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1

What a bitter person. What pissed you off that you're just going back and being a dick to people on year old posts? 😂
/r/seduction14/09/22 06:50 PM
88

Honestly, meet women off the clock. Use this time as an opportunity to learn to talk to women without being a creep and then go out and meet them other places. I do NOT want to be hit on by my Uber driver.. and it happens on 1/5 of my Uber trips.
/r/seduction02/08/22 01:06 AM
5

I think as a baseline the quickest way to find out is to actually meet in person. I can't tell you the number of times I clicked with someone while messaging and just realized I wasn't into them when we actually met. Of course after that it gets more hazy, people might lie about interest. Etc.
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:13 PM
1

I was friends with one of those guys. Beautiful house, prodigal career, host of eccentric hobbies he'd mastered, absolutely terrified of women. He's also worried that any women he does find might not be interested in him for him, but just for his wealth. He also keeps inconsistent hours and would be unwilling to prioritize a partner.
/r/seduction08/06/22 01:52 AM
6

Great points! I'm a highly educated woman and yeah.. the guys in my income/education bracket have a ton of options. And on the flip side, guys get insecure when they realize I might be more educated or make more than them.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:01 PM
3

I think it's definitely not usually intentionally manipulative. But when it happens a few times in a row it starts feeling like you are being manipulated, even if the particular person actually had good intentions and just discovered they weren't interested. I don't take it to heart. If you think about it, most people have sex early on AND also figure out they're not that interested early on. It's not a cause and effect, they just often seem correlated.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:56 PM
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It's easy to get caught up in the excitement. Then when a few days have passed, maybe other people have expressed interest. Maybe your communication hasn't been whatever level she expected. And so she lost interest. On the flip side, as a woman, I feel pretty similarly about men. Not necessarily after dates, but often it seems like they're really interested until they get laid and then their interest fades. This feels more manipulative than unstable though
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:11 PM
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So hitting on people in uniform is a no go. Can you imagine how a male police officer would get torn to shreds for the power dynamics of hitting on women in uniform... Second cops aren't very popular right now. The institution needs serious reform. If you are a cop and somehow are center to left, it's gonna be hard to find anyone with your political affiliation willing to date a cop. Third, weed and recreational drugs are very popular. People don't want to get close to people who might get them …
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:49 PM
9

I think a lot of people are just waiting for someone to ask them about themselves and take genuine interest in the response. It's really easy to get jaded. A ton of people romanticize toxic behaviors and unhealthy relationships. But people who sincerely demonstrate their interest and communicate directly often do really well. I always have trouble when it seems like guys are trying to prove themselves. I want a partner, and someone who respects me, not someone with a chip on their shoulder.
/r/seduction27/04/22 07:02 PM
3

They probably gave you their numbers thinking that you're in a class together and can work together...
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:29 PM
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Seems like she felt like things were moving too fast. Instead of go over for a booty call, she deferred to a public event. The way you talk about this girl is horrible. If you're not into her, don't string her along. I'm reading some insecurity between the lines despite your ego. It feels like you're using her looks to diminish her so that if this is a rejection, you have something to fall back in. Most people aren't just trying to use other people for clout. They want to hangout with people who…
/r/seduction18/03/22 03:01 PM
3

I just talk to everyone at the gym. The people climbing next to you, the people who just hopped off that climb you loved, the people looking for a climb. Just talk to them all. If your gym has autobelays or a belay matching board you can invite people to climb with you.
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:10 AM
2

Well it seems like things are escalating and pretty quickly.. is it possible that you're just impatient? If it were me I'd want to sleep with this nice cool guy I've been seeing, but I'd be worried he was only interested in using me for sex. Two dates is like nothing in terms of getting to know someone. And you've already made her orgasm. If I were her I'd be thinking "I don't want to have sex too soon, but things are feeling really promising here, I know he's decent in bed if he's made me finis…
/r/seduction24/02/22 05:49 PM
0

Find someone else who's more interested. First guy will then come around /s
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:04 PM
3

Women don't actively hit on or cold approach most men. I think the disconnect here is that gay men are comfortable being the aggressor and women are less comfortable with that. Good news is you're probably reasonably conventionally attractive, and you just need to get out of your comfort zone with approaching women.
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:22 PM
7

Go for people more your age? I'm 25 and 21 year olds look like babies. You could be the hottest 19yo in the world and I still wouldn't be interested. Maybe grow a beard if you wanna look a bit older.
/r/seduction26/01/22 03:58 PM
5

Sounds like honest and effective communication, oldest trick in the book.
/r/seduction23/01/22 10:44 PM
1

Sounds like a good plan, it might also be useful to text the day before.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:47 PM
1

