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shared0/r/seduction21/05/22 06:08 AM
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5

or they’re gay. I think OP is a gay man though.
/r/seduction31/07/22 03:39 AM
10

You missed the point. From the post it seems he was already disappointed by her more than once. So no reason to show emotion in his response. A party is a whole nother context.
/r/seduction05/07/22 05:02 PM
8

Okay. Well it depends on how she perceived it I guess.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:33 PM
42

"Happy 4th to you too." And moved on after that. I'm not gonna show her how pissed I am because I couldn't meet her but also not give her the validation that she's seeking. But no need to say something hurtful. That's kind of pathetic no offense and like I said it shows you're pissed.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:22 PM
9

no.
/r/seduction05/07/22 02:16 PM
1

Not a girl but pretty sure you just have to follow rules 1 and 2.
/r/seduction05/07/22 01:29 PM
2

Yeah I understand that, I'm saying it's too deeply ingrained genetically that it's impossible to get a critical mass of men to act that way. They're always going to be blinded by sex no matter what you tell them about anything else.
/r/seduction03/07/22 01:02 PM
1

When guys will grow the fuck up and start having expectations and not be blinded by boobs or ass the shitty women will complain and get cats and the smart ones will upgraded themselves to what is expected. Unfortunately that's never gonna happen. It's genetic.
/r/seduction03/07/22 12:50 PM
11

True. It's because men need to be funny. It's a necessity. Women just need to, well, to be women. That gives them enough options on its own and so they don't need to offer that much besides that.
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:47 AM
0

"The real question is why aren't you like this?"
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:56 PM
1

I think this is why I'm just kidding though, but it's a funny video nonetheless.
/r/seduction01/07/22 12:30 PM
4

ppl Men*
/r/seduction30/06/22 09:48 PM
1

This is such animalistic behavior. Like you're somehow supposed to know who a random girl is with. If i were you I'd just say, "it's up to her why are you angry at me for. It's not like I'm taking her away from you by force or anything." .. i wouldn't even attempt to fight and just sort of get out of his way. If she wants to go with you she can and if she wants to stay with him she can, but he isn't allowed to threaten you.
/r/seduction28/06/22 05:09 PM
3

I'm 6'2. I don't think it's that hard to put my hands on a girl's waist. And bend down a bit. Not sure what you're complaining about.
/r/seduction28/06/22 11:15 AM
1

I tend to think of them as maybe legit but probably not. I would avoid them. Some of them are probably good people but I just have a distrust for them. They remind me of get rich quick schemes in the finance world I don't know why. Although they probably aren't nearly as bad though tbf. But still.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:38 AM
-6

Ask them what kinda milk they got.
/r/seduction28/06/22 07:34 AM
1

I need more problems like this in my life.
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:59 PM
2

We don't choose to get that much attention. It just happens. I really wasn't implying that. Nor was I saying it was anyone's fault. I'm just saying it's sad. You just have to accept that the more attractive the woman is the more competition there is going to be. It doesn't just go for the more attractive woman. There is also a shitload of attention for average women and men are expected to compete for them as well. Just not as much as the more attractive ones. Fucking nature really wanted to scr…
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:26 PM
2

I wasn't complaining about what you said, I'm just saying I hate how this is the reality. But we have to protect ourselves against people with bad Intentions. Don't get me wrong, I know how it is. I'm just saying it's really sad. For a guy to be trying to get any female attention at all, while.any female has like.you said attention from 700 guys, and any guy who wants a chance has to accept that he has to compete with 700 guys. It just seems so devaluing to us guys that it just hurts to think ab…
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:19 PM
1

Fix em
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:38 AM
2

Become more interesting than them, I hate how we men always have to be better than the other guy so that one of us can get what the other will be denied but this is virtually a non existent concept for women. We're the ones that have to fight so we can get the precious attention of the female. Pisses me off, and it's seen as perfectly cool. Yet you look at the female side and it's always them raising their own value, sometimes exaggerating and claiming how no man is good enough for them.
/r/seduction27/06/22 07:50 AM
1

Looks are more important unfortunately, especiallyif you're looking for hookups. Personality is definitely important especially for guys when it comes to dating especially. But overall it's more important for a guy to have a good personality to be successful than it is for women to have a good personality. Women focus on both, and want both, while men focus less on personality of women. But overall looks are more important.
/r/seduction26/06/22 05:02 PM
2

I know I was joking
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:11 PM
3

So what's your stepchild's name? Are you budgeting early on to take on this new responsibility?
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:19 AM
3

Lol no wtf.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:34 AM
2

Thanks!
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:26 AM
2

Understood, Appreciate the advice!
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:24 AM
2

Damn, you're right :D Cheers!
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:19 AM
3

Repeat after me: Okay She is not scary....she is just another human being....with hopes dreams and desires.....just like me ....she has no magical powers .....she is not going to stab me for asking "what kinda drink ya got ther"......I am some body worth knowing.....I have fun and funny things that happen in my life I can joke about just like she does.... Perfect copy paste hahahaha 😆
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:15 AM
3

I didn't mean to be negative, but meant to say it's not just scary because she might say no (although that might be considered a bit scary) but also might be scary if she says yes. Since you might just end up standing there like an idiot with nothing to say. I don't mean it as negative talk, but just explaining why it might be scary. It's not just for NOs.
/r/seduction25/06/22 05:06 AM
7

