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sh0nuff/r/seduction07/08/13 01:03 PM
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Bah, I don't want no scrubs.
/r/PussyPassDenied19/10/19 08:17 PM
1

Sure. Toss me a DM and we'll sort it out.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 11:49 PM
2

You got it! If we can find a way to exchange or something, I could send you a few drops of Dior Summer for your perusal
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 09:21 PM
1

Paco pour Homme, the original.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/18 06:45 PM
1

For sure!.. My scents to recommend are Hanae Mori, Fahrenheit Summer, and Paco Rabanne. The former is really unique. Stands out. Look for the original and avoid any variants. Same goes for the latter. The middle one is discontinued, from what I understand but it's absolutely amazing. So warm and vibrant. Lasts all day on the skin and moves from fruity to spicy, with undertones of tobacco.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 11:06 PM
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I've been collecting and wearing cologne for years, but my current gf was the first one to admit that I usually wore too much. Although this guide states that direct application is the way to go, I have found that spraying at your bare chest from a distance of a foot or so is the perfeft balance between a close spritz and walking through a cloud. Be careful about applying some essential oils directly as they can actually burn the skin. It's easy to make this mistake with some beard oils if your …
/r/TheRedPill14/09/18 10:07 PM
1

You can also post anything on medium but unless IOU pay their exorbitant fees you can barely read more a handful of articles until they blast you for having read way too much. Like let me get some value before you gouge my pocketbook.
/r/MGTOW28/08/18 05:02 PM
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This applies to pretty much everything.. If someone compliments you and you think they're attractive, you swoon. If someone compliments you and you're not into them, it's creepy. Gender is immaterial here. However, if you use your position as leverage and touch someone as part of this process, it crosses a line
/r/MensRights26/12/17 07:25 PM
3

Use the Meetup.com app to join locals in your area. It's all safe social activities like hiking or board games and will give you not only exposure without pressure, but also give you practice socializing with women and removing the pressure of it being anything more than platonic.
/r/seduction01/05/17 11:25 AM
7

I'm surprised no one mentioned the grocery store. There's so many easy ways to open, then you can shop together learning about each other's tastes. I've transformed a few sets into sharing a picnic after leaving the store together.
/r/seduction01/05/17 02:22 AM
1

Take a look at the FORD technique
/r/seduction14/04/17 09:06 PM
1

It's nothing to do with the guys. Guys don't care about height. But women biologically, and still to this day socially, want a guy that's taller than them. There's plenty of evidence of confident, tall women dating shorter guys, but it's definitely heavily in the minority - in fact so much so that when you see photos of tall women being hugged or embraced by their noticeably shorter boyfriends, it looks extremely odd
/r/PussyPassDenied14/04/17 05:43 PM
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The Ford Technique is a much more thorough way to master small talk, with dates or strangers alike. And since the acronym stands for areas of conversation, it's a much more flexible solution.
/r/seduction12/04/17 12:51 PM
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Because unattractive girls are hit on by shorter unattractive men (who often have lower self esteem and go for the low hanging fruit/women of their own tier) Attractive girls tend to date more attractive men that are taller by default, ergo they don't complain about it.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/04/17 11:20 PM
2

It's also all about day game. The club scene isn't the place to meet and pick up any more. The grocery store, the park, all these places give you way more authenticity as genuinely interested vs looking to smash
/r/seduction22/03/17 02:39 AM
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I'm guessing you're 16. Edit: sorry, they're 16
/r/seduction12/02/17 02:08 PM
1

Next time go right to the finger banging.
/r/seduction12/02/17 12:06 AM
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This is why books like Models, and pickup artists like Tyler are so successful.. They teach you on how to be a better man, who's less outcome dependent. Once you're full of self confidence, and have an awesome life that is 100% fulfilling without anyone else in it, that's when you start acting this way around women.. A totally relaxed, non desperate "take it or leave it" attitude, and you don't need guides like this.. It just comes naturally to you. This sort of course sells well because it's li…
/r/seduction09/01/17 06:00 PM
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Not available in the Canadian store.. Ah well. Thanks for the thought!
/r/seduction15/12/16 03:17 AM
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You're looking at her because you like looking at her. If she "busts" you, just keep looking and smile.
/r/seduction30/11/16 02:15 PM
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In most states there is not a single age in which a person may consent, but rather consent varies depending upon the minimum age of the younger party, the minimum age of the older party, and/or the differences in age. Some states have a single age of consent. 30 U.S. states have age gap laws which make sexual activity legal if the ages of both participants are close to one another, and these laws are often referred to as "Romeo and Juliet laws". Other states have measures which reduce penalties …
/r/seduction30/11/16 09:25 AM
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Don't look away, it's so beta
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:56 AM
3

Build a Bear. Shit.
/r/seduction29/11/16 02:48 AM
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This seems a little amateur re: filming and editing...especially when you're talking about never running out of things to say but you both present yourselves as awkward and like you aren't confident about what you're talking about - within the first couple minutes I thought you might be filming a comedic video making fun of other PUA coaches! Perhaps practicing what you want to communicate or editing with jump cuts will let you fake it till you make it.. Or find other ways to present your conten…
/r/seduction27/11/16 01:39 PM
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So many of these questions belong in /r/relationships. Just let it go and move on.
/r/seduction25/11/16 01:34 AM
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A good LPT that it took me a few years to get.. Don't clean or tidy or make your place swanky because you want to hook up. You'll always be sweating the process and often you get lucky when you least expect it.. So keep your place swanky for you Take pride in your space, and keep it clean and neat because it will make you feel better about being at home, as well as making you more creative and productive vs procrastinating.. And since it's always neat, when you do meet a girl when you're out and…
/r/seduction23/11/16 02:31 AM
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If the whole thing was a rant and potty mouthed it would make sense. The few uses of profanity seemed out of place imho
/r/seduction22/11/16 03:59 AM
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Good content and nice delivery. The profanity seemed really jarring and out of place however, no clue why it was included.
/r/seduction21/11/16 10:59 PM
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You could do that too. The added bonus of the blog is generating web traffic from two sources. Also lets you build followers and a mailing list in case you decide to sell a book or program
/r/seduction21/11/16 01:12 PM
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I love the content of these videos but the format is really getting tiresome. Have you thought about tying these to a blog where people can read the information versus waiting to watch an animation "draw" it over and over? I find the pace of these sorts of videos slower than my brain and it's an obstacle to enjoying the content.
/r/seduction21/11/16 03:51 AM
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Opening up to friends regardless of gender is the best way to start to understand the equality. Just because you're biologically compatible with a friend doesn't necessarily mean that romance is the only possible result. If it's difficult at first, try and get platonically closer with one of your female friends you're not attracted to. It'll be easier to stay in the friend zone, naturally. It's amazing to understand the difference in perspective you get from female friends vs male ones.
/r/seduction16/11/16 12:47 PM
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It sounds like OP is segregated from women as a whole.. Do you have a healthy mix of male and female friends? Adding some women into your life that aren't romantic pursuits will help you understand how to socialize more and understand how to be less outcome dependent. Extra tip : in school girls rarely go on dates without knowing the guy somewhat before hand unless they meet at a bar/while intoxicated. So go for friends first and follow the other guidelines in the previous reply.
/r/seduction15/11/16 09:33 AM
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Well sure. There's plenty of ways to take way better pics. I'm just trying to stop people from using a potato in their basement.
/r/seduction08/11/16 02:46 AM
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Just take some photos outside on a clear sunny day. Make sure the sun is somewhere in front of you and most phones can take a decent enough photo. I'm always amazed by the shitty quality of photos on Tinder.
/r/seduction07/11/16 09:16 PM
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Concerts maybe? Raves, definitely not. Most people are at a race to dance. Want to dance near em? Sure, but don't ask someone to "dance" . No one dances in pairs. Maybe if you're both rolling on molly, you'll dance in close proximity for a couple hours, share a few smiles and end up in a cuddle puddle, but approaches and game doesn't really apply at parties
/r/seduction06/11/16 11:21 AM
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People rarely like getting hit on when they are at work. When they are at work and actually working it's even worse, because they can't diffuse the situation politely.
/r/seduction21/10/16 11:17 AM
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One day at a time my friend. I found some solace in meditation. You can eventually cultivate a daily home practice, but going to a Shambhala centre or Zen center can help you get started.
/r/seduction19/10/16 09:34 PM
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Well, first off, recovery is king. I didn't get within the same room as a girl, romantically speaking, until I had over 2 years under my belt. The credo of getting a plant, seeing if you can keep that alive, then getting a dog / pet etc is all pretty par for the course. It's easy to replace booze with women as a way to chase something to keep the blues away, and you need to be healthy before you reintroduce them back into your life..
/r/seduction19/10/16 10:57 AM
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Oh it's all good. I'll often suffer through an O'Douls when I'm with people who don't know umi don't drink. But at home I have Erdinger and Grolsch, both whom make excellent non alcoholized versions.
/r/seduction18/10/16 01:19 PM
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Well as a recovering alcoholic I can tell you it's not all bad.
/r/seduction18/10/16 10:50 AM
2

