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Agreed. I think they can generate it to feed their ego as well as get what they want.
/r/seduction25/09/22 05:04 AM
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Um, not necessarily. Once, I was a full time student and was working long hours at a mentally and physically demanding job, even if a guy came up to me and he was the man of my dreams, I would not have time to even get to know or talk to him because I was so busy.
/r/seduction06/03/22 05:59 PM
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Woah woah woah buddy!!!! I bet if you came up to me to chat, I’d speak to you. Sounds like you gotta ease into it, and I don’t mean ease into talking, I mean ease yourself into feeling comfortable talking to someone. People love (GENUINE) compliments and it can be a great way to start a conversation 😁❤️
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:44 AM
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Some women aren’t. High body counts are turn offs to me. I prefer lower.
/r/seduction16/10/21 10:47 PM
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Rejection isn’t personal. Stop taking it personal, and you’ll see how much better you feel. Yeah that cute girl isn’t attracted to you, so what? Who knows who she was on the inside or if you guys would even be compatible? That girl said you’re ugly, so what? Is her word law? Maybe she’s insecure about her looks and projecting it onto you. Your bro’s just said in order to get a girl you must fit into this box (jacked, perfect smile, tall, attractive) but you don’t have those things, so what? Thos…
/r/seduction10/06/21 02:57 PM
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Honestly, most women I have talked to around my age 1. Don’t even care for men who are jacked 2. Don’t date men who are jacked 3. Don’t fantasize about being with men who are jacked. Personally, I don’t think it matters as much as men think it does to us. Like you said, you don’t have any of those things you’re doing great. Your sunroof analogy is hilarious tho😂😂
/r/seduction02/06/21 01:04 PM
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Exactly! Supposedly it can take up to 20 minutes for a woman’s g-spot to engorge
/r/seduction30/05/21 08:45 PM
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Dont buy a Tub of 8 to 16 oz for more than 10 dollars. It’s a scam. I have never used any other face wash other than this for years. It also is a great shampoo and body wash
/r/seduction30/05/21 02:02 AM
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It works man 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽thanks for the testimony
/r/seduction29/05/21 11:30 PM
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Yes, very. Using body scrubs (or even a nylon African net for washing) will have your skin smooth and exfoliated. Taking care of your body is for everyone and manicures and pedicures makes a difference.
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:03 PM
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Shea butter is amazing!!! 100% natural, very thick, lasts forever, and a little goes a long way. I use Shea butter and African black soap only and I always get compliments.
/r/seduction29/05/21 07:01 PM
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There’s nothing more unattractive than looking at someone’s face an all you see is grease (from lack of care), blackheads, scars, pimples (from lack of care), and whiteheads😢 skin care is very important, especially to many women. I have noticed that a lot of men can get away with using their 10-1 body wash, shampoo, conditioner, car degreaser, drain cleaner as a face wash as well and their skin looks great.
/r/seduction29/05/21 06:59 PM
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How should I not lay my cards out on the table? How do I make conversation without revealing too much but still showing my personality? I struggle with knowing what I should reveal vs. what I should apart from the obvious of addresses, workplaces, past traumas, and family issues. I was never taught how to safely engage with men or at least how to protect myself while still getting to know them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/21 05:34 AM
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Better yet f*ck their hand all day into oblivion and erectile dysfunction
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/04/21 04:05 PM
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Oh no not the spanx😪😪😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:44 PM
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Shlubby 😂😂😂😂that made me holler 😂😂😂it’s true tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 11:44 PM
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So I just never trust anyone? And my only confidant is me and my therapist?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/21 11:32 PM
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My goal for when in a relationship: “If you cannot show me before we have sex that you can rub my clit and make me cum, we are done.” If no effort is shown, no care to learn is shown, focus on his own pleasure is shown , and/or offense taken is shown, I am leaving without a second thought
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:14 PM
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I make myself cum all the time, it really isn’t that hard to rub a clit correctly 🤷🏽‍♀️For the gender that seems to make everything happen, none of them seem to really know how to make us squirm in our panties😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 01:12 PM
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and exploitation of people in order to make more money than you’d ever willingly pay them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:42 PM
