| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 51 | Truth & stats - men are statistically more vulnerable to divorce and its deleterious effects | shroom_dot | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/25 07:38 AM | |
| 25 | Hearing about AP from daughter | shroom_dot | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/24 12:15 AM | |
| 21 | Incredulous AF | shroom_dot | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/02/24 09:11 PM | |
| 12 | Feeling fragile | shroom_dot | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/02/24 08:50 PM | |
| 5 | Random Thoughts...6 weeks in | shroom_dot | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/02/24 10:27 PM | |
| 5 | Sister Goddesses | shroom_dot | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 05:59 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 21 | My wife (32F) told me (44M) she wants to separate — 30 hours after the kids and I joined her in SpainShe’s having an affair and checked out some time ago. Lawyer up and divorce her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/07/26 04:58 AM |
| 1 | She might accidentally kill youShe was beautiful like I’ve never seen before - but lacked critical thinking. Was to be my downfall, it t’was. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 11:59 PM |
| 1 | She might accidentally kill youCanadian here. Never. We will fight in the streets, the hills, the sea - we will never become yanks. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 11:57 PM |
| 9 | She might accidentally kill youOops | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/06/26 11:56 PM |
| 2 | All I see for the future is darkness.Essentially that’s what marriage is - a contract with the government that you must extricate yourself from with the best terms possible. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 03:21 AM |
| 8 | All I see for the future is darkness.Maybe if you get into a different mindset it might help. Think of it like this - you’re a widower. The person you married is now “dead” - the person that is divorcing you is a completely different entity. Like a business. And you have to deal with her like a business - That’s the best advice my lawyer gave me. It was a contract that failed and now you have to deal with her like you would a business relationship. Grey rock. It’s a business transaction from here on in - the person you married does… | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/05/26 02:38 AM |
| 6 | Is there a pattern with HC divorce?Seems about right on many fronts | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/04/26 03:52 AM |
| 5 | Anyone else getting bitter towards the idea of marriage?This | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Is it normal….Been there. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/01/26 09:06 AM |
| 7 | Stbxw has been secretly making double my income for many years while I struggled.Discovery is a beautiful thing. Get a lawyer stat | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/01/26 06:48 AM |
| 5 | Google Trends Shows a Massive Rise in “Divorce Lawyer” Searches. What’s Going On?Oh hell yes | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/11/25 01:29 PM |
| 8 | I served my wife divorce papers while she was blowing her date in a carDude! Well played! | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/10/25 10:05 PM |
| 2 | Divorcing after 23 yrs of marriage and I'm heartbrokenThis. A relationship is defined by how it ends. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/08/25 05:10 AM |
| 5 | For Anyone Asking How It All Went Wrong - ResourcesWithout deep diving into these sources, could you be so kind as to give a brief summary as to your discoveries? | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/07/25 05:53 AM |
| 1 | 22 years old and divorce is around the cornerÍm sorry but I just can’t understand how people - kids, really - can get married so young before their life and brain has matured and expect a different outcome? | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/06/25 05:44 AM |
| 9 | I moved out of our house today. 32 years togetherI feel this brother. Also, my ex became « enlightened « like yours, down the new age rabbit hole. Same thing happened. Had an EA with a new age douche. I get it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/25 01:14 AM |
| 5 | A new guyI’d wager instantly | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/05/25 12:25 PM |
| 6 | Someone from reddit saved me from unaliving myself todayCould be rewriting the narrative to cover her actions - not yours. | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/04/25 04:48 AM |
| 3 | She moved on in an instant, while my world is falling apart.My ex told my daughter on my week off that now she feels free. Mind fuckery with the kids. Spin that narrative! | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/25 05:24 AM |
| 3 | Separated but she’s moving out soonWe’re alike in many ways. It’s like a stress-filled, not what you asked for, full time job. Baby steps. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/02/25 10:06 PM |
| 5 | TikTok showed me her fishing for the next guyThis is so apropos for the social media brain dead that our society has become. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/02/25 06:59 AM |
| 2 | Man being away from my kids for 2 nights is killing me.27th for me. Holidays I are always thick with break ups! Must be a universal timer with women. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/01/25 04:32 AM |
| 3 | She’s texting her tinder friend right in front of my faceHard truths. | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/12/24 10:10 PM |
