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| 21 | red pill true in real life"seeing how women are and behave irl actually redpilled me more than any stupid influencer ever could" All these kind of post come here with a statement like that without explaining what they mean with that. Let's dive in what they redpill says about women: They ride the cock carousel Have you seen the half of humanity being insanely promiscuos by yourself? They hit the wall Have you seen the half of humanity being lonely with cats at 25/30 yo? They are child like minded How can you prove that e… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/02/24 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.I respond to a comment made here. Blocked the user because he insist by all means that I'm a child for expressing a different opinion that doesn't suits him. *"This is a very narrow and misguided take on the origins of MRM and MRA. Why didn't you include Putnam's take from 40y before Ernest? Putnam is for woman’s rights but also man’s rights—for everybody’s rights; and, in that spirit, we are going to offer a few hints to our legislators, whose vaulting zeal, on behalf of the ladies, seems a lit… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleYou can't name shit because the "benefits" don't exist. And the "benefits", if they exist, can be attained by other ways that don't imply being screwed by a lot of men with the hope that one of them will pick you. What are the benefits for women? Being devalued again and again, being seen as a product that loses its value over time by her husband and...what? Money? Already women are having money without doing the nonsensical redpill strategy. Kids? Already done. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."I'm unsure if you understand this, but 40% is an enormous margin. He advocates for communication and transparency in sexual relations and for both men and women to be upfront and honest about their intentions. You are intentionally misrepresenting his position." No I don't. He suggest that men should not be in jail for not listening women when they say "no", with the excuse that women with their body say "yes". Even if a study says that women messages are not clear, that doesn't excuse men igno… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."This is a very narrow and misguided take on the origins of MRM and MRA. Why didn't you include Putnam's take from 40y before Ernest?" Can you name a relevant MRA figure or group that names the Putnams take? Because I have named plenty people who names Belfort as the first one. Even your OWN FUCKING SOURCE makes that. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."that the man not be put in jail for choosing the “yes” over the “no.”" Men shouldn't be in jail for raping women because they Say "yes" with their body. Indeed, he is a victim of "date fraude". | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."No singular father" 5 mins later "Warren farrell is considered the father" | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MalePlethora of benefits that you can't name for some reason. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleToo much words to say that it doesn't benefit women at all, just as I said. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Do you want me to take Warren Farrell as the father of modern MRA? Ok. Farrel is still a misogynist who frames women as only sexual beings. He says that women have "the power of cleavage" and "the power of miniskirt" over their bosses. He downplays the date rape problem by saying that when a woman says no, it can be mean yes. Also, he advocated for incest in the past. I can understand the criticism that "I'm cherry picking". But then I ask Who should I listen to then? Take into account that MRA … | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Not a comparable thing at all, dude. Because what I did is what I said. I went to MRA groups and asked for relevant figures, they named a few. Then read those relevant figures. All of them have named Belfort as the first MRA. A similar excercise can be done with feminism. You can go to the feminism subreddit or askfeminists subreddit and ask what are the relevant figures of feminism. They will name "Simone de beauvoir" for example, and then you can read those to understand the roots of feminism.… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.We can't have a productive conversation here because we don't have the same concepts. I have told you in other comments that I reject "toxic masculinity" as a concept. But you ignore that. You just can't pull out of the air the "toxic masculinity" problem without much explanation. It just seem to me as vague way to say "that thing I don't like". What you say is just not convincing me at all of being a feminist, but just see feminism as a cult. You just repeat the same things other feminists have… | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."because by addressing that toxic masculinity and patriarchal ideologies" You are blaming men and then you pretend you didn't that. Typical. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 03:05 PM |
| 0 | Something I noticed reading The Rational Male"there are always "younger, untainted" women to find commitment from. The promiscuous women who fail to find commitment from HVMs are left to the LVM (Betas) or their cats..." You admit without any shame that the strategy doesn't benefit women at all. You are incapable of making a point without contradicting it in the following comment. My point is clear. It doesn't benefit women nor society, it only benefits men. You can't debunk that. Pathetic. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/02/24 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."Sexual assault is not a tiny problem, and again it is not the responsibility of feminism to bring about world peace, because war is not a gendered issue. It is the role of feminism to address the gendered issues that surround these topics." I didn't Say that sexual assault is a tiny issue. I said mansplaining and manspreading ARE tiny issues compared to war. War is a gendered issue since only men are obligated to fight in war only because they are men and not women. That gendered problem is not… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/24 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."These are the gendered issues relating to war. The very process of addressing these is feminism, because by addressing that toxic masculinity and patriarchal ideologies, you also address the system that says that women can't enrol, and you address the sexual violence that women face in war