I’m the opposite. I can only have sex in relationships because I’m not good-looking enough for women to choose me for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:20 PM
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Wait, I thought you could only have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:12 PM
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I just have a feeling. novelty fades and familiarity kills it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:35 PM
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It didn’t work for me. I don’t think anyone can actually love me, or that it would even last.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:16 PM
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Why not? Telling people to give up their goals is not a good thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 05:40 AM
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It’s because they should encourage it to do anything possible to sleep with many women
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:54 AM
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Nah, absolutely not. I’ll sell my soul if necessary to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 04:53 AM
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It’s hypocritical high-count people telling men that if they can’t get casual sex they should just give up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 07:08 PM
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True, that’s why I need to become perfect in every way, both mind and body.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:50 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I want to sleep with many women as possible. I can’t drink every time or I will become alcoholic. I need to be able to do it while sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:45 PM
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If I can find casual sex while sober, that means I am more desirable than people who can only do it while intoxicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:42 PM
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I want to remember it. If I can’t, there’s no point. I need to find casual sex sober, but I’ll do it drunk too if I can’t find it any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:39 PM
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I have to become perfect in every way, both body and mind, to become truly desirable and be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:27 PM
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Yeah, I am.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:05 PM
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Yeah, people here are obsessed with one specific subject. I’m the only normal one here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 05:01 PM
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Nah, my parents divorced. My mom remarried, then she got divorced again. I’ve never really seen love or truly experienced it, so that’s why I don’t believe in it. Sleeping with a lot of women and casual sex sounds better to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:54 PM
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Did you ever have a FWB or fuck buddy? How many?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:57 PM
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That can't be me. I'm a pretty polite guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 05:35 PM
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Many insist it’s necessary for casual sex, so that’s why I said it. But I do think it’s easier to do when drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:56 PM
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FWB is most likely sober anyway, but ONS is more likely to involve alcohol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:39 PM
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I can’t really debate because I’ve never experienced casual sex. First, I need to know what it feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:34 PM
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I know. Many women here insist that casual sex only happens if people drink because alcohol lowers inhibitions, but it’s still possible to have casual sober sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:33 PM
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It means women do have casual sex when sober.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:19 PM
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So, women having casual sex only when drunk is not real?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 06:06 PM
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Have you ever had sober casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/26 05:54 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:44 PM
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Q4W: Your boyfriend comments on looksmaxxing videos on TikTok about his potential. Would you break up with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 07:36 PM
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I would definitely be angry if it happened not long ago. I would also confront him, but it depends because it could be dangerous. I just think you want your boyfriend to fight for you, maybe because it validates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:46 PM
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Do you want them to fight after it happens if they were not in there?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:33 PM
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What are these weird fantasies about pissing? Is it your fetish?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:28 PM
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How many casual sexual encounters did you have this week?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 06:07 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 08:47 AM
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0
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 04:55 AM
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It’s really hard to know if you’re desirable if you can’t have casual sex, because if women desire you for casual sex, then you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:55 PM
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How many times do women need to say that women hook up with hotter guys than they marry for you to finally admit it? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/26 06:05 AM
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Good for you and him. That’s probably the only way I would enter a relationship too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:58 PM
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Valuable to men, you just boost a man’s value by having casual sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:57 PM
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Did I do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:49 PM
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Just because you don’t value something doesn’t mean it’s not valuable. Less men have to have sex; more desirable he is. Casual men don’t have to wait for sex and have fewer responsibilities compared to relationship guys who wait and have more responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:46 PM
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What are you talking about?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:44 PM
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Because it’s easier, no responsibility, with benefits, and almost no chance of getting hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:40 PM
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I just can’t understand why they can’t admit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:32 PM
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Yes, maybe, but that’s not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:31 PM
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Why do women deny so much that guys they hook up with are most of the time more attractive than guys they enter long-term relationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:30 PM
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I lift pretty heavy, but I need to maintain a perfect body if I want to someday get close to 20% and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:17 PM
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Too many calories.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:14 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I need to believe it’s possible, or I don’t have anything to live for.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:11 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but that kind of love doesn’t exist for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:06 PM
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How is it not true? People are more likely to tell the truth when they are anonymous. I am angry and rejected to myself. If I were only better, I would be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 06:02 PM
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That’s exactly why you need to become part of the top 20% to be able to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:55 PM
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Maybe, but I don't care. I still want to experience it at all costs, to know that I am desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:50 PM
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That’s because it’s true https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:40 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:41 AM
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Trump probably slept with a lot of women when he was young.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 09:33 AM
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I don't like using the words “alpha” and “beta.” I just use “attractive guy.” Anyone who can get casual sex and sleep with as many women as possible is what I consider a truly desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:57 AM
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It does not matter unless you can have casual sex easily. That means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/26 05:07 AM
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So, do you choose random men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:18 PM
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Sorry, I meant: What made you choose that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:17 PM
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Sorry, I meant: What made you choose that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:17 PM
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Question: How did you have casual sex? Like, what made you choose that person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 07:08 PM
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We’ll see, maybe if I get that desperate, I’ll do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:52 PM
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Who knows, maybe if it helps me have casual sex and sleep with as many women as possible, it would be worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:51 PM
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Nah, the things he recommended have a high chance of making my situation even worse. I can’t risk that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:49 PM
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nah, Clavicular methods are too extreme. I can do anything in many ways, but if negatives outweigh positives, it’s not worth it. and he is mostly cared about his fame anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:46 PM
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stop this clavicular shit, I don’t care about that guy, wtf.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:40 PM
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I don’t need meth to stay lean. I’m already lean. I don’t have any problem eating healthy food and staying lean. I’m also tall, but the problem is my face. I need a better face if I want to enjoy “looks privilege” and be able to sleep with as many women as possible and more.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:38 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:28 PM
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I will do anything to achieve looks privilege.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/26 06:26 PM
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I don’t know what you’re talking about. I just said I wish I looked like a model or actor so I could sleep with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:30 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:23 PM
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Ok, but not all models are gay lol. Who cares? Just give me their looks so I can sleep with as many as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:16 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:10 PM
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Sometimes I wish I looked like a model. Imagine how many women they could sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 07:03 PM
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That’s why you should have casual sex to know you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 06:41 PM
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It didn’t work the same for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:14 PM
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Congrats, you lived my dream life.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:09 PM
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Where did you find the guy? How old are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 04:02 PM
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I meant casual, like hookups or FWB If you entered a relationship after that, it’s not casual anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:57 PM
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What? Lol, why ?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:56 PM
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So, did you marry the same woman you had casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:54 PM
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Did he also have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:51 PM
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Wait, did you get back together?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:50 PM
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Why did you? How old were you? Do you have a partner now?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:35 PM
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When was the last time you had casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/26 03:18 PM
