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Yep, child brides are very common and child sexual slavery or brothel selling is also incredibly common, to the point that it's shown (not graphically and not in a positive light) in mainstream family friendly Bollywood movies. There's a movie called Bajrangi Baijan about an Indian man who finds a lost deaf Kashmiri Pakistani little girl and decides to take her back home, at one point he takes her to a travel agent who he believes will take her home but he gets a bad feeling and catches the guy …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/21 10:56 AM
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Completely and totally agree. You'll see numerous violations of women's rights even in the most backwater parts of the world with no internet access. Women in ancient India would commit mass suicide via self-immolation to avoid the horrible fate of being raped and tortured by invading male forces during wars. Child brides and incestuous relations were commonplace during the American civil war, and hell even during biblical times. The themes in porn did not develop in a vacuum, they've always bee…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:33 PM
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In Pakistani culture especially, women are considered inferior no matter how much more intelligent or accomplished we are. We're only seen as existing to make men's lives easier. My mom is a doctor and she got divorced, then a ton of Pakistani aunties tried to get her married to physically and mentally disabled men or geriatric old guys. That's how they view "damaged goods" in our culture. Absolutely unfair and sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 03:23 AM
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It's Darwinism 🤣 LVM have no self-preservation instincts Edit to add: women vastly outnumber men in wearing masks, washing hands, and getting vaccinated. Women care far more about health and safety than men do in general, which is partly why women live longer and healthier on average
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/21 03:13 AM
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Men simp so hard for Elon and Joe Rogan and all these other so-called alphas, but like you said Elon literally used them for his crypto pump-and-dump schemes and Joe Rogan just cares about boosting listeners for his podcast. Same with Trump, he just riled people up to get them to blindly support him, but he's never helped his core demographic. PUAs use the same model, they give these guys super shitty "game" tips to keep them dependent and coming back for more because it's a business. The men wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/21 01:58 PM
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Yep for sure! Men will try to mock and belittle women who are 'big' or take up space at all, whether they are tall, have large frames, or are heavier with fat or muscle, because they know that a bigger woman has more physical power due to sheer size. I'm 145 lbs at 5'3 so definitely heavier than the average woman my height, I've really shocked/scared some guys with how easily I can throw them around despite being shorter. It keeps them in their place for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:18 PM
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I used to workout at a coed gym before getting my own home gym, just a month before the start of the covid pandemic. The number one reason I got a home gym (nothing fancy, just a bench and squat rack) is because of the NASTY SWEATY DUDES who refused to clean up after themselves!!! I had a friend who got ringworm after using a bench at the coed gym, it was horrible. There was equipment that was literally rusted because of how much sweat got onto the hinges (it was a university gym so the equipmen…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 12:11 PM
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This goes double for Indian/Pakistani men. My uncles and grandpas are so kind to my brother and my male cousin during family gatherings, and they all sit in the parlor while the women have to slave over the food in the kitchen. Then once the food is done, the men get to eat first, and by the time it's our turn there's barely any food left. My uncles and grandpas always encourage the men and boys in my family, give them money during holidays, help their neighbors by lending them money anytime the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:21 PM
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Yep, it's a good reminder to never lower your standards for sure!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:08 PM
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Fiance?!?! That's so terrifying and depraved!!! She should dump him immediately, men who violate boundaries when their partners are SLEEPING are most likely opportunistic rapists!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:07 PM
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Being "liked" by guys like this is why I quit OLD. I'm a 25 year old woman, conventionally attractive, fit, smart, and making 6 figs but it would just crush my self-esteem to only be liked by guys that look like this. And even then, they only wanted to hook up, no real relationships to add insult to injury. Then I realized all the normal good looking HVM are most likely not on OLD apps because they have no problem meeting women IRL, and I instantly felt much better!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 03:03 PM
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Men offer 100% pure extra strength Audacity™ But I agree, it's a total turnoff and it feels like an early introduction to motherhood to take care of these parasites!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/21 11:58 AM
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Tbh I think it's just the default state of men/humans in general. "How can I get the most benefit for the least amount of effort?" It makes sense from an evolutionary point of view and explains why most people today are addicts in one form or another--addicted to TV, to junk food, to online shopping, to porn, etc. Because it's an easy dopamine hit. But I think men are more likely to be addicts than women. Imo the disparity is caused by the fact that the societal judgement and repercussions of ac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 10:21 PM
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I think women spend more money on our own personal upkeep and maintenance than men do--shaving, grooming, makeup, hair, wardrobe, even pads are all more expensive for women than for men. And all men expect their gfs or wives to do 'basic grooming and maintenance' that is above the bare minimum for men. So there's already an extra societal cost to being a woman if you want to be 'conventionally attractive,' which is what most men--even HVM--want to see in their SOs. Additionally, women in the sam…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/21 12:36 PM
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I like to say "I like to do whatever I want, whenever I want, without having to wait or plan around anyone else. It's very freeing." On top of that, I dress eclectically and have a different hair color every week, and many of my female friends and coworkers say "wow, you look great! My boyfriend would never let me do that..." Which just proves my point!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:19 PM
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A lot of men claim they "have to" split the bill down the middle, otherwise they wouldn't be able to afford going on multiple dates a week--that guy in the post most likely couldn't afford to have a $77 meal three or four times a week, but $50 is more manageable. The simple solution is that stingy or broke men simply shouldn't be dating if they don't want to pay! Ridiculous!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 01:17 PM
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That's nuts! I think dating apps are so profit driven though that they'd never ban men, because men are their core demographic--and tons of men use the "special premium features" which cost hundreds of dollars a year! That's also why these apps don't require background checks or ban rapists--they WANT them to use the app because they know that's the type of person who would pay for extra features to access more women. So creepy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 07:26 AM
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The caveat is that relationships are hard, yes, but only for the woman. She has to sacrifice her time, emotional and physical energy, happiness, in some cases her bodily autonomy, and even her dignity far more than her loser LVM boyfriend does, all for the sake of keeping him happy. Men rarely go through any hardships in relationships. The worst they get is being turned down for sex whenever they randomly feel like it. It sounds like your BF's greatest hardship was seeing your success and being …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:38 AM
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Thank you for looking out for me and women like me, I appreciate your advice!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:33 AM
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Yeah same, I get massive brain fog and anxiety-like symptoms when I get crushes. Not pleasant at all tbh!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:33 AM
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Back when I was occasionally using online dating, I once matched with a guy who had the logic of "only really pretty women deserve to have dinner fully paid for." Then I asked if he'd pay for me (semi joking because I thought he was joking) and he straight up said "tbh you're no prize." Like this guy was waaaaay too ugly to be acting so high and mighty. And when ugly guys critique appearance, I have the bad habit of giving it right back to them... So I said "coming from the guy who's balding in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:32 AM
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Congrats and great job!! Good riddance to him!! There's soooo many terrifying posts on relationship advice subs that go like this: "I just got my dream job in corporate finance in another state, but my boyfriend, who makes minimum wage, doesn't want to move because all his friends from highschool live here. What should I do?" Or "I just got accepted into my dream school and the most prestigious medical program in the country, but my boyfriend, who spends all his time liking pics of other girls o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:25 AM
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Yeah that flex doesn't make any sense to me either! That's when you know they're purely in it to impress other guys!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:21 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing this!! I totally agree with everything in that post, I just don't know "how" to not have crushes on guys...but a comment in that thread really struck a chord with me--being so full of self-love from enrichment from hobbies, interests, and pastimes that a crush becomes impossible! That's where I need to be and I was almost there before this dude showed up!! Thanks again, I appreciate it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:18 AM
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My favorite thing to say to the juvenile types of men, upon hearing them boast about their 'mad bedroom skills' and how many women they've slept with, is "oh so you probably have herpes then right? Type one or two?" No shade against those poor (often times women) folks who unknowingly get herpes from someone who claimed to be clean, but it's an incredibly common, inconvenient, painful, and incurable disease. Hence why I don't think having cavalier attitudes about casual sex is attractive at all!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 03:13 AM
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Yep agreed! Thanks for posting this and congrats on your journey to transformation!! It takes strength to make changes like that, especially since you and your friend had been close for a decade.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:58 AM
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That's a great way of thinking about it!! When I feel down/sad though, and I'm in a vulnerable state, sometimes I'll wonder if a guy is the 1% dude who would make a great husband or long-term partner. But at the same time, speculating is useless--if he was worth the time and effort then he'd show it upfront.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:56 AM
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I just blocked a breadcrumbing loser I used to know on LinkedIn, since that's the only form of social media I have anymore! Felt so good to be free of his ghastly online presence 👻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:29 AM
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Yep, I cut off all my "friends" from grad school because they never put any effort into hanging out or staying in contact...and then I cut off a woman I was friends with for a few years, because she kept inviting random guys from dating apps over to her apartment without any due diligence or common sense whatsoever, and then would cry to me afterward about how she can't find a decent guy to date... Having to manage everything and constantly cater to people who were vastly below me on terms of mo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 02:27 AM
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Completely agree that this is entirely unsustainable. Not only are men behaving extremely entitled when it comes to their jobs and placing the priority of their work over their gfs/wives, but they are also actively engaging in more behaviors that make them worse in the workforce and academically. There's been tons of issues of men watching porn or playing video games instead of or even during work, and a lot of men also drink heavily, eat poor diets, do not exercise regularly, and engage in risk…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 03:52 PM
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Yep, and another big difference in people's perception of men aging is wrinkles are acceptable on men. There's tons of teenage boys who purposefully give themselves forehead wrinkles in selfies to achieve a "rugged look," but wrinkles and weathering is completely unacceptable on women. Double standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 12:41 PM
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Thanks for sharing this!! I'm kinda in a similar headspace right now, a guy I was buddies with in undergrad works for a different company in the same building as me, and he used to be flirty back in school but never direct--he'd drop hints here and there that he found me attractive and that I was his "type," but he never did anything, probably because he was intimidated by me (I'm two years older and we studied the same subject, but I was far above him in terms of grades and coursework). Now two…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:29 PM
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Yep, it seems like a case of sour grapes more than anything! They probably know deep down that women with tatts and bright hair are more individualistic and have stronger personalities to go against the norm, and they make up BS stories about us being "damaged" to cope with the fact that we're probably more interesting than they are 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 01:22 PM
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I have tattoos and piercings and also bright unnaturally colored hair, but I've also only dated one guy and have been voluntarily celibate for years. Men really aren't capable of thinking beyond stereotypes huh Meanwhile they get triggered when we quote actual statistics for male violence and depravity......
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 11:37 AM
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What bothers me is the folks who say "boys will be boys" and "not all men" are often one and the same, like they excuse degenerate behavior from boys and men because 'thats just how it is' and then quickly backtrack and say 'but not all men tho so don't raise your standards!!' Total BS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 12:23 PM
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Yep and the women who age 'badly' i.e. more noticeably than average are usually living very stressfully, like being married to a dead weight loser and having to take care of multiple kids will age you way faster than just looking out for yourself and doing whatever you want 🤷🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:16 PM
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Seriously idk how men can look at women before and after marriage and not realize they're the problem!! "My wife has no energy and is always in a bad mood ever since we had our second kid" aka she's taking care of three kids, husband included, of course with no help from him and also probably has to work so that she's not a "gold digger" smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 04:48 PM
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Awesome to see this! I love stories about women defying the odds, but especially when men purposefully try to stack the odds against them. Firstly, it shows the resiliency and amazing abilities of women. And secondly, it shows that men are sore losers and cheaters and the only reason women haven't excelled throughout history the same way as men is because men have been purposely keeping us down, because they know we can kick their asses at almost everything. Thanks for sharing this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:06 PM
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Thank you so much for writing this post. Women don't realize how terrible STDs can wreck their bodies, many times women suffer more adverse effects from STDs both physically and psychologically. I always encourage women to ask men if they've been tested, and demand proof before doing anything! If he guilt trips you into backing down, block and delete. These men know exactly what they're doing and it's downright predatory and disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:03 PM
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Lol literally I've had a guy say "let's get coffee to see if there's chemistry" and I responded "chemistry? Is that what you call your dick?" And he got super sheepish ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 12:01 PM
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I buy a lot of sporty Fila or Vans bucket hats from Poshmark, or vintage baseball caps from eBay. It's a fun accessory! And it makes it easier to get away with never doing my hair haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 11:46 PM
