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mental healthshivaswara/r/MensRights07/04/25 07:21 AM
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Generalshivaswara/r/MensRights27/05/25 08:38 AM
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Gotta start doing policies that help men
/r/MensRights06/06/25 12:48 AM
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It sounds great! The grievance is like 40% of relationships start online now. And yeah, there’s a new height fetishism. If you get 500 matches as a woman to be fair - that’s the first filter I’d add (6’ so he can protect me). But then what do you do for 85% of normal people?
/r/MensRights02/06/25 03:14 PM
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Give me things —> now we’re equal —> I still want you to make more money and have a higher social status than me 🤷
/r/MensRights02/06/25 10:43 AM
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Equity/identity crap = actually anti-labor, subversive, divide and conquer the population, prevents economic justice (the goal of actual Marxian/pro labor type leftism) The Ds sabotaged that Sanders movement hard, it scared them. Went with this horseshit instead
/r/MensRights26/05/25 01:21 PM
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I’m a Sanders voter btw, I was thinking how to frame it and kept it simple
/r/MensRights26/05/25 01:19 PM
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It’s because these AIs were programmed with the 2020s equity/leftist ideology. You have to create new ones without that stupid belief system built-in
/r/MensRights26/05/25 01:28 AM
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I support equity in bricklayers, soldiers, and sanitation workers. Strange how there are no protests over that
/r/MensRights25/05/25 11:23 PM
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This subreddit is bigger than the feminist one which is fucking crazy. As men don’t like to complain/organize on their issues. Also as you said, leftist echo chamber on Reddit. Shows men’s issues are real and really starting to affect people a lot.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:05 PM
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The Republicans don’t support men per se, it’s just that they’re indifferent to them. It’s just that the other side actively supports all groups that aren’t men (or white men), then censures, blames and demonizes them in all their propaganda and messaging.
/r/MensRights23/05/25 01:00 PM
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Might be, but not for youth: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics_of_the_United_States
/r/MensRights21/05/25 08:18 AM
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We have excess men because human societies typically engaged in war. Peaceful times lead to a new problem… gl hf
/r/MensRights21/05/25 08:08 AM
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Wayy too hard to just build a basic life and start a family. Dating apps in particular = terrible
/r/MensRights21/05/25 01:30 AM
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The main grievance I have is how privileged they are in dating, how shit it is for men, and then still have to listen to them bitch about this delusion of patriarchal oppression
/r/MensRights19/05/25 11:59 PM
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Um maybe we evolved for 200,000 years for men to talk to their wives and rely on them for emotional support And men had to, y’know, work and go to war and stuff, so become stoical and had less time for friends? How entitled can you be bro
/r/MensRights18/05/25 05:42 PM
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They don’t experience rejection, so yeah
/r/MensRights14/05/25 02:58 PM
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Tbf, I thought we were going to elect Sanders in ‘16 cause he had a lot of Reddit support. Showed Reddit is not society as a whole, it’s a specific cut of rich-white-privileged-left.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:31 PM
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[ Removed by Reddit ]
/r/MensRights05/05/25 11:29 PM
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Sending you some ❤️ man, read your post on adulting. Sadly you’re just going to get 💩 on as a man when you’re alone, rejected, and miserable, especially on sites like Reddit.
/r/MensRights04/05/25 07:38 PM
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The mainline culture continues to say “it’s men’s fault” rather than it being the systemic consequence of sexual equality… which 🟰 women wanting to date up and being unsatisfied with most except the “highest tier” of men. There’s no easy fix to it… biological attraction is ingrained. But it’s a mismatch... It’s clear hypergamy derives from / adapted to long-term sexual inequality. Now women would be compelled to use reason and “date down” or “date across” in gender-equal times - but with their l…
/r/MensRights23/04/25 05:56 PM
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Yes materialism, consumerism, nihilism, narcissism, and hypergamy have been unleashed a lot with the decline of religion.
