shellofthemshellf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
264	“High Value is not a status that’s granted early on and then rescinded if he turns out to be a douchebag.”	REMINDER 👑	shellofthemshellf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 04:20 PM
199	Pandemic = level up time	DISCUSSION	shellofthemshellf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 09:15 PM
121	Are you f’ing kidding me?!	NAH, SIS	shellofthemshellf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:27 PM
90	He shared this as a POSITIVE example of OLD	PICKME CULTURE	shellofthemshellf	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 09:30 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
64	Even men think pickmes are embarrassing. Why does he need 4 drinks	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/06/21 03:13 PM
79	Men get married WHEN they want, regardless of who’s next to them. They are looking for a caretaker when they are done dating or unattractive Mathew Perry- “I decided to get Engaged. luckily I was dating the greatest woman on the face of the planet at this time” 30 years of cocaine will do that to a person	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 08:26 PM
21	Signs from men who try to create a false sense of intimacy. A whole new meaning to someone “talking a mile a minute”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/05/21 03:57 AM
7	How young would you go? Then why are you commenting on an FDS advice sub? 🤔	/r/askFDS	18/05/21 03:07 PM
2	How young would you go? Lol, you can do what you want but that doesn’t align with FDS so I’m not sure why you’re trying to give advice in this sub.	/r/askFDS	18/05/21 02:10 PM
4	How young would you go? FDS doesn’t do flings.	/r/askFDS	18/05/21 02:03 PM
12	How young would you go? 31m and 36f should be ok. In addition to regular vetting, watch for any strange fixations on your age (calling you a cougar, him having a history that is solely with much older women, etc.) or any negging thereof.	/r/askFDS	18/05/21 02:03 PM
34	My bf is going to buy us a house, by FDS standards, what is a fair contribution on my end? Do. NOT. Pay. Money. For. A. House. That. Won’t. Be. Legally. Yours. With. A. Man. That’s. Not. Your. Husband.	/r/askFDS	16/05/21 11:11 PM
184	My boyfriend is mad that I didn’t text him back last night. He says he wants to be done now. Dump him. He’s emotionally abusive at the very least. Then: Read the handbook.	/r/askFDS	13/05/21 07:43 PM
17	Please tell me what I can do differently Read the handbook.	/r/askFDS	07/05/21 04:16 PM
26	I (23 F) broke up with my boyfriend (28 M) for certain reasons. I am new to dating. Did I make the right call? Some people are saying my standards are too high or "sexist." You absolutely made the right choice. Read the handbook. Don’t look back.	/r/askFDS	27/04/21 10:05 PM
3	Back to the drinking concerns... also, how do you stop yourself from falling for a lackluster guy after a string of bad dates? Yessss you are doing so well. Focus on yourself, reread the handbook, read the suggested books. I’m so glad I’ve been able to help!! 💞👑	/r/askFDS	21/04/21 04:25 PM
5	Back to the drinking concerns... also, how do you stop yourself from falling for a lackluster guy after a string of bad dates? Hey, I remember your previous post. First of all, I’m proud of you for holding your boundaries. I promise that it would be even more frustrating to end up going on MULTIPLE dates with these LVM...so you’re doing fantastically finding out their red flags quickly. Men tell on themselves. I agree with some of the advice you’ve gotten on this thread. -prune your practice of meeting these potential dates. Absolutely no Tinder. If you can refrain from OLD in general that would be ideal but I recognize…	/r/askFDS	21/04/21 02:29 PM
151	I literally cannot remember the last time a woman approached me in public for anything. Yes and so important to remember that there is NEVER a good reason for a man to ask a woman or child for help. Nope. Bye. Find someone else.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 02:43 AM
18	We had very similar childhoods but how did he develop such abusive behavior Girls/women are socialized in a way that lends itself to them becoming victims, whereas boys/men are socialized in a way that lends itself to them becoming abusers. Women are also more likely to seek therapy or other interventions to heal, compared to men who tend to be resistant to do self reflective work.	/r/askFDS	06/04/21 08:09 PM
37	How to shake a weird, somewhat disturbing guy off my tail? Block him and make sure your social medias are all private. Next time a guy shows a red flag, block immediately. Don’t entertain fuckery.	/r/askFDS	05/04/21 01:33 PM
17	Am I asking for too much? He told you he didn’t want a relationship with you. Keep him in the past and continue moving forward.	/r/askFDS	02/04/21 02:54 PM
90	How do I reconcile with potentially being single indefinitely? The first aspect of FDS is Be A High Value Woman. Spend your time taking care of yourself (leveling up)—do hard work in therapy, pick up that hobby you’ve been interested in, replenish your own energy stores with self-love and high self esteem, take care of your physical health with nourishing meals and cathartic exercise, get that promotion you know you’re capable of, fill your free time catching up with loved ones. The point of FDS is to become so secure in yourself and so content in your fulf…	/r/askFDS	31/03/21 05:07 PM
