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This isn’t a solution and it’s not even the first place to start… But one of the things I remember doing early on in my game- improvement phase was to make a list of some of the qualities that I liked about myself and some of the qualities that I saw on my peers or elsewhere which I wanted to bring into my life and then some of the qualities that I saw and others that I disliked and wanted to make sure I didn’t start doing. Then every few days (Wednesdays and Sundays) I would ask myself if I had…
/r/seduction07/07/23 12:12 AM
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Omg it is legendary!! Wow love that! Thanks again
/r/seduction07/08/22 12:26 PM
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I find that sex transcends culture. When a man and woman really like each other, it's the same no matter where you go.
/r/seduction07/08/22 05:36 AM
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can anybody link the dad post?
/r/seduction06/08/22 06:01 PM
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u/TheCollector228 take a moment to realize how constructive u/21383029582873's reply is. Life's not fun if you don't give yourself a little bit of runway to have hope. Trust that there are some ugly ass dudes who still get sufficiently hot girls. Don't be disheartened or turned off because you have to work harder than the next guy. It's life. Survive. Win. Achieve. There are only 3 guarantees in life: work, death, and taxes.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:58 PM
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god bless that's cute!
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:06 PM
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christchurch shooting.
/r/seduction06/07/22 12:55 AM
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wtaf.
/r/seduction25/06/22 01:03 AM
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Senator, get the fuck off reddit.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:09 PM
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I'd caution against being rejected lots of times before deciding that you're happy. Rather, look at it in terms of your emotion needing to match reality. It's daunting because people say reality is constant and doesn't stop. It's easy to be in our heads because we are slightly protected. But, being out in the wild with the realities isn't so bad. Don't cold approach unless you know it won't bother you in your heart. Then, and only then, should you approach. If you know yourself first and then ap…
/r/seduction30/05/22 05:10 AM
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Lemme take a stab… you can’t feel bad about it if it’s normal. Would you cry if it rained? of course not, because it’s NORMAL. If every man who approaches at clubs gets rejected a lot, there’s no reason for you to feel an ounce of displeasure (provided you didn’t act creepily which will make the girls be rude to you and will likely make you feel bad). Stop whining about the guys who approach with 80% bed-rate. Just have fun knowing you’re hot enough. You’re basically saying the equivalent of a k…
/r/seduction29/05/22 12:07 PM
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Yea… in fact, I feel it’s subtle because of two things. First, you can’t hyper-obsess over it. Second, because it works by increasing your average rather than with every approach. You can still strike out with 10 or more girls before you find the one who gets you. On average, seduction is always worth studying. Just remember, it’s biased to help boobs so the key to not plateauing is to remember that you can’t get every girl.
/r/seduction28/05/22 07:24 PM
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but why would they chase me instead of the men who also got into those top programs? Those men aren't all party animal man-whores...
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:15 PM
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username always checks out when it's a girl on this sub lmao
/r/seduction20/05/22 08:04 PM
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I agree that the nerdy girls are hornier. They are, however, not easier to get laid and it takes a lot longer than 15 minutes... It might even take 15 hrs or 15 full dates. Sexuality for these women comes from how comfortable they feel with you. If they understand you, sense that you respect their boundaries, and are a good person for them, they will have sex with you. They will also do wild stuff with you. I had anal sex with a shy nerdy girl despite having had sex with a promiscuous girl long …
/r/seduction14/05/22 11:05 PM
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The natural enemy of a discussion on seduction.