It's scary because they might say no, but it's also scary because they might say yes because than you have to be cool and witty and not boring and you might not be able to think of a funny joke or whatever on the spot.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:47 AM
1

Yeah, some states have it up to 4 years in difference while some states make it okay as long as one person isn't below 16 and the other isn't above 23.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:50 AM
1

You can fuck her if the age difference isn't wide enough.
/r/seduction23/06/22 04:47 AM
23

The average guy can't have a couple girls to be available at any moment to have sex with.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:59 PM
7

I can barely fucking approach a girl that looks nice and approachable without having an anxiety attack, let alone a girl giving me bitch vibes 🤣🤣 But I don't know why anyone would be giving me bitch vibes if they don't know me and I'm not bothering them. Fuck that person.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:37 AM
1

Romeo and juliet laws, look it up.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:34 AM
2

Look up Romeo and julliete laws. Depends on the state probably. And If they're in eruopean countries like the UK and Germany than 16 is consenting regardless how old the partner is.
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:32 AM
4

Isn't there probably like a Romeo and Juliette law in their state?
/r/seduction22/06/22 09:09 AM
3

So what's the actual problem?
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:51 AM
2

Probably richer.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:07 AM
-5

I mean, if you were Dan Bilzerian I'm not the best looking dude but I'm definitely better looking than that guy.
/r/seduction22/06/22 06:02 AM
29

Yeah and the having sex everyday with a different woman wasn't hard to believe?
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:35 AM
-19

As someone that has sex with a different woman everyday, I definitely don't watch porn. Infact I've never watched porn once in my life.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:27 AM
2

Not me. I'm 23 lol. I'm saying the average age of people here is 15 and a half.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:43 AM
6

Somehow he was supposed to know the 5th was gonna be it?
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:12 AM
3

I feel like tinder is an anomaly where unlike other things that take advantage of you, in this case it's only the men being taken advantage of. The company is getting what it wants and the women are getting what they want (ego boost and as many hookups with the specific guys they want) but the men are the ones being screwed.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:37 AM
1

The only app that got me more likes and matches was mutual, a Mormon dating app. Everything else was way less than tinder. Sucks rally considering tinder for me was not so great.
/r/seduction21/06/22 12:35 AM
0

Yeah that's exactly right. Pretty unfair.
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:47 PM
231

This experience isn't for above average girls but for girls who are below average as well. Maybe a bit less dramatic than your above average girl account but still. I don't understand why you're surprised though, this is a pretty well known fact.
/r/seduction20/06/22 11:56 AM
1

Both can get as much dick as they want.
/r/seduction20/06/22 04:15 AM
3

On seen. I have a colleague from highschool that's currently starting conversations and than responds once very month. I'm baffled as well. I don't see her as a potential date or anything btw but I still don't like it. You either talk or you don't. Even if you're busy you can find time to respond every other day at least. But fuck this shit.
/r/seduction19/06/22 09:39 AM
0

I don't hate desperate dudes. I feel bad for them. I'm a desperate dude actually (mostly because of where I live) and I don't hate myself. I also don't idealize or put women on pedestals because I actually have some self respect. I don't know why you would translate this to hating the guys that do that. You can shoot your shot and still not put the girl on a pedestal and glorify her just to get rejected in the end because we all know being a wimp, glorifying her and "being by her side" isn't a s…
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:29 AM
1

Bla bla bla
/r/seduction19/06/22 07:17 AM
4

I understand, good point.
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:16 AM
14

One thing I will say is when you’re with a female(family friend or partner) and you meet another female, that stranger will be a lot more friendlier to you than if you were there by yourself. It's almost like females are these extremely valuable high class individuals that other people (males and other females) will treat you better for merelbeimg associated with. I hate this fact of reality (to the extent that it is a fact).
/r/seduction19/06/22 03:10 AM
4

Why would I flirt with someone with a penis?
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:57 AM
2

But keep in mind this: reputation. If you're in a big city, and you'll never see this chick and her friends again, then whatever. But if this is like at a university, or a smaller town where word gets around, it is a pro move to cultivate a good reputation and avoid things like talking to other peoples' girlfriends and you create a reputation that works for you If it creates a bad reputation.... than why don't something that is bad at all? Just because no one's gonna know about it?
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:12 AM
1

Aight. It's time for a self inflicted hickey. Should have thought of this along time ago but I guess it's never too late!
/r/seduction18/06/22 11:42 PM
0

I thought you were talking about girls in this sub. So I misunderstood maybe.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:52 PM
0

Isn't that what the men wanna hear in this sub? I doubt any girl would think this way.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:43 PM
3

Women love holy cows, what are you talking about? Especially older women.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:42 PM
1

What do they wanna hear in this sub? Lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:40 PM
5

I think that would actually concert your attitude to a creepy attitude.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:38 PM
1

Holy cow.
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:35 PM
2

Aren't we all
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:13 PM
2

Gosh, I've been using it wrong all this time, I feel tempted to say it was autocorrect but I won't lie xD... thanks! <3
/r/seduction18/06/22 07:09 AM
5

I don't. I hate guys who do.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:16 AM
1

But hey - keep at it mate, one day you'll find some girl who won't leave and get your wish. Yes pleeeeaase 🥺 Later. Later man.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:15 AM
2

Thanks buddy, appreciate the support :) <3
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:14 AM
1