6	How to ask my new manager to stop texting me? Screenshot, block his whatsapp or whatever, tell the female manager and HR.	/r/askFDS	27/03/21 05:36 AM
32	What is a good amount of time to wait to text back? Fill your time with enriching hobbies so you’re not glued to your phone. Reading, exercise, art projects, organization, journaling, preparing healthy meals, luxurious skincare routine. The point is to not let yourself be too available. Instead of letting that translate into, “force yourself to wait,” let it instead mean, “find activities to fill your time that help you level up and keep you busy!” Designate time, maybe once or twice a day, where you sit with your phone and reply to suitors. Mute…	/r/askFDS	26/03/21 02:29 PM
20	How should I answer “Have you ever been in a serious relationship?” without revealing that I’m a virgin? You really don’t ever need to tell any man these things, especially so early in getting to know them. What does it change for them? I’m seriously asking—if he is HVM, would your sexual inexperience change how he treats you? No. If he is LVM, would your sexual inexperience change how he treats you? Yes—it signals to a LVM that he can coerce you into weird or abusive sexual dynamics, that he can stealthily remove a condom, that you might not be savvy enough to ask to see an STD test...all kinds of…	/r/askFDS	25/03/21 01:43 PM
19	The story of how I went from a LVM to a HVM Sometimes there are hidden gems that are affordable as a single woman. It could take a little time but you may be surprised at what you can find with a little searching.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 03:29 AM
28	How should I answer “Have you ever been in a serious relationship?” without revealing that I’m a virgin? If he seems like someone you’ll want to date (read: vet) you could brush it off with something noncommittal like, “I dated a couple people in college but we had different goals and parted ways amicably.” You definitely do not want to say “I’ve never had a serious relationship” or “I’m a virgin.”	/r/askFDS	25/03/21 03:28 AM
32	How should I answer “Have you ever been in a serious relationship?” without revealing that I’m a virgin? Extremely personal question for someone you haven’t met yet. How long have you been talking?	/r/askFDS	25/03/21 03:18 AM
26	The story of how I went from a LVM to a HVM I encourage you to link up with a female friend as a roommate or rent your own tiny studio apartment before moving in with a man pre-marriage.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/03/21 03:11 AM
84	Why are men so deceptive about their drinking habits? How can I vet to find a man with healthy drinking habits? I also have an alcoholic ex. Now that you know the signs of a covert alc (subtleties that you may have once dismissed) it should be a bit easier to pick up on these red flags throughout the vetting process. As HVW, we do not drink on first dates. We do not drink on second dates. So on and so forth. Alcohol lowers inhibitions, can increase the chances of sexual assault, as well as many other consequences. As HVW, we also do not get into men's cars that we haven't properly vetted, and we certainly…	/r/askFDS	24/03/21 11:05 PM
50	The story of how I went from a LVM to a HVM Keep vetting and don’t live together before marriage ✌️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/03/21 04:53 AM
92	This is why FDS exists. To counteract the army of redpillers/PUA who have been taught to prey on vulnerable women. Right? How about you make a woman orgasm instead of railing her ‘til she’s bored and sore, and reaching for her vibrator the minute you leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/03/21 07:54 PM
5	I did some risky things when I was younger, and my parents didn't bat an eye. No one did. What’s your question?	/r/askFDS	22/03/21 03:25 PM
16	I’ve gone no contact with my ex but I still have to remind him about money he owes me. How can I stay no contact when he isn’t responsible about paying me back ? Honestly it’s not what you want to hear but you are probably never going to get that money back. You’ve already requested it over Zelle. If he doesn’t send it there’s not much you can do.	/r/askFDS	22/03/21 04:13 AM
18	How are women meant to feel safe when a woman disappears from a city in a well lit area? I’d like to think it was purposeful on the documentarians’ part. The producer is a woman, and 2 of the four episodes were directed by a woman as well.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:37 AM
142	How are women meant to feel safe when a woman disappears from a city in a well lit area? Reminds me of the Netflix docu “Ripper.” The police wanted a mandatory curfew for women. Women pushed back, saying: how about we give MEN a mandatory curfew, seeing as how they’re the ones abducting, murdering, and dismembering women. We CAN’T feel safe as women. Never.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:16 AM
156	5 lies about FDS in Vice's latest hit piece Attempting to throw empowered women under the bus to appease the patriarchal overlords.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 02:09 AM
877	What Dominique Sisley (Vice) said she was writing about FDS vs. what she actually wrote Ahh the old libfem switcheroo. Hope you get picked, Sis!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/03/21 01:43 AM
