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LTRs generally require a higher level of effort than that.
/r/askTRP27/04/15 09:18 PM
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Go to a psychologist or a social worker. They may very well want to diagnose you but they're less likely to try to get you to take meds for it.
/r/askTRP15/04/15 11:31 AM
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PF's marketing scheme is literally that they don't have people like that at their gyms. "Lunks" aka people who pick up heavy things.
/r/askTRP14/04/15 09:27 PM
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Sounds like he made a date earlier, she changed plans by inviting someone else, and he cancelled. Dude's too uptight to roll with things and have a good time despite a change in plans.
/r/askTRP12/04/15 01:33 PM
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The difference between this proposed disorder (it's not recognized by the APA) and plain old healthy eating is the impairment it causes. For something to be a disorder, it has to cause marked impairment or distress. People diagnosed with any mental illness should be diagnosed only if their symptoms actually interfere with their normal functioning. Unfortunately, that's not always how it goes. In an effort to help people in distress that may not be extreme enough to warrant an actual mental healt…
/r/askTRP11/04/15 01:01 PM
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The pottery class sounds like a great idea! Probably a good place to meet laid back people. I've done pottery for a long time, it can be frustrating, especially at first, but stick with it cause it's fun and rewarding too! I also second the sports team idea. I play on a women's club rugby team and it's a great way to meet fun, ridiculous, and very accepting and welcoming women. If rugby sounds too rough there's likely a team around you for softball, kickball, soccer, tennis, volleyball... you ge…
/r/RedPillWomen29/03/15 01:54 AM
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It is a shit test to try to get you to explain where you stand, so she knows what she needs to do to get you to commit.
/r/askTRP23/03/15 12:37 PM
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I met my SO on tinder. Like you, I never expected anything to come out of my use of the app, so I think my low expectations set me up for success because I didn't put a ton of pressure on myself in any of the conversations I had with guys on there. We met up in early september and have hardly spent a day apart since :)
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 09:17 PM
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I agree with you. A lot of the advice on here is to just chill out and not let this mixup ruin the night/weekend, but that doesn't solve the longer term problem of him going out more and more, and her feeling increasingly isolated and alone. I definitely recommend talking to husband about it especially since his patterns have changed and OP is not handling the transition well. It's ok to ask for support and time from your man too!
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/15 03:05 PM
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Meh, we all know that the term "feminine" is pretty relative. Some of us wear heels and dresses, some of us don't. Some girls look sexy and feminine in their workout gear, and their guys love that. It all depends on what your guy is comfortable with, and becoming the woman that makes him happy. My SO and I have rules about not farting in front of one another cause it is pretty gross. We shower together, and have no problems seeing the other one on the toilet (although wiping is off limits haha).…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/15 07:22 PM
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Well then if you're looking for advice maybe your best option is to get yourself drunk and jump off a bridge instead of getting this girl drunk and causing her baby (who she will obviously have to care for alone since you're clearly not gonna own up to your actions) to have a lifelong disability. You wanted our input here, so don't get all butthurt when you don't like the response. The TRP way would be to take responsibility for your actions. If that includes getting an abortion, that's your col…
/r/askTRP20/03/15 06:16 PM
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You heard it through the grapevine, from a tertiary source it sounds like. It seems like you're looking for an excuse to drop her and go for the new girl you're into. If that's the case go for it, just be honest with yourself and your girl about what's going on here.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 09:35 PM
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Where's the evidence of baby trapping here? OP said he fucked up. By not wearing a condom and raw dogging a plate, and by not having a conversation eith her about his expectations of abortion in the case of a pregnancy. He's a fucking idiot and has to live with his decisions now.
/r/askTRP19/03/15 06:21 PM
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You should absolutely dedicate time to bettering yourself, but not for your wife. If she's your only motivation, you'll resent her whenever you experience a failure. Get to the gym and get back into the shape you want to be in. It's an added benefit that your wife will want to fuck you again and your relationship will improve because you'll be taking charge.
/r/askTRP18/03/15 06:47 PM
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I'm assuming you mean borderline personality disorder, but bpd can also mean bipolar disorder. Which does she have? There is a huge difference. Either way, you're trying to make a fun game for yourself out of someone else's mental health issue. You're not qualified to deal with her shit after reading some articles and posting on asktrp. You're not going to be able to fix her, you're just going to end up stressed out, pissed off, and butthurt when it's over.