| 3 | 1st Christmas without my kidFirst for me as well. Not looking forward to it, especially as I know her AP will be at the in-laws with my kids, neatly replacing me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/24 03:16 AM |
| 5 | Got the news todayI second this, having been my experience. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/11/24 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you call your kids when they are with their momThis is me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/09/24 04:53 AM |
| 9 | Got paparazzi’ed at a restaurantCan I come and hang? | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/08/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Random thoughts from a divorced dadFelt it oh so keenly too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/08/24 07:06 AM |
| 5 | How long did it take your ex wife to move on after you initiated divorce?The day after Dday. Monkey branched the shit out of it. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/07/24 02:43 AM |
| 7 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.After 7 months on from DDay,, scouring the various D/infidelity subs, this is by far one of the best threads I’ve ever read. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 05:00 AM |
| 1 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.Wow - some brilliant observations. Good form sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.Word - been there too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:54 AM |
| 4 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.Oh hell yes - this IG / TikTok / FB crowd sourced everyone’s a psychotherapist inanity - it’s like watching common sense and human decency unravel one bloody pixel at a time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:53 AM |
| 3 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.This. So very this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:47 AM |
| 2 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.Me too. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:45 AM |
| 4 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.Word. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:45 AM |
| 16 | I wanted to believe it wouldn't happen...but you guys prepared me.I feel like I could have written this word for word - your second last paragraph is so undeniably true and stupidly textbook universal. It’s like a new age / midlife crisis playbook for women. You are definitely not alone in this friend. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/07/24 04:43 AM |
| 8 | Planning for life after divorce. My perspective.Yes! This ego searching/ casting, crowd sourcing of every little emotion or rumination blown up on repeat. Pandemic just exploded the whole phenomenon as people went down rabbit holes as they could not deal with circumstances at the time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/06/24 09:07 PM |
| 3 | They basically hide behind lawyers to disguise their true self. They hire pit-bulls purposefully so they can continue lying to themselves about being decent humans.Yes!!! This is so f*cking true! I’m going to use this 🙏 | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/05/24 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Having an emotional day.Love this - a mix of experiential and anthropological observation. You hit the nail on the head. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/05/24 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Sister GoddessesI’m so sorry to hear that - and as a non-believer looking in, I’m terribly disappointed they treated you like a pariah. Is not god love and acceptance? Easier said than done I suppose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Sister GoddessesThey assemble a cheer squad to push it through - I caught wind of that. I took your approach as well but there was always a movement in the background to oust us. | /r/Divorce_Men | 30/04/24 03:35 AM |
| 7 | Sister GoddessesIt’s also a way to crowdsource their feelings / motivations about leaving the marriage. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Sister GoddessesYup! Good point. Shirley Valentine 3.0 | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/04/24 06:36 PM |
| 7 | Wife of 12 years cheatedWhat hit home for me was the mention of the sudden monotone voice after a burst of emotion. Happened to me as well and was shocked by the sudden transition - it’s like the acting is relinquished and this cold, callous automaton takes over and drops bombs with reckless abandon. | /r/Divorce_Men | 27/04/24 05:23 AM |
| 2 | When do the dreams stop?You could be me - near exact situation and my first mediation session is tomorrow morning. Wishing you well brother | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/24 04:45 AM |
| 3 | She ask me to pick the kids upThis is the way. I thought I was on death’s door last year and this was the singular that the mind fixated on. Nothing else matters. People don’t get it - but they will, one way or another. | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/04/24 01:07 AM |
| 2 | I really appreciate my x wifeThis. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/04/24 05:19 AM |
| 4 | Hearing about AP from daughterOnly the truth that you’re an asshat. And that is but a child blowing through a straw across the room. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/24 05:40 AM |
| 3 | Hearing about AP from daughterYou’re an asshat. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/02/24 05:14 AM |
| 3 | Incredulous AFThanks for this. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 03:30 AM |
| 3 | Incredulous AFGreat advice - thanks mate | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/24 03:25 AM |
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