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Lol what? I was a divorced dad with 2 kids. Never a woman. The name should give that away stupid. Go through my posts or comments again. Reading is fundamental
/r/ExRedPill28/02/24 12:11 PM
1

Definitely more common of men, but yes. My point was she was the kind of woman that red pill talks about
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 10:48 PM
0

No I don't only blame women. I'm equal opportunity
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 10:37 PM
4

Not sure that's entirely true. I got married pretty young the first time, and remarried in my 30's. I still bought into red pill
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 09:38 PM
-4

That'd make sense if they are truly alphas. Why would they settle?
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 09:36 PM
0

That blurs the lines between a man and a woman
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:33 PM
2

I got sucked in while married
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:32 PM
1

Wtf. Talk about brainwashing lol
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:31 PM
-2

I got into red pill after. She's the kind of woman that gave birth to red pill ideology. That was hypergamy at its finest along with deceit, cheating etc
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 07:27 PM
2

Not only men are red pill. There are plenty of women that hate men just in different ways
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 05:26 PM
0

It's not only men. My ex wife abandoned me and my young kids.
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 05:25 PM
1

It has tons of reasons. Morals come from more than God. Promiscuous people carry stds, the rates are sky high now. Unwanted pregnancy, inability to be satisfied within a monogamous relationship, and it's my personal preference to not want a 304. Gives me the ick. If you want to be a hoe have at it I'm not saying you can't lol. Maybe ask yourself why my comment bothers you
/r/ExRedPill21/02/24 10:59 AM
0

I'm the 6'5 good looking guy that benefitted from it. However I was never into the hookup culture. I found it, and the people that did it foul at best. There's definitely some truth to the ideology of black, and red pill. The problem is, it is so easy to get sucked way down the rabbit hole, to the point it becomes an obsession that's nearly impossible to retreat from.
/r/ExRedPill19/02/24 01:00 AM
-9

Why are you an incel?
/r/ExRedPill17/02/24 02:27 AM
1

Jeez, and he had issue with that? You're a unicorn
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 03:21 AM
1

I was just curious. You said you were high value according to red pill. So I wanted to know what that meant in your opinion
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 03:14 AM
-2

So what makes you 'high value"? In your opinion that he's not seeing?
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 03:01 AM
0

Good then there's more for you.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 02:56 AM
1

Yep to each their own
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 10:16 PM
-1

Maybe you don't care about being last in a long line. I'd rather not. Shows lack of self worth, no moral compass open to all kinds of stds that may or may not show up. Have at it
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 09:45 PM
-3

What makes gold or diamonds so valuable? They are rare, and not just anyone can have it.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 08:19 PM
-4

I'll kindly disagree. Definitely not shallow. It shows tons of things
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 07:47 PM
-14

For one who wants someone's leftovers. It's one thing if it's a few. Entirely different if it's a boat load
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 07:36 PM
-3

I agree. It definitely matters. Man or woman
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 07:34 PM
-2

Whoa hold the horses. That's a red pill ideal. We aren't allowed to care about body count. Or does that only apply to women?
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 07:23 PM
1

You gotta be real though. Heidi Klum is rich, and not your average divorced mom either
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 08:45 PM
2

I wish you the best man
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 05:22 PM
3

No porn is good. It's destructive
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:51 AM
1

I hear ya
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:43 AM
1

I never wanted kids either, and ended up with 3. Life throws curve balls
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:09 AM
-3

They are definitely biased towards awarding women the kids. I got full custody of my kids, but the only reason I did was because she abandoned them. It wouldn't have mattered that she couldn't hold a job, was a liar, and cheater. None of that matters to the court. It's 100% biased. Been there, seen it
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 12:55 AM
-7

I got full custody of both my kids. The only reason, is because she abandoned them. The courts will always side with the woman unless there's a really good reason not to. That's just how it is. I got lucky
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 12:40 AM
0

So she had to pay him support? Whys that wrong?
/r/ExRedPill13/02/24 08:49 PM
1

Nope they 100% get whatever they want. Screw around bang whoever, then marry whoever.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/24 03:30 AM
1

Correct, I agreed with that
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 12:30 AM
1

That's all old testament
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 12:29 AM
-1

Those problems came from a previous marriage. Reading is your friend
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 12:29 AM
-2

Bite me.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 12:28 AM
-2

Nope, people can do whatever they want, and live however they want. The problem cones in when they just expect everyone to be ok with it, and accept it. That's not how life works for anything. In my experience there doesn't seem to be much in between.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 07:20 PM
-1