/r/askTRP17/03/15 10:27 PM
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Here's how you figure it out: ask her to meet up with you. It's that simple. If she won't, no point in talking to her anyway.
/r/askTRP14/03/15 09:26 AM
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You must be a great captain :)
/r/askTRP08/03/15 09:00 PM
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That's fair. I can see how with your mindset you might be more inclined to take advice from the dudes at TRP. Although the super-feminine culture there isn't always my cup of tea, I am a female who participates in that sub, so you can take what I say with a grain of salt :)
/r/askTRP07/03/15 11:19 PM
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I'd advise that you not try to stick yourself in a box of straight vs gay vs trans vs pansexual or whatever other terminology you think applies to you given the day of the week. Just be open to relationships with lots of people. If you're not attracted to girls that's cool, but that doesn't mean you can't be open to dating a girl you're attracted to, should you meet one someday. Ditto for boys, FTM or MTF trans folks, or whoever. And you can still internalize all the TRP principles you want and …
/r/askTRP07/03/15 11:09 PM
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You sure you're not into chicks? The more I read your comments the more it seems like you basically want to date a girl, but you want to date a boy because you think of yourself as straight. Maybe just go experiment with both? I know you're a virgin, so take that as far as you're comfortable.
/r/askTRP07/03/15 10:48 PM
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It seems like you're struggling to reconcile the "you" that you know yourself as, with the "you" that you think you need to be/want to be. That's great! That's the beginning of a long journey of self-discovery and self-improvement. I'm proud of you for being able to acknowledge this about yourself, especially at a young age when a lot of your peers are going to be getting entrenched in their bad habits. You don't have to suddenly give up everything about yourself (your "manly" charcteristics) bu…
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 12:31 PM
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This chick cheated on you. Never stay with someone who's cheated on you, especially if they have a bad track record (which she does). Beyond that, she's keeping this guy, and probably others, as orbiters. She feels the need to seek validation outside the relationship. Whether or not this is your fault for not being emotionally available enough, doesn't matter. Anytime she perceives some slip up on your part she'll have this excuse in her back pocket. She'll blame her indiscretions on you, and yo…
/r/askTRP07/03/15 12:20 PM
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This is true for me (female). Once I learn how much affection and sexy time my partner wants to give, I get accustomed to it, and if it changes suddenly, it's a warning sign that something is wrong. To OP'S question: "a lot" of sex is just relative to the amount of sex you're up for. If your libidos are really mismatched and out of sync, it's probably going to either take time to get into a groove together, or spell doom for the relationship if it keeps causing problems. Now, if a girl is always…
/r/askTRP06/03/15 11:50 AM
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Tamptom. Lol.
/r/askTRP06/03/15 01:39 AM
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Her girl dread game is getting to you. I definitely agree with reading the sex god method.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:04 PM
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In this same vein, acting like you've let it go and actually letting it go are very different things, and she can tell. If you're pissy and ignoring her you're just being passive aggressive too and it's counterproductive because it adds fuel to the fire of the fight she wants to initiate. If you actually let it go and show her that you truly don't care, that's a different story.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 08:00 PM
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Couldn't you say the same about women's natural attraction towards men and desire for sex, regardless of an arbitrary measure of "potential," whatever that's defined as?
/r/askTRP05/03/15 01:45 PM
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Why are men attracted to women then, if they have more potential? I'm trying to understand your logic here.
/r/askTRP05/03/15 11:44 AM
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Guys on trp lie about their success rates? Whaaaaa?! Seriously though, guys who say the world suddenly bowed down to them after they lifted for a few months and adopted a better attitude are likely exaggerating st least a little bit. Or perhaps the increased confidence changed their perceptions and they noticed more girls eyeing them even though the number hadn't really changed (they were more likely to perceive innocent eye contact as "she's checking me out" rather than "oops awkward eye contac…
/r/askTRP04/03/15 11:05 PM
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Tell her to call you whatever you want her to call you, no need to complicate things or confuse her.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:05 PM
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What are you doing to prove to her that you're worth it? Why should she improve herself to make you happy if she doesn't see the value in you anymore either? Quit complaining and show her that it would be worth it to stay in shape and keep her shit together in order to keep you around. Otherwise she'll want to divorce you and take your money and kids anyway, and you'll be back here whining some more.