Just drink ginger ale in a short glass or deacoholized beer
/r/seduction17/10/16 09:13 PM
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I'd garner the difference is that if you hit clubs and bars on the strip that there's less locals and more tourists, so the ability to capitalize on the "what happens in Vegas, stays in Vegas" mantra is drastically improved
/r/seduction17/10/16 01:59 PM
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Its definitely not above respecting women. Besides she won't disrespect you, because of "the implication"
/r/seduction15/10/16 12:04 AM
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While this is correct, it's still pretty close to effective PUA techniques.. Other than the calling a girl with a voice changer on the phone telling her she's gonna die tonight.
/r/seduction14/10/16 08:28 PM
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There's an official website where you can find support groups in your area and work together with other men who've read and are practicing the principles in this book
/r/seduction02/10/16 10:47 AM
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There's tons of extra curricular clubs, after school activities, and courses that don't require you to be a student to attend. Go the campus and browse the bulletin boards, esp the ones at the gym, then sign up
/r/seduction16/06/16 03:19 AM
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I dot flirt with them. I work on myself, and spending time with quality friends until I'm feeling better and ready to go back out at 100% Gaming when you're head isn't in the right place will drastically decrease your effectiveness and make you feel even crummier
/r/seduction13/06/16 11:31 AM
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Try calling next time.. I don't use text for first interactions.
/r/seduction05/04/16 01:35 PM
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You only went wrong when you didn't go home with her. She can get a guy to giver her attention like that any time, just like you can get a girl in the same way. Texting her without at reason to text her made you into a beta, and now she's not interested. Let it go.
/r/seduction05/04/16 11:10 AM
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I dunno.. Crazy eyes. =)
/r/seduction04/04/16 11:49 AM
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Maybe I'm just an old man, but I get far more successes with phone calls. I'm able to create more chemistry, and I find that women are less flaky versus text exchanges.
/r/seduction26/03/16 09:52 PM
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Get married.
/r/seduction12/03/16 11:27 PM
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How so? 90% of my reply is detailing how going out solo is hurting his chances at pulling. The tldr is that if he teams up with someone else, he'll have an easier time with his night game. I only mentioned briefly that I preferred day game.
/r/seduction12/03/16 10:10 PM
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Nightgame is much more difficult solo. Because people rarely go out to clubs on their own, unless you're really pro, you'll have a tough time opening sets that are frequently embedded in a friend circle. It was a little easier back in the day when PUA concentrated on set routines, canned openers, and magic tricks, but that is all way too common knowledge now, and you will be labeled a player. I personally stick to day game, but if you're adamant about picking up at clubs use some forums to find …
/r/seduction12/03/16 03:35 PM
1

You should whip it out and "beat" her to it
/r/seduction29/02/16 02:34 PM
1

I do think this sort of discussion is better off in askseddit, keeping FRs and more advanced cerebral discussion for this sub.
/r/seduction26/02/16 12:56 PM
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Sounds like OP is in a bit of a dry spell, and seeing this old crush made him reminiscent of his time with her - feels a bit like he's putting her on a pedestal and forgetting his own caveats of not being comfortable in the friend zone.
/r/seduction19/12/15 04:26 PM
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Shadow work, aka dealing with rewiring your brain in a way that lets you forgive yourself and to change your way if thinking is also exhausting. The book had a similar effect on me, and I tore through it quickly as well. When you start your second read through and do the exercises, don't do them as quickly as you can. Instead, take your time, do a chapter every couple weeks and really let the effects sink in before progressing. If you check the NMMNG Web forums you can find a local group to meet…
/r/seduction24/11/15 04:31 AM
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I had similar problems. Girls aren't very used to confident guys, but text makes it way too easy for them to postpone and ignore you. One way you can get around it is to tell them you're going to event x and that they'd love it, and should tag along. That way, even if they don't show up, you still have a blast, and are free to open other sets while you're out. Second way I get past this obstacle is to flat out call them and book a date that way. Then stop texting until you meet them. That shows …
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:25 PM
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I'd also suggest you frame yourself physically. Don't sit across from a table. Choose a booth or corner table where you can sit with your thighs touching or close. That physical intimacy and warmth stimulates your body's natural chemistry and pheromones, making you both more comfortable with kino. Add the push pull from here and you're set. Comment on her dress or shirt, while touching the hem or a design detail that's not on her chest or close to an erogenous zone. Then say something about her …
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:17 PM
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Unless you're at University and at a residence bar with women you'll see regularly during the day, bars and clubs are very difficult to transition into numbers and especially dates or gfs. Even if you do number close you won't see more than 10% replying to any texts you send. They usually won't remember you, and of they do the lack of alcohol makes them embarrassed etc. Day game is where it's at for numbers, dates, and gfs. Clubs are great for openers, conversations, and one night stand conversi…
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:14 PM
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She may have also started to sober up a bit, and her LMR fired up
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:02 PM
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The more success you get, the more you can become a little less outcome dependent. Even if you can practice and engage with women in a text or voice situation, you'll get comfortable getting all the ones you want and you'll be able to start passing on anyone who's interested and be able to be more choosy. Try an app called whisper. You can go from engaging any women who post from anywhere for initial practice game to ones locally. Apply that knowledge and you can close and meet them in person. I…
/r/seduction05/11/15 10:00 PM
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You don't need a different job. You're a little older and more put together. That's sexy to women. Go out a few times a week to a lounge where you can sit back, nurse an old fashioned, and read a book while enjoying the atmosphere. Once you're known and have plenty higher value you can play on, just sit around, enjoying your book and your drink, and barely acknowledge any of the cute women. They'll engage you. I don't want to go back to being 20. It's way better in my 30s
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:56 PM
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Most people share a few acquaintances anyway. You could always take a look at what events she's going to, that you know you'll be able to find her at (ie, avoid the club that houses 3000 ppl) then show up, and engage her organically as if you don't even know her. If there's no chemistry, move on. Another FB open is to use a similar scenario. Either find an event she recently went to, or find out her hobbies from her page. If she likes going to the gym or running, these are two great opps. You ca…
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:44 PM
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I'd guess they film and aren't allowed to use much more content than you'd think. I vlog and am frequently told to turn my camera off or to stop filming people even though they're only in the background
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:36 PM
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Canadian is so broad. Mtl girls are very European in their behavior, whereas Toronto girls are much more close minded.
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:30 PM
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It's high-school. Rarely do relationships last more than a couple months at most anyways. Just date her and enjoy the time you have with her, then move on. It's pretty difficult to be a player at HS since all the girls know each other and it'd not as easy to maintain a diverse pool of fwb's
/r/seduction05/11/15 09:28 PM
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You already lost when you agreed to let a mutual friend come along. This is a pretty big flag that she isn't into you.
/r/seduction05/11/15 02:13 PM
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Great question. I ended up finding a couple lounges in the city, and spending 3 to 4 evenings a week at them. Some have live jazz or more ambient music, and aren't dark or loud. I'll take a book, dress up a little, classy like in a tie or bowtie, grab a drink, sit and read. If I'm hungry one of the lounges has tapas and ought snacks so I'll go there. I go regularly enough that I get preferred seating, know all the staff by name, and often have them seat me with other singles there for dinner. 6 …
/r/seduction02/11/15 04:06 AM
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Depends on the situation. If we're dressed up and I'm taking her to the opera or the symphony, you can bet I'll hold the door open, tuck her gown in around her feet, offer her my arm. Makes it more special if you don't do it for regular dates.
/r/seduction24/10/15 09:30 PM
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If you honestly feel like there's chemistry that's not artificial, and it's mutual, then toss your number on the receipt when you sign your credit card slip. If she's actually down she'll text you. If not, if you return to the same location, don't try again.
/r/seduction08/08/15 05:01 PM
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The friends are also often jealous that they don't have a guy to grind on too. By closing the group they see you as a nice guy and are happy for their friend..
/r/seduction19/07/15 01:18 PM
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Community choir. You'll have your pick of the litter, pretty much zero competition
/r/seduction15/07/15 12:45 PM
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I worked on myself. Meditation, exercise, healthy eating... I didn't even think about women for well over a year.. Then suddenly they were everywhere, seeking me out, interested in my hobbies, and why I wasn't paying them any attend. It's weird how that works. Ignore a girl and she'll only try harder.
/r/seduction04/07/15 12:57 PM
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I've got 10 years clean from drugs and a good 3-4 from booze. You can't force your recovery. Banging a bunch of broads won't make you feel any better. You have to work on yourself, be happy without them, genuinely content, before you can go back into the scene and pickup like you used to. Your confidence is gone. Get it back.
/r/seduction03/07/15 03:53 PM
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If you go on the books website there's forums where you can find or start a local chapter to share with fellow nice guys.
/r/seduction24/06/15 07:25 PM
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There's dozens of excuses and reasons to go to her place..
/r/seduction24/06/15 12:37 PM
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There nothing wrong with showing interest. It's more about not changing what you believe in because a girl you like thinks differently
/r/seduction24/03/15 04:20 PM
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Confidence plus not being outcome dependent. Guys who are independent and do what they want versus acting differently around a woman they are interested in. This is why it's easy to get girls you aren't into.. They pick up that you aren't trying.
/r/seduction24/03/15 10:18 AM
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You are way too hooked on this girl. If she says no, don't let it affect you at all, just shrug it off like it's her loss. If you let it get to you it'll make everyone more uncomfortable. Buy if she does say no, don't keep trying. Just move on.. But no need to stop being polite and friendly when you hang out.. Just stop trying so hard.
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:54 PM
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Reducing her rejection to your advances because she's on her period is flat out sexist and inappropriate. Women are not wired like men. They aren't always thinking about dating or being with a man. And they also don't put everything about chemistry purely on looks alone.
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:51 PM
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You already share physical space with her, so don't be afraid to be confident. Engage her after class and walk with her, asking if she'd like to grab a coffee to discuss something school related. From there you can move the conversation to personal affairs and build some rapport. Dinner is formal and sounds "datey" to women. Get to know her first. The second thing I'd recommend is to call when you want to ask her out vs texting. It's much easier to elicit a positive response when you're face to …
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:44 PM
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Seating and posture are really important here. Unless you've been able to find a place in advance, and can ensure there's places to sit side by side where physical contact is easier, you'll have to wing it. Personally I prefer sitting across from a date at a small table. As the date progresses, lean back in your chair, and speak slightly quieter than usual. I tend to drop an octave as it lowers my voice and I blend in a little more with the background sound. As long as you can still create inter…
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:39 PM
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Yep. You didn't want to hook up with that girl. She was so drunk that she was operating on instinct, and that (to me) is taking advantage. My #1 rule is to always leave girls better or the same as I find 'em
/r/seduction28/02/15 06:45 PM
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Do you live in the same city? If so, then it shouldn't be too easy.. A good lead up would ask him on a Friday night if he'd like to play a drinking game using one of the Steam games you play frequently. Try to choose one with a rule that will make the booze flow regularly. I hope you play using Steam Voice or Skype when you play, but if not, suggest you do that too. Once you're both sufficiently inebriated, it's easy to start flirting.. actually hearing each others real voices will only facilita…
/r/seduction28/02/15 04:58 PM
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The advice I offer is to read Models by Mark Manson. It's more of a handbook to confidence and masculinity versus a manual on PUA. Highly recommended
/r/seduction24/02/15 03:36 PM
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Yep. Stop texting and flat out call her.
/r/seduction23/01/15 03:07 PM
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I was also the odd man out in HS. I had a reputation that had followed me from grade 5, being a nerd with no social skills... The girls in the later grades would tease me mercilessly, or flirt with me as a joke spurred on by other boys in our grade.. High School was horrible for me. Got to university in another city, and within the first year had a dozen awesome girls on my bed and a couple threesomes. It was great to break away.. Just being away from my old school allowed me to reinvent myself …
/r/seduction10/01/15 01:05 PM
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High school can be immensely concentrated. If the classes are small, the girls can be vicious. Even if there's little truth to it, if his ex is influential amongst her circle, and is part of the popular ones, it isn't worth wasting energy on trying to salvage anything
/r/seduction09/01/15 11:04 PM
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Screw it. You'll be gone in no time. College awaits, my son!! Soon you'll be in the promised land.
/r/seduction09/01/15 09:19 PM
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Content is solid in this piece like most of Mark's stuff.. I will comment that the overuse of the word "fuck" and its derivatives, made it much more difficult to stay connected to the article.
/r/seduction09/01/15 07:35 PM
1

