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Proud of you brother 💪🏽
/r/seduction03/07/23 07:26 PM
86

How can I be homophobic, my bitch is gay
/r/seduction19/07/22 07:08 PM
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Someone give OP the flowers he deserves after this 💐💐
/r/seduction07/07/22 01:52 PM
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The tourist trick seems to work pretty well for same day lays. “I’m from XYZ in town for tonight bla bla bla”
/r/seduction03/07/22 11:03 AM
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She opened her legs for me and asked me to put it in , does she like me?? 🤣🤣
/r/seduction18/06/22 09:37 AM
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This is 100% facts! I have a few platonic friendships with girls and some I take out with me as social proof and they are well aware of it and don’t mind because they’re looking to have a good time aswell
/r/seduction16/06/22 09:43 AM
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Was waiting for the yikes plot twist, turns out OP is a seasoned vet
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:26 AM
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Over 5 years that’s 5 approaches a week…
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:02 AM
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Probably is right 🤣🤣
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:52 AM
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It’s a numbers game. You keep approaching, some girls won’t be interested but eventually one girl will and boom you get lucky. Some guys are naturally blessed but for others you just need to put in the work. Like for me I’m at the stage where I do most of my approaches when I get a haircut and look good, get a bunch of numbers then just game on text until I have a good rotation going
/r/seduction06/04/22 08:51 AM
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Getting better at game is an essential part of a mans development in discovering who they are. If you don’t get rejected a shit ton of times then when a simple rejection in the future (maybe at work or in some other field unrelated to seduction) you will feel distraught
/r/seduction24/03/22 11:58 PM
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I’ve got the typical fuckboy look, maybe it’s the haircut I have or maybe just my baby face with a beard. Girls automatically categorise me in the “he’s probably got loads of girls” category so they usually don’t want to get too invested and broken off. Daily infield is great though, some wins some losses but always seem to get the Instagram even if it is just to stay connected
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:31 AM
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Social proof in an online setting is not something I’d want to be cultivating… why do I need 20k followers to be seen as a high value man
/r/seduction23/03/22 02:58 PM
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I’ve done this recently. Ask her what she’s looking for e.g long term or fwb etc and then say you’re looking for the complete opposite
/r/seduction18/03/22 02:50 PM
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Started small talk, exchanged numbers, kept seeing eachother at the gym a couple more times then we went to my car after a late night workout and done some more cardio 🤣
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:45 AM
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You act like she don’t exist. If she tries to engage in conversation be like “I’m sorry have we met before?”
/r/seduction14/03/22 05:42 AM
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This is so true. When you have a low value group of friends ( grown men that still act like kids, no social etiquette, no manners etc ) it can be your downfall aswell. I’ve seen it in myself countless of times when I’m with my work friends, picking up girls is easy because we’re all high earners and around high value females aswell. When I’m with my friends from school/area , we end up doing things we did as kids and not able to attract the kind of women I’d usually go for
/r/seduction05/03/22 12:53 AM
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Yeah maybe I was so focused on the whole cold approach game, I forgot the basics. But glad I’ve found it Cus now cold approach seems high risk low reward for me
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:42 AM
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Nope, I’m 5’9 but very athletic. Was doing some obscure stretches on the yoga mats which piqued her curiosity
/r/seduction19/02/22 10:40 AM
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I’m trying 🤣🤣
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:19 AM
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Met the friend on the yoga mats while stretching next to each other and conversation just happened
/r/seduction19/02/22 12:18 AM
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Yeah exactly, the creeps actually come up to me now asking to bring them in 🤣
/r/seduction18/02/22 08:11 PM
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Yeah I was thinking the same thing, would be shit to ruin a great friendship between the two groups
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:12 PM
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Big 🧢
/r/seduction27/01/22 11:18 PM
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Pete Davidson… need i say more
/r/seduction27/01/22 10:49 AM
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Hit the nail on the head with this 👌🏽👌🏽
/r/seduction27/01/22 08:38 AM
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Naa that’s called a waste of time and money
/r/seduction19/01/22 07:52 PM
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Never tried it but hey give it a shot
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:10 PM
