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I don't like the word snooping...I prefer the term "verifying my intuition". And yes, any time I have went to verify..my intuition was correct and I found way worse information than I could have ever imagined.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 04:50 PM
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I read a worse one where a woman found out her bf was putting his semen in her food. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 01:42 PM
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Actually she didn't owe him a explanation at all...I think it would have been classier to just decline and say they weren't compatible. Spouting off what you own and how much you make doesn't make you a HVW. HVW don't need to prove anything to anyone or "tell" a man what she's worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 07:25 PM
21

So happy to see romance is not dead. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 06:23 PM
20

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 01:57 AM
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Yes she is great...you will get a full education on narcissism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 02:03 PM
25

And much much worse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 08:32 PM
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I just watched a documentary called "The secret life of incels" it's free and I highly recommend it. There was one incel they interviewed who would catfish girls by putting up a pic of a "Chad" and lure them to meet up somewhere. One girl showed up at a parking lot and he started filming her calling her a fat ugly bi*** and why would she only show up to meet a model..etc. This guy would do this stuff for fun. He basically felt like it wasn't fair that women only wanted Chads to sleep with so thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 06:54 PM
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It's called betrayal trauma and it's real. Almost identical symptoms to PTSD. Look it up and maybe seek out a therapist to get through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 04:34 PM
9