/r/seduction11/05/22 12:37 PM
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I actually felt this way when the girl I lost my virginity to told me I was horrible at sex but that she didn't mind. I was so. fucking. bad. She still let me hit it over a few months and I gradually got better. She once rode her bike 4 miles (8 mi round trip) to come let me have sex like a dying old man with her for 20 min. As we got deeper into the relationship and I started watching porn to teach myself how to thrust, I realized just how bad the sex was for her. She didn't ever "teach" me any…
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:04 AM
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Yeah... but he's not saying just be a yes-man. He's saying that you can choose to craft a personality that a larger percentage of the population views as special (i.e. the style of jokes you crack, the ways you interact with co-workers/friends, the kinds of things you do in your free-time). Most men's directives (biologically and modern socially) are kind of the same: fuck and have fun and do cool shit. A basement-dwelling porn connisseur likely has similar directives as a "econometrics macroeco…
/r/seduction09/05/22 03:57 AM
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i'll concentrate these nuts on your glutes
/r/seduction07/05/22 02:57 PM
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damn daddy benny franklin was into those british gilfs. craaazy to think that this guy is (rightfully) revered as an american legend
/r/seduction04/05/22 11:16 PM
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literally read no more mr. nice guy as gospel. You will be fine. This is a common problem
/r/seduction04/05/22 12:46 PM
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I see your point... ok, I'll ask you to enlighten me on something then if you please... does the difficulty of relationships make them worth it, prove they're worth it, or sour the experience altogether? I always imagined being in a fulfilling relationship should be something that reduces the overall difficulty in life. But, how can it be worth it if the original experience of dating is so hard? Yes, I agree learning to be a good communicator was hard for me- and I'm still not where I want to be…
/r/seduction30/04/22 02:49 PM
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*her cake
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:30 PM
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dating's not supposed to be hard. The simple reality is that, for most well-put together people, they can find someone who meets their requirements, they just need to be reminded to look. Most guys can do wild shit- but it's only worth it if you're given certain guarantees. Wild girls are waaaay harder to be with because they dump guys quickly unless they guy is exactly right. It's why you see so many intelligent women with morons- because the smart guys realized that they are taking too much ri…
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:05 PM
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this is against the belief of the sub. A girl will have a MUCH easier time convincing a guy than the other way around. She just needs to open her mind to his heart. The saying is pretty much true: keep his stomach full and his balls empty.
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:20 PM
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I never understood how women can say "men will fuck anything that moves" and then turn around and complain that they deserve a prince charming.
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:13 PM
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I have to say, actually, the FDS principles seem pretty good in this case
/r/seduction27/04/22 09:02 PM
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yeah, that's really how it's supposed to feel. When you're elated and feeling like you're a million bucks is when you are best at flirting.
/r/seduction23/04/22 06:52 AM
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Isn’t it obvious? After the first kiss (which is sometimes chance variability if you’re being as “genuine” as possible), you stop feeling scared. Essentially, there’s no way you can “lose that night”. Not even the confidence from the first encounter going someway you like, but the general idea that you can’t lose the night means that subsequent encounters are carried out with zero fear. That then, is interpreted as confidence. To top it off, you were probably in a ecstatic mood from getting the …
/r/seduction22/04/22 08:57 PM
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EXACTLY right… it’s like emotionally and temporally you know there’s just no realistic basis to be sad. One two or even 10 rejections doesn’t hurt. Once 10 doesn’t hurt, why should 100. Also, once you’ve had sex a few times and feel like one of the seductresses (temptors is male word for it I think), sex has to be good for you too. That’s when you make the switch to personality-driven relationships knowing full well that you can always revert to cheap sex with decent looking girls. Crazy to thin…
/r/seduction22/04/22 06:12 PM
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Whooosh
/r/seduction19/04/22 07:45 PM
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Do you realize that a man can have a genuine connection with you (not a "ploy") AND still want to have sex with you, right? I think for most men, if they befriend a girl who they are even originally unattracted to, they may develop feelings based on the connection between them. You seem like the kind of girl who separates men into categories of who you'd have sex with and who you'd befriend. The reality is, the higher-level your friendship is (and deeper you can connect, etc.) the more reason yo…
/r/seduction09/04/22 03:45 AM
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getting major vampire diaries vibes from this lol...
/r/seduction08/04/22 02:40 PM
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orange11a, please listen to willgo waggins here. these feelings are the precursors to rapey behavior and abuse and stuff. You might be at risk for getting slapped with a wrongful rape allegation if you keep it up because, as you say, the girls you're calling dumb are still people. Society has developed to accept and love them equally to the ones you might call good. It's very hard to engage with society on almost any level if you harbor this much resentment for people. Life is just not designed …
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:32 AM
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yeah but there's something to be said about social norms too... I don't disagree with you, but how much do you want to bet that one of your grandmas or great grandmas or great great grandmas wasn't one of the picky types who decided that she'd only fuck a guy with the best horse and was vehemently opposed to dating any sailors or cobblers or some shit? (can be translated to practically any culture). It's not crazy to think that most young women will do stupid shit like this. If you're a young gu…
/r/seduction02/04/22 05:46 PM
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I'm actually going to call BS on that. You don't require someone to jump through hoops to be friendly with them, that's just sociopathy and guarantees that you won't get attention.