Bro that's r/dating or r/love shit. Not this sub. What the fuck?! This sub has to do with every type of seduction. Dating and hookups both, and any other. For a lot of us sex is an itch that needs to be scratched. Nothing more. Nothing less. That's sad. But maybe it is for some people. Not everyone. You act like you have nothing to do in life except worship some girl who slept with you. How do you exaggerate something so wildly?! Like honestly, all I said was chilling together sounds fun unless …
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:11 AM
1

How to spot a virgin lol. Heyy!! Not cool. K actually had sex once. Dude, sometimes you just wanna bust that nut and respectfully go back to doing what tf you want. Nah, I actually appreciate a girl's company if I like her. Okay if I'm busy than fine, but if I'm just chilling than I'd probably like it if she wanted to stay and chill with.
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:05 AM
3

It's always gonna be nerve wrecking ...Okay for me at least.
/r/seduction18/06/22 05:28 AM
20

Fuck em yes date em no
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:54 AM
2

Obviously if you have stuff to do than yeah I agree. But I'm talking about in general. If you don't have anything to do and you're just chilling at home. For me personally I'd love if she stayed and we chatted the whole time even if we're not fucking. But I would hope that she's fun at least.
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:12 AM
2

Yes I understand that lmao. My question is why would someone be so eager to have the girl leave. That's all. I know everyone is entitled to their preferences but I'm just asking about those preferences and we were discussing why or why not either Is preferable, even if that wasn't exactly the question of the post.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:21 AM
2

Ohhh okay, sorry about that. I felt it directed at myself for some wierd reason haha. But yeah you're absolutely correct!
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:41 AM
5

Since when does self respect mean disrespecting a whole gender and writing it off as useless beyond ones immediate personal satisfaction. Where the fuck did I even do that?
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:26 AM
1

I'm not needy. I never said I would even ask her to stay. It just means i would be cool with her staying if she wants to (and I would like that myslef) and it's literally mutual. (She'd be as needy as I am if I were actually considered needy in that case).
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:26 AM
2

So… if hanging out with her is the same as fucking her… according to you, why fuck her at all? Just hang out with her Is this your actual logic????? Maybe they are two different things that are both pleasurable??
/r/seduction18/06/22 01:24 AM
6

Okay so it's quite clear that you don't have much, if any, experience in dating. Yeah true. Only one lay and a few first dates. Have some self respect dude, is your time so worthless you would just spend it all on a bitch? How is this not self respect? If I don't enjoy her company than fine, but if I literally like her being around how is that disrespectful???? You're just wasting you're time. Unless your time with her actually serves a purpose, the fuck is "chilling" gonna accomplish but fuck a…
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:56 AM
4

Well I mean that's a good point. I've never had one. But if still like to figure out why it's a big deal right now 😂
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:48 AM
2

Why is it a problem? I would just let her stay as long as she wants. It's not like I'm paying for every minute she stays?! Unless I am busy, what's wrong with just chilling?
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:46 AM
-1

Well it's the same as fucking her. I'd fuck her if she was a bitch why wouldn't I hang out with her? As long as she isn't disrespecting me.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:45 AM
-8

You better change that logic fast or you’re going to end up with a hot low quality woman Why? I can’t lie I wanted to call you a simp so bad😂 How does it make me a simp? 🤣
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:38 AM
-19

I dunno man. If a girls hot than I actually enjoy her company.
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:25 AM
29

Why do you want her out? My God, I'd keep cuddling her and just hang out or watch a movie or whatever. Why are you so eager to get her out?
/r/seduction18/06/22 12:09 AM
2

Video chat app. Vc with random people.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:42 PM
0

Noooo It's only guys on there with occasionally a girl that will probably press next as soon as you find one.
/r/seduction17/06/22 05:22 PM
2

I know it sounds like a broken record at this point . Depending on luck is dumb wtf.
/r/seduction17/06/22 06:58 AM
5

Yeah well 95% of the time that's not possible, either for them or for yourself.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:40 AM
11

When I was on tinder I had the same experience. Set up dates just so they get delayed more than once and the conversations die down and they end up ghosting at some point.
/r/seduction17/06/22 12:31 AM
1

Don’t engage in answering personal information…that is a woman’s way of screening you out before you even have a date! What? Really?
/r/seduction16/06/22 10:22 PM
2

Damn bro. They really are mysteries. Maybe the options being plentiful for them has something to do with it. I dunno.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:54 AM
1

Its almost like men need to create a union to go on strike (not simp as much) but obviously that's impractical as any man will take advantage of the opportunity they receive. The presence of lesbian and bisexual women also shifts the supply curve of women go the left. I think there are less gay men than lesbian women.
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:21 AM
1

😣
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:16 AM
1

Good question 🤔
/r/seduction15/06/22 11:56 PM
9

Dude, I feel like women do these strange things all the time. I'm not sure why. It's confusing af and trying to interpret it is just impossible. If any girl reads this feel free to explain this behavior or why it happens 🤣
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:52 PM
1

Love the positive vibes.. Good luck out there mate!
/r/seduction15/06/22 10:43 PM
6

She doesn't want you to touch her? Isn't that a bigger alarm bell for you than not having sex? How are you even 'together' if she doesn't want you to touch her?
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:36 PM
1

Bs. Women stil have it easy after 30.
/r/seduction15/06/22 04:33 PM
1

Karen hair
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:44 AM
14

Females have life on easy mode dude.
/r/seduction15/06/22 03:42 AM
1

I hate how women can get away with this shit because men will always accept it. Imagine if a guy said anything remotely similar. ghosted/unmatched
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:27 AM
3