My replies stand. I 100% could have slept with everyone of the women I dated. I was the one that stopped it. Meanwhile I had friends that couldn't even get a date, let alone get laid if they wanted to.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:32 PM
-2

Well, yes, I value. These are all just personal opinions, after all. I mean, there are people that marry ex prostitutes and pornstars and are ok with it. So I get its personal values. I am very much an all or nothing type person for sure.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:30 PM
-2

I appreciate your opinion, but I'll keep mine. Yes they bring more than looks, and virginity 100%, but at the same time I value a woman that hasn't just given it away like candy.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:24 PM
0

According to you.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:18 PM
-3

You're allowed that opinion. I hold men to the same standard, not just women btw.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:16 PM
-1

No I believe it based on what the Bible says. Nothing more, nothing less
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:12 PM
-1

They are for me as well. I never slept around. Dating a bunch of people isn't sleeping with them.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:03 PM
-7

No, I did not. After I got divorced I remained abstinent until I met my current wife. I dated alot, but no, I did not sleep with them
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:02 PM
0

Did the samething what?
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 06:01 PM
-6

That's 100% my belief based on being a Christian holding Christian values
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:38 PM
-11

I never hooked up lol. I dated alot, never hooked up. Maybe go reread it bro
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:37 PM
1

Yea I agree with that. I'm 6'5 and was a good looking guy, played sports, fought mma etc. So it was my experience with my surroundings.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:34 PM
-2

If you say so
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 05:32 PM
-20

That's not how I took the 80/20. I was part of the 20, so I watched it from my lense. My take was that they mess with the 20, and then later settle for the 80, after they had their fun. Men 100% do the same thing, the difference is the top 20% of women won't just sleep with the 80%, they still go for the 20, whereas when it comes to men, they will sleep with them all in most cases. That's the point that was made by the 80/20 rule. The guys were salty they were being settled for after the women w…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 03:36 PM
-19

I've actually seen that in real life though. That didn't come out of nowhere.
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 02:56 PM
-39

I still believe that. But I'm ultra conservative
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 02:54 PM
0

Depends on what you define as misogyny. Sometimes just being a man is considered misogynistic
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 02:31 PM
3

Not really, but I'll get there
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 11:41 PM
4

The high value stuff wasn't what got me. It was the high body count women part. I associated that with the cheating, and to a point it holds out in my experience. Only problem is it didn't show its ugly face until 16 years into my next marriage. She's none of those things, but something triggered the responses. Now I sit in therapy trying to change my views
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 11:15 AM
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Among other things yes. My ex wife had a relatively high bc, and I was ok with it. She ended up cheating the entire 12 years we were married. I didn't find out until the last one that I caught her with. She was good at hiding it. I worked alot, and she had to much time I guess. She confessed to all of it after the fact. That's a big part of it I guess.
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:49 AM
4

Not all of them. I'm 6'5 good looking always went out, always had dates etc, and I got sucked into it
/r/ExRedPill02/02/24 02:43 AM
2

You dated him so he's not involuntary celibate. He obviously can get dates
/r/ExRedPill29/01/24 08:39 PM
0

It's not a negative mindset at all. It's my experience with it, the same as yours is to you. So is your opinion negative as well?
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 07:51 PM
0

It doesn't. I am that 6'5 good looking guy. I've seen what the op says play out in real life, over, and over. He's not wrong
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 01:08 PM
-2

Yea because I agree with op, I've seen it first hand
/r/ExRedPill28/01/24 01:04 PM
-12

She only pointed out one tall guy.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 03:32 PM
-13

I did, and she affirmed it
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 03:31 PM
-19

Your guy could say he'd have dated you, but at that point in your life you wouldn't have dated him, because you were still after the 6' plus good looking guys. That's the point op was trying to get across, and you affirmed it
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 12:56 PM
-7

To a large extent that's true. Coming from a 6'5 goof looking guy, I've seen it first hand
/r/ExRedPill27/01/24 12:47 PM
1

Me too. It'd suck to throw a 16 year marriage away over it.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 02:42 PM
1

She's doing ok now. We are in therapy together. I still have bad days on, and off, and she knows it. I'm supposed to be open and honest about my feelings with her, and go to her in love according to the therapist. That's part of the ert therapy. It's a day, by day thing.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 02:39 PM
1