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You can be an exception because you have low self-esteem and would hook up with anyone; I also would, so I understand. I just want to know if I can have casual sex and if women would want casual with me and won't expect more.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 07:14 PM
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There’s no difference for men. Women always say how ugly men are with attractive women, but they never think about whether those men are actually desired. Lol, they are not. Those women probably had casual sex with more attractive guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 06:58 PM
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I would make him more extroverted and social, remove the balding gene, and teach him to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/26 05:47 PM
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Why its sad?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 03:20 PM
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I do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:57 PM
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I have both on my profile, but I can’t remove “long term” because I’ll get no matches.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:52 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:51 PM
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I can’t. Then I will get no matches. I need that to feel a little desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:47 PM
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I have both long-term and short-term options on my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:46 PM
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I want to get matches. It makes me feel desired and more confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:24 PM
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I get matches with women who want something long term but I don’t know I want to experience casual sex. I don’t want to cheat. I just don’t understand why women want long term but no women want short term with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:21 PM
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I don’t know; she is not my type of woman, maybe that’s the reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:18 PM
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Its not?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 02:10 PM
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Looksmatch couples can be 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:43 PM
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I never heard that personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:42 PM
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Expectation exists, but if she knows she can do better than you, she won’t worship you or truly desire you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:41 PM
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Based on these pictures : https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:40 PM
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Called the guy about what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:39 PM
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Depends. They can be considered a looks match.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:38 PM
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Clavicular is a clown and does what makes money, but I understand boys who watch him because they want to be truly desirable and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:27 PM
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Why was my post removed for a stupid reason? What the hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 01:25 PM
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I don’t know about them, but men are straightforward about how much they care about looks, while women downplay it and say looks aren’t as important as personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:27 AM
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About what?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:22 AM
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Who?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:21 AM
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How often do men say they don’t care about a woman’s looks and care more about her personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:20 AM
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Men are straightforward about how much they care about looks compared to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/26 11:15 AM
1

Thanks. Usually people say I shouldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:54 PM
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I am thinking about sleeping with as many women as possible until I am 30. After that, I will find a woman to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:49 PM
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Or you can do both to be truly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 06:36 PM
1

Fat depends on how fat, chubby women can be attractive. Old women probably not. ugly is fine too. Woman who would worship me would be amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:29 PM
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I don’t think I’m an anomaly, but I’m more open about how much I crave it. Everything I do is a way to get women to desire me, to thirst for me. I do everything for it. Maybe it was caused by my ex girlfriend cheating on me IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:19 PM
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Lol, that’s a good question for me. I crave it like I crave nothing else in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/26 05:13 PM
1

I am 23. I have had two girlfriends. I loved them, but I never felt desired. My second girlfriend cheated on me with a better-looking guy she met once. My friend, who has a lot of casual sex, tells me how good it makes him feel. I just want to feel that feeling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:26 PM
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What I need is to sleep with as many women as possible and finally know I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:21 PM
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Why should you not try to get the things you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:20 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:12 PM
2

Yes, but if you want to be truly desirable, you should not need money.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:08 PM
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It should not need to be healthy. If you want to be a truly desirable man, you have to do things that are not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:07 PM
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Yes, but it's not enough to be considered desirable. You need more different women more often to be truly desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 06:01 PM
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Being good-looking will affect most of your life. You should aim to be hottest if you want easier life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:58 PM
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He is talking about relationship sex, not casual sex, which means you are truly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:57 PM
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Looks and personality are 50/50 for me. No amount of good personality can make a woman attractive to me if I don’t find her attractive on the outside. But even if she is a 10/10 and has a bad personality, I wouldn’t be able to deal with that either.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:42 PM
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I don’t hate women; I hate myself because I’m not good enough for women to choose me for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 05:06 PM
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I am talking about truly desperate men. Easier methods can’t make them have casual sex, but if that’s enough for you, then it’s good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:21 PM
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Going to the gym is very important to become desirable, but you also need to be natural and have a good job. However, all of this may not be enough for casual sex. If you’re not tall and don’t have a good face, you may need more.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:18 PM
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Yes, you can, but it’s easier if you are attractive, and it’s still harder than getting into a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:16 PM
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Prove I am an attractive and charming man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:08 PM
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I usually mean your body and mental health.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:06 PM
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You have to be really attractive if you want to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 04:02 PM
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You can see my replies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:56 PM
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I had two girlfriends. I loved them, but I never felt desired. My second girlfriend cheated on me with a better-looking guy she met once.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:54 PM
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A job is also important here; I would not sacrifice that, because you need money to be desirable, and family depends on having a good relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:52 PM
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I mean everything to become desirable, not to become a slave to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:48 PM
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Lying about what? If they ask my body count, I would not lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:47 PM
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What? No. I want to sleep with as many women as possible to prove to myself that I am a highly desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:46 PM
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I think being rich and sleeping with as many women as possible is a great life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:45 PM
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Giving up is easier, and I don’t respect people who give up. You have to try harder if you want something.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:44 PM
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You can’t become highly desirable to men without casual sex. Yes, you can do things, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:43 PM
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I get it, but complaining won’t make a $100 toothpaste go back to its original price.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:42 PM
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Because I know myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
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Yes, then I know I’m highly desirable; I can finally feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:41 PM
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Not yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:38 PM
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You don’t have to say it to women; you have to know yourself. You become more skilled, and sleeping with women becomes easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:37 PM
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I mean, if you want casual sex and you can’t, should you just give up and live a miserable life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:36 PM
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Sleeping with as many women as possible sounds good to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:35 PM
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If you have to be a slave to women, that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:34 PM
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Therapy won't make you desirable, but sleeping with as many women as possible maybe can.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:32 PM
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I mean, if you are not willing to do that, then why complain?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:30 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:29 PM
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I can get a relationship. Most men can, but not all men can get casual sex. You have to be extremely desirable for that, which I want to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:28 PM
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No. If you have to get jailed for casual sexual, then that means you are not desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:22 PM
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What argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:21 PM
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You don’t know that maybe casual sex will be an incredibly amazing experience for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:18 PM
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If you want it and there’s no other way, you should be willing to do whatever it takes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:17 PM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 03:11 PM
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One day
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:38 PM
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God, I wish I could experience it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:37 PM
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I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:15 PM
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IDK
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:57 PM
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I can date trans girls, but they have to pass really well.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:56 PM
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Yes, a bit. I don’t care if I don’t enjoy it as long as I know I am desirable and attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:54 PM
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Good for you. I haven’t even had one.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:46 PM
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That’s the only way to validate myself, so I want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:46 PM
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I’m jealous