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Literally that question “well what have women done?” is literally made by the most misogynistic, ignorant, idiotic, stuck on stupid scrotes. Maybe if women could freely express themselves and actually live their own lives outside of marriage, be allowed to go to whatever schools and institutions they wanted, be able to make money with their art without having to pretend to be male, then they MIGHT see. Might because these are the same men that think men and women are equally scared to walk out a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 12:39 PM
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I completely agree!!! Especially with the trauma bonding. Men think woman with bad, abusive man= all women like bad men. When really women have been conditioned to accept abuse and many of them have been abused and have never received the pure love they deserve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 01:54 AM
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The first part reminded me of my younger teenage self (I’m 19). I wanted sooo bad to be fuckable and cute for these young assholes just so I could get validation and “be loved.” Looking back, those boys had/have nothing I want and it would have been a complete waste of time!!! Growth happens as you really work on yourself❤️ fuck the scrotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:50 PM
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Right!! I stopped watching greys anatomy for this same reason. Why the fuck would you beg a man to love you when he on a woman who he is still married to ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 04:35 PM
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Yes, but the emergency cash would mainly be for me and any kids that we could have in case my husband cheated, abandoned us, died, got hurt, los his job, or anything that would impact him bringing in an income of some sort. Not for handbags and clothes and shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/21 11:14 AM
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Exactly. Quick question: would it be wrong for me to have a secret stash of money in case the relationship ends tho ? Not a separate income or pretending to be broke or lying, just keeping an emergency fund in case things hit the fan and I have to leave on a whim (cause you never know with these men). Someone told me this was wrong and unfair to my husband because I’m expecting for it to end.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:40 PM
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I talked about this with some women I know. They said they’d ask questions and then see what he wants to do about it. As in “why did you hide this from me?” “if he’s gonna give me money or does he want to leave?” and overall just questions stemming from curiosity. I’m over here like I’d divorce him😂 There’s no point in staying with someone and there’s rarely any justifiable reasons for what he did and they’re telling me “you can’t just divorce over things like this you have to work them out” and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 12:46 AM
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This is fucking perfect!!!!! You are a queen 😃😃❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 10:22 PM
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Listening while doing homework!!! So excited!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/21 12:18 AM
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There’s a my strange addiction episode about a man who has sex with his car, soooooo yeah....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 07:10 PM
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How dare you ask such a thing of them? How dare you ask them to see themselves and other men through the same lens they view women, children, and animals ? You’re asking them to live with the unlivable. for God’s sake, don’t you care about how having sex with other men will destroy their reputation and self esteem? How they will lose the approval of other men? How they don’t actually know shit about themselves and use women to justify their existence and manliness ? You are 200% correct tho, the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/21 06:48 PM
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When will men stop taking the word “men” as “all men”? When will they see that men is always used a general group of the same sex/gender until stated otherwise? On another note, I loved this video. It speaks high levels of truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 12:16 PM
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A quick reason: a woman could please another woman way easier and faster than a man could ever please a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 04:35 AM
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Have you heard those men that say “women have never contributed much to society. Look at the art, look at the sciences, look at math, look at the leaders, there are no women because women suck and are too emotional and can’t handle the world like us men,” when really women have been excluded, pushed out, and even had to pose as men to get their work and contributions heard and seen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:34 AM
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Usually “women are not funny. women are stupid. Women have never made huge impacts on society. women are gold diggers. Women are cheaters” “AWALT, they treat us so horribly”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:30 AM
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How women are so often re traumatized when they come forward about being raped mattered so little to some men I explained it to. They said, how else will she be tested for telling the truth🙁 there are truly sick men out here. I bet you they have wives, children, and no one knows how sick they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/21 04:27 AM