What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/24 02:34 PM
0

That's awesome. I was an atheist when I was younger, and got really into science. It's then that I realized that there's way to much proof for existence of A intelligent creator. That's how I became a Christian.. I wish you the best of luck finding who you're looking for
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:29 PM
0

Are you still a virgin? Even if not, there's nothing wrong with looking for that long term. Are you a christian as well?
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:23 PM
-2

It's to late for me to worry about that, but if I had it to do over, yes, I'd have waited for marriage, and looked for, and married another virgin as well.
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 06:03 PM
1

Honestly I'd move on. Doesn't sound like she's all that interested. If you choose to pursue you could do a hike depending on where you are
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 05:55 PM
1

No, not completely
/r/ExRedPill23/01/24 03:14 AM
4

Thankyou. I appreciate that
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 05:28 PM
1

Oh I'm well aware. Problem is I hope it's not to late.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:00 PM
4

Well we shall see. I swing back and forth. I have an avoidant personality too, so that causes its own unique problems.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 12:59 PM
3

Sounds like my situation. It's very easy to go down that rabbit hole. I no longer saw my wife as someone I should have married. Even though by their standards she's a high value woman. It still destroyed my perceptions of things.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 12:19 PM
12

My worst fear is that it's caused to much damage. It's amazing how a stupid rabbit hole can cause someone to almost throw a 16 year marriage away
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:53 AM
2

That is really disturbing jeez
/r/ExRedPill22/01/24 01:52 AM
3

Yea that's not cool
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 11:29 PM
14

I got sucked in by accident. I did mma years ago, so I saw Andrew tate making vids, and watched a few, then it turned into that. By the time I knew it my algorithms were flooded with all those videos. It really polluted my mind. Then came intrusive thoughts about my wife, and changed hoe I see her. I'm currently in therapy trying to undo the damage
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 11:27 PM
4

I'll reply in a bit. I have to go for now. I won't let you hang
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 09:53 PM
7

You're right. I got sucked into redpill crap. I've never been an incel. 6'5 and good-looking. Always had my pick. The red pill doesn't discriminate
/r/ExRedPill21/01/24 09:25 PM
1

Where in the hell did I ever say it was her fault? Where did I say she gave in? Talk about a sad excuse. Maybe look in the mirror
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 12:57 PM
0

Im not taking about your situation, and that's different. But you still had a choice to leave. There's always a choice. I was abused as a kid.i made a choice, and left.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 02:34 AM
-5

Oh please that's not red pill that's freaking life. You have a choice in everything you do. Drink and drive you had a choice, wear a condom or not, you had a choice. Nobody was forced
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 01:49 AM
0

Well you'd be wrong. I've seen it done. Again it's not a Google search, but hey if you show them they aren't worth waiting for you proved the point man
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 01:47 AM
1

I think you've been reading to many pysc books. Not everything is text book
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 12:16 AM
-1

Not if you're upfront about it. If they move on the prove the point don't they? The right person will wait as long as it takes. You just made data
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 12:14 AM
0

Never said it was normal
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 12:13 AM
0

You don't need Google to have seen things first hand lol. It's not rocket science. If you don't sleep with someone just looking for sex for 6 months to a year they're gonna move on.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:31 PM
-2

No, not at all. If you don't open up people can leave and it don't matter at all. I couldn't care less if anyone goes. However if you get emotionally attached then it can cause pain
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:25 PM
-2

Tons of life long data.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:23 PM
-4

No that's you always have a choice, and you do.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:22 PM
1

I didn't seek it out. I was on tiktok and a video with tate came on. I was in mma so I watched it. Then another, and another. Next thing you know algorithms take over, and the rest is history. It was a happy marriage until all that polluted my mind. I almost walked out of a 16 year marriage because of it, and it's ideals. I no longer looked at her the same, and still don't. Im trying to heal from it now, but it's hard to unprogram that
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:19 PM
-5

I don't feel any shame. I choose not to share emotions. There's a difference
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:09 PM
1

Can't do weed. My job is federally regulated
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:08 PM
-7

How's that victim blaming exactly?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:08 PM
1

Having a fairytale marriage is possible. Just not common in this world of crap we live in now.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 10:27 PM
1

I'm actually ok with it though. You don't open yourself to being hurt by anyone then.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 09:38 PM
1

Yea I'd have been ok with that. Although it doesn't change anything in my life now. I made to many mistakes to have an actual fairytale marriage. Although these young couples can
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 09:36 PM
2