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:54 PM
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the phrase "get with us" is usually used as a euphemism for sex. as in "if he comes through with these [referring to a pair of designer shoes], homeboy's gonna like... get it" - Bella Hadid
/r/seduction01/04/22 10:04 PM
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didn't you just admit to having sex with men you later realized were not "the one". I'm not saying men want sex, but if your filters are sooo shitty that you give one of the best parts of a relationship for free at first and THEN make the truly good guys (they're good because they demonstrate the high value stuff like multiple dates, flowers, time spent listening, etc. without whining for sex) jump through extra hoops to get sex, that somehow the good guys won't feel cheated. From any man's pers…
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:24 PM
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always felt like people expect you to keep texting them stuff, etc. is that not the case?
/r/seduction01/04/22 08:02 PM
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I'm 21 and in last semester of college. I'm starting to wonder whether I should stop doing things on my own terms (like I have been, which has been so rewarding and instructional and career-boosting) so I can have my "college experience". Starting to think working 20 hrs/week plus college life and making all my bosses, co-workers, parents, etc. happy means I'll never even get time to flirt with the people I want to flirt with or party with the people I want to party with. It feels impossible to …
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:51 PM
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he didn't defend her like a man?! He sucker punched a washed up comedian on national tv. he made a fool of himself. Enough said
/r/seduction30/03/22 04:40 PM
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this seems to be the common risk with people who played the dating/casual sex game in early 20s. If you find the answer, let me know. The intelligent women who make good moms and supportive wives are insanely hard to catch.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:55 PM
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stop copying chapters from commonly recommended books and passing them off as previews to your youtube channel. There should be a rule that you have to post one field report to make one post like this.
/r/seduction26/03/22 02:17 PM
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he just has to make a cursory statement explaining that he had a great chat with the employees once when he came there before. if he likes the place/ highly recommends it to the girl, it makes even more sense. this is over-drilling into the relationship
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:17 AM
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yeah... also, don't be afraid to use all the resources you have. Doesn't it make sense that, if you were a nerdy guy in high school/college and got a high-paying job out of college that allows you to tip nicely and if you've developed social skills just enough to be kind to these ppl that the tip-incentive is your right?? If you have the money to get treated nicely, what's the big problem. It's like being genetically gifted in the looks dept. If getting ppl to like me is as cheap as giving a nic…
/r/seduction23/03/22 05:13 AM
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when i saw this, i was like haha.. then I saw OP's comment. lmfao rofl xdxd rawr
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:51 AM
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no no, you misunderstood. I agree that there's really only one thing to take away from this situation: this is a test of the girl, not the boy. OP should only dictate his energy in observing her response/behavior and not feeling bad.
/r/seduction09/03/22 07:29 PM
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sir, idgaf if he's a waiter, making minimum wage and "down bad". he shouldn't complain about doing a job that a 10 year old can do and he should remember his place as someone who's there to make diners feel comfortable and cater to their needs to the best of his professional ability. What a world we live in when waiters think they can flirt when the man is gone in the bathroom. lmao a fucking waiter. gimme a break
/r/seduction09/03/22 05:33 PM
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haha dis game is like ur mother. its a shit
/r/seduction06/03/22 10:25 PM
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its a book by mark manson
/r/seduction05/03/22 06:16 PM
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no, it's just numbers... the percentages never change.
/r/seduction04/03/22 03:41 AM
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if you're in medicine, do what I did: get her a "care package". some chocolate and an object you think she'd like and give it to her sometime during/before her shift. it's an excuse to say hi and most girls like gifts/ words of affirmation
/r/seduction28/02/22 08:24 PM
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those with options chose what they want to do. If he had more than one keeper come by his way, chances are he can do it again.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:40 PM
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Lol do this for the sub and write it up in the field report!!! We need to make this sub like wall street bets lmaoo
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:08 PM
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This is some smooth stuff. I did this once in high school and then pussied out on the kiss. Never spoke to her again. If she takes your hand, it’s an automatic 1.5 hour shot clock to kiss her.