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No I work in tech 🤣
/r/seduction08/01/22 11:09 PM
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Once you start dabbling in more expensive scents like Aventus creed , Oud , Tom Ford etc people take notice. Even guys come up to me and say “bro you smell like money”. If it’s a girl I don’t know they’ll notice but usually show it non verbally but if it’s a girl I know they definitely do compliment my scent
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:14 PM
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Lol what’s suss about it? We broke up then I decided to live the single life 🤷🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction03/01/22 11:29 AM
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I do actually make music, and pull in decent numbers but not to the point of being recognised in public
/r/seduction02/01/22 02:23 PM
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Don’t compare yourself to your younger brother, you will start despising him and it will sour your relationship. If anything, learn from what he is doing right! I say this because I am your younger brother in this situation. I make more money than my older brother and have more success with women and over the years I feel he has started to push me away and doesn’t even want to speak to me. If he took the chance to ask me humbly for some advice, I would gladly take him out double dates with me an…
/r/seduction23/12/21 01:00 PM
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Lol that’s if she doesn’t spill the beans herself 🤣
/r/seduction20/12/21 10:05 PM
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Yeah he’s been jealous before on nights out when a bird hes feeling is feeling me so I think ima just politely decline her
/r/seduction20/12/21 10:04 PM
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I like this ngl
/r/seduction20/11/21 04:59 AM
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This is not true, I’m from London and I cold approach quite abit. You might get weird looks from strangers but at the end of the day you just need to do what you want
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:06 PM
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How do you just stop hanging out with people you’ve spent most of your adult life with? Like how do you distance yourself without being a dick
/r/seduction29/10/21 02:24 PM
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Okay so basically find a new group of friends who are more socially aware rather than trying to mould my friends to become better.
/r/seduction29/10/21 01:50 PM
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I’m dead 🤣🤣🤣
/r/seduction24/10/21 12:48 PM
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Damn this brother must be starving 🤧
/r/seduction11/10/21 09:48 PM
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Well that’s why I’m here to learn how to be a good one
/r/seduction11/10/21 08:22 AM
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Just go in a store and look around and talk to the shopworkers
/r/seduction09/10/21 10:14 PM
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When I do approaches in the mall , I usually do it on people that expect you to talk to them. Because there’s a difference between a cold approach and a warmed up approach. So a cold approach is when you and this person, in terms of social etiquette, have no reason to be talking. So if you break that social code, you need to either have a great personality that will justify it or warm her up in a way that makes it seem like you’ve know eachother for a long time. The warmed up approach is when yo…
/r/seduction09/10/21 03:46 PM
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My bad I forgot to update everyone on what happened after. So basically a week goes by and we’re casually texting then she sends a long paragraph about how she’s been thinking about me a lot recently Cus no guy has done this to her before. So we meet up again and I can sense now she has a point to prove like a chip on her shoulder or something. I escalate slowly and start kissing her then she ramps up the pace like she’s opening up Christmas presents. I pick her up to the bed where I tie up her …
/r/seduction08/10/21 12:42 PM
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This.
/r/seduction07/10/21 09:46 PM
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Just give us the line, I cba to read and do the searching 🤣
/r/seduction07/10/21 07:32 PM
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Just give us the lyrics, I cba to listen and do the searching 🤣
/r/seduction07/10/21 06:49 PM
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Daygamed the week before at a park and flirted on calls for a while. So I didn’t really have much info about her except her name and number
/r/seduction06/10/21 09:20 PM
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How does someone vet the pussy beforehand? There isn’t some database for std checks my friend
/r/seduction06/10/21 06:58 PM
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What about stds bro
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:26 PM
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I think this is the only way tbh
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:46 PM
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And who is this wise man ?
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:45 PM
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Yeah your mind must be doing backflips before that std check
/r/seduction05/10/21 10:34 PM
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From my ex blowing up my line when I was seen on a snap story around girls at a party
/r/seduction05/10/21 03:17 PM
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Wait now I’m curious about the sketching stuff. How does it work if you cant actually draw and what are some of your stories of success?
