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Surely there's gotta be one of these for us blokes in Melbourne?
/r/seduction24/02/15 09:42 AM
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Considering you've actually gotten dates, you shouldn't stress too much. Keep at it. I'm 18, still never had a date/relationship. I'm working at it though!
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:25 AM
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I think if there was a video, it might have had a different perspective for us to see off. From what I'm personally hearing, in general, the direction of the conversation was just towards establishing a 'friendship. The things spoken of are what I'd try to aim for when meeting someone I'm not keen on getting a date out of. Ideally the interaction should be short, straight to the point. Also, when pushing for the instant date, I felt cringed whenever you said 'please'.
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:18 AM
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Not bragging, but more just something to hopefully motivate. A year ago, I was a 17 year old, weighing 100kgs. Began to lose weight and within 2 months, I hit around 83kgs. This was during holidays, so I was out and about and managed to chase a few numbers. Didn't go past that. Went into college/university, and scored a few numbers again, but my course workload is insane/I live 2 hours away from my campus, which sort of blocked and limited my social presence on campus (always hang out with frien…
/r/seduction21/01/15 11:13 AM
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I visited USA (NY, LA and Vegas). I don't know why you guys think we have the better girls when all I saw were models down your end.
/r/seduction28/10/14 08:39 AM
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Yeah, you guys are right. If I do say sorry its usually with a cheeky grin or a smirk, to make sure I dont visually come off as apologetic.
/r/seduction27/10/14 08:27 PM
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I'm without a doubt not a 10, but it tends to work in general for me. Its possible because of the Australian culture. Pick up isnt as big here as it is in the USA or the like. Girls get flattered or surprised when me or some of my friends cold approach.
/r/seduction27/10/14 08:26 PM
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Wherever you approach, whether it be college, grocery store, bar, basically anywhere, just be straight up and just try something along the lines of "Hey, you look gorgeous, and I just had to come and meet you..." or "Hi, I'm sorry to bother, I just thought you were really cute." Basic lines, nothing too risky. Best of luck :)
/r/seduction27/10/14 05:43 AM
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I agree because I've been in the same situation. First semester this year I was approaching and was confident in conversing with girls. This semester I've been shocking because I stopped over the semester break. Today, I met up with a mate and he was with 2 girls, 1 who I used to be close with earlier this year. Anyhow, I was silent as anything, felt anxious around them and just couldn't bring myself to say anything other than 'hey, sup'. Shocking really. Time to start from the bottom again I su…
/r/seduction21/10/14 07:09 AM
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Don't know why I couldn't think of that. Its the same subject as well, so I reckon I could go for a set up for a study date!
/r/seduction14/10/14 06:51 AM
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You obviously need to be reasonable and logical when doing this though. If you see someone that's screaming "I'm a dickhead and will fuck shit up" then yep, don't go there. But if its just some wanker that won't do shit, and majority of times you can tell, go for it if he's staring. I see plenty of guys, particularly from my culture, walk past and stare at me, and I do it back, because I know they won't do shit.
/r/seduction25/09/14 09:11 AM
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I call stupid.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:56 AM
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Can relate to the idea of perceived value. Jumped on a weight loss journey, made significant results before uni started this year. Was feeling healthy, happy, confident in approaching. With the workload of uni, I've put on only a few kilos, stopped working out, feel like shit and fail to have the same amount of confidence I had a few months ago. I think before going out and approaching, its good to get some things right with yourself, and as OP said, develop perceived value.
/r/seduction11/09/14 03:37 AM
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Went Vegas recently myself, stayed at the Aria. Top place. Initially booked a 1 bedroom apartment sorta thing, but they had an issue with cleaning so they upgraded me and my mates to a proper Sky Suite. The pool + gym I found to be a good place to approach.
/r/seduction06/09/14 11:41 AM
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I think she judged him by his appearance immediately, but then he went into complimenting her, from where I think it all changed.
/r/seduction17/08/14 03:08 AM
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Geez, sounds like one could make a hit movie with that one! Awesome job dude! Seems like both of you are very much into each other, considering it went so smooth? Good luck with the next meet! :) Keep us updated
/r/seduction16/08/14 08:43 AM
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Yeah, as I said, I don't think highly of myself because I approach and my friends don't. It was just surprising for me to realise that guys think its weird or hard.
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:47 AM
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Thanks man. Appreciate it :)
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:46 AM
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Thanks mate. Thats the plan! But hasn't been any good because I've come across a shit load of girls already in relationships.. bad luck I'll say haha. Thanks again!