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:44 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:39 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:39 PM
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So yes, technically you did have a kind of FWB situation, so that’s casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:31 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:30 PM
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I don’t even care if I enjoy it, as long as I know I’m desirable enough to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:26 PM
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I don’t even care if I enjoy it, as long as I know I’m desirable enough to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:24 PM
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For women it makes sense, but for men casual sex is harder to have than relationships, so it has much more value.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:23 PM
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I’m jealous; I wish I could experience it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:20 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:17 PM
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As long as you enjoy it, it’s good. Love isn’t real anyway; only true desire is casual, and sleeping with as many people as possible. I am just jealous of the ability to sleep with so many people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:16 PM
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Good for you. I’d rather sleep with many women, if possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:07 PM
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Sounds amazing to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:03 PM
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Why are you a black-pill woman? Do you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:02 PM
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God, I wish I could experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:57 PM
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Why
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:28 PM
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Did you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:27 PM
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Q4A: How much casual sex have you had?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:25 PM
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I’m not really aware, to be honest. I don’t know about autism, but I’m 100% sure I have ADHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:13 PM
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I do both of these sometimes, and I don’t know which one I am
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:11 PM
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As long as I sleep with as many women as possible, I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:09 AM
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Yes, I know it’s impossible to be desirable to all women, but I want to be desirable to most.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:08 AM
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I want to be desirable to the majority of women, not just one
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:04 AM
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Lol looksmaxxer mom https://vt.tiktok.com/ZS954A1by/
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:01 AM
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I wouldn’t mind a FWB either, because that would mean I’m desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:13 AM
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I don’t think that kind of person exists for me, or that it will last.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:11 AM
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I am not red pill. Personally, I don’t care as long as I sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 05:06 AM
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No, being a slave means you are not desirable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:32 PM
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Lol, any man suggesting an open relationship to his girlfriend is like letting a leopard eat his face, how stupid do you have to be. I don’t have sympathy. They get “cucked” because how easy it is for women to find sex and only 5% of men can do that, like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 05:21 PM
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I’m already trying to change that; it just takes time, even years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:38 PM
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Therapy will not help me sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:07 PM
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It’s simple, but it still takes time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:03 PM
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I don’t care about women’s body count anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:00 PM
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It’s simple: become perfect, or close to it, and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 04:00 PM
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To know and become a desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:57 PM
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That’s exactly why only real desire is casual sex, because the novelty in relationships never lasts; it’s doomed from the start.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:48 PM
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I don’t even care anymore if I enjoy casual sex, as long as I can rack my body count high.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:47 PM
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If she easily develops a crush on a new guy, she never strongly desired that guy in the first place. If a woman truly desires you, she will worship you even if you're a bit mean but it depends. You have to become perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:43 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 08:06 AM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/26 03:38 AM
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Good for you, I guess. I also want to experience sleeping with that many women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 04:00 PM
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How hard is it to remember how many women you’ve slept with if it’s not like 50+? Why would he even lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:54 PM
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I’ve personally seen him picking up girls and girls approaching him lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:46 PM
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I know because he told me how amazing it makes him feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:40 PM
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Now, until I experience casual sex, I cannot enter a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:39 PM
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Yes, but it’s much harder for casual sex. My first girlfriend was truly luck, and my second one cheated on me with a better-looking guy she met once.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:37 PM
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Not for me I want to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:36 PM
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Because hooking up requires better charisma and looks, which I don’t have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:35 PM
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I’ve had two girlfriends before, lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:24 PM
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My best friend’s body count is 20+, and mine is 2 lol. We’re the same age. I hope one day I’ll surpass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:01 PM
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My best friend’s body count is 20+, and mine is 2 lol. We’re the same age. I hope one day I’ll surpass it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 03:00 PM
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I’m giving myself 1–2 years to have casual sex, or I will kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/26 05:09 PM
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Lol, that thing isn’t male or anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:36 PM
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lol I didn’t take that personally. I don’t think I’m a bad person nor a good one; I’m somewhere in between.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:30 PM
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Lol, why would anyone want that? That kind of woman does not desire you. You should glow up and become desirable and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:27 PM
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What about your husband? Isn’t he a good man too?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:26 PM
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Not for me I was 12 years old in 2014, so it was great.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 05:03 PM
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I can’t. I need to be attractive to the majority of women. I want women to think I’m hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:26 AM
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To know that I am a desirable and attractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:20 AM
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Everything if needed my mental health my body
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:14 AM
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I will, then I will be ready and willing to sacrifice everything for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 11:12 AM
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That’s the only way for me to know if I’m a highly desirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:21 PM
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Yes, I want that validation. I will sacrifice everything to have it if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:12 PM
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That’s the only way to know how desirable you are as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 06:00 PM
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Why is it not normal?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:53 PM
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You don’t have to, but desperate women like that will worship you, so it’s not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:52 PM
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It can be both, but desperate women will worship you, so I wouldn’t mind that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:51 PM
1

Then what is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:45 PM
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Because if you are more attractive than her, she will be more worried about losing you and more likely to value you highly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:42 PM
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Women will not truly desire or love you in a relationship if you are not more attractive than her; there is a higher chance she will worship you
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:32 PM
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I can never truly feel free until I know I can have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/26 05:28 PM
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It’s close to a social death sentence for men, but not for women. You can search for autistic virgin men compared to women, or the percentage relationship between the two. Autistic traits are a turn-off for the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:31 PM
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Maybe, but autism would be a death sentence for me and men as a whole. I will never be able to have casual sex, and a relationship won’t work either. Women don’t like autistic men, and even autistic women don’t like autistic men. Most autistic men will remain virgins compared to women. It’s a death sentence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:18 PM
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God, I hope I don’t have autism because I feel like I would kill myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:13 PM
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Not being good enough is a good reason to hate yourself, such as not being good enough to be chosen for casual sex, for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 07:06 PM
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Only through self-hatred can I become better.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:56 PM
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Are you? No one is truly normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:27 PM
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Not at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:23 PM
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Why is everyone here so obsessed with something? Am I the only normal person here?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:15 PM
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Yeah, it is. Wanting to destroy someone’s confidence is a shitty thing to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 06:01 PM
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<image> Women do the same thing. Many times their friends are very attractive, but I’m not a piece of shit, I’ve never even thought about telling them how hot their friend is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:56 PM
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She may love him, but she absolutely does not desire him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:41 PM
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That’s funny, but I don’t think she "loves" him. For a woman to truly desire and love you, you have to be better-looking than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:38 PM
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God, I’ve never seen a gay guy so obsessed with all this. But do you think women really love that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 05:31 PM
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No, It’s okay to get married after you get tired of casual sex, but you should be ready for the fact that desire won’t last forever. You need to get used to that before entering a relationship so you don’t get hurt
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:16 PM
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I am not wrong. The only true desirability that lasts is casual sex, because if desire fades, it’s easier to find someone again.”