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That's terrible!! I'm only 5'3 but I do a lot of weightlifting and have super visible muscles, so that also probably helps...it must be because of my geographical location though because I've never been in a situation as bad as what people are describing, and clothing or confidence can't make that much of a difference if women are being harassed despite baggy clothing and making sure to carry themselves confidently
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:44 PM
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Yeah thankfully I've never experienced anything like that, it sounds horrible--sorry you've been harassed! I basically dress like the guys from BTS so a very masculine but fashionable style with some designer elements, and I'm always wearing hats too...not sure if it should make that big of a difference though, it could be because of where I live. Hopefully these degenerates will knock it off!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 02:42 PM
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I recently cut my hair off and dyed it a funky obnoxious color in preparation for the wave of depravity! Along with wearing designer clothes and sunglasses everywhere, it seems to be working so far because I look like a total mess (in a good way) but also confident af, and confidence/walking with purpose in and of itself is a great deterrent for creepy men!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 01:56 PM
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Lmao I've heard of that quote!! I used to use a bastardized version of it when hyping up my friends who were on the track team at school: "RUN! RUN LIKE THERE'S THREE MEN BEHIND YOU! RUUUUUN!!!" We'd always crack up about it 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/21 01:15 PM
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Here's the link to the study. Some interesting highlights: "The sex differences in attractiveness and physical build are substantial; for example, males rate the two factors .29 and .33 SD higher than the mean ratings given for all nine traits, whereas females rate them .11 and .05 SD higher than their average rating, respectively (see t-test results in Table 1)." "Second, while both sexes regard income as the least important factor for sexual attraction, after adjusting for the variance in indi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/21 12:47 PM
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I don't think nature intended for men to live past the age of 35-40, hence why so many men do stupid life-risking things (idiotic stunts, less likely to get vaccinated, diet of a vulture, smoking and drinking more, not going to the hospital or doctor regularly) so it makes sense that they look awful past that age. They also lose everything that makes them useful to the human race past 40 (sperm, ability to get it up, and testosterone). I've never actually seen a man look good past 40 so the enti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 12:16 PM
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Can confirm, lots of men ask me to tell them "cool facts about physics" on dates because I've got an MS in physics and work as an optics engineer, but they'll want the watered down PBS documentary stuff--as soon as I start talking about Lorenz Gauges and Hamiltonians their eyes glaze over and they also start resenting me for being smarter than them lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 12:57 PM
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Six comments but only yours is visible on this post so far...very eloquently and concisely worded, you perfectly summarized the terrible truth about what these men are doing to themselves. They can't take the criticism even though they must know it's true! Let's keep spreading awareness about the mind killer that is porn, no woman should have to waste her life loving a shell of a human being for nothing in return except misery and disappointment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:06 AM
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As an Indian woman...I'm guessing this guy is Indian?? 🤣 It's just that I've received similar word salady essays from Indian men after unmatching them, this is too familiar lmao!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 02:56 PM
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I do this at work and it's completely cut down the instances where men invade my space to ask me dumb time-wasting questions!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 06:49 PM
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Oof Well then in that case, I guess they've been conditioned to think they need to be hyper promiscuous since society treats ugly women like dirt, which is honestly unfair--but of course, catering to men and becoming a prostitute will not give these women any more power or dignity...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:21 PM
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That's because men finding you attractive makes you attractive, not your natural facial features! Instagram makeup, fried hair and extensions, oversized implants, and unnaturally tanned skin with giant lip fillers is soooo much more attractive than women who have had no cosmetic surgery and have features that are proportional to their faces and bodies! /S
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 01:12 PM
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I've actually found that, as I've gotten older, younger guys are more appealing to me than older ones! Granted I'm only 25, but when I was 21-22 a bunch of guys in the 24-27 range would try to date me and they were always so controlling and annoying, constantly putting me down and mansplaining. Now at 25, guys in the 21-24 range are old enough that they don't look like kids and they seem to respect me more since I'm older than them. No mansplaining, negging, or attempts at control--they know I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 05:05 AM
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Maybe I'm just being extremely cynical here but the fact that he's talking about it in so much detail makes me think he's almost smug about not doing anything for his wife, like he's deriving some sort of satisfaction of how sick she got and he didn't do anything to help her...that's enough internet for the day 😱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:57 AM
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Men who watch porn regularly are so unused to having their views challenged, especially in person, that it really shocks them to their core when they see you react with visceral disgust to their depravity. I used to hangout with guys from grad school, wasn't interested in dating any of them (we were all just friends) but one day the topic of porn came up and they were just joking around about it. I went on a rant about how disgusting and vile porn is, and how porn use makes men incredibly unattr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:54 AM
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Agree, and the more normalized it is the more men will be conditioned into thinking that all women are available for sexual activity for the "right price," and the price will go down the more mainstream it becomes (content on Onlyfans is becoming more extreme but for lower prices due to competition, sad to see many young women essentially degrading themselves for less than minimum wage). Guys have already offered to pay me for nudes and I dress like a hobo and wear a mask and hat wherever I go, …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:49 AM
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They're brainwashed pickmes who think being attractive makes you powerful. Now THAT'S what I call a bad take!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:47 AM
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The overuse of "yikes", "bad take", and "sweetie" just indicate to me that the defenders of prostitution are completely stumped and can't argue the points listed by the FDS Twitter. So juvenile and a clear display of their inability to think critically and have their views challenged, and then successfully defend those views. The whole "sex work is empowering" movement is a total joke and these women got massively triggered because they know it's a terrible and exploitative industry, but they're…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:46 AM
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If they can figure out how to semipermanently remove body hair via laser, implant silicone sacks under the pectoral muscles for women to get bigger boobs, and how to trim back "excess" labia tissue, then I don't see how they haven't figured out how to reverse/cure male pattern baldness, make men taller, and make dicks bigger. 🤨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/21 04:33 AM
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Yeah she's one of the most hated characters on TV because she dares to be (justifiably) upset that her husband is a criminal! She's one of my favorite characters on the show, I never understood the hate that she got!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 02:40 PM
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Yep, once I was getting really bad vibes from a guy while on a date so I paid for the whole meal hoping he wouldn't expect anything from me if I did that, then he assaulted me in the car before dropping me off It was years ago and my last online dating experience, never again! Men will be shit no matter what you do, the only way to win the game is not to play. I'll never use online dating or pay for a date ever again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 08:02 PM
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There was a story that was shared here once about a woman who fell head over heels in love with a "free spirited hippy guy" who ended up having pretty terrible conventional views about women (surprise) He ended up leaving her after convincing her to drop her life and become a vagabond with him, then got with another woman and had a kid with her, only to abandon her too. He was very verbally and physically abusive as well. I don't think he'd have the stones to treat another man like that at all! …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:56 PM
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I think a significant number of men are opportunistic pedophiles and rapists, even against other men under specific circumstances. Very scary and a good reminder to never be alone with a man no matter how "nice" and "normal" he seems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:49 PM
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I think this is what Skylar started doing in Breaking Bad after she realized how messed up Walter was! Always thought it was a good idea because of low barriers to entry and relative stability, so much better than joining an MLM (especially since MLMs prey on SAHMs and single moms) Thanks for sharing this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:44 PM
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Jfc that's even worse!!! ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:40 PM
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That's a really good observation from your friend! This made me think about the few times older guys would hit on me, but upon finding out my age they immediately backed off and created some distance. I think most men don't go for much younger women for relationships, so this is definitely a good metric to gauge potential abusive behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 12:27 PM
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Oh god I knew it was that one, people were treating it as a joke instead of being extremely concerned that it was even made in the first place. Disgusting how men act like children and women are objects and not humans, they don't have any empathy for them at all, in real life or animated depictions smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/21 05:52 PM
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Oh man that's so awful! I'm full Pakistani, my dad grew up in the UK and he was regularly called that slur along with many others. Definitely had an effect on his perception of south Asian features and culture, which is pretty negative even to this day. It's messed up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 01:48 PM
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Yep speaking of performatively woke, it rubs me the wrong way that she tries to normalize plastic surgery and cosmetic procedures as "empowering" and also tries to make herself look darker and more ethnic than she actually is, considering she's half Thai and half Norwegian... Edit to add for context, I'm south Asian but I grew up with a lot of women who were mixed white and Asian, and they hated their ethnicities as kids/teens then really tried to play up their "exotic features" as adults, using…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:19 AM
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I dated a guy for a bit who, before we even had any sexual contact whatsoever, kept trying to pressure me to try anal. I broke it off and told him "the way you keep talking about anal and tightness makes me think you have a tiny dick, sorry man I'm not into that" He was so mad lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 05:04 AM
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It's propaganda from other men to reduce competition, there's tons of racist propaganda against men of varying ethnicities in the West but also in other countries too. One of the big scare tactics for the KKK to drive recruitment was that the "other" would "steal our women", it's also a sentiment used in war with other nations because women are treated like resources. Really sick if you ask me!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 10:13 PM
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I know it's not the point of this post it I always love seeing conventionally gorgeous women spitting FDS facts!! LVM are constantly saying that all FDS users are ugly and undesirable but this woman is super pretty, makes me so happy to see women from all walks of life speaking out about having high standards! Thanks for sharing this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:23 PM
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Total Drama always annoyed me as a kid because of the way the women are drawn on that show vs the men! So sick of seeing weirdly sexualized female characters in animation! 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:20 PM
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It's whack when you realize that there are more overweight men globally than women, even though women naturally store more fat. Just goes to show you that women are keeping ourselves thinner on average due to societal pressure, and men are letting themselves go (it takes wayyyy more for a man to become fat than a woman, so they're really trying out here)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 09:19 PM
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Hell yeah! Physics MS here representing! Love to see more and more women entering the field and kicking ass!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/21 01:36 AM
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This made my day! I want to do something similar, it's always been a dream of mine to start an animal shelter and employ women to run the shelter. I also want to wire women to run social media to spread word about the shelter, maybe I'll start doing this when I retire. Thank you so much for looking out for other women like this, you're great!! 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 02:26 PM
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I wonder how these guys would feel if another man was taking pictures of them to masturbate to later. Men always defend masturbating to women's photos as "she doesn't know so it's not a big deal," but being used for sexual purposes without your permission is a form of sexual harassment. Men have no concept of agency, privacy, or boundaries for women at all, further proof that they don't think of us as human beings smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:30 PM
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Men like this seem to become aroused when women are vulnerable, because the more vulnerable we are the better their chances are for forcing themselves on us. Disgusting and predatory
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/21 01:21 PM
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Yep, guys in their 20s will be fine dating women in their late teens, it's only "out of the ordinary" when they go for a woman older than them 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:10 PM
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I'm 25 and I recently rejected a 28 year old guy because I said he's too old for me 😂 He asked what age I usually go for and I said 22 (trolling but this guy had a total mental breakdown lol) then he tried to call me a predator even tho the age difference is the same 💀 Older men are just predatory and pathetic tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 02:03 AM
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I write and draw fictional comics for fun and my favorite genre to write is horror, but I always give my stories a sci-fi twist because making it realistic would be too depressing--all my realistic ideas revolve around the evil actions of men, and naturally all my main characters are women so I don't want to subject them to that, haha. It really is messed up to think about how prevalent and normalized misogyny is in so many different forms of media.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 01:37 AM
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Yep, we'll see how it turns out! I've seen too many stories of supposedly "good guys" revealing their evil nature as soon as a woman lowers her guard 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 09:34 PM
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There's a guy who I know likes me a lot, I'm in the observation stage before moving on to anything, but he hasn't complimented my appearance at all so far--every compliment I've gotten from him is "you're so hilarious," or "you're so smart, thanks for helping me with this," and so on. It actually makes him 10x more attractive I find that when men give those really weird visceral "compliments" they sound like sex offenders with impulse control problems, just totly unhinged and unstable and...over…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 05:17 PM