Well of course they will keep coming back if the sex is free with no effort, as long as they don't have another new option at the moment, they will take whatever you are putting out. Win win for them...free sex, no effort, they get to leave and have no emotional ties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 09:01 PM
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Why would they ghost? You gave them sex, why wouldnt they keep you around for more sex? For the majority of men, it's all about conquering. If you give it up too soon without them ever having to put any work in, then most will just be on to the next conquest. Perhaps they might hit you up if they have no other options for the evening, but they have no reason to keep coming back if they have other options. Not only that, you have already made yourself LV, there is no respect and no reason they sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 08:43 PM
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I can only hope for her that's he's got A LOT of money, 6 months to live and she doesn't sign a prenup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 09:17 PM
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I do this with cleaning, my boyfriend pretty much does all of it because he's a neat freak, and I act clueless and say we should just hire a housekeeper, because it's hard. So I usually sit back with a glass of wine and watch him mop the floors shirtless glistening with sweat...nothing sexier than a man that knows how to clean! He does most of the cooking too, only because he loves to cook more than me, so I let him have at it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 02:08 AM
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A HVM doesn't put himself in situations where he knows he might be tempted. For example, they might come across some porn or other suggestive material, a HVM will just keep it moving and keep scrolling, knowing that if he indulges he might not be able to control himself. He won't be a part of chat groups where porn is being sent, he has friends that are in healthy, monogamous, respectful relationships. All of us can be weak when it comes to certain things. If you tend to never be able to control…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:25 PM
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Well, if the relationship is new or you are just starting out, a few things you can check for...see what his sense of humor is...does he make a lot of misogynistic jokes? Does he insert a lot of sexual innuendos in when he talks? Check out if he is scanning other women when he doesn't think you are looking. Does he ask for nudes? Observe how he talks about women in general. To be honest, just assume he is porn watcher off the bat and let him prove by his actions that he is not. Like I said, the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:10 PM
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The fake gold chain, the triple chin, the mysterious sunglasses...wishin' I was single again right about now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:53 PM
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41 and doesn't know how to spell the word safety. Tragic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:49 PM
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Hmmm...wonder what kind of porn he was watching when he did this? Betcha it was incest porn! With all the normalization of incest on porn sites and how young he was, he probably just thought it was a normal thing to do. How fucking disgusting. If that was my son, he'd be locked away as far away from my daughter as soon as possible. No way in hell I'd keep that kid in my home. This world is so sick, I can't believe (if this story is true) the parents' reaction. Truly heartbreaking for his sister,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:39 PM
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Oh they simply cannot stand that we have this community of women helping women and women having standards. That more and more women are realizing the depravity of men, that more women will not date a pornsick man or are walking away from them, they simply cannot handle any of this so they use the classic suicide thing as a last resort hoping your empathy will take over and you will shut up. it's so pathetic and hilarious at the same time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 06:05 PM
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I liked Bad Mom's Christmas, it actually objectifies men, which I thought was hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:21 AM
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No this was a a meme on a public Facebook group called "memes" she was just one of the commenters out of thousands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 09:59 PM
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There were a lot more pickme's in that thread, it was so disgusting reading some of their comments, and then one girl was being a pickme and then said later that she was getting tons of messages and pics from men....um, what did you expect? By the way you can find this on Facebook on the page called "Memes" it's so sad how porn is just so normalized and everyone is so proud to tell everyone in a public forum about their porn use. I did not see one single comment from anyone against it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:27 PM
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Bishes ain't shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 03:05 PM
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Good answer, you are so right. If a man asks you for nudes he does not respect you, rest assured most men will share your nudes with their friends, it's just something they do and think is normal and they have no moral compass when it comes to this kind of stuff. If we as women don't expect more out of men and raise our standards, don't expect men to ever change. You can also think of it in reverse...have you ever respected a man that sent you a dick pic? LOL...no of course not! Do you think men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:51 PM
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Yep! And just to note I did not meet my current boyfriend on OLD...we met organically. I would never suggest meeting men on OLD...most of them are just trash and looking to hook up..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:21 AM
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Oh God I feel what you are saying so much. I stayed single for so long because of this...no guy even if traditionally attractive was really attractive to me because of the danger I felt with most men. My family started to wonder if I was a lesbian because I just wasn't impressed with anyone. I finally did meet someone that didn't scare me and is very attractive..but man they are hard to come by.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:57 PM
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My boyfriend is not even the father of my (grown) kids and he even remembered me. Got me a huge bouquet of flowers and is making me a steak dinner. 😁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 11:41 PM
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I hope that sick fuck gets fired
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:19 PM
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And yet us women are always labeled the overly emotional, overly sensitive, easily triggered ones. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 04:44 PM
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To me it’s cheating plain and simple. If he was to jerk off in the corner of a bedroom watching a threesome in real life, what is the difference if there is screen between him and what he is watching? He’s using his sexual energy on other means, so that is cheating. Not to mention the secrecy and lies that usually go along with porn use. The other thing is, it always escalates, it’s a drug, and as he continues to watch his need to find more deviant material will escalate. One day, watching a thr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 04:15 PM
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So who is the screenshot from?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 08:53 PM
