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| 14 | You lose the girl not because you say the wrong thing, but because you kill the vibebecause you kill the vibe Haha I totally do. :( | /r/seduction | 08/04/25 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Not Sure if I (M21) Feel Comfortable Going on a Date with this Woman (F22)If you're not already dating a lot, go for the experience. If you're busy, either working, school, dating already then don't waste your time. | /r/seduction | 22/01/25 04:26 PM |
| 13 | Approaching Women —Why are men hesitant and why are women weary?There's also the off chance that it works and then you end up being vulnerable with someone that finds it enjoyable to ruin your fuckin life. | /r/seduction | 15/01/25 12:38 AM |
| 2 | Always assume they’re going to flake.d'awww thanks | /r/seduction | 03/01/25 12:23 AM |
| 1 | Always assume they’re going to flake.So now I have to assume attraction and that they're not interested!? /s | /r/seduction | 02/01/25 09:40 PM |
| -7 | Dating if you have moneyHe’s being a top player in almost every field he enters Didn't know being a dipshit loser was a field. | /r/seduction | 27/12/24 06:51 PM |
| 70 | How is the dating world after 30?Seriously. Start now. Get fit. Get tan. Get a haircut and clothes that fit you. Hire someone to take good profile pics for you if you don't know anyone who has the skill to get you good results. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How is the dating world after 30?hahahaha you're in danger. | /r/seduction | 16/12/24 07:06 PM |
| 1 | What is the Most Amount of Women You Can Talk to at Once?Three but only short term. Two women once a week was plenty. | /r/seduction | 04/12/24 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Is 6 years a cringe age gap?You're both adults... Let her decide if she likes you as well. Don't decide for her. Don't let anyone else decide for you both. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 04:20 AM |
| 4 | Is 6 years a cringe age gap?You approach it ethically by not intentionally exploiting or hurting her. End thread. | /r/seduction | 25/11/24 04:08 AM |
| 8 | Any tips for women?No matter what I do men avoid me like a plague But my future husband has to be over 6'2 sorry anything shorter is triggering. Here plug your ideal man into this so you can see how off the mark you are. https://igotstandardsbro.com/ I'm going to guess it gives a sub 1% result, and then add a few digits based on your personality being shit, and a few more based on not being anywhere near hot enough for anyone to put up with you. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 11:07 PM |
| 28 | Any tips for women?Post history says a lot. I suggest therapy before relationshipy | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 06:13 PM |
| 20 | I don't understand what flirting isNo but my mom, father, uncle and brother were both from there. | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 07:15 PM |
| 41 | I don't understand what flirting isCan confirm, play fought with siblings and we both ended up naked. flert | /r/seduction | 22/11/24 02:54 PM |
| 41 | Expensive dates sub-communicate low value and desperation"expensive" is subjective. What's expensive for your average 21 year old is likely affordable by someone 25-30. The point is don't let a woman manipulate you into bending to her every whim. A common early one example is demanding an expensive dinner, flowers, jewelry etc. Either she scores and leaves your pliable ass or she continues to manipulate you so long as you give her money, gifts, free food, free drinks for her friends. | /r/seduction | 19/11/24 03:31 PM |
| 19 | Most young women are used to getting pumped and dumped by fuckboys. Thats why you aren't getting laidI mean a lot of younger women also just want a fuck boi because they can dump them whenever and not have to deal with relationships and commitment. Most of us dumb fucks are just not worth the hassle. | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 07:50 PM |
| 7 | Girls, what makes sex with a guy literaly the best for you?I’m speaking to the void. "Jeez, you got a big pussy! Jeez, you got a big pussy!" | /r/seduction | 15/11/24 04:09 PM |
| 8 | I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour Laterboys will be boys /s | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 07:14 PM |
| 215 | I Walked Out on a Date and Met Someone Better 1 Hour LaterI've dated the princess type before. Lasted about 3 months. She was insufferable but made for great eye candy. At a certain point I realized I was basically just dating a sex worker with exclusivity, which cost extra. When I dumped her she was so offended and angry it was pathetic. She called me every name under the sun; broke loser, f**, bitch, tiny dick, etc. Most annoying part was like 90% of my male "friends" saying I was an idiot for dumping someone so hot and then immediately trying to get… | /r/seduction | 14/11/24 03:35 PM |
| 6 | Not attracted to women anymoreYup, welcome to seduction "success." You hit the wall on the diminishing returns so it's not rewarding anymore. Take a break and revaluate what it is you think you want out of life. Find a new goal to conquer. Therapy is also worthwhile so long as you're honest with yourself about any issues in your life. Or... you know be one of those self proclaimed "sex gurus" and turn your skill into money making with a book or coaching in your local area. | /r/seduction | 03/11/24 09:28 PM |
| 3 | How to Turn Her On During a DateGetting to the "why" of why someone likes something will almost always result in some sort of emotional response. Once you get there, call them a dork or playfully mock them for being THAT into whatever it is. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 09:25 PM |
| 3 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!What If I approached a woman and showed her how into MUA I was... would that make her want to ... wife me up or just make her think I gay? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 07:45 PM |
| 21 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!Showing me their favorite makeup tutorials on tiktok? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 07:03 PM |
| 10 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!$20?! That's a big ass greasy taco truck burrito and a Mexican coke to go. Can your blowjobs beat that? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:42 PM |
| 86 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!What's the equivalent of an escort approaching me and within 5 minutes starts rambling endlessly about their Warhammer mini-figs? | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:40 PM |
| 10 | How to Turn Her On During a DateAsking follow-up questions will put you above the competition pretty easily. Don't just ask "what do you do for fun" and then go oh cool. You want to elicit emotions. Positive one's ideally. Poke fun at her responses. Get her thinking about what made her happy. | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 06:27 PM |
| 6 | Do different men peak at different ages?Nope, everyone peaks exactly at 5:22pm eastern on the third Thursday after they turn 24. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 05:35 PM |
| 0 | Most couples you see are together because of circumstances.Oh so you're saying I wouldn't have an opportunity date someone I never met and never knew existed? Shock | /r/seduction | 20/10/24 06:43 PM |
| 7 | Why woman are going to test you"I feel like you're not trying hard enough." I try harder when I think the reward is worth it. | /r/seduction | 14/10/24 01:23 PM |
| 8 | Bringing girls back in a ghetto apartment.Alcohol. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 06:26 PM |
| 69 | Bringing girls back in a ghetto apartment.Dude an old roommate of mine didn't have a mattress cover, his mattress was stained, he had stacks of beer cans in there. There were no wheels on the bed and it was on hardwood floor. I can't believe the chicks he pulled. None of them stayed with him, but can confirm they smashed and destroyed our security deposit. | /r/seduction | 12/10/24 03:40 PM |
| 7 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightFuck it put 6'4". You can tell em I gave you permission. | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:13 AM |
| 10 | Online dating easy tip for guys around average heightActually that's above average. Some people say too big even. What were we talking about? | /r/seduction | 10/10/24 02:12 AM |
| 12 | How to avoid the friendzoneWhat if I don't have any friends? | /r/seduction | 09/10/24 03:22 PM |
| 10 | I met my chesty neighbor & got her number ..my dogs are probably thirsting His dogs are probably like "speak for yourself hoe!" | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 05:02 PM |
| 27 | What happens to those guys who can easily get sex, but not a relationship?When I was sleeping around a lot, the girls I was with would demand relationships. Now that I want a relationship, all I can seem to get is casual. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?I mean it may or may not have happened, but the dialogue as written is certainly not what was actually said. No one talks like that. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 01:03 PM |
| 2 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?It's nice fanfic. | /r/seduction | 23/09/24 12:43 PM |
| 153 | 3 Worst Texting Mistakes Guys Make On Dating AppsGirl: “I see you put dominant in your bio” Ya'll putting "dominant" in your bio? It's like declaring that you're an alpha male or some shit. That seems super fuckin cringey. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 02:27 PM |
| 46 | What are your usual responses when women challenges you?Had this woman I approached ask if I was going to buy her a drink and I said I normally don't do that unless we're on a date or I know you and she rudely came back with "the only reason anyone would talk to you is if you were buying them drinks" Couldn't think of anything to say to reframe how rude that was so I just turned and walked away. I wasn't offended, just shocked. Sometimes shit tests are actually just shit. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 12:48 PM |
| 8 | [VIDEO] Dating Over 30: How To Use Age To Your AdvantageHey a post for me! and a deeper sense of self-confidence And you've lost me. | /r/seduction | 16/09/24 09:43 PM |
| 2 | Date game: Always match her energyWhat if she isn't sharing her cocaine? | /r/seduction | 13/09/24 01:12 AM |
| 7 | Any guys here on the more average side have a good amount of success?Be bold and fun and escalate every single opportunity. | /r/seduction | 07/09/24 12:04 AM |
| 3 | If a girl tells me goodmorning or goodnight everyday should I be saying it back when I’m not taking her seriously?good night Lord babe | /r/seduction | 06/09/24 03:33 AM |
| 31 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??Take her somewhere to have sex. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 03:26 AM |
| -1 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..Fine, i've corrected my statement to be socially acceptable. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 06:17 PM |
| 1 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..Single moms on POF of course. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:58 PM |
| 0 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms ..meanwhile everyone calling them easy or desperate is fine? Hypocrites. | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:57 PM |
| -13 | I’m having good luck with milfs aka single moms .."Hey, look at me I can score with the least desirable easiest and most desperate women out there!" | /r/seduction | 18/08/24 04:12 PM |
| 2 | How many kisses on first date?Then shalt thou count to three, no more, no less. Three shall be the number thou shalt count, and the number of the counting shall be three. Four shalt thou not count, neither count thou two, excepting that thou then proceed to three. Five is right out. Once the number three, being the third number, be reached, then lobbest thou thy Holy Hand Grenade of Antioch kisses towards thy foe date, who, being naughty in My sight, shall snuff it.' | /r/seduction | 30/07/24 05:58 PM |
| 10 | I took a girl home after 5 minutes (She was hot too)Here you go! You're welcome! https://www.youtube.com/shorts/_Xc5oU92iiY | /r/seduction | 26/07/24 03:57 PM |
| 20 | Talking to a girl and boyfriend comes in..Ask if their bed is large enough for 3 people | /r/seduction | 08/07/24 12:50 PM |
| 82 | What are the smoothest/witty lines you've said to girls?Ignore women. Smoke with cigarettes. | /r/seduction | 10/06/24 10:01 PM |
| 32 | What kind of social interactions with women do you enjoy the most?When they socialize deez nuts! | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 06:23 PM |
| 17 | Being in shape, body game is the foundation to "seduction"I'm curious why more men don't understand that being out of shape is killing your game. "bEcaUse WomeN Tell US THAt lOOKS DOn'T maTTer" I was throwing pipe left and right in my late 20's when I was fit. Then I got into a bad motorcycle accident and was laid up for 4 months before I could walk again. I gained 40lbs in a year. When I finally got back out there, it was the most frustrating thing ever because my entire physicality was compromised. Couldn't dance, couldn't fuck, couldn't exercise in … | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?I don't know a single woman that's between the age of 25 and 52 that's not on Instagram. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:53 PM |
| 170 | How do you text multiple girls at once to see who's free tonight?gorgeous, open women isn't really on Instagram. What year are you from? | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 05:03 PM |
| 3 | Why do women think it’s weird to sleep with their friends?but why are women! | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 04:25 PM |