zones." So what feminism propose blaming men and their masculinity instead ot 1. accepting the fact that even in non masculine worlds (so no toxic masculinity there) there is war 2. Protesting directly so wom… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/24 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."No again you're not understanding what the message of feminism is and how it actually does solve many of men's problems. " Oh, then explain what the message is. I'm tired of feminists acting as if I'm stupid for not being a feminist instantly at their will. I have a brain, ok? I can understand feminism. "because feminism is about understanding gender imbalance and disassembling the patriarchy, because the patriarchy is the cause of all of the issues that you're thinking about" I'm not sure abou… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/24 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.How I explain this to you so you understand basic logic? So, a group of people do and think things. And then you approach them and ask them who they consider to be relevant in their movement. They give a few names.(Warren Farrell, Paul Elam, Karen Straughan, Janice Fiamengo, XenoShenlong, Daniel Jimenez...) And then you ask who is or what is the foundation of their own group. They give you a name. Male worshippers and boot lickers love to take my words as if I'm making things up and pulling out … | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/24 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleDo you know that there are millions of people in the word and millions of those called "HVMs", right? My scenario is idealistic, not the reality. Imagine if 1000 men (there are much more men who follow the redpill) do that in reality. The last women remaining would have 1000 body counts. But you are too dumb to even think about reality, because redpill depends on its followers being out of touch with reality. And take into account that Rollo himself said that, in order to make women abandon thei… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/02/24 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.It's pointless to talk to you, because you are responding to points I'm not making. When I blamed women? I said "institutions", "families" and "other men". But you keep pointing out something I didn't say. "If you want to add to the discussion that there need to be more resources about how to help men when they open up, go ahead and add in your two cents. You can do so and it can still be feminism. Just because you've never heard what you're saying from "feminism" doesn't mean that feminism does… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.I didn't expressed the problem in the correct way, but I think it is easy to understand that my point is that the majority of the homeless are men. Even when more and more women are breadwinners, society keeps thinking about men as the providers. If you study the single mothers issue, you will encounter with the fact that men abandon their children and their partners because of a lack of stability and a narrow possibility of being a proper provider or a proper partner. Lack of stability makes re… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational Male"That rant was pointless and in no way addressed my comment" How is pointless to adress the strategy Rollo Tomassi recommends to men to be HVM and find a good relationship? How I'm not addressing your point? Your point is defending the redpill by any means, even if that includes making galaxy level of mental gymnastics. You say shit like this "And that this produces the best long-term outcomes in society for both men and women". But without exaplaining how the redpill actually benefits women, if… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleYou are making up my points because you can't adress what I'm saying in the first place. I was responding to this: "Their perspective is that women should utilize the peek of their SMV in their youth to find an HVM that will commit to them long-term, thus avoiding the increasingly damaging side effects that "are statistically shown" to increase with the number of sexual partners. And that this produces the best long-term outcomes in society for both men and women." If the strategy that Rollo adv… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.I think my position is clear. I'm worried about men's issues and I haven't seen any ideology or movement who actually care about them. Only a few people here and there, but they are a minority. I'm critical with feminism and feminists because I think it is a mistake to embrace a way of thinking without doubt about it in the first place. And because they don't offer what I'm seeking. The common arguments are the same you are saying here. They invite me to think in feminists lens and analyse issue… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 01:53 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.You can't offer any feminist work because no feminist have talked about how we should listen more to men. That's why. I'm not saying that women should listen men, men also can help other men from killing themselves. That is not the point I was making. The point is that is not enough to put the blame in masculinity and "men don't talk enough" if there are not politics, professionals of campaigns to teach families what to do when men express finally that they are thinking in offing themselves. I t… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 01:33 PM |
| 3 | Please help me, redpill is making me suicidalYou should try to read Laura Bates work not only about the manosphere but about sexism. Her work on sexism made me open my eyes as how I was a victim of it and made me more unattached to manosphere. Also, try to explore feminists spaces. Even if you don't consider yourself a feminist, feminism had a positive impact in my self steem/self image and it could make you feel supported by other women. Finally, if you really need debunks as me, read datepsych blog, watch Münecat video about the manosphe… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleI think it's pretty clear that I'm talking about the particular mindset, not talking about all men. If all men were redpillers I would not be engaged with a man in the first place lol | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/24 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Are you aware that according to Paul Elam, a MRA figure that is not only relevant in english MRA communities but also in spanish communities, said that Ernst Belfort Bax is THE FATHER of the modern MRA? Elam even tweeted about how Belfort was right and that give women the vote was the biggest mistake done in the history of the us. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 11:55 PM |