That sounds... kind of narcissistic.
/r/seduction15/06/22 02:09 AM
15

And most importantly rule 1 and 2.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:31 AM
5

Men here in, how would you like a woman to approach you? I'm not picky. Any approach works lmao.
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:46 AM
6

I'm pretty sure no one here can answer that question with such little context. Maybe try not waving though?
/r/seduction14/06/22 03:23 AM
45

In order to actually like the guy, it's gonna be looks.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:55 AM
0

Wrong answer.
/r/seduction14/06/22 01:55 AM
2

What I'm trying to say is, even if she is expressing interest, are you really okay with fucking a girl who's in a relationship? Would you like it if you were in the other guy's position?
/r/seduction13/06/22 09:33 PM
2

Ummmmm, she has a boyfriend though.... isn't that enough for you?
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:41 PM
8

Yeah, if....
/r/seduction13/06/22 06:51 PM
2

Some? Gosh shouldn't this be illegal everywhere?
/r/seduction12/06/22 03:06 PM
1

Thanks :)
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:24 PM
2

I used to go to a country dance place and all I knew about country music was that I didn't like it at best and I hated it at worst but I still went just because it was the best place to meet girls and ask them to dance. I would have had many opportunities to date girls if it hadn't been for me leaving traveling, but the point is going to a dance can be a good way to meet women and even if you don't know how to dance (which I certainly didn't) you should try and overcome if you want to maximize y…
/r/seduction11/06/22 05:11 PM
3

Everyone's story is different bro. Even if the general problem is similar. Stop being an A hole.
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:56 PM
-2

I call bullshit.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:41 AM
2

That probably wouldn't work once per year let alone 365 days of the year. Unless you're a girl than yeah, it'll work probably work 365 times per year.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:53 AM
-1

What do you even talk about at the club for more than 1 hour? Because it's not like your talking about regular life issues or what you're majoring in and stuff like that. So what are the topics that would keep you engaged the whole time. You're not gonna be only kissing and flirting for more than one hour are you?
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:49 AM
5

Or just get with guys instead Sucks how it's much easier to have gay sex than it is to have straight sex.
/r/seduction11/06/22 02:38 AM
-1

Thanks
/r/seduction11/06/22 01:00 AM
-6

Without paying for it.
/r/seduction11/06/22 12:53 AM
1

Interesting. Tbh I think i feel your situation. Not just for girls but in general. A shift from dealing with a particular issue normally to over analyzing it and being unable to return to normal with it. Becomes sort of cultish.
/r/seduction10/06/22 10:36 PM
2

Ummmm that's only a requirement for men though. For women it's a bonus.
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:28 PM
1

But men have egos, and high value men need to feel like it was them that hunted, even if it was you that just wanted some fun and led them on... Nah. That's bs
/r/seduction10/06/22 06:26 PM
22

I'm pretty sure for a girl having sex everyday would be as easy as saying yes. But maybe the reason you're asking is because you're expecting everyone to assume you're only talking about sex with extremely attractive guys.
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:08 PM
3

Nah, they can still get average or above average guys
/r/seduction10/06/22 03:06 PM
1

r/sex
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:08 PM
1

Oh my gosh it's really difficult. Especially If there's no prospects of meeting in the near future. I've been in that situation and while the girl I met at an airport transit seemed very interested I could only keep her interested in me for so long after that. We talked for months but after that her interest gradually dropped. For me though she still lives in my head rent free 3 years on lol.
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:43 PM
2

"Hey do you wanna take me out sometime? Dinner's on you"
/r/seduction09/06/22 10:33 PM
2

This is so true.
/r/seduction09/06/22 08:18 PM
1

Damn, again.
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:09 PM
1

Alright bro haha 😄
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:20 PM
1

I didn't even say anything man. Why are you so angry?
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:17 PM
1

?
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:11 PM
2

Our interests are different.
/r/seduction08/06/22 06:03 PM
3

Wow I'm pretty clueless but honestly, good luck!
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:28 AM
1

Maybe the mods can have like a minimum reddit age to be allowed to participate. Also perma ban this person so that if they participate again with a different account they will receive a site wide ban.
/r/seduction07/06/22 11:01 PM
1

Alot of the times when I would stop texting and get back to them many days later they would ghost. Maintain contact with them so they don't lose interest or forget about you. Girls never have a shortage of men trying to get with them.
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:56 PM
4

Do you meet these guys on dating apps or irl...? Correct me if I'm wrong but I feel like there's no shortage of guys for women if they just use tinder (and i mean guys with different goals, hookups or dating etc).
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:52 PM
2

Would the guys you're after be considered very attractive?
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:40 PM
3

Lol
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:49 PM
1

How is it condescending? I apologize if it came off that way
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:03 PM
8

You literally said it doesn't come easily. You said it in your post not me. Now you're saying the opposite.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:56 AM
1

There's an app called tinder.
/r/seduction07/06/22 12:52 AM
2

Like the 15th time.
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:15 PM
1

Awwwww I wanna fuck like a rabbit 🥺🥺🥺
/r/seduction06/06/22 12:03 AM
1

Visit a Psychologist.
/r/seduction05/06/22 11:24 PM
1

Yeah I understand what you mean, haha the gossip sounds pretty funny, the fact that it would happen country wide I wonder what that's like ... but yeah man, best of luck to ya!
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:52 PM
1