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Forget including another man, there have been multiple instances of men destroying their wives'/girlfriends' sex toys because they're threatened! They seriously cut up the dildos and break the vibrators because it makes them feel emasculated 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:55 PM
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A lot of men also have this weird notion that the overwhelming majority of women are secretly bi, probably because of brain damage from overconsumption of porn 🤷🏽‍♀️ They think all women should be totally fine being sexual with other women, it's very dehumanizing and strange. They completely lack empathy and perspective smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:54 PM
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Yeah they also keep score about 'body count,' there seen numerous posts about men losing respect for their wives after finding out about their number of sexual partners. Disgusting and hypocritical!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 04:28 PM
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The funniest thing about this is Navine Jay is 32, not in her 20s. Not sure why these incels are so obsessed with youth smh, it's pedophilic 🤢 And yep 32 is still young, but these men are obsessed with women in their late teens and early 20s, 32 is weirdly considered "old" for a lot of these guys. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/21 02:47 PM
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There's a certain subreddit that's all about creepy encounters, it's 90% stories about young women and teen girls being creeped on by grown-ass men. In the few stories where someone helps them, it's always usually an older woman who senses what's wrong and steps in. Seriously can't count on men for shit, women are definitely more empathetic and compassionate!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/21 12:12 AM
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Yep in my opinion, this kinda gaslighting is the same as when people say "oh the incel wouldn't have shot up the school if girls were nice to him," it's emotional black mail and terrorism. Threatening violence to yourself or to others to get women to do what you want is seriously messed up and requires therapy to treat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/21 06:30 PM
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I wear massive bulky noise cancelling headphones everywhere for this reason! Annoying creepy men at work stopped trying to stop me in the hallways to make small talk, and I don't even keep them on most of the time. It's a real nice deterrent in many cases. Sucks that women have been followed and killed by these psychos for not responding, though. Hope every woman out there can stay safe from these creeps!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 02:52 AM
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I've experienced this as well, it's apparently considered a red flag to be into Kpop and bishonen anime as a woman (bishonen being "good looking men") and a lot of guys try to shame women who like these things. The true reason is probably because it gives you higher standards when you see how good looking these men can be. As an example, I'm into Kpop and I've been watching a lot of variety shows with different boy groups, their charisma and friendship is so amazing to see. A lot of the shows ce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/21 02:10 PM
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Right!! That was so funny because it's so true, LVM are useless on their own 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:36 PM
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👸🌱
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:35 PM
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She's a great character, one of the best villains imo because she's pretty sympathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:35 PM
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Yep!! Rewatching the show, Poison Ivy is basically an eco-terrorist-- she hates Gotham for polluting and destroying the environment, which is kinda justified. Same with Catwoman, she's an animal conservationist. And both of them are leery of men, which again is justified considering how many men (in the show) are polluting and destroying animal habitats. If anything, they're super relatable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 07:32 PM
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Lmao yep!!! 💀 At least with fingers there's more accuracy and control, and the guy isn't repeatedly body slamming you like another woman commented lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 11:03 PM
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It feels uncomfortable, like less guided/intentional fingering. The first guy I dated was 🤏, it didn't feel good at all--just gross. Then he complained that he couldn't feel anything so he asked for oral...and I was like bruh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/21 10:23 PM
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Lmao when I read this line, I thought "damn, he negged her, but she nuked him" 💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:50 PM
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I'd be okay with a sweet, kind, considerate bumbling boyfriend if he was good at listening to instructions and took it upon himself to do the chores he was good at, or work hard to improve himself so that he could do better. But sadly, like you said, the sweet-but-bumbling thing is a total myth, it's crazy because even kids don't do that--they just outright say they don't want to clean their rooms, not "oh I don't know how to clean my room" because even they know how dumb it sounds!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 02:25 PM
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You're totally right, it's feigned cluelessness to get out of "doing work", as if being a decent human being and caring for your wife is a chore!! Awful!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 04:01 PM
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It's always "women erode your boundaries to not hurt men's precious feelings," and never "men stop acting like fucking psychopaths"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:40 PM
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Oh my god I couldn't imagine being that stressed and unhappy with such a clueless moron for a husband, on top of having kids AND a full work schedule. People think men just naturally age better than women, but with this much stress, it's no wonder why women seem to age faster (at least when they're married to LVM!!) Another cautionary tale to VET like crazy before you get married!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 03:38 PM
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Yep! And look how cultures celebrate the self-sacrifice and bravery of soldiers but barely celebrate the women who lose their entire livelihoods and sacrifice their bodies for their kids. Unbelievable! Instead, people are trying to restrict women's abilities to get abortions or use contraceptives. That would be like if folks tried to restrict men from being able to access education or jobs without going into the military, nobody would stand for it and rightfully so! You should be able to choose!…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 02:51 AM
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To be fair, a lot of times their partners make promises and little steps toward marriage, like cohabitating and dangling a carrot of 'marriage someday', but keep shifting the goalposts--and the next thing they know, the rug is pulled out from under them like with this poor woman. I feel pretty bad for her, she's in a tough situation and it must be awful to be separated from her kids on top of being suddenly homeless. No woman deserves that, especially because she most likely never saw it coming.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:50 AM
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Add that to the number of women who've died of childbirth and things start to look really bleak for women, but it also shows how incredibly strong, resilient, and badass we are. Meanwhile men love to talk about how their lives are so unfair because they can't get a free bangmaid, how tragic 😢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/03/21 12:36 AM
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A guy I know was complaining about this. She looks pretty much the same to me but in a different outfit, so I asked him what he meant by the studio "ruining" the character. He said "the outfit is different," to which I responded, "yeah but everyone's outfits are different, why is hers so bad specifically?" He couldn't bring himself to say he's mad that they stopped sexualizing a cartoon bunny for a kid's movie 💀 just started sputtering incoherently lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 09:09 PM
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Holy hell!! That's so twisted!! Reminds me of one time where I randomly searched "why are men so perverted" on Reddit, and found an AskReddit thread from a few years ago asking "What's the Creepiest/Most Perverted Thing You've Ever Done," and to my shock and horror most of the posts were about men stealing their female family members' underwear for masturbation, spying on neighbors or female family members to masturbate, basically super fucked up serial killer shit. Some of them even included br…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 03:43 PM
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I know this is sarcasm...but I've literally seen tons of homophobic men online and in person completely puzzled at the concept of lesbian sex because there's no 'dick'. They can't conceive of how it's possible for two women to have sex 💀 it's literally the dumbest thing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 12:40 PM
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Thank you, and same ✊🏽
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 10:38 PM
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Funny enough, when the "submissive proper women" come to countries with better women's rights, they expect their husbands to take care of them--support them financially and be kind, gentle, and romantic--and if not, they divorce them soon after getting citizenship. They don't tolerate being treated like a slave and being expected to contribute financially at the same time. I see it frequently in the Desi community and with some of my friends who were East Asian and had married loser western LVM.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 09:30 PM
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Yep! And they're cowards!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:38 PM
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I'm imagining this guy lookin like Jared Leto's Joker from the terrible Suicide Squad movie 💀 nothing more unattractive than a whiny pathetic crybaby trying to weasel his way into your pants 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:25 PM
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Omg this description along with op's "rotten ass" are being added to my dictionary of insults 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:22 PM
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Preach! I deleted my FB and Instagram because I was sick of seeing casual misogyny and brainwashing of women being openly promoted on my feed, even though I mostly used IG to look up workout ideas and follow my favorite athletes. You realize how much more misogynistic and terrible all these other online spaces are the more you spend time practicing FDS principles. I did the same thing with my IRL spaces and cut off all my "friends" from grad school finally, because they're a bunch of alcoholic p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 04:19 PM
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Someone literally told me, completely seriously, that "it takes a lot of courage to be open about depraved kinks"....as if it's on par with standing up for minorities or defending helpless animals from abusers or something I feel like we live in clown world!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 03:46 PM
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Long before FDS, one of my male "friends" broke up with his gf because he "wanted to date" me, lovebombed me, then coerced me into hooking up, went cold quickly afterward, hopped on Tinder, then went back to his ex, and asked me if I still "wanted to be friends." I told him straight up, "bro you sexually assaulted me. Rape by deception. Rape by coercion." Especially because I had texts between us where I said I was uncomfortable, and that he was sorry for rushing things. He started crying and be…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:33 PM
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Some kinks deserve to be shamed. Sick of this "free for all" and "everything is valid" post-modernism BS. Women are allowed to have boundaries. Kinky men are not a protected class. Ughhh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 02:25 PM
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Not even just porn though, studies show that many men who are in relationships seek prostitutes as well. I think what happens is that, when men "get" one woman (wife, girlfriend), it gives them a massive ego boost and they somehow think they're capable of getting even more women. So they become addicted to porn and start fantasizing about cheating on their partners, and seek out prostitutes. Men are also more likely to cheat than women in general, probably because they think they can "do better"…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 01:51 PM
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I used to say that to a friend of mine! She would respond with hypotheticals, such as, "but what if it's your dream house? If you figure out what caused the fire, like faulty electrical wiring or a bad breaker, you can fix it and live happily ever after!" To which I responded, "Yes, but you yourself should not have to do that when the house is LITERALLY ON FIRE. Leave it to the professionals--let the firefighters put it out, let the electrician diagnose and fix the problem, let the architect ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/03/21 12:36 PM
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Another reason I always insisted that the guy "tries it first" when he brought up anal. And they always said "no", but then when I asked them why they wanted me to do it, they said "it's different". Different in that they think I'm an inanimate objects who exists to help them get off, while they are very clearly people with boundaries to be respected. Sicko culture
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:07 AM
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Yeah this guy doesn't sound mature enough at all to start dating women. He sounds like he has the social skills and interests of a 13 year old boy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 03:05 AM
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It's so funny to me that LVM think being a sexual deviant is "freedom of expression," without any regard to how the woman feels on the receiving end. It's almost as if they only view women as masturbatory props without no agency, and prioritize their freedom over the comfort and safety of others 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:37 PM
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Yep, but I'm talking more about what the tenets of each theory are, not about how they're practised or whether people claim to be practising socialism and communism. I agree that socialist and communist men are no different, but socialism and communism are supposed to be different in theory. Most instances of socialism and communism in practise don't actually adhere to what the philosophy mandates. They still operate via principles of capitalism. That's all I'm saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:28 PM
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WTFFF in the COUCH???? UGHHHH that is so disgusting, a class vi biohazard 😷
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 03:17 PM
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Agreed, I get more dopamine hits from putting blankies on my sleeping cats than I do from interacting with men, I haven't been sexually or romantically attracted to the majority of men in a super long time and I'm only 25.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:38 PM
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That sounds absolutely wonderful, thanks for sharing this! It's always great to read about HVM success stories!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:33 PM
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Socialism in practise is nothing like socialism in theory, and the founding philosophers of communism and socialism abhorred the commodification of women's bodies. Just because Stalin said it was under socialism does not mean it was socialistic; treating women as a resource and dictating their freedoms is inherently capitalistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:14 PM
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Yeah, and patriarchy is inherently capitalistic. Capitalism is all about one entity controlling resources rather than society allocating them for dispersed benefit. Patriarchy and capitalism are not mutually exclusive, they're necessarily intertwined because men historically hoard resources and treat women like resources. The only reason we have capitalism today is because patriarchy operates this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/21 02:10 PM
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I meant more in the sense that they want to use women's bodies as a resource. That's capitalism imo. As the activist in the article said, "women's uteruses are not taps that you can turn on and off." Controlling reproductive labor instead of getting rid of job discrimination against women is wrong, even if it's for the benefit of society.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 07:58 PM
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Yep! They're more worried about "who's gonna take care of all the old people??" Or "who's gonna keep working in the economy??" It's all driven by greed and capitalism. From the article: "The declining marriage rate is a problem for Beijing. Getting young people to have children is central to its efforts to avert a looming population crises that could severely distress its economic and social stability -- and potentially pose a risk to Chinese Communist Party rule."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:57 PM
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Lol yep, they brought this on themselves
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:44 PM