| 3 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Yes "redpill bad". Because it is about shiting on women, not about helping men. I have been told by redpill advocaters and MRA's that the manosphere "save lives" and that if I criticize them then "I don't care about men's issues". Think about Roosh V, how he helped men exactly? He wrote in his books how he raped women and wrote in his blog how feminists were obsessed with rape because they were ugly and no one wanted to rape them. Yeah, a great way of making activism against rape and sexual abus… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleDude, Rollo Tomassi is married. That doesn't mean that he promotes marriage. Took for example, his tuit about "how to become a high value male" he argued with fresh and fit and Destiny. One point is "never marry" and "have a vasectomy". Even when he is married, he promotes the opposite thing. Something that should tell you that he is not only hypocritical but a fraudulent person. According to the "Iron rules of Tomassi", the strategy a man should follow is what I said. He said explicitly in his … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 11:29 PM |
| 0 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."Women have those same stressors" Not true. Most women are not homeless, most women don't face the stress of being a provider by society nor attracted to crime by promises of being someone and having more status among your peers. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.About suicide in men, is not true that suicide methods are highly gendered. Studies have controlled for the method and men still are killing themselves more than women. Can you provide a feminist work that frames men as victims and try to propose a solution to one problem that doesn't involve teaching men another way of being masculine? Flood when approach men and violence, writes about how men should think on how violence affects women, not themselves. Same with other problems. When talking abo… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 08:03 PM |
| 7 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights."RedPill reaction of what's going on" And what's going on exactly? Because any problem they name or is not real or is being solved by equality. "Chile support and alimony!!" Most women are not getting child support nor alimony and men are getting more and more alimony because of equality "False rape acusations" Do I have to say it? Men have more probabilities of being SAed themselves than falsely acused of rape. "Single mothers!" Somehow is feminism fault that poor women are choosing to become s… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Well, I follow the work of Michael Flood. A feminist who denounce the misogyny in MRA and also talk about men and feminism. The key points, are not politics or actions to improve men lifes, but teach them a new way of being by abandoning masculinity and being allies of women. He point out that any problem men have is internal and it can be solved by a change on their attitude. That doesn't seem realistic to me. Poverty, genital mutilation, murder, poor outcomes in school, suicide can't be solved… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 06:39 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.What can I do to "understand feminism correctly"? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.¿? Mate, I'm not saying that men don't have any problem. They have and I have said in my other comments that I don't see men's problems as internal. I don't agree with the common feminist position that any problem men have is due to their toxic masculinity and that men should "shut up or man up". That's bs. What I'm saying is that men's movements are not hacked by misogynists, but are misogynistic and Anti women's rights at their roots. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 06:18 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.I don't agree that the homicides against men are an internal problem. Is not about men, is about the criminals. Men are more prone to commit crimes, yes, but at the same time most men are not commiting them. Only a few are making those crimes. So I doubt it is about an attitude that men have to change or solve among them, but a problem that involves systemic problems as poverty or lack of opportunities. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Try to find a group of people that is fighting to solve those problems. As far as I know there are "intactivists" who try to fight males genital mutilation. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 04:30 PM |
| 1 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.The thing is, you must be careful with that because sufragism and feminism are different things. According to Linda Nicholson feminism use the metaphor of the waves to promote feminism, but the truth is that feminism was not dominant in what they call "the first wave" | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 04:24 PM |
| 8 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.I'm not sure about feminists roots. Can you provide a source about it? | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 04:59 AM |
| 18 | Beware, MRA roots are misogynistic and anti-women rights.Take into account that the manosphere in its origins was dominated by Rollo, Roissy and Roosh V.Rollo, it the softest of the group. Roosh V wrote in his book how he raped women and how he followed women to their homes when they were drunk. He said things like this: "make rape legal if done on private property. I propose that we make the violent taking of a woman not punishable by law when done off public grounds" Roissy wrote things like this: "If you allow a woman to make the rules she will res… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/24 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational Male"Their perspective is that women should utilize the peek of their SMV in their youth to find an HVM that will commit to them long-term, thus avoiding the increasingly damaging side effects that "are statistically shown" to increase with the number of sexual partners. And that this produces the best long-term outcomes in society for both men and women." Nope. They are encouraging men to have sex with a lot of women at once and chose women based on how good the sex is or how many times the woman h… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed reading The Rational MaleI said "A totally sane way to view relationships and women" Because I don't think is sane to think "women get damaged by having sex but I will have sex with them because I want to". I really don't get the Male mindset that virgin women have more value and lost their value by having sex with them. Is like saying "I know I'm damaging this person by punching them in the face but I will do it anyway because I get pleasure out of it". It makes men look like psychos. