Virginity

xvszero · 2024-01-09T20:35:56+00:00

Yes. But I grew up in a religious community where this is the norm so it's more like, the older I got, the more I realized how creepy it was.

squirrelscrush · 2024-01-12T18:46:50+00:00

It is creepy I feel. Granted that people are entitled to have standards, but it's wise to also see the feasibility. When you're young and virgin it's reasonable since most others are virgin too, but middle age isn't a time you find a lot of virgins. You have no choice but to take whatever you have, and losing it with someone experienced isn't a bad thing at all. Their wanting of virgins when they themselves want to have a harem is creepy.

I'm a virgin and a practicing Catholic, so I would want to lose it after marriage. I want someone who has the same standards. Here it is reasonable for me. But it's not like I'll be rejecting a girl who's a really good choice and is really compatible just for not being a virgin. Provided that she has changed her mind and respects my decision.

lizards_are_not_real · 2024-01-10T02:56:27+00:00

I am one of those guys who wants a virgin. But it's because I'm a virgin myself. I want both of us to experience something new together. It kind of makes the whole thing special, in my opinion. We get to be each other's firsts, we get to share that special memory forever, even if we break up down the line, knowing that we trusted each other enough to cross that threshold together.

rockettdarr · 2024-01-10T14:34:30+00:00

Sorry, girl chiming in. Yes it’s very creepy and I don’t understand red pill guys mentalities because you can’t raise a generation of men to persue persue persue, say the grossest things and think there aren’t going to be a small percentage of guys that are normal and will let the girl be herself and view her as a human which she’s been waiting for the whole time. So to actually think young women with desires are walking around as virgins is useless and crazy because they simply are not for the most part 😂😂 . There will always be someone who will let her be herself with them. Women have sexual desires and they are missing out worried about them being virgins when most of the time we can’t even go outside without being harassed and hit on. And if they are, women aren’t going to let their first time be with some woman hater red pill Tate boy.

softnmushy · 2024-01-10T06:30:50+00:00

I assume it just reflects their own insecurity. In their mind, marrying a virgin would mean they never had to compete with another man for the sexual desire of their wife. I don't think it really works that way. But insecurities are not necessarily rational.

Birthday_Personal · 2024-01-09T22:07:26+00:00

I disagree. I think there's a big difference between wanting a virgin and not wanting a woman with baseball numbers in body count. But for historical reference virginity was associated with purity. And the women men are getting today are anything but pure. Many already have the herps (sic).

shawninpa · 2024-01-10T13:09:10+00:00

I'll way in on this, being middle aged. It's not that they necessarily want a virgin, it's that they have been around long enough to know that people that sleep around will have issues later in a monogamous relationship, because they seen, and or lived it. That's my take on it

shawninpa · 2024-01-11T00:14:03+00:00

I was speaking of hypothetical, and going back, being able to do it right. I know I'm broken.

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Ifhes · 2024-01-13T04:32:20+00:00

Virginity in itself is a really weird concept. It's not like we need a word to describe people who never ate garlic bread before, do we?

0s0EsElCucuy_ImComin · 2024-01-14T04:58:42+00:00

Only creepy n weird bcuz ur nor a virgin n u orally a ho

UnfortunateJones · 2024-01-17T07:13:33+00:00

Yeah. How is it any docent from the virgins of Allah?

A dream sent to the cannon fodder, but we have no canons to weed us out.

But seriously look at any world history. US us guys are descended from rapists. And it’s so fuccccked.

Title	Virginity
Author	Admirable_Bid_9193
Upvotes	35
Comments	45
Date	January 9, 2024 8:26 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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