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| 501 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeIt’s always gargoyle ass looking men who feel emboldened to comment on the looks of women lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 12:09 PM |
| 48 | If he can’t pick up a box of tampons for you, he aint it!Same girl. He also offered to get a vasectomy since I had bad BC reactions (kept expelling IUDs). Most men could never | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/21 10:30 PM |
| 73 | Other than Dinner dates what are some FDS approved first dates?I've been on tons of really cool first dates that didn't involve food, and they were all really personalized to the things that I enjoy. Not all of them even cost money (ie MoMa on a Friday night or ice skating in Bryant Park), but they were all high effort because it was evident the guy listened to my interests and wanted to get to know me as a person more. Stand up comedy Met Opera Ice skating MoMa Picnic along the river (where the dude prepared everything for the picnic) --> my current BF did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/21 03:54 AM |
| 491 | You are not an equal opportunity employer. Your intimate relationships are not centers of civil rights. Your body and mind are not subject to anti-discrimination standards.My mom once told me “you’re not running a charity organization” after I dated a loser with no prospects who also treated me like shit 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 04:14 PM |
| 1129 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.If it's such a design flaw, then why sleep with us? You can just like...not bother us lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:10 AM |
| 89 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.Somehow, I've been through "very dark times" in my life but managed to not string someone along for 2+ years...Hmmm wonder how I managed not to be an utter piece of shit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 03:53 AM |
| 372 | [Update] Good news about the post with the fiance telling his fiancee he wasn't attracted to her for two years. She left him.When men go through "very dark time(s)", they hurt others. When women go through dark times, we hurt ourselves. Hmmm | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 12:30 AM |
| 190 | Weaponized incompetence is a form of mental abuse.I was incredibly spoiled and privileged as a kid and basically did no chores growing up. But when I went to college, I was able to figure shit out. Like honestly cooking, cleaning, etc is NOT that hard at all. I hate how men always give other shit men a pass ("but they were never taught"). Like bitch no one taught me either but I figured it out on my own. That being said, ladies, I DO NOT do any chores for a man. If a man expects something to be done and he doesn't want to do it himself, he can … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 06:33 PM |
| 66 | If someone tells you that men are picky show them this!Also don't you dare ask for money from them! Like at this point they just want free prostitutes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 12:23 PM |
| 176 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:Can't wait until there's a women-led strike on an international level tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:42 AM |
| 206 | So, how’s it going these days now that you have to make women like you to get their interest? Men:Women are literally outperforming men in every measurable way (except at the top where there's still tons of misogyny and sexism prevalent). The average dude quite frankly is more of a burden than an asset | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/21 03:40 AM |
| 156 | Straight factsI get messages from men calling me all kinds of names cuz I posted a pic of a gift my bf gave me on FDS to remind ladies that they should expect more. Like it’s truly pathetic lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 12:38 PM |
| 480 | Daily reminder: IF HE WANTED, HE WOULDI'm on a bunch of jewelry-related subreddits, and I've seen tons of men put in so much effort for their girlfriends/fiances/wives. Never settle for less ladies! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:38 AM |
| 5 | If he wanted to he wouldYou should just go in store and try rings on! I've found that my ring size is pretty consistent throughout different brands. You can also get a ring sizer from amazon or something! Omg I'm like super into the 80s big earrings look rn! Super fun and definitely addicting. Jewelry is like my only vice lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 11:42 PM |
| 24 | If he wanted to he wouldHe got me a Save the Wild Lion pendant! My alma mater was a lion and his was a tiger and we always bantered about which cat was better lol. Also The Save the Wildlife collection gives back to wildlife conservation and he believes in ethical consumption to the best of his abilities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 08:28 PM |
| 12 | If he wanted to he wouldMy parents have always gifted me jewelry or various types and they all hold sentimental value! Rn I’m on a ring and earring kick haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 08:23 PM |
| 266 | If he wanted to he wouldI’ve always loved jewelry, and have dated men who told me that they thought my “hobby” was stupid and would never buy me jewelry. My current bf buys me jewelry for every special occasion, AND HE IS A MED STUDENT. IF HE WANTED TO, HE WOULD LADIES | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 12:48 PM |
| 168 | I went and read comments about the Korean Marriage situation and thought this one was greatYeah there's income inequality that can attribute to low birth and marriage rates, but quite frankly, marriage is a scam to women. Women take up so much more responsibility when they are married whereas men literally gain a full time assistant. Why the fuck would any woman get married when the risk is so high? I hope there's a women led world-wide boycott | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:37 AM |
| 73 | It's really sad because pickmes are saying that he's such a catch in the comments and congratulating her. 🤦♀️Sooo like...get her a real ring? lmao? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 01:36 AM |
| 161 | Women going to college is creating violence in men! There isn’t quality in Uni so men aren’t going! We have a mating crisis!!Honestly, any time women become the majority in any field, that field immediately becomes lower paying. I'm a little worried that women will be more educated but still be precluded from social mobility because all of a sudden, other means of excelling outside of college will be more lucrative. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 12:19 AM |
| 144 | Golddigging husband wants hardworking wife to buy him a new PC (so he can undoubtedly waste time playing video games). All the comments were praising him but god forbid if a woman does the same. Men just love to project.I have a friend in HS whose dad was a stay at home dad who did most chores and pulled his weight around his house. He raised great daughters while the mom pursued her career. It worked for them because he actually contributed. Hobosexuals want all the benefits of being a stay at home dad without doing any of the fucking work | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:39 PM |
| 65 | Woman wants to stay after finding out her boyfriend of four years is still married - to his best friend - because they never filed the paperwork🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 07:11 PM |
| 221 | Do not underestimate male entitlement and their capacity for retroactive jealousy.Honestly they can stay offended. Their existence offends me too like goddamn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/21 04:20 PM |
| 169 | Yes. Planning an interesting date or activity together can be a turn on. You don't have to be a genius to figure that out 😒. But the two replies on the bottom are just gold 😆.The bar is in hell | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 08:36 PM |
| 265 | Make sure he’s complete because if you build a man, they will leave.They'll call anyone a king now lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/09/21 12:37 AM |
| 853 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?They know, they don’t care | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 601 | I feel like women might be waking up to what this sub preachesThis is because men expect women to go 50/50 financially without stepping up to the plate and making everything else equal between the genders. 50/50 DOES NOT WORK BECAUSE FUNDAMENTAL SYSTEMIC INEQUITIES HAVE NOT BEEN ADDRESSED. And this is why libfem is ultimately such a failure. Women don't have any real power under libfem, just perceived power | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 03:19 PM |
| 111 | Boomer pickmeisha blames women and feminism for men being "pushed out" of academiaMen are being pushed out of academia because the playing field is slightly more equal now. I fucking can't with the world coddling mediocre men when they literally still control the majority of the most powerful positions in the world | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/21 02:26 AM |
| 225 | Oh woe is men!"Social science researchers cite distractions and obstacles to education that weigh more on boys and young men, including videogames, pornography, increased fatherlessness and cases of overdiagnosis of boyhood restlessness and related medications." So...not systemic oppression then? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 12:04 PM |
| 93 | Signs that he is a gold digger: an ever-evolving master list to which contributions are valuedMen like this lack responsibility. They can only care about themselves and their needs, and will most likely be unreliable in tough situations. Their entire existence is disrespectful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/21 11:28 AM |
| 321 | If he needs space from the relationship, it's a no.You ever notice how it's usually men who pine over the "one who got away"? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:10 AM |
| 205 | SeXual SeLecTiOn is A hAte CriMe aGainSt mEnI got a DM the other day that was like "Just admit your biased and dislike the opposite gender because you had bad experiences" (and yeah he spelled "your" wrong because how can you expect anything else from LVM) because I warn against age gap relationships. Like. When I got screwed by an older dude when I was 20, it was my fault for dating a man that old. But when I warn against age gap relationships, I'm biased. Like yes I'm biased? Because of lived experience? Idgi idk what these shit men wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/21 02:02 AM |
| 43 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️Honestly not surprised. It's always the broke men who complain about gold diggers lmao...I hope she leaves him so he doesn't get her cushy paycheck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:40 PM |
| 372 | Another scrote exploiting a teenager.What 30yo person with an actual job and hobbies has time to dedicate this much time to sex? He probs doesn’t have a job, which is why he’s preying on fucking 18yos | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 01:19 PM |
| 487 | He actually said she should be happy with a lump of coal in the comments 🤦🏼♀️Imagine thinking $2600 is gonna make a dent in his retirement plans lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/08/21 02:17 AM |
| 152 | She’s only asking this because she know deep down her fiancé sucks and she’s settling. Why not wait until you’re no longer students?My mom didn’t get a ring because she didn’t like wearing rings, so instead she got a beautiful necklace. But to not show up with anything at all? I would assume the proposal was a joke… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 10 | Leveled up, but feeling alone: everyone I meet seems to be a LVM or LVWYeah I definitely had people in my life that would make snide comments about my perceived successes, whether academically, financially, physically, etc. It's sad when people aren't happy for your success. I don't surround myself with that energy - people can do crazy things because of jealousy - I've had an ex-friend start terrible rumors about me after she found out I did well for myself. I've found that I am able to find HVW in my new circles, ie from work and hobbies that I join, but also I'v… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 05:33 PM |
| 54 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?It was weird to me cuz she has a boyfriend who seems like a sweet dude, so it made the comment even more weird and unnecessary | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 09:11 PM |
| 38 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?I'm really not sure what she was insinuating. Like I also went to an elite school and even match/surpass my boyfriend in education. Also, her boyfriend was incredibly sweet and seems like a stand up citizen, so idk why she would make that comment. Maybe cuz I was nerdy in HS and she was more popular? idk lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 08:52 PM |
| 61 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?Yep it was a red flag for the friend, my bf is great! I haven't seen this friend for at least 3-4 years, but was taken aback by her comment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:39 PM |
| 134 | What's a 🚩red flag you encountered this week?I was meeting up with a bunch of old HS friends and their significant others. I brought my boyfriend, who happened to go to the same elite university as one of my HS friends. And afterwards, she says to me "shinyjewels, how did you manage to get HIM?" Made me feel kinda weird ngl... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How my HV Dad cuts watermelon: he cuts out the sweetest part and saves it for Mom.Haha omg glad that this kind of practice is so widespread :P | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 66 | How my HV Dad cuts watermelon: he cuts out the sweetest part and saves it for Mom.Girl are you asian cuz my dad does this too lololol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 11:55 PM |
| 283 | Women are crazy because they’re people?Ok but women statistically aren't committing violent crimes. What is he defining as bad behavior? Standards? Confidence? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 10:23 PM |
| 306 | Ugh, expect?Honestly. I don't get the point this dude is trying to make. If women masturbate with phallic objects, doesn't that just mean penises are more easily objectified and thus men are sex objects? I am confusion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 09:36 PM |
| 52 | How many red flags do you see? I wAnT tO eNjOy mY eArLy reTiReMenT (but my wife can still work f that)Honestly, I don't know where this dude even lives because $2mil in assets/investments a drop in the bucket considering he still has around 600k of college tuition money to pay for. Unless he's banking on his kids taking out loans for college, which will literally set them up for failure considering student loan interest rates. Even if they receive scholarships, there are still living expenses. Is he paying for his kids' extracurriculars? I assume they don't do any kind of enriching activities si… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 01:46 PM |
| 195 | My boyfriend was making iced coffee and asked me if I wanted some. I said “No, thank you”, then he sat on the couch with his glass, I was like “Damn that looks good shoulda said yes” so he got up, went back to the kitchen and brought me the second iced coffee he had made for me.Wow they really do just refresh this page huh. Like do they have jobs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 11:37 PM |
| 71 | Vetting Strategy: What is He Saying About Simone Biles?Same men who have shit to say can’t even be the Simone Biles of their shitty companies or graduate with a 4.0. Lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/21 02:06 PM |
| 106 | Angry scrote literally admits that only 25% of men are dateable and women aren’t settling. Proceeds to get roasted by one of our queens 😂They scream "Not all men" but then admit that only 25% of men are decent enough to date? lmao the cognitive dissonance of men tho | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 10:35 PM |
| 6 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should Too21 makes more sense to me personally because at least most people will be almost done with college or at least have a few years of real work experience under them rather than be freshly done with high school. But I realize that there would be other unintended consequences of pushing the age of adulthood back. I think increasing the age of adulthood into 21 can prevent creeps from dating young girls and preying on teens, but would not protect young girls from abuse within their families. I mean, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 07:57 PM |
| 43 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should TooYeah...the amount of growth that occurred between the ages of 18-24 was enormous for me. I'm 26 now and am so much more grounded and secure. Honestly, 18yos are still babies, and I'm curious as to why we set that arbitrary age limit when all research shows that adolescence extends into your early 20s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/21 12:43 AM |