| 71 | Do cute (6-8) girls act more stuck up than hot (9-10) girls?The hottest women aren't approached as often. When they are approached it's most often the douchiest dudes. More approachable women actually perceive themselves of having more options because they're receiving more propositions. | /r/seduction | 31/05/24 03:26 PM |
| 50 | How can I become a smooth talker?"I have no idea what I'm doing. I just wanted to come flirt with you." Is actually a legit pickup line in itself. | /r/seduction | 26/05/24 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Back into the game, getting coquettedI find it comforting to realize that every relationship fails except the ones that don't. That's like 95% of them. Also along the same concept is that we are everyone's temporary something, whether it be 5 days or 50 years. I don't know how many relationships/dates/sex etc, that I felt sad over not happening i've had because I just simply can't remember. They rarely are ever worth thinking about a week or two later. AKA there's plenty of fish in the sea. Move on and let her be. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 02:44 PM |
| 5 | How many girls do you talk to at a time?Back in my hay-day I tried 4 and couldn't do it. Too exhausting, not enough time. 3 ended up being the max and eventually that got annoying to juggle. These days it's zero basically. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 01:00 PM |
| 2 | guys who are 24+ and/or well past/done with any education/training, where and what types of social settings are you meeting women?It's not necessarily being more wise, but I find that there's less drive due to the beginning of hormonal decline. My body doesn't need to get laid so my brain has more time to care about things other than that. | /r/seduction | 22/05/24 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Would you guys date a high body count woman?I'm in my 30's everyone up here is used up as stomped on shit. My only chance to avoid a high body count is to deal with shithead 20 somethings or divorcees that got married super young. As long as they agree to get STD/STI testing prior to going without condoms and everything checks out, I really just don't have the time to be concerned or insecure about it. I have a high body count and have always been safe. I have to believe someone out there was also healthy/smart. Unless someone's body coun… | /r/seduction | 07/05/24 06:29 PM |
| 6 | What to do when she goes coldThanks. Going through this right now after taking a 2 year break due to the last woman I slept with stalking me. It kinda fucked my shit up so I just avoided everyone for way way too long. Suddenly an absolute hottie with a bad attitude and a high sex drive demanded my attention, because I wasn't giving her any, suddenly I caught the big fee fees and the concept of "the one" popped into my head. She had me purring in her lap like a kitten in no time. Of course I told her that I liked her and she… | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Tips to stimulate two girls to have a threesome at tonight’s dinner?Trade out the weed for coke/molly/meth and yeah it's pretty possible, otherwise it's entirely up to weather or not they've already considered it. | /r/seduction | 19/03/24 11:15 AM |
| 18 | Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?21? Okay grandpa let's get you to bed. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 08:17 PM |
| 2 | I used to be more “reserved” and that showed masculinity, but now not anymore.. How can I gain it back?stutters Stammering, not stutters. | /r/seduction | 17/03/24 06:59 PM |
| 11 | How to not be so easy?Don't tell anyone you're interested that you're in a poly relationship. Just say that you're currently seeing other women. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 02:12 PM |
| 16 | How to not be so easy?Getting the first can be the most difficult part, but once you have one, the second is easier and then it snowballs from there. But getting that first can feel impossible. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 02:05 PM |
| 7 | How to seduce someone you are in the friendzone withThe only way to do this, that I've seen, is to take a lot of time apart. Take back your availability and just don't hang out for 6 months. During that time, get fit, dress better, groom better, and date. Only other catalyst to change their mind is seeing you with a woman of comparable, or hopefully higher, attractiveness to her. Doing both of these things is most likely going to result in them now trying to win back your attention. They will talk shit to you about the woman they see you with to … | /r/seduction | 19/02/24 08:13 PM |
| 11 | After losing weight, some girls have been asking if I’m gay.Expressive Gestures: Using more animated and expressive hand movements when talking. Just FYI there's a specifically different thing where men's mannerisms that are higher than shoulder height tend to orient your arms more vertically and that makes them come off more as effeminately expressive. If you keep your arms low and level it can come off as masculine. At some point I was focused on this and began doing stronger than my typical hand movement, but all chest height and more direct and began… | /r/seduction | 12/02/24 12:52 PM |
| 3 | What to do when a girl calls you bro ?glued down, how did you know? | /r/seduction | 11/02/24 04:48 AM |
| 12 | What to do when a girl calls you bro ?What if we're in bed and she calls me bro...ther? | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Stop Texting WomenWell that's the only paragraph I didn't read! | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 03:38 PM |
| 4 | Stop Texting WomenDecent stuff. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 03:22 PM |
| 19 | app that pays you to desensitize yourself to rejectionThis app is going to get people killed. | /r/seduction | 06/02/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenI like gross food too! | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womentyrosine Never heard of it. I'll pick some up and try it. Adderall made me a nutter. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 07:10 PM |
| 7 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womencumfirm* | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:58 AM |
| 13 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenCialis baby | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 02:05 AM |
| 107 | The most effective and easy way to seduce womenHave ADHD, can confirm, got laid much more consistantly when jacked up on Adderall or coke. I was listening VERY intently. | /r/seduction | 29/01/24 07:58 PM |
| 6 | If a woman likes you, she will let you know"If he's unavailable then he's worth something so I want him. If he's available then he's probably not worth anything so I don't want him." | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 07:33 PM |
| 7 | If a woman likes you, she will let you know95% of any case where a woman has directly verbally told me that she liked me, they did so after I was no longer available to them. When I moved away out of state, I got a slew of "why didn't we ever..." type texts and Facebook messages from women I had no idea were interested. I also got more nudes during this period that I didn't even ask for. Other cases are immediately after I get into a relationship, then creeps come out of the woodwork saying how I could do better. Both cases are incredibl… | /r/seduction | 21/01/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Asking for single women aged 30+I think you should find a new career if you couldn't figure this out. | /r/seduction | 27/12/23 09:34 PM |
| 174 | Women really hate hearing noCareful with this shit. Someone started rumors that me and someone were fucking in secret, another rumor that I was gay, anything so that they don't have to cope with rejection. I ended up having to leave due to complaints AGAINST me when all I wanted to do was be left the fuck alone. I had texts/emails/voicemails they didn't care "You're a disruption to our environment." I told them they were disgusting on my way out. | /r/seduction | 18/12/23 04:17 PM |
| 17 | Drop the ten-point scale. Adopt the binary.change desperate to "haven't jerked off today" | /r/seduction | 01/11/23 07:05 PM |
| 10 | I have been friendzoned by over 30 women. Here’s what I’ve learned:Well what he's trying to say is that it's not "bad=attractive" and "good=unattractive" Attractive=Attractive. It's obviously correct but frustrated people often come to other conclusions. | /r/seduction | 07/09/23 01:07 PM |
| 85 | What I noticed about men that have a hot girlfriend."I have observed that people who run, have legs." | /r/seduction | 05/09/23 04:55 PM |
| 24 | My observations with guys who pull womenFUCK. I do this exactly. If there's one piece of media I'm super into I'll base all interest and qualification on that and surprise surprise it never fucking works out. Ive also never seen this discussed as a latent land mind to avoid when meeting people. I need to have other interests besides media especially post COVID because I ended up working from home and spending hundreds of hours a month consuming media and having absolutely no life. It's gotten to the point to where it felt like nothing… | /r/seduction | 17/07/23 05:30 AM |
| 21 | Girls asking me to buy drinks in clubsLaugh in their face and tell them no. Maybe 1/10 times they might actually respect that and stick around to chat, the other 9 will walk away because they're just interested free drinks from suckers. | /r/seduction | 10/07/23 01:14 PM |
| 25 | I honestly believe this is why the majority of us feel shy around women"but how do I develop it if I'm a loser and I suck?" "No, I mean without working on myself!" | /r/seduction | 10/06/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | The Tesla Method: How To Make Dating EasyTesla spent 0$ on advertising but became the most valuable car company ever by focusing on improving the cars value each day until it became impossible to ignore even with 0 advertising. Well this aged like milk | /r/seduction | 09/06/23 12:05 PM |
| 3 | How many of you on here have actually improved with women after spending time on here?At best you learn how to improve here but the actual work of improving cannot be done here. | /r/seduction | 22/09/22 07:05 PM |
| 0 | What is it like to date or have a gf?Sometimes it's great, sometimes its bad. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Quick Case Study… why not to listen to female’s dating advice (Not an inkel rant)Don't even bother with responding to her. She's probably toxic. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:50 PM |
| 33 | Quick Case Study… why not to listen to female’s dating advice (Not an inkel rant)Yup, she liked you up until that final picture where she saw you with someone she would see as a threat and then REALLY liked you. Don't budge on that shit, it's clearly out of jealousy and you removing that last picture is weak. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Fucked a girl. she says don't make it weird.Don't get one-itus, go seek out other women and reproduce the same results with someone else. | /r/seduction | 13/08/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Right but that cannot be all that you bring and it wont cancel out weird vibes or creepiness, or make up for walking up and asking women for their number while ignoring everyone else. | /r/seduction | 07/08/22 01:00 AM |
| 15 | How to cold approach during the daytime in parks?Don't go trying to jump into social groups with no idea how they formed in the first place and also with the sole intent of trying to pick up the girls. Approach, ask how they all know each other. "Is it some sort meetup group?" If it is a social meetup/school club, they almost always will go out of their way to collect more members... just ask how you can join and you're in because they and you now have the same reason to be there and no one has any more or less right to be present in that grou… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:18 PM |
| 1 | More important than a woman's reaction to you is YOUR REACTION to their reaction.It's something that also requires a substantial amount of self esteem and confidence but does not necessarily come with those even if you got them in droves. I know very confident and intelligent people that still will instantly cave to questioning their own knowledge and opinions just because some hot person gives their opinion with some sort of bravado. Dumb example hypothetical but "I know that 2+2=4" Hot chick says "actually its very certain it's 5" "oh, you could be right, ill back down bec… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 05:02 PM |
| 82 | More important than a woman's reaction to you is YOUR REACTION to their reaction.Honestly the best way to show your value is to have no regard for someone else's opinion. The best way to do that is to not give a shit what someone thinks. For clarification I don't mean to not care about or ignore everyone's opinion around you. I mean to not allow just any cuties opinion to be held more important to your own established ones and cater to theirs hoping it ingratiates you to them. When people say "be yourself" this is what they mean. Don't pretend to be someone else just to get … | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 02:26 PM |
| 5 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?I once randomly matched with like 3 Ashley's in a row then immediately after met an Ashley on a cold approach. They all happened to be pretty bad matches/people. Then a friend of mine wanted to introduce me to her single friend. Another fucking Ashley. I said no without seeing her, or knowing anything about her except her name. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 10:13 PM |
| 6 | If you could go back and tell your newbie dating self anything, what would it be?Stay away from Ashleys they're all bad for your health. | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 03:58 PM |