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:12 PM
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Love does not exist, with some exceptions. It always fades. Someone will cheat or leave you. And even if a married couple stays together for a long time, it does not mean they still love each other like before; it is just comfort. It is better to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 07:05 PM
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<image> lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 06:46 PM
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It depends. It can start in many ways, but you have to be really attractive and charismatic for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:39 PM
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True love is ultra rare. Normal love always fades over time. If you don’t want to get hurt, you should just have FWB or ONS
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:38 PM
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I think men having FWB is much harder than just having a ONS. I think having FWB makes you far more desirable. Do you agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 06:34 PM
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Clavicular is a clown, and I sometimes watch his clips because they’re entertaining. He’s mostly carried by his fame anyway, and the method he recommends is extreme. I’m all for looksmaxxing in a natural way and sleeping with as many women as possible. I’ve never watched any Tate videos because I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/26 03:55 PM
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You just experience casual sex before marriage, then you get bored and want kids, so you get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:30 PM
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No, women don’t get ego boosts from casual sex with average guys, only with attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:25 PM
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lol, too desperate, but it kind of feels good to be desired that much and can boost your confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:22 PM
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Exactly, the less you have to do for something, the better it is for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:20 PM
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You don’t have to resent her lol, just accept it as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:18 PM
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But is it genuine, or do they just not want to know, like girls whose boyfriends are constantly cheating on them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:15 PM
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Who cares? You just have to accept it if you want kids or find women who truly desire you, but that probably won’t happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:12 PM
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Both
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:11 PM
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Nah, it doesn’t matter if she doesn’t want to date you, because if a man can have casual sex easily, then he can also find women to enter a relationship easily too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:10 PM
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that kind of desire is so rare that having casual sex forever is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:09 PM
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Yes, true desire is extremely rare. A woman having that kind of desire for you is rare. She may have a lower level of desire, but that kind of desire never lasts; familiarity and time always destroy it. She will dump you, cheat on you, or give you a dead bedroom forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:08 PM
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Yes, it is true that desire is extremely rare. A woman having that kind of desire for you is rare. She may have a lower level of desire, but that kind of desire never lasts; familiarity and time always destroy it. She will dump you, cheat on you, or give you a dead bedroom forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:07 PM
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Having casual sex when you’re young, sleeping with many women, and marrying later is not necessarily a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:03 PM
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She can still lust after you after a week; you can become her fuck buddy or FWB, which is more ego-boosting than just a hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:02 PM
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Yes, it means you are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 07:00 PM
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If she asks you like that, it would probably feel good to be desired that much. I don’t disagree, but how often does that happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:59 PM
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Or that kind of woman is so rare that having casual sex forever is easier.”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:57 PM
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No, if casual sex were that easy for men to have, the majority of men would not complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:57 PM
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No, if casual sex were that easy for men to have, the majority of men would not complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:57 PM
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Do men who want casual sex with women make them feel more desired than men who want a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:56 PM
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No, they don’t. “hookup material.” Being that kind of guy is a higher standard, it’s harder to be one. You need to be at the very top of men to have casual sex as much as you want. Women don’t hook up with average guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:53 PM
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Lol, it’s probably fake, or at least I hope it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 06:25 PM
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Women always imagine steroid-filled dudes, even when men tell them that if they like muscles, they are not imagining natural ones, which are actually attractive to the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:18 PM
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Lol, read my username.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 05:13 PM
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The less you have to do to have sex, the more desirable you are as a man
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 04:06 PM
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Do you like this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:34 AM
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Women saying they don’t like shredded guys is equivalent to men saying they don’t find makeup attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:28 AM
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Women saying they don’t like shredded guys is equivalent to men saying they don’t find makeup attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/26 09:28 AM
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There is no point in life if you don’t sleep with as many women as possible and become one of the most desirable men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:42 PM
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I’m back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 06:07 PM
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I personally don’t care that much about body count, maybe because I want to sleep with as many women as possible, so I would be a hypocrite if I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 05:20 PM
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But who cares what losers think?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 06:07 PM
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But men who shame them are not having casual sex, so why care?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:47 PM
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I agree that men who want casual sex but also shame women are stupid because that doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/26 05:42 PM
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I am in a self-improvement phase right now, focusing on my looks and personality
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:35 AM
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What does not make you desirable. You should be able to do it with looks and personality. Women need to want to sleep with you fastest
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:33 AM
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I meant metaphorically, you should do anything to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:28 AM
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You said if you are not hookup material, you should just give up. I say you should be ready to sell your soul to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:16 AM
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Nah, you should sacrifice anything to be able to if you can’t sleep with many women as possible. So you certainly know you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/26 09:14 AM
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Women not caring about muscles is absolute cope. A good body is 100% necessary if you want to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 06:55 PM
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Women not caring about muscles is absolute cope. A good body is 100% necessary if you want to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:56 PM
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He looks like that because he actually doesn’t work out and hates it. He just uses testosterone so he doesn’t lose muscle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/26 05:15 PM
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Yes, it is, but don’t you want to feel desired? You should do anything for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:56 PM
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I thought you were lying too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:26 PM
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Begin with casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:25 PM
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April fools!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:23 PM
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I’ve decided I don’t want casual sex anymore, and I want a girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 06:07 PM
