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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 27 | RE: OnlyFans - an unsustainable model in and of itselfat some point there needs to be accountability - effectively they're participating in a structure that grooms a new generation of young girls and women. There are things bigger than trying to "get dat bag" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/22 06:27 PM |
| 78 | Mom gives “Husbands in Training” course to her sonsHate to say it, but the only way the impacts of porn would stick if it were to revolve around their penis, decreased sexual libido, or Peyronies 🤢 it seems very difficult for men to empathize with women tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 10:56 PM |
| 31 | When men in professional settings treat you like sh*t when you don't wear makeup. I'm sorry, was this supposed to be a date?!Lol I def have a story to share about this. When I was 15 I had a driving instructor (male) and I was full face makeup. He was nice and encouraging, and had me stop at a Starbucks and bought me a drink even when I said no thank you. One year later I return and am not wearing makeup. He is discernably rude and yells at me while driving (even tho I’m better than I was at 15). He has me stop at a Starbucks and goes in without offering anything, just wordless. I was 16 when I figured out how men tre… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/22 03:27 PM |
| 130 | This is how "decent" men contribute to the bar being so LOWthe title is not mine - copied from a highly upvoted comment on this post under a certain subreddit. Would've loved to attach it here if I knew how to upload multiple images in one post | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 08:01 PM |
| 101 | Looking the same after babies"The most dangerous period of a women's life is when she is pregnant." In school, we are taught that pregnant women should be thought of similarly to immunocompromised patients. Quite literally, her body is more at risk for infections, diseases, etc., since her body cannot defend against infections the same way. If you think about it, there's great benefit to glossing over the dangers of pregnancy in public health and school mandated education - more bodies are always needed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 06:52 PM |
| 17 | Is your boyfriend part of the secret Nude Trading Club?ladies please beware! The same type of thing goes on on 4chan boards, where anonymous users violently fantasize and trade pics of women they have nudes from. Sometimes they will post her pics side by side with the women's private information. Even if you don't have any nudes, they will take your regular photos from facebook or instagram or linkedin (had this happen to me) and pretend to have naked pics and write disgusting and depraved fiction about how you deserve to be destroyed and gangraped.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 07:21 PM |
| 171 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himHAHAHA yesss. a thousand times this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 02:02 AM |
| 371 | Love hearing about women leaving when they had enough! Saying no to couples counseling because she recognizes that there's nothing else she can possibly cOmMunIcaTe to himespecially with 3 kids! how many times has she begged or asked him to help out?! also the fact that now he's so concerned about his babies not having a nuclear family 🙄 makes me wonder how present he actually is if he's not helping out with a lot of tasks hmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 26 | Ya'll Need to Watch this Video. It's a bit Long but Sooo Worth It and She's an Amazing Storyteller. This Story Basically Illustrates "If He Wanted to He Would". And Don't ever Sit Around and Wait for a Text from a Man when Men Are Literally out There Buying Women they love Houses and Cars.i love her channel, honestly its hard to find someone who's willing to be so honest and vulnerable publicly. Agree that we can all learn a lot from her stories | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/21 11:32 PM |
| 31 | Misogyny in the Words we have for Womenhahah it's because we made front page. mine comments "only fans" on pics of girls lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 04:36 PM |
| 2 | Not a lot shocks me after following FDS for a while but this just sent me.thank you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/21 03:00 PM |
| 124 | How much do you expect your SO to spend on gifts for special occasions?When I was in high school, a boy who liked me folded me 1,000 cranes, and we weren’t even dating. If he wanted to, he would. My current bf for our first anniversary bought me the purse I’ve been wanting, took me out to a fancy dinner, and bought me flowers and cakes. We also do monthiversaries (yes we are extra) where he does something particularly thoughtful - whether it be recording me a song, poetry, small gifts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/21 08:24 PM |
| 31 | Not a lot shocks me after following FDS for a while but this just sent me.girl idk if you still remember the article but drop the link!! for me my dream for fds is to curate scientific articles/literature benefiting women (sex trafficking statistics, domestic division of labor, marriage inequality), would like to add to that if possible :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 03:23 PM |