/r/seduction05/10/21 02:18 PM
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Have hobbies, dress well, smell nice and speak slowly and calmly
/r/seduction05/10/21 11:46 AM
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I’ve had a similar experience like this before. There was this girl in my uni who was known to be quite dominant and not many guys approached her. When she walked in a room you could sense her presence because girls were intimidated by her and guys were into her but put her on a pedestal. At the time I had a solid rotation so didn’t see the reason to chase and flirt much. I decided to get to know her abit completely platonically which made her feel some type of way because most guys are too subm…
/r/seduction04/10/21 09:58 PM
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Perfect thing in this situation is to go to a bar then. Get some snacks aswell and escalate as much as you like
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:29 PM
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Go to the restaurant and split the bill, if she just wants a free meal from you she won’t get it. If she’s genuinely interested, she’ll pay her half and keep it cool
/r/seduction02/10/21 11:26 PM
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5’9
/r/seduction28/09/21 04:49 PM
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OP read this, re read it then look yourself in the mirror and tell yourself you got this 💪🏼
/r/seduction28/09/21 12:38 PM
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The sexual tension is built up so yes , sexual interest
/r/seduction26/09/21 03:03 PM
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Don’t have a scarcity mindset brother , if not her I can’t get pussy from the next
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:47 PM
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Ahahah believe what you want, makes no difference to me
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:46 PM
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Tbh I feel like the games back and forth add extra excitement to a busy hectic life when we can’t necessarily see eachother a lot
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:45 PM
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Ahhh you’re right! I’ll use that next time then 👌🏽
/r/seduction26/09/21 02:44 PM
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How is this toxic? I’m actually quiet curious now
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:27 PM
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You can believe what you want my friend, I don’t post on here much unless I have an actual noteworthy story
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:27 PM
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Yeah one of my older cousins told me about the bouncer tipping thing, you jusg never know when it might come in handy
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:26 PM
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Naa it wasn’t a college bar it was a normal cocktail bar. I totally understand your frustration with college bars especially on a busy night. Maybe try a quiet night
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:25 PM
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Yea she was with one friend who was also preoccupied with some guy the whole night so it worked out pretty well.
/r/seduction20/09/21 07:24 PM
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But also read the room, so if she’s just being friendly Cus she’s working don’t push for it too much ygm?
/r/seduction17/09/21 12:57 PM
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In terms of getting laid
/r/seduction15/09/21 09:47 PM
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Not fully cold approach but I’ve been approaching girls who work in retail quite abit. Their literal job entails talking to customers so even if your social skills are not up to scratch you can still engage in the conversation and reflect their energy. The results from this have been significantly better than fully cold approach
/r/seduction15/09/21 03:44 PM
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Sure they would be great
/r/seduction12/09/21 11:34 AM
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What’s the subreddit called?
/r/seduction11/09/21 08:30 PM
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I second this. Cold approach is fun and unpredictable but if you want consistent results I definitely recommend building your social circle to include some diverse and interesting people
/r/seduction04/09/21 08:36 PM
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It’s a new restaurant in London that’s had this promotion on since reopening after Covid
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:24 PM
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Yeah I think I worded it wrong, it’s $25 for both of us 🤣 and before you ask, I have no clue how the business is not operating at a loss
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:12 PM
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There’s this cool place in my area that does a good deal on dinner and drinks so it’s my go to spot for first dates
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:07 PM
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Yeah if she’s ungrateful then yeah definitely go halves 🤣
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:06 PM
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Let us know how it goes 👌🏽
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:05 PM
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Never heard of that but ill definitely check it out! And yeah like you said, throughout the whole conversation you will be able to tell if she’s in it for a quick meal or actually wants something and then you adjust accordingly
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:04 PM
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Yeah so usually my first date is a nearby place that does 2 for 1 cocktails and a main course for around $25. So it’s a lot of stuff on the table at a really good price, no point haggling over the bill really
/r/seduction01/09/21 05:03 PM
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The turning point for me was when I realised life’s too short not to enjoy yourself. Also when I realised you miss all the shots you don’t take
/r/seduction13/07/21 10:19 AM
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Tbh once you’ve approach over 20 in a day, you just say “fuck it” and approach every girl you find attractive
/r/seduction08/06/21 03:27 PM
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I am so confused, isn’t she only talking to you now to try and get to your friend or am I missing something ?