| 109 | Why I Stayed Single in College and Why You Should TooUnpopular opinion (but backed by research), but I personally feel like the legal age of adulthood should be pushed back to 21 unless there are extraordinary circumstances (ie abuse, legal emancipation). There is no reason why kids should be getting into romantic relationships so young. All the shitty men I dated were when I was young and didn't know myself that well. Spoiler: none of them added to my life in any way and were honestly a complete waste of time. It wasn't until I was 24 that I felt… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 10:18 PM |
| 18 | Another date, another lessonThere was research conducted on the profile of the average redditor. Average reddit user is 25-34yo, male, and low income. I feel like there's a certain personality profile for someone to become a regular redditor, and then on top of that, the algorithm radicalizes men into the manosphere if they already have misogynistic tendencies. I would not go near a dude who uses reddit on the regular. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 06:06 PM |
| 394 | Being in a good relationship has made me realize how women are being gaslit on a mass scale to ask for lessYep, I still sometimes have to stop myself from apologizing for asking for basic respect. And those habits didn't just come from dating a shitty ex boyfriend - society socializes women to feel guilty for asking for anything at all, and it starts young. I remember being 5-6yo and being forced by teachers to apologize for not wanting to sit next to the boy who bullied me. Girls are constantly being taught by society that their discomfort is normal, and that they need to apologize if they demand mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/07/21 04:11 AM |
| 67 | Blocking is therapeutic.NVM know that you feel bad and take advantage of your empathy and kindness to weasel their way into your life. A NV ex of mine called me "childish" for unfriending him on facebook and asked me to "consider how he was lonely". The dude treated me like absolute garbage the entire time we were together, but I had to consider his lonely feelings? I legit laughed in his face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 104 | A very serious warning: keep your eyes wide open with men that seem to work too much.My best friend’s dad had a secret family in a different country for 10 years. He was supposed to be on business trips to Asia (he’s a high ranking pharma exec). He married another woman who was his oldest daughter’s age and had a kid with her years before he legally separated from my best friend's mom. The kid was 6 years old by the time he divorced my best friend’s mom. My best friend’s mom gave up her career as an anesthesiologist to take care of the kids and household, and now she isn’t even … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/21 01:03 PM |
| 9 | The discomfort is worth itOh yeah I usually just smile and talk to other people or walk away. Nobody got time for that kind of negativity lol. I totally agree - confident and secure people don't feel uncomfortable around other confident people, and you should really only surround yourself with people who are happy that you are happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 07:25 PM |
| 34 | The discomfort is worth itOmg yes. I know I'm great and have a lot to offer, but when I say that out loud, I get people side eyeing me and making sarcastic comments (ie "someone thinks highly of themselves"). Yes. I do. Because I'm great. And it took WORK to get this great. No one can take that away from me, and I'm proud of that. "Women should be confident and love themselves" is just lip service if actual confident women are intimidating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/21 06:54 PM |
| 75 | Living rent free in his head: A guy I criticized YEARS ago turned his life around because of a comment I made.Ngl this post seems unnecessarily mean. Like I don't think it's abnormal for someone to want to seek validation from the person who hurt their feelings (not that it's a good use of time)... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 08:19 PM |
| 9 | 99.9% of OLD profiles are like this.Omg hi fellow CT queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/21 04:15 PM |
| 390 | Man is upset that wife bought him jewelry. Come to find out, he’s never bought her jewelry besides her ring. 🧐How trashy (and dumb) is he to air this out on fucking facebook. Now everyone knows he's a small dicked insecure little bitch lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 190 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over thereRacism, colorism, and colonialism are incredibly insidious...Whiteness is desirable especially our parents' generation since there's social capital in marrying someone white. Things are changing though now that Asian women are more aware of their own fetishization | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:53 PM |
| 447 | When your white LVM ass thought that you found your Asian slave bangmaid in China, but they actually have standards over thereI'm Chinese-American and Chinese women take no shit. Idk why men in the West think Asian women are meek. Chinese women don't pay for shit, expect a house and a car from the husband's family upon marriage, will thoroughly vet not only the prospective husband but also his entire extended family, and will usually take over all finances in the family upon marriage. Women are still burdened with the majority of housework and home making, and most women still work full time, but at least they aren't g… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 03:46 PM |
| 43 | To the men who think all of us are shameless gold digger... we're the only group of women I've found so far who would never allow ourselves to be "punched in the face for 1 billion dollars" ... (what a ridiculous trending question). If a man took the punch, we'd have left yesterday.🌅Seriously. Like I'm pretty well off, you think I want your nonexistent gold? It's always the men who don't have any money who place tons of value on money. Which is how I can tell that most men on reddit are broke lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 05:34 PM |
| 154 | The comments all say "men are dumb, he's being practical" but completely disregard what this means for how he values his hobbies over his girlfriend. SmhHe clearly doesn't give a flying fuck about her. I buy myself rings that are more expensive than 3k lol what a fucking joke | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 10:27 PM |
| 36 | A reminder from history not too long ago: many of your elders didn’t have an easier time in marriage as men like to claim. It was only because of the RvR case in 1991, that the English court system legally recognised that raping your wife was a crime.B-b-but FemALe PriVileGe!!! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 02:19 AM |
| 260 | There’s absolutely nothing wrong with being high maintenance.Girl live your best life. The definition of "high maintenance" is whatever a LVM wants to define it at a particular time. I had a guy tell me I was high maintenance because I liked to go home to see my parents once a month and my parents cook for me when I'm home. Bro what. He was basically admitting that he would never cook for me lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/21 07:34 PM |
| 47 | When I Should Have LeftOhh I wanna play! I should have left when he had sex with me despite my “no’s” I should have left when he told me that I was too good for him. I was. I should have left when he told another girl that I was just a friend while going to the movie theater and Coney Island with her alone I should have left when he walked out on me because I asked him to buy Plan B since my IUD was in the process of expelling I should have left when he would drink vodka straight from the bottle and try to get me to d… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 23 | Bullied for being a FDS-er. How do you react to this ?Yeah idk why OP needs to police herself. She literally didn’t do anything wrong. Is she not supposed to wear her jewelry to placate other people? Like that’s absurd. Also the comment above is dripping with victim blaming and cattiness | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 12:06 PM |
| 122 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡You literally can't win with men...which is why I don't do shit to advocate for them lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 10:00 AM |
| 183 | Jealous scrote tells his girlfriend that he hopes she gets raped - she asks ‘Should I end this relationship?’It's always the shitty men who pull the exact same bullshit who complain that relationship advice subs always tell the woman to dump him lol. The sheer volume of rape apologists in that threat is enough to remind me that reddit men are trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:45 AM |
| 269 | Even women who want to uplift men and boys gets called a sl*t. Don't be a pickme y'all. 🤡Imagine trying to uplift a group that systematically oppresses, beats, and rapes you. Only to get slut shamed for it. 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/06/21 09:42 AM |
| 152 | Love this. Louder for the scrotes in the back.Old ass men with nothing to offer except their money complaining about gold diggers will never make me not laugh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 07:34 PM |
| 19 | This is for all the ladies going through a breakup with a LVM/NVMI don't even know how he pulled that off, but he did go to a Caribbean med school and he was on away rotations, so I think it was easy for them to lose track of their students. I begged him to go to his rotations but he would sit at home and play Hearthstone all day instead. I would come back from my full time job and evening classes and he would still be sitting in the same spot in bed playing Hearthstone. He never cooked or cleaned either, and would get pissy if I asked him to wash dishes. I'm… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 06:58 PM |
| 43 | This is for all the ladies going through a breakup with a LVM/NVMI actually took philosophy classes and was objectively more well read (and hotter) than my ex, but he would discredit all of that because I didn't listen to Jordan Peterson lmao. Dude never read a page of Kant or Voltaire but thought he was God's gift to the earth in terms of how "logical" he was. No idea why so many pseudointellectual scrotes flock towards Jordan Peterson... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:57 PM |
| 106 | This is for all the ladies going through a breakup with a LVM/NVMAfter my NV ex refused to go to couples therapy with me and walked out on our relationship, my life got INFINITELY better almost immediately. I didn't realize how done I was with him - the constant gaslighting after he would do something objectively abhorrent to me, the laziness, the complete lack of empathy, the sexual coercion, the pseudointellectualism (he's philosophical because he listened to Jordan Peterson! /s). He even RECORDED our last argument without my consent and sent it to me after… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/21 02:34 PM |
| 7 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeMy dad told her to not date someone so much older lmaooo...but I don't think she took it as good-hearted advice. I don't think she is close with her family... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:44 PM |
| 9 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeHe wasn't on the lease because he wouldn't have been qualified to live there because of his shit credit score, so she is financially responsible for everything regarding the property. Unfortunately, because it's a single family home, we don't have any stipulations for new occupants. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 09:43 PM |
| 25 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceTo be frank, I feel like any dude who asks for the ring back in the first place would cause me to raise eyebrows... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 05:01 PM |
| 48 | Remember that a bad relationship can literally change the trajectory of your lifeNope he's not even on the lease...she could kick him out anytime, but she doesn't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:58 PM |
| 2 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceI guess it would honestly depend on the guy and whether or not the relationship ended on good terms. If he was a genuinely good dude and things didn't work out, I would consider giving back the ring if asked...but definitely a case by case basis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:57 PM |
| 47 | I regret giving back my diamond engagement ring after the divorceI sold all the old jewelry my ex gave me and those funds helped pay for a question bank for med school. Fuuuuuuuck giving back GIFTS to shitty men man. They don't deserve to get any money back from their gifts, especially after wasting my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:53 PM |
| 232 | Beijing is doing everything to pressure it’s female citizens to have more children, except actually making it materially easier to be a mom. There’s already a gender imbalance and a soon to be crisis in elder care. Chinese Women are telling them to get bent. 😆I was just talking to my mom about this today (we are Chinese-American). China's housing economy is about to pop. There will quite literally soon be more houses on the market than people who are able to fill those houses after the older population dies out. My family members in China are by no means rich, but everyone has multiple properties, and soon, young couples will be inheriting 3-4 properties from their parents. A fifth of China's economy relies on the housing market too. The government i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 02:57 AM |
| 47 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)Quite frankly, med school sucks ass. I can see why people lose their empathy for patients by the end of their training. But you should definitely do it if that's what you want to do! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:28 AM |
| 2 | YepLol a dude from my Model UN group in high school legit thought I was flirting with him because I was debating him. During Model UN. Like did you have a concussion? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 01:00 AM |
| 42 | 🚩 RED FLAGS 🚩 Career edition 🤭😳 (psychopath edition 🥲🧛♂️)I hear urologists have the best senses of humor because dick jokes. I honestly want to go into urology for that reason - it's surgery without the typical misery or ego. The dudes in my med class who want to go into ortho are honestly insufferable ortho bros. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 12:55 AM |
| 93 | Indian "influencer" has a conversation with a follower about contraception. Men have no idea what female contraception entails. He then goes and asks for testimonials from women in his life after getting dragged on social mediaAlso, vasectomies are not irreversible | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 08:33 PM |
| 8 | It's the edit for me ~~~Honestly! If a woman said "if he really loved me, he would do xyz", she's manipulative. But apparently women are just expected to love men no matter the bullshit they bring to the table. No one called him out on "if she really loves me and respects me, she would appreciate whatever ring I gave her", but people called her out on "she tells me if I really love her, I would have no problem buying her what she wanted". Double standards. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 143 | It's the edit for me ~~~All the comments are raging about how SHE'S the gold digger and being unreasonable. If it's such a deal breaker, then fucking break up with her. But he won't cuz she makes more than him. I have sooo little respect for this guy. Like, my contempt is palpable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:48 AM |
| 210 | It's the edit for me ~~~Y'all my Cartier Love Bracelet is worth more than 6k...Sounds like he is with her for her earning potential and also doesn't want to spend any of his own money on her. But wants to stay with her because her money will be "their" money. Lmao clown energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:32 AM |
| 73 | Women Don’t Know. Old Scrote = Birth Defects, Developmental IssueWhile men continually produce sperm throughout their lives (whereas women produce all the eggs she will ever ovulate in utero), the likelihood for de novo mutations increases as males age. Women are more likely to have meiotic defects with increased maternal age, usually resulting in a failed/miscarried pregnancy. There's a really good Nature paper for those interested: https://www.nature.com/articles/nature11396 But this just shows how our society's narratives and constructs don't necessarily r… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/06/21 10:40 PM |
| 380 | The delusion, the audacity 🤡😂Omg I'm dead. He's created a fantasy future for himself to cope with rejection. Like just go to therapy my guy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 04:41 PM |
| 204 | Stats on how FDS is spreading compared to male tactics. They’ve been strategizing for 15 years, it’s our turn. 💪There are so many subgroups within the manosphere that are centered around denigrating women, but apparently the 1 radfem subreddit that uplifts women and calls out double standards is the problem | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 02:50 PM |
