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"seeing how women are and behave irl actually redpilled me more than any stupid influencer ever could" All these kind of post come here with a statement like that without explaining what they mean with that. Let's dive in what they redpill says about women: They ride the cock carousel Have you seen the half of humanity being insanely promiscuos by yourself? They hit the wall Have you seen the half of humanity being lonely with cats at 25/30 yo? They are child like minded How can you prove that e…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/24 06:43 PM
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I have had redpillers telling me that Bill Gates is a beta provider, and as I said the alpha budda por relevant figures of the redpill (Rollo and Roissy) is a teen with not money and no career, just a prick who made a wild party that needed the cops involved. If money is highly correlated with status, then why Bill Gates is a beta provider and a teen with no money is an alpha? Why dudes like Joe Biden is a beta and Donald Trump an alpha? I'm not making things up, that kind of discourse was commo…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 06:41 PM
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You are not making sense. They don't care about the happiness of women, but at the same time describe how they are "Humbled" by the wall again and again in their videos and you say they experience states of grief through all the process that last for years. How that makes sense exactly? So they say that the wall implies grief (something you experience when somebody DIES) but at the same time they don't say nor impply that women who end up married with a beta provider are unhappy? You sure? So, t…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 03:33 PM
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About Hypergamy. There is an inconsistency there. Because redpillers say that is not about marriage and is not about money, but "status", but then when they argue about the topic they bring studies on hypergamy that talk about marriage, income and men earning more than their wifes. Also bringing studies about how marriages tend to end because of economic reasons among the couples, etc. So, or women are hypergamous and look for economically attractive dudes (Aka they find men with money attractiv…
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 01:03 AM
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How there is no contradiction exactly? The consequence of hitting the wall is end up alone with cats, wine and antidepressants. But also...end up married, not having to pay because the husband is the provider and with kids? Like, with no real consequences of your actions (party years), only having to tolerate a man who after all is paying all the bills? (And women according the redpill are hypergamous, so...part of them are satisfied if the man is paying the bills and earning more than her(?) Th…
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 06:46 PM
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It keeps being nonsense. Even if they don't want to marry the beta, she still doesn't end up alone with cats as they should be according to the wall theory. And, if we follow along the narrative, the beta is a provider, someone who pays the woman's bills and give her kids too. So? She gets married, doesn't have to pay shit and doesn't end up alone. Even if she doesn't want him she will be using him by hypergamous reasons. Math isn' mathing here.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 06:34 PM
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It's kinda weird how they say that young women have power over men only by their looks. Creepy af. Being attractive makes you an object of desire, not powerful.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 02:01 PM
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I'm confused. By statistic most men won't have a nice career, they will be poor as most of us living paycheck to paycheck. Also, all people have to work on their social skills and social life. If you want to have friends, you have to put yourself about there. It's not a gendered thing.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/24 12:01 AM
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I think they comment is fair. It is in response to the idea that men peak at 40, and it is sold as a rule in the redpill. I don't know if you understand the implications of that. But basically that idea makes men abandon the dating market in their 20's to wait until they are thirty something. That is something dangerous to do, because the less experience you have the more narrow the dating pool comes when you age. Also, is magical thinking. Is like "it doesn't matter who You are or how You act, …
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 11:51 PM
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Sorry, but you should not be here if a comment from a random user on internet males you depressed. Take care.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 11:42 PM
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Yes, I have watched it, when I was a MRA. First of all, Cassie Jaye is a scammer. In her kickstarter video she stated than the documentary "will be not partisan". Until, surprise, she received money from The redpill subreddit. She pretends to be non partisan, by interviewing a feminist friend and that red headead feminist. She doesn't invite other feminists who are more relevant in the case. She doesn't interview Mary Koss, for example, but she give voice to relevant and well versed MRA's. The p…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 07:44 PM
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Hypergamy: It is about marrying someone who has more money or education than you. That is what is backed up by science, and studies about it talk about "hypergamous marriage" even when it is not intentional to marry up by some member of the couple, but when someone has more money or education when it wasn't planned. It doesn't mean "dating up" based on any trait. It is not about an "instinct" for looking for a better option always. 20/80 rule: Most men are having sex every year. Only 7% of men r…
/r/ExRedPill19/01/24 07:21 PM
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"I'm sorry but all (young male blackpilled) incels i know personally are obsessed about their looks" You know them personally? So I guess they are like three or five dudes? And I already replied that.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/24 09:48 AM