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Funny how white scripted complain about black history month when blacks built this country 😂without their forced/unpaid labor, there would be no United States as we know it today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 01:18 AM
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Yuppppp in steve Harvey’s “think like a man” he says men always do things with a plan in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 02:12 PM
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It’s disgusting that the world continues on like this. That a penis makes one “worthier.” Your comment about how men discount the experiences of you and other women is just like the men on Reddit. It’s disgusting how before they listen and sympathize with a woman they will criticize, invalidate, and shame her because she’s not supposed to have opinions. Whatever men started this patriarchy should be in the deepest fiery pits of hell bc 😒😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 10:21 PM
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I’ve come to the realization that relationships when you’re 18-25 are really just a waste. Especially anything that started in high school because most likely it will not last, and the fact that it won’t last is a good enough reason for me to be single
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/21 08:02 PM
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Who cares about Charles Dickens? He died in the 1870s so any argument using him as a source for the realities of women is invalid. They barely had rights when he was born. And black women were still enslaved up until 5 years before his death. You’re using the reality of a man over the many realities of women😂 They’re modern issues because the men and women suffering from patriarchal trauma have passed them down unknowingly.You aren’t a woman, so you would never understand and neither would Charl…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:26 AM
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Women as a collective also go through lots of trauma at the hands of men. You saying it’s a phase devalues what it actually is. You probably won’t understand this but women are usually taught to serve men, their needs, their wants, and be good wives and housewives for their husbands. This can be the trauma that shows up as devaluing openness and intimacy. This coupled with lack of intimacy and openness in the family dynamic ends up creating an avoidant attachment. Many young women would have to …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:16 AM
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They’re attracted to avoidant men because anyone who has an anxious attachment style is usually attracted to avoidance (regardless of gender) due to the familiar nature of the relationship dynamic (mostly unconscious and subconscious due to trauma). So it’s people’s faults, but not exactly a conscious choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 09:57 AM
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LMFAOOOO YOU DID NOT JUST SAY THAT THIS IS NORMAL AND HEALTHY AND FUNNY😂😂😂 wtf is wrong with people and accepting man children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/03/21 10:31 PM
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Spoken from the mouth of a man who must not be aware of how many women aren’t taken seriously when they go to the police. But okay tell a woman who has just been raped/sexually assaulted to go to the cops when her body has just been violated and her safety has been threatened just to have invasive test preformed and the man still may not be charged.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:05 PM
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Exactly why I made this comment. They take them being men as trumping the experiences of women at the hands of atrocious men and it’s annoying. They wouldn’t last at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 04:56 PM
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Exactly. I feel like it’s loses it’s value if it’s just bc “oh I just like sex🤷🏽‍♀️” then you won’t value sex with me or sex with anyone else, so I’d rather just wait until someone with similar morals comes along.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:19 PM
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I agree. I feel like any man who has slept with a bunch of women would not value sex how I do, and this is for quite a few reasons. If you can have sex with 20+ women before me, how would you value sex with me? You obviously would not see it in a similar way compared to someone like me who has 0 partners and doesn’t want many partners to begin with. Also, It would also be why do you have sex? A lot of people with a lot of partners just see sex as something fun while I see it as deepening the con…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 01:10 PM
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It’s almost laughable that he made those points 😂 why the fuck should we care about men who are now evil because no woman loves them? Love yourself 😂😂😂😂 a lot of these men aren’t even healthy on the inside but want a woman to love them 😂most of the men that act like this are usually the biggest projectors and the most insecure men on the planet
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:34 PM
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How??? How is it exaggerated when people’s livelihoods are destroyed from it? What agenda are you referring to?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 12:29 PM
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Why would a guy tell you that he pressured a woman into sex???? Do you hear yourself!???