| 30 | What differences are there between dating or hooking up when you are in your 20’s compared to when you are in your 30’s?More single mothers, divorcees, drug addicts/alcoholics, intentional infidelity without guilt and/or out of malice. It's weird up here and I kind of like it. | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Things I can't tell my fwbThis motherfucker is twitterpated as fuck. | /r/seduction | 08/07/22 09:42 PM |
| 43 | Roommate avoids me nowDONT EVER HOOKUP WITH A ROOMMATE UNLESS SHE ALSO HAPPENS TO ALREADY BE YOUR GIRLFRIEND OR WIFE or sister YOU ABSOLUTE MUPPET | /r/seduction | 01/07/22 08:36 PM |
| 0 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.I don't have FB. I don't know her boyfriend. She lied and cheated and you're attempting to blame me for something. Who here is actually white knighting? It's you. now you know | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 09:22 PM |
| 1 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.This is such a naïve point of view. You have not once fact checked someone as to whether or not they're lying about being in a committed relationship before being intimate with them. Get off your high horse. | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 09:05 PM |
| 46 | You’re not special. If someone is willing to cheat with you, they’re willing to cheat on you. Don’t let your ego convince you otherwise.Just went through an ordeal with this woman. We met, we flirted, I got her number, I asked her out, we met up for a date, I made a move on the date. She recoiled and said she had a boyfriend but was having fun so she wanted to continue to hang out. She pestered me almost daily for weeks to hang out. I did occasionally and she would flirt and touch, but I pulled back because we were just friends. One night she tells me to come out because she dumped her boyfriend. We fucked. Next morning she's on… | /r/seduction | 30/06/22 02:22 PM |
| 4 | how to handle gf tantrumsTry to sit down and write out your feelings and try to communicate them to her while trying to be as little accusatory as you can be. If she can't handle an adult discussion about your relationship then she's not currently ready for one and you should stop wasting your time. You're only rewarding her bad behavior by not introducing consequences. | /r/seduction | 24/06/22 12:06 PM |
| 6 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?But because you’re straight, you’re refusing to date all men, regardless of color. Yes, this is the implied joke. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 08:01 PM |
| 11 | Why do so many girls say they love Trader Joe's in their dating profiles?Straight man here. Is it racist if I also refuse to date black men? They're really not my type. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 12 | Making a girl cum is never simp shit. You don’t have to always use oral, but not using your fingers and skipping foreplay will be to your detrimentPeople who don't like to view women as people. Straight incel shit. | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 10:43 PM |
| 9 | Use this response if others try to shame you for dating a younger woman"They're an adult... stop infantilizing them" | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 04:33 PM |
| 1 | As a man, success in dating is directly tied to how well you handle rejectionRight, If I don't have to handle rejection because I'm doing well in dating. jk But also no. I had a shit bout of depression for a while and was on a dry streak for like 2 years. I didn't get upset with anyone. I made a lot of female friends. Still wasn't successful at dating whatsoever while having grace in all my rejections. | /r/seduction | 12/05/22 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.There was a flaw in my analogy from the start. You're absolutely right. You can learn from the right teacher. There could be a noticeable benefit to learn from someone actually out to help youthat can keep you steering down the wrong path with pickup. The old game that PUA still suffers a stigma from as well as failing too hard and becoming angry and becoming and incel and writing off your own potential altogether. | /r/seduction | 04/05/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Imagine someone handed you a violin and pout you in a room with 5 people you don't know and there were expectations you had to play in front of them for 30 minutes. It would be a disaster because you don't know how to play a violin, you don't really even know how to start other than putting the bow to strings and try to play. Replace the violin with social skills, with the goal in mind of getting all these people to like you. Without experience you're gonna say Hi and roughly try to navigate you… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 08:57 PM |
| 4 | I can get hard but as soon as I try to insert my penis it immediately goes soft this is seriously destroying my self esteem can someone please give me advicestop smoking - especially cigarettes Anything that fuck with respiratory fucks with boners. Run more to improve respiratory too. Stop masturbating. Let her do more work and be on top see what happens. medications can fuck with it, especially anti-depressants and ADHD meds nervousness and anxiety put you into a minor flight or fight response which kills boners (so you can run and fight) talk to a urologist to get T levels checked. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.For me, as everyone is different: Normally It was difficult to think straight because I was overthinking everything, bouncing from one subject to the next as though every little thing to consider were equally and very important. Like unable stay on one set of tracks, I kept jumping tracks so often I couldn't get anything done. After a few weeks on meds it's like, organized calm thought. I could stay on one track for hours... or jump when I wanted to. Sometimes stimulant meds like adderall make i… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Licensed medical/mental health professional vs someone trying to sell you something. Really not the same. Ironically your betterment did not come naturally. Never said I did it alone, or "naturally" (whatever you mean by that). But no one can practice a skill for you, that's what i'm trying to say. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:33 PM |
| 2 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Right everyone in here getting upset, calling me a fag or an idiot clearly don't understand how bad the situation can turn out because they've never been in a similar one. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.It's a skill, just like any other, get out there an practice it. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:18 PM |
| 3 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.:) I see you baby | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 01:14 AM |
| 5 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Even the way you write reeks of delusional neckbeard incel shit. Again congrats on your first 8 month relationship. That's a significant milestone for someone so old and wise. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:52 AM |
| 3 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Not anything anyone else wouldn't tell ya. It's about self control and paying attention to what you buy and the portions you eat. Most people don't know what 1000 calories of common foods looks like. Once you familiarize yourself with that you can better gauge if you served yourself too much of something. Also, I honestly could not do it before getting ADHD medicated. Just too impulsive to control wanting to eat to fill my need for stimulation. Anyway general advice, best things are cutting out … | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:47 AM |
| 3 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.I'm gonna actually write a post on it. Both for the guys here and the girls. Looking forward to it. That was OP's mistake. He pulled away and made her chase It's funny because I wasn't intentionally. I was trying to flee. Anyways I still have her number. I will probably text her to invite her out this weekend, see what she's actually like. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:29 AM |
| 5 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.People around town ask me if I'm that dude that brags about super weird shit and I tell them nah I'm the dude that takes the longest baths in the city. | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:25 AM |
| 5 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Caffeine for me, as with a lot of people with ADHD can actually make me more sleepy. It's like 1 cup and I can pass out at 3pm on a sunny day. 2 cups and ill be slightly jazzy. 3 cups and im shitting myself and feel nauseated. What they put me on is a net benefit to my life and things have gotten noticeably better in my attitude, habits, etc but it hasn't made me feel like a super hero or anything. And yeah FAA doesn't want you under the influence of anything that can alter your state of mind, e… | /r/seduction | 03/05/22 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.I'm in my early 30's pretty sure she's 26-28? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 11:31 PM |
| 3 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Look up symptoms of ADHD and see if they line up with yours if you suspect you have it. There are also quizzes and things online you can take. If you do conclude you might have it, go see a psychiatrist. Just know that if you do drink alcohol a lot they will not prescribe you stimulants. The only one they can prescribe to people with substance abuse disorders is Strattera. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 10:24 PM |
| 18 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.But honestly you’re an idiot. You had a golden opportunity to work with a truly attractive woman who was literally throwing herself at you just because she’s inexperienced and doesn’t know how to communicate properly? As per my post, I didn't know until after that it was due to her being inexperienced. As far as I saw it I was just randomly attacked by a very weird woman as soon as there was no one else in the room. Those are huge red flags. I'm not like you and desperate to need to take every c… | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 09:27 PM |
| 7 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.He's just projecting. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:55 PM |
| 23 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.Exactly. Being good looking can get you laid, just by knowing not to talk a lot. I've seen dudes wreck their own shit because their personality was so terrible that women were like "I wish he would just shut up and be pretty" because not having a personality was preferable to his. Being anywhere between 4-7 out of 10 on the attractive scale is where like 70% of men are at, but most of those have glaringly terrible personality flaws, bad hygiene or other issues keeping them from being successful … | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:52 PM |
| 21 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.I'm in my 30's The biggest things for me were finally actually fixing diet, stop drinking so damn much, went to therapy and found out i've had ADHD probably my whole life and got medicated for it, which allowed me to greatly improve working out, diet, and with my career. And yeah I learned to stay away from aggressive women of any size, in general because they tend to be somewhere between annoying and toxically abusive. | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:41 PM |
| 67 | Flipped perspective with an attractive woman with no game.I'm older and do not need that kind of crazy buzzing around me constantly with needs I don't have time for. Its not worth it, especially because I'm already seeing someone but not exclusive. Yeah meowing like a cat, because people call me "kitten" | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 08:15 PM |
| 7 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?Got rejected by this girl I was obsessed with for months. She didn't just say no, she laughed at made me feel pathetic. It crushed me. Over the next year or so I got better in almost every way. Better job, Gym, tan, new clothes, fucked a bunch of women. Ran into her while out one night with a hottie on my arm and it was obvious from first sight that she saw me differently and wanted my attention. When I didn't give it to her, she tried harder and then got mad and tried to insult me again. I just… | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 09:05 PM |
| 11 | Limiting belief that nobody has ever been into meYou're going to have to get to a point to where you assume everyone likes you. You cannot get there if you don't like you. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Men showing emotionOh no, I'm totally allowed to show anger. Just anger. Any other emotional response comes off at weakness. Anger is the real weaker emotion and being able to show sadness is strength but society doesn't see it that way and I have been dumped for it. When I showed anger, or intimidation women responded positively or neutrally. Rralinebwr negatively. | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Most effective flirting tip for all (has never failed me!)It's going to be one of the days ever! | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Most effective flirting tip for all (has never failed me!)Thanks I have a day in a few days and will try this out! | /r/seduction | 11/04/22 01:14 PM |
| 7 | Don't take rejections to your heart.When I was younger I took every rejection straight to my egos butthole. You know what? I don't remember even 90% of those rejections a few weeks out. Breath, and move on. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 3 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meWe weren't committed and I went on a business trip out of state for a few weeks and when I got back she was seeing someone else, but we still hang out every few weeks as friends, sometimes go to the gym together. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:38 PM |