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:37 PM
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“Hey I’m ... , i saw you from over there and you looked quite interesting, I like your (compliment her outfit) and I thought life’s too short not to strike up a conversation, how’s your day been?” Works like a charm
/r/seduction02/06/21 12:55 AM
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Sunday Riley hydration cream
/r/seduction30/05/21 11:18 PM
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A pic of me?
/r/seduction29/05/21 11:38 AM
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This is good advice 👌🏽
/r/seduction28/04/21 05:41 PM
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The thing I find most attractive about a girl is when she’s outgoing and always smiling with people, no one likes a girl that acts stuck up
/r/seduction24/04/21 06:43 PM
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*courage , don’t lie to yourself
/r/seduction22/04/21 06:38 PM
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Yeah In my opinion even if a friend takes a girl you still go and seal the deal by getting her number or snap. Even if it means standing in front of a group of girls and making yourself vulnerable in front of them. If she does add you on snap fair play and all the best to you but from my experience girls don’t just add guys randomly on snap if they haven’t given it to them themselves
/r/seduction22/04/21 08:01 AM
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Okay mate, we get it. You fuck. Well done 👍🏼
/r/seduction18/04/21 03:26 PM
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She coughed... she must be telling me something
/r/seduction18/04/21 02:49 PM
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Well said.
/r/seduction17/04/21 10:02 AM
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To try and remedy this, always understand why you’re talking to someone. Are you talking to get laid? Are you talking to try and have a relationship? Are you talking to find a female friend? As soon as her actions start to go against your intentions, cut it off and save face. If you keep dragging things on she’ll know she has you like putty in her hands and that’s when she begins to dingle the carrot to boost her ego every now and then...
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:20 PM
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Well then use a mask 😷
/r/seduction06/06/20 10:28 PM
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Also, if you meet a girl in person and you’re trying to close don’t let her give you her Instagram or social media. Get her number so the conversation actually progresses!
/r/seduction06/06/20 09:07 AM
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“Spread her ass cheeks and sniff it. Is this what you’ve been chasing” - quote of the decade right there! This the energy I’m having for 2020 let’s goooooooo!!!
/r/seduction31/12/19 09:08 PM
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Exactly brother 👌🏽
/r/seduction27/12/19 06:34 PM
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I have no clue who you are but I feel proud of you for approaching cus we all know how hard it is at first!
/r/seduction27/12/19 03:43 PM
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So a succinct version of your question is “how does one not become needy?”. Simple answer , have options! If you keep overthinking how to play a role, eventually she’ll see cracks in the facade. So just whole heartedly embody the characteristics of someone who is not needy by becoming a man with multiple sexual options.
/r/seduction25/12/19 11:38 AM
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This is my go to date idea and is extremely cheap if you’re in London (£5 max) There’s this place called “leake street tunnel” where graffiti artists go and is the only place in the city where graffitiing is legal. So before the date I grab some cans of spray paint and go to meet the girl. When we meet she will eventually ask what’s in the bag but don’t tell her, let her imagination go wild. So as we walk towards the tunnel and talk, we get to know each other’s interests, passions etc. When we r…
/r/seduction24/12/19 09:22 PM
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Okay here’s my 2 cents on the topic. I used to have tinder, within the first few days I had a decent amount of matches and began messaging each one. 1) DO NOT start the convo with a boring “hey how’s your day”. Throw something different at them. A witty comment on one of their pictures or their bio does the trick every time. It also then leads to an ongoing conversation as the girl will want to talk about the rest of her pictures hence conversation naturally flows. 2) don’t ask for her number/sn…
/r/seduction24/12/19 12:53 PM
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Ahahahahaha I’m deaaaad
/r/seduction24/12/19 12:45 PM
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Such a great post! Damn.
/r/seduction19/12/19 12:25 PM
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