shamshels Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Thoughts on long-distance? I think LDRs should really only be a temporary thing for people who are already in a committed relationship, where something comes up that forces them to be physically apart for some period of time. If you haven't known each other long and there's no end to the LDR in sight, what's even the point? It would you keep you closed off from pursuing other opportunities, for a guy you don't know well and possibly have no future with. Especially if you're young and in university, you'd probably be bette…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 03:48 PM
4	What are your personal pickme horror stories from hell? I was friends with a 30something ZVM coworker when I was 20 who obviously wanted to fuck me and would constantly make weird sexual comments, try to touch me or invade my physical space, etc, who was also an alcoholic who lived with his mom and had been at the same minimum wage retail job for the last 10 years. I cut him off because his weird backwards attempts to come on to me were getting too strong, and overall his immature sadboy loser routine was starting to really get on my nerves. Everyone…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 03:32 PM
7	How do you come to peace with the money you spent on an LVM? There's no use ruminating on past mistakes. Take it as a lesson learned and move on with your life, and be glad at least you know better now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/09/21 03:13 PM
1	Can we talk about daddy issues in men? The worst case of daddy issues I've ever seen was in a man I used to work with. His father had left when he was a kid, and he was aggressive, moody, and had substance abuse issues. Everyone at work knew his emotional issues were because he had abandonment and anger issues from his dad. It was pretty sad honestly. He ended up dying in a drunk driving incident.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 01:28 AM
2	If you weren’t convinced of how far men will go just watch this. This is why it’s advised to follow most if not all of the FDS rules He looks like he just crawled out of a dumpster. Maybe he should try channeling some of the time and energy he spends on being a scumbag into taking care of himself 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 12:40 AM
16	Why I only accept dinner dates when vetting a man. This is what snapped me out of being a pickme. I had a LVM who wanted me to plan everything, pay for my food, drive out to see him (he didn't have a car so I had to go pick him up, should've been red flag #1 😭), etc. I realized after one 'date' that if I was putting in all this effort, I'd literally have a better time just spending the day going out by myself and doing whatever I wanted to do.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/05/21 12:07 AM
14	Be careful with men who watch anime. Pay attention to lifestyles. I'm in my early 20's, and anime and video games are two of my top red flags. I used to be into anime in high school, and I honestly cringe looking back at the garbage I would watch. I was watching pretty mainstream stuff, and the vast majority of it still included tons of gross creepy sexual/fetish content. Anyone who's super into anime as an adult I try to distance myself from. Plus, at least for my age demographic, it seems like video game/anime/hentai/porn addiction all kind of go hand in han…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 11:51 PM
54	And this is why it's important to date a man who is trustworthy. I'm bisexual and have a high libido but have zero interest in dating or sleeping with men for this reason. Like there's some guys I'm physically attracted to but their attitudes and behaviors are complete turn offs.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/05/21 11:37 PM
118	Take your pick, ladies! - sobs Porn addict really shouldn't be it's own category, most of these guys are addicted to porn on top of whatever else they have going on 🙄	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/05/21 02:37 AM
116	I live in a van down by the river - is this a turn off? Yeah, I love backpacking and travel and do road trips out of my SUV right now, and I would absolutely love to get a van I could live in if I had the money. But you can't expect to easily meet somebody who will be on board for that sort of alternative lifestyle, and this guy also just sounds like a creep.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 02:04 PM
9	Are there any women in this sub that have completely sworn off men, dating, romance?!? 👩‍❤️‍👨 I'm bi, so it's a little different for me, but I've kind of given up on men. I'm focused on improving myself and trying to establish my career right now, and don't really have the time for dating or a relationship, but when I try to get back out there I'll probably only be looking for women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 07:17 AM