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"The meme is famous because the mainstream made it famous and because anti-incel propaganda talks about it more than incel themselves" Maybe. But what I have seen is not in critique of inceldom. Incels themselves in spanish and in english make that point all the time to me. And in reddit too. When I was on inceltears an incel came to me and told me that the only solution was forced monogamy. Also, hypergamy is well known in spanish and in english. I don't know if you know, but in spanish MGTOWs …
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 08:13 PM
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"Average men have gfs and wives and fuck every year" "Being average in looks has never stopped men from having relationships, just look around you. " Ok, at this point any shit will confirm the redpill then.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:25 PM
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No, sorry, but they are not few and the whole hypergamy thing is about blaming women and their sexual agency, being the final theory about it that women will wreck civilization due to hypergamy. And the incel solution for it, is enforced monogamy. Also, the incel meme of "sexual revolution caused inceldom" is popular and very well known. At the point that it is present in spanish too. The meme is international at this point.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:10 PM
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I responded to that already.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 07:03 PM
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Dude, I have talked to blackpilled guys and they are all about complaining about looks, but doing nothing about that. However, I'm not into looking incels forums for mental health, sorry if I don't know any move that incels make. In another hand, it is something relevant to point out that the general incel meme is not about "they should cover our plastic surgeries" and such but they are like "goverment should give us girlfriends" at the point that normies and even a politician made statements in…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:34 PM
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"It only makes sense to bring someone into your life if they're going to improve it. He says he's average in looks, but from all he said he probably reeks of desperation and resentment. Maybe he has poor communication and social skills, or it could be many other things. Being average in looks has never stopped men from having relationships, just look around you. The truth is that he doesn't look like he's bringing anything to the table other than looking average, and he then blames girls for ski…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:33 PM
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"Most men don’t get that simply because standards are higher for men when it comes to physical attractiveness" Sincerely it piss me off. Even if this is true, that doesn't change anything. I have never seen any incel saying shit like "well, the problem here is my poor jaw and chin so I will look for a surgery on it". No, instead they bitch on internet and try to shame women for their choices. Like, dude, if you believe is your looks, work on it and move on? Women do that all the time. They wax, …
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:24 PM
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"Most men don’t get that simply because standards are higher for men when it comes to physical attractiveness" Proof of that? "I think getting this validation and having one woman appreciate him as a purely sexual being and being seen as attractive to her would help exponentially" I highly doubt it since I have talked to blackpillers on the topic and they are like "it doesn't matter if a woman suck my dick every week if they love Chad in the deep of their heart". I'm not joking. They have a high…
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:14 PM
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Women who struggle with dating are gaslighted and told that they are just pretending or pursuing Chad so they should lower their standards. General advice for women in dating (if u look up yt channels on the topic) talk about improve their looks and social skills. But for men is something forbideen to tell them to wash their assess, dress well, be kind and educated because then "blackpill is truth". It's nuts.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 06:19 PM
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What you describe seems to be Just-World bias. People just think that others get what they deserve. No women? Well, it's your fault. No home? You did something bad so you don't have it. It's not conscious. Take into account that we are just normal people trying to disengage with those ideologies. You should read datepsych or Nuancepill material to have a more scientific debunking of the blackpill/redpill stuff. But if you ask me, I would say to you that you should take action. Take the risk and …
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 12:57 AM
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But they are assholes with women or are assholes with you but threat women well? Also good personality doesn't mean being nice. Good personality is those traits that make you more prone to have relationships with the opposite sex. Behavioral traits are more correlated with body count than physical appareance. People who are risk takers tend to have more sex, for example. I have seen incels rejecting or avoiding women because they don't want to "ascend" in reality, they only want to be victims. T…
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 12:45 AM
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I agree w you. In spanish there are ton of YouTubers who are part of the alt right/anti feminism/pro MRA types who support Redpill/Blackpill and MGTOWs. It's not "the algoritm" they are relevant period. They have tons of followers.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/24 06:06 PM
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You should try DBT workbooks if you can't go to therapy.
/r/ExRedPill31/12/23 08:56 PM
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Yes, there are also many movies of ugly men dating models and despising average women.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:40 PM
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"Most of the dudes hitting on you are normal fucking dudes" Not fucking true. My boss, a Chinese married man, with 20 years more than me hitted on me (and touched me without my consent). Do you believe that is a normal dude? Since I have twelve I attract men much older than me. Once when I was FOURTEEN a 20-something man approached me and (after I told him my age) offered me casual sex. Casually, now that I'm older no male approach me. I approached my fiance first.