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Because they can't get off on normal sex anymore with their little addicted cum brains so they have to watch more deviant stuff in order to get off. It will keep getting sicker just wait.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:56 AM
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And in the comments all the LV porn addicts of course turn this into incest porn jokes. 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 03:41 AM
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Or grammar
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 03:31 AM
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I'm so glad women are talking about this now and deciding to not to date men that watch porn, even if it means not dating at all. As u/s_slayer said, better to be alone than be with a porn addict. Her story is mine, ex-husband destroyed our marriage, he never changed and escalated to more deviant stuff (they always escalate) He has now had so many relationships since our split that I don't have enough hands to count them, he's currently engaged now for over 5 years and he's cheated on her twice …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:20 PM
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And I thought women were the emotional ones who get offended at everything?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:34 AM
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Way back in the day when I didn't realize I had the right to set boundaries my ex watched porn. He knew it bothered me but didn't care. One afternoon we were out and about and I was driving and we drove near an adult store. I pulled in the parking lot and my ex was super confused but excited. I told him to wait in the car it's a surprise. I came back in the car with a vibrator. I said...got myself a lil something. He was like yeah I want to see you use that thing. I told him nahhh...I got it to …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 09:16 PM
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I totally agree with you. I bet you anything she has been having some gut feelings that something is off. Be it the way he's been acting or being extra protective of his phone. So yeah...this may be the proof she's been hoping for. You totally need to tell her. Us women need to start looking out for each other better...even if she blames you...she has the proof that she can't deny he's a POS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:58 PM
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I have the answer of why guys follow them if you don't want to watch the video. HE. DOES. NOT.RESPECT.YOU
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:39 PM
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I can't figure out how any of these guys are single.🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 08:14 PM
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You had it. You just didn't realize it. 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 06:18 PM
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My favorite one is when men think that a woman gets looser by sleeping with a lot of guys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 06:52 PM
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u/cherrykitty87 Get some self esteem! WTF are you doing?? Respect yourself enough to know you do not have to put up with this bullshit. Men don't NEED to fuck other women to be satisfied. And get this through your head....if he is fucking other women....HE. DOES.NOT.LOVE. YOU!!!!! You do not have to let a man sleep with other women to keep him. Repeat after me. You do not have to let a man sleep with other women to keep him. Read through this sub...you will start to learn this guy is pure TRASH!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:41 PM
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Here is how his texts with the woman who ghosted him went down: Woman: so what are your hobbies? Man: working out Man: reading books Man: masturbating Man: send me nudes? Man: ? Man: ? Man: ? Man: ? Man: Fucking whore, I didn't want them anyway Man: Hey WYD? Man: Sorry, that was my brother he stole my phone Man: ? Man: ? Man: You still there? wanna go out for a bite? Man: Bitch
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:52 PM
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She's an embarrassment to all women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:44 PM
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If they want to fuck you before they even know you they hate you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 02:57 PM
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This man-child is so insecure that he is doing everything he can to ruin whatever shred of self-esteem that you have left. That way he has you trapped, and he can then feel free to do whatever he wants on the side because he knows you will not be strong enough to leave him. Prove him wrong and dump his ass. Men like this aren't worth your tears. If he loved and respected you, it would never even cross his mind to ever make you feel bad about yourself. Men who truly love their partners do things …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:39 PM
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Well it was funny we took a quick trip to the store without our phones...but when we returned I was able to prove myself right😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:46 AM
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One date I had long ago the guy argued with me for like an hour that skim milk did not come from a cow...it came from a plant. And yes he was dead serious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 12:37 AM
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This is one of the reasons I chose to be with the man I am with now. since the day I met him, he always put out 150%, if anything he has taught ME how to be more giving. This lockdown he has shown me more than ever what a high quality man he is. We just recently moved to a new house and he spent the day cleaning the floors, doing gardening, cleaning the porch, he cooked every meal, he went out and bought groceries, he gave me a massage before bed, and climbed our plumeria tree to pick me a bouqu…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 07:54 PM
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Let's also not forget in that same sketch he points out that EVERY man fools around. And all the women in the audience half laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:46 PM
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Got on public assistance for a few months, studied my ass off while working a temp job that I got through an employment agency, ended up getting hired by my company, worked my way up in the company, finished school and kept moving up. I hardly slept, all I did was study, work and take care of my kids. Once I started making decent money I Eventually started my own business, a business where I could work anywhere in the world. Once my kids got older I moved to the Caribbean and met an amazing and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 11:09 PM
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yep, did he tell you that "he rarely watches porn"? This means he's minimizing his use, betcha he's in addict territory this is why he never has time to clean his place, ewww I shudder to think of what awaits in that apartment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:47 PM
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I feel like it is more than this, he is hiding something more than a mess, he can easily clean stuff up over the time he is there, but he hasn't in 5 months what the hell?? RED FLAG!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:44 PM
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This was my thought exactly! Whey the hell has he not even let you in his place? He's hiding something for sure. You need to catch him off guard one day and act like you started your period and tell him you need to use his bathroom immediately, see what happens.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 10:41 PM