/r/seduction15/02/22 03:31 PM
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Oooh bad robot indeed
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:18 PM
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Took me a minute bc you see this so often. It’s kinda crazy, but in addition to fitness, I’ve found well-conditioned use of vocabulary is another panty-dropper. Edit: it’s just part of inner game. I’m no smooth-talking criminal
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:31 PM
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Always regretted doing this to one girl but yeah… OP, this does seem a little like that
/r/seduction12/02/22 11:27 PM
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idk, I disagreed with ur_notmytype some time ago on this sub, but I kinda agree with them here. Some girls are just quirky in a good way. The issue is the ones who are very quirky but can't handle themselves so they lose the "it" factor (comparable to pink pill subreddits' "feminine energy"). I still give these kind of girls a shot. Life's no fun with just witty banter and rationality. A wee bit of crazy makes for something untamed. disclaimer: I've never gotten laid with these kinds of girls. p…
/r/seduction11/02/22 02:51 AM
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oh wow... sure. In the 9th grade, I met a girl at church and she showed a lot of interest with me. We'd text ALL THE TIME and I was amazed at how easily I could talk to her without feeling like I needed to act cool, etc. One day, while we were in church, she kept looking at me and I was smiling about something and I guess she thought I was smiling at her, because I couldn't believe my eyes when she asked me to her school's dance when church was over. She'd told some of the other girls (she was p…
/r/seduction05/02/22 08:51 PM
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i liek wimenz
/r/seduction05/02/22 07:37 PM
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It happened to me in 9th grade and again in senior year of college (might've happened a few times between then, but I was so deeply career-focused I didn't see a thing). The take-away is to tell your friends to fuck off and capitalize. Most men, actually, don't have this happen to them and it's a pretty nice feeling. It means you're attractive enough and handle your beauty well (ugliest thing is an attractive person who knows it and doesn't use it wisely... second-best is someone who doesn't kno…
/r/seduction05/02/22 01:07 AM
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part of the abundance mindset that people in this subreddit talk about, this part is sometimes hard to believe/ visualize as a virgin, is that getting a hug is actually hilariously easy if you know how to escalate so a girl wants to hug you. It's almost as easy as asking someone for the time (again, if you know how to ask smartly which involves some quick thinking, some rehearsed changes to lifestyle, and some perception/ intuition for what some girl likes). ​ the rude way to say it might be som…
/r/seduction02/02/22 06:04 AM
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username is a red flag lmao
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:25 AM
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sighs... it'll never happen
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:05 AM
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I think some people just haven't had an honest conversation with themselves/ dialed in their identity. These people pride themselves on thinking that they wouldn't fall for a "teachable" practice like seduction (as if it's somehow inorganic unless the guy was a born sexytimes man... I'd argue that even people for whom seduction comes "naturally" were just in environments where they understood the dynamics and they just have to recalibrate in adulthood to go for what they want). ​ I can see how s…
/r/seduction01/02/22 04:03 AM
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Wish I could upvote twice
/r/seduction28/01/22 05:25 PM
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what makes it chinese? (wes anderson reply: *crickets* followed by because is always was)
/r/seduction26/01/22 08:17 PM
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I work in the medical field. Give her some time, buy her something for work (a nice blanket or some chocolates or something). omicron is messing everybody up. It's insane in practically every hospital...
/r/seduction25/01/22 12:59 AM
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yep. don't overthink it. I put headphones on because my ADHD is so bad that I need one song on repeat so I can focus. I literally listen to the same instrumental song for 3 hrs sometimes (occasionally, I'll switch the song- when I'm feeling frisky). think of it like this: if you got a handwritten note that said 'open me later' with a winky face drawn on, it wouldn't really distract you. You'd just keep studying and while walking/driving home fish it out of your pocket to see what's in it. ​ Ppl …
/r/seduction19/01/22 10:10 PM
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People don’t want to admit that they’re not in control. Those who can use either empirical or scientifically-supposed statistical thought experiments like u/ throwawayN did. All I have to say is that most people can’t compartmentalize/ functionalize the aspects of dating because they’re scared they’ll drive into the “monogamy is fake philosophy” which scared them because most people don’t know the next step in the logical (pure mathematical) thought process which is to restructure their world vi…
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:36 PM
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Ye LIE! By the holy power of Neptune ye shall be cursed to mermaid sex and none else! (/s… see username u/ephraim_winslow1891)
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:27 PM
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