| 2 | how to get rid of the fuck boy stigma i have around me?Try dating an older woman. Not like 40... but you know late 20's that has a job/house and shit. She will shift your perspective so much that you will get annoyed with trying to go back to dating early 20's women. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:34 PM |
| 16 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meI was seeing a 25 year old at 34. I got shit from people all the time. She was renting a house, had a job, a dog, hobbies, a garden... I told them they're the ones that are infantilizing an adult woman. I'm the one treating her like a real person. Stop acting like she can't consent or can't take care of herself. She can vote, fuck, smoke, drink, take a bullet for her country, fuck, go to prison for crimes... she's an adult and you're being super disrespectful to her agency. Previously almost all… | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 08:28 PM |
| 7 | Dating apps are a waste of time right?No way man. I can do and have done 10 times better with IRL game than on apps. Every single time I met someone from an app they said I look way more attractive in person. I'm just not photogenic and I am charming which doesn't come across in the apps. If I meet them in person I have a slightly lesser chance of taking them home the same day but my overall success rate is higher so my chance of taking someone home is higher in general. | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateYeah, well like I said in another comment I got a big promotion so my priorities are there for a few weeks. Going to be unavailable until I'm settled and then reassess what I actually want. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateWell my initial take on their offers was "if you claim you know someone that you think we'd be a good fit then lets do it." The reality was that they had lonely, not very attractive friends that they wanted to help out and I was way to nice/friendly about the whole ordeal. So I ended up just making a few additional friends but because the situation was meant to be a setup there was pressure for it to be successful in some manner. Since it wasn't, there ended up being disappointment from multiple… | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateOh I already told the female friends to back off about it. Too much "so what did you think of Melissa" catty bullshit. I just got a promotion so thankfully I have plenty to think about for the next few weeks/months. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 03:47 PM |
| 50 | Life is easier after stopping trying to dateI am currently out of balance in this exact way. I hadn't dated in forever and was at peace but then all my 'shipped' friends (mostly women) kept asking why I didn't date and tried to wing for me and set me up with friends. Now, lately i've been waking up with the sting of loneliness and I realized I'm now obsessing about finding someone and am failing due to this. | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | As a nerd how does one go about "Just be yourself" ?I got a new phone and I asked some friends who love to fuck with me pick out a new case for it. they picked out this soft gel case with gold leaf butterflies and glitter suspended in liquid. You can squish it to move the glitter around. Just like this but butterflies. https://m.media-amazon.com/images/I/51H64yZPHGS._AC_.jpg I've had a few women laugh at it and go "wtf" and then I say "its tight as fuck" and show them the glitter moving around and suddenly they're playing with my phone like a dor… | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Social proof without much effort just clever prepYup. Made friends with a bartender. Take hot dates to her bars. get free drinks but also insist I pay for them, bartender tells me she owes me big for that thing. There was no thing she just fuckin rocks. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 02:19 PM |
| 42 | PSA: Don't waste time on girls who don't like youSo all of them. Got it. :( | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 02:12 PM |
| 0 | You should be dealing with 2-3 girls minimum at all times.Back when i was successful at dating, having 2-3 actually kept me balanced and in control of the situation because I wasn't going to jeopardize my position by prioritizing one of them over the others. It worked out extremely well. Nowadayz i get sprung if the subway girl gives me extra banana peppers on my sammy. | /r/seduction | 17/03/22 12:32 AM |
| 4 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.I also heard "I wanna taste your lip gloss" works quite well | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 04:29 PM |
| 8 | Escalation for dummies. Very short version.What do you think is better? Asking to kiss or stating "I want to kiss you" | /r/seduction | 16/03/22 03:58 PM |
| 11 | I'm "one of those short guys who does well" and I think simply stating "I know a short guy who does well with girls" is one of the worst responses you can give"Just be yourself!" | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 2 | Today I lost my V-card to a super hot(9+) girl who mocked my inexperience. I dont know if I should be happy or sad about itSo she was doing absolutely nothing to make the experience better for either of you? Sounds like she's actually terrible in bed while you're just inexperienced. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Am beta bucks in relationship do I just cut my lossesIt depends on if she's asking you to pay vs you offering all the time. If you're just offering all the time then stop. Stop being so available and bending over backwards to appease her. You don't have to break things off. Just go seek other women and stop giving her so much. If she's asking then you need to start saying no. If she insists then you're being used and you need to cut it off. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Can Quiet girls be alluring?Talking is the least important form of communication when it comes to dating. Being quiet isn't a problem, it's that your social anxiety makes it difficult to communicate with others in a way that's meaningful. If you make eye contact with someone you're attracted to, hold it, smile and do a little wave thing, you've already done a huge amount of more meaningful communication than some yappy tart will do the entire night. You need to fix your social anxiety by practicing AND failing a lot. Faili… | /r/seduction | 13/03/22 10:07 PM |
| 5 | The Best Dating Advice I've Ever Received"if you ask someone else how to get her out on a date you've already lost" | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 3 | A woman that, I didn't initially notice "picked me up"they’re so outcome dependent You don't say. Wouldn’t mind an update if you do end up seeing her again. We will see this weekend. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 12:28 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]heh I tried once a long time ago. She was a gold star lesbian. Just got dumped, said she was feeling reckless. Got to my place, she sat on the couch and I quadruple checked with her that she was cool with moving forward so I just stripped down piece by piece while staring at her giggling. I was naked and she touched me for a bit and then said okay now what? So i said well, how do you normally start off, and she said I dunno, a bit of head, so i slowly took her pants off and she had the biggest b… | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 03:47 PM |
| 2 | As a woman you can’t seduce me by flirting if I’m not attracted to you :Crazy that I saw women fuckin trashy dudes all the time... dudes with piles of beer cans in their rooms, no sheet on the bed, showering once a week and re-using fuckin q-tips. All this shit is baseline. Don't be a slob and PEOPLE will be LESS LIKELY to be repulsed by you. | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Right but this at least is an attempt me leading again and bitchshield becoming the follower. Then the only thing she could do to maintain control from there would be to dictate where to go. In which case then me and her would disagree about where and date friend would likely back bitch shields choice and id have left anyways. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?I absolutely agree. | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?I mean you could be right, but that would have had to have been planned before hand. The date wasn't long enough at that point for her to have gotten that dolled up and drive from somewhere. Date girl never had her phone in hand since I arrived and I was only in the bathroom for like 2 minutes when the friend appeared. She'd literally have to be sitting in the car on standby or something. Date girl also could have just left. Or her rude ass friend definitely would have told me to fuck off if she… | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 12:12 AM |
| 2 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Yeah this would have been better than just walking. I'd've at least saved face. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:49 PM |
| 45 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?she just couldn't shake her friend off. Weird scenario though. She didn't even try. Very weird indeed. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:33 PM |
| 23 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Lol well damn I should have stuck around and winged instead! | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?yeah, in any case it's not something I want to be around again so ill just tell her im not interested if she texts me again. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:31 PM |
| 69 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?There we go. That's what I should have tried. Gotta remember this to get out of any weird situations like this in the future. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:24 PM |
| 11 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Can I call men bitches? | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:23 PM |
| 19 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?help her get "rid of you" if she didn't fancy you Yeah that's kind of what I figured was going on at a certain point. Like in my head I was thinking "oh shit maybe this isn't going as well as I thought it was, I better just go before they have to ask me to leave" Nope, she popped right up to stop me, so my brain switched to "oh okay phew, hopefully she hints for friend to leave soon" I was wrong twice. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:21 PM |
| 27 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?Nah, she's doing it intentionally so reacting like that and letting her know I was upset would just fuel her flaming dumpster fire of an ego. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:11 PM |
| 45 | Surprise bitch shield on a date, what would you have done?How old is she?!? Yeah, she's fuckin 29 and has no spine. I'm good. Just wish I didn't get frustrated by the scenario. Bitch shield dunked on me, hard. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 07:03 PM |
| 29 | Anyone who got fit and saw huge difference with women?Why are we only lifting up half of your mom? | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 02:29 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]A nitwitz banana might impress! | /r/seduction | 26/01/22 07:04 PM |
| 20 | [deleted by user]This is some solid fuckin office game dude. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop sleeping with my hookup buddy if I’m starting to like him?Just admit you're dating. There's nothing wrong with that. Casual dating isn't inherently cooler and dating with a romantic interest in mind isn't lame. That whole "first to not care, wins" bullshit in dating needs to die. | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 03:46 PM |
| 15 | What do you think about a woman who is just as aggressive as you?Yeah, but your current form is closer to a bag of garbage. | /r/seduction | 21/01/22 05:39 PM |
| 27 | I am really scared of cold approaching womenPeople are hurting for friendships/companionship right now. I just quietly sat next to a moderately attractive chick in a quiet part of this bar because I wanted to concentrate on a text message exchange with a friend and she just started chatting me up. I didn't even initiate and when she did I apologized and asked if it was cool I sit here for a minute where it's quiet. Ended up chatting for the rest of the night. People want to be swept off of their feet and you're denying them that with your… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 11:32 PM |
| 2 | I’ve been doing porn for nearly 4 years because I was fed up with pickupRight but you also can't make the argument that everybody can love everybody equally otherwise everybody would just marry whoever and personalities and individualistic things don't matter. We absolutely can love somebody more than we love everybody else so the opposite must also be true that there are people that we can't love as much as we want to regardless of how much you invest in them | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:03 AM |
| 11 | I’ve been doing porn for nearly 4 years because I was fed up with pickupEven still if you're not emotionally invested in that person it doesn't matter what kind of techniques toys or concepts that you include it's still missing something | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:40 AM |
| 3 | I've been ripping off song lyrics to get numbersconsidering I don't even know what Im saying half the time, so you're probably right. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 09:57 PM |
| 4 | I've been ripping off song lyrics to get numbersRight so the thing about these kinds of "pranks" are that it feels like you're not really representing yourself. You're doing a kind of roleplay, as something or someone else and it makes it super easy to to accept rejection because it's not really you being rejected. Since left your ego at the door you come off as way more confident and playful. You're outcome independent. That's hot as fuck. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 09:43 PM |