| 248 | Things don’t change even if he marries you. He would get you pregnant and still force you to abortHe gave her an ultimatum for her to get an abortion and made her go through the process alone, forgot that they had an abortion, and now claims abortion laws don’t affect him? He has no empathy and is a bad man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 05:01 PM |
| 109 | Men hate successful women because they diminish male sexual market valueI had the misfortune of seeing some shitty comments from shitty men on Reddit about educated women: "I have 2 masters degrees. My profile explicitly states that I do not date educated women. I won't even pump and dump them. They are dangerous for all the reasons you already know." "Heavily educated women are usually entitled, arrogant, and demanding. And they’ll look down on people who have interests they deem “below them”" "Nearly all of them are snobby femin*zi c*nts." "The "educated" women I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 04:48 PM |
| 145 | At least the cat won't care about the hair between your legs 🤷🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️what if pubes look better than his beard | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 08:39 PM |
| 142 | Any man who dismisses your physical discomfort is trash.My IUD was expelling once and my ex thought I was being "dramatic" (he was also a fucking med student). I was in so much pain and bleeding profusely. I had to go to urgent care and get it removed, and he didn't come with me because I asked him to get Plan B, and he threw a fit about how it was expensive and how I could go myself but was "forcing him to do something embarrassing", and he stormed off and took a train back to his place. My current boyfriend gets me warm compresses for my periods an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 03:05 AM |
| 92 | This !!!!!!!Wow that is insane I didn't know that. But yeah, let's blame the women for not partaking in a hostile male-dominated environment that actively discourages women participation to fight wars started by men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 08:42 PM |
| 16 | Is Internet Misogyny Seeping Over IRL?I don't disagree with you (with the exception of the fact that the poorest people are white in the US - I thought data consistently shows that Native Americans and Black Americans have the highest poverty rates in the US). To me, white privilege exists as an entity separate from socioeconomic class. My boyfriend is an Ivy League educated black man and routinely gets stopped by police to the point where he will wear his college sweater around to participate in the "respectability politics" he so … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:36 PM |
| 126 | Is Internet Misogyny Seeping Over IRL?I was having a conversation with my boyfriend about this just last night (he is a POC) because as minorities, we have both felt the vitriol of the "white man" in recent years. I think a lot of white men, especially white men who are not born into wealth, do not actually understand that they are privileged by virtue of being white men because they don't "feel" privileged because they are not rich/happy. They don't understand that they are privileged in so many other ways (ie not having cops autom… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 02:23 AM |
| 140 | Trading her self-respect for a Lego setHow much you want to bet that the lego set was worth more than her ring | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 05:43 PM |
| 301 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.I saw this post and was so shocked that I sent it to my friend. The dude is a HUGE misogynist who respects no one but his dick. He's deranged and depraved, and there are still people in the comments defending him. I can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 05:41 PM |
| 82 | On False Equivalence: How "equality" is being used against usThe problem with third wave feminism is that it did not solve the fundamental problem of women's work being devalued. That's why men demand 50/50 thinking it's equal - because they literally have zero respect for the emotional/mental labor it takes to run a home. Women are outperforming men in school and obtaining more graduate degrees than men are, but we still have to face discrimination in the work place when it comes to getting considered for raises. We are more likely to leave the workforce… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 03:31 AM |
| 66 | Remember ladies - if he doesn’t respond to your text within a reasonable amount of time he’s not excited about you.Yep...I am never able to text people when I'm doing rotations in the hospital and have to suck up to residents/attendings for good evals. And I would never expect someone with a demanding career to respond right away or even within a few hours. I think the content of the texts are more important than the frequency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 05:27 PM |
| 95 | Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls.This is what I don't understand. Affirmative action is supposed to help those who have been systemically oppressed gain opportunities they otherwise would not have. It's supposed to be an equalizing force - for example, a kid growing up in the inner city rough neighborhood is not going to have the same support system or opportunities to excel academically when compared to someone growing up in an affluent suburb. In the US, midwestern white women benefit the most from affirmative action policies… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/21 04:34 PM |
| 495 | Eye Opening.Boys are allowed to be seen as individuals, but girls have to consider how their individual actions affect the rest of womanhood. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 02:47 PM |
| 16 | Too many Pickmeisha’s are levelling up on their looks and not their mentality. It changes nothing except giving more men the illusion of choice.I don't disagree that many of the things that women do on social media is molded by the male gaze. A lot of our decisions are informed by greater social norms and standards, and unfortunately, by virtue of living in a patriarchy, those social norms cater to men. But then this becomes a "free will vs determinism" problem - can a woman’s decisions ever be divorced from the framework in which she exists? The problem I have with your response is quite honestly the language you use to describe women.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 08:27 PM |
| 92 | Podcast feedback from men: "hate fan mail"luls at "My girlfriend broke up with me because of you, so you owe me" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:55 PM |
| 307 | In a world full of disappointing pickmeishas, I’m thankful for creators like her. Been watching her journey since law school and I love how open she is about having high standards on tiktok, a platform where that isn’t usually welcomed.Y'all...there are dudes making like 150k in NYC who have told me that they "hate gold diggers". Bro like 150k in NYC can't even get you your own place like sit down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/05/21 04:32 PM |
| 56 | "My Ex accused me of rape"Yep...according to the NSVRC and CDC, 3-8% of rape accusations contains "falsehoods", and most of the time, when a victim lies about the details of their assault, it's to protect the accused because the accused is someone the victim usually knows personally. These are facts with meta-analyses backing them up, but according to Reddit neckbeards, one anecdote is supposed to undermine all the statistics in the world. It's much more likely that Reddit neckbeards just didn't perceive that their behav… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 09:12 PM |
| 156 | "My Ex accused me of rape"I always laugh when shitty neckbeards on Reddit openly admit that they have been "falsely accused" or they have a friend who was "falsely accused". Like you're telling on yourself. False accusations make up like 3% of all accusations of assault... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 06:40 PM |
| 73 | The Faux PatriarchMy grandpa was a mayor back in the 70s-80s and was the primary breadwinner, and he STILL was an active parent who helped cook, clean, and tutor the kids because my grandma was an electrical engineer and career driven. Nowadays, some men want to be a patriarch and have a traditional wife without being able to carry their side of the bargain. It really is peak male entitlement to expect your wife to contribute 50/50 to bills when they don't contribute 50/50 to housework, childcare, or emotional la… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 08:52 PM |
| 304 | Including men in feminism is how liberal feminism happenedThe problem I have with libfem is that it does not address the history of the oppression of women, nor does it actually address the systemic structures that hurt women. Libfem doesn't try to create a new system outside of the patriarchy that could genuinely help women - instead, it teaches women to try to assert themselves in a framework in which women will and can never win in. Libfem just provides a bandaid for a severed leg - it's not trying to build a prosthetic leg for us. I would not mind … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 9 | Had a funeral for a close relative a few years ago and it helped me get some closure. They don’t like expensive weddings and now they don’t think people should have funerals either if they want one? Fuck outta hear with your cheap assI agree - people who don't respect larger rituals tend to also not respect daily rituals. What kind of life is one in which there's no joy or celebration? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:16 AM |
| 124 | Had a funeral for a close relative a few years ago and it helped me get some closure. They don’t like expensive weddings and now they don’t think people should have funerals either if they want one? Fuck outta hear with your cheap assLadies - don’t date men who don’t respect rituals. Rituals exist for a reason and are part of culture. Obviously not all rituals are good you should not follow traditions blindly, but men who won’t participate in rituals and traditions for financial reasons (and not for moral reasons) are usually low effort. I’m talking about the men who won’t celebrate holidays because they are “made up” or men who don’t see the value in weddings because “the wedding industry is a scam.” These men are just look… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 05:09 PM |
| 20 | RANT: Has anyone else noticed white western men becoming more petty /desperate/catty? It’s seriously such a turn off. They seem to froth at the mouth with rage over confident women.Racism and misogyny are so insidious. I actually never really "felt" racism strongly until I started dating (I'm an Asian woman) and was fetishized by nearly all races of men (but especially white men). I also know many Asian women who will only date white men because by doing so, they establish "social capital". I feel like I get judged by the Asian community for dating a black man (even though he is a HV wonderful person). It's so strange how internalized racism can inadvertently dictate who a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 09:07 PM |
| 9 | If someone doesn't appreciate the humanities and thinks STEM is the only way to show academic prowess, next them.Yeah...STEM literally only exists because of philosophy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/21 01:21 PM |
| 0 | Share your standards!Don't get me wrong, I don't think people who go to non-top-25 institutions are not smart or less than - I've met brilliant people who have gone to various institutions. And I recognize that a lot of the rankings and whatnot don't have any intrinsic value (literally the quality of education is pretty much the same). It's just the people you meet that change your life. My classmates have completely changed my perspective on what is possible to accomplish if given the right resources. A lot of my f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/21 02:39 AM |
| 38 | Share your standards!I will not date someone who did not go to a top 15-20 institution in the US for undergrad education. I went to a very prestigious university and the experience changed my perspective on life - the people I was surrounded by were driven and curious and had a significant sense of social responsibility. Some of my classmates worked on the ebola crisis or founded start up companies in college. I find it hard to relate to some of my high school friends who stayed in the same state for college and did… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:09 PM |
| 49 | I was just followed home by some tweaking scrote and I'm shaking pissedOMG this triggered a memory of mine. One time, a dude in a car asked me for directions. It was broad daylight (like 9am, I was walking to work) so I cautiously gave him directions while maintaining a good distance away from his car before I noticed that he had his dick out and was stroking himself. I freaked out and ran away as fast as I could to the nearest building, and he FOLLOWED ME in his car. I ended up squatting at a bakery for a while before walking back to work (of course, very late). I… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 04:09 AM |
| 29 | This is why FDS says we shouldn’t act like wives until we’re married. Scrote asks for pre-nup after his live-in bangmaid mommy bankrolls his life and “builds” with him for nearly a decade.omg how do you know? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 07:12 PM |
| 179 | The bar is on the groundYeah I read a comment that said "people need to be reminded!" Like nah sis...not getting raped by your partner is literally the barest of the bare minimums. The fact that men who respect consent are so rare is a complete refutation of NoTaLLmeN... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/21 03:01 PM |
| 148 | mEn ArE mOmS tOo...They throw tantrums when they aren't the center of attention for one day. It's absolutely pathetic...Also, the work that moms do for child rearing on average vastly outweighs the work that dads do. This is a fact backed by numerous papers. NOT TO MENTION, THEY HAVE THEIR OWN FATHER'S DAY. I can't. "When considering time spent in child care plus time spent in housework and working for pay, the birth of a baby increased mothers' total workload by 21 hours per week. In contrast, fathers' total work… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/21 06:16 PM |
| 62 | They never say *why* they hate FDS...I've seen people call this sub homophobic....bish where??? Not to mention, there will always be people in every sub that are truly problematic. I've literally seen people have a sympathetic mindset wrt the incel community ("Not all of them are violent, only some bad few"), but judge FDS based on some "problematic" (and already deleted) posts. Where's the same benefit of the doubt to FDS? People don't give grace to women's subs the same way they give grace to men's subs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 03:27 PM |
| 223 | Be as “ELITIST” as You Want in Choosing a HusbandMen are also elitist in choosing women, but they get upset when we are elitist in choosing men. They are just upset when women have standards. I know plenty of men who would not date certain women because they didn't receive education at a top 25 institution. Not to mention the physical standards they have. If we as women have achieved so much despite having barriers to our success, it makes perfect sense that we'd want someone to be at least our equal given given that they didn't have to face s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:09 PM |
| 59 | There are a gazillion anti FDS subs. It’s amazing. 🤩💐😘My boyfriend is a fan of an all women’s space on a highly misogynistic platform like Reddit. He also agrees with FDS principals. He likens the need for FDS to the need for a subreddit like blackpeopletwitter. Like. Most of Reddit is a cesspool, so it’s important that we create our own communities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:55 PM |
| 152 | There are a gazillion anti FDS subs. It’s amazing. 🤩💐😘There are tons of subreddits in the manosphere that I will never look at; there are men who are looking for certain things in women that I don’t have, so you know what I do? Move on with my life. The men who are so angry that some women will never look at them as potential partners because they kinda have nothing to offer are just trying to lower our standards. Why do they care? If we’re all 40yo fat cat ladies, why are they so pressed? They can just move on. I’ve noticed that a ton of our posts… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 01:48 PM |
| 63 | Be very aware of how far men go to try to control women to compensate for their low valueI read a dude's comment likening feminism to slavery against men... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 10:34 PM |
| 215 | The kind of thing that I don't remember being mentioned in all those articles about population declineThis is literally why I hate third wave feminism. Women are still slaves to their traditional role as caregivers no matter how much they also participate in the work force. Wage inequality further pushes women to leave the work force over men because it makes "fiscal sense" for families. And yet third wave feminism has women paying 50/50 on first dates. Like. Let's focus on wage and wealth gaps and how women's work is devalued before we talk about splitting the bill? I can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 09:02 PM |