Well apparently they are blunted. Caused by ptsd, a d past trauma as someone pointed out. Is what it is
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 09:34 PM
0

Or, I just don't let anyone in. It's served me well. I do have ptsd seeing bunting is caused by that and past trauma. Is what it is
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 09:32 PM
-2

I've done it for years successfully. I take care of my emotional needs myself. I won't ever open that part up to anyone
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 09:05 PM
1

How so?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 08:59 PM
-9

Not sure I have any emotional needs honestly lol
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 08:38 PM
-7

I know, that's why I responded how I did. It's a hard truth pill. Not trying to be crass
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 08:37 PM
-5

Sometimes it's hard amidst trauma
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 08:36 PM
-12

Sorry you were used. You did have a choice in it though. I keep telling women over, and over. Stop giving it up so easy, and soon. It weeds out the predators, and they just ignore the red flags, and do it over, and over, and then feel used up when it's over. It's a vicious cycle. I'm sorry you were assaulted
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 07:29 PM
4

Don't think that's entirely true. I'm married for 16 years, and fell for that trash. Still believe alot of it now. It's hard to un program. It had nothing to do with loneliness at all.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 07:21 PM
-2

How so? Anything you want is based in reality, so im not sure what you mean
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 05:06 PM
-2

Yea I know. You're allowed to have opinions when it comes to someone that you'll spend your whole life with though.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 04:39 PM
1

No I'd hold myself to the same.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 12:58 PM
-1

Yes I always did, but it's from personal views and being a Christian..I can't imagine anyone wanting to be with someone that just sleeps with whoever when ever
/r/ExRedPill18/01/24 11:57 AM
1

How does that make sense? Then the guys the same age would just be dating younger women equalling out the numbers anyway
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 01:15 PM
-10

I agree, break up and find someone better
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:04 PM
1

It has nothing to do with trust, it's for many different things. Seeing how they treat others, money issues etc. It's not all about trust. I think that's where you got confused a bit
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:00 PM
1

You have to be attracted to them
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:59 PM
-3

I was the 20 from the 80/20. There's definitely something to it, but you can overcome that. You need confidence, and just talk to women.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:52 PM
1

I was married to that for 12 years. She cheated on me from day one. She was so good at hiding it that I never knew till after I caught her right before I divorced her, and only then did she come clean, and want to be forgiven, and work on things. Yea that'll taint you
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:48 PM
-1

How is that insecurity? You get tested in life for literally everything. Driving, school, jobs, etc. How much more important is a realtionship than those things? I'm not saying grill them, or set them up, but yes test.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:45 PM
0

Geez, and I thought I went off the reservation
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:44 PM
-2

What's insecurity?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:41 PM
2

Yes. Social media has done that. There is truth to the simp mentality on social media
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:39 PM
-5

Then don't. My feeling is that if someone has an issue with it, they're probably hiding things, and I have no desire to be with them then anyway
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:39 PM
-4

I dont think there's anything wrong with a little testing. Weeds out liars fast
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:32 PM
8

I got sucked in by an od. Almost threw a 16 year marriage away over it.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 09:36 PM
3

Hey bud not everyone woman has it easier, no different than men. I'll agree that down to average women have it easier to an extent, but they have to wade through men's bullshit. Yes can they get dates easier, get laid easier? Yes, but if they are looking for quality, they have to go through a ton of dms and or dates, worry about being raped, or worse. Not easier. Different
/r/ExRedPill12/01/24 01:47 PM
1

I was speaking of hypothetical, and going back, being able to do it right. I know I'm broken.
/r/ExRedPill11/01/24 12:14 AM
0

We can go around for ever. It's not going to change my opinion on the matter. There's so many reasons to be with a single partner..not just the cheating aspect. Not having all the excess baggage for one thing.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 07:06 PM
0

The greatest predictor of the future is past behavior. I'm a firm believer in that, and I've seen it play out, over, and over again through the years. People are fallable, but generally speaking it's true.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 06:56 PM
2

Was speaking in terms of going back, and doing it over with knowledge I have now.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 06:38 PM
0

You haven't worked around wolves enough then.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 03:17 PM
0

Oh stop already ffs. I forgot that only you're relevant lol.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 02:53 PM
0

Didn't say we were.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 02:41 PM
-2

You brought up gorillas. They literally fight for leadership. No different than other animals do for mating rights.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 02:16 PM
-8

They literally fight until one gives in. So I'll kindly disagree
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:46 PM
0

