shar-marke Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How can I pull back in order to stop validation seeking and over pursuing?	Inner Game	shar-marke	/r/seduction	16/09/24 07:44 PM

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90	The text messages in AmIOverreacting sub have opened my eyes to how needy and intense a lot of guys are Look I get where you are coming from and it makes perfect sense. However this is ALL downstream from the fact that guys don’t have a lot of options. Dating apps are heavily skewed to certain men and approaching IRL is either taboo or not successful for a lot of men. So whilst I COMPLETELY agree with everything you have just posted, this behaviour is baked in scarcity and there are a lot of men who simply just don’t cut it for most women. So if this is the second girl who you have dated in a year…	/r/seduction	30/06/25 07:07 PM
4	Don’t Make The Mistake Of Going From Acting “Too Hot” To “Too Cold” Very important fellas!, if you review your behaviour and realise that you have been over pursuing due to neediness then pull back GRADUALLY. Dont go from responding every half an hour to responding every 12 hours otherwise people will sense the incongruence. What you need to do is go from half an hour, to a couple of hours and gradually pull back from initiating texting and let her take the time to reach out.	/r/seduction	26/10/24 12:12 AM
3	The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!) Im saying you will always look better with hair, I shaved my hair at 18 and spent 10 years being bald until I finally installed a hair unit, my only regret was not getting it done earlier.	/r/seduction	23/10/24 06:33 PM
9	The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!) I said “CONTROLLABLE” variables, of course height plays a part but nobody is willing to get leg lengthening surgery. As for a pretty face its the most important attraction signal but how do you know if you have a pretty face if you haven’t gotten down to 10-13-% body fat? Yeah some people can pull off the chubby look but look online and you’ll that there are countless people who look like different people after loosing a ton of weight, Including myself.	/r/seduction	23/10/24 11:15 AM
22	The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!) I would say get down to the point in which your facial bone structure is clearly defined. Usually at this point you wont have much fat on your legs and the little fat you do have will be concentrated on your mid section. But as long as you have a LEAN face and you dont have a protruding stomach then you are good to go. Its been scientifically proven that people make judgements of your facial adiposity(fatness) as an indicator of your health and overall body fat. The face is the first thing they …	/r/seduction	23/10/24 11:12 AM
104	The Most Underrated Way to Skyrocket Your Physical Attractiveness (Most Men Ignore This!) Guys the biggest controllable variables when it comes to your physical attraction are your hair and body fat percentage.Once thats been locked in, skin health and teeth then follow. Once thats been locked in then your style(clothing) and fragrance follow. But please prioritise your BF% and Hair above everything else.	/r/seduction	23/10/24 10:26 AM
1	How can I pull back in order to stop validation seeking and over pursuing? I hear conflicting views on bring up the suggestion to meet up i.e If you are asking to see her again then you are once again validating that you want to be with her and can’t go without seeing her?? But solid advice nonetheless. Thanks	/r/seduction	16/09/24 08:52 PM
1	How can I pull back in order to stop validation seeking and over pursuing? I have a lot going on throughout the day, its just that after 8pm thats when we generally get to texting and calling throughout the night.	/r/seduction	16/09/24 08:50 PM