| 83 | Age-gap relationships make me cringe.I dated a 28yo man when I was 20 and a junior in college. I'm not even 28 now, and when I look back at that relationship, my thoughts are "um excuse me but were you a pedo". I was incredibly lucky that he was not abusive and actually treated me quite well (even though he wanted to be 'exclusive but not committed'...like what does that even mean?). But still, the person I was at 20 was SO immature. I'm 26 now and I would NEVER date anyone under the age of 24; I can't imagine having anything in co… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 08:37 PM |
| 66 | Not really active in this community but thought y‘all might appreciate my memeSouth Korea has universal free child care and cash incentives, and Japan has free preschool and also cash incentives. I think a huge problem in these countries is the work culture, and how women are still expected to do the majority of the household labor despite also being part of the highly stressful workforce in these Asian countries | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/21 01:17 AM |
| 340 | Not really active in this community but thought y‘all might appreciate my memeBirth rates world wide will continue to decline so long as men don't step their game up and actually parent. South Korea and Japan have implemented tons of social programs to incentivize having children and birth rates are still declining in those countries because the work women do in the household is so devalued. Not to mention how expensive just being alive is. College tuition increased like 5% from when I graduated back in 2016. Wages aren't keeping up with inflation. Literally why would any… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 07:23 PM |
| 17 | Why do people call women materialistic for wanting nice things?Also the idea that diamonds aren't rare...gem quality diamonds are rare no matter how much reddit neckbeards scream otherwise | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 03:32 PM |
| 41 | Why do people call women materialistic for wanting nice things?Yep. It’s like they are proud of how tacky their weddings and wedding rings are...and then people go on to justify their tackiness by giving examples of how couples who spend a lot on said weddings/rings are more likely to get divorced, not recognizing that people who have the means are more likely to have the means to divorce. Noooo critical thinking lmao. I saw a post the other day of a woman saying that you can get the same good quality ring for a few hundred dollars and showed it to my frien… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/21 01:29 PM |
| 53 | Mini rant: how you gonna be a misogynist but broke??My grandpa was a mayor AND STILL DID HOUSEWORK AND TOOK CARE OF THE KIDS back in the 50s through 70s because my grandma was an electrical engineer. My dad, while not perfect, works 12 hour shifts 6x a week as a physician and still comes home and does the majority of the cleaning at home while my mom works part time and does the majority of the secretory work and cooking. The audacity of broke misogynistic men doing nothing at home to make up for their suckage in the work force. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 04:43 PM |
| 59 | Bought myself a crown just bcuz I wanna celebrate the scrote-free air I get to breath for the first time after 11 years✨ ANY future scrote that makes me feel less than how I make myself feel rn is not worth it 👋WHERE did you get it??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 09:29 PM |
| 15 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowAlso, not to mention it's actually easier to lose cheap jewelry because you have to take it off every time you wash your hands, work out, etc. Nice jewelry can be worn 24/7 and the likelihood of you forgetting your ring at a random bathroom is close to 0 since you don't have to take the ring off... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:28 PM |
| 12 | Women are being shamed online for having standards nowAlso...that's why the vintage market exists. People will do anything to justify why they're getting treated like shit tho lmao. Couldn't be me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/21 01:26 PM |
| 81 | New report on violence and sexual violence against women, using better methodologies, show that 51% of women have been raped, 99.7% have been abused.Every single woman I know has had their boundaries violated BY MEN in one way or another. Every. Single. Woman. It brings me solace and horror to know that my experience was not atypical, but actually quite typical and common. It's hard because there is no justice in these types of crimes, but I've found that closure is something that we as survivors can seek out on our own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 03:02 PM |
| 269 | Men want traditional women until its time for them to be traditional men and be providers.Shitty men want a traditional woman who also works. Meanwhile they can barely hold down a full time job. Literal failures. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 73 | The ✨ Mandacity ✨ is off the charts in the one.It’s so fucking cringe and gross. If you have time to bash your wife on social media, then clearly you’re not busy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/04/21 02:20 PM |
| 92 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!Lmaooo then she can get off the ring subreddit and join the onion ring subreddit 🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:38 PM |
| 241 | Don’t let society or Reddit tell you that spending money on an engagement ring/wedding is foolish!Pickmes on Reddit be like: Am I being unreasonable that I don't like the watermelon ring pop that my boyfriend proposed with? I wanted a strawberry ring pop because I'm allergic to watermelon. My boyfriend knows that I'm allergic to watermelon and he still bought the watermelon ring pop. How do I tell him that I'm disappointed in my watermelon ring pop without hurting his feelings? 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 179 | The✨mandacity✨Men really will have read zero things and have attended zero classes and still think their voices are important and that they MUST contribute their opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 08:08 PM |
| 25 | Another woman's life needlessly ended too early by an older predatory "estranged partner." It seems that they have three kids ranging from age 9 to 2, so he was 26 and she was 18 when she first gave birth. How long had he been grooming and abusing her before then?What is even the point of police | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 05:08 AM |
| 228 | Our society lives on women's unpaid labourMen who don't do shit at home have no idea the emotional and mental labor it takes to keep a household running. The salaries of most men wouldn't even be enough to pay for the labor that their wives/girlfriends perform for free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/21 03:40 AM |
| 81 | I’m glad more women are realizing this, but the comments are just sadDid you guys know that there are subreddits dedicated for people waiting to get married? And I bet you 90% of the people on that subreddit are women. It's so sad that men will willingly and willfully waste years of a woman's life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/04/21 04:11 PM |
| 115 | The phrase "SWERF" is corporate propaganda. The porn industry is attempting to shield itself from scrutiny by hiding behind the very laborers that they exploit. Sex workers are a class of oppressed, marginalized, exploited workers, not human meat shields for protecting industrial interests.Girl I don't have much to contribute but just wanna say that you are so incredibly well spoken and are able to perfectly find the language to describe phenomena that bother me but I couldn't quite put into words. HOW DO YOU POSSESS THIS SKILL cuz I want it too lolol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:41 PM |
| 32 | I’m feeling so jaded after getting out of my last relationship and finding this sub. Can I hear about the HVM in your lives? I need to know they’re still out there.My boyfriend has shown a lot of HV qualities in the few years we've known each other. We worked together on the same floor (different labs) and knew each other in passing before he asked me out to a really nice speakeasy bar in town as a "non-date". Later, he planned an entire picnic date next to the river. When I travelled abroad for 2 months, we texted every day. When I came back to the states, he asked me to be his girlfriend (we had never been physical before then). We're both med students, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 05:24 PM |
| 612 | As it should be.When men stopped having financial power over women, they tried to control us with slut shaming and social pressure. It's the same permutation of oppression recycled in different forms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 02:54 AM |
| 46 | Weird Red Flags?Also, Jordan Peterson. Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 07:12 PM |
| 261 | Word 🌸✨I will start paying for dates when these men start addressing the pay gap, the glass ceiling, the wealth gap between men and women, lack of maternity leave, etc etc. Men are always picking and choosing the parts of feminism that directly benefit them and line their pockets. Don't see them this pressed about the systemic inequalities that exist against women tho. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 11:04 PM |
| 22 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)OP seriously don't cash it. It's not reparations. He's not a changed man. He didn't have a change of heart. He's not on his deathbed. IMO it is much more powerful for you to refuse that money and rely on yourself without his presence in your life ever again. I know people here are suggesting you to cash it and act like the money is reparations - it's not. No amount of money can buy back the control you will have relinquished if you accept it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 03:37 PM |
| 3 | My abusive ex sent me a cashiers check (via my mother) for 30,000 dollars. What do I do? (Besides cash it)I agree. I wouldn't cash it. $30k is really not worth even the possibility of the dude slithering back into your life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/04/21 02:30 PM |
| 42 | Yeah sure let's put the blame on a girl and victimize a man who in 99% of cases was the pursuer. Funny how people don't even get enraged that hard at raped victims who had their lives ruined. Omg.Seriously...leave it up to NVM on Reddit to blame the CHILDREN tho, rather than question the predatory behavior of men. That entire comment thread is a cluster fuck with people advocating for lowering the age of consent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 05:12 PM |
| 126 | Yeah sure let's put the blame on a girl and victimize a man who in 99% of cases was the pursuer. Funny how people don't even get enraged that hard at raped victims who had their lives ruined. Omg.....or you can just look with your eyes to see if someone is old enough. What kind of victim blaming bullshit is this. If you have to ask, then they're too young... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 189 | I should really stop lurking around. From a post about age gap relashionships and how they aren't weird. Yes they are.The thing is the only people who encourage large age gap relationships are men who date young women (and the young women themselves). So, the people who would directly benefit from a large age gap. Tons and tons of women have lived the experience and warn against it (including me) for a reason. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 10:19 PM |
| 15 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellAnd there's nothing wrong with that! The problem is the attitude that permeates through Reddit that if a woman DOES want a nicer ring, etc, then she's a gold digger or is not "hyper-chill". The judgment that people have towards women who have certain standards for rings/weddings is insane, and that same judgment doesn't exist towards traditionally expensive men's stuff. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 02:37 AM |
| 83 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellGirl the average cost of an engagement ring is like 5k and your (ex) man couldn’t muster up the funds for a ring that costs less than an iPhone? Lmao boy bye 👋🏻 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 12:16 AM |
| 172 | 🙄 There’s literally no pressure on men because the bar is in hellWhat I can’t stand is that society literally teaches little girls to dream about their wedding days, and then girls grow up to be women who are then shamed for dreaming about their wedding days. The expectation for what men should provide has been getting lower and lower for the past 20-30 years, and there are still men who will whine about any kind of social expectation they are expected to meet. The bar is on the ground and it’s still too high for these dudes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 11:07 PM |
| 34 | It’s tragic seeing women like this. You know how this story ends. But you can’t save them. If you want a relationship avoid these disgusting men and don’t give anyone sex before committing you poor, poor fool.Lmao my mom is in her mid 50s and doesn’t wear her wedding band because she has arthritis and has to swat men away from her everywhere she goes. How is SMV even a thing for women? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 09:36 PM |
| 28 | It’s tragic seeing women like this. You know how this story ends. But you can’t save them. If you want a relationship avoid these disgusting men and don’t give anyone sex before committing you poor, poor fool.What is SMV? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 08:08 PM |
| 214 | Another day of men having the audacity. Yeah my gf is a PhD candidate, works full time and works part time, but calculus is so HaRd!!Y'all. Imagine thinking that community college level calculus is harder than creating new knowledge via PhD. Bruh I took calculus at 15...if you're struggling that much, then STEM isn't for you my man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 03:43 PM |
| 35 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???Seriously. Modern dating has allowed for literally a spectrum of relationships to exist between single and married, and yet this guy is complaining? Jfc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:15 AM |
| 214 | jfc, even the comments are a goldmine, so it’s wrong to have standards???Lmao imagine being a 27yo Holden Caulfield | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 188 | Men don't just hate when we speak. They hate when we vocalize at all.Omg don’t even get me started on the Karen movement. Even when men do something abhorrent in public, he’s “male Karen”. There’s no male equivalent of Karen because a horrible person in public is assumed to be a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 02:22 PM |
| 67 | Apparently struck a nerve with my last post. Dude chose to ignore the “FDS Humor” flair lmao...Also shout out to the dude who directly made me cognizant of this mess by commenting my username on that thread. Class act. Edit: /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 03:29 PM |
| 70 | Ya’ll, please tell me I did not just read what I read? After seeing that I went and made a donation to FDS. It was the only way I could calm down. Is this a thing?!?!?!?!what in the kentucky fried fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 10:10 PM |
| 240 | Jealous of a cat “woke up to him smiling at me smugly from atop my gfs tits”Right? Like clearly the ball is in her court and she's choosing not to punt it back. But now that he realizes that she's choosing the cat, he's like "oh shit, should I try to get her a therapist in order to maintain contact with her" lmao pathetic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:37 PM |
| 117 | men on reddit really believe this........FeMaLe PriViLeGe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 10:32 PM |
| 63 | Let's talk about strategic incompetenceWhen I was younger, I noticed that my NVM ex would do this, and I, being the petty queen that I was, would throw that tactic right back at him. I just refused to do any chores, and if he asked me to do chores, I'd intentionally do a shitty job. All of a sudden, my NVM ex figured out how to clean after himself. That's when I realized that he literally just chose to be incompetent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:30 PM |
| 253 | Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HVHe just loves getting credit without actually doing anything, huh? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 186 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.It's the "my husband doesn't save his money, so he spends his and then asks me to buy him things with what's left of mine bc it's "ours"" for me. She legit might as well be married to a teen with a summer job. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 04:12 PM |
| 503 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.So her husband works 35hrs/week and makes less money, but also does zero things at home? And then says that she's financially abusive? Lmao what a fucking leech she is getting scammed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 03:48 PM |