/r/ExRedPill23/12/23 11:33 PM
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I could say that it boosts my ego a little the fact that we hadn't even seen each other's faces and we were already attracted to each other. I think it is the most stable and purest relationship I have ever had and we plan to get married soon. It moves me deeply to talk about my relationship, it's crazy. I think social media did make it easier for me to find someone I liked, but not according to the blackpill narrative, lol
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 09:26 PM
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Mmmm I'm not convinced about that. I was reading a nuancepill article, reviewing GSS data and the differences in attractiveness between the 20% of men who have the most sex is not different from the rest 80%, same with height. There is no much evidence that attractiveness is highly linked with sexual success. The only truth here is that there is a kind of pareto principle in the distribution of sexual encounters, but it apllies to both men and women. There are 20% of men and women who are highly…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 09:20 PM
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The implications of everything you've told me so far is that only a small portion of men can experience genuine attraction from their partner, because most men are not attractive. In my experience it is total garbage. My partner is not what incels would call Chad, but I am sexually and romantically attracted to him. I met him on Twitter and I hadn't even seen his face, but for a year I thought about him and we finally talked and met. So what? And about your question, I honestly don't care. Sex a…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 09:14 PM
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"It's not moralizing, it's a neutral rule per se, toxic incels use it to argue that it's women fault but it's another issue." You have to be joking. 80/20 is not even real in the first place. The fact that blackpill stuff keep bring it to the conversation proves that it is not took as a "neutral fact". It is not a fact, is fiction that fuels negative emotions and nihilism on men who believe it.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:59 PM
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What is your proof that they are redpillers instead of blackpillers? Because my proof here is that they call themselves that way. And since we are on internet and I don't know them personally, I believe them then. What is your proof that only redpillers believe that stuff?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:51 PM
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Good thing you admit is an *ideology* I have always wonder how blackpillers prove that: "Also, that attraction is not genuine without physical attraction"
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:46 PM
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You are not describing social dynamics, you are describing the actions of women at different times in history. The logical conclusion, for many, of what you say is that we must return to the past.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:41 PM
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I'm going to break it to you carefully. 80/20 rule is not even real, and 80/20 rule is followed by moralizing shit towards women. Suggesting that women have "impossible standards" for men, for example. So, it's women's fault. Hypergamy. Is not even a scientific theory in the first place. Hypergamy is about marrying up with someone with higher income or education and applies to both sexes. Incel version of Hypergamy is implying that women are too choosy in all aspects of dating, and more lookists…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:19 PM
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"Sexual revolution caused inceldom" is not blaming women(? You sure(?
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:10 PM
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In your words, explain what is the blackpill then. ;-;
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:09 PM
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Yeah, What Waffles is a toxic incel who have had girlfriends. Right.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 08:03 PM
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Is always the same bs with you all "no, we don't blame women" Five minutes later "80/20 rule", "Hypergamy", "Women punctuate men below average", "sexual revolution caused inceldom". Go try to fool someone else.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 07:59 PM
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"Blackpilled guys don't blame women" Explain then how across four years I have talked to a lot of blackpilled incels who blame female nature for their problems.
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 07:57 PM
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You are proving my point. I have known incel bs since four years ago. Of course they blame women (hypergamy). That's why they bring the 20/80 rule to the conversation everytime. Look Wheat Waffles videos. All the comments are about how women are "wrong" and "delusional" and "punctuating men 'below average'", suggesting (but not proving) that both men and women have the same level of attractiveness and women are wrong for saying that men are not that attractive. Is common the incel meme that befo…
/r/ExRedPill12/12/23 07:49 PM
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Work in your looks and your social skills. At least that's worked for me with men and people in general.
/r/ExRedPill09/12/23 03:42 PM
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I don't even try in the first place. They come to me when they see I'm talking s about their ideology.
