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Regarding you comment "I've been planning out what I had to say before", YOU NEED TO GET OUT OF YOUR HEAD. Natural conversation falls into the whole notion of "being in the moment". You actions and words need to be congruent with the environment you are in. When talking to a girl, pay attention to the conversational flow you two have and get a sense of the vibe/energy. If you're at a large social gathering with lots of people (clubs, bars, group class, etc.) you want to focus on talking about bo…
/r/seduction15/08/15 06:03 PM
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Friends come in one of two ways: You join a pre-existing social group You create a social group and invite people to join When you are at the meetups, make sure you find guys you really connect with/can vibe with. Get their contact information and start inviting them out to join you for drinks and hitting the bars. The guy you meet may already be part of a group of guys and he could introduce you to them as well. Make sure to diversify the groups you are involved in to maximize the amount of peo…
/r/seduction15/08/15 01:46 AM
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The topic at hand really boils down to the importance of intentions and managing the power dynamic with a women. When you ask a women questions like Where are you from? What do you do? What's your favorite music? Where do you work? You set off a pattern in her head that she reads as "You are interested in me", "You want me", "You like me". She immediately views the interaction as "I am the one the being chased". It's not very exciting to her and she'll subconsciously lose desire to speak with yo…
/r/seduction15/08/15 01:11 AM
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Salsa is a GREAT hobby and one of the best ways I've connected to people whenever I travel. It's easy to meet girls and make new friends. You'll gain confidence approaching girls and it's easy to talk to them afterwards. Kizomba and Bachata are awesome and great way to dance real close and feel intimately connected to your partner. You need to be mindful of your intentions I am doing Salsa to make friends and meet people. I am doing Salsa as a fun hobby to enjoy myself. I am doing Salsa to bette…
/r/seduction15/08/15 12:16 AM
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Goodwill, Salvation Army, Plato's Closet, and various thrift stores are great spots for discount clothing. Buying a good fitting blue blazer is a great investment and will complement any wardrobe. In the grand scheme of game, clothing is minimal. Confidence, Self-Esteem, Social Skills, and Personality will take you way farther. Make sure you're meeting people, having fun hobbies, and enjoying an active lifestyle.
/r/seduction14/08/15 10:36 PM
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Women love to put on a show, talk shit, and act like they're a boss BUT in the bedroom they sit back, do nothing, and act passive. She already knows you want sex. She already knows you fucked a whole bunch of girls. She already knows that you only want her just to hook up. (Even if this isn't true for you, girls are insecure and these thoughts are going through their minds regardless of anything you do). In her mind, she wants to brag to her friends and tell a story about how she was swept off h…
/r/seduction14/08/15 10:19 PM
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Solid advice. This will not only improve your social/dating life, but also your career.
/r/seduction31/07/15 10:36 PM
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Same here. Whenever I go out by myself to a club, sometimes I'll feel real lonely, be stuck in my head, and feel completely isolated despite all the energy/hype/turn up going on around me. I'll feel like a complete outcast as though I'm disconnected from the whole world. (I don't drink too much nor smoke/drugs so I end up just having to tough it out the emotions) The seriousness comes from the mindset of having a pre-conceived plan, carefully thought-out expectations, and trying to stick to that…
/r/seduction31/07/15 10:19 PM
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Very thorough write-up. Great post man!