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/24 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Something I don't get about redpillers.I have had redpillers telling me that Bill Gates is a beta provider, and as I said the alpha budda por relevant figures of the redpill (Rollo and Roissy) is a teen with not money and no career, just a prick who made a wild party that needed the cops involved. If money is highly correlated with status, then why Bill Gates is a beta provider and a teen with no money is an alpha? Why dudes like Joe Biden is a beta and Donald Trump an alpha? I'm not making things up, that kind of discourse was commo… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Something I don't get about redpillers.You are not making sense. They don't care about the happiness of women, but at the same time describe how they are "Humbled" by the wall again and again in their videos and you say they experience states of grief through all the process that last for years. How that makes sense exactly? So they say that the wall implies grief (something you experience when somebody DIES) but at the same time they don't say nor impply that women who end up married with a beta provider are unhappy? You sure? So, t… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/24 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Something I don't get about redpillers.About Hypergamy. There is an inconsistency there. Because redpillers say that is not about marriage and is not about money, but "status", but then when they argue about the topic they bring studies on hypergamy that talk about marriage, income and men earning more than their wifes. Also bringing studies about how marriages tend to end because of economic reasons among the couples, etc. So, or women are hypergamous and look for economically attractive dudes (Aka they find men with money attractiv… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/02/24 01:03 AM |
| 3 | Something I don't get about redpillers.How there is no contradiction exactly? The consequence of hitting the wall is end up alone with cats, wine and antidepressants. But also...end up married, not having to pay because the husband is the provider and with kids? Like, with no real consequences of your actions (party years), only having to tolerate a man who after all is paying all the bills? (And women according the redpill are hypergamous, so...part of them are satisfied if the man is paying the bills and earning more than her(?) Th… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/24 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Something I don't get about redpillers.It keeps being nonsense. Even if they don't want to marry the beta, she still doesn't end up alone with cats as they should be according to the wall theory. And, if we follow along the narrative, the beta is a provider, someone who pays the woman's bills and give her kids too. So? She gets married, doesn't have to pay shit and doesn't end up alone. Even if she doesn't want him she will be using him by hypergamous reasons. Math isn' mathing here. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/24 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Something I don't get about redpillers.It's kinda weird how they say that young women have power over men only by their looks. Creepy af. Being attractive makes you an object of desire, not powerful. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/24 02:01 PM |
| 21 | I think my boyfriend is a redpillerGet out quick. It doesn't worth it. Even if he knows is all bullshit, he will cling to it because of emotional reasons. I have been there and the end is not pretty. Just leave him, don't wait till he manifest all his misogyny against you. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/24 09:07 PM |
| 61 | I think my boyfriend is a redpillerI realized the BS when I was trying to read the studies that backed up blackpill/redpill. The studies didn't say what they preach. But I started to search the truth when I was trying to not kill myself because redpillers convinced me that I was a bad person by nature only for being female. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/02/24 09:05 PM |
| 8 | This sub is no better than the redpill subs.I'm confused. By statistic most men won't have a nice career, they will be poor as most of us living paycheck to paycheck. Also, all people have to work on their social skills and social life. If you want to have friends, you have to put yourself about there. It's not a gendered thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/01/24 12:01 AM |
| 15 | This sub is no better than the redpill subs.I think they comment is fair. It is in response to the idea that men peak at 40, and it is sold as a rule in the redpill. I don't know if you understand the implications of that. But basically that idea makes men abandon the dating market in their 20's to wait until they are thirty something. That is something dangerous to do, because the less experience you have the more narrow the dating pool comes when you age. Also, is magical thinking. Is like "it doesn't matter who You are or how You act, … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/24 11:51 PM |
| 6 | This sub is no better than the redpill subs.Sorry, but you should not be here if a comment from a random user on internet males you depressed. Take care. | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/24 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Just wondering have any of you watched The Red Pill documentary?Yes, I have watched it, when I was a MRA. First of all, Cassie Jaye is a scammer. In her kickstarter video she stated than the documentary "will be not partisan". Until, surprise, she received money from The redpill subreddit. She pretends to be non partisan, by interviewing a feminist friend and that red headead feminist. She doesn't invite other feminists who are more relevant in the case. She doesn't interview Mary Koss, for example, but she give voice to relevant and well versed MRA's. The p… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/24 07:44 PM |