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:42 AM
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Ever notice how the pain of women is constantly invalidated over and over and over by men who just can’t see that rapists, sexual abusers, and manipulators exist at about a dime a damn dozen? And before anyone says anything about how men don’t actually do it, or women just hate men, or any of that, think about how many priests, police officers, government officials, and sport jocks there have been that are physically attractive and/or wealthy where they have still been rapists, sexual abusers, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:29 AM
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Easy. The millions of rapists in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 05:20 AM
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Men also be like “When she does ...., she’s limiting her options.” WHO TF CARES??? Those men were not worth it anyway and most of you were never worth it to begin with😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 12:41 PM
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Omg I know someone who wants their future man to be rude to anyone but her. She thinks it’s adorable, when that’s really enabling him to one day treat her the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:06 PM
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Then men don’t deserve sex at all. It’s a team effort or else it wouldn’t take two to tango. If you don’t put in the work or don’t want to, you can’t reap the rewards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 11:20 PM
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Honeyy i would ask if you are okay, but you don’t sound okay 😪
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:28 PM
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On another thread, a man told me that men are not obligated to make women orgasm and that women should take responsibilities for their orgasms. I wonder how many women are sadly with men who feel this way towards women and choose to vent it out online 😬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:15 PM
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You’re delusional. And a misogynistic asshole who just wants a fuckhole to listen to your problems. You want a wife but then go on to say being a mother is not hard work. Imagine being your wife where your husband demands that you suck dick every night even if you don’t like sucking dick, doesn’t think that the draining duties of motherhood is hard work, and just overall doesn’t even value women😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:19 PM
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At any time? That does not sound very human.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:13 PM
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Those options weren’t worth it anyway. Rule of a modern woman: “I do whatever I want despite if someone says ‘no man will want a woman who does ....’ because any man who doesn’t want me as I am isn’t a man that is worth my time.”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 02:03 PM
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Blame the woman for choosing the wrong man, but not the man for being wrong? You know some people don’t show their true colors till later right? God the misogyny 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:20 PM
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More and more women have been joining this train. Especially if you hear the term “I don’t need a man.” Ive heard a lot of people, mostly men, say that this phrase denotes their value to women when that isn’t true. “I don’t need a man” = “I don’t need a man to be happy, have money, have a stable and good career, get an education, live my life, and/or feel fulfilled with my life.” As a 19F, who was stressed about finding a relationship, I no longer care because I am happy with my friends, and mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:16 PM
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Did you just say that men are objects to women???Also, men are most likely judged on performance during sex because it’s very uncomfortable when it’s bad. Especially when he has the chance to finish, and then we’re lying there waiting for our turn, and then realizing he doesn’t care to give us a turn(happens extremely often to the point where I’ve heard more unsatisfied women than satisfied women)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/21 01:03 PM
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Unlike men, women can’t really feel penises that are small. Me dating a man with a small penis is denying myself the pleasure that I deserve 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 10:49 PM
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Men have said this about Ciara and her saying Russell. They say “women always want to date bad boys and become single mothers and then find a nice guy later when their prime years are over.” Like what the fuck is wrong with men and wanting women to stay damaged and broken over a man who was shitty and still shitty. They love to move on and find a “better” woman after they’ve done their child’s mother horrible, but would catch a stroke if that knock was on the other door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:15 PM
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This is why I’ve never agreed with the boost in plastic surgery in all of these women who are getting the same body when most of it is just insecurity from our shitty society. I’ve hated my body and thought it was disgusting before bc ppl (MAINLY BOYS AND MEN) said I was fat, ugly, unfuckable, and unproportional. How did I overcome this ? Realizing that people say things that are subjective to them and that I was hating myself over the opinions of others. These opinions that I repeated in my hea…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:51 PM
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Not when they don’t have power over them. That’s why so many men here seem to be upset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:31 AM
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It’s hilarious how women were just blamed in the comment you’re replying to😂 women are the cause of your porn addiction ? And not you for using porn as sex education when it isn’t a reflection of reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:26 AM
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I agree. Blaming women for lonely men is stupid. These women aren’t causing these men to be lonely and they aren’t forcing them to add their card information either. These “lonely” men do it to feel less lonely when it never will fill the void. Instead they must look inside and fix themselves from the inside. But when you’re buying nudes online to feel better, ofc you blame the product bc it’s easier than blaming yourself for why you feel you need to buy the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/21 09:22 AM
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I saw this thing about boundaries that says to not always give consequences. So that if they do it again you know that it was because they don’t really care and not because they’re afraid of you instilling those consequences.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 01:30 PM