/r/seduction31/07/15 04:00 PM
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100% feel what you're going through. In my early college days, my science buddies wanted to play Elder Scrolls/Borderlands/watch youtube and I was met with odd looks, people thought it was a waste money, nobody wanted to do go out with me. I felt so frustrated and alone with trying to go out and meet women. For meeting people In college: - Extracurriculars, Clubs, Fraternities, Volunteer Groups, Intermurals In the city, - www.meetup.com, young professional groups, group classes (dancing, cooking…
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:33 AM
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gtrnzi said he likes "cooking, photography" and has "average body-type" When he is talking to a girl, he is being genuine when he tells girls how much he is passionate about cooking, his love for new recipes, and even confidently talking about his picture-taking skills. Women pick up on this because his emotions, his enthusiasm, his spirit, his zeal, his confidence, his tonality, his self-belief, and his certainty all show that he is being true to himself and his core identity. When you are not …
/r/seduction31/07/15 01:50 AM
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Go to Peabodys. Completely shitty club. But lots of 18 up (and early 20's) girls in there. If you're looking for an older college scene, LunaSea is good spot with a DJ, deck-bar, and two volleyball courts in the back. Daytime wise, the ocean water completely sucks, so it's best to focus on chilling on the beach and approaching. Even with the sun-bathing/tanning/whatever. Girls are definitely open to talking, so be confident/be spontaneous/score some numbers and invite them out to food/party with…
/r/seduction31/07/15 01:16 AM
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Having a "Hobby/Something You Love" is solid advice and will carry you for years to come. In terms of what to say verbally. Girls love to flirt. They flirt with guys, other girls, even complete/random strangers. Think of it as play fighting. As though you two are in a duel and whoever slips up first, loses. (It's all fun and games so don't stress). In my experience, it's typically initialized by saying something bold/teasing her. Make fun of her for being attracted to you "Why are you trying so …
/r/seduction31/07/15 12:37 AM
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The way I personally do it is: Sit somewhere in a quiet space (chair is what I found most easiest and comfortable for my joints/knees) Sit up-straight with posture and back straight (like what your parents/teachers told you to do in grade school) Keep your body physically still (hands on thighs, feet flat on floor) Begin to slowly breath through your nose (count 1,2,3,4 in your head) and breathe out through the mouth (count 5,6,7,8 in your head) Repeat this and you should naturally start noticin…
/r/seduction31/07/15 12:11 AM
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It would be best to hold off on the texting for now. Focus on the event. Your goal is to have fun together, build rapport, and a personal connection. The fact you two teased each other about drinks is great!! During the event, you can open her by walking over all cool/suave and saying "Hey, we gotta get these tequilla shots! I bet you're ALL talk and NO game! lol" Afterwards, you can be start up a conversation. Ask how she's enjoying the event. From there, you can go for another question. Go fro…
/r/seduction30/07/15 11:48 PM
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A good opener in texting is to find something you know she'd be interested in and sending her the link. Think back to your last conversation with her. Think about what you two discussed and try to find something that relates to a topic you both discussed. This can literally be anything from: News article relating to her music, personal hobbies, volunteer causes, famous people she likes Vine/Youtube Video/Meme that she would find interesting/funny A new book or author she likes to read A link to …
/r/seduction29/07/15 11:20 PM
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Co-workers are possible. From my experience, it took about 9 weeks of text game, out-of-office lunches, outings with friends, networking events, until I finally had her in my bedroom. BUT you do need to proceed with caution. Sexual Harassment is a real thing. I've personally seen a lot guys get demoted and lose their jobs just because they lacked the social intelligence to back off or they were overly aggressively and made them feel like shit. Based on what you provided, she definitely has shown…
/r/seduction29/07/15 10:07 PM
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The fact you two are conversing and having slight flirtatious talk is a plus and does show an air of possible attraction. However, cute and adorable are feminine descriptors, so you need to showing her some of your masculine qualities. When you two are talking, you need to start teasing her, start roasting her on things, show her you can stand up for yourself and can joke on her too. The archetype you are modelling is I'm a complete asshole that tell hilarious jokes. You need to come from the me…
/r/seduction29/07/15 05:01 PM
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The book I personally reference is David D's "Attraction is Not a Choice". My intention was to summarize in a brief/simple manner and highlight passion's importance in survival.
/r/seduction29/07/15 03:26 PM
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When dealing with women who wear heels and platforms.
/r/seduction29/07/15 04:38 AM
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"I told her to give me her hand and when she asked why I told her I wanted to hold it" Great line. Very alpha and confident. Success starts with those initial first steps. Keep pushing yourself to new heights, looking forward to your future reports.
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:57 AM
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That decision really depends on what you are trying to get. If you had a coach, what would you want them to do?
