So I recently finished studies and have some down time before I start work which I decided to dedicate to improving myself. In this self improvement journey I decided to spend 2 weeks on perfecting my seduction skills and see how many girls I can potentially have something with.

I decided not to use any form of online dating as I wanted to fully hone in on my communication skills and confidence. So the first week was dedicated to getting to know as many people as I possibly could. I went to popular places in my city such as a shopping mall, a popular bar area and a local park that is busy in summer. I found that when I cold approached with the sole intention of getting laid, the conversation was quick and very looks based. If they liked me , I was in. If not, onto the next. This worked well in the mall and bar setting as people are pretty fast paced at these locations

At the park I took a more relaxed approach where I would have like a mini date wigh the person there and then while enjoying the sun which helped build rapport and ultimately sexual tension. In total in the one week where I was daygaming everyday for about 8 hours, I secured 62 numbers/Snapchats. Someone mentioned it before that getting someone’s Snapchat is so much better as the conversation can be passive where you just watch each others stories and pop up whenever something is of interest whereas with a phone number you have to start the conversation from scratch if it goes cold. With these 62 numbers/snaps I filtered it down to about 15 that I could potentially see myself dating or having something serious with. My text game isn’t the best but the fact that I had so many reserves meant that I wasn’t needy and they could just sense it as they were doing more or the pursuing than me.

The next week was for dating. I decided to schedule 2 dates a day and optimise logistically such that I wouldn’t be wasting time driving around the city. They all got a similar date which was quite budget but works wonders. I bought a bunch of fruits, snacks and white wine and went for picnics with each one and sometimes shisha for the late night dates. My aim going into each date was to build up tension such that I can add the girl to my rotation rather than just sleep with her once. So after the full week of dating like a mad man, I am planning to meet 4 of the girls this week at their respective places where I will definitely escalate.

So for those of you stuck on dating apps wondering why you aren’t getting any dates, go out with a friend and put your destiny in your hands! Life’s too short to sit and hope for things to come your way.