Social proof without much effort just clever prep

Da_Famous_Anus · 2022-03-23T09:59:21+00:00

This sounds like one of George Costanza's dating schemes.

ReadyTelephone2395 · 2022-03-23T01:28:13+00:00

I think doing the insta thing is a lot cheaper with less effort.

Powdered_Toast_Man3 · 2022-03-23T03:02:17+00:00

seems like a lot of work. whatever happened to just being yourself and that being enough.

you basically paid for social proof. that isn't real.

cronasminate · 2022-03-23T08:46:44+00:00

Unless I was on some 007 mission to seduce a girl for the sake of the world, I wouldn’t go through so much set up or some greetings. What kind of insecure girl would care that much if a guy is greeted by servers who’s job is to give customer service. Lmao she probably just thinks “hmm this place has really good customer service, i should recommend it to my crush.”

ManWithAThousand · 2022-03-23T13:34:03+00:00

I ironically like this trick because the "trick" is to just be a good person.

Oscalev · 2022-03-23T04:19:33+00:00

Why spend all that extra time and money doing something so manipulative? Very clear indication that you are overthinking things and are putting her on a pedestal. If anything playfully tease her about her instagram and make her qualify herself to you instead. A date is a two way street, don’t focus all your energy into placating her. She has to keep your interest as well. If looks alone are enough for you then do your thing, but after enough women, even their hotness isn’t enough to cover up a shit personality if they have one.

Remember, behind every beautiful woman is a man who’s tired of her shit.

juju_brad · 2022-03-23T00:56:40+00:00

Props. Women have an endless arsenal of weapons of manipulation, I'm all for doing it right back.

a1004 · 2022-03-23T11:22:55+00:00

I agree it is too much work for one date, but the cool thing is you can have 'your place' and use it for multiple first dates with different women.

Having a place where you are known by the waiters pay dividends in some scenarios.

wth214 · 2022-03-23T06:47:45+00:00

This could backfire in the sense that she could think maybe you take all your dates to this same place lol

ValteriButtAss · 2022-03-23T15:27:59+00:00

Lmao these people with their negative comments. Good on you OP, trying new things out and going out of your comfort zone. Keep going 👊

MrNaturalInstinct · 2022-03-23T03:35:20+00:00

Brotha'...

...if her curiousity isn't sparked by YOU, you're either dead in the water or face an uphill mountain to climb just for intimacy.

Good luck.

FakeSafeWord · 2022-03-23T14:19:24+00:00

Yup.

Made friends with a bartender. Take hot dates to her bars.

get free drinks but also insist I pay for them, bartender tells me she owes me big for that thing.

There was no thing she just fuckin rocks.

SEJ1970 · 2022-03-23T04:47:56+00:00

This could have backfired and she think you were a regular there with some other girl or multiple girls... Being honest is the best move so in the future when your actions comes to light, no one will think you are always a fake... Unless you are just looking a quick hookup so it doesn't matter what she think...

blackopsplayer5 · 2022-03-23T12:20:15+00:00

what’s the point of lying for internet validation?

blessedwiththecurse · 2022-03-23T13:14:59+00:00

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biokaizen · 2022-03-23T11:35:14+00:00

You are not going to like a girl for that weird nonsense

KeyGrapefruit1777 · 2022-03-23T13:59:50+00:00

So what this told me is that OP enjoys shallow people. Shallow Hal lmao.

LordVitoCorleone · 2022-03-23T14:22:56+00:00

that's a Genius move Homie, i will try it.

bvtmfdr · 2022-03-23T15:47:13+00:00

Pretty clever way of making her comfortable and confident in you dude.

fedmyster2 · 2022-03-23T16:20:22+00:00

talking to all the servers and getting to know them.

How long did you chat with them for?

Corndesu69 · 2022-03-23T17:16:54+00:00

All of that just for a crumb of pussy?

SilkTouchm · 2022-03-23T17:56:24+00:00

You already failed by going to a restaurant on a first date.

Zerozilch0 · 2022-03-23T19:54:38+00:00

No hate but Imagine the girl finds out you did all that for some fake social cred. Definitely getting labeled a “weirdo” for that one.

AdDiscombobulated623 · 2022-04-08T16:55:51+00:00

Lmao no thank you. My time is very valuable and I’m not going to waste a whole bunch of money to get a woman to view me a certain way. Even then, women that care about all that extra nonsense aren’t really what I’m looking for anyway.

Title	Social proof without much effort just clever prep
Author	blessedwiththecurse
Upvotes	443
Comments	58
Date	March 23, 2022 12:52 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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