will make this as short as I possibly can

-I meet a girl at a wedding and 1 week later we go on a date and I go in for the kiss and handhold throughout the date and she reciprocates well.

-After the first date, we text continually and schedule another date in a weeks time in which I begin to get touchy feely within half an hour of seeing her again. We make out and chill and thats the end of it

  • After the second date, we text and begin having 2-3 hour phone calls between the third date which happened a week later.

  • Third date comes along and once again we start to get to kiss and make out (She never initiates this) and we have a great time

Now in between dates we have been texting daily and after the third date we have a 6 hour call in which I kind of insinuate that I am in to her and that I’ll consider dropping my other plates because I see something in her (KILLER MOVE I KNOW)

Now its clear to me that I’ve been seeking more validation then her and I have already began being a little vulnerable. Can anyone advise as to how I can gently pullback my attention and validation seeking without coming across as cold and completely uninterested given that we speak and text daily

All the above has happened within 3 weeks