| 73 | Dating Conservatives and Trump Supporters.I would rather cut off my right arm than date a conservative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 79 | Dating Conservatives and Trump Supporters.Dude. The libertarians I know went to public schools and public colleges. Bitch if you're so libertarian, go to a private institution and drive only private roads and bridges. I cannot deal with libertarians and their hypocrisy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:04 PM |
| 216 | Gross! 🤮I think it was his family going off on her about it...so we know why he's a piece of shit. Her family seems supportive. I hope her family helps her leave this dude. Imagine throwing a fit in the OR while your wife is in labor after being a misogynist piece of shit in front of (presumably) mostly female OB doctors and nurses. Just. No shame or emotional intelligence of any kind... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 12:50 AM |
| 90 | Woman feels compelled to take care of ex who left her after 15 years of no marriage for younger woman.Honestly, there's a reason his current wife doesn't give a fuck about him. I hate that the OP of that post is acting as if his current wife is cruel and evil. Like he probably treated her like shit too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 05:49 PM |
| 135 | Why is no one talking about the type of rape where a partner pesters you into having sex?Yep, sexual coercion is 100% rape but men don't even want to label it as rape. They'd rather call it "unethical sexual behavior" because 100% of men have participated in sexual coercion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:07 PM |
| 28 | Do men even like women??I was actually thinking of making a post about this but since it came up here - the fact that our society has denigrated liberal arts and humanities I think is at least partly tied to sexism. Liberal arts and humanities are imperative to creating well rounded individuals with broad critical thinking skills. You can take a look at countries like China, which for the past few generations have discouraged philosophy and Confucianism in schools - the Chinese government has now tried to correct for t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 44 | The only response to neggingMy best friend's ex boyfriend literally told her that it was "intimidating" to him that she was confident in herself lmao Trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 02:51 AM |
| 23 | Your time is valuable.Oh yeah don’t even get me started on the hypocrisy of how administrators treat students and residents vs how they preach about humanism and empathy in medicine | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:49 PM |
| 64 | Your time is valuable.In med school, there are so many conversations about how to promote healthier lifestyles and habits for our patients. I get incredibly frustrated by these lectures and conversations, not because they aren’t important, but because the onus of change is on the individual when we live in a society where you have to work multiple shifts to make ends meet. You can’t talk about healthy habits without confronting work culture and time poverty in the US. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:40 PM |
| 6 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?GIRL I'D BE LIVID! If a man ever stole any jewelry from me...I would do some terrible things to them lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:53 PM |
| 19 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?Omg I had so many cringe moments in my early 20s but one that I will never forget: My IUD was being expelled and I was bleeding a ton and also in serious pain with cramps. I asked my NVMex to go to CVS and pick up Plan B. He said "Why don't you go yourself? It's raining outside and Plan B is expensive". I kicked him out, but then later took him back 🤡🤡🤡🤡 Thankfully I ended it 5-6 months later after we got into a huge fight where he literally said, and I quote, "You're just not logical and nothin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:26 PM |
| 20 | What's your cringiest moment with an ex LVM ?OMG my old coworker told me the time when her (ex)boyfriend was stealing money from her to buy her and his side piece gifts (gold necklaces). When she found out he had a shit eating grin on his face and was like "you should be happy that I bought you something" She's happily married now though, and her husband brings her lunch to work every day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 02:18 PM |
| 6 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?There have def been improvements on hormonal BC over the years (the concentration of estrogen/progesterone in Enovid was much higher than alternatives now), but the clinical trials from the 60s were not nearly as rigorous as they are now. But hormonal BC options did pass the clinical trial rigors of the time (although kind of unethically because the BC were tested on Puerto Rican women). That being said, there have been a lot more clinical trials with modern BC options, but once that cat is out … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:06 PM |
| 40 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?The issue is that some of the BC options that women have would literally never pass clinical trials in modern day. But they're still being used and suggested to women. Male BC have to pass a much more rigorous standard because they are being formulated now rather than in the 60s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:43 PM |
| 49 | Was able to say I deserve betterSis don't let people tell you that you setting boundaries = you being harsh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 146 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?I got into a fight with someone in MY MED SCHOOL over this. MALE CLASSMATES of mine openly said that they would never take birth control, and after (obvious) outrage from the women in my class, some guy had the audacity to say "no one should have to take anything that they aren't comfortable with." But he failed to recognize that with modern social convention, THE ONUS LIES ON THE WOMAN AND WOMEN HAVE LESS OF A CHOICE TO REFUSE BC. I literally can't. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 11:31 PM |
| 120 | HVM are not offended by FDSYep! My bf also likes FDS. He straight up said “Reddit is misogynistic and women need their own spaces. Really FDS is no different than blackpeopletwitter.” Edit: No different than blackpeopletwitter in terms of the need for a space for conversation without the overwhelming racism/misogyny that runs rampant on reddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 44 | MeNs InFiDeLiTy Is DiFfErEnTYES. Like they get mad when women are wary of men and scream NOT ALL MEN. but then compare themselves to literal animals? WHICH ONE IS IT. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 06:13 PM |
| 7 | Guarantee he watches porn.I read some of the comments in that thread because my boyfriend screenshotted some to me. Some men really have the audacity to claim that there is no such thing as the patriarchy, that poor men aren’t privileged and only rich men are privileged, and that affirmative action in the past 50 years has corrected for all prior female inequality. Another commenter claimed that misogyny is taught by mothers because women are the primary caregivers, so any female inequality that exists is due to women (b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:09 AM |
| 659 | Searches for International Men's Day Peak on International Women's Day EVERY. YEARI cannot roll my eyes back far enough. These men don't even know that there's an International Men's Day because they don't give a fuck about men's issues until women's issues are brought up. Sad and pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 04:40 PM |
| 107 | My reminder to live myself came yesterday! Thank you ladies for the inspiration ❤️WHERE did you get this beauty! So ethereal and pretty! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 08:01 AM |
| 17 | I have no words.What is even the point of paying for something you don’t even like lmao 🤡🤡🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:45 PM |
| 142 | Men who lie about their careersI’ve told this story before, but a guy from OLD back in my college days told me he was a Princeton graduate who owned a shipping company. I went to an Ivy League school and just happened to have a friend whose dad is a shipping mogul in Canada and Singapore. My friend started asking the OLD guy complicated shipping questions, and he cracked. Turns out he went to NJIT who only lied to “impress” me. Quickly got rid of OLD apps after that. It’s really just not worth it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 03:23 PM |
| 3 | They so badly want to be victims 🙄yeah denying that men can also be victims isn't a good look tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 07:08 PM |
| 274 | Things my suspected high quality man does.OP I'm glad you found someone who treats you with respect and kindness, but mostly I'm glad you caught the DCIS early. Wishing you all the luck :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 06:19 PM |
| 125 | He was not amused and blocked meApparently consent is now a feminist ideology? Lmao ok...didn't think that consent needed to be a polarizing topic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 06:20 PM |
| 17 | My boyfriend massages my hands in the morningYeah! I would love any advice you could provide! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:59 AM |
| 23 | My boyfriend massages my hands in the morningYou're absolutely right. In my heart of hearts, I know that it's not super impressive that he massages my hands, and that it should be a given. It's just really refreshing that he has shown to exhibit this type of empathy (along with all his other HV qualities), especially since I've very rarely seen this kind of empathy exhibited by other men in my life. But this should be the bare minimum standard for all women out there. But you're right that I need to stop apologizing for taking up space! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:52 AM |
| 62 | My boyfriend massages my hands in the morningYeah! I left my abusive ex years ago and still catch myself feeling guilty when I express my needs. I'm glad my boyfriend encourages me to ask for more for myself. FDS has helped me build confidence too. I will literally never accept less for myself ever again lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 78 | Almost half a million likes - this ain’t cute 🤢Seriously why do people who clearly don't want to be parents have children in the first place? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 05:37 PM |
| 16 | Confirmed: We are the product.Seriously I’m confused by the point of his post. I think it was a public begging effort...but like, he failed miserably lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 15 | FDSers in NYC, what’s it like?I’ve been living in NYC for years and I love the city, but it’s definitely not for everyone. Dating in NYC is challenging, and it’s hard to meet people (men or women) organically because people are busy and career oriented. That being said, you’d be surrounded by all types of life and there’s something for everyone in NYC. Be ready for rugged individualism tho. I lucked out because I went to college here, so my network came from my alma mater. I really don’t know how people create networks outsi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:46 AM |
| 116 | Confirmed: We are the product.Lmao this dude doesn't even verbalize what it is that men want in a woman. And also contradicts himself by saying "they never needed nor cared to know because they have so many options to pick and choose from". So yeah. Why would I want a man who doesn't want a strong woman when evidently there are men out there who WANT strong women? Seems like a you problem my guy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 09:56 PM |
| 17 | This comment got me banned from RAdvice. Apparently calling out misogyny is bad 😡They're not men anywhere else so they have to exert their manliness in the safety of their homes lmao. But also holy shit. I cannot believe that calling out misogynists gets people banned. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 72 | Roses Are Red, Rush Limbaugh is Dead, and Bridgerton is a fancy tale of young women being sold into sex slaveryMan it was just poetic that lung cancer took him after years of peddling misinformation to his followers about how smoking doesn’t cause lung cancer | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:18 AM |
| 7 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.There's a good review article on the effects of video games on the brain: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5438999/ Of course, there are benefits to gaming, such as increased visuospatial skills and increased top-down attention processes. But there is quite a lot of evidence on violence desensitization and rewiring of the limbic system. Internet Gaming Disorder has been included in the DSM5 and is related to Gambling disorders. The research is quite interesting, and I imagine there w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 01:32 AM |
| 103 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.It's actually crazy that our society refuses to talk about how gaming, social media, porn, etc all rewire the limbic system of the brain. The whole argument that 'violence in video games doesn't cause violence irl' is scientifically debunked through meta analyses, but people still refuse to acknowledge the science. Not to mention the fact that a lot people are exposed to games, porn, social media, etc before their prefrontal cortexes are fully developed so they don't even have executive control … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 181 | Ladies, what's the sweetest thing a HVM had done for you to show that he cares?My boyfriend is a sweetheart. He surprises me often with small gestures and gifts, but one of the sweetest things he did for me - on my birthday this past year during quarantine, he planned a surprise rooftop dinner with takeout from my favorite sushi restaurant, and picked out a beautiful emerald necklace. I had mentioned in passing on one of our first dates that I had never really been surprised before in my life, and he went all out for this birthday surprise. It was so sweet and I cried lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:19 PM |
| 391 | Men can be a gamer OR he can have a girlfriend. Not both.Games are designed to be addictive. They are huge time sinks, and they actually cost a shit ton of money. I know guy friends who literally had to repeat years in college because they couldn't manage their gaming addiction. Anyone who neglects their normal, adult responsibilities because of superfluous hobbies has terrible time management and a lack of discipline, which are not qualities you want in a partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:13 PM |
| 18 | He unmatched me instantly 💀🤣Having standards = materialistic I have a beautiful friend who dated a guy who wouldn't buy her an $8 trinket she liked in Thailand. These kinds of men will keep widening the definition of what is considered "materialistic" so they don't have to live up to any expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 04:35 AM |
| 111 | It doesn’t have to be terrible 24/7 in order for you to leave.Your post reminded me of something I had to learn - Impact vs Intent. Doesn't matter if he wasn't intentional in his hurting you if ultimately the impact was hurtful. And it's ok to break things off even if he "didn't mean it". I always thought that I had to forgive people who didn't do shitty things "on purpose", but you don't. Intent and impact don't have to be syntonic for you to peace the fuck out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:15 PM |
| 259 | No lies here 💀Honestly feminism has allowed for the breakdown of gender roles and even encourages men to express their feelings. All the reddit posts about men being "lonely" and not being able to talk to people about their problems - feminism addresses those issues directly. And yet men will vehemently reject feminism. Men don't do shit to advocate for themselves unless it's at the expense of women. Edit: Wanted to add this article on masculinity "Girlfriends, mothers, and in some cases sisters were the most… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 07:11 PM |
| 92 | What’s the most important thing you’ve learned since discovering FDS?Yeah I used to give people the benefit of the doubt. Truly they just didn’t know that they were being hurtful. Hit me like a wall of bricks to realize they know and still choose to be shitty | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:51 PM |