Yeah I understand, but doing really well especially for a landlocked country though, although being in the EU tariff free zone probably helps massively. Would love to visit the country someday.
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:27 PM
3

Hey that's so cool. Luxembourg is rich af right? Richest country in the world. Can the average Luxembourganian afford a Lamborghini?
/r/seduction05/06/22 09:08 PM
3

حبيبي يسطي، ربنا يسعدك :) 3>
/r/seduction05/06/22 07:47 PM
2

Yeah still in college, medicine. I wish the same happens for you, but there's aways got to be some effort involved. Thanks bro! <3 , I'm just waiting to leave the country tbh. ~2 years left.
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:07 PM
2

You're gonna have to get out there and find social hobbies with women in it, I mean I was hoping college itself would be the place to meet women, as it was for you. Seems pointless if I have to find another setting to meet women when the one I'm already in is supposed to be that one lol. or your last hope - gawaz salonat. Gosh that's horrible. Not for me lol. Nope. That's too forward. I'm gonna keep it a secret for as long as possible till I graduate. I've been talking to this girl for a month a…
/r/seduction05/06/22 02:33 PM
2

Dude, they've been dating for only 2 weeks. I didn't see that part. I don't care if it's your tradition, but proposing so early is insanely stupid. It is insanely stupid. But I was just curious, which is why I asked. I was curious because possibly by getting engaged they could see each other more easily.
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:52 PM
10

Well damn, lucky you. I'm Egyptian as well and after 5 years in college I haven't even talked to a girl let alone dated lol. It's horrible. So if you guys are officially dating now have you considered proposing to her and making it official or?
/r/seduction05/06/22 01:35 PM
8

"Where does one find an honest get rich quick scheme?"
/r/seduction04/06/22 10:36 PM
6

Well this is wierd
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:57 PM
1

Ghost her back But honestly my simple explanation is I don't know, girls are wierd.
/r/seduction04/06/22 02:25 PM
3

It's extremely ridiculous that we always have have to be so careful not to say something wrong otherwise we lose the opportunity completely. Like I'm pretty sure this is solely a guy experience and it's pretty bullshit. Like what about when they say something stupid? But no ofcourse that's fine because they're not the desperate ones we are and online dating has already made it so that they can fuck up as many times as they want and still have endless options. Makes me sick tbh. And yeah I kinda …
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:44 AM
25

Last 23 years infact. And I've been alive since 1999 (1998 if you count the time I was a fetus).
/r/seduction03/06/22 11:48 PM
8

Nope. I would take advantage of that situation.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:59 PM
2

Happens to me sometimes during lectures and in public transit 😬💀
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:57 PM
1

I understand Bro. Same here. I honestly don't know what to tell you since I don't know the specifics of your situation. For me personally I got at least two years left until I can manage to leave my country since there's no sec to be had over here. But good luck out there man, don't give up!
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:57 PM
6

Depends on the accent. You're not getting any pussy wet with an Indian accent unfortunately.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:54 PM
3

Yeah, been that way for me too. Like should it really be this hard to have your basic physiological needs met?! Ffs.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:49 PM
4

I guess it depends on the specific accent. Some accents are viewed favorably some viewed kind of negatively. Which specific country are you from? I'm curious about what the accent sounds like.
/r/seduction03/06/22 10:18 PM
8

Fuck that. Men are the more beautiful sex 😭
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:46 PM
5

What the hell is the fairer sex?
/r/seduction03/06/22 08:11 PM
1

Their mere existence and the knowledge that I am out of their league gives me mental pain. Same :(
/r/seduction03/06/22 05:24 PM
3

Silly is being rejected by 200 girls while rejecting 0 yourself and still expecting to have a positive self image. You can't reject if you don't get approached. You shouldn't reject someone because you got rejected by someone else. Ok. So reject someone you don't like instead. But I would have rejected them either way, not because I got rejected by someone else lol. Unless you like all the girls. In which case you should have no problem rejecting one of them. I wouldn't reject any girl that I li…
/r/seduction02/06/22 10:06 PM
37

1- this is very silly and honestly kind of pathetic 2- I'm not gonna reject someone I like because I got rejected by someone else 3- since when are we as men getting as many approaches as the approaches we make to even attempt to reject an equal number of girls as the ones that reject us? 4- no.1 again
/r/seduction02/06/22 09:52 PM
1

yeah lol kinda painful imo Yeah it really is :( If you look around enough you see hot women constantly text or have a guy around them...usually above 6ft tall :( Eh... maybe, but I don't see who they tex obviously. We don't really know how often they're having hookups unless they talk about it.
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:56 PM
8

"They do bro, just not with you" It's a funny way to put it I guess lmao
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:51 PM
12

Fuck, it's too easy for them!
/r/seduction30/05/22 03:01 PM
1

Thank you:)
/r/seduction30/05/22 07:51 AM
2

Do you get approached often? If so what is your general feeling/ reaction or how do you perceive it in general? Also, why would you be interested in someone and having a conversation through texting and than decide to ghost, what are the general causes that would make you do that?
/r/seduction29/05/22 11:35 PM
1

I mean is she coming back from holiday soon? Maybe bring it up then. She won't be given forever, will she?
/r/seduction29/05/22 06:34 PM
7