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Yep, it has been documented in Pakistan, India, and China, and it's widespread enough that it has led to a phenomenon known as "Missing Women".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 03:33 PM
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Yep, and men think they can throw money at any woman and get her to do the same things. That's why they don't buy dinner unless they expect to get something out of it. Completely transactional and horrendous. Funnily enough, the "woke bro" "Marxist' men I know are the ones to most quickly defend prostitution and urge women to split bills. When I ask them why they're so adamant, even though prostitution is an extreme form of capitalism and Marx himself was against it, they jump into mental gymnas…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:47 PM
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In China, marriage rates are falling steeply. Many single women cite their focus on career and education to be among the biggest deterring factors. There's also a deficit of women due to the one-child policy, though the article doesn't go into the fact that female children were selectively aborted or killed at birth: "That policy has also affected marriages in other ways, Yeung said. Chinese families' traditional preference for sons has led to a skewed sex ratio at birth, especially in rural are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 12:42 PM
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It always disgusts me to see women talking about other women/women's bodies like this. So gross and performative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:54 PM
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They're trying to normalize disgusting degenerate behavior, but then turn around and say "nOt aLl MeN!!!" And plus they act like only men should be "entitled" to cheat, they would never accept the same behavior for a women even though they make excuses for cheating men 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:15 PM
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Dear god this kid looks like he's 13 too, that's extremely disturbing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:44 PM
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LMAO 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 12:32 PM
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Daaamn you slam dunked him into the Shadow Realm 💀 hope his coworker told everyone at work about it and they had a nice laugh at his stupidity 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 11:07 PM
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Exactly! They go back to the woman who has lower standards and who they don't have to work to win over! Glad you told them off, and good thing you stuck to your standards!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 10:36 PM
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Yeah! And over a VIDEOGAME!! They're emotionally volatile cowards who take out their unwarranted frustrations on women and children, can't believe they try to pretend that they're the "logical" sex and the "protectors and providers" of their families.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:02 PM
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Then they turn around and say "whatever, you're not even hot you ugly fat b-word" when you ignore them and their low effort compliments 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 05:00 PM
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I think weirdly enough, that internalized misogyny makes women dehumanize women who are prettier or more talented than they are. I used to be like this; I was one of the few women in my field of study at college and I thought it made me special and "not like other girls," but then quickly realized how isolating and lonely it made me feel. Then, another woman joined the major a semester later, and she was really beautiful and tall like a model! At first I was jealous and thought she must've thoug…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:48 PM
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Yes, I used to do bhangra dancing and the Pakistani guys in that group were genuinely better on average! Do you think there's any way for the Muhajirs and Urdu speaking Punjabis to get over the inferiority complex through therapy?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:43 PM
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That's so weird and something guys have done to me too, except they call me a name "accidentally" over text that is nowhere near close to my actual name lmao Like "Hey Jasmine, oh oops sorry Diana" As if that's supposed to make me jealous, when really it just makes the guy look like a dumbass with early onset dementia!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:36 PM
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Oh god arranged marriages always screw women over!! Like that show Indian Matchmaker! Sorry to hear about your friend, but this is a tricky situation to navigate. All you can do is try to help her see the light so she raised her standards and tries to meet someone else!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:32 PM
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I could never date a co-worker because I know I'd be dumping them after 3 months, and seeing them in passing would be sooooo awkward That being said though, there's been multiple instances of male co-workers trying to be overly friendly with me. I do a little digging and find out they have girlfriends, then I tell them to bring their girlfriends to our happy hours, become super good friends with the girlfriends, then ice out the male co-workers 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:30 PM
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Awesome story!! Similar thing happened to me, except a guy I was good friends with secretly broke up with his gf to "date" me, but then after pretty much sexually assaulting me went crying back to her. I blocked him on everything and moved on. Six months later, she contacted me and told me he tested positive for herpes (which I don't have and have never had) and I blocked her too. They deserve each other!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:28 PM
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The first guy I dated was into edgelord humor and offensive memes (🤮) and I broke up with him by sending a gif of "Dobby is free!" from Harry Potter He got so furiously mad despite the fact that he was constantly sending me weird gifs and pics lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:24 PM
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Oh man, I'm a US-born Urdu speaking Punjabi on both my mom and dad's side and the western Pakistani men are exactly like you said. Self-hating, poor education, idolize Arabs and Persians, and they hate feminism! It's good to know that there are HVM Pakistani men, I would love to meet a guy from the same culture as me because it's so fun to bond over music, movies, and food. Thanks for sharing this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 04:02 PM
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Lots of men have been trying to go vegan after that documentary, "The Game Changers", came out on Netflix a while back. Most vegan men I've met have lied about how long they've been vegan for, or try to compete with me about veganism and who's "more vegan" (nevermind the fact that I only buy used clothes and vegan/eco friendly soaps, skincare, etc) In short, I would love to eventually date a vegan man, but it's so hard for me to find any who don't act like they're gods simply for being vegan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:59 PM
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Yeah when guys hit me with the "I have trust issues, I'm afraid of being used for money" I always respond with "then why are you trying to date though??" Also, these man can't comprehend the concept of being used for sex/being emotionally manipulated into having sex; they're so sex-obsessed that they could never fathom how being used for solely sexual purposes is a bad thing. But money, on the other hand, is far more important to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:42 PM
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Men are visual creatures! Except when it comes to cleaning obvious messes and putting away food that will go rotten when left out for too long! Except when it comes to buying beautiful thoughtful gifts for their significant others! Except when it comes to their own hygiene and grooming habits!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 03:26 PM
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'Porn is just like watching a movie, the people are just actors' Yeah that totally explains why so many men have mental breakdowns when they find out that their girlfriends or wives have done porn in the past/have an OnlyFans or filmed sex tapes with their exes 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:59 PM
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They can sleep with each other if they're really mad about it! LVM don't respect women outside of when they're trying to woo us for sex anyway, they respect other men far more!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 02:51 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you. You were still a child and the blame squarely falls on that sick pedophile for manipulating you and taking advantage of your loneliness. Men are afraid that women will use them for their money, but the way men manipulate women, wear their self esteem down to nothing, and psychologically torture them is far worse. You can make money back with a steady job; a fifty dollar date can be recouped in an evening. Undoing trauma and shame takes years of work. Fuck that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:59 PM
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I think someone once said that conservative men want women to be private property, and liberal men want women to be public property 💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:51 PM
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"know that the majority of men don't enjoy penile stimulation, and prefer to be penetrated from behind anatomically to stimulate the prostate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:48 PM
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LVM are slaves to their biology, imagine being this upset over such an unimportant thing. What a disgusting man Edit to add: women will put up with lying, cheating, child neglect and endangerment, gambling, abuse, etc and still give men multiple chances before leaving...but the amount of times a man will leave because the woman doesn't want to or physically can't perform some depraved sex act is ridiculously high. Shame on them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:38 PM
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Yep, lots of articles bending over backwards in terrible feats of mental gymnastics to explain why inherently terrible things are somehow not terrible. If someone needs to write multiple essays defending something, then can it really be "actually" good? Especially if the instinctual response is disgust or disapproval? Unlikely imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:35 PM
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My friends who are guys are all one dimensional and boring af. They're only fun to be around when I'm desperate for social contact. Never had a conversation about anything that I'm actually interested about with them, it's like being friends with a companion character in a video game. Completely superficial. My women friends on the other hand are capable of so much more introspection and commentary. I hate this cool girl BS that tries to put women against each other!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:30 PM
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These types of men depend on women depending on men to feel complete, so they can use them as bangmaids/mommies/personal pornstars/free meal tickets etc The lack of awareness really is astounding!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:09 PM
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God, that's so terrible and dystopian but not surprising in the least. I'll see if I can find that article, would like to read more about it! Thanks for sharing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 05:07 PM
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Agreed for sure! The concept of being entitled to sex through financial means should be eradicated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:10 PM
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Yep, seeing these comments on the relationship advice subs just enforces the fact that men would rather defend another man that they don't even know rather than a woman who is suffering. They will go throughe every single hypothetical situation possible to excuse his bad behavior, because they inherently trust and empathize with men over women. That behavior, and the Devil's Advocate BS that LVM love to do, is completely unacceptable imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:12 PM
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This is why I'm against making prostitution legal, because then over time 100% of men will be seeking prostitutes. And there's not enough "supply" for the "demand"; no woman who has a job, is financially safe, and is emotionally and mentally healthy would ever consider being a prostitute, but if it becomes legal then there'll be a huge uptick in human trafficking. That already happens in countries where it's been legalized. Also, the men are across all ages and professions but they all want acce…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 03:06 PM
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I do skincare as a form of self-care and meditation, and it's been paying off massively. I can't rewire my brain to undo the years of conditioning that my worth is tied to my looks, but I've come a long way in getting out of that mindset. Now, my confidence is boosted when I know I look my best, but on my own terms. I don't wear makeup or do my hair, but I have nice skin and that's enough for me! That being said, all the guys my age and sometimes younger look like total shit. I'm 25, and I alway…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:52 PM
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Same!! Because my cats keep hogging all the room at the bottom! 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 02:48 PM
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Even though she's well off, the patriarchy is still directing her decisions. She may think that she's choosing to do it completely of her own accord, but the very fact that she is objectifying herself and is okay with it is because of conditioning from patriarchal values. The fact that she doesn't see anything wrong with it is because of how society objectifies women as a whole. So even that decision isn't purely without the choices of men. It's like when people say that women get plastic surger…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 12:57 PM
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💀💀💀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 08:01 PM
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No apology needed, I feel exactly the same way! Too many impressionable women are bending over backwards to cater to these sick desires, in no small part due to the repackaging of feminism (liberal feminism is insidious). I hope things can get better once women start standing firm and saying no to LV behavior!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:48 PM
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Hell yeah!! 🤣👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:29 PM
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Idk if any of you know of Marc Rebillet, he's an improvisational musician. Comes up with really wacky and inventive stuff. Before he was famous, he lived in my town and I used to see his shows. He started noticing me, we matched on a dating app, then we started talking casually. You'd think that someone so cool and creative would have a really interesting personality and tons of cool hobbies, but nope--literally when I asked him what he did for fun, he said he was "really into weed." Like, he di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:27 PM
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Yep men trade nudes like baseball cards!! Further proof that they view women as shiny objects to show off for the approval of other men 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:21 PM
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I think the Pandemic has caused more women to try online dating, but it's also driven a ton of LVM to try it as well. Therefore more women are interacting with more LVM on average and the lack of quality is just astounding. I don't remember OLD being this bad four years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:19 PM
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I think it's because of porn, LVM use the fact that their feeble brains get tricked into thinking porn is the same as sex to threaten women. It's like they think that women's lives revolve around being seen as attractive, and they threaten to not pay attention to women and only watch porn as a means of controlling us. It's almost as if they think that women still need to rely on looks to catch a man to have financial stability in life. You see it all the time in the delusional MGT*W subs where t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:18 PM
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This is giving me big Roach Man from MIB vibes 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:10 PM
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This is so sad. Would have been unimaginable for her to be asking this sincerely even 10 years ago. I feel bad for this generation of young women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:10 PM
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Wow, the justification and mental gymnastics to explain why porn is supposedly 'feminist' almost reads like parody. If the instinctual response to porn is disgust, shame, and horror, why would you try to contort those feelings into something else? That's like trying to get someone to analyze why they feel scared when they see themselves bleeding or when someone yells at them. Horrible manipulative garbage!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 07:05 PM
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Yep, it's like old saying "success has many fathers, but failure is a bastard". Men love taking credit for when something goes right, and shifting the blame when it goes wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 06:11 PM
15