/r/askTRP04/03/15 08:03 PM
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This is very true! I too get caught up in the fat shaming vs fat acceptance arguments, when really the conversation should be about health, and striving to be the best we can be. Thanks for pointing that out.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 12:30 PM
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If you're interested in going out now, your old bros would probably be cool with you still hanging out with them even if youre not drinking. Just don't be a high and mighty dick about it.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 01:57 PM
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Why even bother responding to a post looking for help if you're advice is "your problem isn't a problem for me."
/r/askTRP02/03/15 01:56 PM
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Her question at the end is intriguing. "Should I change?" I don't think it's a matter of should you, but will you? Are we willing to better ourselves for the sake of getting what we want? Or would we rather sit around and complain about other people wanting something that isn't us? Although I still struggle with this since I was raised to believe that "being myself" would always be enough, I'm trying to be more of a realist and recognize that people want what they want, and it's a hell of a lot …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 01:29 PM
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Nursing, social work, pharmaceuticals, college campuses in general.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 03:36 AM
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I'm a professional-listener-in-training, so thank YOU for the appreciation! From the perspective of an rpw, it's concerning that she won't accept your influence. It sounds like you're very supportive of her, but if you're looking for a woman you can lead, she's just not there yet. I'd suggest expressing to her that you'd like to be trusted to take charge and provide direction for her, without taking away her autonomy. You can say this outright, which probably wouldn't be received all that well (…
/r/askTRP02/03/15 02:22 AM
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She's doing something that embarrasses and annoys you, and won't change her behavior despite knowing how you feel about it. Is she an RPW? It sounds like she's not comfortable taking a backseat to you as a leader or accepting your influence. You mentioned childhood trauma, can you say more about how that plays into your relstionship?
/r/askTRP01/03/15 01:08 PM
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She's trying to get you to put her on a pedestal, see if you'll bow down to her wishes. It's a shit test. You can either do it, as others have said, and get what you want, or continue to ditch her if you think you're better off without.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 10:00 PM
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No, you're not being realistic. I hope that was sarcasm.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:14 AM
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You have low standards. Get a puppy instead.
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:13 AM
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Be careful with list-making like this. Pretty soon you'll find yourself describing a unicorn that you'll never find, and if everything on your list is a dealbreaker, you'll be disappointed every time. Plus if you're out there searching for the perfect lady then you already have oneitis. Make sure you're actually up to this dream girl's standards as well- I agree with the necessity of keeping frame, and you should also be lifting and self-improving, always. Otherwise it doesn't matter if you find…
/r/askTRP27/02/15 02:11 AM
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That song showed me she was a hypocrite. Dear future husband just confirmed it. She's all about body acceptance and being who you are (read: making no efforts whatsoever to self-improve) but I guarantee you she's got a team of highly trained stylists, makeup artisrs, photographers, etc. whose job it is to make her look good. Yeah, that's very self-accepting. And her future husband is supposed to bow down at her feet, giving her a continuous stream of validation every day of her life? He's never …
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 12:12 PM
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Tell her to research mindful eating/mindfulness in general, and other forms of stress reduction. I know college life is tough trying to cram as much as you can into a handful of years, but her long-term goals include looking and feeling good (and healthy) so that needs to be an everyday thing too. I agree with others that diet is going to be the most important part of this if her main goal is to look good. If she's a dancer I'm willing to bet she's already pretty skinny, so for muscle-building w…
/r/askTRP26/02/15 01:03 AM
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If you want to LTR her, go for it. If you want to plate her, escalate. You know what to do, go get what you want and stop humblebragging.
/r/askTRP23/02/15 08:13 PM
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This guy has shit advice for you. Don't be a huge dick to your roommate's plate just cause she's being shy. It sounds like she was probably nervous about saying something stupid around you because you're friends with the guy she's banging, or she was just being bitchy and butthurt because she wanted to be alone with him. As for your actual question, as others have said, it's probably something you're doing, some weird vibe you're putting out there. Are you truly confident in your actions? Do you…
/r/askTRP23/02/15 07:43 PM
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Sounds like you've a made up your mind. Move to Asia.