Well I'll kindly agree to disagree. It's 100% how Wolf packs, and gorillas work
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:45 PM
-6

There's always been a hierarchy of males. No different than the animal world. You'll always have leaders, and followers, always have guys that are bigger, stringer, etc whatever. It doesn't need a label, but it definitely exists
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:23 PM
-5

I'll disagree with that. I'm a christian, and did everything wrong in my teens, and 20's. I married the women who wasn't a virgin, and had multiple partners before me. It ended up with cheating, and lies, all things that seriously impacted my life. Had I waited, and found the right Christian woman from the start with the same morals, it would have been completely different.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:12 PM
-5

I'll way in on this, being middle aged. It's not that they necessarily want a virgin, it's that they have been around long enough to know that people that sleep around will have issues later in a monogamous relationship, because they seen, and or lived it. That's my take on it
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:09 PM
-9

Alphas, and betas definitely exist. They always have. We just don't need people running around claiming to be whatever.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 01:05 PM
0

Avoid women that sleep around. Look for a woman with good moral character, and she won't cheat, she won't try trading up, she'll love you for you.
/r/ExRedPill10/01/24 12:46 PM
1

Destructive self harmful behaviors
/r/ExRedPill09/01/24 01:13 AM
1

Alot of everything. I was abused physically, and mentally as a child, and then after a few bad relationships married a narcissistic woman that cheated the entire marriage, I found out after the divorce the extent, and how many people. Honestly think it's manopuase lol
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 03:05 PM
3

As long as he didn't use you, and add to it he has every right. That's his decision, and preference
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 02:49 PM
2

I agree 100%. I held myself to that standard, and expect the same. These things should be upfront before any sexual connection.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 02:48 PM
2

I agree 100%. I held myself to that standard, and expect the same. These things should be upfront before any sexual connection
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 02:48 PM
1

Well in my case it's the devastating effects it has caused in the way I view women, and my wife specifically now. The addiction part is a piece of cake to get past, what's not, is the damage it did to my mind, in the way I perceive her now, as damaged goods. I started having mental images of her with her exes sexually, and it really screwed my head up. On top of that I have ocd, so it just ruminate in my mind. I'm struggling to stay in my marriage, and not leave. The bad part is I met her when s…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 02:05 PM
2

It's not wrong. It's preference. As long as you aren't shaming them for it, and are up front It's perfectly fine
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:57 PM
1

I can't speak for all men, but yes, most guys I know definitely care. I'm a christian so that poses different reasons for me. I tried holding myself accountable, and I wanted the same. I never wanted to be last in a long line.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:55 PM
2

I stopped all the red pill crap over a month ago cold turkey. I just scroll right past it. I deleted tiktok completely. Well I'm an ex football player, and big muscular guy. I don't see knitting in my future lol. I get your point though. I hope you're right. I've not been very successful as of yet
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:51 PM
2

I'm trying, and you're right, all it did was make me angry, and bitter. It took a very secure man to someone I can't stand looking at anymore. I'm a good looking guy, I'm 6'5, and built well, and it made me feel insignificant, and worthless. Like I'm last place, which essentially I am I guess lol. I'd give anything to go back to the way I was.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 11:30 AM
-2

I kinda disagree. I'm a good looking guy, I'm 6'5 built well, played sports, always had a cool car etc. I always had plenty to choose from, but I had friends that couldn't have bought a date. In contrast, even women on what I'd say were his level, always had dates. There is something to that
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 02:56 AM
2

Guys don't have 50 messages in a dm waiting that they can pick and choose
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 02:25 AM
1

Zero chance he's a virgin. That's as much of a set up as him putting dumb girls on the show
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 01:40 AM
1

Yea, that's kinda the point
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 12:58 AM
1

It's actually easier than you think. I started seeing all that body count crap, and how a woman can't pair bond after x amount of partners etc. I started seeing my wife as less than worthy. It started me on a retroactive jealousy ocd issue where I'd ruminate over scenarios my mind created about her in sexual situations with ex boyfriends. Because of that it has completely ruined how I once viewed my wife. I'm basically ready to just walk away, because I can't stop the ocd thoughts now. I wish I'…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 12:43 AM
1

Body count, and seeing women as dirt because of it. It's caused major issues in my marriage. I'm having a hard time not just walking out. The damage is done in my brain. Its hard to unsee the things my mind has shown me now.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 12:39 AM
-1