3	Concerned about sister First of all, it is absolutely appropriate for you to bring your concerns to your sister. This is a matter of her safety, above all. Abuse victims are often quickly ensnared by a new abuser because predators can sense who will make an easy victim. Fresh out of a ten year abusive relationship? Target on her back from an abuser's viewpoint. She very well may perceive your concern as an attack but it's imperative that you mention your concerns because this man sounds dangerous. He is probably loveb…	/r/askFDS	10/03/21 02:29 PM
23	Hurt by a new guy after my long-term relationship Block and delete. He is breadcrumbing you. He wants to keep you on the back burner in case he decides he wants to use you for some entertainment/companionship etc. When he said, “I’m a bad texter,” he was purposefully lowering your expectations so he didn’t need to be held accountable for his low effort behavior. Remember—if he wanted to, he would. We don’t chase, we replace.	/r/askFDS	10/03/21 02:08 PM
28	Should I recommend FDS? You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make them drink. A gentle approach could be sharing posts with her that you think could be well-received. Nothing too accusatory because pickmes get defensive. If you pique her interest, she may ask where the meme/text/post is from, etc., and you can lead with, “it’s this great community and life/dating philosophy that has really changed my perspective on X, Y, Z.” It could be enough to get her interested in browsing the community on her own and maybe …	/r/askFDS	10/03/21 03:10 AM
15	Seemingly HVM (at 32 years old) dated ex-student (at 23 years old). Is this a red flag? You should move on. Huge age gap is absolutely a red flag, coupled with the fact that this was a former student (who he could've been grooming, or communicating with before they started dating) makes this man a definite no.	/r/askFDS	10/03/21 02:19 AM
64	You have value. And you are not a "gold digger". Louder for the pick-mes in the back! Refusing to pay for dinner does not make you a gold digger. 50/50 is a fiction. The worth that a HVW brings to the table goes far beyond the halfway point in a relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 03:55 PM
14	I had a date tonight... Why are you being downvoted? You’re right. edit: Ok that's better. :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/03/21 01:48 PM
65	Men and their double standards will never fail to astound me. Let’s not act like Only Fans is a good/empowering thing though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/03/21 10:28 PM
1269	The audacity is off the charts. This is also why FDS advocates blocking and deleting men as soon as it’s done (NOTE: this screenshot was found on Twitter). Imagine making a fool of yourself like this for THIRTY. FIVE. DOLLARS.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/02/21 12:03 PM
2	For all the moms that have to be the tough/strict/main parent, because dad wants to be the ‘fun’ parent.. You’re being appreciated! What do you mean by “playing the role of martyr mothers”?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/02/21 10:51 PM
3	Don't forget to head over to r/askFDS and help a fellow FDS lady today! I’d like to help ! Thanks.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/02/21 03:55 AM
23	Advice needed He’s a dick, clearly. However, your friend also shouldn’t be telling people this information. It makes her a walking target for abusers. Idk if you’ve read the handbook but make sure you do and try introducing your friend to FDS after you’re well-versed.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/02/21 04:39 AM
5	This was posted by a “woke” friend on fb 🤢🤢 Woke? Or brainwashed Christian?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/01/21 10:51 PM
2	I think we’ve all had a guy like Jay at some point 🙄 (Big Mouth - s4 ep7) Yup. Glad someone said it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/12/20 03:31 AM
17	LVM are very sneaky- be aware After my baby was born, I wrote thank you cards to those who’d sent gifts, including his side of the family. We lived in apartment at the time and I asked him to please put them in the outgoing mail for me on his way to work. I found them all in the glove compartment of the car six months later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/12/20 02:28 PM
37	A reminder to myself to never accept less than I deserve and to keep my boundaries solid. This was bought with the compensation from when my ex sexually assaulted me. Never again will I settle for a low value scrote. Ok, Princess Di!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/12/20 03:45 PM
145	Got a message from some scrote trying to argue that rape accusations are worse than rape. He sadly missed the irony in his message, that this is how so many women feel, every day of their lives. Blocked and didn’t reply. “It’s like we’re not really people to you.” Ironic bc that’s how they actually view women.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 05:36 PM
187	"I'm a broke loser so I stole these flowers for you." 🤮 Imagine the people who worked so hard caring for their beautiful gardens, all for some broke dude in a wife beater to steal your flowers.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/20 02:57 PM
264	Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /s i aPpRoVE Thanks Bro no one fucking asked you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/12/20 03:42 PM