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Right? My logical thinking would be that if I had to pay someone to have sex with me...they probably aren't all that interested...but that's just my silly female brain at work again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:43 PM
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I left my partner while I had 2 toddlers, no job, and no family within 3000 miles, best decision I ever made. It wasn't easy, but my life 15 years later is fabulous and I am with the most amazing man now. Glad I didn't stay to keep living a miserable existence. He has now had so many failed relationships I can't count them on 2 hands...and has been engaged to his current girlfriend for like 7 years and has cheated on her twice that I know of. I can't even imagine the horrible life I'd still be l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 07:35 PM
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Right? Or the argument I see so often on Reddit; “those girls don’t mean anything to me, so what’s the big deal?” Well, if those girls don’t mean anything what is the problem of giving them up to make your partner more comfortable and secure? I know I don’t go around wasting my time on things that don’t mean anything to me. I don’t read books that I’m not interested in, I don’t waste my time on friendships or people that mean nothing to me. In general if something doesn’t mean anything to me and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 06:49 PM
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Yeah, there was another post on Reddit, it was a meme that said something like "Romantic comedies have caused more damage to adult relationships than porn ever will, change my mind” and I just laughed because we all see every day on Reddit, women asking for advice about their partner’s porn use because it is DESTROYING their relationships and pretty much their whole self-esteem, women who don’t know what to do, asking if they are being unreasonable or insecure, suffering from betrayal trauma etc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 02:50 PM
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Nailed it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 11:43 PM
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Yes, but let's all just ignore the thousands of NSFW porn subs that degrade women, promote rape, promote all kinds of hate against women, and here we have one safe place to go where we talk about having standards and loving ourselves and we are a hate sub. My God men on Reddit are a bunch of delusional limp dicked losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 03:21 PM
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I had to scroll like 40 times to reach the end of his forehead.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 10:42 PM
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Too bad he's not hot or funny
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:55 PM
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And bonus, it looks like he lives in a trailer
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:27 PM
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and he's dyslexic too, win win!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 07:22 PM
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Yep, this is why you never fully trust any man, this is why if they don't let you have full access to their phone and other devices, this is the surest guarantee they are cheating or participating in other deviant activities. Ladies never ever apologize or feel bad for demanding access to their phones or computers, you will save yourself possibly years of deception and heartache. My ex-husband's father was such a degenerate creep, he provided him his porn from a young age and of course he became…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 04:46 PM
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Oh god this is bad girl, very, very, bad. I was married to a porn addict and he was the opposite, he wanted sex all the time, and even at his very worst he never had to look at porn or even suggested it when we were having sex. I think if any guy EVER asked me it was okay to look at porn while I was giving him a blowjob or having sex would get my fucking knee jammed in their nuts and I WOULD be out the door immediately. Think about how disrespectful this is, don't EVER let a man disrespect you l…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 06:47 PM
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Yep, hey hun...gonna go into the office early today, got soo much to do! That excuse probably flies for most then the getting home late excuse, as it makes them look like they are being extra responsible.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:32 PM
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Yeah... that conversation has never left my mind
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 05:27 PM
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Yep I live in Mexico in a tourist town and hear about those types of activities all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:45 PM
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Yep, I believe it is WAY more common than most women know. It's a very easy thing to hide. I just don't get how anyone could get satisfaction out of paying someone to have sex them, it's so pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:19 PM
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All white collar professionals in their 30's and 40's, men that I NEVER thought would be the types to go to prostitutes..family men with wives and children, this is when I lived in the states.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 04:16 PM
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My ex once told me that every single one of his friends that was married or had a girlfriend went to prostitutes. He said he did not know one man that didn't. He said they would just go on their lunch break or after work or whenever it would not be suspected and none of them considered it cheating since it was someone they were just fucking and had no feelings for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:58 PM
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I think it's so odd that some men think that being vulnerable and catching feelings is a sign of weakness. I always looked at men who were faithful and loving to their wives and girlfriends as the ultimate sign of manliness. When a man can stick up for his woman and is able to resist temptations (porn, ogling other women), that's as manly as it gets in my book.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 02:40 PM
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I love this comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:43 PM
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Glad you were smart enough to get out early and not waste years of your life on that useless bottom feeder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:40 PM
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This needs to be written in every women's bathroom across the globe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 03:20 PM
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He's the one who gets upset and tells her to fuck off...yet SHE is the emotional one. Porn makes these men into delusional assholes with no empathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 04:05 PM
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Cool, let that low life degenerate loser have his porn and his hand, we don't need his kind in the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/04/20 03:58 PM
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Don't give up I found someone who shares my values. It took me a long time to find him but t I never backed down from what I believed in or my standards...never feel like you have to deal with a man's bad behavior. He knows he's hurting you and he does not care.There are some good ones out there I promise. If a man makes you feel bad about yourself it's time to go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 04:01 AM