Lol, that's not what I meant, but of you date enough, and don't put out, you will find the right one just based on numbers alone. I also find it unlikely they all get scared away by the idea of marriage.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 12:37 AM
-3

How are you used for sex if you say no?
/r/ExRedPill08/01/24 12:14 AM
6

Accurate 100%
/r/ExRedPill07/01/24 10:09 PM
-11

I think the point is you still have tons of options. I bet you gonon any dating site, and have your pick of guys. They may not be the one you want, bit you have options. It's your choice to sleep with them or not. That's where they get the 80/20 thing from, and you're kinda proving their point for them
/r/ExRedPill07/01/24 10:09 PM
5

I swallowed to many, and its causing major issues in my marriage. It's harder to unprogram than it was to program. It's hard to unsee, or unthink the things that get in bedded so easy.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/24 01:56 AM
0

Good question. I'm 53, and married, and in the last 3 months had 2 different women one I'm their 20's, and one early 30's express interest in me. It's a weird thing
/r/ExRedPill03/01/24 02:38 AM
-5

That's not entirely true, and a generalized statement. I got sucked into red pill, and I'm a good looking muscular 6'5 guy. I never had issues getting, or keeping women. It has zero to do with lacking sex appeal, that's just what people against red pill use as something to argue with, but it's far from the truth. It has to do with accepting people for who they are, or aren't. Its not up to us to judge who dates, or married who. It's not up to us to judge someone who wants to marry a virgin. It's…
/r/ExRedPill02/01/24 03:16 PM
1

Getting old is a privilege? Can I ask how old you are? You may change your mind about that. For me, sex is a huge part of my life, and identity. I've enjoyed my life, but I'm at the point, it's just not great anymore. It lacks excitement. I'm not going to just sit on a sofa and fade away. The bad part is I lived so much that my body is about shot. I raced motocross, and played semi pro football into my mid 30's, did mma into my early 40's, and now all those injuries are haunting me. I've lived a…
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 06:47 PM
1

I agree. That's why I have a plan in a couple years. I won't be doing the getting old thing. Screw that lol
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 04:55 PM
2

There's actually a huge number of single women 30-50 out there. The thing I see more than aging is people letting themselves go. They get in a realtionship, and stop trying to look good. That's unattractive. Maybe that's the wall they speak of.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 03:19 PM
0

I everyone hits a wall to a point I guess. I was the hot bad boy. 6'5 played sports, rode sport bikes etc. We all get old. Some age better than others, but it's inevitable. Some look better older than they did younger, and some worse. Not sure why they'd be angry about that. I've seen but ugly guys with hot women, and vice versa.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 12:06 PM
3

It's not always insecure men. I was majorly red pill, got sucked in by the crap, and I had more women than I can remember when I was younger. That whole idea that it's just guys that can't get women is just not true. It's easy to have those ideals when you come from a trauma background.
/r/ExRedPill26/12/23 04:24 AM
3

Oh man, I gotta ask. What did it do to you as a woman?
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:44 AM
5

100% you get sucked down a stupid rabbit hole
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 11:44 AM
5

If you wait for a woman to make the first move you might wait a long time. You went from one extreme to the next. Women want to be pursued for the most part. I don't condone using women, and I don't condone sleeping around. Not in a red pill way, in a that's my belief as a christian way. The truth still applies when trying to date, you have to know what you find acceptable
/r/ExRedPill22/12/23 02:00 AM
1

What is mgtow?
/r/ExRedPill21/12/23 01:53 AM
1

Lol, that's a bit extreme. No I wouldn't, but I don't have to either.
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 12:17 PM
1

That's definitely debatable. If I had to choose between never having sex or being alone it'd be an easy choice. Luckily I never had that issue, but it is a reality for alot of people
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 12:04 PM
1

I can't answer that
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 01:52 AM
-1

No 100% it's not. On my second. The first was a disaster, and really messed my head up
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 01:51 AM
0

That'd be your choice. Nobody else's
/r/ExRedPill18/12/23 01:49 AM
1

How did you mess it up? By waiting 4 days? I'm confused a bit on that
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 11:24 PM
-2

I disagree about the hate. There are plenty of guys that would marry those women. No matter what it's always easier for women to get attention from guys. It is what it is. The problem is most guys just don't have confidence to approach women.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 10:48 PM
-7

Well to be fair women don't even have to try to attract men. Even the ugliest woman will always have some guys coming on to her.
/r/ExRedPill17/12/23 01:17 PM
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