Try something a little less popular. Fahrenheit Summer is excellent, but discontinued. Grab some if you find it. For something really unique, try Hanae Mori
/r/seduction02/01/15 11:00 AM
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Speaking with passion about a topic is what women admire. You show your confidence. Doesn't matter if the product of that hobby is something they can appreciate. Athletes and musicians are seen as the stereotypes because a woman can appreciate your muscular body or the music you make.. But it really doesn't matter. If you aren't genuine about your hobby, she'll know
/r/seduction02/01/15 02:27 AM
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You often never do this on purpose, but this is how you get the girls that you don't want in your life totally hooked on you. When you don't call, though you say you will. You don't text, but you promised to. You swear you'll make plans to hang out but never do... And then you complain that this girl won't leave you alone... It's similar to the sort of behavior that guys complain that girls exhibit. The ones that always flirt, but actually are not interested in any sort of romantic relationship …
/r/seduction17/12/14 02:13 PM
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An easy way to put this into practice for anyone who doesn't really understand this comment, is to imagine that you have a large orange in the back of your mouth, in the opening of your throat. This is a technique that my old choirmaster used to use to help us develop better sound and timbre while singing
/r/seduction10/12/14 01:16 PM
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Klingons don't need kino
/r/seduction23/11/14 01:03 PM
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There's also a web forum for the book and you can find groups in your area
/r/seduction19/11/14 01:21 PM
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Yep. This. School is a playground where you can hone your game with little risk. Plenty of choice, learn from your failures. Also an excellent opportunity to set up a solid routine. Eat healthy, work out, and concentrate on hobbies as much as schoolwork. Always be learning, always be improving yourself, and above all, be interesting. Girls dig an independent guy who has his priorities straight. But don't be afraid to make mistakes either.
/r/seduction12/09/14 12:01 PM
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As someone who is currently leading a poly lifestyle, you're correct. I often meet women online who bill themselves as also poly/open, and have no problems finding other partners.. yet men who do the same thing rarely get any hits. I feel this is because women will assume that men are in a poly relationship so that they can get laid, FWB style. They judge a book by it's title, more or less. Easier (I've found) to not mention anything in a profile. Once you spend time with someone in person DHV, …
/r/seduction12/08/14 10:16 PM
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Exactly.. Plenty of kino possible if you focus on bouldering and you spot her while she tries a route.
/r/seduction15/07/14 10:40 AM
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Caman. He doesn't even care I'd he remembers the number or not anyways. It was just that he got it in the first place.
/r/seduction13/07/14 03:16 PM
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In regards to being a nice guy.. This book is an excellent place to start.. See if it helps you http://www.drglover.com/no-more-mr-nice-guy/the-book.html
/r/seduction06/07/14 10:43 AM
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Note that this is also the UK. Girls tend to be way more open in Europe
/r/seduction02/07/14 11:52 PM
15

Exactly. Most men go on a date and all they're trying to do is get the girl to get naked, to show interest in them. Girls hate this. They want a challenge. If you go on a date and you're totally confident in what you're discussing, not backing down on what you like, even if they aren't in agreement, this shows independence and no outcome dependence. Basically, you flip the tables, and let the girl try to charm your pants off.
/r/seduction27/06/14 08:48 PM
1

Pulling is not considered a PUA term in the UK, it's more slang for getting girls. NA girls are way more prudish on the outside. More walls erected to protect themselves... Nudity is so frowned upon in NA, it's way more of an open "live and let live" culture in the UK, in all of Europe.
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:36 PM
3

Man, European women definitely make it an attractive place to live. As a born Brit living in North America, I love going home to visit family, as I always find game to be that much more organic.
/r/seduction25/06/14 12:00 PM
1

As much as I try I can't keep these pens in my possession. I'm always losing them. The pocket clips fly off pretty easily too.
/r/seduction12/06/14 12:16 PM
13