/r/askTRP22/02/15 12:24 AM
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Indeed they do!
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:32 PM
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I've seen way too many posts on here lately that go something like "I like/want X, does that make me weird/an asshole?" What's up with you guys feeling so insecure in your desires?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:22 PM
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She seems wishy washy. Does she go back on other decisions she's made? This is why you've lost respect for her, she doesn't stick with her convictions. Red flag that she'll one day simply "change her mind" about you too. So is it a pattern for her?
/r/askTRP21/02/15 11:04 PM
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I'm a (female) student in a social work program, and unfortunately I'm not that surprised about your experience. Most of what we're taught has to do with helping women and families, with occasional focus on LGBT or male-specific material. When I bring up a men's issue I usually get brushed off by most classmates, but a couple people inevitably start nodding and you can see a light bulb goes on in their head. I'd stick with male counselors if I were you, like others have said they will probably h…
/r/askTRP21/02/15 10:59 PM
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I guess my next question is, what are you looking for? It seems like you had an LTR or were at least dating this girl before, but now you just wanna fuck. She is in a relationship, saw that your SMV rose (probably higher than her current bf's) and now she wants to swing up to your branch. She's shit testing you by being flirty but noncommittal to see if you're really any better than you used to be.
/r/askTRP21/02/15 09:30 AM
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I'd go for it, once. Set up a time to hang out and try to escalate. If she fucks you, great. If she turns you down, walk away and cut her out of your life. You said yourself that you're doing better and she's doing worse since you split. Don't waste your time chasing a girl you already ended a relationship with just because you both got nostalgic feels at walmart.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:44 PM
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You've already let this guy fuck around with you for 9 months. He knows there are no consequences for walking all over you, and you lost frame when you half-assed threatened to "beat him up." You can try giving him his options one last time: either find the USB and give it to you, pay for the lost USB, or give you some possession/item worth the same or more than the USB. If it really means that much to you then you can involve the police (I don't know how much this thing costs). It seems like yo…
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:31 PM
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One lady's opinion: don't bother. It seems like you're insecure about your ass hair in particular or something, and you're probably right that it would seem strange to have hair on the rest of your body, with a silky smooth baby's bottom. I don't know how hairy you are in general though, and it depends on that too I guess.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 08:14 PM
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I'd be straightforward with her and tell her that as her friend, you believe that this relationship is only going to cause her more stress and heartache. She and John want completely different things, and there's no way she or any other woman is going to change that. She would be better off finding someone who's looking for what she's looking for instead if wasting her time and energy trying to control this dude. You already know all this, of course, so when you explain it to her you should expr…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 08:09 PM
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Either way, he's setting up a punishment system for the girl. If she doesn't do the chores she either loses a bunch of money, or she loses her man. They've been living together for 3 years, is going nuclear over housework really his best option for maintaining a happy ltr?
/r/askTRP20/02/15 12:14 AM
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She has a boyfriend but is using tinder... Do you really want to associate with a girl who uses some dude for commitment and stability while she's simultaneously out fucking randos? Find a higher quality woman.
/r/askTRP20/02/15 12:06 AM
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It seems like you feel guilty because she's so crazy about you and you don't really reciprocate those feelings to the same degree. As long as you're honest with her (no bogus "I love you" when she says it, etc.) your conscience should be clear.
/r/askTRP17/02/15 12:41 PM
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You say it's not true, even laughable, that you could get any girl you want. If you don't really think you can get with the women you want to be with, you're going to project that to them and end up putting them on a pedestal. Have confidence.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 03:05 PM
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She's only in a good mood for a couple days after you have sex? And youre only having sex evrry few days? That doesn't sound like much fun. And yes, you need to learn how to fuck better.
/r/askTRP16/02/15 02:51 PM
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Genuinely curious, why not leave your wife amicably and then be free to date without fear of repercussions/guilt?
/r/askTRP14/02/15 01:07 PM
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Get a damn good lawyer and fight for custody of your daughter. This woman is completely toxic and there's no way she can really take care of that little girl. Not to mention your daughter is already being exposed to the shitty habits and attitudes your wife and mother in law are passing down. I know you have a long history with this woman and it's hard to let her go, but you'll be much better off taking care of your kid, who you clearly care about, and focusing on your own happiness than spendin…
/r/askTRP14/02/15 12:23 PM
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She's definitely not pregnant, he's just freaking out after reading horror stories on reddit even though he has no indication that she might be knocked up.