I guess I need to geographymax (or geomax)
/r/seduction29/05/22 05:14 PM
1

Yes definitely foreigners. Two of the girls I talked to were Brazilian and they were really flirty. One was Italian and she was really nice but told me she had a boyfriend when I asked her if she wanted tk get something to drink. I do hear that brits are less receptive like you say, but the layout of the city is atleast in your favor. The British girl that I did talk to wasn't very fun unlike the foreigners, so you're definitely right focus on foreigners haha.
/r/seduction28/05/22 11:59 PM
1

Gosh central London was fun. I was only there for one day (one day transit in the UK where I left the airport) and it was literally the easiest place for me to approach (and do day game) and have social interactions in general. Compared to the US it was way better because in the US everyone is their cars lmao. Anyways good luck!
/r/seduction28/05/22 12:15 PM
5

I don't think that's it tbh. When I had tinder gold (only did it one or twice) the same thing occurred. Insteqd of paying for premiums I would just delete and reinstall 10 days later and not do tinder plus or anything.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:54 PM
5

I do (used to when I had tinder) swipe right on everyone. I never understood why all the matches I got were only during the first 2-3 days and after that my tinder would just go totally silent. Like it would be totally useless, totally redundant, so I would just delete it and work with what I got in those couple days.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:30 PM
6

And If you look hot women won't approach you?
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:33 PM
7

It's not like she knows you deleted her number, so it doesn't really matter whether you deleted it or not. If you wanted to make the point that you don't really want to pressure her into something she doesn't want you could have said something like, "if you're not comfortable giving me your number than I totally understand" or "maybe you'd rather take my number than message me if you're interested in hanging out sometime" Also it matters why she asked "why" she could just be curious, not because…
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:42 PM
1

Sounds good, and have fun! :)
/r/seduction26/05/22 08:04 AM
2

I feel like I will have to make more of an effort with men i have an interest in cause i may not be their type so knowing how to handle rejection would be really nice for me. I know it'll probably be as easy as sitting and waiting but that can also be discouraging cause what if i get no approaches or worse, have to reject someone who approached me? I do understand that. It's respectable I think that you want to learn how to approach and handle rejection because as a guy I already know how hard i…
/r/seduction26/05/22 07:53 AM
1

Generally speaking you're probably going to be the one getting approached as a female as long as you sorta put yourself out there. I'm not telling you not to approach infact I think it's a good thing that women do more approaching, but I just don't think it's a hurdle since it's usually the burden is on men to do the approaching. I mean just going to a bar means inevitably someone will approach you and probably several per day, and you can just choose who suits you best. Also If you want someone…
/r/seduction26/05/22 06:59 AM
4

If they've been texting and he has proof she was coming to his house voluntarily he should be safe.
/r/seduction25/05/22 08:33 PM
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Wish I had an award to offer. This post proves purchasing awards is totally worth it!
/r/seduction25/05/22 05:34 PM
10

HOORAHH!!
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:58 PM
49

So you're saying I only need to approach 8752 girls before I find the one? Yepeeee glad I saw your post I now have hope 😁
/r/seduction25/05/22 03:47 PM
1

Yeah... we gotta work with what we have :(
/r/seduction25/05/22 12:25 PM
6

I'm not sure tbh. Like I said not something I've experienced before, at all.
/r/seduction25/05/22 06:11 AM
79

This makes no sense lol. You have the opposite problem of what most guys would have lmao.
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:31 AM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:48 PM
2

Go in believing you will get rejected so if you do it doesn't feel bad. I just did it today, last time I approached was 2 years ago and I thought why not give it a try. Got rejected and kind of felt like a doofus but it didn't hurt for longer than 3 minutes. So that's my best advice for ya. Not sure what else can be said.
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:51 PM
5

Depends whether they're not they're interested. If they are, than it's flirty. If not than the creep alarm goes off.
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:54 AM
0

I mean dude, I think she just wanted an extra follower. I guess depends on her attitude because I wasn't there, but I don't know if the only thing that made her reject you is the social media.
/r/seduction24/05/22 05:02 AM
10

Girls are attracted to me?
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:44 AM
1

Pof was nothing but bots and scams when I tried it. What a shitty website.
/r/seduction23/05/22 06:58 PM
1

You're supposed to make that decision based purely on whether or not you think you would like to do it with this person, not based on an evaluation of whether or not you you think she deserves it or is good enough for it. This decision should be spontaneous and not needing of an evaluation so it's kind of a silly question.
/r/seduction23/05/22 05:22 PM
2

30-40 per week? I don't use tinder anymore but.... Why did I only use to get matches in the first week? Like literally the first 3 days actually I'd get most of the matches than a few in the next 2-3 days and than nothing else after that. I would have to delete tinder and reinstall it but wait a a week or so in order to start getting matches again.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:45 AM
2

No worries. It's egypt.
/r/seduction23/05/22 04:36 AM
3

That's bullshit. Having babies past 40 isn't exactly desirable anywyas. The best time to have a kid is between 25 and 40 as you don't want the age gap between you and your kid to be too big. And probably most women can have a baby before 45 anyways. This is not an advantage. And it's not even relevant to the topic of dating. As an average guy you might never be able to fuck a 10/10. But the average woman can do it probably regularly.
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:45 PM
1

Walk neat them somewhere where they can obviously see you. Pretend to fall over and if they notice and take their earphones off use it as an opportunity to start a conversation. If they don't take them off than move on. I'm mostly joking here but maybe this is actually a good idea? I dunno.
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:17 PM
1