I like this article and author because he "gets it". The revelation phase was awesome.
/r/seduction07/06/14 04:02 PM
2

Don't shit where you eat usually refers to when you're older in a job and can be fired without you have got a say. In high school you won't be meeting too many girls outside your school, and you won't get expelled for breaking a girls heart and for making it awkward. So go nuts, it's a fun time to explore and practical, but enjoy being a teen too. Plenty of time to hone your craft when you graduate into the real world.
/r/seduction05/05/14 09:56 AM
1

Even better! I was just guesstimating as signs expired mid(ish) month by my hazy memory :)
/r/seduction03/05/14 02:31 PM
1

Just ask for what month she was born and you'll have 50/50 odds of guessing. Even if you're off, it still shows your interest in her sign and your penchant for how it dictates compatibility. Also let's you neg or compliment her based on your interaction, all using sign stereotypes.
/r/seduction01/05/14 10:39 AM
3

Easy finger banging access from this position too.
/r/seduction28/04/14 04:14 PM
2

I have the etmyotics, and I DGAF that they aren't invisible. Plenty of people wear plugs to clubs and concerts. I have a few pairs so I can match with different outfits if I want. They're the only ones that work properly and let me hear conversation. I just pretend they aren't there, and usually no-one even mentions 'em
/r/seduction28/04/14 10:29 AM
1

That rating has always confused me a bit. I mean, I know what the normal scale is, but the HB part is a misnomer. I mean, is an HB4 any different to a normal 4? Is closing a girl that's below average any less of a challenge, so not as worthy as a conquest? What's the minimum # on the HB scale that's considered worthy of a FR?
/r/seduction20/04/14 09:08 AM
2

My friends were clueless for months, and it drove me insane. I finally ended up giving them a number of PDF books and eBooks to read about pick up, and only one of them read any of them. But about 3 or 4 weeks later he was at the level where we could both go out together and were a literal force to be reckoned with. Don't give up, try to educate your friends. At least one of them will step up to the plate
/r/seduction17/04/14 11:02 AM
1

I understand the philosophy behind it, and have done it myself a few times. The idea was to increase connectivity via anticipation. Did it work? Sure. Did those relationships last any longer because I waited? Nope.
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:41 AM
1

If no one else will say it, I will. You can't expect to attract women when you aren't comfortable with your life as an individual. Women like being with men who are confident and happy with themselves. You need to figure out where your anxiety comes from, and work through it. Getting laid won't give you the answers. If you don't have benefits or aren't willing to talk to a professional, try reading a book like No More Mr Nice Guy, or The Power of Now, then work through the various activities wit…
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:39 AM
4

This seems awfully passive aggressive. Why not just be honest? Let her know that you realize that she might have gotten the wrong impression due to poor framing, and move on?
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:33 AM
1

Well done. Your reports exude your confidence, wisdom, and show the genuine you have for the craft, not to mention life. I enjoy your writing. You should consider creating a guide. Thanks for your thoughts
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:02 AM
2

I'd have asked her to turn off the movie and to talk to me. Get her to make you a drink and connect a bit more. When there's guaranteed eye contact, it's much easier to escalate
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:54 AM
2

I don't know if I want to fuck a lion or gnaw on a HB10's leg.
/r/seduction31/03/14 02:09 AM
1

Text when you want to text, call when you want to call. There's no "rules" But make sure you are communicating with her because you have something to say. Don't just text because you want a response.
/r/seduction30/03/14 12:16 PM
1

I'll take one
/r/seduction29/03/14 11:01 AM
0

Tough to open groups that are on their way into a movie where no one will talk for a couple hours. I'd look for any single girls on their own, who are at standing somewhere prominent, and are looking around. Then open them like they are your date for the movie and you've just found them waiting for you. Steamroller over their first few objections with your momentum, then appear surprised when they correct you that they aren't who you thought, escalate and get them to accompany you to the movie a…
/r/seduction29/03/14 10:51 AM
1

You don't know her or what's actually happening with the boyfriend. She could be not dating him anymore but the families are long term friends, so they haven't said anything yet. She could be miserable with him. Don't eject and reframe, just go on the damn date. And enjoy yourself.
/r/seduction29/03/14 10:16 AM
2

You need a FTW tattoo on your stomach. That's easy to get, and alpha as fuck. Helps you get laid, but your eventual wife will make you laser it off
/r/seduction29/03/14 10:08 AM
1

There are no warmups. Approach. Everyone. Don't wait to be intimidated. The more you open, the more you'll open. It gets easier and easier. Once spring is in the air its infectious. The girls are just waiting to be approached. They're as eager as you are!
/r/seduction23/03/14 12:20 PM
1

Anyone have a guide for being the instigator? I always find actually breaking up with a gf to be difficult. Love to find a guide that triumphs maturity and indefatigable wisdom versus blunt cruelty. I always try to be a nice guy and let em down easy, but it often ends up with them trying to convince me to stay, and I have to pull the eject pretty bluntly
/r/seduction16/03/14 09:43 AM
1

Tuck one hand into a pocket, leaving the thumb out, and use the other as a way to embellish stories. Also take the opportunity to touch her arm or hand, to rest it on her waist, etc
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:22 PM
1

Hey, at least you're humble when you're called out on it. It's a great first step
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:50 PM
1

Great FR. As for why she left even if she was into you, is because a) she knows that there's little more than a hook up possible (as shes travelling from Canada) and b) her friend clearly takes precedence if she's actually going to a hospital in a foreign country. Don't take it personally. Imagine if one of your bros had cut himself or otherwise needed emergency care... would you dump him to hookup with a chick, or help him to the hospital? Sure its a bummer, but at least this way you can rememb…
/r/seduction12/03/14 03:40 PM
2

Great lessons and takeaways. Leave your phone in your pocket unless you're getting a number.
/r/seduction11/03/14 11:29 AM
3

At least you got an answer! I'd heavily suggest laying off smiley faces
/r/seduction11/03/14 10:42 AM
9

Awesome FR. Way to 1up the other dudes and them keep the girl on your side when she helped you find your phone.
/r/seduction02/03/14 12:21 PM
0

If you don't have 15000 plus tweets and aren't Yeezy, you're doing it wrong. =)
/r/seduction01/03/14 10:39 AM
17

Video of an attractive woman talking about her own breasts, wears baggy misshapen shirt with no detail. Gotta be on purpose to keep it from becoming a fap video, right?
/r/seduction21/02/14 11:27 AM
1

If you picked her up at a mixer, she's interested. I'd do as you say. Keep text light, then pick up the phone and call her. Chat for however feels natural, and reestablish rapport. Ask her on a date using that language. If you are confident enough, phrase it as a statement vs a question, ie, "Really enjoying getting to know you, this is fun. Let's continue this chat over dinner"
/r/seduction19/02/14 11:24 AM
1

The best way to avoid this sort of rep is to expand the number of venues where you hang out. Your regular spot is clearly becoming a bit saturated with other regulars who know your MO. It can often give your an advantage if you adopt a DGAF attitude, but since you say you don't want the rep, just start hitting up some other bars and clubs that are not within walking distance of your regular spot
/r/seduction19/02/14 11:19 AM
1

I take that sort of comment as a challenge. Get her number and call her up, and chat for an hour. If it goes well, flat out say "this is going great, let's continue this over dinner" Works 3/4 times if there's rapport
/r/seduction19/02/14 11:12 AM
1

If you enjoy spending time with her, go ahead. But it sounds like all you want is to fuck. If it's not worth your time to reduce her resistance over possible another handful of dates, next her and find someone more dtf. Personally I'd invest the time in date and let things progress naturally. Since she knows you are interested in sex, and still wants to hang out with you, it's fairly obvious that she'll give in, and is also ok with it. It's just a question of her comfort level. So don't be outco…
/r/seduction19/02/14 11:10 AM
1

Its good for a beginner because it offers a quick in, memorising openers, lines, and games that net results. However, many of the techniques are either dated, or so mainstream that girls will sometimes actually accuse you of being a PUA. Current stuff is more organic and focuses more on confidence plus flexibility.
/r/seduction19/02/14 10:07 AM
4

Spend a few days in Sweden. Girls there always told me I was warm and friendly, not entitled and boring like Swedish men. I pulled consistent 9s my entire time.
/r/seduction19/02/14 04:02 AM
3

I'll often type something like "lol, no, the black salty kind" or some random non sequitur. She'll often say something about forgetting what we were talking about, and assume she was already talking to you at an earlier time. This works well with Tinder because girls frequently will have a number of conversations open and close them, forgetting what the conversation was about.
/r/seduction19/02/14 03:57 AM
1