/r/askTRP13/02/15 01:33 PM
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This is good advice for food storage but doesn't solve the problem. This guy should really be able to put food away on his own. IMO we want to support our partners and make their lives easier, not baby them and be their mothers.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/15 08:03 PM
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I can't really answer your question because I can't speak for the religious gals, but I'm an atheist RPW, so don't get caught up thinking girl-next-door types can only be found in church. You are correct that most women who are "progressive thinkers" in terms of religion are probably also on board with feminism, and I certainly see enough Christian-toned posts on here to realize that this sub is dominated by women of faith (which is actually my least favorite part of the sub). Like others have s…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/15 11:59 PM
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It's kind of a made-up word that means higher class, girly in the stereotypical "oh i never get dirty and only the best will do for me," but it can have the connotation of being a little snooty or thinking you're better than others. That was a hard one to define, I hope that helps haha
/r/RedPillWomen27/12/14 01:48 PM
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Read the last 2 bullet points. I think your future LTR would be very happy to know her partner will surprise her and take care of her when she needs it.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/14 10:05 PM
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Thank you for recognizing the legitimacy of mental illness. For a lot of people it is a huge barrier, but they can be successful with support. In my opinion, mental health is a spectrum and people experience a range of problems from trauma to basic shitty life challenges, all of which relate to a person's emotional state. Whether it's biological or not, people need support from others at times. I do think our social service system would do more good if we focused on helping people help themselve…
/r/TheRedPill30/11/14 10:05 AM
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I don't know shit about computers but if my SO said he was going to fix my computer by reinstalling my operating system, I'd at least be able to remember that much. It seems to me like it was written by a woman. Maybe she'll find her way over to RPW and actually make some personal changes after this big life-changing realization she seems to have had. And maybe she'll just continue to chat about the situation over at twox and feel so good about noticing her flaw that she doesn't actually feel li…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 12:37 PM
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It's funny cause aren't most hair places pretty much women-only? I don't see a lot of dudes at salons, even if it's an unspoken rule.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 11:56 AM
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That's exactly what goes on at my school. The vast majority of us are women, and most of us dress nicely and look pretty feminine (depending on the day, and what's due haha) but then people talk about sexism and rejecting the unrealistic standards that men "impose" on them. I do think that a lot of the feminazi stuff that goes on is because it's fashionable, and most of us have been educated in liberal arts colleges that spew this stuff as truth. I'm glad I've been able to achieve the level of e…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 02:01 AM
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I'm getting my master's in social work right now, so I'm surrounded by feminism all day every day. There are times when I feel attacked, but it's usually because discussions can get passionate in class, not because anyone is actually attacking my personal choices or character. There are also a lot of times when I say something in class that goes against the sjw way of thinking, and I expect to be met with unanimous disagreement, but it turns out several classmates support me. For example, we wer…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/14 12:11 AM
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This probably isn't what you want to hear, but if this is a girl you'd like to keep around, maybe don't fuck with her too bad? A lot of people are brought up to think porn is disgusting, and feel a lot of shame about liking it. It sounds like she'd be into watching it with you if you can help her get over that shame. You'd probably be able to get her to open up and get a whole lot more wild with you in bed. You can benefit from this if you don't make her feel worse about it.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/14 12:02 AM
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Fit: 1) I play rugby, but our season is over for the winter so the team did crossfit together last night, and that really kicked my ass. 2) My boyfriend and I usually have skillet chicken with veggies as our go-to no-frills healthy dinner. We also eat a lot of pho, although I'm not sure how healthy that is (lots of sodium I would guess). 3) As usual, my Queen greatest hits album was my pump-up music this week. 4) Next week I have a lot of things due for school (I'm getting my MSW) so I'll be pri…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/14 01:15 PM
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That link looked like it was written by a 15 year old girl.
/r/RedPillWomen14/10/14 04:06 PM
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Or have chosen a Captain that doesn't instill faith in his first mate. A problem either way.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 08:29 PM
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