Nice! congrats! With three dates planned there's no pressure if one doesn't work out. That's the perfect situation, you can be cool and laid back as a cucumber. Remember to communicate with them before the dates so you both know they're still on. Especially if you're worried about her flaking.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:24 PM
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You have other dates. They probably won't all flake. I wouldn't double book, but I would potentially talk to some friends and make plans for if that date falls through. That way, you can still go on the date, but have a fun distracting activity if it doesn't happen. I'd tell her "I'm sorry I made plans for date", and then suggest the next available time.
/r/seduction19/01/22 06:13 PM
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I was in a 4 year relationship. We moved to a new state and built a life together. I made new friends and a strong support network. He did not. Eventually he experienced a mental health crisis. We were both more alone than we should have been because he had no external support other than me. I had friends and they cared about me and by extension him, but he didn't have anyone of his own to support him. Now I make it a point to only date people with friends. You never know when you're going to ne…
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:19 PM
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You want to text especially about plans. And probably to say you had a nice time and look forward to the next date. You don't have to text non-stop. She probably thought you hit it and quit it and then you cancelling plans just confirmed that after she spent a week bracing for that.
/r/seduction18/01/22 06:05 PM
9

Yes, taller girls struggle. Being a petite woman is super fetishized.
/r/seduction11/01/22 06:10 AM
1

Compliment the people you do like rather than insulting people for their deficits.
/r/seduction01/09/21 03:55 PM
7

You've made a lot of assumptions in your post. I'm 24f, and I love sex. But I'm not dating to get sex, it's pretty easy for me to get sex if I want it. I'm looking for partnership, and quite frankly people who are willing to put in the effort for good sex. When I flake on someone, especially if they want to hangout at their house for our first meeting I assume they're looking for sex, and I'm going to have to fend them off.
/r/seduction27/08/21 12:17 AM
2

I consider it a sexual act but not sex. Tbh if a potential long term partner was demanding any sort of information about my previous partners beyond maybe "do I know any of them" I wouldn't entertain it. I don't count people who I've just blown as part of my body count, but I also don't keep a list of my body count to begin with.
/r/seduction11/08/21 12:21 AM
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you said any other man would consider that sex...
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:47 PM
1

Is that true though? You receive a blowjob and brag to your friends that you got laid?
/r/seduction10/08/21 10:09 PM
1

yeah, over "if you wanna maybe hangout sometime I'd probably be down"
/r/seduction04/08/21 12:12 AM
1

Too contingent on her. "Let's hangout sometime"
/r/seduction03/08/21 02:53 PM
2

Hmmm, I dunno, it's hard to start over, but I've been where I live for three years, and it's a world of difference to actually have a strong friend group. And even so it takes work to make things happen.
/r/seduction29/07/21 02:20 AM
3

Sounds like you need to make new friends
/r/seduction28/07/21 11:27 PM
2

I think find a good mix of activities, solo/small group/large group which you feel comfortable and happy doing. One of the relatively profound things I heard about dating is that people are trying to find people whose lives they fit neatly into. For me this means that people when they appraise you as a dating option are actually looking to try and see what their life would be like with you and in turn what interesting activities they'd be doing. With the activities that you list, there are some …
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:53 PM
1

Seek out events about the things you like and try to bond with the people there. Go to a jazz bar or a show that you would want to see and try and make friends.
/r/seduction22/07/21 12:54 AM
1

Maybe.. usually people who are active will link their instagram anyways. I mean.. who am I missing out on? the people who decide that they're not interested when I establish a tiny boundary? I'm ok with missing out on those people. There are hundreds of people online dating near me and more to meet in person. It sucks if I miss out on that one perfect person, but I haven't met a perfect person OLD, and I have had people get my number or Snapchat and instantly turn to harassment.
/r/seduction02/06/21 08:35 PM
1

I'd love to see an example of your conversation! What you describe sounds a lot better than what I usually see though. It usually ends up being overly sexual and or a way for a dude to deflect his "shyness" or a weird fix for a comment he perceived didn't go over well. Like dudes will message something a little weird but fine, and then wait 5 minutes, and anxiety spiral into their internal thoughts about how I'm really attractive and their comments must be weirding me out. It ends up being like …
/r/seduction02/06/21 07:19 PM
1

I agree with this, I don't really think the venue text/insta/snap matters so much as just getting a meetup.
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:35 PM
1

Does that actually work? Everyone whose started roleplaying at me on an app comes across super weird and incel-y to me. It's cool that it's been working for you, but it's literally one of the cringe things my friends complain about happening.
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:34 PM
1

Super interesting! I 24f don't give out my number or snap/insta before meeting cause I feel it's not super safe, and usually when that happens I don't end up actually ever meeting up with the person. Instead I end up getting dick pics and harassment. It's awesome that it's working for you though! maybe I'll have to reconsider
/r/seduction02/06/21 06:32 PM
1