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:46 AM
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Thanks heaps for your response mate. Had a good read and appreciate the advice. That's one reason why I refrain from it. I'll never approach a girl walking around at uni as it'll get awkward later on if it crashes. Right now, I'm eyeing a girl that sits in the front in one of my classes, and another girl I saw at the cafe a few days ago who is there a few days a week. So by that I guess you can tell at the kind of interactions I get involved in, and I feel they are safe if the crash. Parties out…
/r/seduction14/08/14 12:39 AM
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A shit load of girls I know treat Tinder as a joke. As many have said below, its a confidence killer. I resulted to it as well, got like 2-3 matches a day for the week I lasted there. Got close to 1 date, but it crashed because I just lost interest in her. I think its best to just approach in person.
/r/seduction07/08/14 09:53 AM
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I picked up her number at like 8.30ish at night. Would feel like texting her at 10 or after kinda too desperate? As well as the fact that she mentioned I should text her tomorrow as she didn't have her phone/didn't know where it was. When I got it, her number showed green, but just a few minutes ago it showed blue (if not iPhone savvy, she has iMessage and turned on the phone - green is usually off/Android) I will text her around 10 in the morning tomorrow though. That sounds like a good plan. W…
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:18 PM
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That is a thought that did come to me and my friend at the end of the night. I personally would hate to be in her boyfriend's situation. Although, I personally have nothing to lose here. Fuck, I met her at a networking event. She is extremely smart and was an awesome networker. Even if it doesn't go anywhere after coffee, at least I made a connection for the future right?
/r/seduction06/08/14 01:00 PM
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Hmm. I like that idea. Building off that, I've got work tomorrow night (Thursday, 6pm), and uni on Friday morning till 2 in the afternoon. I was thinking of asking her for then. What should I do if she says she herself has work/uni during that time? Raincheck? Also, should the initial text be about going out, or should it be just a Hey, its me from the networking event last night, how are you etc.?
/r/seduction06/08/14 12:49 PM
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What do you mean by 'pussy on a pedestal'?
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:10 AM
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I was in an awkward position because I had no idea how long they were there for. It was 3 minutes of normal and rest went awkward, and as I said, I was about to get outta there, when they decided they would instead. :/
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:09 AM
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Snubbed, as in ignore. Even today, we were in a group setting and she said hi to me, but I just nodded. You can always tell she knows it, but yeah. Yeah, its something like that. I met her on day 1, introduced her day 2 to another friend, they hit it off and they're best friends a month later. Yeah, I also got fed up. By the time she broke up with her boyfriend (recently) I didn't find her attractive anymore. I literally was with her when she found out (same class on the day) and she was crying …
/r/seduction06/08/14 05:04 AM
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Yeah, I can sorta relate to that. A girl I met on the first day, went into an instant coffee date after class and she goes 'you'd be perfect for my friend', I asked 'wait, why?' and she says 'well too bad I have a boyfriend'. I did pretty much the same as you, except in a different way. I became friends and conversed for a month via Facebook, by then she was in my social circle at school, and I basically snubbed the crap out of her in every interaction. She gets the point and either of us don't …
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:38 PM
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She did add me on Facebook after the interaction and thanked me for helping her around. It always happens, and 10/10 times, I never snob the girl, I'll actually be friendly and talk to them, which kinda makes me feel stupid and shit.. I've got a weird thinking process, but you're correct.
/r/seduction05/08/14 11:14 AM
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Surely helped people here understand you're a dick, and of no help whatsoever.
/r/seduction03/08/14 11:22 AM
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I'm on a similar boat as you. Quiet simply put, I'm probably a 5/10 in looks, mainly because of my body (not overweight/obese, just body fat in the wrong areas). Moreover, I am quite shy, most likely a result of being conscious of my body image. I have no issues in approaching strangers, particularly men or ladies 30+, but its the girls in my age bracket that get my palms sweating. I've lost 10 kilos in the past 6 months (2 months realistically, as 4 I was unable to due to uni). I'm back in the …
/r/seduction01/07/14 12:35 PM
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Hmm, so maybe a picnic invite then?
/r/seduction30/06/14 07:13 AM
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Read this again, and had a question of sorts. In this scenario, the girl enjoys cooking, and so do you - a mutual idea. In my case, I also love sport - I head to a game regularly, in saying that could I set up a date at a sporting event? In the case the girl also likes sport, sweet. But if she doesn't could I strike up a great invitation by saying 'Come along and I guarantee you'll love [the sport] by the end of the night'? Or is that too much of a risk..
/r/seduction30/06/14 02:30 AM
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I'm still a learner/beginner in the pick up game, but damn man, that is boss. I myself enjoy a bit of cooking here and there in the kitchen, so that's definitely a possible 2nd date idea I'll store in the book!
/r/seduction29/06/14 11:15 AM
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