| 6 | I've been ripping off song lyrics to get numberswell in this case it's also what I say The lyrics are cryptic, mysterious and romantic. It's goofy as all hell if you know what song it is but you can't deny the lyrics are interesting. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 09:39 PM |
| 10 | I've been ripping off song lyrics to get numbers"There used to be a graying tower alone on the sea. You became the light on the dark side of me. When it snows my eyes become large and the light that you shine can be seen." getting that out with a straight face is like super hard mode though lol | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 08:40 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I didn't say same company I said same building. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 12:03 AM |
| -3 | [deleted by user]Don't shit where you eat, stupid. There's plenty of women that don't work in your building. Go after them. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 11:34 PM |
| 11 | What to say if a girl says “I think you’re cute”?Yeah. I know. Wanna fuck? | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 11:22 PM |
| 7 | What to say if a girl says “I think you’re cute”?yeaaa, I know. Wanna make out? | /r/seduction | 16/12/21 10:48 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]What if I'm trying to pick up an adult though? | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Fuck the gamewill fuck that loser from college they used to know 3 years ago who has nothing going on. That’s some chump shit. but they wont fuck you | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 06:29 PM |
| -2 | Fuck the game"taking the next dick in the club" "don’t have an ounce of value" Yeah man, maybe go focus on something else besides getting laid. You're getting some unhealthy ideas here. People can fuck whoever they want. They don't owe you shit and you don't own them. They don't sleep with you because they don't like you. That's on you. Not them. | /r/seduction | 08/12/21 05:18 PM |
| 18 | I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through textingThere has always been simps. There's also always been the 80% of women sleep with 20% of men thing too. It's just nature. It's why the numbers game is paramount. | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else lost girls because you didn’t chase her enough?nowadays? This shit is old af. Told a girl I've liked her for a long time, after being friends for like 3 years and she said "oh my god me too" and then I asked her out on the spot and she said "No, cause you aren't trying hard enough" She basically wanted some fairy tail shit on date 1. She got knocked up by the next dude at 22 and he bailed. | /r/seduction | 16/11/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys feel about screwing the neighbour.My neighbor is kinda fine but married and I know her husband owns a gun so I would like to not get shot in the dick by him just for a lay. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when a girl you’re interested in is complimenting you?"Shut up, I know." | /r/seduction | 31/10/21 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Why can I get hookups but not a single relationship my entire life?Anytime I want just sex, everyone I'm seeing demands a relationship. Anytime I want a relationship, I end up only seeing one person and they will revert back to wanting to being just friends. Can't win. | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 4 | Had terrible sex now I think I'm being ghostedDid you throw up on her? Maybe she's weirded out you didn't return the favor. offer to throw up on her, see if she leaves THAT on read. | /r/seduction | 30/09/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask her to pay without making it awkward?"Hey food guy can we go to this festival this weekend?" Sure you gonna pay for us this time? "(some form of no)" Cool, ill go and let you know if the food was any good. ;) | /r/seduction | 21/09/21 10:22 PM |
| 1 | So I think my sisters friend wants meIf you do: Pros; you bang some chick, woopity do Cons; You knowingly stuck your actual dick into a metaphorical mine field of a situation and end up surprised it exploded. Congrats you blew your dick right off your pelvis. Metaphorically speaking. | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 04:38 PM |
| 42 | Men in your mid-30s or older, where are you meeting single women?where are you guys meeting women All over, like... constantly that aren't taken? Oh... no. | /r/seduction | 06/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 8 | Female Perspective On Online DatingEh I do the same and have been surprised and made friends. | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 03:49 PM |
| 0 | If there is one thing that would attract you the most about a woman, what would it be?Is a lack of self-esteem a huge turn off for guys? Not necessarily the low self-esteem itself, but if you constantly whine about it, or question why someone likes you, yeah it's repulsive. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 07:55 PM |
| 31 | Ladies, when visiting a man's home for the first time what impresses the most?I was kidding. They're already proudly on display. If I have anyone come over, friend or fling, and they make any sort of negative comment about them, I already know i've made a misjudgment somewhere. Also bonus is I use candles for ambience in the game too. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 06:40 PM |
| 59 | Ladies, when visiting a man's home for the first time what impresses the most?or their hobbies. So should i put my D&D minifigs on display in my living room? | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 05:52 PM |
| 1 | How powerful is it really, when a girl realises a guy has many other options?and actually a potential dating partner. I don't get nervous by looking at celebrities. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 02:27 AM |
| 12 | How to gain a girl’s interest on a date?Sometimes this happens. I met a girl who was absolutely stunning. Still do think that. We chatted for hours about a bunch of shit enthusiastically. One day I caught a glance down her shirt and was like hot damn, but I realized that was the first time I thought about her in a sexual way. Later on, another night, it was just me and her and I'd had to actually push myself to make a move because it never felt the drive to do so naturally. So I interrupted her mid sentence with a "I want to kiss you"… | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 11:53 PM |
| 0 | She’s coming over but also “sorta has a boyfriend”why would she still come over if she had a boyfriend? Cause she's a sloot. Put it in her poot-poot and then promptly scoot. | /r/seduction | 19/06/20 12:21 AM |
| 13 | If all you have to offer is sex to a woman you have no chanceYou guys are offering 5 minutes? | /r/seduction | 12/06/20 03:10 PM |
| 1 | 16 ways to not get ghosted on TinderSo are people actually using dating apps with the goal to meet someone right now? Seems like everyone would just be on it for attention/distraction and not plan to meet or advance anything. IMHO get off the apps and your asses and go work on fitness, diets, fixing the broken shit around your house (including you) Pretend it's a worldwide herpes outbreak instead... would you still be out there trying to get some? | /r/seduction | 27/03/20 08:09 PM |
| 11 | Think about thatThis is the plot of Hitch. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 07:51 PM |
| 19 | How To Kiss: A Step-By-Step GuideNo, just let me kiss you and you will know the truth of love and shit this is dumb af | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Girls find me attractive, and i can make physical advancements on some of them but i cant go out with any of them or even sleep with them. Whats the deal?So I'm assuming these interactions are happening at school. Be around these girls when you're not at school, where there's a chance of privacy and I bet they'll jump your bones. If not, escalate at a party, or behind the bleachers (whatever the equivalent of behind the bleachers is today) | /r/seduction | 27/01/20 10:56 PM |
| 3 | This is what success looks like gentlemanOnly a matter of time before IE asks to be your default browser despite the fact that it knows you prefer chrome/firefox. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 10:54 PM |
| 0 | How to anwser question "why don't you have a girlfriend?" smoothly?Who told you I didn't? | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 10:12 PM |
| 3 | Girl Is becoming unresponsive..Move on. You have better things to do. Don't hit her up anymore. She will message you if she has any interest and isn't occupied by anything/one else she fancies more. | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 08:36 PM |
| 9 | This is what success looks like gentlemanAnytime I had anyone talk about me like this became a screeching psychotic mess two weeks later because she found out that I spent time with someone besides her. She thought she was special while claiming to know that she was not. Good luck! | /r/seduction | 20/12/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | She asked what relationship i want. Wants more deep convo??If you told her you wanted an exclusive relationship as a goal and she didn't agree in kind or become excited about having a similar goal then it sounds like she thinks she can do better. I bet if you asked her to be your girlfriend she would either decline or have some major hesitation. Are you seeing other women? If not I recommend you do. Even if it's counter to your goal for now. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 05:42 PM |
| 2 | Chick who friendzoned me is coming homeForget about her unless she just happens to end up where you're at or you both get invited to the same party. If you jump on her the minute she gets home you're right back in the friend zone. If you happen to be in the same place as her, just be cool, say its great to see her again and just go talk to other people. Don't give her more time than she's worth. | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Halifax Wings?I don't go out regularly in halifax, no. But according to that list, they've got some decent wings! Goodluck! | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 05:55 PM |
| 0 | Halifax Wings?http://www.halifaxwingman.com/p/daily-wing-specials.html | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 12:21 AM |
| 9 | Are 'Nice Guys' fundamentally the same as 'Pick up artists'?Everyone manipulates everyone. If you find someone that claims they have never manipulated anyone or that they don't manipulate people, they are currently lying to you and manipulating you, as well as themselves into thinking they're a good person. It's all a social ruse. | /r/seduction | 01/12/16 12:07 AM |
| 0 | So raves, what are the do's and don't to get girls?Lots of STD's at raves. Do's: 1. Don't fuck random chicks at raves unless you want STDs 2. Wear a hazmat suit Dont's: 1. Go to a rave to pick up chicks unless you want STDs | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Advice on going out alone?See if there's any local events going on during the days you have free time. Anything that you're interested in or think might be cool. Try meetups and local subs for your area. Going out to the bar alone = don't drink too much + talk to everyone, EVERYONE, like they're already your friend and have a good time. If someone you're attracted to you asks you more than 2 questions, they're interested in some way, offer to hang out sometime if they're local and get their number. | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 10:55 PM |
| 0 | How to handle other guys trying to 'cockblock' you when seducing strangers at bars/clubs?"then a guy who knows what he is doing much more than I am steps in and steals the show." He walked all in and took your shit because he could and deserved it because he could. When you're out classed, be friends with those that outclass you and learn from them. Don't look at them as a threat pushing you out, look at them as though they're already your friend. Ultimately overall you just have to become better and eventually you'll start to notice that you do this to other men as well, and you'll… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 10:34 PM |
| 0 | Is this a shit test?She knows she's not good enough for more of your time and is blaming you for it. Ditch her asap, she'll only get more clingy and mood swingy. | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 09:51 PM |
| 2 | What are your experiences with oneitis?Really invasive thoughts about her. As soon as I'd wakeup i'd hope INTENSELY that there'd be a text waiting there for me from her. Sometimes there was, sometimes there wasn't. One night I invited her out for a drink. She declined and said she couldn't tonight because of family stuff. less than an hour later and I see her out on what's clearly a date. Nearly threw up from the anxiety truck that hit me. Blocked her number that night. Finally got over her and a few months later ran into her. Totall… | /r/seduction | 23/11/16 02:18 AM |
| 7 | When is a guy supposed to start caring for a woman?Care for them in your head and with your actions. Never do it with your words. | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | how to approach a girl you want to friend zone?Do exactly what you would normally do except at some point say "hey lets just be friends since im new here" | /r/seduction | 21/11/16 02:08 AM |
| 4 | How Drunk is Too Drunk?trollin af | /r/seduction | 18/11/16 02:10 AM |
| 7 | Long distance crushes are often the result of "magical thinking" and idealizing people before we ever meet themThat's because you think you have nothing better to do. You do. | /r/seduction | 17/11/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Approach anxietyDon't do it at the gym. It's the worst place to try and talk to women because they're there to work out and improve themselves not get pestered by dudes all day. If she gives you a lot of eye contact while you're working out then consider talking to her. If you happen to bump into her while she's on a break give a quick hello and let her have her sweaty break time. If you happen to be exercising near each other and manage to strike up a convo that's fine but don't cold approach. And please don't… | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 02:43 AM |