Depending on your level of seduction skill, I usually stay completely clothed and undress her as things progress. She often ends up totally naked and vulnerable before I get naked. I also try to focus on making her feel good, delaying moving to her nipples or groin until I know she's wriggling with anticipation
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:32 AM
18

Awesome. Day game is effective anywhere tbh. I spend more time honing this than clubs of bars. Chicks are way less defensive during the day, and easier to close. You also have pretty much zero competition and it's not so loud that you have to yell in each others ears.
/r/seduction19/02/14 12:28 AM
1

Call instead of text. Or frame a text asking her what's she's doing, and if she's not at work or busy with friends, dial away. Much easier to get dates when you are confident verbally, as you can reframe your rapport from when you met, and it's easier to get an agreement to a date when you are in a conversation
/r/seduction01/02/14 01:51 PM
1

Yep. Totally agree. Seems like you were really aggressive and moved things along quickly. I normally prefer to try and take these sort of dates as far as I can in a single serving. Try to bring it all the way to an f-close, because the resistance you get once she catches her breath makes it tough to reframe a second date. If you are looking for a more longer term, repeat engagement, sort of relationship or fwb, try being a bit more mysterious. Still kino, etc, and go for a k-close near the end o…
/r/seduction01/02/14 01:29 PM
2

This article seems like the way anyone picks up a girl, there doesn't seem much of a "seduction technique" IE, this reads like you want to find a girlfriend. Not that there's anything wrong with that, but it definitely seems to be a "Common sense to dating girls" guide vs a PUA Master's Course
/r/seduction23/01/14 12:41 AM
1

Wasn't trying to slight your progress in your FR. Just mentioning that there's some quality stuff out there that's more up to date, and because it's way more organic, it will get you even more consistent results.
/r/seduction15/01/14 04:19 AM
1

Meditation is way more effective than mild to moderate. Get into it a bit more deeply and learn to sit for at least 20 minutes a day, but 30 or more really has a deep effect. Getting past that barrier ensures you'll always have a shift in your thought patterns during a 30 min session, greatly increasing the positive effects of sitting.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:48 AM
2

The Game, The Mystery Method, and to some degree Magic Bullets, all rely on canned openings, peacocking, memorized content and repeated routines. Also involved negging etc It's sort of considered an antiquated technique these days, replaced with more organic methods like Models by Mark Manson, as the older Mystery Method sort of became easy to spot and identify in the field by girls, mostly because the PUA world got so popular and in the spotlight after The Game was pretty widespread. It's defin…
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:38 AM
6

Go to events that put you in a position where you are sharing techniques or advice on something you excel at. Sounds a bit wordy and clumsy, but any situation where you are sharing a skill you are comfortable with will attract a number of women of all ages. I'm in my 30's, and still regularly land girls in their low twenties. I'll often attend Meetup events based around outdoor hobbies like hiking, white water canoeing, etc, which I've been mastering for years, and genuinely enjoy. These sort of…
/r/seduction12/01/14 02:34 PM
2

I don't even think you have to keep things to just sex, provided the hangouts always culminate with fucking. It's the emotional framing that you have to avoid. Don't share anything deep and meaningful, and if she tries the same, look bored, or distract her into making out etc.
/r/seduction08/01/14 12:26 PM
8

Its the only way to be sure.
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:53 AM
1

It's not finding alternatives to what you can "get away with" The girl won't be remotely comfortable doing this in Dubai, so it's not a good suggestion. As suggested elsewhere, engage her privately You can still guide her through a door with a subtle hand on her back, just dont let it linger
/r/seduction15/11/13 11:38 AM
7

Exactly. It all boils down to not "trying" to try. It's easy to score the girls you aren't interested in, because they are doing all the work, basically they are playing the role of the AFC, and you are the disinterested HB10
/r/seduction11/11/13 02:18 AM
1

Braddock's text guide is also quite useful
/r/seduction09/10/13 09:07 AM
1

I feel your pain. I quit drinking 6 months ago. I still miss the taste of beer more than the alcohol, but even if I drink alcohol free beer, I still get hangovers from the gluten.
/r/seduction23/09/13 09:49 AM
7

Flip a coin.
/r/seduction13/09/13 10:41 AM
2

Can confirm. A coworker of mine is 50, losing his hair, has a pot belly, and looks like a bag of smashed assholes. He cleans up when we go out and consistently closes HB8 30 something's on Web dating sites
/r/seduction11/09/13 10:14 AM
11

Tell her she's not Mila Kunis
/r/seduction08/09/13 04:57 PM
2

Yep.. Just Google Tao of Badass flowchart. It's the best part, and fully self explanatory. The book just goes into a bit more detail on each step, not really necessary
/r/seduction06/09/13 09:37 AM
13

I would have bought it and tucked it in her hair/behind her ear
/r/seduction04/09/13 01:35 PM
11

Did you buy the flower? ;)
/r/seduction04/09/13 12:55 PM
-5

You shouldn't need to explain yourself is what I'm saying. Let her wonder if it's a joke, and if she asks, you can be as vague as you need to in the situation. Makes things great when using humor to sexually frame the conversation when you can steer it toward being serious or a joke, as you see fit.
/r/seduction31/08/13 03:41 PM
-2

I avoid these all together. They come across as childish filler, like you're insecure with what you are saying that you are worried that she won't take something humorously when it's intended that way. Be confident and efficient in your text game and you won't need them.
/r/seduction31/08/13 01:30 PM
10

I always prefer doing the triangle technique (look from her eyes to the corner of her mouth, dart to the other corner, then back to her eyes).. Repeat. Once you know she's interested, I'll usually say "It's ok" She says "what's ok?" Me: "It's ok, I want to kiss you too" kiss
/r/seduction26/08/13 09:24 AM
1

Aw yeah, wakeup, yeah!
/r/seduction25/08/13 10:16 AM
30

Some good stuff in here... had a tough time getting past how goddamn tight his pants are. You can see what brand of phone he has in his pocket. Lol.
/r/seduction24/08/13 03:24 PM
1

There's a way to measure this though. If she goes out of her way to serve you, that's one sign, but she'd also have to do things like giving you discounts or free shit. If I'm curious about a potential with a regular server, I'll just only top respectfully. (%15) and if she's still taking more than usual time/attention with me, she usually has a higher level of attraction
/r/seduction23/08/13 10:24 AM
1

MM is great for any AFC with massive AA and zero game. Relying on canned openers, memorized routines, and practiced "tricks", it'll help the most closeted AFC boost their confidence level. Once they feel that comfort, they can quickly leave it behind and learn/apply the more flexible modern methods.
/r/seduction22/08/13 10:27 AM
0

I don't feel the need to match you, going through each of your points to form quoted rebuttals, but I will stand firm on my side of the argument: that while the article contains points of merit, the style and vocabulary used to express them does little to rescue males from the stereotype of being pigheaded chauvinists, and from the pigeonholing of how women are supposed to enjoy being dominated - that's primarily what I take issue with. I wasn't white knighting in any fashion, nor was I assuming…
/r/seduction20/08/13 12:02 AM
-4

It's a way of life, not the way of life. Fuck RSD. Any any girls who want to fuck in a backseat aren't the type of girls I'd want my dick anywhere close to anyways. It's all a matter of opinion and perspective. You believe that you need to be a collar popped, mirror shaded, AMOG to be a successful PUA, whereas I believe its possible to be a gentleman without being a beta AFC. I'll gladly continue closing hipster cuties and leave the spray tanned ginettes to whomever enjoys F-closing girls in bac…
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:01 PM
-6

Heh. Mine's no system. It's a way of life. Applies to everything, the honeys are just one part that enjoys such attention to detail.
/r/seduction19/08/13 02:09 PM
2

True. I guess I just felt like the vocabulary used in the article conjures up a really cheesy, insensitive, Porn star versus an attentive lover. Once the lights are off (or you leave them on) there's not reason you can't be come a bit less alpha and just enjoy yourself. It's a sure thing, you're alone with this girl, there's no reason to be selfish. And it feels like this article puts significant emphasis on the actual p in v portion of sex, versus the whole experience. And ask many girls, they'…
/r/seduction19/08/13 11:54 AM
32

I'm sorry, but most of this "system" is incorrect. Making love/fucking isn't rocket science. If you take your time, and read/monitor how a girl is doing, there's no reason for any "system" Most guys rush to get to P in V. Most girls enjoy sex because of the "emotional connection" they get with being with their partner. For most guys, sex is about orgasm, for most girls, orgasms are just something that might be a pleasurable side effect of sex, but not essential (esp with a first time) When you a…
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:45 AM
2