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:24 AM
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The issue is only as big as you make it. If it doesn't bother you, women aren't going to care either. In reality, yes Women are judgmental and may perceive you as "short" HOWEVER your attractiveness is greatly enhanced by your communication skills, humor, self-esteem, and masculinity. Don't sweat the height, focus on the things YOU CAN change and be a complete package. Women will be drawn to you.
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:19 AM
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Don't buy into the hectic schedule bullshit. If a girl really likes a guy, THEY WILL WORK MIRACLES to make the meetup happen. (They'll even hit you up, asking to come over) It sounds like you have a girl who can't make up her mind. She likes the thrill of the chase and gets a high from the attention you give her. She probably feels insecure and feels like she may not be able to live up to your standards (in bed, relationship, impostor syndrome) Leave that hoe alone and move onto someone who know…
/r/seduction29/07/15 02:09 AM
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Dude, I know exactly where you come from. In HS, I was completely oblivious to everything regarding hook-ups, dating, and slaying girls. College was my awakening point and the first few times I spent with women were absolutely terrible and real frustrating opportunities I lost. After a couple rough starts, I figured out what worked for me in those intimate moments with girls. Relax, Slow Down, Breath Everyone is human, people have emotions and people get anxious/nervous about a lot of things. Sh…
/r/seduction29/07/15 01:26 AM
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It sounds as though you are getting out, doing fun activities, but you don't have people going along. You need to seek out people who share your interests. You should look into integrating the things you like by expanding your social circles and inviting people to join you. Expanding Your Network You need people in your life. YOU CANNOT DO IT ALL BY YOURSELF! I highly recommend getting involved in different social groups. The best way to do that is join a weekly class or find a common-interest g…
/r/seduction29/07/15 12:17 AM
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True genuinely touching compliments come from actually noticing unique characteristics about the girl herself. How would you describe her interests, her style, her personal demeanor, how she conducts herself, where she is spending her time, how she relates to people, what does she really cares about? Recognize those things and let her know that you admire who she is and what she is doing.
/r/seduction28/07/15 10:03 PM
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I feel the same way dude. A lot of girls have given me the whole "I don't want to fuck, but you can eat me out" line. It's really frustrating and it sucks to be so close only to have it all taken away at the last moment. She's turned on. She's horny. Her comment is really a frame and congruence test. Be the confident dude that you are. Relax, be in the moment, treat it as no big deal, and stay positive. Good emotions and a positive go-easy attitude are contagious and she'll be begging you for se…
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:53 PM
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Great analysis on their skills and what you can model. I'm inspired to write something similar for my own experiences.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:53 PM
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I think you are doing completely fine. No need to apologize for anything. I am a firm believer that a lot of guys starting out never recognize certain realities. One critical being that women ACTUALLY have boyfriends and may NOT be looking for somebody!. Sympathy in theory sounds like the nice thing to do however, for your own personal safety and well-being I do not recommend it. Those cute, awkward, timid newbies starting out may have low-self-esteem, be desperate for female validation, and can…
/r/seduction28/07/15 06:21 AM
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In terms of asking her out, the original post seemed like you all had previously made plans with her before. So just be casual, act like your normal, congruent personality. Literally go with what exactly you wrote "I'm going downtown to grab some food, you're welcome to join." Regardless man, if she's picking up the phone when you call, then obviously she likes you, is feeling attracted, and will show up. You want to convey your message from the mental frame of "I made my own plans, This is what…
/r/seduction28/07/15 05:23 AM
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Girls are always on their phones between 11am - 2pm. Send her a text a few days in advance on some "hey whats up, I just got back in town". Have some short chatter and move towards plans for hanging out and/or a call.
/r/seduction28/07/15 02:17 AM
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Virgin at age 19 is nothing to worry about! The younger you get started with game the better. Body language is real important for your emotional well-being. In my personal experience, in terms of getting your mind off a girl, finding ways to be busy, whether its going to the gym, lifting weights, calling up your friends, running around the neighborhood, literally find someway to physically move yourself. The worst things you can do is be static.
/r/seduction28/07/15 01:14 AM
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