| 2 | When A Girl Loses Interest, How do I get it back?And you probably will never know so stop worrying. Improve yourself and try again elsewhere. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 02:35 AM |
| 2 | Disappointed!!You gotta work on your inner game then. If you're depending on "perfect" opportunities, really what you're asking for is an easy mode. There is no easy mode. Only short cuts. Too many short cuts and the structure crumbles. What you need to do is overbuff yourself so that you can confidently deal with life on hard mode... or hell... aim for hardcore you. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 02:17 AM |
| 2 | Thought Provoking Thought Experiment : How would I pick myself up ?Using past fuckups and mistakes as my palette, painting a picture of what a bad date with me would be like is... embarrassing. Seriously I would regret wasting my time meeting up with me. Then again using all the things i'm proud of having done; the accidental funny shit, the flukes, the witty banter, the "im in total zen touching you(well me) connection" I could see me falling for me the way so many have. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 02:13 AM |
| 2 | When A Girl Loses Interest, How do I get it back?The best thing you can do for yourself is to move on and do really well with someone else. Maybe this student teacher see's you doing well with that person and changes her mind about you. Don't do the second part on purpose, though, by bringing a someone else in front of her to show off. It's petty and manipulative. Just find someone else that's of similar or higher value as the student teacher and go for them. Not only will you not care about the student teacher anymore, but if she does see you… | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Girl asks me to give her two good reasons...This is you trying to qualify for her. It's the opposite of what you want to do. This is exactly what she expects and it's boring and predictable. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Girl asks me to give her two good reasons...First, ignore that she's hot, that's a trap. Secondly yes it is a shit test. She's trying to make you qualify yourself to her. options are flip that shit on its head. Challenge her back. Make a joke of her shit test. Joke option: Because 1. i'm great at counting (and then don't have a 2nd) [this is least effective unless she's hurting for a funny guy] challenge her back: If im giving you two things then id better get two in return, what else are you prepared to offer? [this is instant sexual ten… | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 01:00 AM |
| 4 | A weird situation i have been in now multiple times. Arranged tinder hook ups - then Silence.They want attention and you're giving it to them. They don't need the date. Try declining the nudes and tell them you'd rather meet in person, this will probably throw them off in a good way but doesn't guarantee that they will be any less flakey. If they don't show/go silent/cancel, don't repeat the cycle, tell them to fuck off and find someone that's gonna give you what you want. Stop letting them waste your time. | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 12:50 AM |
| 0 | What are your 'go too' questions after you open during nightgameRandom questions as opposed to interview questions are more fun because they're different. This convey's that you're interesting and fun. If you only ask those random goofy questions the person you're asking is either not going to take you seriously or is going to get annoyed because they hardly mean anything and it's a bit spazzy. it will make you seem like you have no where to go but cheezefill and outside of highschool it's pretty lame. It hardly matters what you say, or ask. It's about how y… | /r/seduction | 16/11/16 12:30 AM |
| 4 | Most confident when hungover...why?being hungover 24/7 problem solved. | /r/seduction | 07/11/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | What to do when dealing with the police and false rape accusationsNo, definitely not. | /r/seduction | 13/10/16 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Cant Establish Meaningful RelationshipsTry talking to them about stuff. Watch how fast the sex falls away and you end up being friends with girls. | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 12:26 AM |
| 2 | What's the best way to approach someone in the service industry without making it harder for them to do there job?As someone who has dated a few in the service industry, 2nd and 3rd shifters, cooks, bartenders etc Unless you're also in one or more of those categories... JUST FUCKIN DO NOT. | /r/seduction | 11/09/16 12:23 AM |
| 12 | 5 Things To Talk About With A Girl You LikeTLDR "Stop searching for the right thing to say and talk about whatever YOU want. That's what shows you're a man of value." | /r/seduction | 03/09/16 10:12 PM |
| 1 | What do you do when your date talks too much and runs you down?Usually tell them that they talk a lot if its incessant. If I like them then I'd probably just interrupt them mid sentence, kiss her and then move to a location with alcohol. | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 01:25 AM |
| 32 | The hottest girl you've ever seen walks into the room, what do you do?Considering I'm in my room... I'd be a little confused and ask her who she is, how she got through 2 locked doors and most importantly why she's in my room, while reaching for my phone in case I need to dial 911. If she's cool, though, i'd invite her to not watch a movie thats playing on my TV while im browsing subreddits full of self help click bait. What would YOU do, OP? | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 01:19 AM |
| 1 | TBH I can't find girls who are cool with just hanging out/hooking up 1-2 times a week. How do you guys get away without texting/calling girls after dates/sex without pissing them off?I have had women tell me they're not that kind of woman and then within 30 minutes their clothes were off and we were goin at it. Most people say what they THINK they should in order to not be judged by others. Doesn't mean she doesn't want to fool around anyways. No strings attached isn't always considered toxic to women. | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 05:40 PM |
| 1 | "Text only to set up dates." Outdated advice from old guys?Easier sure, because its not in person, you're not building tension. The tension is what you're afraid of and it's what you need to actually have sex. | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Trouble giving the final step. Care to share your advice?There used to be an actual flow chart for general bar/club cold approaches but i can't find it anywhere. Sorry mate. | /r/seduction | 07/06/16 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Trouble giving the final step. Care to share your advice?Talk/introduction-> Kino/flirt -> isolate -> make move whenever you want. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Anybody else feel overwhelmed by the amount of things you're supposed to change or start working on?It's about improvement, not about suddenly magically being improved. If improvement didn't take any work then everyone would be ripped and no one would care. Just do what you can keep track of. Eventually you'll change your habits. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Rock bottom, need advice.Nah, don't do that self deprecating shit either. Everyone goes through shit all the time. It's recognizing that your current state is temporary. (unless you have chronic depression that is) If you stop now you won't get any success and you'll be stuck thinking you failed. Eventually, you keep trying and you'll stop failing and go "hey that wasn't so bad" and keep goin. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 01:45 AM |
| 1 | What does it mean to lead a girl on?She wanted to wife you but you said nah and that hurt her feelings cause she let you fuck her. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Rock bottom, need advice.Rock bottom? Just a bit, melodramatic. Some people go years without getting any interest at all. Get over it, its not worth dwelling on. Once you're over it, get back out there and fail until you succeed at what you want, fuccboi. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 01:20 AM |
| 5 | "Text only to set up dates." Outdated advice from old guys?It's not exactly right anymore. The idea has evolved/refined a bit now. It was primarily meant to ward you off from texting dumb bullshit and every thought you had to someone you didn't know just because you're excited about them. It makes you seem overly available. Do you honestly have nothing better to do with your time than text people all day? The idea is: Don't text a bunch of bullshit all day, that's what friends do. Text when you have time and don't be overly available to someone you hard… | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 01:14 AM |
| 12 | TBH I can't find girls who are cool with just hanging out/hooking up 1-2 times a week. How do you guys get away without texting/calling girls after dates/sex without pissing them off?i'm always up front about what im doing. "im not the relationship type" "not looking for anything serious" etc... well BEFORE i hook up with them. If they arn't down (they usually are still) then I move on. It's the fucking and going quiet that people find rude and inconsiderate and they don't want to have to explain that shit. | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 12:54 AM |
| 6 | [Kino] Love Aura: Place the palm of your hand as close as possible to your partner’s palm without actually touching. Do this for several minutes, during which you will feel not only heat but also, sometimes, eerie kinds of sparks.I tried this but we accidentally touched and she woke up. Police are coming and I'm locked in her closet. What should I do next? | /r/seduction | 05/06/16 12:39 AM |
| 3 | I just made a list of questions to ask during Day Game. Need some correction and advice to improve. :)Some of us are both! | /r/seduction | 06/03/16 02:30 AM |
| 1 | For the first time, I think I actually understand the importance of inner game and abundance mentalityPeople consider DJing to be really cool and also generally a great position of authority in very social settings. What they fail to understand is that DJ's can still be introverted, quiet and not confident in their social ability. They're making the assumption that because you're a DJ you must be cool AF and constantly bombarded with attention. | /r/seduction | 03/03/16 02:09 AM |
| 2 | Now that I am really successful with women, I hate them more than ever.Yup, very similar feelings here. Feels like as soon as I learned what women want, and I started emulating that, I realized everyone... not just women... are looking for someone better than them to validate them, and that's it. | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 08:39 PM |
| 2 | What lessons can be learnt from CalifornicationHe's 100% "I do what I want" and "I don't give a fuck about all these trifling matters you spend countless hours stressing over" | /r/seduction | 29/02/16 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Going to a venue alone. Help?If you're going to drink, don't get shitty enough to annoy people and be that sloppy drunk guy that everyone is trying to avoid. You will end up in a bad situation of dont want to stay but can't leave without ubering home and then back for your car the next day. Really it's all about you being comfortable. Walk in like you belong and own the place. Be loudly nice and personable to staff as soon as you come in. Scope around for some cool looking people to talk to and walk right up to them immedia… | /r/seduction | 23/02/16 12:27 AM |
| 4 | [FR]Completely bitched out by a girl last night, but stood my groundSo this girl was mad someone else got attention she thought she deserved and you gave it to her. I would have looked right through her at her friend and attempted to isolate right there. *Look at her friend "hey you wanna go dance over there?" If she says no, move on and talk to someone else not part of that mob. If she said yes, go have fun. If bitch cock blocks you, redirect her attention somehow. "hey that guy is trying to get your attention over there" point in random direction when she look… | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 11:09 PM |
| 3 | Take her roller skating.As a guy who had a girl invite him to a roller rink for a date... please make sure it's not an event night as this place was packed full of little squads dancing crazy well, going what seemed like warp speed all over. I had major intimidation/fear of looking like a fool issues because i had not roller skated in 10+ years. I ran into so many people, twisted my ankle and ended up so tired and frustrated by the end that it put me in a bad mood. It was my fault I let the situation affect me, but it … | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 10:59 PM |
| 1 | describe in detailed and practical steps the way a young lady should clearly and unambiguously communicate her rape fantasy during a one-night standThe more you rush into it, the more dangerous it is for everyone. It takes trust. Trust may only take you 2 minutes of reading a script but personally as someone who has play raped multiple girls multiple times... It was no snap decision. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 03:12 PM |
| 1 | describe in detailed and practical steps the way a young lady should clearly and unambiguously communicate her rape fantasy during a one-night standLots of communication before hand. Like possibly hours of communication. | /r/seduction | 20/02/16 02:59 PM |