Different girls have different erogenous zones, or at least ones that are more or less sensitive. She knew that if you got your hands or mouth under her bra that she'd be helpless to resist sex. Chances are her breasts are hyper sensitive and she knew that'd put her over the edge. But by letting you downstairs, so knew she (and you) would enjoy yourselves while she was able to maintain composure, and more importantly, control over the situation.
/r/seduction16/08/13 10:09 AM
1

Montreal is awesome because french women are so much more receptive to being gamed.
/r/seduction16/08/13 10:02 AM
1

This. It's social proof that Asian women (especially those who were born overseas) to are always in a relationship. Even if they aren't. They can use it whenever they want to push you away, without seeming impolite.
/r/seduction16/08/13 09:57 AM
41

Is that worse than you texting 5 girls, and being the big dick guy for all of them?
/r/seduction16/08/13 09:45 AM
3

Shit. I better get mod status. =)
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:56 PM
33

Somewhere, deep within the bowels of /r/feddit, a girl is virtually high fiving her fellow lionesses about closing a HG using the patented "boob press" maneuver, and successfully playing dumb when called out buy her target a drink.
/r/seduction14/08/13 05:19 PM
0

I enjoy how the best of these articles always stress daily meditation, yet no one really discusses this. For me daily sitting is the single best thing I've ever started adding to my life
/r/seduction14/08/13 12:15 PM
5

No, this is true. But people will often jump on an incoming text from a HB rather than letting it stew
/r/seduction07/08/13 02:07 PM
3

Just to see how it feels
/r/seduction03/08/13 03:15 PM
1

Beat me to it.
/r/seduction01/08/13 05:54 PM
2

Read BDSM 101 by Jay Wiseman, and the new guide to topping (and the bottoming version if you want her viewpoint better explained) You might not go the whole route, but it does explain a bit more of how the power play works, and how to make sure respect is maintained
/r/seduction28/07/13 02:17 PM
2

Write it in the sand somewhere undisturbed, and come back for it
/r/seduction27/07/13 12:52 PM
1

Did you post an FR of this interaction? If not it might give us a better scene to help you change the frame
/r/seduction23/07/13 11:15 AM
1

Yeah. Be glad you dodged this bullet. She also sounds like she likes to "top from the bottom", to put things in BDSM terms. She ran the whole play, from start to finish. Once she got what she wanted, and things became "real", she tossed you like a used kleenex
/r/seduction18/07/13 10:20 AM
3

Its called love. You never know when it'll strike. For me, it was ten years between the two girls I've fallen for.
/r/seduction17/07/13 10:53 AM
3

Easy reason you were having issues. Raves aren't a place to pick up. Most people go to them to dance while fucked up, girls and guys. While there's an opportunity to maybe pull someone, it's not usually best to go straight for the dance floor. Find the sets (mixed) sitting around chatting, and open them in a friendly manner. Once you show social proof, then you can start to go after your target. But the very essence of raving is to dance, not pickup, so you'll have to play the long game.
/r/seduction15/07/13 07:52 AM
9

You're over thinking things. Open the whole set, and get validation from the guys, while ignoring most of the girls, especially your target. As you guessed, drinking is a poor crutch that you can quickly start to rely on, then require, as you continue to practice your craft. Know that the more confident you think you are, the more apparent to others that you are becoming inebriated. Don't drink, and use the fear to keep yourself sharp. It'll always be there in an approach. Learn to rely on that …
/r/seduction12/07/13 09:40 AM
1

She also might simply not be the sort to randomly hookup with guys who she isn't exclusive with. I've had friends who'll make out like no tomorrow, but won't escalate any further because we aren't exclusive. These are usually good friends whom I care about, so I have no problems with their boundaries.
/r/seduction11/07/13 07:47 PM
1

Its also a good opener in this situation because their drinks were empty, and OP observed this.
/r/seduction08/07/13 10:09 AM
1

Its not even necessarily about sex. It's about protecting their children from emotional entanglement, since children are so quick bond with people their primary caregiver publicly displays affection for. Mothers are women to their dates. They aren't mothers, they are keeping that side private and enjoying the separation. Not only is it a healthy distinction for them to feel attractive as a woman, but it also provides that level of emotional security to protect their children's wellbeing. So yeah…
/r/seduction06/07/13 11:00 PM
3

You are only ever having relationships with them not their kids. Any responsible single mom won't involve her children in meeting their dates unless both parties mutually decide to become more serious.
/r/seduction06/07/13 10:33 PM
10

Extra challenge.. Swap with her afterwards.
/r/seduction06/07/13 10:05 AM
1

Just take twice as long to text her than she does to text you. And call her to set up dates.
/r/seduction05/07/13 11:21 PM
1

The only other thing I'd supplement exercise with is regular meditation. If you read any of the PUA greats, you often see them mention it as a daily exercise they they embrace. Don't skip out on this. It's essential. Try starting here: http://zenmind.org/basics.html
/r/seduction05/07/13 11:06 PM
1

Glassboard is another excellent cross platform private group app with a Web interface as well
/r/seduction04/07/13 02:51 AM
1

Was only attempting to compliment your ideas and feedback with my own. Sorry for any misconception
/r/seduction02/07/13 01:12 PM
1

All this advice is great, but I still find that you have to focus on her 100% Don't try to close her. Just simply try to enjoy to enjoy her. Concentrate on making her feel good, without the actual goal of closing. She'll be able to smell that on you. In other words, stop trying to close. Appreciate the fact that you have a gorgeous responsive woman in your arms, and just let things flow. If you are doing it right, she'll close you. The longer you try to hold off from this stuff, the sooner it ha…
/r/seduction02/07/13 10:58 AM
1

Wait, so you only escalate in your car? I hope you aren't planning on getting laid there as well. Why haven't you gone back to their place, or yours? I always pulled the "I'll cook you dinner at your apartment" card. It's a perfect frame, plus they are always very grateful that I've cooked.
/r/seduction02/07/13 10:17 AM
1

The Tao of Bad Ass is pretty good, but to be honest, most of it is common sense. The part of found to be most valuable was the pickup process flow chart, and oddly enough, the author gave it away free so many times that if you Google image search "tao of badass" flow chart, you'll be presented with a bunch of hits. Just choose the largest one so it's easiest to read. You should be able to understand most, if not all of it, but if you are struggling, the book does break down each step in more det…
/r/seduction29/06/13 09:52 AM
1

It seems like you didn't even stick around till 8, which was when your initial plans were. It is possible she didn't check her phone or it was dead. You just assumed she got the text and agreed to the earlier time frame.
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:47 PM
2

You'd think that jealously would run rampant, but usually women in open relationships are much pickier, and therefore it ends up being pretty evenly matched
/r/seduction23/06/13 04:55 AM
1

I like his satchel
/r/seduction22/06/13 10:13 PM
1

The Tao of Bad Ass has an amazing flow chart. In fact, I think it's the strongest part of the whole book, and if you Google image search pretty much the first sentence in this comment, you'll find he's given it away online for free and it's easily found. Granted the book explains it in a bit more detail, but I feel the chart is fairly self explanatory on its own
/r/seduction19/06/13 09:10 AM
1

You are getting lots of flak in this thread, but of you were both drunk and not feeling it, no sense in trying to seal the deal. You could have escalated a bit or gotten some kino going, but if it wasn't your night, no worries. You'll get another chance, even if it's not with this girl.
/r/seduction19/06/13 09:07 AM
13

I'd add, for tone, talking from your chest instead of your throat.. To understand this technique,put a couple fingers on your sternum, and change your pitch slightly until you feel your chest vibrate. This lower pitch is easy to learn to default to, and has much more presence and masculinity
/r/seduction09/06/13 10:23 PM
1

Find a drink that has a more complex flavor profile but has no alcohol. I usually order soda water with a lime wedge, and 6 dashes of bitters
/r/seduction09/06/13 07:01 PM
3

The big difference is that the populace stays the same, so you have to really be on your A game. If you open a set and you crash and burn, all the other girls are gonna hear about it. Gotta be much more strategic, and make sure you are proofed by your peers on a regular basis
/r/seduction25/05/13 10:25 PM
1

See? You should stick things in your ears more often.
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:38 PM
1