| 21 | [deleted by user]YES. I’ll use this as opportunity to gloat ;) thick head full of soft hair, towering, beautiful perfect skin dotted with freckles, a strong body where he can lift me up or give me a shoulder ride without getting tired… it’s truly such a quality of life improvement to have this gorgeous man in my life! I love looking at him, and watching him do anything brings me such pleasure. Not to mention he’s just as beautiful on the inside as out - generous, heart of gold, curious, genuinely altruistic and … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/21 02:36 PM |
| 44 | Married men live longer because of female care, this is well established and stories like this are not uncommon. Why is it that we hardly ever hear about a woman whose life was saved because of her husband's care and attention?im currently in med school and one of the first things they taught us in clinical care is that if a man comes in because "his wife kept nagging him to do so," it is usually a sign of something serious. Also taught us to probe when you talk to them as they will not immediately reveal what they're here for. This is not even a unique experience, I just saw it on hot on the med school subreddit lol. honestly so exhausting when you can't even take accountability for your own health | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 02:49 AM |
| 21 | ladies whats some red flags that tell you a man is low key sexist?idolizes jordan peterson or elon musk (7 sons by IVF - chose males) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 11:32 PM |
| 50 | Gabby's Friend Speaks paints a different picture of Brian- the controlling behavior and abuse started early!Did you see how her father on national television stated he saw "no red flags.." what do people think of that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:57 PM |
| 135 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?only fans is the gentrification of prostitution | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Check-inhello! is there a reason i cant post a photo :( Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/21 01:45 PM |
| 3 | So close...Being in Greek life myself, I can attest to this. It’s a lot of bullying and pressure from older brothers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/08/21 12:01 AM |
| 51 | So close...Had my first reddit care report! Truly a badge of honor yall | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 06:09 PM |
| 161 | So close...what seriously shocks me is no one calling him out? what hes saying is objectively ridiculous and gets all these pats on the back... damn lol men really hate women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 04:30 PM |
| 228 | So close...it's literally toxic masculinity and giving clout to one another for "conquering more women" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 246 | So close...look at all the reddit trophies!! this honestly makes me so sad that women are scapegoated like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/21 03:50 PM |
| 55 | Stop being defensive about your standards, sisImo you should approach it in good faith - assuming you vetted well and you're going on a date with a perceived good guy he will want to take care of the bill. don't ask before and just spend the date on vetting him more | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/21 03:01 PM |
| 78 | “Sexual harassment should be normalized!” and other wtf scrote quotes from dates."i cant believe you got a job before i did. You're like 10x lazier than i am" -5 years ago by a still currently unemployed ex boyfriend | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/08/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Can you even spell my name?There was a post on a popular dating subreddit where they’ve been seeing each other for almost a year and the guy had to look up how to spell her (popular) name lol 🙄the comments and “advice” is full of people making excuses for the guy and gaslighting her saying it’s not important and you can make “red flags out of everything” god help us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:35 PM |
| 1 | For folks you ended up dating the hvm, how did you guys meet. I don’t want to get into OLD - had the worst experience last year.OLD can be a valuable resource! You just need to thoroughly vet just as you do in real life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 11:15 PM |
| 9 | For folks you ended up dating the hvm, how did you guys meet. I don’t want to get into OLD - had the worst experience last year.I know this goes against the grain but I'm going to add a voice for the ladies who are too hesitant to speak up - I met my current SO on OLD. This was pre-FDS and I attribute it to blind luck because my previous years of using OLD only led to men who sucked the lifeline out of me. Initial green flags included letting me know he was deleting dating apps and not talking to anyone else the first day we began chatting (facetime), and putting his energy towards courting me only. Edit: I wanted to add… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 7 | 84/100.... he thinks he’s so slick 😂 (he asked me “Netflix and chill or night out” along w other questions and I played along for the lolz)please say this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 07:10 PM |