| 3 | I can’t Un-RP myselfHypergamy: It is about marrying someone who has more money or education than you. That is what is backed up by science, and studies about it talk about "hypergamous marriage" even when it is not intentional to marry up by some member of the couple, but when someone has more money or education when it wasn't planned. It doesn't mean "dating up" based on any trait. It is not about an "instinct" for looking for a better option always. 20/80 rule: Most men are having sex every year. Only 7% of men r… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/24 07:21 PM |
| 2 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman."I'm sorry but all (young male blackpilled) incels i know personally are obsessed about their looks" You know them personally? So I guess they are like three or five dudes? And I already replied that. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/01/24 09:48 AM |
| 3 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman."The meme is famous because the mainstream made it famous and because anti-incel propaganda talks about it more than incel themselves" Maybe. But what I have seen is not in critique of inceldom. Incels themselves in spanish and in english make that point all the time to me. And in reddit too. When I was on inceltears an incel came to me and told me that the only solution was forced monogamy. Also, hypergamy is well known in spanish and in english. I don't know if you know, but in spanish MGTOWs … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Is this a satire subreddit?"Average men have gfs and wives and fuck every year" "Being average in looks has never stopped men from having relationships, just look around you. " Ok, at this point any shit will confirm the redpill then. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 07:25 PM |
| 5 | Is this a satire subreddit?"Average men have gfs and wives and fuck every year" "Being average in looks has never stopped men from having relationships, just look around you. " Ok, at this point any shit will confirm the redpill then. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 07:25 PM |
| 3 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman.No, sorry, but they are not few and the whole hypergamy thing is about blaming women and their sexual agency, being the final theory about it that women will wreck civilization due to hypergamy. And the incel solution for it, is enforced monogamy. Also, the incel meme of "sexual revolution caused inceldom" is popular and very well known. At the point that it is present in spanish too. The meme is international at this point. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 07:10 PM |
| 2 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman.I responded to that already. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 07:03 PM |
| 3 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman.Dude, I have talked to blackpilled guys and they are all about complaining about looks, but doing nothing about that. However, I'm not into looking incels forums for mental health, sorry if I don't know any move that incels make. In another hand, it is something relevant to point out that the general incel meme is not about "they should cover our plastic surgeries" and such but they are like "goverment should give us girlfriends" at the point that normies and even a politician made statements in… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 05:34 PM |
| 9 | Is this a satire subreddit?"It only makes sense to bring someone into your life if they're going to improve it. He says he's average in looks, but from all he said he probably reeks of desperation and resentment. Maybe he has poor communication and social skills, or it could be many other things. Being average in looks has never stopped men from having relationships, just look around you. The truth is that he doesn't look like he's bringing anything to the table other than looking average, and he then blames girls for ski… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 04:33 PM |
| 13 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman."Most men don’t get that simply because standards are higher for men when it comes to physical attractiveness" Sincerely it piss me off. Even if this is true, that doesn't change anything. I have never seen any incel saying shit like "well, the problem here is my poor jaw and chin so I will look for a surgery on it". No, instead they bitch on internet and try to shame women for their choices. Like, dude, if you believe is your looks, work on it and move on? Women do that all the time. They wax, … | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 04:24 PM |
| 11 | I think the solution to TRP and inceldom is for a person to have a consensual purely sexual encounter with a woman."Most men don’t get that simply because standards are higher for men when it comes to physical attractiveness" Proof of that? "I think getting this validation and having one woman appreciate him as a purely sexual being and being seen as attractive to her would help exponentially" I highly doubt it since I have talked to blackpillers on the topic and they are like "it doesn't matter if a woman suck my dick every week if they love Chad in the deep of their heart". I'm not joking. They have a high… | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 04:14 PM |
| 3 | I feel like there’s such a common characterization of relationships as meritocractic on anti redpill/incel subs that’s so frustratingWomen who struggle with dating are gaslighted and told that they are just pretending or pursuing Chad so they should lower their standards. General advice for women in dating (if u look up yt channels on the topic) talk about improve their looks and social skills. But for men is something forbideen to tell them to wash their assess, dress well, be kind and educated because then "blackpill is truth". It's nuts. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/24 06:19 PM |
| 9 | I feel like there’s such a common characterization of relationships as meritocractic on anti redpill/incel subs that’s so frustratingWhat you describe seems to be Just-World bias. People just think that others get what they deserve. No women? Well, it's your fault. No home? You did something bad so you don't have it. It's not conscious. Take into account that we are just normal people trying to disengage with those ideologies. You should read datepsych or Nuancepill material to have a more scientific debunking of the blackpill/redpill stuff. But if you ask me, I would say to you that you should take action. Take the risk and … | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/24 12:57 AM |