Was it an HD9? (Hot Doctor )
/r/seduction17/05/13 05:10 PM
1

Buy a pair of Etymotic ETY Plugs. Different colour combos, keychain case.. As an ex raver and ex DJ, I always get compliments on them. Scientifically designed to block loud music and noise, but allow voice. Detachable leash connects them should you wish. Around $15 shipped Edit: the ETYs stick out of your ear a bit, if you want to spend some coin on the musician ones they are flush, with custom noise protection levels
/r/seduction17/05/13 04:39 PM
3

What store brands do you recommend that accommodate a bit of girth? I always find mose condoms fine for length but so tight at the base that they cut off circulation and ergo, erection.
/r/seduction14/05/13 12:51 AM
1

Unless you are at clubs with no people in them, where the dance floor is sparse, you don't really need to know how to dance. But I understand your hesitance. Can you step to a rhythm at least? Its a good place to start. Also, searching "how to dance at a club" on YouTube produced a ton of hits, mostly douchey content, but sadly that's the normal style.
/r/seduction13/05/13 10:21 AM
1

"Writing this as a girl asked me to dance and I said no.." ... Are you actually posting on Reddit while you are out at a club?? Get off your phone unless a girl is typing digits into it
/r/seduction12/05/13 07:50 AM
2

Add a monacle to ensure you have a monopoly on all the girls in the club?
/r/seduction12/05/13 07:40 AM
20

Pro Tip: provide a warm washcloth, screw a roll of TP
/r/seduction05/05/13 12:59 PM
1

This always reminds me of the Wiser Whisky Commercial entitled "Purse" https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DuScm9FZPmQ&feature=youtube_gdata_player
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:07 PM
84

Sounds like he smoked before posting too
/r/seduction03/05/13 05:03 PM
2

I love events like these. Every date is an opportunity to reinvent yourself. I'm an astronaut, then a racecar driver, then a spy.. You only have moments to make a connection. Be fun and mysterious, and you'll have dates to spread out over the next month or more.
/r/seduction03/05/13 10:09 AM
2

You don't need drugs. Just meditation
/r/seduction27/04/13 04:21 AM
1

Again, its all about comfort zones. Regardless of what level of comfort you have with a coworker on a verbal level, there is a certain level of safety and respect that is implied. Touching her inappropriately on a physical level with an action that indirectly "disarms" her breasts to a woman is akin to touching her breasts directly, due to the level of embarrassment that she feels when they are released. This is further magnified by the fact that she'd have to go to the bathroom to regather and …
/r/seduction24/04/13 09:07 AM
3

Clean, uncluttered/minimal, smells good
/r/seduction24/04/13 12:00 AM
1

Talk and physical actions are received differently. I'm not saying I necessarily agree, but he violated her physically whereas she was just talking.
/r/seduction23/04/13 05:55 PM
-5

Got slapped cuz its essentially sexual harassment. Regardless of how amiable you are with a coworker, undoing their bra crosses a line. Just be glad they didn't report you.
/r/seduction23/04/13 10:56 AM
-1

The most important thing for a girl is the same as for a guy. To present themselves as attractive. While clothing can help, it can also detract, causing people to instantly judge or assume things about you that aren't true. Dressing overtly sexually, especially for women, will cause AFCs to approach you in droves, all thinking they stand a chance because you are clearly "asking for it", detracting you from the type of guy you'd probably prefer hitting it off with. Dressing promiscuously lets mos…
/r/seduction07/04/13 12:51 AM
2

It could definitely use some formatting. Even some well placed line breaks would go a long way to making this easier to read
/r/seduction04/04/13 10:42 AM
3

Getting drunk and high dismantled what fragile confidence you are only still learning to build, and forced you into a kind of numb state of desperation. Always maintain self control, especially on first dates, but pretty much all the time. Moderation demonstrates you are an adult, and lets you keep your focus
/r/seduction02/04/13 05:02 AM
2

The ring might have been a fake, but you were respectful and enjoyed the fairly harmless situation you were in. Since you dropped the pressure of trying to seriously get with her, it let you practice and gave her the wonderful feeling of being desired. Nice FR
/r/seduction31/03/13 06:37 AM
1

Not only that, seems she was ready for a kiss earlier in the night when she cuddled and gave OP a cutesy face. Next time, just try to close. If she shuts you down, just pretend like it never happened. If she wants to still hang out and doesn't initiate some sort of "you have the wrong impression" speech, she's into you and knows you're intentions, but the moment wasn't right. Look for another opportunity and keep building up to it
/r/seduction28/03/13 01:23 PM
1

Dunno if it's alpha, but chances are good that if it's cold, she's already wearing my jacket, because like a gentleman I've noticed she's cold and offered it to her. I don't see that as AFC, just considerate. This scenario seems to play out like we are already on a date..I suppose if it was some random HB at a party, I'd use the other techniques mentioned here
/r/seduction28/03/13 01:18 PM
1

Also please read the side bar, there's tons of links in there too help you get sorted
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:28 AM
1

I wouldn't lay down in a dark room. You need to stay alert and focused. Keeping your eyes open and sitting close to a blank wall to stare at can help. Get an app like Meditation Assistant that will let you set a length of time, then sit at the same time every day. Focus on your breaths, in and out. Thoughts will cone.. Don't dwell on them. Let them pass from your head as easily as they arrived. Imagine your mind is a clear blue sky the thoughts are clouds drifting through it occasionally, unimpe…
/r/seduction10/03/13 03:48 PM
1

You don't even need an app like this. Just put a pattern or PIN lock on your phone. Its general good advice anyways in case you lose it.
/r/seduction05/03/13 02:57 PM
1

There's an ultimate texting guide by Braddock. I have studied it, but personally I find text game to be a bit tired. Since SMS is pretty much more normal than picking up the phone, the latter shows how different you are, that you don't subscribe to the status quo
/r/seduction03/03/13 08:20 PM
2

Its not just for gaming. Even with my platonic friends I rarely text more than a handful back and forth before calling. Its simply more convenient. Your phone is called a phone for a reason.
/r/seduction02/03/13 05:41 AM
7

I actually have a 3 text limit. If I exchange more than that in a row, I tell them I'm going to call and do so within 5 minutes. I don't have the time to spend an hour having a back and forth conversation when I could accomplish the same results with way more rapport from a 5 minute voice conversation. It also exudes how confident you are.
/r/seduction01/03/13 07:48 PM
11

I find that framing the call with text asking what they are up to, then telling them I'm going to call once there's some rapport happening. Girls will feel more obligated/happy to pick up the phone if they are already engaged in a conversation
/r/seduction01/03/13 07:18 PM
4

Back in university I ended up at a cocktail party that became a naked cocktail party. It just.. sort of happened, again, because of an exhibitionist girl. While it didn't blow out into a full-on orgy, a few people paired off in twos of threes, but for the most part it was great to just hang out naked, drinking. It was like all social pressure was gone.. people didn't want to leave at the end of the night, because they all were wistful that the magic atmosphere had to end
/r/seduction01/03/13 06:10 AM
2

Yeah, I'd keep it light. One of my favourites to use after a food conversation.. "Hey, I've got to run, but I've really enjoyed chatting with you. I'll grab your number and we'll continue it soon". Don't make it a choice. Be bold and maintain eye contact. Don't flinch or look away. 9/10 #close.
/r/seduction28/02/13 10:11 PM
1

I have to stress that this only really works if you hold eye contact and don't flinch. Its imperative to do this to show how confident you are in your convictions
/r/seduction21/02/13 08:41 AM
1

Yep
/r/seduction10/02/13 03:09 PM
1

Kino. Look it up.
/r/seduction05/02/13 12:58 PM
6

I'd talk candidly and ask her what bad kisser turned her off from it, then promise that you are much better. Then prove it.
/r/seduction05/02/13 12:35 PM
12

They can in Europe. NA is so behind in terms of being prudish.
/r/seduction27/01/13 10:32 AM
1

Awesome stories bro, only feedback I'd offer is to change the formatting a bit. Add punctuation, etc.. The second one especially is really difficult to read/follow. Break it up with some paragraphs and a new line whenever you have a new point or someone says something.
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:25 AM
3

Also take an opportunity to excuse yourself from them to look around the bar and see who else you can talk to. Regardless of your situation with these girls, you DHV by socializing away from your own group.
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:07 AM
20

No more an den!
/r/seduction27/01/13 08:03 AM
52

Or she lifted her head from his lap...
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:11 AM
1

Recently my mates and I have started playing a great new game. When we are at the bar, we all stack our phones face down in the middle of the table. First person to check their device buys a round for the whole group.
/r/seduction27/01/13 07:06 AM
1