/r/ExRedPill08/12/23 11:06 PM
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Lot's of things, MGTOW guys helped me to go off. They preach to not be traditional but in their videos they say stuff like: "I woul marry if the girl is 18 years old" and "If you are a woman watching this, tell to your dad to choose a husband to you". And I'm like: bro, you supposedly are anti-trad and pro men's rights. Traditionalism is oppressive to men, why are you advocating for it? Click! Reading the studies and the sources of their manifesto. First mistake: "Women are hybristophilic" *link…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 04:01 PM
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Stop putting women on a pedestal. They are humans and humans do mess and good things. Men cheat too, it's not a gendered thing, it's not "female nature". Is human nature. People makes mistakes. I don't think redpillers/MGTOW's have lost hope on women, in reality. They are the most idealistic ones, they say that women are this or that but at the end of the day they still hope for a good woman. The entire premise is contradictory, in one hand they say that female nature is rotten but at the same t…
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 03:48 PM
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I personally like slim men, like sticks. I want to be the muscular one uwu
/r/ExRedPill07/12/23 01:09 PM
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THANK YOU!!! Is what I need!
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 09:25 PM
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That's why I highly doubt of "fighting" the redpill. It can give it more publicity to redpill instead of less. Maybe the best thing is doing nothing?
/r/ExRedPill06/12/23 06:26 PM
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I know. I met my fiance in Twitter.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 10:13 PM
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Is an idea that incels repeat over and over again trying to explain inceldom or loneliness in men.
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 09:02 PM
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You have a point. I could say "I tried to have new hobbies" or so, but at the same time I know that it didn't work. In the other hand, I'm in therapy with a psychologist and an occupational Therapist. I have commented my obsesion with misogynistic groups of internet, but they can't do too much since they don't know what it is about. Well, the thing that leaded me to redpill is that I'm concerned about men's problems and I ended in redpill stuff. But at the same time, right now, I'm thinking that…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 06:16 PM
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I don't mind. I have autism uwu
/r/ExRedPill05/12/23 05:34 PM
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I'm female uwu
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 11:56 PM
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Thank you
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 11:55 PM
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I'm female lol
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 11:45 PM
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I sent you a dm.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:50 PM
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Well, my "essay" is in spanish. But If you want, I can share it to you.
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:34 PM
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Yep
/r/ExRedPill04/12/23 09:09 PM
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Keep coping. Men do commit to 30 yo women. Look at the average age of getting married for men and women and age differences.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 03:54 PM
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I look around and I only see my +40 yo mom with her boyfriend who gave her a business, and my dad at his +40 yo lonely and single. Guess who is happier, lmao. I only read "I just have no basis of what I'm saying". Keep coping.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:05 PM
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Babe, can you define what is "the wall", because at this point you are talking as if the wall is just aging instead of the real meaning of it: not having options. I can say the same shit for males at this point. 20 something males are more attractive that bald old hags of 40 something with soft dicks.
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 12:03 PM
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Your comment makes me think that you can easily be biased. More women than men use Tiktok and it is more socially acceptable for them to express their insecurities or feelings. So I think you will hardly find any TikTok of a man complaining that at 40 years old he can't find a partner. 30-49 is the age group for women that has the lowest number of singles. So much for "the wall." And men are more single at those ages. link
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 10:05 AM
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Your ource: tiktok My source: Jan antfolk, 2017 "Over the investigated age span, women reported a narrower age range than men and women tended to prefer slightly older men. We also show that men’s age range widens as they get older: While they continue to consider sex with young women, men also consider sex with women their own age or older. Contrary to earlier suggestions, men’s sexual activity thus reflects also their own age range, although their potential interest in younger women is not lik…
/r/ExRedPill03/12/23 09:51 AM
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Yeah, I know Waffles. He is a case.
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 08:27 PM
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Yep, the wall is cope. Even when men say that they prefer younger women, they sleep with women in their same age. Lol
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 07:05 PM
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I will leave som resources to you: The wall. It may be false, because men who say to prefer younger women in reality sleep with women at their same age range. It is a matter of real behaviour vs stated preferences (Jan Antfolk, 2017). "1 man reproduced for every 17 women". It may be false, because the main theories about it point out that it may be because of patrilocality instead of female selectivity. "Women value resides in her beauty, men value resides in his income/status". In reality, ther…
/r/ExRedPill02/12/23 01:43 PM
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Uffff, I can cite a ton of studies, but I know is a waste of time. Is always the same. Took, for example, studies that use "self report". They say "women were happier in the past" (implying that women were happier when they didn't have rights). Then I say "well, studies who that single women are happier than married women". And here it comes: Waaaa but that study is self reported so it doesn't count. Then I explain politely: but mate, every study on happiness is made mostly by self reports. And …
/r/ExRedPill30/11/23 02:37 PM
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