| 40 | What are (seemingly) benign things that a LVM does that betray his character?Saying he has bad memory, hence giving him an excuse to rely on when he forgets days or holidays. If he passed high school and can remember the dates in his history class, he can remember your anniversary or birthday. Being way too chummy with friends you introduce them to - could be the beginnings of their attempts at triangulation lol playing dEviLs adVoCaTe under the guise of being "logical" and "rational" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:22 PM |
| 2 | Stop calling acceptable men “HV”?word. yesterday my mom was showing me how impressed she was by her ex-boss' flower arrangements (literally just two types of flowers in a vase) - also he's 70 years old and dating a 30 year old lolololol. THE BAR IS SO LOW | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 05:28 PM |
| 26 | Can we talk about how insane and psychotic scrotes are about porn? Scientists, psychiatrists, people that work with porn addicts or sex offenders are expressing a very consistent narrative about the toxicity of porn...how it can destroy women, AND men. But men don't seem to care at all.it's really sad how a thread like that pops up on ask reddit every few weeks, but guys who read it don't really care. despite the horror stories, the awful conditions, the trafficking, they just continue on. i wish they could view us as human | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 02:24 PM |
| 17 | good morning <3yesssss. and with that, surrogate mothers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 04:00 PM |
| 5 | LVM trying to keep you from raising your valueLMAOOOO their poor liddle egos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 03:17 PM |
| 60 | "Sex work" is human trafficking.seconding the OSHA - http://logosjournal.com/2014/watson/ I always like to bring up this link | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:28 PM |
| 27 | LVM trying to keep you from raising your valuelol, my low value ex used to always say he could help me with my organic chemistry homework. He was a marketing major with no experience in the sciences 💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Check-Inhi and yes LOL. it's throwaway hahaha. and thanks for writing this :) you're exactly right in that I should just witness his actions and let them speak for himself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:45 PM |
| 38 | Weekly FDS Check-InNot worth it girl. I dated a guy where he was wonderful in other ways, but his feminine high pitched voice proved to be a deal breaker for me. If you have such a visceral reaction to it now I personally don't think it could work for the long term. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Check-InHi everyone. Wanted to get your thoughts. My bf and I are in a LDR and he told me about this pickmeisha who was trying to come on to him (ie - saying all her male friends want to sleep with her, no concern for boundaries). Obviously I'm still vetting him and evaluating his story with a grain of salt. However, he told me immediately the night of, told me he made his boundaries clear to her, refused her add on social media, and no longer attends events in which she is there. I'm moving to his area… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 03:22 PM |
| 14 | 'It is what it is'. This is dismissive at best, gaslighting at worst.i agree op - i just realized this but my nvm dad used to say that phrase all the time but in his native dialect. but it literally just conveys pessimism and a lack of fight against your circumstance. self defeating and lazy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 05:42 AM |
| 47 | Paying respect to the original. This slogan was 🔥 before libfems stole it and ruined it.Would love to hear the origin story. Anyone have a link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 05:32 PM |
| 8 | How do you learn how to control/manage your emotions?on naming your emotions - one thing that really helped me and my anxiety is naming how you feel and lean into the emotion. When you're stressed - you can describe how your face is feeling hot and warm, your heart is beating faster, etc... It really helps you control your emotions :) best of luck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 01:31 AM |
| 17 | Weird Red Flags?I don't know if these are obscure, but: Frat guys in social frats who have benefited from the exploitation of women (directly or indirectly). Men who are only children. Men without a strong female role model in their life, whether it be a sister (who is not a pickme and embodies FDS values), mother, grandmother etc. 4.Claims to be logical when in reality they lack empathy and have low EQ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 11:03 PM |
| 39 | Strong women giving each other advice makes a differenceYes yes yes! I was a 19 year old fresh in college and was pursued by this 33 year old who was so accomplished in the career I wanted (and was accepted into school for this year :) ). Now all I do when I think back is that he was basically leaning into pedophile territory and I will never ever again think age gap relationships are ever appropriate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 08:36 PM |
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