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Can confirm. They don't care if you are their wife girlfriend or a FWB...they get off on degrading women. This is the norm for most men these days...don't ever think that they think you are something special because they want your nudes. They want to know how dumb you are to share something so intimate with them and they will happily pass them around to all their bros to degrade you further. Men that ask you to send nudes don't give a shit about you and you are just one in their extensive collec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:14 AM
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He didn't quit. He's telling you what you want to hear and he will just hide it better. Dump his ass it won't get better I promise you especially when he thinks it's no big deal to jerk off to women and children being raped and trafficked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:02 AM
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Get this through your head. When you tell someone something hurts you and they continue to do it anyway, they DO. NOT. LOVE. YOU. What he is doing is abuse at this point. He also knows that your boundaries and threats don't mean shit so he is not planning to stop doing anything. The only thing he's going to do is hide it better to not get caught again, Sorry to tell you this, but you are in a hopeless situation here, get out now before you lose your sanity and any shred of self esteem you may ha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 08:43 PM
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Good for you girl! I went on a date years ago and this guy brought me to a really nice steakhouse. We were having such a good time, he kept encouraging me to get another drink because he didn't want the date to end, the drinks were not cheap. At one point, I knew I had had enough and asked that he take me home, he paid the bill and off we went. We get in the car and asks to kiss me, I told him no, I don't kiss on the first date, but I actually was just not interested in him at all, he seemed nic…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:22 PM
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I knew I had found a keeper when my boyfriend came over to pick me up for a date. We had been dating for about a month or so. I was barely ready, so I told him to make himself at home while I finished getting ready. When I came out of the bathroom, he was in the process of doing my dishes and had already swept the floor for me. We've been dating now for 2 years and this was not just a "show" he cleans all the time (way more than me), he even hand washes and sun dries my delicates, and cleans my …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:02 PM
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Aww thank you! I should have mentioned that years before this I was married to a very LVM for 7 years, an abusive sex and porn addict. So I was going to be sure I NEVER settled again, I had a very strict vetting process after him and I used these FDS rules before I ever found this sub, and it took me over 10 years to find someone I thought was worthy of my time, so don't lose faith, love can come when you least expect it, and even better when you don't expect it at all because then it doesn't ma…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:59 PM
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a Caribbean beach town in Mexico!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 08:53 PM
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Yep ( but as another poster said LVM are everywhere, but the US is just really, really bad) ! I moved out of the country 5 years ago and found a very HVM. He treats me like a queen. A true gentleman in every aspect, and very attractive too, probably one of the most attractive men I've ever seen to be honest. I pretty much just stopped dating all together in the states, I wasn't interested or attracted to any of the men there, and if I was attracted to them physically, they were LVM, if I was att…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 05:12 PM
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Little dicks are even scarier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/02/20 04:19 PM
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Let's break this one down, shall we? Loves having fun but loves to chill = A girl that's cool with me crashing at her place and will serve me hot pockets and suck my dick while I play video games Is confident = But not too confident, I need a girl whose self esteem is low enough so that I can get away with (see above) Slender and long hair = looking for a girl that looks like a barbie with no personality and that's DTF on the first no effort date at her house Happy and sweet = A girl that will n…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 11:01 PM
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HVM want women that a that they can relate to on all levels...not just physical. Don't get excited or flattered when an older man pays attention to you and treats you great, this is only for a season. Older men who seek younger women will almost always keep seeking younger women...which means he will bore of you rather quickly. These men know younger women are easier to manipulate and trap, don't fall for it, they all are mostly the same, and if it does happen to turn into something long term, h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 10:33 PM
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The funny thing is, if men just acted like decent human beings and treated women with respect and dignity this sub wouldn't even exist. The problem is, most women when they first start dating in life truly have good intentions with men, they do everything to make them happy and please them, then you have most men who do NOT have truly good intentions with women, who are only out to manipulate, abuse and use them. Thus women wake up after going through the same thing with man after man, because s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:47 PM
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That's awesome! And yep, weak men will always try to bring a confident woman down by making jabs at her looks, too bad confident women see right through this shit and we value ourselves for more than just what we look like or what men think of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:17 PM
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Add a couple cats in there and it's even better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 07:13 PM
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I was married to a guy with the biggest dick I've ever had, I had very little experience with other men before him so I had no clue that he was waaayyy above average. After we divorced I met this guy and we started dating for a bit, I didn't want anything serious since I was just getting out of a marriage, but I was very excited and curious about having a new sexual experience with someone new. He wanted to wait for a while to have sex, which I thought was so sweet! He really wanted to get to kn…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:27 PM
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Wow, that is awful what he said, and even though saying that back didn't make it right, I totally get that reactionary response, especially after saying something so fucking hurtful. The thing is, once a man says something like this, it's very hard to ever forget it, and it can definitely mess with your self-esteem. I think he showed you his true colors and who he really is. I'd run as fast as possible, he sounds like he's trying to ruin your self-esteem on purpose to keep you trapped and to thi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 06:12 PM
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Don't insult the dogs :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:08 PM
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But the awesome part is, while women may "seem" to be destroyed at first, we are usually the ones that end up on top and doing bigger and better things without them. We actually learn from our mistakes, while they keep making the same ones. It's funny, because all of my friends who got out of bad relationships (myself included) have all thrived and are living a way better life, while the exes are still up to the same shit with the next girl still living their shitty lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 04:57 PM
16