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I’m not a kinky person, but I’m not too vanilla either. I like experimentation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:56 AM
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What kinds of things would a man need to want that would make you not want to date him?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:51 AM
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I mean, some women still just want a one-time hookup, no matter how good the sex was
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:43 AM
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But people experiment with many things, you can’t just know everything you want to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:43 AM
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That does not make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:41 AM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/26 10:40 AM
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I meant men with low or zero body count versus women with high body count. It's easier for women to hook up because most men, even most good-looking men, want to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:33 PM
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First, I need to experience myself, feel desired, and after that, yes, I am not a hypocrite.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:31 PM
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Women like men with a high body count. I’ve seen it with my own eyes. My friend, who is trying to impress women, does this. If his actual body count is 30, he will say it’s 60 to impress them, and it often works.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:17 PM
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You should sleep with as many women as possible if you feel desired
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:15 PM
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Yes, but having a high n count as a man is not a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:12 PM
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It does not, and men with a low n-count will, most of the time, not experience what it feels like to be desired if they have not had hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:10 PM
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Yes, actually, my friend who has a high body count still exaggerates it. Women tell me they usually give lower numbers than it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:06 PM
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Maybe women would not, but men would still exaggerate on anonymous surveys too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 06:03 PM
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The data is from a survey, so yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:59 PM
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Women often lie about it, and men usually exaggerate.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:57 PM
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Nah, I don't trust survey stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:56 PM
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Nah, I don't trust survey stats.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:54 PM
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You can be an exception, but the majority of women will usually have a higher body count than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:53 PM
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Show what?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:51 PM
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Two completely different n-counts between people mean they cannot be compatible. That kind of relationship will always fail. The majority of men usually have a lower n-count because it’s easier for women to find hookups. Most women have had at least one hookup in their lives. If you haven’t had any, you may feel like you’re much lower than her. Men should try to have at least some experience, including knowing how it feels to be desired, so they don’t feel FOMO or feel inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:34 PM
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Two completely different n-counts between people mean they cannot be compatible. That kind of relationship will always fail. The majority of men usually have a lower n-count because it’s easier for women to find hookups. Most women have had at least one hookup in their lives. If you haven’t had any, you may feel like you’re much lower than her. Men should try to have at least some experience, including knowing how it feels to be desired, so they don’t feel FOMO or feel inferior.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 05:34 PM
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That’s pretty common, which is why a man who doesn’t have to wait is considered superior as casual sex material.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/26 04:49 PM
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Because they are not good enough to be chosen for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 07:19 PM
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Yes, don’t disagree, but self-hatred can be a good motivator.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:44 PM
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Yes, I don’t disagree. I don’t have very high standards in general; the only thing I avoid is very obese women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 06:42 PM
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Because they have not slept around enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:37 PM
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They think sex is a chore because they’ve slept with so many men and experienced everything with them. Of course, sex doesn’t feel the same to them. I think men should do the same or look for women with a low N-count
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:35 PM
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Why would men not appreciate it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:33 PM
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I mean, before marrying someone, if you’ve already experienced everything with casual partners like she did, and she thinks sex is a chore, you won’t care anymore because you’ve already experienced everything
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:32 PM
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No, but at least you won’t care anymore. Then you will experience everything with casual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:27 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:25 PM
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Seven years is a long time. Why do you think I cant achieve it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:24 PM
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I don’t know how to explain, but you hate yourself because you can’t do it. That hatred, that rage inside yourself, you can use to make yourself better in every way, to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:14 PM
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Channel rage to ascend yourself to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:10 PM
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I am talking to men who share
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:05 PM
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According to many people and myself, self-hatred, you can channel rage through being undesirable for casual sex and doing anything to have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 05:03 PM
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I feel bad for their husband. That’s why I think men should sleep with as many women as possible before marriage, so they feel desired before ending up like that. Or they should find women who haven’t slept with many men and haven’t experienced everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:59 PM
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Self-hatred is a good motivator.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:36 PM
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I think if men cannot have casual sex and it’s their own fault, they should hate themselves intensely until they are able to. You should be willing to sacrifice everything for it; if you don’t, then don’t complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:11 PM
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I think if men cannot have casual sex and it’s their own fault, they should hate themselves intensely until they are able to. You should be willing to sacrifice everything for it; if you don’t, then don’t complain.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/26 04:10 PM
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Meditation can help you during it, but it does not provide long-term benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:14 PM
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I don't think meditation can help you
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:12 PM
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Not exactly. Most men can have a girlfriend, so it doesn’t exactly show how successful you are in life. But if you actually find that kind of woman who desires you that much, it can make you confident and help you have a successful life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:12 PM
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Yes, casual sex can also give you that boost. For my friend, it did. He was similar to me. Now he can have casual sex; he has become more confident, and he tells me how amazing it feels
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 04:03 PM
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Being charismatic, confident, and attractive gives you better job opportunities.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:57 PM
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Men who can have casual sex will have more successful lives most of the time compared to men who cannot. The ability to have casual sex decides your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:50 PM
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Do you think those kinds of women have sex with every man? You have to be special, better than most.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:47 PM
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Yes, that’s exactly why men who can have casual sex will have more successful lives compared to men who cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:44 PM
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I mean, I don’t disagree, but a ‘bad boy’ is still someone who is charismatic. Even if an average person hangs out in the same place, if they don’t have the same type of personality, they won’t end up having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:33 PM
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That’s why I said ‘usually.’