| 9 | I feel like there’s such a common characterization of relationships as meritocractic on anti redpill/incel subs that’s so frustratingBut they are assholes with women or are assholes with you but threat women well? Also good personality doesn't mean being nice. Good personality is those traits that make you more prone to have relationships with the opposite sex. Behavioral traits are more correlated with body count than physical appareance. People who are risk takers tend to have more sex, for example. I have seen incels rejecting or avoiding women because they don't want to "ascend" in reality, they only want to be victims. T… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/24 12:45 AM |
| 7 | How did the Red Pill and the Manosphere spread to the mainstream?I agree w you. In spanish there are ton of YouTubers who are part of the alt right/anti feminism/pro MRA types who support Redpill/Blackpill and MGTOWs. It's not "the algoritm" they are relevant period. They have tons of followers. | /r/ExRedPill | 14/01/24 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Red pill beliefs are ruining my lifeYou should try DBT workbooks if you can't go to therapy. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/23 08:56 PM |
| 4 | How am I not supposed to be bitter about women having more options?Yes, there are also many movies of ugly men dating models and despising average women. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/23 11:40 PM |
| 10 | How am I not supposed to be bitter about women having more options?"Most of the dudes hitting on you are normal fucking dudes" Not fucking true. My boss, a Chinese married man, with 20 years more than me hitted on me (and touched me without my consent). Do you believe that is a normal dude? Since I have twelve I attract men much older than me. Once when I was FOURTEEN a 20-something man approached me and (after I told him my age) offered me casual sex. Casually, now that I'm older no male approach me. I approached my fiance first. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/12/23 11:33 PM |
| 2 | Wheat Waflles uses BluePill study without realizing itIt seems the only answer, in reality. Good luck, bro. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/23 12:48 AM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.About the study itself nuance say this: "These are probably the most anomalous results we’ll be seeing. It’s possible these other variables were more highly correlated with physical attractiveness for women in this sample. Even physical attractiveness’ effect was far above that seen in any other study, and this was objective ratings which tends to show lower correlations than partner ratings." So, blackpillscience sub cherrypicked the most rare study about speed dating and generalize everyone el… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep."90%+ of men would be promiscuous if they had the possibility, the fact that they are not speaks volumes about their dating options and the amount of interest they get imo." Proof of that? "Also, go watch a Tinder experiment or do one yourself, attractive guys get a lot more matches and they can get away with saying a lot of stuff that would be considered a red flag" Most Tinder users are males and sex ratio tend to skew mate preferences and behaviors, even within animals. Nuancepill alse review… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 09:41 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.okey uwu | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.I could say that it boosts my ego a little the fact that we hadn't even seen each other's faces and we were already attracted to each other. I think it is the most stable and purest relationship I have ever had and we plan to get married soon. It moves me deeply to talk about my relationship, it's crazy. I think social media did make it easier for me to find someone I liked, but not according to the blackpill narrative, lol | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.Mmmm I'm not convinced about that. I was reading a nuancepill article, reviewing GSS data and the differences in attractiveness between the 20% of men who have the most sex is not different from the rest 80%, same with height. There is no much evidence that attractiveness is highly linked with sexual success. The only truth here is that there is a kind of pareto principle in the distribution of sexual encounters, but it apllies to both men and women. There are 20% of men and women who are highly… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.The implications of everything you've told me so far is that only a small portion of men can experience genuine attraction from their partner, because most men are not attractive. In my experience it is total garbage. My partner is not what incels would call Chad, but I am sexually and romantically attracted to him. I met him on Twitter and I hadn't even seen his face, but for a year I thought about him and we finally talked and met. So what? And about your question, I honestly don't care. Sex a… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep."It's not moralizing, it's a neutral rule per se, toxic incels use it to argue that it's women fault but it's another issue." You have to be joking. 80/20 is not even real in the first place. The fact that blackpill stuff keep bring it to the conversation proves that it is not took as a "neutral fact". It is not a fact, is fiction that fuels negative emotions and nihilism on men who believe it. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.What is your proof that they are redpillers instead of blackpillers? Because my proof here is that they call themselves that way. And since we are on internet and I don't know them personally, I believe them then. What is your proof that only redpillers believe that stuff? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.Good thing you admit is an *ideology* I have always wonder how blackpillers prove that: "Also, that attraction is not genuine without physical attraction" | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.You are not describing social dynamics, you are describing the actions of women at different times in history. The logical conclusion, for many, of what you say is that we must return to the past. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Wheat Waflles uses BluePill study without realizing itYes, but this is something difficult to do due to individualism of society and some men on the spectrum would see as a difficult thing to improve their social skills. I'm autistic myself and I can say it is hard. Is necessary to normalize autism and help incels to approach people in real life (autism is also a predictor of being terminally online). | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.I'm going to break it to you carefully. 