Yes absolutely! Having manners and courtesy is a HV trait!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:13 PM
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Preach! This is how I feel about friendships as well. I stopped being friends with someone last year because I tried to help her out financially during the pandemic, and I supported her creative endeavors, but then she stopped talking to me entirely and didn't even have the manners to wish me happy birthday. She was a total parasite and I'm glad I'm no longer in contact with her smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 04:07 PM
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I always wonder whats wrong with men when they have to resort to dating apps to meet women. Call me cynical, but if a guy is substantially HV, he shouldn't really have any problems meeting and attracting women IRL. For that reason, I tend to steer clear of dating apps. Back when I used to use them, I noticed that a lot of men had weird behavioral problems and socially abnormal affects. It's not worth using imo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:09 PM
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Two theories I came up with, as I'm also Desi (but have "exotic" features so people can't usually tell my race): (1) Desi men will say that they prefer white women to "neg" Desi women. It's essentially to put down our self-esteem so we act grateful that they pick us when they really desire a white woman. It also gives them control over us--some Desi women will try to bleach their skin, get nose jobs, and dye their hair to match what these men prefer. (2) Desi men are obsessed with white women fr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 11:06 PM
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I don't get it either, it's weird af to me that Michael B Jordan is dating someone 10 yrs younger than him too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 05:27 PM
20