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:29 PM
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Usually, women like “bad boys” for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/26 03:11 PM
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He claims many things, so who knows. At least he achieved his goal of being desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:16 PM
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He has a body count of 250, if we believe him, lol. I mean, he achieved what he always wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:14 PM
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It's entertaining for me, even if it’s rage bait, and I do agree with some of his points, but I don’t agree with the extent or the methods he recommends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:11 PM
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Clavicular is such an entertaining clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 06:02 PM
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I’ve seen Facebook groups with millions of members where Black women are searching for white male partners. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/26 05:56 PM
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I will have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 04:56 PM
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I know you’ve had casual sex before, but did your boyfriend have casual sex too? If he did, maybe your relationship lasted. I think if people haven’t experienced casual sex, their relationship will not last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:39 PM
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It's a new relationship, attraction will fade after a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:36 PM
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How long will that last? That's what everyone thinks at first, but after a breakup, their ex always says how unattractive he was
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:28 PM
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Aren’t you a virgin? You are not a Chad if you don’t have a high body count and aren’t tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:25 PM
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Don’t you have a boyfriend? lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:19 PM
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But why would he marry you? Attractive men have many choices; at least you can sleep with him. I think for many women, that's a privilege for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:15 PM
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Have casual sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:09 PM
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You can’t just tell me that u/ThatBitchA and u/Lift_and_Lurk are not a married couple. They always comment on each other’s comments lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 06:02 PM
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Have you ever had casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:11 PM
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Should they experience casual sex before hitting the wall?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 05:03 PM
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What about casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:58 PM
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Moderately empathetic
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:23 PM
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Looks are 80% of it. If you want to sleep with as many women as possible, you also need a perfect body. Even in a relationship, it’s important if you want to actually be desired, not settled for.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:06 PM
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Good for you, I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/26 04:03 PM
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One comparison women made: it still inside me made me believe my belief is true. Hookup material guy: one hot man who you meet at the airport, you have amazing sex you never forget. Relationship guy: normal-looking, who you have good sex with. Why women think this is somehow a compliment.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:54 PM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:47 PM
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I am just not ready yet
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 05:45 PM
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He’s partly right. Not every man can have a good head shape for being bald or grow a good beard, so it can drop you a couple of points. But in relationships, many women lower their focus on pure attractiveness in favor of stability and other qualities. For hookups, though, physical attractiveness matter much more.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:53 AM
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Yes, but it’s harder to get hookups. You need hair to sleep with as many women as possible. Of course, some exceptions exist
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/26 06:47 AM
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I’ve never had casual sex; the only sex I’ve had was in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 08:08 PM
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I just want to be sure I’m desirable. I need to experience a couple of casual sex or FWB situations
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 07:25 PM
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One day I will be able to do it; I just need to kill the fear in myself
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 06:02 PM
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I mean, I am anxious and awkward. I want casual sex because I want to feel desirable. I’ve never felt that in my relationships, but my friend, who can have casual sex often, told me that casual sex can help you feel good about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:54 PM
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I mean, I’m unable to make women want casual sex with me because I’m awkward and anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:44 PM
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Yes, from outside, but not from inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:44 PM
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I am not ugly or short; that’s the issue. I have everything I need to succeed, but I can’t. That’s why I hate myself because something inside me doesn’t let me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:39 PM
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Through my friend, who can have casual sex often.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:37 PM
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I will be helped when I finally achieve my goal of having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:33 PM
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I am so addicted to self-hatred. I feel almost euphoric when I despise myself intensely; I feel so motivated. When I realize I’m not good enough for women to choose me for casual sex, it fuels this intense self-hatred.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:30 PM
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Exactly, I can't even imagine how many women he can sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:21 PM
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Too much muscle is unattractive; he has enough muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 05:06 PM
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Anyone actually calling themselves 'Alpha' or 'Chad', or using these words, is pathetic. I don’t know how anyone actually uses these words, they’re so cringe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:47 PM
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Yes, but I’ve never liked or commented on any of the posts lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:25 PM
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Mine too, but I don’t know why this guy is shown to me. I just think he has a perfect body.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:23 PM
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I follow a lot of gym content, so the algorithm sometimes shows me this guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:21 PM
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My TikTok algorithm shows me this because it’s the kind of body I want to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:19 PM
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You should be this kind of nerd. This kind of body is needed to be able to sleep with as many women as possible <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 04:17 PM
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If they can’t, they should hate themselves. Self-hatred can be a big motivator in life; it helped me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:48 AM
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It makes my opinion more legitimate. Do you think women sleep with ugly misogynists? LOL. If you are good-looking, it doesn’t matter if you’re misogynistic or not; they are high-value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:45 AM
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Lmao, that’s even worse. ‘Fuckboy’ is the biggest compliment lol, and women sleep with misogynists because of a kink, rewarding them with even more sex. This just makes my opinion even more legit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:40 AM
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It’s not that. Men feel the need to sleep with as many women as possible, and that’s why it has so much value.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:36 AM
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I advise older virgins never to tell any woman about it, whether she knows during the act or not, because at least you finally lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:44 PM
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Are you expecting a 30-year-old virgin guy to not be insecure? Lol. Maybe if he’s ultra-religious, but I still have my doubts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:42 PM
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It is, I advise older virgins to never tell any woman, whether she knows about it during the act or not, does not matter, because at least you finally lose it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:34 PM
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Because they are hypocrites, lol. Being a 26-year-old virgin is an absolute dealbreaker for the majority of women. I think he should never tell any women about it and maybe just get lucky and lose it with some women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 07:30 PM
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Lol, not just anyone can have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:25 PM
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You assume men with high body count cannot get in a relationship, or never been in one.. That kind of guy will never have a problem getting in a relationship if he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:24 PM
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It’s simple: men who cannot have casual sex are not desirable; if they were, they would be able to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:16 PM
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Exactly, you need to be an attractive guy, and here’s why it has so much value
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 05:02 PM
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Exactly, sex is considered to have lower value for women because it is easier for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:52 PM
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As I said, it blends into life and makes you more confident
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:37 PM
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I thought you meant post, not comment, so specifically, my friend said it to me and how it made him feel like god.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:35 PM
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We are both 23
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:29 PM
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I don’t know why everyone here calls me an incel. I’m not even a virgin. You’ll just do it again and again and again with different women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:26 PM
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You don’t need to tell a woman because you already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:24 PM
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I haven’t posted anything in a long time, so I don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:22 PM
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5 years maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:16 PM
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Of course, women care. Insults based on virginity are most common for men. Being a virgin already makes your dating life hard when you’re young, and imagine being an older virgin, it’s basically over for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:14 PM
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I’ve been in relationships, but they were nothing special. My friend, who is attractive and often has casual sex, told me that it makes him feel like a god and that it feels amazing.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:12 PM
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Being able to have casual sex often isn’t only about body count. As I said, it also blends into life. People like that are usually more successful in life
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:07 PM
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I don’t understand why women think that casual sex is easy for them, but not for men, and therefore has more value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:05 PM
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For majority men, it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:02 PM
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Women absolutely care about it; pre-selection is strong .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 04:01 PM
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I don’t know. I am young, so I still have time, and I will do anything to sleep with as many women as possible
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:57 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:53 PM
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Yes, because they don’t have the willpower to do it. They have to make it the purpose of their life. Almost everything they do revolves around it, and they have to sacrifice everything if necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:48 PM