| 55 | Tennessee Bill Would Allow Men the Right to 'Veto' Abortions...They should pass a bill that forces men to have vasectomies if the woman doesn’t want kids and see how men will immediately rage scream about their bodily autonomy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 296 | Lots of LVM in the comments, ofc.WHY DO WOMEN KEEP AGREEING TO MARRY PEOPLE WHO OFFER TRASH ENGAGEMENT RINGS? If the ring is important to you and you've made that clear to your SO and he still low balls, laugh directly in his face and walk away. Why do women stroke the egos of people who don't respect us? Fuck that. Laugh in his face. Embarrass him. And dump his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 72 | 50/50 is a scamI don't go 50/50 because women are still not being paid equal wages for equal work. Even an adjusted wage gap, where all other variables are adjusted for, women make on average 5% less than men. I don't go 50/50 because women on average perform so much more unpaid labor than men, such as homemaking and emotional labor. I don't go 50/50 because even though women are outperforming men in school and work, there is still a huge glass ceiling that prevents women from reaching the peaks of success, be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 11:37 PM |
| 13 | Can we start a fundraiser for this cause? 😂Of course I don't know your circumstances. I'm just trying to point out how your comment reads to someone who doesn't know your circumstances, and how it may come off as privileged. Again, not trying to be confrontational. I feel like we should all hold each other to a high standard on FDS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:26 PM |
| 23 | Can we start a fundraiser for this cause? 😂I don't know why this comment bothers me but it does. Not an attack at all on your comment. It's just that...lesbians also live in the patriarchy. They are less likely to die at the hands of an intimate partner, but it's certainly privileged to say something like "I'll take [the] discrimination" of being a lesbian. I'm not trying to be confrontational, I just want to point out that being able to say something like that comes from a place of privilege where you haven't experienced such discrimina… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:17 PM |
| 54 | Can we start a fundraiser for this cause? 😂Yeah it’s kind of myopic to assume lesbians have it good when they get persecuted by society on the daily and didn’t have any semblance of rights until 2014 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 07:13 PM |
| 72 | Which red flag shall we pick first?Men: Women are gold diggers who only want you for your money Also Men: "I earn very good money" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:43 AM |
| 115 | NOBODY can stop herLol girl went to Amherst and they're trying to diminish her accomplishments because she's also beautiful and a model. Willing to bet none of those dudes could get into Amherst lmao. Must be hard that they can't be beautiful and smart like so many women are lol Also, when men are like "who cares if she did xyz" bitch if you don't care then don't look at the posts, don't comment. How sad does your life have to be that you need to comment on something you don't even care about lmaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:20 AM |
| 20 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes."Meanwhile in another thread, some girl is absolutely bonkers". Dude like. Who said that the guy needs to stay with her? Isn't the dude being rather selective with what he chooses to read? Lmao at "being on this sub has made me an irritable person". Then leave? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 112 | I got banned from a subreddit for saying I prefer big dicks. Reddit is full of easily offended incels.Men would never pay money to make themselves look better tho. They’d rather we lower our standards while asking us to get breast implants lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 09:03 PM |
| 60 | What in the holy pickmeisha gaslit denial is this horror show that I am reading???Even if that was true, why would anyone want to be with a doormat anyways? I'm the same age as her and I'm too old for that shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 06:04 PM |
| 7 | The fallacy of the nice guy : The men of Big Bang TheoryIf being nice is the only thing you can offer...like bitch being nice is the bare minimum, not a personality trait. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 54 | LVM/NVM LogicI've noticed that a lot of men on reddit are super bad at analogies. They should bring back analogies on the SAT and help screen out these ppl with no logic. Or at least get them to start practicing analogies on a standardized test so they can apply them to their real lives. They think that FDS is the "female incel group", but like, none of us are "involuntarily celibate". In fact, a lot of us have relationships/are married, and basically all of us could get a relationship at anytime. The ones w… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 03:38 PM |
| 125 | I was lurking on a subreddit and found this "HVM" lmaoY'all I laugh so hard when men pulling 120k in NYC think that they need to be protected from gold diggers. Like bruh try getting your own apartment first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 12:52 AM |
| 138 | Get more in a divorce? This is why men murder women!Yep. And these non-humans were the ones who brought the child into the world in the first place but don't want to take any responsibility. But yeah. Let's murder the only caregiver of YOUR BIOLOGICAL CHILD. What fucking cretins. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 250 | What are some of the most difficult realizations you’ve had about men ?What I learned from my ex boyfriend - that they know that they are hurting you but do not care. Some men know that their behavior is trash but will still do it because it benefits them. They aren't "unaware"; they don't need to be "taught"; they don't need "explanations for why xyz is not ok". They know and they choose to hurt you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:29 AM |
| 176 | Remember, men have agency. They choose. They aren’t idiots. They know what they’re doing and they’re getting exactly what they want without consequences. See past it and free yourself. (Here’s some snippets of an AMAZING article on the subject - link attached!)THIS. I'm tired of men hiding behind the excuse of being "unaware" as a way to explain their shitty behavior. Either get aware or get out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 02:24 AM |
| 145 | Why Society MUST focus on teaching the *Rapists* Not To Rape, and NEVER focus on women’s behavior.I read an article today about AOC coming out as a survivor of sexual assault. I was more surprised that she talked about it publicly than the fact that it happened in the first place. Every single woman I know in my personal life has been sexually assaulted in some way. EVERY. SINGLE. WOMAN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/02/21 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Liberal feminism and the "free choice" argumentI think this becomes a larger philosophical argument about free will vs determinism - how much of our behavior can be attributed to individual autonomy vs how much of our behavior is inevitable because of the structures that influence us? I might get downvoted for this, but I struggle with how to view sex work. I agree with FDS that the framework in which sex work exists today probably does not benefit women and there are plenty of arguments as to why sex work hurts women. But there's also an as… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 09:41 PM |
| 35 | What’s your opinion on Jordan Peterson?My ex used to listen to Jordan Peterson religiously and essentially believed him to be a "logical god" and utilized Jordan Peterson's philosophy in personal fights with me...took me a year of therapy to realize that my ex was straight up emotionally abusive lmao. So there's that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:32 PM |
| 52 | "Boys are way better friends than girls" - I've never met a woman who has said this that ended up being a good friend and wasn't a Pickmeisha.I get so angry when women say this. My girlfriends have gotten me through every tough hurdle in my life. I have some fantastic friends who are men too, but they usually "can't handle" more emotion-heavy topics. Different friends fill different roles in my life, and it sucks that this girl can't find female friends who enrich her life in any way. Makes me wonder if she has little to offer other women. When women say shit like this it just perpetuates the "catty women" stereotype. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 3 | "Jokes"I left a comment, you can check my post history. The way she responded to me makes me feel like she's a lost cause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 10:53 PM |
| 16 | Sickening: MEETING THE ENEMY A feminist comes to terms with the Men's Rights movement | Cassie Jaye | TEDxMarinI feel like Jimmy Carter really hits the nail on the head when he says men just don't give a damn. So he's trying to get us to advocate for ourselves more. It does suck that the onus is always on the oppressed to fight for our rights, but that's how it's always been I guess | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 63 | Ladies! Cell Phone Tango PART TWO 😍This should become a real production on broadway lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:18 PM |
| 42 | My female friend and coworker got into an online debate with a conservative LVM last night and this is what he said.He looks like a thumb | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 06:16 PM |
| 53 | "Jokes"The mom is justifying things by saying that he makes jokes to the son too... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 05:29 PM |
| 36 | Sickening: MEETING THE ENEMY A feminist comes to terms with the Men's Rights movement | Cassie Jaye | TEDxMarinOh I watched this when it first came out thinking I would be enlightened. I was so disappointed. There is no reason why the oppressed gender needs to pander to the feelings of the ones who are directly oppressing us. The Men's Rights movement literally only exists as a reaction to Feminism, which she clearly fails to acknowledge. You can also tell if someone is actually truly doing something good for women if you look at the like/dislike ratio. If she were truly trying to help women, there would… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:58 PM |
| 13 | The way some scrotes think women are successful...Why are men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 03:52 PM |
| 244 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...She's beautiful. He's deceitful and a fucking liar. To have the gall to waste years of this woman's life. I know she'll find happiness without him - I can already tell she has so much strength and sass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:12 PM |
| 104 | She hit every nail on its head!!This is why I have the 8 date rule. Guy must take me on 8 dates (and good ones too) before I will even consider sexual stuff. Usually that screens out the low effort LVMs who are lying about their intentions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 06:03 PM |
| 24 | I find it really disturbing that this video has almost 100k likes and thousands of 20 something year old girls commenting about dating men 40+ ... why is this so normalized and glamorized and why did she think it was a good idea to post it on app mostly used by minors?!?huge yike | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 12:57 AM |
| 60 | Beware of Loser Gold-Digging MenMy question is where is he even dominating? Seems like she’s dominating in every aspect that actually counts. He’s like. A failure in every respect. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | My self love stackYou should get it! Think of it as an investment 😆😆😆 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 12:39 AM |
| 13 | My self love stackThe chain ring is from Kwiat, but it’s no longer on their website. I bought it at a sample sale in NYC in early 2019, so I might have caught the last batch! The diamond band is from a local jeweler! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 06:17 PM |
| 20 | Poor ring is so teeny tiny, it’s almost invisible. But I guess she has to love it or be rendered a scheming gold-digger, amirite?!?! 🤪💍I bought jennifer meyer band rings with small precious stones (sapphire, ruby, and emerald) and they were 18k gold. Each cost $175 and I bought them at Barney’s (when it was still in business lmao). Her boyfriend is full of shit. Dumpable offense for lying about the cost of the ring IMO. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 04:09 PM |
| 150 | I’m new to FDS but I have already been made aware of the men who absolutely despise this sub. I think this tweet sums that matter up nicely.I honestly don't understand FeMaLe PrIvILEdGe. Do they not realize that their grandmas couldn't even vote, and their moms couldn't even open their own bank accounts? What fucking privilege, PLEASE point it out lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:20 PM |
| 373 | Why women keep "losing".Something I've observed in my 20so years of life with regards to how men and women approach dating (and life) differently: Men are socialized to have boundaries and enforce them. Men create a non-negotiable line that if crossed, they will pull the plug immediately. End of story. No looking back, no conversation, no excuses. I find that women are a lot more wishy-washy with 1. creating boundaries, and 2. enforcing boundaries. I think a lot of this is how women are socialized. We were raised to be… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 06:06 AM |
| 84 | This sad. We have a second invisible global pandemic happening and its called male narcissismY’all my ex got mad at me and threatened to break up with me cuz I watched the office without him Lmaoooo. Honestly every single woman I know irl has been in an abusive relationship at some point in her life. Men are overwhelmingly trash | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 55 | “yOuR wAy ToO qUiCk To JuDgE”What a waste of oxygen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:36 AM |
| 56 | I don't understand the men that infiltrate this groupAlexa, play "Obsessed" by Mariah Carey | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 12:36 AM |
| 60 | So disheartening to see posts like these...gotta remind myself that Reddit is especially misogynistic and not reflective of all men, but like. holy shitI think what really bothers me is that these men see a title like this and their immediate reaction is "Harharhar women incompetent". Never mind the fact that women are disproportionately burdened with childcare and without in person classes/daycare, women are most likely going to have to drop out of the work force to care for their kids. I'm more sad than anything else that regardless of how much we accomplish, some men will literally never respect us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 06:21 AM |
| 326 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤She dumped him and blocked him everywhere (thank god). I got so angry reading that post. If anyone ever touched my skincare I would eviscerate them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 10:26 PM |
| 1 | This is why FDS. Coming from a single mom who refuses to date someone who wants me to be his too. Too many women comment saying *they don't exist* or *if I tell him ill give him **time** he will help..He needs to pay her for her emotional labor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:43 PM |
| 81 | HVM texting habits?In my experience, men who have ambition/a job/a well rounded life tend to be a lot less responsive with texting, and I'm totally fine with that because I don't have the time to respond to texts either. I feel like a person who's interested in you but is bad at texting or doesn't like how dragged out texting is would likely call you in the evenings. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 18 | What's something that made you realize you're former partner was LVM?Ohhh here’s my time to shine! 1. One time my IUD was expelling and I was losing a lot of blood. I asked him to pick up plan B and he wouldn’t. He threw a fit because “it was expensive” and we got into a huge fight and he ended up LEAVING. I ended up asking a friend to bring me to the nearest planned parenthood for treatment because he left when I was in severe pain. 2. He would text an old coworker who he went on a date with to Coney Island prior to our relationship that he couldn’t hang out bec… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:33 PM |
| 35 | Shoutout to r/Drama for inspiring my hopping on the bandwagon, hope my flex doesn’t hurt their already shattered egos :)Your mom is a QUEEN | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:26 AM |
| 24 | Shoutout to r/Drama for inspiring my hopping on the bandwagon, hope my flex doesn’t hurt their already shattered egos :)SO BEAUTIFUL! Santos collection? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:17 AM |
| 50 | Shoutout to r/Drama for inspiring my hopping on the bandwagon, hope my flex doesn’t hurt their already shattered egos :)WHERE DID YOU GET THE WATCH?? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 04:00 AM |
| 184 | I love how pressed men are about this subSo now we can't spend our own money? These men are so sad and probably don't have jobs if they have that much time on their hands... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 04:27 PM |
| 152 | Just let him goHe's the type of guy who wants everything without any sacrifices. He wants the intimacy of marriage but doesn't want to make sacrifices (ie being fucking monogamous? Like the basis of marriage?) and will likely blame the woman for "overreacting" or "reading too much into casual sex" so she bends to his will. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/21 06:51 AM |