80/20 rule is not even real, and 80/20 rule is followed by moralizing shit towards women. Suggesting that women have "impossible standards" for men, for example. So, it's women's fault. Hypergamy. Is not even a scientific theory in the first place. Hypergamy is about marrying up with someone with higher income or education and applies to both sexes. Incel version of Hypergamy is implying that women are too choosy in all aspects of dating, and more lookists… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep."Sexual revolution caused inceldom" is not blaming women(? You sure(? | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.In your words, explain what is the blackpill then. ;-; | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.Yeah, What Waffles is a toxic incel who have had girlfriends. Right. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.Is always the same bs with you all "no, we don't blame women" Five minutes later "80/20 rule", "Hypergamy", "Women punctuate men below average", "sexual revolution caused inceldom". Go try to fool someone else. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep."Blackpilled guys don't blame women" Explain then how across four years I have talked to a lot of blackpilled incels who blame female nature for their problems. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.You are proving my point. I have known incel bs since four years ago. Of course they blame women (hypergamy). That's why they bring the 20/80 rule to the conversation everytime. Look Wheat Waffles videos. All the comments are about how women are "wrong" and "delusional" and "punctuating men 'below average'", suggesting (but not proving) that both men and women have the same level of attractiveness and women are wrong for saying that men are not that attractive. Is common the incel meme that befo… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/23 07:49 PM |
| 1 | What are alternatives to redpill/PUA/manosphere stuff that can help men be better with women?Work in your looks and your social skills. At least that's worked for me with men and people in general. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/23 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Blackpillers dressed as innocent sheep.I don't even try in the first place. They come to me when they see I'm talking s about their ideology. | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/23 11:06 PM |
| 4 | What turned you off of Red Pill?Lot's of things, MGTOW guys helped me to go off. They preach to not be traditional but in their videos they say stuff like: "I woul marry if the girl is 18 years old" and "If you are a woman watching this, tell to your dad to choose a husband to you". And I'm like: bro, you supposedly are anti-trad and pro men's rights. Traditionalism is oppressive to men, why are you advocating for it? Click! Reading the studies and the sources of their manifesto. First mistake: "Women are hybristophilic" *link… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 04:01 PM |
| 9 | I don't want the red pill to brainwash meStop putting women on a pedestal. They are humans and humans do mess and good things. Men cheat too, it's not a gendered thing, it's not "female nature". Is human nature. People makes mistakes. I don't think redpillers/MGTOW's have lost hope on women, in reality. They are the most idealistic ones, they say that women are this or that but at the end of the day they still hope for a good woman. The entire premise is contradictory, in one hand they say that female nature is rotten but at the same t… | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 03:48 PM |
| 18 | Crosspost: Bodytypes women are attracted toI personally like slim men, like sticks. I want to be the muscular one uwu | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/23 01:09 PM |
| 8 | List of redpill/Blackpill content creators?THANK YOU!!! Is what I need! | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/23 09:25 PM |
| 1 | What you have thoughts about modern feminism and modern masculinity on internet?That's why I highly doubt of "fighting" the redpill. It can give it more publicity to redpill instead of less. Maybe the best thing is doing nothing? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/23 06:26 PM |
| 3 | The "half of partners are formed through OLD" meme.I know. I met my fiance in Twitter. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 10:13 PM |
| 1 | The "half of partners are formed through OLD" meme.Is an idea that incels repeat over and over again trying to explain inceldom or loneliness in men. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The damage is doneYou have a point. I could say "I tried to have new hobbies" or so, but at the same time I know that it didn't work. In the other hand, I'm in therapy with a psychologist and an occupational Therapist. I have commented my obsesion with misogynistic groups of internet, but they can't do too much since they don't know what it is about. Well, the thing that leaded me to redpill is that I'm concerned about men's problems and I ended in redpill stuff. But at the same time, right now, I'm thinking that… | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 06:16 PM |
| 1 | The damage is doneI don't mind. I have autism uwu | /r/ExRedPill | 05/12/23 05:34 PM |
| 2 | The damage is doneI'm female uwu | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 11:56 PM |
| 1 | The damage is doneThank you | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 11:55 PM |
| 3 | The damage is doneI'm female lol | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 11:45 PM |
| 1 | The damage is doneI sent you a dm. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 09:50 PM |
| 2 | The damage is doneWell, my "essay" is in spanish. But If you want, I can share it to you. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Something I noticed by reviewing a video.Yep | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | William Costello's work on Incels is a prime exemple of everything that's wrong with Evolutionary PsychologyMan this is absurd. I don't trust that guy at all for this. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/12/23 04:50 PM |
| 2 | Someone here who speaks Spanish/is familiarized w spanish redpill/blackpill communities?Porque me siento algo sola en la comunidad inglesa de exredpill, siento que la redpill en español es un poco diferente, quizá no tan misógina como la inglesa. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 07:12 PM |
| 3 | The wallKeep coping. Men do commit to 30 yo women. Look at the average age of getting married for men and women and age differences. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 03:54 PM |