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Which is why men should sleep with a lot of women so they aren’t lower compared to their future girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:41 PM
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You can't, because how easily a man obtains sex shows his value. The less he has to do to have sex, the more desirable he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:38 PM
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They should because it's the only way to know how desirable you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:24 PM
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If they don’t want to be below their future girlfriend, they should make it a life goal to sleep with as many women as possible, glow up, and sell their soul if necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:22 PM
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It does. When you sleep with a lot of women and experience everything, you won’t be as interested in what she did anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:08 PM
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I don’t like using words like “Chad” because it’s too cringe, but I’m right, guys women choose for hookups are usually more attractive than the ones they choose for long term relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:06 PM
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That’s why men should sleep with a lot of women, like a lot, so it won’t matter anymore whether she does those things or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:05 PM
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A guy that women hook up with most of the time will always be more attractive than the one they choose for a long term relationship except in some rare cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 03:03 PM
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You said to accept reality as it is, but you didn’t say anything about improving it, which I also think.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:02 PM
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I mean, you are not that attracted to him if you don’t want to jump into bed with him
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 03:19 PM
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This is not my experience; my friend says that no woman would desire you as a hookup, and that women sleep with you too quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:54 PM
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Maybe if she sleeps with me fast, I’ll know she desires me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:52 PM
3

Nah, that’s a loser mentality, accepting inferiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:51 PM
3

He probably knows better than you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:49 PM
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He can, but we are talking about hookups. You know, to see if you’re able to glow up and sleep with a lot of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:49 PM
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Become attractive, even if it means you have to sell your soul.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:45 PM
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23
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:36 PM
3

t means that hookup material is better than a relationship because it makes you feel amazing more than a relationship does.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:32 PM
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That's not enough attraction, then.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:30 PM
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Nah, he doesn’t need to do that. Women come to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:27 PM
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My friend, who is attractive and often has casual sex, told me how it makes him feel like a god and how amazing it feels. I’ve never felt that way in any of my relationships, and now I crave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 02:25 PM
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That's how rich people say that money doesn't matter
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:49 AM
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I don’t care whether you care or not. This is a debate subreddit and a discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:33 PM
2

Enough interest to reply
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:17 PM
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I’ll keep doing it until people finally stop gaslighting and agree
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 07:09 PM
1

Maybe for a bit, but how long will it last? She will get bored, cheat on you, and dump you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:53 PM
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No one can make you feel more desired than women who want something casual with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:50 PM
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What does it explain? I can only have sex in a relationship, which sucked because I never felt desired. I want to feel true desire through casual sex. My friend says he feels like a god, and I want to feel that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:40 PM
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f I were able to do it, I would have done it. But my friend can, so he tells me about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:37 PM
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Because that’s something I want to experience the most in the world, to truly feel desired by many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:15 PM
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Because women here need to stop gaslighting about casual sex. Men who can have casual sex are the most desired men in the world, and men who have never and cannot experience casual sex will never be truly as desired as the former.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:11 PM
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Because you are new here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:06 PM
1

Even here, most women have had casual sex if you ask them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 06:00 PM
1

No, many women do that, probably; only a small minority do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:56 PM
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Women here say they just have hookups for convenience, and that they are not attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:53 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but they have long-term FWBs and fuckbuddies.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:52 PM
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I don't know. Women who have never had casual sex are rare. Most women have had at least one hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:48 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ Then women here tell me that guys they have casual sex with are not attractive. I will always remember the comments someone collected.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:41 PM
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I don’t care either, because I know your relationship will end one day or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:52 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but I can't enter a relationship until I experience something casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:49 PM
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It’s just life experience. You will see one day too.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:47 PM
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That won’t last. Desire will fade one day. Only true desire is casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:42 PM
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Lol, She is right. Only the most desirable men have hookups. That means you are one of the most desired men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 03:36 PM
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FWB exists
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 10:23 AM
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I personally love small chested women. I don’t have preference either way, I think form > size.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:22 PM
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Maybe talking about women like that is the reason you are a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:08 PM
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Men who can have are most desirable. If it were not so, most men would be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:06 PM
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It won't last; attraction always fades. She will cheat on you like my last girlfriend, probably because I was not desirable enough, or she will dump you soon enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 07:01 PM
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Because it’s harder to have, men who can have are most desirable. If it were not so, most men would be able to have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:21 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but being with one person will get boring, while being with a new person, that desire will grow stronger.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:20 PM
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Yes, if I were truly desirable, I would be able to have casual sex. I can't, which means I am not, and I deserved all that because I was not desirable enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:16 PM
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Your relationship. Desire will fade one day.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:14 PM
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The relationship was fine, but the sex was bad. She was rarely in the mood, and if she was, it still always sucked. My other girlfriend was the same. I never felt desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:11 PM
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No, I’ve only had sex in relationships, which sucked. That’s why I want to feel true desire, because I never felt it in any relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:08 PM
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It's not pessimistic; it's life experience based on what I've seen most of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 06:01 PM
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I don’t think we are talking about the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:54 PM
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Only casual sex shows true desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:43 PM
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I’m talking about desire. If you have to do more things just to have sex, it means you’re undesirable. Women should want to do things for your attention. If it’s the opposite, you’re not desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:41 PM
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Bad comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:34 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:30 PM
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I’m saying that if you can only have sex when you’re in a relationship, but can’t have casual sex or FWB, you’re not a desired man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:18 PM
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That won’t last anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:16 PM
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The less a man has to do to have sex, the more desired he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 05:11 PM
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I don’t know. I don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:34 PM
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Most people can and will get into a relationship, so it’s nothing special.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:32 PM
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Men who can easily have casual sex are the highest-value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/26 06:21 PM
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You need a perfect body to be strongly desired and to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/26 06:55 PM
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They only regret it if an attractive man doesn’t want a relationship afterward, but they would still do it if the man is attractive enough
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:43 PM
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No, if you research, you will see that many women had positive things to say about casual sex, and it would not exist if women did not participate in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:38 PM
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The majority of things in the world are not healthy, but people still do them. So who cares if you want to do it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:35 PM
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Someone like you, who has had casual sex, should not tell people not to have it. It comes across like rich people telling poor people that money doesn’t matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:34 PM
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You should be willing to sell your soul to do it if you were not born conventionally attractive. Glow up and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:33 PM
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Maybe for some people it is. But it is amazing feeling to be desired by as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:29 PM
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Because most people are weak, someone like me can't catch feelings that easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:24 PM
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Being FWB material is even better than being hookup material. If you can do it, you’re one of the most desirable men in the world. But having hookups to get validation isn’t bad either.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/26 05:18 PM
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I meant, if you get one, it’s luck, but if you can sleep with 100+ women, you are desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:21 PM
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Then ask them why they brag about it. If they don’t agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:16 PM
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If you need to be lucky to get casual sex, you are not desirable. You should be able to sleep with as many women as possible if you are truly desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:12 PM
