Dating

floracalendula · 2024-01-07T21:26:38+00:00

Dating in my 20s was hot garbage. Because yes, the guys were only in it for ONS and hookups, and they damn well wouldn't respect you after.

ROBYoutube · 2024-01-07T22:13:41+00:00

Dating during the age range 18-23 fucking sucks. For all of us.

xvszero · 2024-01-07T20:57:22+00:00

Because they need to sell the idea to men that women have significantly easier lives so they can use that to discredit feminism and push their sexist nonsense.

undercovertrad · 2024-01-07T21:14:37+00:00

My experience was that dating was only easy when I was willing to present as potentially open to hook-ups. Walk around talking about wanting to get married and settle down will chase away most men these days in their twenties. But lots of twenties dudes are looking to “pump and dump”, as the red pillers would say. So, women presenting as open to that will very much have a fairly easy time “dating”. Whether or not they actually put out, it will be fairly easy to line up dates regardless of appearance if they present as just looking for something casual and low-commitment. Pretty much every woman in her twenties that I’ve known who dated with purpose for something serious struggled more often than not in the first half of their twenties.

squirrelscrush · 2024-01-08T06:16:14+00:00

It's the difference between dying of thirst due to lack of water and dying of thirst due to flooding of salty water.

tissue7 · 2024-01-08T06:52:31+00:00

Perception that beauty as a female means you have a lot of options and can sleep around. I bet it’s just as hard to find a good partner for something long term though.

Weekly_Attitude_6638 · 2024-01-07T22:55:53+00:00

well, at least you get men interested in you for ONS, most men in their 20s don't even get that from women, they are invisible to them...

shawninpa · 2024-01-08T02:56:09+00:00

I kinda disagree. I'm a good looking guy, I'm 6'5 built well, played sports, always had a cool car etc. I always had plenty to choose from, but I had friends that couldn't have bought a date. In contrast, even women on what I'd say were his level, always had dates. There is something to that

shawninpa · 2024-01-07T22:09:07+00:00

I think the point is you still have tons of options. I bet you gonon any dating site, and have your pick of guys. They may not be the one you want, bit you have options. It's your choice to sleep with them or not. That's where they get the 80/20 thing from, and you're kinda proving their point for them

Title	Dating
Author	Admirable_Bid_9193
Upvotes	20
Comments	36
Date	January 7, 2024 8:47 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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