sgd124 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Looking for help with my texting... I hear what you are saying. But this is the beauty of life: you have a choice. If you are happy with the way you are, ignore everything I'm about to say. Assuming you are coming to this subreddit and asking for advice, there are things you want to change. So I will present you with two options. You can either use your personality as a shield to hide behind or you can choose to master it. The first choice is the easier road, where you don't have to take any accountability for your actions and can…	/r/seduction	16/05/15 09:11 PM
2	Looking for help with my texting... I'm going to apologize in advance for being so blunt. The problem isn't your text game, the problem is you. You are desperate. Beyond everything you said in the second paragraph, you are willing to pay a random internet stranger to look at every single one of your texts and analyze them for you. If it wasn't for your texts, you'd probably drive her away at some point by being needy in person. I know I don't know you so I can't say this with certainty, but I think it would be better to solve your…	/r/seduction	16/05/15 04:36 PM
4	When to let it go? She ignored your calls completely and you still continue to like this girl? You said it yourself - it's rude. First rule for any relationship: respect yourself. Don't let people treat you like that. If they do, they aren't worth your time.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 08:22 PM
7	Oneitis - Need help! It has been such a difficult week in my life You said you've known each other for 20 days and have talked everyday. Sounds like you got too close too fast. She probably felt you were becoming over-attached and clingy. Give her some space, man. And also chill out a bit, it's not really a big deal.	/r/seduction	13/05/15 08:12 PM
1	I'm kind of an awkward flirter, and often don't know when to back off. Can someone tell me if this is too much? After they come back from an extended period of time you could tease them with: "Hey, you still work here? Thought you would have been fired by now."	/r/seduction	28/04/15 04:34 AM
11	House Party then Movie. Shy girl. No idea what to do. Dude, she knows exactly what she's doing. Just because she's shy, doesn't mean she's a complete idiot. You have to be the strong one here. Be clear and decisive and nothing in between, or she'll feel awkward and will shut off.	/r/seduction	25/04/15 04:37 PM
4	Today, for the first time, i got rejected because of my looks. Honestly, I think "B" was interested, or you could have at least spun it so that she was. She was giving you so much attention, constantly testing you. You failed all of them, but that's OK. Two words for you: maintain frame. Don't let a few jabs get you flustered. Don't let some random girl that has known you for a grand total of 20 seconds define you. Insult her back and stand your ground. She'll completely change her opinion of you and may respect you more. You'll also respect yourself a lot …	/r/seduction	25/04/15 04:24 PM
4	how can I push her away? my examples My advice: actions speak louder than words. Start occupying your time elsewhere. Do your own thing, talk to other girls, pursue your hobbies. Go travel. You might just have too much time on your hands right now and that's why you're getting so attached.	/r/seduction	23/04/15 08:10 PM
11	How can i get a flirtatious mind? Focus on having fun and being humourous. Flirting will naturally follow if you are in the right mindset.	/r/seduction	22/04/15 06:36 PM
1	how to stop becoming obsessed with girl after approach? Take a step back. Realize you don't know this girl at all. And use it as a self-control exercise: don't go to her online profiles.	/r/seduction	22/04/15 04:46 PM
1	The crazy person problem: Are you serious? First of all, don't internalize what your professor said. You know yourself better than that. Secondly, the more authentic you try to be, the less it will come off as so. When you over-analyze what people think and say about you, you'll start to edit what you say and how you act. That is not authentic. So relax, let it flow, and don't worry so much. Hope this helps	/r/seduction	22/04/15 06:13 AM
1	What to do if girl has a boyfriend Since you're not sure if she's romantically interested in you or not, I'd say this is a bad sign. Plus she already has a boyfriend. I'd pull back, buddy. It's not worth getting emotionally invested in something like this.	/r/seduction	21/04/15 09:58 PM
1	How do you get a girl to come back to you? The relationship is lopsided. You like her more than she likes you, and she can sense it. It will never work out like this, so I suggest you pull back and occupy your time elsewhere. If you're at a party worrying about getting her/anyone else's attention, you're just another needy guy. Remember, you're at the party to have fun so get out of your head!	/r/seduction	21/04/15 09:49 PM
1	What to do if girl has a boyfriend Be honest here; does she like you back?	/r/seduction	21/04/15 09:37 PM
3	Girl from few months ago initiates conversation Under no circumstances should you call her! Don't do it man!	/r/seduction	18/04/15 04:12 PM
8	Girl from few months ago initiates conversation You shouldn't do anything. She's trying to see if you're still wrapped around her little finger. Don't fall into that trap again!	/r/seduction	18/04/15 03:59 PM