| 0 | People who are dating your friends. How did you ask them out?https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice | /r/seduction | 05/02/16 09:30 AM |
| 2 | So what's the deal with yoga?Depends on where you are a bit. In my experience its majorly dominated by women of all ages and backgrounds. It attracts a lot of hippy and astrology types which i can't stand but I run into every type of girl there generally. | /r/seduction | 28/01/16 12:30 AM |
| 2 | No matter how little alcohol I drink, I reek of itMy go to drink ended up bring whiskey with ginger-ale and lime. It's not the best tasty drink but the ginger-ale covers the whiskey really well and isnt all syrupy like coke. or just dont drink | /r/seduction | 09/01/16 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Shit test or genuine concern? Overanalyzing everything is making me cynicalSounds like you're putting what she wants before what you want. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 09:19 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film.../u/SashaDaygame won't appear at your date magically and give you a boost to your confidence. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 03:48 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...Right. I'm just saying it's really that oppression that causes something like this community to exist. If everything were great, then we would have no one needing help. That oppression is the bullshit we're taught by society. The help we offer is undoing that teaching. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 03:47 PM |
| 2 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...Yeah sure, once you learn that this mentality even exists. I know 30 year olds that felt this way until something, like this video, introduce them to these ideals. Like the first time people read or watch fight club. Suddenly they realize... that holy shit I can and should take control of my life. | /r/seduction | 09/12/15 03:20 PM |
| 47 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...Doesn't surprise or amaze me at all. We're beaten down into this position by society. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...You're the creep in the video. Someone break this fucker's mirror! | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 07:15 PM |
| 14 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...You know, she won't just appear like the girl in this video. You have to actually go OUT and find them. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:47 PM |
| 220 | I thought I was the only one who felt this kind of anxiety around women, then I saw this film...When he pulled out his phone..... I know that feeling... way to god damned well. Thanks for showing me this. Jesus also the mirror smashing scene. I really hope that this video makes it's way around outside of the PUA community. Something like this is needed, that speaks to everyone, that can be the catalyst to stopping the widespread hate of PUA. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Shit test or genuine concern? Overanalyzing everything is making me cynicalAsk her why she keeps asking you those kinds of questions. Be logical about solving this problem. She's either going to try to backpeddle "Don't worry about it, nvm" kind of chickinshit answers or she's going to tell you whatsup. "because I like you and i want to make sure its mutual because its making me feel self conscious" then... well she see's you as relationship material and you need to figure out whether or not thats what you want. Edit: I really don't see this as a shit test unless she's… | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Does anyone else give off the vibe that they get laid regularly but, in fact, they have barely any sex life to speak of?You're probably being downvoted because people assume because you're in highschool that your experiences are invalid. I had the same issue pretty much up until I lost my virginity and then for years after anytime someone asked when i lost my virginity and i told them, the same old "NO WAY" argument would come up. | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Does anyone else give off the vibe that they get laid regularly but, in fact, they have barely any sex life to speak of?People think im a total slut. Sometimes i go along with it too because i prefer that to when people knew or suspected I never get any action. The truth is I have sex maybe 1-2 a month. Sometimes if i get close and intimate with someone im romantically interested in I will sleep with them 4-6 times over a month or two but that's kinda the upper limit and it's generally only with that one person. Still, demeanor and keeping females ive slept with around as friends makes it appear to everyone else … | /r/seduction | 08/12/15 04:49 PM |
| 2 | I am a female and need advise on how to close with new guy.Lol, well then stop thinking so much into it! Go get you some! | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:41 PM |
| 2 | I am a female and need advise on how to close with new guy.This is why I get annoyed with women playing hard to get. You can be honest and just say "Hey I dig you, but I can't tonight, lets try for xday instead" | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:17 PM |
| 1 | Some bars/clubs are not pickup friendlyThe only reason bouncers would kick you out is if you were being an obvious creep, annoying someone enough that they noticed, or someone told the bouncers that you were being creepy or annoying and asked them to have you bounced. Clubs and bars are pretty much centered around getting people 1) drunk 2) laid. | /r/seduction | 01/06/15 06:09 PM |
| 1 | what do you say when texting and a girl says 'come here' and you cant?I would but I'm busy, sorry babe. | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Moving to a new townOne thing that I found that worked amazingly well and that relieved pressure from me having to constantly entertain new folks was to make friends with a few classmates or people you run into frequently and once that rapport was built, just continually invite other people to come hang out for breaks/lunch etc | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Seduction By Touchdude wow no, super creepy. If you're being playful just throw some ice at her or something | /r/seduction | 22/05/15 07:53 PM |
| 2 | how to leave the friendzone?Uhm, if you're friend-zoning someone... Think of all the things you don't do with friends of yours. Like sex, kissing, making out, flirting, rimjobs etc Got that list in your head? Good, now don't do those things with someone you want to friend zone.... | /r/seduction | 20/05/15 11:47 PM |
| 6 | 33/F. Want to increase my social status with friends and at work.From what I understand, being happy, outgoing and friendly works for most everyone. The key is actually inviting people out to have fun. on 1v1 its creating an emotional bond. I wish i could help more but i was born with the wrong gender label. | /r/seduction | 15/05/15 02:12 AM |
| 12 | PSA: Just Do ItK, done. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 10:56 PM |
| 21 | PSA: Just Do Itbut i don't wanna! | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 09:12 PM |
| 11 | Gay Bar Dick Pic Opener - Might work for straight boys tooI can't think of a way to translate this directly for a straight M/F interaction. Also as a male with many gay friends, holy shit gay men get to be so fuckin direct it's recockulous. | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 08:53 PM |
| 29 | Have any of you ever roomed with a female?Probably but it will get you used to dealing with it long term. I got to a point very quickly where I realized that escalating an argument over stupid shit with someone who is irate just to prove that I was right, was INCREDIBLY useless. Just walk away and talk about it when you both calm the fuck down. We drank together and banged a few times. Not banging and controlling your shit is up to both of your levels of self control/restraint. Trust me, if she has a boyfriend you don't want to get into… | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 07:24 PM |
| 31 | Have any of you ever roomed with a female?I roomed with a girl 6 months. She was single when we moved in together and moved out with her boyfriend when our lease was up. What specifically did you want to know? | /r/seduction | 14/05/15 07:11 PM |
| 6 | What are some funny sweet nothings to say to a girl you've been dating?I'm gonna do it. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 03:44 AM |
| 6 | How do I respond to when a girl complements my eyes?"Thanks, I grew them myself." "Well, they're not for sale." -have to deadpan it. "I bet you say that to all the boys with pretty eyes" "They like what they see as well." | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 03:21 AM |
| 3 | What are some funny sweet nothings to say to a girl you've been dating?Oh god, im currently dating this divorcee. I'm not sure if this would go over extremely well or extremely terribly. | /r/seduction | 07/05/15 03:20 AM |
| 2 | What do you do when you finally find a girl you like, and game seems to go out the window?Now actually doing this is difficult as fuck. Source: someone currently pining over that "special" girl. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 06:42 AM |
| 1 | What do you do when you finally find a girl you like, and game seems to go out the window?"keep your cool and not come on too strong" You're just going to have to realize she's not all that special. Your brain is getting jacked up on all these chemicals trying to tell you that she is... but in reality she's 95% the same as every other person you've met. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 06:24 AM |
| -5 | What does the word "fuckboy" (fuckboi) mean and how is someone a "fuckboy"?Ha, thats funny. I've been called fuckboy by girls who were all over me at the same time calling me sexy and a player.... | /r/seduction | 01/05/15 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Why social anxietyFocus more on having fun and not so much on your results. It also may be that even though you pushed out of your comfort zone initially, that zone grows with you. Push out of it again. | /r/seduction | 30/04/15 07:31 PM |
| 1 | If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you?Why does their size matter? It does because they receive the same number of sensory neurons regardless of their size. Larger breasts means those nerves transmitting the signals in her breasts are "stretched" or further apart than in smaller breasts. You think their boobs are less sensitive if they are larger Yes. and they won't feel it is they are pressed up to a man? I suppose i've answered this several times already but once again. I assume they could be unaware some of the time, but I don't h… | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 11:10 PM |
| 1 | If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you?I'd ask the girls i know who are on the larger side of the spectrum but id doubt they admit to anything. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 04:57 AM |
| 0 | If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you?Eh, i've known quite a few women who were very large chested that knock over shit on accident with their tits. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Seddit dance guide?Take a dance class if you want to get good at dancing. Step out of your comfort zone and learn that you are in charge of how embarrassed you are of your actions. I wish I could say that you could simply just turn off embarrassment when you intend to have fun but it takes repeated steps of embarrassing yourself to realize that its a worthless emotional state to be in or allow to control you. Get out there and dance to have fun, not to show off or impress anyone. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 02:28 AM |
| 1 | I absolutely hate texting, I'm awful at it, what are some ways I can get better at it/skip it?Sure, working on it is more productive than avoiding it. It is a useful tool. If one were to absolutely want to avoid using it as much as possible, then it should just be used as little as possible. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 01:56 AM |
| 8 | I absolutely hate texting, I'm awful at it, what are some ways I can get better at it/skip it?Don't use it except to share the logistics of the next meeting. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 01:33 AM |
| 0 | Oneitis for my ex-girlfriend's best friendPlease take this to /r/relationship_advice | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 12:45 AM |
| 8 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few dowhy are you going to make a promise your ass can't cash? | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 12:21 AM |
| 20 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few dobut you PROMISED! I can never trust you now. | /r/seduction | 28/04/15 12:06 AM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl out?Sidebar, stop being fuckin lazy | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 11:59 PM |
| 1 | If a girl with a boyfriend wants to fuck me, how do I maintain the sexual tension until she's single?She's keeping you on a leash you poor bastard. You're not getting any, and it sounds like she has you babysitting her emotional state since her boyfriend won't. She and her bf will split up, she will depend on your for emotional support and will never fuck you, unless she gets shit faced at some party and does it. Then will never allow herself to do it again because she doesn't want to ruin your friendship. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 11:56 PM |
| -1 | If a female friend (casual environment) is standing so close to you that her boobs 'squish' and she doesn't step back, is she flirting with you?Some girls just have no spacial awareness for their breasts. I would depend more on a woman flirting with her eyes, hair, and hands than just blatantly mashing her breasts on you while doing something that requires you two to be that close. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 11:53 PM |