Also if you're actually doing dishes the wrong way then why not do them the right way instead of just shutting down and refusing to do anything? It's not an all or none thing, same with parenting. If you're making the wrong food for your kid or dressing them incorrectly, listen and do things the right way--the way that benefits the kid the most. It's cruel for men to punish their kids by refusing to take care of them just because they can't take criticism
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 09:57 PM
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Could tell before I read the whole thing that a man was criticizing her. Men's "easy going" parenting will lead to malnourished, socially inept, and unhygienic kids who are bullied by their peers. My dad used to insist on cutting our hair and gave us bowl cuts, we were harassed for months afterward. He made us sandwiches packed with meat for lunch and my sister got sick from food poisoning. Just doing the bare minimum isn't enough and I'm sick of men acting like women are gatekeeping parenting w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 08:21 PM
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This is why it's important to heavily vet a man sexually before becoming intimate with him. The last thing you want is for him to get you vulnerable then put you in a painful contortionist position where he's in complete control (holding your arms, head, throat, or using his weight against you, etc) At this point there's no reason to have sex with a guy until you really know who he is and can form an accurate picture of his bedroom behavior. Not worth the risk (just look at Armie Hammer....)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 07:46 PM
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Agreed, I think it's a waste of time trying to prove men wrong on some things. Especially because it almost comes across as, "wow, look how good Salma Hayek looks in her 50s! What wall?" As if to say that any and all women are capable of looking that good, when most of us are not good looking for a living (like many models and actresses are expected to be, hence why they take such excellent care of themselves) Offering proof that the wall doesn't exist is like offering proof that a cheater cheat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 06:27 PM
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I almost instinctively downvoted, this is so vile and disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/21 04:42 PM
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Lol I do the opposite, I make fun of guys in front of my friends 😂 especially if they're being creepy or rude!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 02:10 PM
23