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It does not matter because it’s too easily replaceable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:07 PM
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Because desire will fade away one day, one way or another
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 05:05 PM
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why?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:57 PM
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Women wanting you long-term is not enough to know you are desirable. Even if some women desire you, you could just be lucky. To make sure you are desirable, you need to sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:56 PM
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That makes sense for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:53 PM
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What I meant was that in your 20s you should sleep with as many women as possible. Then, in your 30s, you can get into a long-term relationship, and women can still find you desirable and flirt with you if they want to. I’m not saying you should cheat, but you can still get attention and know that you are desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:52 PM
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If you experienced it in your 20s, it’s fine. But if you ask me, you should still make sure you are desired in your 30s too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:43 PM
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Yeah, maybe a bit, but it still looks like trampling over everything. Being funny isn’t enough. You need to perfect yourself and sleep with as many women as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:27 PM
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Yeah, maybe, but casual sex is the only way to know how desired you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:17 PM
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I am not the red pill, so I do agree. Being funny is important, but being funny alone will not make you desired. You need looks first, and humor second. You also need to experience casual sex with many women, so being funny can help with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:16 PM
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I think you shouldn’t get into a relationship until you’ve experienced casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/26 04:09 PM
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The difference is huge. While it’s not everything, it helps significantly. He himself says that getting huge can actually turn women off. You need to be lean. Someone posted a body here that I saved. Having a body like this absolutely helps you sleep with as many women as possible. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/26 05:13 PM
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That’s why casual is the only way to know you’re desired.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:17 PM
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<image> Wait, I thought hookup material was lower than husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/26 05:04 PM
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She could have done the same thing to the men she had sex with earlier, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 12:11 PM
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Ok, how can I know if she desires me more then?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 12:07 PM
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I don’t think I’m owed anything, but I know that if she had sex sooner with other men before me, she will never desire me the way she desired them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/26 11:33 AM
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With hookups, you will always be remembered as desired, and you can always find a new person, so desire never ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:12 PM
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I don’t believe in marriage that much anyway. It never lasts; desire always fades. The only true desire that lasts is casual.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:06 PM
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If you sleep with a lot of women like a hundred, after that, it doesn't matter who you marry that much if you want kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 08:02 PM
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I mean, yes, but women here love saying how high body count men are undesirable and will not find relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:56 PM
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A high body count increases a man’s value. It means women desire you, and you will never have a problem finding a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:15 PM
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No, don’t ever compare it to gay rights. I hope the poly thing never becomes normalized. I don’t believe love is so big that you need to share it with many people instead of one. Casual sex is different because that’s the only way to know how desirable you are as a man. That’s how women decided it, not my fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:26 PM
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That's fine, you can do what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:21 PM
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Casual sex is the only way to know how desirable you are as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:08 PM
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Because I see casual relationships differently, that’s how women decide which men are attractive or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:54 PM
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You can do what you want; I don’t care. I wouldn’t even hook up with or be FWB with a girl who is poly. That shows how little I respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:26 PM
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I don’t have a problem with my kids going to a house where there are gay people, actually. I just think the poly lifestyle is disgusting and a degeneration of society. I won’t tell anyone how to live, but I just don’t want to have anything to do with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:22 PM
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I would agree with her. I don’t have a problem with poly couples, but I personally don’t want to interact with them or have any connection with them. I just don’t respect it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 07:15 PM
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You know you can find a relationship, right? You are free. No one is stopping you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:54 PM
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Prostitutes do not desire me; it does not validate me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:26 PM
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It can be both FWB and fuck buddies; it doesn’t matter to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:21 PM
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Because it’s just casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 07:04 PM
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Of course it will. It’s easier and more disposable compared to a relationship. You can find more FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:26 PM
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Of course, there are some exceptions, but FWB is only available to a small percentage of men. You are more desirable than the majority of men in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:25 PM
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Because friends are more disposable than a person you are in a relationship with, and FWB are also disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:23 PM
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FWB men most of the time will seem more attractive than the man she will marry
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:20 PM
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Because it does. I’ve seen it most of my life, from my own experiences and online too. Friendship failure is different; it can’t be compared to intimate relationship failure.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:16 PM
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No attraction, always fades, and having friends are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:13 PM
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I mean, you can have more than one FWB too.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:11 PM
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Yes, you will eventually end up dumped, divorced, cheated on, or in a dead bedroom and miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:05 PM
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Maybe for a bit, but it will always fail in the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 06:02 PM
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Exactly
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:49 PM
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Exactly why it’s better.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:44 PM
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I think FWB material is even better than just hookups because women want you more for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:28 PM
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Women write things like this and expect me to see relationship sex as better than a hookup. <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 04:33 PM
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Nah, if you’re a men who can easily have hookups or friends with benefits, you’ll never have trouble getting into a relationship, and you’ll always be higher-value men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 03:17 PM
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Another example of why Hookup material is better
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/26 05:44 AM
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I didn’t say it would be easy. I said you should be willing to sell your soul and everything for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:43 PM
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Maybe, but many people do have potential and waste it because they’re lazy or think they can’t. Yes, some people are doomed
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:32 PM
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Why is it unrealistic or dumb?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:26 PM
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It's not just that, you are never desired as men, compared to men who are desired for hookups or FWB.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:11 PM
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It had to do with humanity; our existence is to reproduce. Virginity means you are not a desired mate. You are an evolutionary failure
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:06 PM
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They can’t be; they are missing major life experiences. They can never be free of that feeling, maybe except asexuals, but that’s an exception.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 07:00 PM
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Really? That was your best argument?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:59 PM
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Sleeping with a lot of women might help, but you need to glow up for that and be ready to sell your soul for it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:57 PM
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As long as you can have casual sex or a FWB, that’s fine. Relationships fail, attraction fades, and someone might cheat or dump you . I don’t think it’s worth going through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:50 PM
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You can only know that you are desirable as a man if women desire you for casual or FWB relationships. Many men can get lucky and get a girlfriend, but that does not mean you are truly desirable as a man, or that she genuinely desires you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:42 PM
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I said one of the worst, not worst, but it’s up there
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:20 PM
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I never see anyone use 'femcel' to insult women, at least it’s not common. But being a virgin man is one of the worst things that can happen to a man; you can never be truly human
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:16 PM
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What did you tell your boyfriend? Did you tell him he is your best one or not? What was his answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 06:01 PM
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You can’t change anyone’s mind if they already think like that, because they’ve already made up their mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:55 PM
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Because there’s a high chance your future wife will write things like this on the internet, I’d rather not.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:54 PM
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I know you posted this. I saw it in your post history.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:51 PM
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r/AskWomenNoCensor
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:47 PM
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<image> Another reason why being hookup material is better.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:44 PM
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<image> One of the reasons to never get married and just have casual sex is this: imagine your future wife writing this on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/26 05:40 PM
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I don't know, but I sometimes delete my comments too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 01:52 PM
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Are you talking about me?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/26 11:38 AM
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The amazing body for hookups and FWB
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 05:30 PM
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I said 'virgin' because many women like to say they are 'reborn virgins' after their hookup phase. So, okay, is your partner now the most conventionally attractive guy you’ve been with? Has he also had casual sex? Did you make him wait before having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/26 09:46 AM
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