My guess, you're not being physically assertive enough. People being nice is a bare minimum, but I want the my partner to be showing sexual interest. You do that by breaking physical barriers early and in non threatening ways. If a guy hasn't touched me at all on a first date, I assume it's not going anywhere. Not because he's not interested, but because it's hard to go from not touching to touching.
/r/seduction28/04/21 04:34 PM
3

Maybe dating advice?
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:29 PM
2

Or they need to subtly manipulate the men surrounding them into asking them out, because to ask a guy out is often seen as needy obsessive or somehow devalues the girl
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:29 PM
3

Facebook and social media likes are not flirtation. Obviously don't be a creep and like like every single one of her photos but sure she posted them she probably wants some amount of attention and liking them is fine. Do not mistake this for flirtation or any sort of meaningful communication it just means that you liked her photo. I might wait until some other people have liked the photos and see whether or not a majority is hearts or likes I would feel a little bit uncomfortable being the only …
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:56 PM
1

I think that usually it means that you can't consistently rely on them to want the same things as you or to want what they are telling you that they will want. Filling* you end up finding people in the groups you're with, there are gaps that make sense and people end up filling them. I think it's just about promises. I don't think there's one uniform thing. I'm looking for someone who cares about me for me, and also wants to have fun sex, and also is passionate about their hobbies and hopefully …
/r/seduction14/04/21 01:10 AM
1

I think generally confidence is attractive. It's hard to be in relationships with wishy-washy people because you don't know whether you're going to be able to rely on them. For me I try and think of the characteristics that end up being unattractive in other people and generally seeming aimless or listless is unattractive in my book. I think relationships are just about feeling social niches really. That being said I think the most fulfilling relationships feel like partnerships where you're wor…
/r/seduction13/04/21 04:31 AM
2

It's not that the extremes are important, it's just that in the extremes mentioned, the advice isn't contradictory, because it's for two different scenarios. Some level of a balance is important, it's just that two much of a mixture comes off confused and wishy-washy. The balance comes in when the super assertive person isn't too creepy or demanding, and when the aloof guy does in fact follow up occasionally
/r/seduction13/04/21 03:15 AM
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I mean not really, your example said four things that essentially said the same things you find this woman attractive the attraction makes you want to sleep with her you talk to her about those things. Instead try something like "hey beautiful I couldn't help but talk to you when I saw insert something about her outfit that shows that you guys may have a similar interest."
/r/seduction12/04/21 10:13 PM
19

A lot of it is about charisma. And not saying things in an oafish way
/r/seduction12/04/21 06:34 PM
1

Kinda both probably.
/r/seduction12/04/21 06:33 PM
8

It's not contradictory, it's talking about two extremes.
/r/seduction12/04/21 06:33 PM
1

I mean... Tbh that sounds fine
/r/seduction06/04/21 08:43 PM
-10

Ego driven.. Don't give a fuck
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:09 PM
17

And trying hard is a bad thing?
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:08 PM
6

I'm confused here... Putting forth effort towards sex is "try hard"...??? I understand that some women might not be into it.. I'm not after a weekend of camping lol But trying hard is good
/r/seduction06/04/21 01:08 PM
2

Use your job as a way to practice talking to people in a warm welcoming and friendly way that ends up being flirtatious. I 24f just had a great conversation with the dude who is scooping me ice cream turns out he's 18 and in high school but he laid the charm on hard and it was really fun conversation. You should work on being friendly and approachable and not creepy through your job but don't hit on people just practice actually communicating. You've got plenty of time and as the pandemic stops …
/r/seduction04/04/21 06:33 PM
4

Good job! I like how your comments were on things other than their physical appearance. I'm a little bit confused though this is a group about seduction it seems like maybe you didn't release seduce anyone?
/r/seduction02/04/21 03:42 PM
3

Good job! That sounds like a really wholesome interaction!
/r/seduction29/03/21 03:23 PM
3

Agreed. Occasionally the first message on a dating app will be something insulting and I always wonder if they're just assholes or are assholes who've been trained that that shit works. Either way, I'm not interested in dudes who feel it's appropriate to make fun of someone they're pursuing.
/r/seduction15/01/21 06:27 PM
3

Yes.. and no. Banter can be charming and bring people together. Miscalculated banter or accidentally being an asshole can do the opposite. Then also there's a class of guys which practice negging which is essentially insulting a woman to get her attention and making her more insecure so she deserves your approval. I think intentional negging is incredibly shitty. But being able to interact with women and treat them as humans is incredibly attractive abeit a low bar.
/r/seduction15/01/21 04:34 PM
3

If telling someone that they should be nice to get women is all it takes to turn them into an incel, then they were already basically an incel who felt entitled to women's bodies. Your point about it being about more than just being nice stands though.
/r/seduction06/01/21 07:26 PM
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