Same, I broke up with my ex because he was binge drinking despite not being old enough to legally drink, he was a smoker, and he had a really cringey offensive sense of humor. Now three years later, I found out that he's in rehab for alcoholism and got fired from a job for sharing inappropriate memes at work. So glad I jumped ship before these issues got out of hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 04:24 PM
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Oh god that's such a dehumanizing and awful thing for him to say to her. "Just being honest" yeah straight from the horse's mouth, men don't view women as much more than sexual support objects to play around with when they're feeling "touch starved". Sick!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 01:39 AM
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Yeah I was thinking student but the girlfriend for 5 years made me think otherwise haha. I did my MS in physics but a lot of my friends went on to do their PhDs, truly is a difficult life but it requires a lot of drive and discipline! Congrats that you're doing your PhD! Hard to imagine where one would find the time for video games though 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 02:07 AM
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Man....PS5s aren't even that expensive, if it's his whole paycheck then wtf kinda job is he doing?? I'd understand if he was a student or part time but seriously they're like $500, that's not that much
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 01:55 AM
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How does expressing sexuality give women any power? Does it help us get paid more at our day to day jobs? Will it help us land a job in a position of power, like congress? Nope, in fact is usually does the opposite. Men lose respect for you. Y'know what being openly sexual leads to though? Men's perception that you're always down for anything sexual, and constant unwanted sexual advances. Which leads to assault, rape, and abuse, all with the "she was asking for it" logic behind it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:28 PM
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Yep, OP's post reminds me of how early eugenisists used to break up ethnicities. The obsession with subcategorizing PoC by skull shape and size, eyes, nose, mouth protrusion--the smallest physical features, all as a basis to explain why white men were inherently superior to them. Sick and wrong!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 02:15 PM
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Agree, men always act like prostitution and sex work is just the same as any other job. But literally all other jobs serve a purpose and improve society in some way, even at the cost of the environment and the health of the worker (coal mining for energy, for example). What is sex work doing for society?? It's not helping the poor deformed men who can't get laid otherwise, the majority of Johns are married or in relationships. It's definitely not improving things for women. It's pure entitlement…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 04:14 AM
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Girl same, I gave up on OLD especially right before the holidays because it's just full of desperate guys who want a warm body so they aren't alone during Christmas/New Year's. No effort whatsoever and it actually hurt my self-esteem because it felt like none of the guys on there actually like me, they're just "meh" and using me to pass time. Not going back anytime soon!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:44 PM
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Also usually balding....🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:31 PM
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Agree, I was gonna say it's like white supremacists who have nothing going for them except being white. The most misogynistic and racist men are the ones who are usually far less successful than women and PoC, hence why they view them as a threat and need to cope by pretending to be inherently superior
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:31 PM
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The only reason I don't get back pain is because I lift heavy weights. I'm a 32FF and I used to be tiny, super hunched over all the time, and now I'm super buff with a thick waist so it definitely helps. Stupidass pervo men don't stop saying "you should cut back on lifting to look mOrE fEmInInE" though. Men are seriously so annoying smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 02:28 PM
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Yeah it's disgusting, just like how men will also scratch their balls and just rip nasty farts in public too without regard for anyone else They think they're the main character and everyone else is an NPC, no concept of shame whatsoever. Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 04:21 AM
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Yep, I think a lot of social conditioning exists to guarantee LVM mates because they would die alone if the rules of nature took over 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 07:53 PM
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Yep men have become inherently lazy due to instant gratification from porn, video games, etc. If they had to get sexual satisfaction and accomplishment in their lives the hard way, they would take care of themselves much more and invest more time and effort into impressing women. Also, society has tricked women into thinking men are the prize that women have to compete for. When there is no society and nature takes over, it's the other way around
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 05:44 PM
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The persistent behavior from men can be super dangerous if you're alone. I always advocate for women carrying weapons, such as knives, pepper sprays, guns if they're legal where you live. And if you don't have access to those, take out your phone and film from a safe distance. State your name, location, time and date, and get his face on camera. That usually deters most creeps.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:14 PM
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One of the good things about the internet is that we can see exactly how men behave, straight from their own mouths, without having to figure it out the hard way. On the other hand though, men are trying to make their depravity normalized--and it's working on some women. Hopefully more and more women will stop putting up with it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:06 PM
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Oh god I could only read a few of these comments, the lack of empathy was astounding. Just goes to show that porn has taken over their brains and they don't think women are people at all. Very scary. Good to know how they think, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 01:02 PM
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Whenever people talk about sex work, they ONLY ever seem to talk about how "it's her ChOiCe therefore it's eMpOwErInG!!1!" But they never touch on the buyers, where the demand is coming from. We need to ask why men, often with wives and girlfriends, have this disgusting "need" and entitlement to see women's naked bodies. Is it empowering for a man to spend hundreds on virtual sex and camgirls? Often times not, in fact men regard it as pathetic and sad in their own circles. I'm sick of people act…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:58 PM
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I read that article, it was extremely heartbreaking and very sad. But the thing that made me very angry is that the author did not outright condemn the porn industry as a whole, and did not name men and their increasingly depraved demands as the problem. He acted as though these videos were being supplied and watched by obscure and abstract entities, rather than seemingly ordinary men who live among us in plain sight. Just goes to show you how insidious the industry is and how normalized it has …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:51 PM
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"I'm a pretty sexual person so don't be a prude" = "I'm a massive pervert and most likely a sexual harasser so please don't report me"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:49 PM
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What a manipulative psychopath! You can tell he has a total messiah complex, not only is he unable to look like "the bad guy" but then he did a total attention-grabbing publicity stunt to turn him into a Jesus-like figure. No doubt in my mind that his ex-wife is telling the truth. Guys like this often feel justified in abusing their wives and girlfriends. Total freak!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:47 PM
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Yeah "how little it takes for us to be happy," that's why you demand that your wives/GF's are somehow completely hairless but with voluminous hair + thick lashes and brows, can eat junk food and drink beer but are still a size 0, no fat anywhere on her body except boobs and butt (and they have to be big), no acne or skin problems but wears makeup regularly, has to perform like a pornstar and not care if you don't get her off, can't be friends with people you don't approve of, has to split bills …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 12:35 PM
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Second this!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 05:05 PM
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Lmao what a moron 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 03:23 PM
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Yep, exactly! Totally parasitic and manipulative. And yeah, she has very low self-esteem despite being very attractive and successful, no doubt that he contributed to that though to keep her dependent on his useless ass. Terrible!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:20 PM
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Agree 100%, thanks so much for sharing your story!! They always come back like the snakes they are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 02:12 PM
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Yep! It's all in their head, fueled by porn consumption. A guy I used to be friends with ditched his girlfriend and tried to date me, but I iced him out, then he tried to get action on Tinder and when that didn't work, he went crawling back to his girlfriend. I wish she didn't take him back! She's wayyy too good for him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:53 PM
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Wow, what a jerk!! Sad how money and status really reveals the terrible true nature of men. Good, delete that piece of shit from your memory and live a happy life with your cat!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:52 PM
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Yeah same. And it's sad but the prettier you are relative to him, the worse his behavior becomes! Especially if you're pretty and nice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:48 PM
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Exactly! If you don't want to pay for them, don't have them!!! Men are so unstable it's frightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:22 PM
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And yet, I bet he gets off to actually depraved things in porn constantly, and would gladly accept a FMF encounter. But that's not an issue, right?? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:21 PM
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The men who have respected me the most and have been the kindest to me are the ones I've done absolutely nothing for 😂 it's a weird paradox where they want you to constantly do more and more for them, but in turn it makes them walk all over you and disrespect you. Not worth the effort, I'd rather spend time brushing and playing with my pet cats than making some scruffy loser happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:15 PM
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And even then, that's not good enough, and they'll still try to pursue other women once the novelty wears off 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:09 PM
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Unfortunately I think men only get this "what else is out there" mentality when women give them attention. In my experience, dating an ugly or inexperienced guy gives him a massive ego boost--he instantly tries to hide his relationship status and pursue other women on the side, as if to say, "man, if I could get this girl to go out with me, who else could I get?" Messed up for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:08 PM
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It's always a man, who never lifts a finger to take care of his own children, who lectures women on our supposed "duty" and "purpose" to have kids. Probably makes him feel better for pressuring his wife into having kids and then abandoning them. "Well women just naturally want kids and are better with them, y'know? I don't want to get in her way so I'm just gonna go to the bar till 3 AM and sleep in till noon tomorrow hardy har"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:05 PM
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And I bet after listing all those qualifications and talking about financial responsibility he'd still want her to split bills 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:01 PM
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Thank you so much for calling him out. Shame is the only language these men understand. I read another comment where someone said this was a waste of time and to block and delete, but I think shame is a more effective tool because men are too stupid to think you're disgusted unless you actually say it! If you don't respond they'll simply thing you didn't see the message, are busy, or any other justification. They never get called out on disgusting behavior and they really need to be!! Thanks!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/20 12:00 PM
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That was the first thing that popped into my mind, too!! But men love to act like "sex is a basic need," there's even a version of Maslow's hierarchy of needs that has sex at the bottom with food and shelter, before intimacy and romantic relationships 🙄 Just goes to show how entitled men can be smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:19 PM
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My sister can't decorate her house to her taste because her husband disapproves of everything without offering alternatives. Meanwhile I'm living by myself and I set up a bubblegum pink Christmas tree in my pink parlor 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 08:00 PM
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Why TF is this disgusting freak even looking for a relationship then? If he's self-aware then wtf can he possibly bring to the table apart from awfulness? Psycho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 07:00 PM
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How dare she have leg hair and cats!! And this is supposed to be appalling for women, however this is the default state of ALL MEN!! Crap everywhere, ungroomed, dressing poorly (at least she looks put together!!), spending all their time on the internet. Talk about projection!! Also this artist isn't even good at drawing. Next!! Edit to add: she's got hand sanitizer, gloves, and masks on the floor, obviously pandemic stuff. But the average male lives in a crusty dungeon year round without any pa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:56 PM
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Yep, same thing happens with men who say they're "feminist," and men who pretend to get along with kids and animals. They all have extra hubris and act superior to others when it's all a sham!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:52 PM
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Completely agree. Low EQ is worse for society than low IQ, in fact all the technological developments we've made have purely been to benefit the human race at the cost of the environment. And another depressing fact is the number one driver of technology is often sexual--the big push for faster internet was improving pornographic video buffering online, the big push for AI is making sexbots, the big push for machine learning algorithms is making convincing deepfake porn. So sickening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 12:29 PM
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This whole interaction is just gross. He's finding her responses "surprisingly quirky and funny" like talking to a kid and hearing them say "the darndest things," just condescending and weird...and weirdly superficial too. Just unpleasant And I bet if she ever got angry or legitimately annoyed he'd downplay it and condescend some more smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:49 AM
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I've been vegan 10 years, never met a vegan man as disciplined or who wasn't also into "free love" and drugs. They also seem to be into veganism to attract women, not really because they care about sustainability, animal welfare, or environment. Case in point, lots of vegan men still watch porn and support unsustainable industries. The best vegan guys are those who have been vegan longest imo, and who actually practice some form of activism (like Earthling Ed! He's dreamy 🥰) but they are few and…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 01:22 AM
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It's not that deep. It's not a coping mechanism, baggage, self-esteem issue, or any other armchair diagnosis. A lot of themes in porn and hentai are sick and depraved by normal standards. These men are just too pornsick to realize, so they write these weird psychoanalytic essays criticising women's characters and projecting humanity and reason onto their depraved behaviors--they're depressed, they are lonely, etc--when really, they're just fulfilling a primal urge and getting a dopamine rush bec…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 04:42 PM
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Yep... Women who endorse being beaten and humiliated under the guise of "kink"? ✅ Women who defend cultural or religion-based oppression? ✅ Women who say that conforming to traditional gender roles and beauty norms is "empowering"? ✅ Women who say that men need to put effort into courting us? ❌❌❌❌❌❌ BANNED!!11
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 01:50 AM
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Whatever happened to "inclusive feminism"? What about FDS even goes against feminist values??? This is censorship and echo chamber preservation at it's finest, also a lot (if not the majority) of women-centic subs are moderated by men...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 12:00 AM
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Yep it's a way to avoid responsibility for his behavior, classic LVM trait. He blames outside forces when really it's intentional and hurtful. Men like to say that they "just lose control," but in all my years of hearing verbal abuse from men, I've never heard them speak that way to annoying male coworkers, entitled lazy male bosses, or random asshole men on the street. They reserve their most hateful speech for their girlfriends, wives, or children, because they are afraid of other men returnin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 09:33 PM
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I used to have depression and anxiety, and I have never sent messages like those 🤔 good thing you left his disrespectful volatile ass!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 08:37 PM
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This is super important to keep in mind. I was friends with a guy once, and even considered dating him after I found out that he liked me, but before he started trying to court me I had the opportunity to see how he behaved when he wasn't trying to impress me. We were part of the same friend group, mostly men. I was being stalked by another man at our university, and he really scared me and made me feel uncomfortable. Well, this guy invited the stalker to come hang out with us because he thought…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:50 PM
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I'm friends with a couple and they are so in love, it really makes me happy. Just this week, the woman woke up at 6:30 AM to go to work, she said goodbye to her bf then went down to her car and had to chip off the ice from her windshield. Her bf got out of bed and got dressed, then chipped it off for her without her even asking. And then you have guys like this, who are friends with incels and don't care about their wives' feelings at all. Strange, strange world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 02:44 PM
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Lmao I'm Desi (from India/Pakistan) and immediately upon reading this I was like "oh god why must the men soil our country's name" 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:30 PM
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This is so sad and I'm so proud of her for getting them removed. I've always thought breast implants were horrible and the procedure is barbaric and torturous despite being completely cosmetic, and it's not ever for the benefit of a woman--always to please some disgusting man who has no care or consideration for the amount of pain and difficulty these can cause. There is a subreddit that catalogues botched surgeries and sadly, it looks like a number of the featured people are women who are tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 12:25 PM
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I think male sexuality is far different from female sexuality in a lot of aspects, and men are trying to make their behaviors and preferences the norm while women's preferences become "fringe" identities of their own. Very messed up tbh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 09:42 PM
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Yep, and they chimp out at the smallest inconvenience. It's not uncommon for men to shoot into other people's cars during road rage incidents, imagine being that primitive! The lOgIcAl gender smh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:26 PM
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Men are so weak. They can't take what they dish out. If they had to endure pain every month like women do, they'd get paid leave for period cramps. Bunch of babies Edit to add: men love to talk about how enlisting in the military makes them so brave and macho, meanwhile as soon as women were allowed to join, so many of us signed up even though we aren't even socially expected to. Plus, a woman puts her life on the line every time she has kids, and we don't have to be conscripted to do that. No m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:06 PM
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And to be fair it's not even demonization, it's criticism. And I think that behavior should rightfully be criticised, because it's abhorrent to manipulate women into letting men use their bodies like that. Demonisation implies that we're portraying it as worse behavior than it actually is, when we're really just talking about the facts. Manipulation and deceit for sex can seriously traumatise women and harm our emotional and mental health, there are studies that show this effect. Additionally it…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 01:02 PM
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Yep absolutely, it's a complete false equivalence! When women hate men, we avoid them. But when men hate women, they actively seek us out to do us harm. They're projecting their inhumanity onto us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:58 PM
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A classic case of women projecting our humanity onto men. Oftentimes, when women are very depressed and anxious, we will be "deadbeats"; society puts so much pressure on women to maintain happy, cheerful, and productive exteriors that women can really get bogged down and lose all motivation when we become depressed and stressed. But I've noticed the "sit at home all day playing video games and smoking weed" is the default for a significant population of men. Men seem to exist in a state of tryin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:56 PM
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I was gonna say exactly this, and also, if any of the geniuses at AHS read what FDS ACTUALLY says, they'd realize that we NEVER advocate for violence or abuse toward LVMs--we simply advocate to leave them! No revenge strategies, no gaslighting and manipulation tactics, just LEAVE! How in the world is that abuse?? What a bunch of illiterates!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:38 PM
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Oh god what a sicko!!! So glad you dodged that bullet!! I wish society would stop gaslighting women about looking into guys' backgrounds, it's absolutely necessary in this day and age!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/20 12:30 PM
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Oh god he sounds like a typical hypocritical Desi fuckboy. I've dated those kinds of guys before, and let me tell you that they bring absolutely nothing good to your life. They're just parasites and they keep you trapped in a cycle of wanting their approval because you're worried nobody will like you because of how Desi culture treats "damaged goods". You're a much better person than he will ever be, because he's cruel and he used you for his own gain. He doesn't care about you beyond what you c…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 09:44 PM
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I just have to laugh at how the above comment is well written, well thought-out, and makes a succinct point while the response is "if u no agree then u dum dum"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:52 PM
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Hell yeah!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:35 PM
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"wow, she's stupid enough to buy me a PS5 for no reason? Better marry her now so I can get her to do a lifetime of emotional labor, house chores, free prostitution, cooking, etc before she realizes that I'm a worthless loser"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:16 PM
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Why is confidence unnattractive in women??? What a predatory piece of trash Men want women to have zero standards, zero boundaries, and zero self-worth so that they can trick us into relying on them for everything--labor, finances, validation--when really, men are pretty much optional in this day and age 🤷🏽‍♀️ they should consider it an honor for a woman to choose to date them, because we don't have to marry men for our livelihoods now. Instead, men wished we needed them. Pathetic
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:12 PM
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Men act out all the time and go on tirades and have emotional outbursts, and nobody bats an eye! Not saying we should be like them, but anyone who has problems with women expressing their anger is sexist. The shame you're feeling is probably due to social conditioning, but you honestly have every right to be angry and let your anger be known. LVM treat women like subhumans, and women are often traumatised afterward. Also, men aren't used to being shamed or called out, even though they do it to w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 08:08 PM
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Smh "iTs a YoU pRoBLeM," nevermind the fact that the boyfriend probably knows she can see which pictures he likes and is doing it on purpose as a subtle manipulation tactic to drive her insane. He's probably aching for her to call him out so he can gaslight her with "you're so insecure" and other nonsense. I'd dump a man as soon as I even suspected he'd be playing games like this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:59 PM
48