16	That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers. They live together been together less than a year. She’s happy to show him off to her 4m followers but he doesn’t wanna post her to his 45k followers and lose pickme options who follow for his shirtless pics.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 08:34 PM
44	That’s a pretty low bar for ‘relationship goals’. And they say women are gold diggers. Nooooo, Simone! She is one of if not the very best gymnasts in the world and he can’t even be bothered to post her on his Instagram. One of his two saved stories of her just shows her giving HIM a foot rub.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/12/20 02:56 PM
400	In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖 Imagine punishing a woman for a naturally occurring biological process that’s indicative of a healthy, adult human female. OH WAIT. MEN HAVE BEEN DOING THIS SINCE THE DAWN OF TIME.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/20 02:56 PM
7	Podcast rec: Something Was Wrong, for deep dives into tactics used in abusive relationships Thanks for the rec. listening now, it’s great!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/20 04:30 AM
27	Unhealed abandonment trauma is what led me to be with emotionally unavaliable partners. Healing this was essential to my development. This work is not easy, but so so worth it in the end. Stay strong ladies. I recommend the book “complex ptsd: from surviving to thriving” by Pete walker	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/11/20 04:05 AM
17	X post from r/whitepeopletwitter Oh and they’re still pulling things like this. Women who want their tubes tied being asked “is your husband ok with it?”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/11/20 04:03 PM
90	Honey... it’s 11 o’ clock at night. Why do you think I would even entertain this? Messages are from a scrote I used to PINE over. Boy bye!! Pickme would reply and end up sexting, at the bare minimum. Had so many men strong me along this way, pre-FDS. Did you b&d??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/11/20 03:56 PM
3	More traits of a HV Husband, Father, and Son I misread the first bit (I’m still drinking my morning coffee to be fully awake) and I couldn’t figure out why you were focusing on your husband’s relationship with your mother. Kept thinking “man why do they spend so much time with her mother?” Then you said he’s in his mid 60s and I had to go back because I was sure I missed something. Ohhhhhhhhh it’s her DAD 🤦‍♀️ LOL! Anyway, your father sounds wonderful. It must be so great to have a HV man as an example to your life.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/11/20 03:02 PM
45	This is why I chose to not have male friends ✨ cristhmas ✨	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/11/20 04:28 AM
100	Men are never just your “friend.” All women listening knew she was right. And 26 years later she’s still right!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 01:57 AM
7	Block and delete, never repeat...this is more a message to myself but I thought I'd share it here with you lovely ladies 👏 👏 👏 Yes. They KNOW. The long paragraphs feed their ego. The block and delete is the way to take your power back.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 03:25 PM
20	So when will Two X get banned for being “uninclusive”? Lady makes a post about self-love and a man immediately makes it all about him TwoX has not been about women for a long time. FDS is the only truly women’s subreddit left, and I’m sure its days are numbered. Because Reddit hates women. There’s spaces outside of Reddit for women though, including the FDS website. ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/11/20 03:03 PM
3	Remember even if you feel lonely, you aren't alone. What	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/11/20 08:06 PM
54	“High Value is not a status that’s granted early on and then rescinded if he turns out to be a douchebag.” I think it comes from a couple things. 1) having a crush and being defensive about said crush, and 2) scarcity mindset. There’s no benefit to crushes and there is definitely no shortage of men in this world.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 09:25 PM
18	“High Value is not a status that’s granted early on and then rescinded if he turns out to be a douchebag.” Guilty until proven innocent	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 09:20 PM
24	“High Value is not a status that’s granted early on and then rescinded if he turns out to be a douchebag.” That’s awful. I’m glad you both broke free.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/11/20 08:14 PM
69	Man thinks because you matched with him on tinder, you should have sex with him 😒 gets pissed when a girl doesn’t I went to her tiktok and watched the other videos related to this. There’s a part 1 of the guy yelling, and 2 or 3 one minute videos of her explaining what happened and her thought process of staying safe and exiting his apartment. He pursued her through text or the tinder app for weeks. He seemed sweet to her, asked about her life, gave her compliments (🚩). One night he asked if he could pick her up from work to hang out (🚩). She did allow him to do this and she got in his vehicle (ahhh!!!) and…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/20 04:30 PM
266	Crushing on OnlyFans “I tell myself that I’m too old for her” 33/20. Wow. You think?! 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/11/20 06:50 PM