Having NO friends is even better than that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 02:14 PM
50

Sorry, I just prefer the man I'm dating to not have porn induced erectile dysfunction. I also prefer a man that doesn't get off to videos of women being anally raped, abused, and trafficked...but that's just me...so silly of me to have such high standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 05:55 PM
15

But yet they still require looking at a woman to get their power. Oh the hypocrisy! Fucking idiots.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 03:11 PM
23

After my divorce I kept my standards high as hell...it took me over 10 years to find one of these guys, but he was TOTALLY worth the wait. Never settle ladies, being single is FAR better than being with a loser in a bad relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:10 PM
12

Exactly this! How is it insecure to not want your man to watch the vile stuff that is on the front page of porn these days? Normal now is incest and rape porn, this is what these losers are jerking it over. How can a man that watches this shit respect his girlfriend, his relationship and women as whole? There are NO protocols in place for what is uploaded on these sites either, there is no way to know if what they are watching is consensual, no way of knowing if that woman or girl has been traff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 04:03 PM
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Lol, she'll be back on here in a few years after he's trapped her with a few kids complaining about her boyfriend's ED and how he never helps around the house or with the kids, and won't have sex with her anymore because he can only get off to degenerate porn. She'll be the perfect housekeeper, cook, and caregiver to the kids and wonder why he's always in his man cave jerking to porn. Porn is never a problem until it is a problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/20 02:55 PM
16

Well thanks to readily available internet porn this shit is getting more and more normalized every day. Daddy daughter porn is now normal on porn sites, I believe it will just keep getting sicker and sicker the more this stuff gets normalized. Little boys are growing up watching this stuff thinking this is normal. I do not blame you for one moment to be afraid of having a little girl in this world, society is getting sicker and sicker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 12:03 AM
14

This is why it's important to find out ahead of time if they are a porn consumer. Most men...errrr all men who got their sex ed on pornhub and who are frequent porn users are usually really awful in bed. Even if at first they seem great, once the novelty of you wears off they will become uninterested and your sex life will die and/or they will not be able to keep an erection. These are facts...if you get involved with a porn user, be prepared for a miserable sex life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 04:52 PM
9

Right? I've been looking for some free sex and haven't been able to find it anywhere! Now this slice of heaven shows up and he's not even in my area.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:28 PM
3

Shhhh!! Don't give out our secrets!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:26 PM
22

He's not interested because porn has taken your place. I can almost guarantee you this is the case. His addiction probably goes a lot deeper than you know and he's probably watching more than just Hentail If you don't set boundaries now and find out how deep this runs, you're marriage is in big trouble. To me porn is absolutely cheating. He is using his sexual energy on everything but you, and here you are being sexually starved thinking the problem is with you. No my dear, the problem is that p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 06:20 PM
14

She needs to send him a bill for the time she spent traveling to see him, her expenses to keep up her appearance, and the bill for the therapist she will need to figure out what she is doing with this douche-bag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:42 PM
18

You are sooo right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 05:44 PM
61

Oh yes, toxic men can't stand it when women band together and talk about their shitty behaviour and encourage each other to not tolerate it. They hate it when us women find out their dirty secrets and stop taking their shit, they love to divide and conquer, they love for us to be against each other and fight over them. They already know we are WAY more emotionally intelligent than them in every way and this scares the hell out of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 04:45 PM
13

I hope she finds this sub
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:40 PM
66

OMG, I saw this earlier and wanted to post this here. I mean...I can't even imagine a guy ever doing this to me...he'd be fucking dead! Can you ever imagine having your husband or boyfriend doing this right after you carried his fucking child for 9 months, going through child birth, being post-partum and emotional and he's looking at porn of your FRIEND giving a blowjob while YOU are giving HIM a blowjob!??? And nope, doesn't even make a difference that she just gave birth I think she added that…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:41 AM
14

Can attest to this, my ex-husband who was definitely porn sick started getting a serious receding hairline before he was 30, he's in his 40's now and looks like complete shit and almost like he has a disease. I saw a picture of him recently and I didn't even realize it was him at first, I can guarantee you all the porn and infidelity he has continued throughout the years contributed to his haggard looks. I'm with a HVM now who is in his early 40's with a beautiful luscious head of hair and he lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:14 AM
70

Wahhh!!!! Poor Kevin...he makes bad decisions and treats his wife like shit and then thinks Karma isn't going to come back and kick him in the ass! Another delusional entitled piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 04:47 PM
17

Oh this is soooo true!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:52 PM
16

I think we have all watched enough Lifetime movies to know this is a bad idea lol. On another note, I used to be a nanny when I was 18 and the woman's 40 year old husband was constantly hitting on me. They separated and he started calling me constantly and asking me out on dates, telling me how hot I was, no one has to know...etc. He was sooooo fucking creepy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:51 PM
5

Oh no, you got my comment all wrong! I was putting it in the context of like imagine if we as women got so enraged by what some random guy said on the internet that we actually took the time to message him. Was not directing this at you at all! Sorry for the misunderstanding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:21 PM
14