For me, there's a fine line between ruminating enough so I never let my guard down to let men mistreat me again, and dwelling to the point that it ruins my day/is bad for my mental health. It's all about being aware and in control of your feelings. If you feel your mood drop because of bad memories, take a minute to recognize the effect it has on you and try to move on to something more productive. I lift weights whenever I'm angry and it drastically improves my mood. That being said, absolutely…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:56 PM
138

He's probably fat, short, bald, and broke and is upset that attractive women are rejecting him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 07:53 PM
45

Every dating app gets overrun with disgusting LVM and starts to repel women, so the developers have to increase the amount of bots and fake profiles. Every single guy I've matched with on apps has always used them like a free escort service, it's such a turnoff.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:56 PM
2

Same!! I was so relieved to know that I wasn't being "crazy" or "overly emotional"!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:54 PM
70

This mindset is definitely helpful, because oftentimes women downplay or justify when men treat them badly. But then, if their friends are treated the same way, they see the bad behavior plain as day. It's very important to establish clear boundaries for how you want, expect, and demand to be treated, and to stick by them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:52 PM
90

This is why it's so important for women to have financial independence and ownership of assets! The last thing you want is some disgusting scummy weirdo holding money and shelter over your head to bargain for depraved painful sex acts!! Seriously to hell with him, he's such a slave to his biology that he wouldn't have married her had she refused to fulfil his sick desires. What a pathetic disgusting man! She needs to divorce him!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 04:49 PM
37

This is why I absolutely advocate women "online stalking" men before we meet them. Look up his name, find his socials, hell even run a background check if you can! You never know what you're dealing with when it comes to men, they can present themselves as the most charming normal guys but be completely depraved and insane deep down. And they always lie and gaslight women for being suspicious so they can get away with being creeps. So many men I know make the joke "I need to delete my search his…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:29 PM
37

Guys who watch a ton of porn think that women are always interested in sex, even if we say no or show clear signs of disinterest. They think a "no" is a secret "yes" that needs a little convincing, they project their disgusting sex obsessions onto us and act like we're just as depraved because that's how women are unfortunately portrayed in porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:15 PM
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Yeah there's been reports on the increase, in the UK the rate of child-on-child sexual assault was said to have increased by 600% in 2015 I think. Also in Australia teens are having sex before they're even going on dates, having first kisses, or having relationships. It's incredibly sad and it must be so mentally damaging to those generations of girls and boys.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 02:07 PM
39

I feel like chasing men just turns them off too, they get the idea that you're desperate and lose attraction to you. It's paradoxical but I've experienced it first-hand, guys don't respect women who are selfless and caring--they just walk all over them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 01:55 PM
34

I try to use dating apps every 6-9 months or so and I can never go more than a week before quitting 😂😂😂 the lack of effort is soul-sucking tbh, really makes me feel more alone than anything
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 05:13 PM
69

Yep, women who are single and child free are wayyyy less stressed, physically, emotionally, and mentally, and it does wonders for our skin and overall health. Meanwhile men are far less stressed when they are in relationships with women! No wonder people think men age better than women smh. If they compared singles head to head though, they'd quickly realize otherwise!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 02:00 AM
14

Ugh the whole "I don't want to lose you again" is so performative smh He wants her to tell her exactly what she wants so he can do it for 1-3 months or however long his patience lasts until he becomes inconsiderate again Same reason why guys lovebomb and interrogate women as to what we like and dislike, so they can pretend long enough to get what they want without actually being genuinely good people
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 12:44 AM
78

This mindset has helped me stop myself from chasing men I have crushes on lol Most recently, I had been struggling to stay chill with a co-worker who was obviously super into me. I didn't want to date him for a number of reasons, obviously dating a co-worker is a bad idea, but something about the guy just rubbed me the wrong way I found out he has a gf secretly or has just broken up with her recently, he had been creeping on me while they were still dating tho Thinking about the long term outcom…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 02:58 AM
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