| 7 | They use women to wank off and blame women for having feelings.I never even realized this til you mentioned it. Apparently they only invalidate hormones when it's women's hormones, but not men's hormones (even though both men and women have the same hormones just at different concentrations? lmao) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 04:51 PM |
| 156 | They use women to wank off and blame women for having feelings.I actually appreciate this post because he says that he only realized that he was the problem after "reading and self reflection". All of the previous women who communicated and verbalized how they did not appreciate his deceit were all just "hormonal". He didn't change until he wanted to change. Women can communicate all we want and it still will fall on deaf ears. No point in communicating or educating at all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 05:19 AM |
| 82 | The sheer entitlement to think that women should effectively audition for marriage. Men aren’t that valuable or rare.Lmao what? When did this girl say she wanted to marry HIM? Boy no one is auditioning to marry you, bye | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:34 AM |
| 226 | she had an epiphany typing it out 😩😩Some of the comments in that thread were telling her that she was overreacting. I wanted to claw my eyes out | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 03:33 AM |
| 28 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.They don’t have the brain cells the think critically lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/01/21 11:50 PM |
| 22 | “You have to have a house and a job to have a relationship? I’m the stay-at-home dad type though.” This one made me holler 😂😂😂When will men learn that what a man can provide is part of who he is? It speaks volumes when a person is not employed or does not have stable housing and does not care to get out of that situation. It means he isn't driven or is just a complacent person who doesn't strive to be the best version of himself. Those are personality traits. Now, I'm not the "just pull yourself up by the bootstraps" type of person because I recognize the socioeconomic structures that work against people, but if he tru… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/20 07:52 PM |
| 224 | Angry scrote doesn't think he should pay for date he asked her out onAlways cherry picking the parts of feminism that benefit men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 13 | Some 2021 energy from a 94 year old.Grandma be ROCKING some VAN CLEEF. Slay Queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:40 PM |
| 18 | One of the three jewellery pieces I bought myself for Christmas. I am also selling the gifts my NV ex bought me so I can put the money towards something I actually like. I will put my comment in the thread belowGIRL. Jewelry is my biggest passion and my shitty ex told me that he would "never buy [me] jewelry because it's a waste of money" and that "only a gold digger would want jewelry". After we broke up, I bought myself a beautiful ring that I've worn every day since, and this Christmas I just added a second band to stack with it. Cherry on top, my current boyfriend buys me jewelry on every special occasion. Never let a man stifle your personality and bring you down. Keep expectations up. If he wante… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 06:15 PM |
| 8 | LVM coerces woman into sex while sick and then calls her a disgusting pig when she voms on him. Because she was SICK.u/ThrowRA87870 you deserve better than how you're being treated right now! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 05:16 AM |
| 124 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsPitbulls are cute though. These kinds of men are like blobfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:00 PM |
| 399 | Found this on Twitter, sooo many LVM mad in the commentsI honestly don't know what these kinds of men want. They created and perpetuated a system where they are supposed to thrive and yet fail to do so. And then complain about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:59 PM |
| 427 | “My boyfriend thought we’d been engaged for two months. I had no idea.”He’s embarrassed that he might have to backpedal with his family but not because of his lack of effort or blatant miscommunication lmaooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 7 | Pickmeisha auditions?She’s probably a man posing as a woman on Reddit for the awards | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 07:38 PM |
| 22 | What’s your dating experience in nyc like?Honestly this post makes me feel like there should be a FDS meetup in NYC lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/20 12:37 AM |
| 81 | What’s your dating experience in nyc like?I went to college in NYC. In my experience, it was one of the worst places to date because women outnumber men. People in NYC are super busy and career-centric, and no one seems to be looking for anything serious. Not to mention, NYC is a transient place for many people so you don't really have a lot of people who can envision permanently staying. Also, I think because of the cost of the city, people tend to delay their adulthoods because they are trying to make ends meet and survive. I love NYC… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 07:24 PM |
| 51 | I just realized that "nOT aLL mEN" includes male family members and I'm floored.No one wants to believe that their male family or friends or coworkers could be rapists or cheaters, but statistically, a good portion of them are | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 10:40 PM |
| 36 | Imagine conceiving, birthing, and raising a male only for them to turn into such a pathetic, depraved, disturbed individual as an adult. I’m truly sickened....what the actual fuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 02:42 AM |
| 114 | every timeThe bar is set so low for men but so high for women | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:30 PM |
| 30 | Men lying on their dating profiles...He’s gay 😭😭 as all great men are lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 33 | I struggled to hold my dinner..It's a huge red flag when people rate others on a scale of 1-10 (regardless of gender). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:46 PM |
| 79 | Men lying on their dating profiles...This one guy I saw on OLD told me that he went to Princeton and owned an international shipping company. I went to an Ivy League school and had some powerful friends, one of whom was the son of the CEO of an international shipping company. My friend roasted the LVM with questions ABOUT SHIPPING COMPANIES until he broke down and said he only lied "to impress me". Men have no shame. I have deleted all OLD apps since. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 71 | I have no words... Hope she will leave and get him arrested.Some men think that if a photo is in their phone, the photo is now his property. It's sick and disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 02:09 AM |
| 13 | Do you ever wonder why dudes love Bitcoin so much? All the cheese pizza it buys them (7.5 terabytes)Even OLD apps is like being a peeping tom. Get to browse through a catalogue of open and honest women while having a blank profile and never being known. This. When I was on OLD apps, the number of anonymous profiles who had open access to all the women out there......huge yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 06:30 AM |
| 160 | AITA Keeps Getting Worse, Shows Stark Reality of How Common Toxic Masculinity IsWhy the everliving fuck is she responsible for a baby that isn't even hers? Lmao wtf? I would've yeeted the husband and baby out the house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 03:58 AM |
| 180 | You don't deserve her neckbeardWhat's with the fetishization of Asian women by these creepy white dudes? It's honestly an epidemic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 09:55 PM |
| 217 | The Hypocrisy of Career MenDo you ever notice how conversations around “having it all” always revolves around whether or not women can “have it all”? Apparently men can have it all but women can’t. And it’s because men literally aren’t expected to have any responsibilities outside of their careers, but women are burdened with the emotional and mental labor of homemaking that simply isn’t shared by our male counterparts. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 07:04 PM |
| 109 | How can anyone possibly think that buying your coworker a sex toy is ok?It's just OfFiCe BaNtEr /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:31 PM |
| 144 | A sermon I’d attendThe "gold digger" movement was just propaganda to keep women's expectations low | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 04:29 AM |
| 29 | The energy we all need in 2021. Bye byeeeeOmg my hero lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 04:10 AM |
| 66 | The energy we all need in 2021. Bye byeeeeOk but what's the song in the background lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 3 | 🤪 Come check out our sub for posting all of the trolls and dragging them! 😂Omg yes please approve me haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 03:25 AM |
| 249 | I'm done 🙅🏻♀️💢💔Imagine how scared she was giving birth alone. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 08:45 PM |
| 289 | Remember when everyone called her a gold digger for getting a huge payout from her divorce..It also angers me cuz she’s literally a brilliant writer who went to Princeton and worked for a hedge fund after graduating. Even if she wasn’t a founder of Amazon (which she was) or wasn’t an accountant for Amazon (which she was) and she was “just a housewife”, she still freed up time and mental labor for Jeff so he could invest more of his time and energy into building the empire that is Amazon. I am so sick of misogynistic men for thinking that men do all these great things on their own and t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:38 PM |
| 53 | My husband of 3 weeks now, said he wished he married his x instead of me.You should tell him that you wished you married your ex who had a huge dick. No but seriously, annulment. He's an asshole at best and abusive at worst. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/20 05:57 AM |
| 28 | Ladies, is it true love if you settle for the boring man of your dreams who hated you when he first met you, after you beg him to consider dating you for a third time?The bar is so low... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 10:41 PM |
| 15 | If women "hit the wall" after certain age because we're too old to be "fertile", while men can mate for life, then why is sperm donor's age cut-off at 40, buddy?While men continually produce sperm throughout their lives (whereas women produce all the eggs she will ever ovulate in utero), the likelihood for de novo mutations increases as males age. Women are more likely to have meiotic defects with increased maternal age. There's a really good Nature paper for those interested: https://www.nature.com/articles/nature11396 But this just shows how our society's narratives and constructs don't necessarily reflect biology and science. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 09:10 PM |
| 156 | Never tell a man about your mental or physical disability until after he’s vetted for a loooong ass time. You should see the texts that caused me to block him and ended up in him emailing this.Lol that's how society works? That's what he agreed to do when he signed the social contract by virtue of benefiting from all the other programs that a society offers? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 08:40 PM |
| 252 | I don’t know if it’s been posted before, but this is so true.Seriously. Women are always punished for the failures of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 07:22 PM |
| 114 | Are we following this story? vile, disgusting old man reporter who exposed an young, female EMT out of spite?This pissed me off so much esp since she apparently asked that they not publish the article because she didn't want to lose her job and they published it anyways. The only thing the NYPost exposed was the state of our country where EMTs have to get side hustles to make ends meet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 03:45 PM |
| 421 | This is another level of depravity...Imagine your wife getting sexually assaulted and making her trauma about you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/20 05:31 AM |
| 171 | So many d***s on AITA today (they're OPs or dudes mentioned in the post). Have arranged from least terrible to the worst of the worst. Six posts and I had to take a break. Why are these men even in relationships??? Break-down of each in comments.All women in the entire world should revolt and do nothing for men for a year and see how they manage. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 08:36 PM |
| 4 | Promising Young Woman coming out this Christmas. The movie's about a woman's revenge on rapists and a reckoning of the social structures that perpetuate rape culture .That is super disappointing...but I feel like it's probably the most true representation of the incentives that allow the continuation of violence against women. Thanks for this info tho! The trailer made me think it was going to be a delicious vigilante story :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:20 AM |
| 31 | Excuse me whatSeriously. I don't even know wtf he's trying to say. There's no logical flow in his ramblings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 05:40 AM |
| 25 | PUA LVs Prove That Women Need FDS to Defend Ourselves Against ThisThis proves that LV men will do anything to keep a girl around except treat her like a human being. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 61 | What a QUEEN 👑💕Conspiracy theories? 🤮🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 03:11 AM |
| 14 | Got a message from some scrote trying to argue that rape accusations are worse than rape. He sadly missed the irony in his message, that this is how so many women feel, every day of their lives. Blocked and didn’t reply.I used to do work for a nonprofit to help victims of rape. Fake accusations make up 3-8% of total accusations according to the NSVRC. Even if victims lie, it's usually to PROTECT the perpetrator because the perpetrator is usually someone the victim knows. The majority of sexual assaults, an estimated 63 percent, are never reported to the police. But this redditor doesn't care about the statistics or facts (even though men are LoGiCaL). He only cares about perpetuating the culture of victim blami… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 09:11 PM |
| 47 | "females" "men" it's a yikes from me dawg"The dude is probably a reflection of himself" 💀💀💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 08:32 PM |
| 50 | I have no words.Bite it off lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:15 PM |
| 217 | It might be time for me to unsub from AITA. This one made me want to cry. My heart is broken for herSome people have no shame... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/20 04:06 PM |
| 89 | Thank goodness men are around to give their unsolicited approval /sLol yeah like who are you to approve anyone, you cave dwelling neanderthal. She's literally an international chess player. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:19 PM |
| 10 | Engagement rings are a scam just get me a ring pop 🤪🤡$1100 should be month 1 of a 24 month installment | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 04:13 PM |
| 79 | Redditor makes an argument for not reporting rape. I can’t help but wonder how many of these upvoters are male..."I'm lucky in that I actually moved beyond being raped pretty easily". the fuq? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 12 | This sub never fails to get my blood boiling. NVM father let’s his child wear a dirty diaper for 9 hours because he’s too busy playing video games.Imagine being a nurse and treating covid patients and then coming home to this shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 09:41 PM |
| 221 | You can look up the npr article. I read this and now want to pack up and move to another planet, bye 🤮We should pay our service workers living wages so they don’t have to rely on tips and aren’t at the mercy of this sexist bullshit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 05:16 PM |
| 30 | how abso effing disgusting is this? bad enough that a scrote would do this, let alone WOMEN blaming the victim!!! I'm beside myself! thankfully there are others who are just as outraged as I am.Yeah why is cOmMuNicAtiOn only the woman’s job? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:59 PM |
| 18 | Getting real tired of this “Would you rather cry in a Rolls or an insert less expensive vehicle here” talk. The only tears in your relationship should be tears of mf joy 👏🏾 know your worth ladies and secure your own bagWhy you gotta cry at all tho? You can have the Rolls Royce and be laughing in it. Standards are so low... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:55 PM |
| 33 | Using FDS In Early 20sI might get downvoted here, but I personally feel like you don’t have to subscribe to every single belief that FDS claims. You can be dogmatic in its principles but not in its details, if that makes sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:40 PM |