You're missing the point too. Anyways I'm too tired to explain.
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:54 PM
2

Seems like it all favors women.
/r/seduction22/05/22 05:07 PM
0

I dunno man, but in that case I wouldn't mind drinking every now and than. But I just can't verify if that's true or not. I mean alcohol is a drug after all (although technically everything is but you get my point).
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:36 PM
6

I think.. I think you're missing the point
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:52 AM
1

This is so confusing and doesn't make any sense to me. Especially if it's a common thing that you've experienced. That would really throw me off if it happened to me and I don't know why anyone would say it to begin with. Maybe someone can explain.
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:13 AM
1

Yeah that's fair, drinking can be a pretty unhealthy habit. There are healthy ways to do it though. I've been really enjoying gin and soda water cocktails since they're low sugar and low calorie (around 70-90 calories per cocktail). While sugar is worrisome its the actual alcohol that's the problem for me. I already drink a bunch of soda. Also get your physical every year so your doc can tell you if anything's going on with your liver. This worries me a bunch. I feel like if I actually have to g…
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:48 AM
2

Lowe's or Home Depot?
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:18 AM
2

Ah okay that makes sense. I could use that social lubricant but I worry about the health problems that it may cause in the future even if I don't drink too much. I honestly plan on staying as healthy as possible. Also worried about addiction. I'm not too fond of being drunk either but it's just the ability to be more social that interests me (hopefully in a non creepy way).
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:10 AM
6

Multiple that by about 100 times and that's how women view you if you always talk about yourself. What if she's boring and you're not interested in what she's saying about herself multiplied by a hundred times? Why do we always have to be the ones that tolerate it but no them?
/r/seduction22/05/22 10:03 AM
1

That was really cheesy of her to mention drake and Josh the show because your name is Josh.. having said that... how do you not know about drake and Josh??! Anyways lighten up, you always have next Saturday to try again!
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:51 AM
2

That's generally why I was avoiding it in the first place but yeah I guess I would have to know how to balance it so it doesn't turn into an addiction. Thanks for the tip.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:57 AM
0

Girls will say oh that’s cute but now they won’t try to fuck you because they think the first time has to be something special . I don't think that's the reason why.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:49 AM
1

Fuck, now I feel like I gotta try it at some point. Not for the sake of it, but for the ability to "not give a damn.. cuz for the most part I feel intimidated by these dance clubs, so maybe drinking helps in that regard.
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:41 AM
3

But even then, can you actually hold a conversation? Sorry I'm completely oblivious to what it's like to drink lol
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:34 AM
4

I never drank before (and I don't really intend on it) but are you actually able to get to know someone while you're drunk? How do you have a serious conversation when you're drunk? I guess you can dance and all that but what happens after that? How do you talk with them, especially if they aren't drunk themselves?
/r/seduction22/05/22 08:18 AM
1

Are you posting the same topic from different accounts now?
/r/seduction22/05/22 06:23 AM
1

Me and her? This was purely hypothetical. Or maybe you're mistaking me for OP.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:28 PM
2

I agree that you shouldn't message a second time if she doesn't respond but I'm talking about the initial message only. The second message would be like talking to someone public who doesn't want to talk to you. But I don't get why the first one is problematic. Especially if this person allowed you to follow them (assuming they were private) and especially especially so if they followed you back. If there was no follow I don't believe it's a bug deal either as long as you don't message a 2nd tim…
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:25 PM
0

if you are DMing someone on Instagram who never gave you any hints that she wants to be approached, then you are borderline harassing her. Why? The dm button does serve a function doesn't it?
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:01 PM
0

Yes my good sir.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:05 PM
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Ohhhh I feel roasteddd Judging by the context of the post, I think it was obvious I was talking about dating. Lol Like yes, there's other aspects to life, studies, career, friends and family etc but I think we all know what the topic of the post was. is probably the real reason you're bitter and struggling You don't know anything about my life so stop assuming stuff you don't know.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:01 PM
0

How is this self in anyway?? I'm literally talking about the dynamics of the two genders and merely gave an example from my personal experience! Are you.. are you just asserting a narrative so you can go ahead and scrutinize it regardless of whether that narrative is true or not? Get a grip.
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:44 AM
2

Women get hundreds of dms per day. It's amazing really. I don't really DM at all just because I know that fact. Why would she respond to me specifically? I can go a whole decade and only get like 3 dms from girls. fuck me. I feel like pretty women and even average ones are on par with famous people and we're the peasants and average people. Imagine what a famous person's inbox is like vs yours. And would you ever expect to get a response by DMing decaprio or something?? Exactly. That's how it is…
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:20 AM
1

Yeah, I somewhat agree.
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:11 AM
2

Why?
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:56 AM
1

Thanks for your input!
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:40 AM
1

Hahaha no worries 🤣
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:35 AM
1

No you're the one trolling apparently dude.
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:32 AM
1

That's very different from legal stuff lol. Sure some women don't like X. But what does that even mean. Not all people agree to like anything.
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:15 AM
1

Sometimes I like to remind myself the fact of all the girls that have rejected me and saw me as ugly, that usually does the trick in getting me riled up and being ready for the workout. Uhh man, I'm glad that works for you but I'd be the complete opposite of that. I'd be way more tempted to do drugs and get a high to escape a horrible reality personally. Anyways dude, don't give up. Hope you find someone soon!
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:13 AM
2