| 5 | The wallI look around and I only see my +40 yo mom with her boyfriend who gave her a business, and my dad at his +40 yo lonely and single. Guess who is happier, lmao. I only read "I just have no basis of what I'm saying". Keep coping. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | The wallBabe, can you define what is "the wall", because at this point you are talking as if the wall is just aging instead of the real meaning of it: not having options. I can say the same shit for males at this point. 20 something males are more attractive that bald old hags of 40 something with soft dicks. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:03 PM |
| 5 | The wallYour comment makes me think that you can easily be biased. More women than men use Tiktok and it is more socially acceptable for them to express their insecurities or feelings. So I think you will hardly find any TikTok of a man complaining that at 40 years old he can't find a partner. 30-49 is the age group for women that has the lowest number of singles. So much for "the wall." And men are more single at those ages. link | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 10:05 AM |
| 5 | The wallYour ource: tiktok My source: Jan antfolk, 2017 "Over the investigated age span, women reported a narrower age range than men and women tended to prefer slightly older men. We also show that men’s age range widens as they get older: While they continue to consider sex with young women, men also consider sex with women their own age or older. Contrary to earlier suggestions, men’s sexual activity thus reflects also their own age range, although their potential interest in younger women is not lik… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 09:51 AM |
| 3 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?"Let’s summarize the main findings: Of the traits which were measured, physical attractiveness was consistently the one with the single most predictive power for both genders. While it wasn’t a consistent finding, indicating that the difference isn’t too large, in at least 9 studies physical attractiveness influenced men’s decisions more than women’s. In no study however was there a stronger effect going the other way, with the exception of the first, but that used self-reported attractiveness w… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:29 AM |
| 2 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?Have you observed those guys dicks? o.O | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:24 AM |
| 0 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?Hypergamy is not a instinct, is getting married with someone with higher income or education. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:20 AM |
| 12 | The red pill says it's all about money, status, looks, and game. Is this true? What would you say are the top traits women ages 24-28 look for in a man when wanting a relationship?Don't listen to what a woman says she wants, watch what she does Follow your own advice. Most women are dating most men. And most men are not rounded 6-6-6. So... | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/23 12:15 AM |
| 1 | What do you consider as "the sacred cows" of redpill and blackpill?Yeah, I know Waffles. He is a case. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 08:27 PM |
| 13 | The wallYep, the wall is cope. Even when men say that they prefer younger women, they sleep with women in their same age. Lol | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Redpill RhetoricI will leave som resources to you: The wall. It may be false, because men who say to prefer younger women in reality sleep with women at their same age range. It is a matter of real behaviour vs stated preferences (Jan Antfolk, 2017). "1 man reproduced for every 17 women". It may be false, because the main theories about it point out that it may be because of patrilocality instead of female selectivity. "Women value resides in her beauty, men value resides in his income/status". In reality, ther… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 01:43 PM |
| 3 | I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind.Nota about cheating. Stop responding please. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 12:43 AM |
| 3 | I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind.I'm talking about cheating (??? | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/23 12:30 AM |
| 3 | I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind.Peer reviewed studies to back yo tour claims? Because is a highly replicated thing that men cheat more. | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/23 11:11 PM |
| 2 | I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind.Aside from my first comment, you should embrace your fears and insecurities. Ugly things happen to people. Some are cheating on, abused, etc. What is your plan? What will be your strategy to avoid being hurt? You will only be consumed by your fear. If you haven't had dates or a real relationship, start from there. You must experience things for yourself. If you don't want to get cheated on, abused or used by some women, try to be a good person and surround yourself with good people, learn to set… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/23 09:13 PM |
| 12 | I cant get the 80/20 Rule and "Hypergamy" theories out of my mind.First of all. That is not hypergamy. Hypergamy is marrying with someone who has higher income or higher education. Period, that is the definition backed up by science, and it doesn't happen because of interest but because of life. Most women will be married with someone with higher income due to wage (children) gap, even if at the beggining of the relationship both earned the same. What you are describing is mate switching and both sexes do it. So, is not "female nature". Botch sexes cheat or se… | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/23 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Fighting Redpill RhetoricUffff, I can cite a ton of studies, but I know is a waste of time. Is always the same. Took, for example, studies that use "self report". They say "women were happier in the past" (implying that women were happier when they didn't have rights). Then I say "well, studies who that single women are happier than married women". And here it comes: Waaaa but that study is self reported so it doesn't count. Then I explain politely: but mate, every study on happiness is made mostly by self reports. And … | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/23 02:37 PM |
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