| 59 | Imagine you man inviting you out to dinner on you ANNIVERSARY only to demand you pay half. And she cooks dinner for him 🤦🏼♀️The audacity of directly benefiting from her cooking and then being like BuT I DiDn'T AsK! Fucking ungrateful neanderthals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:53 AM |
| 31 | there is so much wrong I don’t know where to startThe audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 70 | The idea that someone is ever "asking for it" is disgusting. R*pe is about sick people, not their victims.I'm so glad the overton window is shifting thanks to MeToo and TimesUp, but there are still way too many people who victim blame. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:59 PM |
| 30 | Blocked my NVM of 6 years after he did this on my birthday yesterday.Girl he ain't even gum, good riddance | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 05:19 PM |
| 131 | In response to the post about whether or not LVM cause monthly cycle disturbances. Explanation in description 😖Wow next time you should be like gonna be like "I'm not mad that you can't keep it up for 3 hours, but you really need to tell me ahead of time because I feel robbed." He can literally go and eat a bag of dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 02:50 PM |
| 67 | Thought you ladies might like this oneOne time a man mansplained what mansplaining was. My soul left my body. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:00 AM |
| 39 | Mum: “Still single?”Honestly these are just embarrassing. Imagine being 30 and thinking that this is how you want to present yourself. I feel second hand embarrassment for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 06:51 AM |
| 138 | Every time I see a before 1 year HVM post. Girl na na, please reconsider. He's just doing the bare minimum.Men set the bar so low that basic human decency gets praised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 06:27 AM |
| 14 | What are some high effort dates that your boyfriends are doing during the pandemic?We’ve had so much fun during the pandemic. I planned an entire picnic date where I created a cheeseboard. He brought me to his rooftop and planned dinner by the city skyline (ordered in sushi and wine) where we danced on the roof. We also went to the beach back when it was warmer, and we’ve done BBQ (he cooked and prepped everything). On lazy days in, he draws a bath for the both of us by candlelight. The pandemic in the city has forced us to be really creative, but we’ve tried things we normall… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/20 07:02 PM |
| 18 | Love when men stalk your reddit profile just to comment abusive stuff on all your posts because you post here. It only further proves our point!Apparently his account is SaTiRe - aka, he's a reddit lurking Schrodinger's asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:51 AM |
| 57 | Which of you saved this girl?Sis buy 100 Gucci purses with that bread | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:13 AM |
| 29 | Hopefully she trusts her instinct to get outExactly. The men who would want you to sacrifice career opportunities are the same men who don't appreciate the sacrifice you made and will likely complain when you are doing less for the family financially. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:07 AM |
| 33 | Ladies, expecting a father to support his child financially is LITERALLY MURDERTHIS. As if all the checks and balances to ensure that the kids are safe are consistently failing. Maybe do some self reflection, Jared. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 08:00 AM |
| 9 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?THEY ALWAYS PROJECT | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:54 AM |
| 9 | What is the funniest thing a LVM has said to you?“No one will ever love you as much as I love you.” Two different NVM said that to me too! I feel like that's their go-to line for emotional manipulation and abuse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 07:52 AM |
| 18 | Candace Owens is so cringyLmao Harry Styles is heterophobic and thus indirectly responsible for the death of straight men. Why does this woman have a platform. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:52 PM |
| 7 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?Girl same. Med school has slim pickings lmao. The field attracts sociopaths because of how competitive/prestigious it's perceived to be. And the training is so tough that any empathy you have gets beat out of you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 06:53 PM |
| 17 | This is why you don't discuss any sexual trauma or just anything from your past with males. His GF was abused by 10 guys and he has the audacity to refer to her as "promiscuous" due to that.I can't believe he thinks her being coerced into sex is her being "promiscuous" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:50 PM |
| 177 | "My incel friend told my wife he'd r*pe her if he could and I did nothing. Now she's upset for some reason! What have I done wrong?""I was seriously taken aback and upset at her calling me names" enraged me. Lmao it's ok when my friends sexually harass her, but calling me names? That crosses the line! /s | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:49 PM |
| 133 | geee i wonder whyGoLdDiGgErS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 05:25 AM |
| 17 | How was your experience dating/marrying Engineers?Y'all my ex was a ZVM and is now going to be a cardiologist. He's a literal rapist and I have no idea how he is allowed to practice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 72 | Ladies, this is why we stay away from older men.I appreciate the honesty from him. At least he admits he’s predatory | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:55 PM |
| 17 | Let's sing a song: WOMEN🎶ARE🎶NOT🎶YOUR🎶THERAPISTS.My reaction to that text would've been "Oh no! Anyway..." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 04:20 PM |
| 143 | The jig is up on older NVMI dated someone who was 28 when I was 20. I'm not even 28 now, and I could never imagine dating someone who is 20. There is nothing I have in common with a 20yo. Which goes to show that older men who exclusively date young girls are doing it because: They themselves are immature and share the same mental age as people who are young and inexperienced (which is sad) They are manipulative and want easy control, and women their own age have too much life experience to fall for those tactics (which i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 10:02 PM |
| 57 | So fun to see scrotes get frustrated when they realize they cant invade our space. 🤭And they liken us to red pill. These men are bad at analogies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 03:54 PM |
| 12 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.The difference is that they do nice things with the ulterior motive of getting sex or getting in a relationship with them. Whereas women do nice things because it's somehow just expected of us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/20 07:01 AM |
| 97 | Trauma cycle on our gender....Society has conditioned us to not be assertive. From a young age, our boundaries are continually tested, and we are punished for being firm in our boundaries ("don't be mean", "he probably didn't mean it", "you're overreacting"). Society literally trains women to be pushovers in our own lives. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:26 PM |
| 9 | Having standards and boundaries and sticking to them, even when it’s tough, means you’ll always win in the long run.Seriously, if someone can't even make the cut as a FRIEND, then yeet him out of your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:22 PM |
| 17 | Having standards and boundaries and sticking to them, even when it’s tough, means you’ll always win in the long run.LADIES - Someone once told me "If you can't even imagine being friends with him, then don't be his girlfriend" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:18 PM |
| 11 | Where to buy rings?Catbird is a Brooklyn brand that I always recommend people, and they have 15% off today! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:15 PM |
| 457 | I’m glad more and more women are being more aware of how 50/50 is a mythYou still have 128 hours/week to cook your own fucking meal, Brian. The way the rest of us adults do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 10:13 PM |
| 112 | LVM pushes woman to the brink of insanity on thanksgiving so she throws the WHOLE turkey out of the balcony and has a breakdown.I hate when men are like “I didn’t ask for you to do xyz” after they DIRECTLY BENEFIT from xyz. What kind of ungrateful mentality is that? He can go get aborted. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 05:46 PM |
| 82 | “I hate gold diggers! Women who take advantage of men! EQuALity” things LVM sayIn my experience, it’s always the poorest mofos who are afraid of gold diggers coming for their money. Like sorry dude, but you ain’t shit and no one wants you for your $125k in NYC lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 04:16 AM |
| 37 | He's more concerned with his ego that with the fact he has never made his girlfriend come... 🤦🏼♀️...how did he see her texts tho? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 92 | Because it really is important for teh meNz to be comfortable.Yeah why the fuck should she change her name and her childrens' names when he's literally a BOYFRIEND? Also, she's probably published numerous papers under her name and it would be a pain in the ass for her academic career. But HiS FeELiNgS! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:43 PM |
| 91 | A woman went on air and listed her prefrance about the man of her dreams.......Apparently a woman having standards is too much for men to handle lmao. Snowflakes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 07:38 PM |
| 13 | Scrote from ELEVEN years ago just rang my bell unannounced to "reconnect" 🤮Yeah what a total fucking creep! Who has the time to show up in front of someone's home UNANNOUNCED right before the holidays during a global pandemic? Stay safe! Maybe get a restraining order, you never know what he's capable of! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 08:17 PM |
| 33 | they don't even hide it (a collection)Good point 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 04:07 PM |
| 136 | they don't even hide it (a collection)They’re pretending like their disingenuous ways is EqUaLiTy, as if they don’t complain when a woman does the exact same thing to them. Fuck em | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/20 07:29 AM |
| 25 | How has she stayed for 4 years of this... NVM. I have no words.Honestly if he plays video games all day the least he could do is try to be a streamer and monetize his hobby, but he doesn't even have the brain cells to do that. What a complete waste of oxygen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 11:42 PM |
| 44 | Men want confident women? Or insecure women they can exploit? Help me work this out.I think strong, HVM want strong women who can hold their own, but insecure LVM want insecure women who they can more easily control and manipulate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:19 PM |
| 86 | Reason #104730194740107583947365 some men really suckI just snorted out my water. Imagine being so dumb that you need to cripple half the population's opportunities just so your dumb ass can go to college lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 11:18 PM |
| 14 | Poor men who have to go through this TERRIBLE thing of not having their international mens day recognised...us women will never understand the DEPTHS of this oppression...+ a shitty video of those amazing women privileges that make oppression we have been facing for centuries all worth it... eh...I cannot roll my eyes back far enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 11:46 PM |
| 25 | If you could go back and give your 23-year old self dating advice, what would it be ?ACTIONS 👏🏼SPEAK 👏🏼LOUDER 👏🏼THAN 👏🏼WORDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/20 04:01 PM |
| 75 | Ladies in relationship with HVM, where did you guys meet?We ran in the same social circles and had passing conversations for months, but didn't really know each other well. He asked me to go to a really nice speakeasy bar with him (as a "nondate") and we clicked surprisingly well. Later, he asked me on a picnic date where he essentially planned everything. A week later, I travelled abroad for 2months, and we stayed in touch the entire time. When I came back to the states, he asked to be official. My advice is to work on yourself. I was not looking for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 10:36 PM |
| 203 | Imagine this level of gaslighting, diverting and blameshifting."I was depressed and felt extremely guilty for a good while despite never doing anything" You mean, how women are made to feel all the time by society? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 07:14 PM |
| 207 | Why "loneliness" and "depression" excuses for men make me angry - a rantWe live in a victim-blaming society. Women are the victims of violent and sexual crime from male counterparts but we are expected to understand the LoNeLy MaN's perspective and be empathetic towards his hardships because of society's ExPeCtAtIoNs on men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/20 06:01 PM |
| 46 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highHonestly these people don't have jobs. Who has enough time in a day to mass spam strangers and mass report reddit pages if they have a career? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:46 PM |
| 58 | r/AgainstHateSubreddits plunges further into hatred and misogyny, calls women "scum" and "piece of shit", says we deserve to be paid less than men and are unsuitable for management, implies women should be used as incubators by low income men to keep the birth rate highRight? I'm confused. When have we suggested males are inherently immoral or defective? Pretty sure we specify that NVMs/LVMs are immoral. A lot of the time because these LVM are abusive and do immoral things. But ok, us shitting on shit-worthy men is us justifying abuse. Sure Jan. These are the same kinds of men who scream NoT aLL MeN, but we literally differentiate between different types of men in our tags, therefore, we AREN'T GENERALIZING ALL MEN, yet these men are generalizing themselves...… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/11/20 01:41 PM |
| 64 | While women are busy talking about real problems, men discuss why we shouldn't have women's day..."Men can have breast cancer too"Breast cancer is the most common cancer in women. He could've tried to raise awareness for prostate cancer, which is the most common cancer for men, but instead chose to harp on male incidence of breast cancer. Which goes to show that his comment was never about men's issues in the first place but rather a way to undermine women's issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 18 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.Yeah I remember reading this post months ago and being so enraged at the comments. I read a lot of stuff on reddit but this post really stuck with me. Men in the comments were like BuT YoU DiD BaIt AnD SwiTcH. Um, no, she had a bad experience because her partner is insensitive to her needs. And she has a right to decide when she wants to stop performing sexual acts at any point without providing a reason. That doesn't give this piece of shit guy the right to break marriage vows and spend joint m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:30 PM |
| 90 | While women are busy talking about real problems, men discuss why we shouldn't have women's day..."Men can have breast cancer too"Lol I'm literally in med school and we spent 3min in a 1hr lecture on male breast cancer because it's so rare. Just another man who can't let women have the spotlight | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 08:25 PM |
| 380 | Imagine the audacity of thinking 30k is enough to justify this behavior.If my husband acted like he was hot shit who had a free pass to essentially cheat after bringing home $30k, I would literally laugh directly in his face. It's always the men who aren't shit who think they can pull this kind of bullshit when they have the slightest amount of power or money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/20 04:11 PM |
| 22 | Single mothers are the new witches of society. When in doubt blame the single mother. This is why I will never birth a child to continue a society who hates me so much.Also, even if it's true that single mother households have worse outcomes (which I haven't done the research for myself), the reasons are probably due to the lack of opportunity for women in the workplace to advance the way a male counterpart would, and thus children of single mothers would have fewer resources. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 02:39 PM |
| 15 | Great advice for men on the r/AskMen subreddit. The burden of proof is on you, and you only have other men to blame for that.Right? why shouldn't women have expectations for the people we date? Men also have expectations? I'm sorry that it's tiring for you to meet social expectations, boo hoo. I was enraged that this post got so much traction. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/20 11:59 PM |
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