/r/MensRights07/04/25 08:15 AM
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That’s basically our policy…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:16 PM
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That’s some deep existentialist turmoil, not liking what you fundamentally are, that gets turned into politics. “I exist to pleasure others,” “my beauty is transactional,” “I’m smaller and weaker.” Interesting 🤔
/r/MensRights29/03/25 03:45 AM
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No, sexual valuation in this time is very screwed up. Women overvalued, men undervalued.
/r/MensRights26/03/25 10:44 AM
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Incel: m, can’t get a date. Femcel: f, no one is good enough, refuse to date anyone. This is all screwed up results of women’s sexual attraction (hypergamy) in a gender equal society.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 02:57 PM
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Feminism is an expression of hypergamy. It seeks equality with men while refusing to compromise on its instincts of sexual attraction. It results in a lot of Darwinist pressure to select the fittest men, but it creates a problem as you still need relationships for the bottom 80% of the population. So you have single women who don’t find equal or socially inferior men attractive, and frustrated men who can’t find partners at all.
/r/MensRights25/03/25 12:42 PM
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After they go through menopause theyreeeeee out! And the men who wanted to go on a nice date with them before will still be around, fertile, richer, and dating someone younger
/r/MensRights21/03/25 10:12 AM
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I think you’re getting at the big culture flip that happened in a really short window of time. I’m in Mass and if you think how short a time it’s been, in real terms, since 1620s colonial time to today, and how much the moral and sexual system has altered - I myself am still trying to adapt. I thought I was following a modern version of spiritual values, but I agree, anti-materialism, introversion, humility, turn the other cheek, love thy neighbor - it’s all antithetical to our time.
/r/MensRights18/03/25 09:40 PM
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Don’t descend into the name calling thing, you have to stay logical as a guy. If you use logic and facts you can outreason them. Also you’re going into their safe space and trying to explain male issues, something they won’t comprehend. It’s true women have issues but at this stage of feminism in the west men are now under very heavy duress while still being accused of being “privileged.” Men are most suicides, brain injuries, incarcerated, homeless. 2:1 outnumbered in university now. The big cr…
/r/MensRights17/03/25 07:37 PM
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33 and in the same boat man, I had a breakdown 2 years ago when I was rejected by my friend from college (expecting she’d become my lt partner/spouse) after 10 years of talking/flirting with her. Relationships balance us, heal us, give us purpose. But it’s a really screwed up time for men. I’m also “rich” now (still doesn’t matter lmao) and having to take some time off work just to recuperate. Have you tried international dating or going abroad to meet someone? A lot of it is the insane hypergam…
/r/MensRights17/03/25 05:45 PM
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They don’t need rehabilitation. They need a healthy society that values them properly. It’s the society that’s sick, not men.
/r/MensRights16/03/25 10:18 PM
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I feel pretty objectified into nonexistence in online dating. And I’ve never had anyone be attracted to me once from looks alone. I think women need to comprehend what it’s like to never have anyone be physically attracted to you, ever, which is what men live. I guess women do experience invisibility in old age, but Jesus it would be nice to be personally validated once for simply existing as a male!
/r/MensRights16/03/25 05:09 PM
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What about 90% of working class men?
/r/MensRights11/03/25 09:10 PM
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Men don’t like to complain, they try to be self-reliant and solve their own issues. With discourse on male loneliness and how shitty dating is though, I feel like the culture is starting to shift (a little). I don’t see how you can go any further with feminism. Women now find 90% of men unattractive/repulsive. There should be more to value about men than just our economic worth.
/r/MensRights11/03/25 12:55 AM
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Academia only looks at the feminist perspective and victimhood, without recognizing we’ve achieved equality and that the civilization has changed massively in 50 years. Men are most brain injuries, suicides, and homelessness, and are now outnumbered 2:1 in higher education. The other issue is hypergamy has ruined dating and relationships. Most of the frustrated men just want to be in happy relationships but can’t find them.
/r/MensRights28/02/25 06:48 PM
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Right? So that’s the evolutionary game we’re playing. Trying to find the fittest mate. We’re probably in a really primitive time honestly, before this stuff is studied by sociology.