40	Confessions of a Former Pickmeisha Thank you for sharing your story. I identify with so much of it. I’m proud of you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 09:55 PM
54	Please STOP doing this. 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/20 03:05 PM
24	Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVM I got yelled at by a nurse for eating an ice chip after 20 hours on pitocin!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 03:48 AM
14	Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVM Lol no they don’t care about that!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/11/20 03:45 AM
386	Imagine carrying a pregnancy to term for this piece of shit LVM And in case anyone has never been in labor in a US hospital—usually the laboring mother isn’t allowed to eat or drink, on the off chance they have to go under general anesthesia for an emergency c section. Just another level to his LVMery.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 09:02 PM
10	Trust your initial gut feeling There was a post a couple days ago with a guy who said his name was Patrick but it was really Paul (or vice versa). Some clever FDS sisters dubbed him a Paultrick, and the verb version is just being tricked by a switcheroo LVM.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/11/20 04:23 PM
58	REMINDER. Scrote tactic. Don't fall for sending nudes ever. And then everybody clapped!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 07:00 PM
14	The man 🔥🔥🔥 Thanks for this. I’m always suspicious of any advice for women given by men.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 06:55 PM
119	Why did he ask these questions? You didn’t have interest in meeting him. He made you feel bad for not wanting to meet. Then he asks you weird questions. Girl! Block and delete!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/11/20 06:13 PM
8	This pick me put on a wedding dress, brought a minister and bridesmaid to her fiancé’s job at Target because 2 years passed since he proposed. “It’s now or never.” Sis, if he wanted to, he would. Yikes all up and down.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 11:00 PM
1	He’s been “seeing someone” but they’re “not dating” Working towards being in sync is quite rewarding. 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 07:35 PM
19	To the frustrated woman still waiting for him to change: He won’t. An inside peak at their thought process.... Girl you a serving some painful truths. Definitely would love a post dedicated to this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/10/20 03:32 PM
6	Another day, another LVM crying and some BS excuses I just want to know how old this “older lady” was. She was probably like 27 😭. Jokes aside, trash took itself out time to move on.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 02:55 PM
11	I reviewed my dating history and I tend to go for men who are very charming, and end up somehow abusive? Why? On the FDS website there are many self help articles about escaping narcissists/spotting the red flags when you are vetting them. The charming behavior is part of the love bombing that narcs employ at the beginning to ensnare their victim.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 05:38 PM
5	Are you f’ing kidding me?! I just got banned from participating in A Certain Sub so, careful gals. Your ban could be coming.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 05:05 PM
76	Are you f’ing kidding me?! Someone called this sub a female hate sub. LMAO	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:50 PM
16	Are you f’ing kidding me?! Thank you, I removed the name	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:49 PM
29	Are you f’ing kidding me?! Not only accepted a walk date but THEN stuck around after he raised so many additional red flags 🚩	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:37 PM
38	Are you f’ing kidding me?! A Certain Sub is a LVM cesspool. I just want all these women to read the handbook and embrace FDS!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/09/20 03:29 PM
3	Red flags while swiping through OLD profiles. Wearing a hat in every picture. Balding and insecure about it 🤡. You can be gracefully balding. It’s hereditary, you can’t help it. But there’s a right way and a wrong way to go about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 07:50 PM
418	Wall? What wall?! While I agree that these women are all incredibly beautiful, i think we all know that most of us don’t have the money to spend on decades of fillers, tucks, and other revamps that these women do. That being said, we also all personally know women in their 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s and beyond that are still gorgeous and still being chased by LVM. There is no wall. Let’s just not compare ourselves to millionaires/put them on a pedestal as the standard of beauty. Editing to add: theyre chased by the same …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 07:07 PM
3	Was I too harsh to block him so quickly? He didn’t even ask me how I was and couldn’t fathom why I couldn’t instantly see him... also telling me how “fit” I am 3 times in our 2 minute conversation just comes across as desperate and creepy... Yes	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/09/20 08:35 PM
1	I really love this tiktok. As someone that is currently learning to love myself and do things alone. Seeing ppl do this encourages me Zachariah is a whole mood ❤️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 02:39 AM