Imagine getting so enraged by what some guy thinks on the internet that you actually took the time to direct message him thinking that he would give a shit about your opinion. LMAO!! I had to block all incoming messaging and chat on here because of this kind of shit. What sad and pathetic lives these limp dicked losers must live.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:10 PM
33

These men are so hilarious and fucking delusional! Note to all male lurkers....women in their 20's don't want your old crusty ass...shit women in their 40's and 50's don't even want your dried up shriveled penis. The ONLY reason any woman would entertain you is for your MONEY...that's it and that's all! If you think you have anything to offer other than your wallet than you are a delusional fucking imbecile. You hope to come across some "girls" and have that "soft touch" again??? LMAO!!! Why don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 08:02 PM
32

30 may be his IQ, but certainly not his age
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 02:53 PM
2

Most likely if he has a female friend that he is in constant communication with, his intentions aren't pure. I had an ex that would delete his conversations with his female "friends" I would check his phone and then see the conversations would be deleted or he would have them on mute (whatsapp) I told him if these conversations you are having with these women are so innocent why are they being deleted? That makes you look even more suspicious than if you just kept them! Also don't even be too su…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 07:51 PM
32

What are his "hidden battles"? His porn addiction? GTFO here, this picture should be in reverse. Us women have far more battles in every day life to fight then men will EVER understand. Who will pick him up and VALUE him? Every damn person on this planet that's who! Men don't have a problem with people "valuing" them, it's us women who have to fight every fucking day to be be valued. It's us women who have to fight every day to be seen as fucking human beings and not just the sum of our body par…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:28 PM
6

Another nasty pornsick man trying to live out his incest fantasy. I bet he watches so much porn he actually believed this must be what you wanted…cuz you know… that’s what porn says us women really want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 05:38 PM
27

If you have to wonder or read up on if a guy is interested....he's ain't interested!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 06:34 PM
57

Agree, just another post to "normalize" porn. Look! Even 93 year old guys need it! I'm such a hero to help out the elderly so that he can watch young girls being raped and abused. Hero of the year! The way these men act like porn is an absolute necessity in life is so disgusting. I swear there are very few men left in this world that have any sense of values at all. It's so incredibly sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 10:34 PM
16

Great video!! Most of us women already knew this...men's brains are just so damaged now from porn, they probably can't even comprehend what this guy is saying because their little pea brains are so damaged. Don't date men who consume porn ladies, it will never end well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 08:59 PM
79

Right? It's never a problem when some old crusty pervert with a few bucks only wants to date hot young chicks, but as soon as those hot young chicks date said crusty old pervert, she's the problem and labeled a gold digger. I have personally never been impressed by men who flaunt their money. When I was really young I dated a few, and always found them creepy and socially inadequate. Not only that, but you can pretty much bet that when you date a wealthy guy, especially a hot one, you will NEVER…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:31 PM
5

I don't get this show in my country, but I've found some clips and a few full episodes on youtube
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 01:28 PM
7

What is this? Why aren’t the major things “loving married relationship happy couple”. Because porn has nothing to do with love. It has everything to do with abuse, degrading women, rape, disrepect and power. Men get off to this shit and getting their pornsick dicks off is more important than ANYTHING to them....more important than a human life that is being ruined, more important than their wives or girlfriends being hurt, more important than their families and children... they don't care, as lo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:41 PM
9

One of the comments: "Most of these interviews are from older pornstars, porn no longer runs like that and is a business like any other business. Everything is run professionally, and no one gets raped, or has their vagina tear. The porn industry was seriously fucked up way back then, but now a days, it’s fine. Fap away my friends, but if you’re watching old porn, say, from the 60s or 70s, this stuff mighta happened. I suggest you watch the movie Lovelace as it does inform you about how porn was…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 05:12 PM
5

Pretty sad that this is something to be "refreshed" about and not the norm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:31 PM
17

Well this is to be expected when the major porn sites encourage and promote this type of thing, this is the shit men get off on now, they aren't even trying to hide it. As another poster mentioned, NEVER EVER feel bad for checking their phones and computers, you have every right in the world to know what kind of shit your partner is looking at especially when this is the type of crap that is now being normalized. Ladies, you must protect yourselves and your children at all costs, don't ever let …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 01:52 PM
4

