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shouldofjust/r/seduction25/08/16 08:51 PM
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Bro. You're worrying about a lot of shit you don't need to worry about. Text game is mostly logistics. Remember how most fuckboys will literally just text "u up?" at 3am ? The in person interaction just has to be solid. Then you have to be casual and not needy over text. Now you good. Chill.
/r/seduction06/02/18 04:11 PM
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I would add that instead of "staying framed and focused" as you put it it's easier to think of it as just NOT getting in a weird mental haze where you think you need to be fighting and dominating over everyone at the club. Most of the naturals I've seen (read: ALL) don't waste time worrying about their status. THAT is the sign of high status.
/r/seduction06/02/18 04:08 PM
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(white girl voice) oh my God he's adorable. I get to play matchmaker let's GOOOOOOO Introduce them. Leave them alone for a bit. Bring other girls back to the interaction. Now she's realized his game is wack compared to his, AND she has to compete for your attention with a bunch of other girls. Also, whatever... If the dude is cool, be friends with him, you can never know too many cool dudes
/r/seduction06/02/18 04:05 PM
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Rabid tiger.
/r/seduction06/02/18 03:59 PM
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TLDR , why should I , you know what you did . Ask specific questions that deliver value next time
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 08:14 PM
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At a very basic level , yes . There is , however , a LOT more that you could do to increase your "ratio" ... such as qualification , investment , tailoring your approach to the girl , logistics , dealing with her friends , etc. ... and once you get solid on THAT it's just "hey wanna grab a drink ?" again but this time pretty much everyone says yes
/r/seduction30/12/16 07:45 PM
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"Putting yourself out there is what works" is probably good enough for you. I've gotten far too deep into this shit (unhealthy obsession) to be satisfied with that... it's much more complicated, but you have to care, and it's not for everyone to spend years trying to piece out human interaction. At least personally the only reason I care about this is because I was bombarded with negative messages since before I knew to "ignore that shit". In addition, much more of the cultural messaging is subt…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 06:48 PM
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Fair. TRP is definitely a place for learning, and most of the community's problems with TRP stem from people not practicing redpill concepts correctly (and by correctly, I mean in a way that gets results and makes you more successful, and not in a way that's aspiring to some bullshit "alpha" ideology where you actively find feminists to get into shouting matches with. I'm a bit of a hypocrite because I'm on this subreddit.) On the other hand, I'm not talking about TBP specifically, I'm talking a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 05:11 PM
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Someone besides you is gonna have to say that for it to have a remote chance of being true. "I'm actually more successful than you guys IRL!" Bullshit. I'm the first to admit that I haven't made shit out of myself yet, let's not pretend we're all gods here. Male feminism as an ideological choice isn't what makes the "much more accomplished, naturally masculine and romantically successful" highly unlikely, it's the crippling social anxiety and lack of confidence that comes with the hamstringing o…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/16 04:58 PM
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Couple good points here. Remember that there's tons of ballers out there with shit online game. Being a text wizard is not necessary here. Revise #2
/r/TheRedPill28/08/16 04:02 PM
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Outcome independence and self amusement. Not "try to be this person", more "these people have some cool shit going on"
/r/seduction26/08/16 05:42 AM
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Solid. I meant more that these are some interesting people to check out, and that things could be learned from them. Also, I've only seen "remove yourself from Hollywood fantasies" used in the context of Modern Familyesque social conditioning happy ending soulmate bullshit. Would you recommend unplugging from all media? (For instance, I think some people here would agree that watching James Bond is potentially informative)
/r/seduction26/08/16 05:33 AM
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Instructions unclear, I now have handles surgically attached to different parts of my body
/r/seduction25/08/16 09:23 PM
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Direct is polarizing: the girls who are into it are immediately very down, and the ones who aren't will leave very quickly. Using low percentage high polarity material (like very direct openers) in a small social circle is like firing an RPG at someone right next to you: powerful, but will blow up in your face. Exception: if you're very good at handling reputation, you can be the absolute master with this shit. It is by no means a path for the faint of heart. If you aren't 100% sure even though …
/r/seduction25/08/16 09:21 PM
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I was on the fence about getting a bike and a license. You convinced me. Thank you kind stranger
/r/seduction25/08/16 09:14 PM
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Let's go watch a movie = let's fuck. Unless it's in theaters, and then it's a 15 year old's easy date idea. So no, no movies. As an easy alternative, a natural friend of mine is very into inviting girls (and all his friends in general) to weird ethnic food (Sri Lankan, Malaysian, etc.) Use yelp, find some good shit.