| 64 | Female Orgasm 101: What every guy should know but few doNever make promises you aren't 100% sure that you can keep or fulfill. Otherwise you're just a blowhard liar. Good luck with the poonani! | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 11:50 PM |
| 1 | People don't make eye contact with me...Loud personality, dressing well. Walk into every room like you own the place. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 08:07 AM |
| 0 | Peacocking without looking like a douche bag.Two words... Lightup adult sneakers! | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 08:06 AM |
| 1 | People don't make eye contact with me...Agreed with /u/coftsock you have to get their attention first. Then lock in with the eyes. | /r/seduction | 24/04/15 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Confidence Beats out Good ConversationBut that is the high. Ditch the crutch and express yourself more. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 06:21 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with it when a girl wants to keep hanging out and thinks you may have something when you have zero attraction?"I don't like you." that or the fade. | /r/seduction | 23/04/15 05:20 AM |
| 2 | Having the rest of your life in order is important.Well the problem with that, is that I've done it. I create this list in my head, and "if she has 2/10 of these qualities ill take her. If she has 5/10 of these qualities ill seriously date her. If she has 10/10 id probably marry her." mentality that leaves me only restricting myself from trying with anyone because the chances of finding 7+ are statistically ridiculous. On top of that, i've learned that people really aren't all that different from each other. | /r/seduction | 19/04/15 03:19 AM |
| 1 | What to do when going alone?Go out and make friends. Look for people that look open. Anyone who makes eye contact with you. Just go up and say hello. | /r/seduction | 04/04/15 03:07 AM |
| 25 | Teach me how to steer the conversation sexuallyIncluding asking for information! | /r/seduction | 19/03/15 08:19 PM |
| 3 | Simple tricks to impress girls?Being outgoing, witty, funny, charming, confident aren't magic and work EXCEEDINGLY well. | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 09:04 PM |
| 1 | Are women attracted to Creed Aventus?Bring a girl that likes you that you know has good taste and see what her reactions to the smell are. I had two girlfriends in a row who picked out the exact same cologne for me without really knowing about it. (I didn't ever wear that cologne with the 2nd gf until she bought it for me) | /r/seduction | 12/03/15 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Seddit has made dating and meeting women effortless, but I have a huge fear of F-closing beautiful women.Now you're gettin' me hot! | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | [FR]-ish Getting massive IOI's but never a single response.I was smoking a cig outside when she arrived and I began flirting there. don't care either way. I didn't send her a single message on facebook. She spammed mine though. She was drunk and put her number in my phone wrong. She asked the bartender about me not texting her, I asked the bartender about her not texting me. Sorted out that issue pretty fast. She's amaze-balls in the sack. Ty for all of your conjecture. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?I like "Does he treat you well?" when she undoubtedly says yes, i follow up with, "oh thats good, I wouldn't" everyone has either responded with the "omg what did you just say?" shock face or laughed their asses off. It works really well when its in a group with guys too because they ALWAYS laugh so even if she takes offense, the other guys will keep shit from getting awkward. | /r/seduction | 01/03/15 06:37 AM |
| 8 | How to take an fwb relationship to the next level?You know shes like, a person right? If she's sleeping with you, she likes you. Just have a DTR and see if she wants anything more than FWB. If she does, you now have a gf, if she doesn't stop seeing her, or lose your interest in her beyond sex. | /r/seduction | 28/02/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?Right, but again, its not your business unless your business is to act as a pussy vulture. | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 07:34 PM |
| 14 | How to respond to "I have a boyfriend" when she likely actually does and it isn't just a random girl who you will never see again?It may work but morally I would feel fucking terrible if i caused someone to question and possibly derail their current relationship. If it has problems and it ends up terrible like most relationships do, that kind of thing should work itself out on its own. Do whatever you're okay with, im just saying its kind of a dick move, home wrecker type shit to manipulate someone you don't know into questioning their relationship. Whether or not its a good relationship is really none of a strangers busin… | /r/seduction | 27/02/15 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or DAE have a hard time applying seduction theory into practice, even though you agree with it and totally *get* why it works?I found substituting other things that excite me helps a lot. Things that don't invoke that fear that get me going like a favorite pump me up song before I arrive or jumping up to sing karaoke. I went out tonight and, although two friends bought me drinks, a shot and a beer, i didn't even get buzzed and I was able convince myself to get up in front of everyone and sing a song and was over all able to have a fun night. I did not open with anyone unfortunately, due to my random bar friends keeping… | /r/seduction | 25/02/15 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Is it just me or DAE have a hard time applying seduction theory into practice, even though you agree with it and totally *get* why it works?the stark difference between how i acted in day game and how i acted in night game got me so frustrated. I decided the real issue was weaning myself off the crutch of alcohol. It can become a real issue when you think you need alcohol to be a fun person around strangers. | /r/seduction | 25/02/15 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Is going to see fifty shades of grey on valentines day a good idea?Not with someone you don't really know. If you met this girl at a bar, got her number and asked her this... only some nympho/crazy girls would think this was a good idea. | /r/seduction | 05/02/15 04:36 PM |
| 1 | A girl asked me out on a date. I've never had a girlfriend before.Yup, just remember to ask yourself "Do I like this person? How is this date going for me? Am I having fun?" like once every 30 minutes or so. If you like the person and want to keep seeing them but things feel like they're stagnating a bit date wise. Change shit up, go on a walk, or suggest a new venue with the person. | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 08:45 PM |
| 4 | A girl asked me out on a date. I've never had a girlfriend before.You're thinking waaaay to much into it. The entire point of a date is to learn about the other person, to see if you like them, and want to see them again and again. Don't go into the date worrying if it will go okay, or if you will fuck up things up or if she likes you. You're only concern is whether or not you like her. Have fun, don't be a dick, don't have high expectations (its POF afterall) Learn about the other person. If you feel the date is not going well, then find a socially acceptable… | /r/seduction | 22/01/15 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Choking during the mid gameI haven't run into this very specific issue myself but maybe its just a matter of lack of chemistry or maybe you have issues staying out of your own head. Are you suddenly taking yourself out of the situation mid conversation and realizing that you just don't enjoy that type of interaction? Are the conversations boring? Are you looking to be challenged and not finding it? You've got to be diligent about what caused the tire to explode when it explodes. Once you've put on the donut and driven on … | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 08:36 PM |
| 1 | 13 Numbers, 15 Approaches. Here's my Second Approach! Critique!?Sounded pretty good for the few minutes I listened. You sounded obviously nervous with the hisitaton, and ums and i agree with the other commentor that your tonality is just a bit off. No offense but you sound like the possibly homosexual dork that would get instantly bestfriendzoned by most girls. It's the inflection. You do sound super friendly and intelligent enough. Just seems like that spark of sexuality wasn't in your voice, or your words. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 05:32 AM |
| 3 | provoked by multiple betas to fight while on a date, how should I have reacted?Well first of all she was scared and wanted anything that could possibly end the scary situation to happen. The easiest route in her mind was to plead with you to give the bad guys what they want so that they would go away. Sounds like she got frustrated that you were not helping her to not be scared and snapped at you. Unless you're a professional fighter, 1v3 is never something you have an advantage in. If you jumped into that fight, chances are you would have been left unconscious with her to… | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Choking during the mid gameAre you not having fun in these interactions? Cause if you're not then you should move on to something you enjoy. | /r/seduction | 21/01/15 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Lessons learnedThat's exactly my point. That's good if your goal is to have her and your lives be connected in that way. For a lot of people that stuff happens naturally or they don't want it at all atm. Important to know your goals and it seems that you do. | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Where you are matters. To those who have been successful with women in different places: what effect does location have on the dynamics of success with women?Stockton california. Only 5-6 good bars. There are a ton of gangster filled dives on the south side though. | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Lessons learnedAgreed. The point isn't to have to fake being clever. What do you think you're going to follow it up with if you have to Google responses in person? Agreed. I would also add that knowing what you want also helps with being successful. At the moment, I don't want to go around fucking girls. It's not my goal. I want to find someone who can add the to the inspiration in my life, and who I can add to theirs. Make sure you know what you want or you will fumble at pushing yourself to reach goals. Agre… | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 08:17 PM |
| 2 | So I'm comfortable with approaching girls and just having a friendly conversation at a bus stop or college dining hall. How do I pursue a girl romantically at a bar?I agree with most of what zomgitsduke is saying except for the facebook part. If you're all having fun for a decent amount of time, make sure you crack in a few comments, eye contact, and smiles with the girl you're interested in and at some point isolate her for even just a moment. Go get some fresh air, another drink, grab a smoke if you do that and bring her along. Get her number before you return to the group and go back to laughing and having fun, but throw in some smiles and eye contact to… | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 06:28 PM |
| 3 | Where you are matters. To those who have been successful with women in different places: what effect does location have on the dynamics of success with women?I live in a 300k city and there really are only 5-6 good bars so I learned to make friends at all of them because people just cycle those same bars over and over. So it's kind of like a blender of people that i've met all over. People become my friends and then I find out their friends are also my friends from another place. Its ample social proofing. | /r/seduction | 09/01/15 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Pursuing a relationship with someone who has had sex with 23 different people in three yearsimagine a scenario where every single one of these dudes was in the same room with you. Some are way more attractive than you and some are way uglier. You are average to her, completely average. How would that make you feel about her? If they were all better looking than you, they dressed better, they all showed up driving expensive cars. You are the least desirable man in the room by normal objective standards. How would you feel about her then? Try taking yourself out of the equation and reali… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 02:44 AM |
| 5 | Pursuing a relationship with someone who has had sex with 23 different people in three yearsHave you had sex with this person yet? If not try that first. It might help you understand that its not a big deal whether its too many or too few. I've had 26 sexual partners in 6 years but about 10 are within the last year alone. Does that say anything good or bad about me? My last ex had 40+ sexual partners total. My little sister has 60+. It may say something about their self esteem, it may say something about how much she likes sex. If it makes you uncomfortable you should figure out an und… | /r/seduction | 04/01/15 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Tips for building up "mystique" or intrigue?Sometimes I feel bad when they get so curious though. Make sure you can resist those puppy eyes. I have such an issue with giving in too early to this. I screwed up a night of perfect fun. I managed to pull 3 numbers back to back within 15 minutes but on the last one she asked like 4 questions while holding my phone... i ended up taking my phone back and said "nevermind you ask way to many questions" and then immediately turned and invited her friends to my place. She of course changed her mind … | /r/seduction | 03/01/15 02:38 AM |
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