shitlife4point0 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
66	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year.		shitlife4point0	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 05:43 PM

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1	Q4M: Any truth to the "Nose Ring Theory"? Yes, it is I. I am not feminist, a man hater of any sort, used my trauma to grow as a person not let it hold me back and don't allow it to be used as a scape goat fo shit behavior, haven't voted Democrat in years except on a single issue (legal MJ and I don't even really smoke it myself lol). So yeah dude, we exist. People profile me the moment they see me as I have the septum, two nostril piercings and tattoos, but once they start talking to me they realize, I'm not a nut job. I just like to ex…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/25 10:05 PM
0	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. No I don’t always. I don’t find this to be a red flag at all. Is he just supposed to know everything? He wasn’t thinking about in a perspective to hurt me by any means and didn’t realize it was that big of a deal as I’ve previously stated I do want to move. Just never gave an indication of when. So I am at some fault for his ideas because I didn’t speak up about exactly what I wanted.	/r/askFDS	17/02/21 08:38 PM
7	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. I completely agree. I came here to get opinions to ensure I wasn’t being outlandish by any means. We aren’t arguing over this or anything of that manner, I just didn’t like how the conversation went last night as far as why we should do what we should do. It’s just not sitting with me right when we aren’t even engaged.	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 08:12 PM
12	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. We have actually talked about how if he just would have let me move into the home he was renting from his father when I bought this house, we both would have had over 20k a piece saved up by now... but he wasn’t ready for me to move in with him full time so.. I can’t force someone to do that. In the same regard, he can’t force me to sell my house and put what profit I were to make down on a house together. Technically I have zero obligation. We aren’t married. And if he ever feels the need to pr…	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 08:07 PM
21	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. He moved in nearly right after I bought my house. Maybe because of my doing? I told him I wouldn’t be coming to stay at his house very often anymore now that I own a home because I would have a lot to be taking care of. Not to mention his home was nearly an hour from mine and at the time my job was also located a decent ways away from his house. He’s had the opportunity to save ample funds. As I’m sitting here typing this out.. I’m realizing he’s been in a better position than me the entire time…	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:42 PM
5	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. He has made it clear he wants marriage. On many occasions. He just hasn’t made the effort to ask yet I guess. But is willing to talk about things that are incredibly important that you typically talk about once you are married. I think he just needs to figure out what he wants because I already know. I just can’t give up something I’ve worked so incredibly hard for on a whim that he may one day finally take that notion. Words aren’t enough for me. Action says a lot.	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:28 PM
16	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. The only flaw I am truly seeing at this point is that he’s been so hesitate about marriage. We literally live and do as if we were married. And now this has come up. Now mind you, we are not arguing over the situation or anything like that. The conversation just keeps getting brought up and I’m confused as to why this conversation is coming up but not us getting married. If you’re willing to sign a contract binding us together on a home loan for 30 years why on earth are you not willing to propo…	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:17 PM
26	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. Yeah.. it all sounds a bit insane. I don’t feel comfortable making any rash decisions like buying a home with someone I’m not even engaged to haha. Especially after how my last divorce ended.	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:09 PM
8	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. Both of us working full time and having side gigs with a child to care for makes it rather difficult to have a rental property. This is something I’ve considered, however I don’t want to be in the market as a rental property owner.	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:08 PM
54	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. I’ve been reading into this as well. I had no idea it was a thing until recently. He has done some things. He put gutter guards on the house. And he contributes to bills but we have no written contract. Starting to realize maybe that needs to happen at this point.	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:07 PM
28	I own my own home, SO thinks we should sell it and buy one together within the next year. It makes it worse, because I am divorced and have been for 5 years.. the custody issue has just been an ongoing battle for that long. Definitely need to look into the handbook. But I agree. I feel like I’m acting like a wife.. when all I am is a girlfriend. We shouldn’t be making these decisions until we’re married in my opinion. Also he would be helping with a down payment of a house together. So not all of what I get from my house would be going solely to another which is a plus but I just fee…	/r/askFDS	03/02/21 07:04 PM