The wall

HeckelSystem · 2023-12-02T19:27:32+00:00

I think it’s more insidious. The entire house of cards comes down in the face or a competent, confident woman. As people age they get more confident and capable of standing up for their own interests. The wall is just another way to identify people as less likely to be part of the vulnerable and exploitable population. It’s less “you’re no longer desirable” and more “I’m dumping you before you wise up to my abuse and manipulation.”

KingTyranitar · 2023-12-02T18:29:03+00:00

I think so too, I’m 40 and have absolutely zero problem getting dates or relationship offers, it’s just the offers aren’t that great so I stay single

2023-12-02T16:35:15+00:00

It's tragically ironic, how some of these "coaches" insist on fabricating sweeping generalizations about women who have passed a certain age threshold, but themselves aren't what they demand. This, to me, just seems to mirror how the beauty industry has made women feel for decades.

From my perspective, true beauty cannot be confined within the confines of a 'barely legal' age range. We all inevitably grow older, men and women alike, and it's a fact of life. It's disheartening to observe the lengths some go to - resorting to surgeries and fillers - just to appease those unwilling to appreciate them beyond their mere appearance.

Genuine connections should transcend superficial fascination, thriving on mutual understanding, respect, and shared values. To each their own, I guess.

AssociationCurrent22 · 2023-12-02T19:51:38+00:00

Yes! I’ve heard someone call Fresh and Fit “Revenge of the nerds” guys 😂🤣 I thought it’s spot on

TelevisionGloomy5458 · 2023-12-02T20:57:25+00:00

Oh yeah. But men get old and ugly too

Brilliant_Program_39 · 2023-12-02T19:05:52+00:00

Yep, the wall is cope. Even when men say that they prefer younger women, they sleep with women in their same age. Lol

PutsWomenOnPedestal · 2023-12-02T19:36:24+00:00

The Great Wall of China is real though. But the wall as shelf-life for women’s attractiveness is not real. At least not in any meaningful way.

Rook_Cross · 2023-12-04T03:14:19+00:00

It's revenge, it's a tactic to try and scare women into dating them, it's a narcissistic thing, where they tell themselves things to make them feel they're above others (those lesser, older women for example). Also, a lot of them don't think for themselves and just parrot what they hear to fit in and feel smart. People do generally get less "attractive" as they age and the dating pool does shrink. but it is for booth sexes, not just the one. They also want to believe they can get a younger women because they want one. Telling themselves they keep their value and are at the height of their value and belong with younger women, is an attempt to wish themselves into one. I think mostly you have men who can't distinguish their personal desire from reality, for several of the prior reasons, and talk about the wall to support their fantasy. you also have grifters who tell men what they want to hear.

Astral-avocado · 2023-12-04T06:31:49+00:00

I look at pictures of myself when I was in my early 20s compared to now 27. I had a glow up. I have a few small wrinkles, but I look more womanly and I’m so much more confident in myself!

Significant-Dog-4362 · 2023-12-02T22:51:45+00:00

Deep down they’re scared little boys. The second they are in the presences of a confident beautiful woman who tells them no. They turn right back into scared five year olds who got scolded for sneaking cookies

ashaw7 · 2023-12-03T17:28:21+00:00

This concept existed before the red pill. Ever hear of a spinster or an old maid? In China at a very young age (late 20s) women are in damger of becoming "leftover women". It basically means that a woman has not gotten married in time to have good odds with child bearing, or at an age where men still want to date or court them. It's not as applicable in this society where there are plenty of men if all ages with all kinds of relationship statuses who might want to date them, but the fact remains that women's dating prospects generally tend to decrease dramatically as they get into mid 30s. This applies to men, but at a much later age. After 50, men generally stop being as attractive to women.

Horror-Newt-5793 · 2023-12-03T09:14:09+00:00

No. Women age worse then men. It cost women more to age become their value is looks not money or status like men. Do if she looses that she looses her fucking mind. Why don’t you look on at the tik toks of women freaking out they can’t find a man or no one will date them. It’s because women know their value in society is their youth and beauty. They wouldn’t be freaking out about aging if it wasn’t so important. Don’t spout ignorance and actually observe reality.

Title	The wall
Author	Admirable_Bid_9193
Upvotes	34
Comments	38
Date	December 2, 2023 3:38 PM UTC (2 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/ExRedPill
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