So recently I’ve been super focused on myself. Cut off all the girls I was talking to, hit the gym real hard and focused on my money. I go out with my friends and most of the night I’m just enjoying it casually and not making any movements, just literally drinking and dancing/random platonic conversations. Outside of the club towards the end, I’d usually light a cigarette and wait for my friends to come out and in the meantime just casually chat with anyone in my vicinity. So usually a girl would come up to me and ask for a cigarette and I’d start chatting her up there. Somewhere in the conversation, the girl would always bring up “what are you looking for then?” and in the most natural and un phased way I would reply “I absolutely do not want anything serious and whatever fun comes my way I make the most of it”. Girls will usually respond with “so you’re trying to fuck?” And I’ll say “yes”. And somehow this works and I score. Why the hell have I not been doing this before?