I got in well with some female neighbors by making them all home made apple pies. Chicks dig guys who can bake
/r/seduction27/01/13 06:59 AM
20

When I was in high school, there was this girl one grade higher than mine. I had a crush on her for 4 years, from 9-12. At the final school dance, I was mortified, knowing full well if I didn't make a move I'd never get another chance. About an hour before the end I was still chicken in out, and I left in disgust. I actually lived across the road from my school, so went home, stole a Guinness from my dad's cooler, and went to the park nearby. I smoked a couple cigarettes, slammed the beer, and g…
/r/seduction27/01/13 05:59 AM
1

I didn't drink for a few years, and I always found it hurt me when I'd go on dates. The girl would always instantly be wary as to why I wasn't drinking alcohol
/r/seduction27/01/13 05:53 AM
3

I love reading FRs from the UK. Makes me miss home.
/r/seduction21/01/13 05:08 PM
1

Also, please don't call it a Beej. shudder
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:39 PM
1

I would add The Tao of Badass (if only purely for the flowchart) and Braddock's guide to Texting
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:37 PM
7

You could always do drop ins at other fitness clubs around the city. Think of the fee as cover, and you get a workout instead of having a few drinks. Win/win, plus you can schmooze at your hearts content.
/r/seduction21/01/13 04:34 PM
1

I love turning my face, tapping my cheek, and asking a girl to kiss it. When she gets close I whip around and she kisses my lips instead. I then get fake upset at her "What do you think you are doing kissing me, I don't even know you" etc. Once she is truly shocked and starts to apologize, I scoop her in close and kiss her deeply.. They never pull away.
/r/seduction19/01/13 06:33 PM
8

I'd try expanding this issue in r/relationships. You ought have used game to get her, but it's not really the best technique for keeping her.
/r/seduction19/01/13 09:33 AM
2

Why even post if you don't plan on acting on it? Life is too short to not be yourself.. you might enjoy it and be happy. Man up and man up.. if you don't enjoy it, you can move on.. No need to advertise your results, no one will be any wiser unless you share
/r/seduction12/01/13 01:02 PM
2

Exactly... This is a forum to share helpful techniques, lines, and tips that are proven effective. While the lesson is important, specifics are an essential part of a good FR. Keeping them to yourself is considered a bit rude
/r/seduction12/01/13 12:59 PM
3

Great FR. Boy really sure what having a dip in your/your friend's lip does for the story..
/r/seduction12/01/13 11:43 AM
1

Braddock has a pretty decent guide, if you want to invest some $. Not in any way endorsing, but it's been recommended a few times in a few places, and I've found it useful http://www.phoneandtext.com/a/
/r/seduction10/01/13 04:34 PM
5

I always like framing the kiss so I know if it's going to be well received or not. Moving your eyes between her lips and her own eyes will put her in the mood, then I'll just randomly say "It's OK." She'll ask what's OK? Then I'll respond "it's OK, you can kiss me. I want to kiss you too" Note that I only use this technique if I'm not able to read her properly. Usually escalating Kino will let me know that it's fine to just kiss her without asking, but you gotta have aces in the hole for when yo…
/r/seduction07/01/13 07:01 PM
2

I deleted FB a few years ago. It sure sounds alpha as fuck when someone asks if they can add you, and you say that you don't use that shit. I will also admit that it seems to have become the norm for creating and inviting people to events however. I've missed out on a number of ops because I don't have a profile, and people don't take the time to invite me via text or email
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:57 PM
1

No. If you disable it, and log back in at any time during 2 weeks its re enabled.
/r/seduction04/01/13 02:54 PM
2

I usually frame it I advance. Let her know she can stay to sleep, but that I have to work out early the next morning, so she'll have to leave when I do.
/r/seduction01/01/13 04:47 PM
13

You can always pull the classic "Hey, xxx, report cards are being issued for text back skills, and you are getting an F" That's worked to re spark a conversation every time I've used it.
/r/seduction28/12/12 02:20 PM
1

I'd like to know how to friend zone girls I'm not into without actually losing them as friends.. because we all know that the ones we don't want are the ones we usually end up getting.
/r/seduction25/12/12 05:23 AM
1

Good on you for being honest. Quick tip, don't use smileys when texting girls. Also check out Braddock's text guide. Well worth the investment . It'll improve your ability to DHV and keep the curiosity about you while you wait for date night. Pretty essential when trying to pull girls from outside your local area.
/r/seduction19/12/12 04:37 PM
2

Since OP mentioned Zen Buddhism, I'd recommend Hagakure, a book on the Bushido code. It's much closer to what's he's already studied. It embraces the simple philosophy that you live every day like it could he your last. Here's one of my favorite quotes from the book. “There is something to be learned from a rainstorm. When meeting with a sudden shower, you try not to get wet and run quickly along the road. But doing such things as passing under the eaves of houses, you still get wet. When you ar…
/r/seduction16/12/12 05:55 PM
1

Not sure if meetme only displays women around your age, but I got a huge list of HB4's and below for my area. And all over 30 too. Busted ass women. Removed the app immediately
/r/seduction16/12/12 08:57 AM
2

I always find that a two handed handshake can help here, with girls and guys alike. Resting your second hand around their hand, forearm, or shoulder can quickly create rapport vs a simple polite one hander and set you apart right away.
/r/seduction11/12/12 12:55 PM
11

I've studied it before.. It skips any sort of oral foreplay (which I feel is an essential step to building trust), but the kino escalation is definitely down to a science
/r/seduction07/12/12 04:35 PM
40

Great intro. The sex escalation guide seems a bit rushed as far as time frames. I'd say just start making out and teasing her a bit. Aka, initiating stopping kissing for a few minutes, but still staying close to her face with yours will have better results for escalation. Once you show that you aren't desperate, and you can take it or leave it, she'll realize how confident you are, and she'll pounce on you.
/r/seduction07/12/12 03:46 PM
2

I've found the Tao of Badass to be pretty helpful. He's got some great techniques.
/r/seduction04/12/12 06:20 PM
1

If a guy can't afford to replace his phone for under 100 bucks, and wants you to seduce a girl for him, just steal her for yourself. Lesson learned!
/r/seduction03/12/12 01:25 PM
2

Been lurking for a long time, only been actively single for a few months now.. Thanks for the kudos. Upvotes for you!
/r/seduction21/11/12 05:56 PM
11

It is in the book, but it was also offered as a "free download" to people who signed up to his email listing, ergo, its as easy as this to find: http://www.thetaoofbadass.com/a_infographics/attractionguideflowchart.jpeg
/r/seduction21/11/12 05:46 PM
1

Feet slightly wider than shoulder width apart has a very strong masculine vibe, and also let's you command/own more of the space around you.
/r/seduction21/11/12 03:32 PM
4

He has a blueprint/road map for seduction, a flow chart. It's pretty easy to track down, and has some great tips. One of my faves is his kiss close routine. It ends with the line "it's ok" She looks back at you "what is?" You reply "You can kiss me, it's okay, I want to kiss you too" I have a 90% success rate with this line provided you've followed the steps previously laid out.
/r/seduction21/11/12 03:19 PM
1

Did I miss your report? I didn't catch it... :)
/r/seduction15/11/12 01:40 AM
1

It's easy to make a girl fall for you. Just be completely disinterested or not attracted to her. If she's into you, you are already half way there.
/r/seduction15/11/12 12:28 AM
2

Course. You came asking for help, the least I can do is try. #brosb4hoes
/r/seduction31/10/12 11:35 PM
2

Updates? How did it turn out?
/r/seduction31/10/12 11:04 PM
2

Sorry, I was on my tablet. Bolder. Edited for spelling :) As far as guides, there's a ton. Most people get into this sort of thing by reading The Game by Neil Strauss, which is more of an insider's novel than a guide. You can start with the classics like The Mystery Method, Magic Bullets, The Annihilation Method, or go straight to newer stuff like The Tao of Badass and John Alexander's How to become an Alpha Male. Most of these touch on body language, the newer ones a bit more so than the older …
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:53 PM
3

There is no "exact instruction" Every situation is different. If you work on your self confidence, you'll be able to get away with a bolder move, but even then, if you haven't been studying various guides about reading and using body language, it's still going to be more difficult. Simplest kino is to go for a cheek kiss, but put your hand on her hip while you do it, signaling that you control the action.
/r/seduction29/10/12 01:18 PM
2

Another straightforward approach. =) http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xyXplN23ALM
/r/seduction29/10/12 04:05 AM
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