/r/MensRights12/02/25 08:01 AM
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So, it’s the product of unfettered hypergamy. Women want to find the highest value partner, so the more physically attractive the woman -> the more they’re sexually selecting for higher status men. If you’re a female teacher you want to marry a lawyer, etc. What we didn’t anticipate is how much 200,000 years of inequality made hypergamy a deep, fundamental part of female attraction. Maybe there was some expectation they’d marry across or down more with sex equality. But de facto it makes things …
/r/MensRights12/02/25 05:57 AM
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I miss 2008. The sexual morality just gets shittier and shittier over time. I’m living in the Middle Ages thinking my life will be Dante and Beatrice. What a joke.
/r/MensRights04/02/25 01:14 PM
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I’m in therapy now, but I just need someone who loves me and cares about me 🥲😔. I did everything right in my life, Idk, it still wasn’t enough.
/r/MensRights01/02/25 03:39 PM
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Well, here’s how I would articulate it. Women lived under that harsh subjugation for 200,000+ years. As part of it they psychologically adapted, and a big part of their nature became their tough sexual selection preference, ie, hypergamy. Then, in a really short window of time—honestly since 2008—women’s position has totally changed. They don’t need men for their economic value anymore (honestly it’s pretty sad to learn that was what made us attractive in the first place), so they’re selecting f…
/r/MensRights01/02/25 03:38 PM
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As we keep going forward in our gender equal time, it’s clear that men’s labor and economic value was what made us attractive to women. With women’s financial independence, they don’t want to partner with the average man. So, this leads to the marriage, fertility, and sex crises. In the short-term I don’t think there’s much you can do—you can’t force someone to be attracted to someone they aren’t. But, it will eventually lead to new social movements: pro-family, pro-natal, and positive masculine…
/r/MensRights04/01/25 07:59 PM
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I think the problem is hypergamy evolved in harsh sexual inequality, and it was invisible but the economic value of men was what made us attractive. They don’t need us anymore and they don’t like us. It’s really hurtful.
/r/MensRights22/12/24 12:07 PM
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Well I think this sub is a part of a slow social change toward normalization; but, it’s complicated. Men do want to be men, and not complain, and generally accept hardship; and, this combined with the new feminism you describe makes for dysfunction.
/r/MensRights21/12/24 08:52 AM
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Feminism brought equality, but women evolved with fierce hypergamy for 200,000 years. Turns out now with equal earning power, men are no longer attractive to women. So now they sexually select just for high wealth and height. Our time is retarded.
/r/MensRights06/12/24 10:40 AM
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I truly can’t find a partner. 🫤
/r/MensRights27/11/24 04:07 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/nope/s/lfye9YfQpz What gender would do this job
/r/MensRights26/11/24 03:50 AM
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I had a mental breakdown last year, all I wanted was to be loved by someone, one person. I couldn’t accept a just universe would let me be in desolation so long, it was impossible. I have money now, but I’ve never been loved for who I am. I should’ve been born with different sex organs, so I could have innate value as a person.
/r/MensRights12/11/24 05:00 PM
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The problem is also that man is lacking an income, and then that woman now has a high income and expects to match with a man who makes even more money than her.
/r/MensRights10/11/24 04:40 PM
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Thanks bud
/r/MensRights02/11/24 09:40 AM
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Speaking as a teacher of 10+ years: Girls are about 2 years more mature than boys. I assume an evolutionary thing, from humans marrying young for thousands of years Girls are more cooperative/agreeable
/r/MensRights23/10/24 11:47 PM
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Idk, I think we should be ok with being the main drivers of the relationship in the ‘establishment’ phase. If I’m the one initiating all the early communications that’s fine, since that’s how society trains girls, to wait for the man to reach out and escalate and for them to be passive. Usually, if she’s initiating early that’s a super good sign and I’ll be like, ‘aw that’s so nice, what a great girl!’ But I’m ok with waiting for them to like me. 👌 If you’ve gotten to a solid partnership and all…
/r/seduction12/01/21 10:38 AM
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