/r/seduction25/08/16 09:13 PM
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Oh Jesús yes the jealousy is real... I think a good 60% of my problems in the last year can be attributed to that shit
/r/seduction25/08/16 09:10 PM
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You create your reality. Seems like with your sensory filter the way it is, if you figured out how to get core self belief you'd be fucking amazing at the self amusement type of game. Cultivate inner game and frame all your experiences as positive. This trip was the beginning of a new era for you dude, I can tell. Edit: mobile autocorrects to "ducking". Who is responsible for this lemme go murder them
/r/seduction25/08/16 09:06 PM
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You need to engage the girl without chasing the girl. If you're making the first move, you need to quickly flip the script so she's chasing you instead of the other way round. Or if your style of game is more persistence oriented, you just need to persist without chasing.
/r/seduction25/08/16 08:59 PM
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Since when do looks affect social status? Be the connected fat guy, it's less tryhard even
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:38 PM
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I'm all three of those things. You STILL need game. Edit: I'm two and a half of them (not completely ripped yet). My friend is all three. It makes a difference but you STILL need game. Especially because hot guys are intimidating.
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:30 PM
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Have you ever heard of a little thing called frame control? You're right up there with all the dudes trying to impress her by flashing their Rolexes... this is the new paradigm, dude. Why WOULD a girl want you? That's a question you answer for yourself. Don't place your attractiveness in the hands of a random girl.
/r/seduction25/08/16 04:28 PM
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I'm pretty sure at this point even the "no interest" reactions aren't to be taken seriously, as sometimes girls will remove all signs of interest just to see what you'll do. When in doubt, she's down. (Just make sure to be up with whatever consent shit they have in the UK)
/r/seduction24/08/16 03:24 PM
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As a 1st degree black belt in it, this is so fucking true... far better than nothing but very easy to fuck up
/r/TheRedPill19/08/16 06:49 PM
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...that's the worst mindset I've ever had the displeasure of witnessing. Just get her to take out the goddamn headphones. Congratulations, you now have compliance.
/r/seduction19/08/16 02:01 PM
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This IS power poses.
/r/seduction16/08/16 07:24 PM
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You've missed the entire point. It's not because it's funny, it's because Andre doesn't care if it's funny. Andre isn't there trying to impress anyone, he's just doing his shit and people respond. The message isn't that you should even be as funny as Andre, the message is do your own shit and stop caring how people respond.
/r/seduction16/08/16 01:51 PM
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Why do you care what this girl thinks? Is she in your social circle? If no, that just makes your reputation more polarizing. All attention is good attention if you know how to use it
/r/seduction16/08/16 12:59 PM
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Dude. The entire point is that you stop thinking about exactly what happened. Let go of your need to have a "good" pickup, let go of your need to not get rejected, just dive into the set with nothing holding you back and it'll be beautiful every time
/r/seduction16/08/16 12:51 PM
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You're straight up missing the point of spirituality... it's a different kind of pleasure but still pleasure
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:54 AM
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Neither one is objectively better. It's all choices
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:48 AM
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6 foot 1 moderately built Latin looking guy here. It's very possible to fuck up even when you have good looks and I do get harsh rejections now and then. If you don't have the genetics, do what you can (lift, dress well, eat good shit) then move on... confidence is much more important. Read some sports psychology books to help with that bit
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:47 AM
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Heard a version of this from girls that aren't even strippers, honestly
/r/TheRedPill12/08/16 06:19 AM
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Ignore the rude one.
/r/seduction05/08/16 04:28 PM
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If she's not contributing to the conversation, there's a few things to consider. First, are you being boring? Be honest with yourself about this. If so, let go and talk about whatever the fuck you want. Everyone's got an exquisite, complex world just sitting inside of their head, and it's a damn shame not to share that with the world and ESPECIALLY with girls you like. Second, is she boring? She may be especially guarded for some reason. Why is that? Figure her out, man. Figure people out. Third…
/r/seduction01/08/16 02:34 AM
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She leaves. That's it. Especially on cold approach, if she's there, she's interested. You can also remind girls of this (it's hilarious to do it after a huge sexual compliment) a la "...you can go if you want to."
/r/seduction01/08/16 02:25 AM
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Why was it a blow? Why do you care what a random girl thinks about your sexuality? This is often a sign that they're hitting on you, also. IMO best way to deal with negative (if this is even that) frames from the girl is to ignore them. Source: Effeminate, bi, baller as fuck
/r/seduction01/08/16 02:22 AM
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...Explain?
/r/seduction01/08/16 02:19 AM
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...dude you came here for said terrible advice after you literally got used as a coat hanger. You'd be embarrassed to see someone else being a dick? Seems like you really need to get more shameless/polarizing.
/r/seduction07/07/16 02:37 PM
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