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At my job (a shared gender less bathroom) the men ALWAYSSSS leave the toilet seat up. It works out in this case because I would never use the toilet seat or a shared public bathroom, so I just squat over the toilet seatless bowl and it’s easier. But at home???? Put that fucking seat DOWN😡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 05:12 PM
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I love to see it👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 03:27 PM
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Im disgusted by all the exchanges of energy from god knows who 🤢 there’s bound to be some devilish spiritual ties between him and those partners 🤢🤢400 is just sickening, what was he trying to feel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 09:45 PM
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Yeah most of them feel too inadequate compared to other men so they need someone who they “can” bully.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:51 PM
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I wouldn’t consider myself multilingual but I know enough to convince them that I don’t know English😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 06:00 PM
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This is why I don’t speak English to strange men. You will definitely get a “mi ingles es mierda” from meee
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:12 PM
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Literally 🤣🤣😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:09 PM
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NEVERRRR!!! Why would I be with a child??? I’m a grown ass woman who can thoroughly cleanse herself and take good care of herself!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 05:09 PM
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What is trp im so confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 09:24 PM
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Can you explain? I don’t know what this is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:32 PM
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I don’t even want to get married anymore. What are really the benefits???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:26 PM
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Excuse mistakes most of the words disappeared so I typed it without seeing any text.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:42 AM
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I watched a show once and one of the men said “men emotionally connect through sex.” This made perfect sense to me. Men are always taught this toxic masculinity of “don’t cry” “don’t show feelings” “showing emotion is weak,” “emotions don’t get you anywhere.” So they grow up seeing that sex can make them feel validated. Someone who sees them, likes how they look, someone they can be vulnerable with, and fill their egos. Most likely “fulfill “ all the things they were not allowed to indulge in. S…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 12:41 AM
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One thing people seem to ignore is the type of people they’re fucking when it comes to casual sex. They would be quick to cut off a toxic family member, or friend, but they’ll have casual sex with LVM solely because of the lack of emotional connection. To me it doesn’t make sense. If you wouldn’t want negativity in your life, why add it to your sex life?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/21 03:41 PM
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They’re only “rational” because their toxic patriarchy has backfired on themselves, forcing them to suppress their emotions and be “manly.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:29 PM
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Healing yourself and your inner child. Loving yourself and starting with self compassion helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 08:46 PM
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GIRLLLL THIS SOUNDS HUGEEEE TO ME!!! AMAZING JOB
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 03:21 PM
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I feel like a lot of the reasons why teens date and have sex is because of their own issues and finding a way to fix them while “having fun.” A lot of people associate sex with some form of love/intimacy, a lot of these teens may have neither and will have sex to get the love/intimacy they think will help them, but they do not want the attachment or commitment that often come with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 01:47 AM
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Omg thank you for this!!!! I ran straight from the start once he started telling me about all this personal stuff and accusing me of lying when we barely knew each other. You are very wise, and your advice is appreciated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 05:21 AM
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Ummmmm they’re all pedophilic???? Those men are sickos and I can’t believe they’re trying to normalize that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 02:29 PM
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OMGG yesss!!! I used the bathroom after a family member who smokes cigarettes and it smelled like something was dying🤢🤢🤢I know poop smells, but this smell? It was like toxic waste😒 Over the years, I’ve watched her voice decline and her congestion worsen😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 09:17 PM
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Yesssss!!!! I loveeee this for you ❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 02:26 AM
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Wow!!!! This is f*cking inspiring!!! Thank you for sharing your story. It is greatly appreciated on this side. I will definitely try my best to put more focus on myself and my goals and wants and needs in order to grow my confidence. It is interesting that we have similar stories. I, too was bullied at home and at school and I was called “ugly” so much at school and I had no one to affirm me at home. I was also teased about things I couldn’t control like my butt sizes It was horrible because I c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 06:34 AM
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Can you share some of your tips? Sadly, I often feel insecure about my looks and feel less than because of them. More like the “how will a man of value love me if I look like this?” I’ve been trying to boost my confidence and tell myself that my looks shouldn’t matter because I am great without them, but it’s hard to believe. I’m still slowly learning that my worth doesn’t depend on male validation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:35 PM
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I’m thankful for the wisdom and advice presented in these threads. I’m a F(18) and I have never been in a relationship, and I have considered myself to have bad luck with boys (mainly because they’ve never been interested in me or it hasn’t gone anywhere, but not anymoreeeee). This group has taught me so much about boundaries and sex and men that I am glad no boys/men have come my way. It’s disgusting how overly confident some of them are that they can’t even see their own flaws.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 05:50 PM
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