Neat perspective, thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction21/05/22 07:05 AM
-1

Fuck feminism man 😭
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:59 AM
6

Nah man, that's way too far fetched. Haha.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:52 AM
1

Wow, I mean good for you because for me the gym only makes me more depressed. Besides seeing results which is the only good part, having to do all the work of lifting is not rewarding at all. Being happy is what would make me tolerate going to the gym but going to the gym would not make me happy. So it's completely reversed for me.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:52 AM
8

I don't think you'll get in legal trouble for saying hello dude.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:48 AM
1

Ah fuck That's me rn as well
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:45 AM
1

Right, no more real life where the average guy actually has a chance. Only the digital world where dating is played on easy mode for women and hard mode for men.
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:32 AM
1

What is your primary alternative now?
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:25 AM
3

I agree with you 💯%
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:39 AM
1

Vaginas aren't really pretty bro 😕 Probably more interested in her wrists than her pussy.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:27 AM
1

Why is this a problem. I indeed do not like female genitalia and I wouldn't be upset a my girl (if I had one) didn't like male genitalia. I would be way more interested in her boobs, ass, belly, hands, thighs, and feet than her genitalia. I just never understood what was fun about pussy, besides the fucking part. But merely being attracted to pussy? Not really. At best I'm neutral towards pussy. At worst I'm grossed out and repulsed by it.
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:26 AM
1

It seems incredibly unjust what dating apps have done for women at the expense of men. Women were probably already having it easy and sought after way more than men and dating apps made that situation into an even greater extreme. Like yeah, why would I even try when I see a pretty girl if I just think that she has 300 men and potential dates lining up and waiting for her to answer and possibly go out with once she gets home. Seems incredibly brutal for the average guy. I wonder what it's like t…
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:46 AM
6

Just say okay, we'll do it some other time, and if she's interested she'll text.. it's really on her to text if she's interested not you. If she never texts than she wasn't interested.
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:16 AM
2

The way you put it is amusing ngl
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:04 AM
0

So simp harder than all the other simps? Gotcha!!
/r/seduction20/05/22 07:59 AM
1

They're not friends.
/r/seduction20/05/22 04:08 AM
3

That would be wierd af What do you even talk about with a whole group. My mind would be blank af going into this and I'd make myself look like a dork
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:37 AM
2

Uhhhhuhhubujhuhhhuhuhhhh kill me pleeeeaaase
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:36 AM
2

No, that's not it. Dating is just taboo in my country and marriage is the only real way to "date". So girls aren't really open to approaches for the most part. I never approach.
/r/seduction20/05/22 03:25 AM
4

It really depends on who you are Yeah I know. It's more about where I live that's the problem though.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:54 PM
7

it is just that easy, bro. Are you being serious or??
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:48 PM
16

Actually 6'2. But fml cuz I don't have anyone to do this to lol.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:38 PM
16

Fuck my life.
/r/seduction19/05/22 03:22 PM
1

If you're about to sit somewhere together pull her on your lap before she sits next to you. If she likes you she'll be cool with that. It would also be easier than leaning in and kissing but would also make it easier to kiss her since she would be sitting in your lap. Kiss her on the cheek first than she'll probably turn her head and lip kiss after.
/r/seduction19/05/22 01:21 PM
26

Maybe he just wants to pump and dump?
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:41 AM
-1

>reading books on female nature.
/r/seduction18/05/22 10:38 AM
25

Just be confident bro
/r/seduction18/05/22 07:55 AM
-6

This is your chance bro, blow up her phone with compliments!!! Say the most romantic stuff you can think of, shouldn't be that hard, you got all night!!!!!!
/r/seduction18/05/22 06:13 AM
3

Yeah at this point I'd fuck anything that moves given the opportunity. I only had sex once!
/r/seduction18/05/22 05:57 AM
33

This comment is extremely underrated
/r/MensRights12/05/22 05:10 PM
1

What a fucking jungle some of these clubs can be
/r/seduction15/02/22 04:04 PM
1

I like my facial hair 2-3 days after I got a clean shave A week later though it looks bad cuz I can't get a full beard The moment of the clean shave itself looks good but not as good as when the hair barely starts growing a couple days later
/r/seduction15/02/22 01:36 PM
2

I think Amazon doesn't rehire
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:08 PM
2

Stay dude Once you leave there's no going back at Amazon
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:17 PM
5

Feel like I'm king of the manlets up here bro. 🤣
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:17 PM
2

1-30 minutes The longer the better cuz than it means longer conversation and more bonding
/r/seduction14/02/22 06:51 PM
1

I approve of this
/r/seduction13/02/22 08:23 PM
0

Yeah they're trying to get your money If it's online than it's a catfish
/r/seduction13/02/22 07:02 PM
113

dude.... seriously?
/r/seduction13/02/22 06:18 PM
2

A safe statistc
/r/seduction13/02/22 05:17 PM
0

I mean your comment basically means that most guys aren't having a sex, like 75% of guys But I'm not sure if that's true
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:25 PM
1

But most guys aren't good looking rich and don't have approach anxiety So are most guys not having sex?
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:21 PM
0

So most men don't have sex?
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:14 PM
5

in this useless post 😂
/r/seduction13/02/22 04:13 PM
1

Text her alot. Like not everyday but every other day or maintain a conversation that is long term If you stop talking to her she'll forget about the hookup and ghost you the next time you text her
/r/seduction13/02/22 03:36 PM
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