First you need to know how deep he is in with porn. If he has developed a full on addiction it won't be as easy as telling him to just stop, he will also most likely downplay his use to you and will not admit it if he is addicted. You must absolutely find out what you are dealing with here in terms of his use, you may need to be sneaky about it too as he is most likely not going to be honest with you about the frequency and the content he is viewing. And for the record you have absolutely every …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 05:42 PM
2

That's so awesome! My boyfriend does this too, we always have a house full of flowers. He's the best!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 04:00 PM
33

Do the world a favor and just stick to your hand and your porn you massive loser... we need you removed from the gene pool anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 07:42 PM
7

It's basically a soft core porn and what I consider his worst acting. From IMDB: When a devoted husband and father is left home alone for the weekend, two stranded young women unexpectedly knock on his door for help. What starts out as a kind gesture results in a dangerous seduction and a deadly game of cat and mouse. A sexy new thriller from director Eli Roth and written for the screen by Eli Roth & Nicolás López & Guillermo Amoedo and story by Anthony Overman and Michael Ronald, KNOCK KNOCK st…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 07:03 PM
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I lost all respect for Keanu after I saw his movie "Knock Knock" I couldn't believe he could stoop so low.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 04:33 PM
6

Amen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:03 PM
18

True that, and I agree with your statement, except porn addicts don't give a shit if you deny them sex, because they have their porn and they prefer it. Most men just want to be in a relationship now because they want a maid, cook and caregiver.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:14 PM
25

Yep! Wasting their lives away jerking it to porn when they could be living a productive life doing something positive in the world. It really is the most pathetic fucking thing ever. The good news is, the porn addicts will eventually weed themselves out of the gene pool since they prefer their hand to a real life interaction...so there's that I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 07:04 PM
3

Right? Like I was supposed to be...oh how hilarious! You really got me here, I guess we can just go back to normal now since you knew all along! Such a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:36 PM
15

All of these relationship subs are flooded with pro-porn porn addicts, they all give the same advice....ALL men look at porn, don't snoop...submit. Yesterday an 18 year old girl had a post where she said she was uncomfortable with her boyfriend's porn use. She went on to say that she knows it's all perfectly normal and healthy for men to look at porn, but it made her feel insecure and she wanted advice on how to "deal with his porn use" Of course all of the comments were from men defending porn,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:17 PM
10

This is a VERY common theme on the relationship advice subs. All these girls are so dumb putting up with this crap. Like...I don't care if he looks at porn and develops an addiction where he can't get his dick up...but I draw the line at him masturbating to my friends. Um honey...that's what porn will do to men...it makes them start looking at ALL women as just objects. Porn reduces all women down to just body parts. Soooo....if you are "cool" with him looking at porn expect further deviant beha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:46 PM
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Good for you girl! I did the same thing in my current relationship. If these men have nothing to hide then there's no reason to hide anything...simple. And this has nothing to do with being "insecure" it does have everything to do with PROTECTING yourself, and there is NOTHING wrong with that at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 05:14 PM
10

My God, if men only would realize how much better their relationships would be if they cut the porn out.....but unfortunately most of them feel entitled to sexualize anything with a hole and don't give a shit about poisoning their brains and their relationships. They don't give a shit about how it changes the way they see women and how it dehumanizes women. It's all about the cheapest, fastest thrill. So much easier than putting in actual work into a real life person and relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:25 PM
11

I always say unless you give me a reason to snoop, I won’t snoop, but as soon as you start acting shady in any way, shape, or form and we are supposedly in a a committed relationship, then I will do what I have to do to protect myself. Let me give you an example. My ex-fiance was constantly on his phone and would put it down whenever I came near him. I just KNEW in my gut something was up, but I didn’t want to accuse him of something I had no proof of. Soooo….when he didn’t think I was watching,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 02:16 PM
6

What I mean by "allow" is that I let it be known from the very start of my relationship when we decided to be exclusive that porn will not be accepted and I set my boundaries by letting him know that If I ever find it we are done. Now of course I cannot control what he does behind my back, and I know that in this world it is virtually IMPOSSIBLE to not run across it or avoid it.... not even I can avoid it, it's not a deal breaker if he is sent some porn in text message or something, but if I fin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/19 05:30 PM
21

Right? He's calling them whores, but yet he's lusting and beating off to whores watching porn....oh the hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 06:49 PM
8

Are there pedo rings too? Yes there are, I was just reading a post about it and there were some disturbing screenshots of men looking for this stuff. Also men sharing incest pictures of their daughters to swap. I am now officially sick for the day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 05:15 PM
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