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Fundamentals shu3ham96/r/seduction04/05/24 02:52 AM
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What's your general approach to the daygame, care to share?
/r/seduction21/05/24 11:43 PM
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What do you mean by day game? Approaching in public?
/r/seduction04/05/24 05:17 PM
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I'll give it a try for sure, it should change the dynamics.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:38 PM
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That's a vaild point, I surely need to escalate more. Working to make the first date kissing standard lol, I have done that in the past, and it changes the dynamic totally though that situation was different, the woman herself was the one who asked for it. So it was easy.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:36 PM
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I think that's not an issue, but fair enough.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:28 PM
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Thanks, that's what I have in my mind too when I'm just returning back home with a hug 😂. But i totally get your point, and I need to work on that to make it happen.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:28 PM
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Interesting take, I'll think about that.
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:24 PM
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Yeah, those are valid points and I tend to do that. I let them speak and ask questions to build the conversation, I do contribute to it as well. I tend to make it flirtacious, and funny, but as I said it doesn't seem to work here. I'm not sure if it's me or the women I'm meeting
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:23 PM
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Got your point, I need to lead a little more. Since it's the first date, I tend to know that person more but the dynamics feel very different. Maybe clubbing both of these things together, I mean conversations and touch escalation would be a win-win
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:20 PM
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You're making it look easy lol
/r/seduction04/05/24 01:17 PM
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Tldr?
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:15 PM
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Yeah, the getting used part only happened once but most girls i met were proactive to split. First date kiss is something everyone is suggesting, what’s your approach to that, i mean how do you read when’s the best time?
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:15 PM
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Lol, who hurt you bruh?
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:13 PM
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I don’t agree to this.
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:13 PM
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I’m generally pretty chill, but i want atleast some to go a distance and not just be first date crashes. If this pattern persists then I’ll eventually lose motivation to go even on the first date lol
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:12 PM
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Yeah, right now it’s mostly dating apps. Sometimes i feel the girl is too shy or she is coming for her first date, so i try to make her comfortable with conversations. But eventually my energy is consumed, so i don’t like that sort of situations anyway. But i get your point, i need to widen the pool
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:11 PM
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Sometimes i do think of having the first kiss, maybe I’ll try in my next. It’s just that i don’t see the opportunity to get into a kiss, unless i ask or say i want to kiss you
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:08 PM
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Mostly bars, live music places. I don’t see much opportunities to do that unless i ask them explicitly for their hand. What can i do to actually have that?
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:06 PM
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Thanks for pointing it out, I’ll update that. To your questions - 1) The first dates mostly have been in bars for drinks 2) casual conversations about likings, hobbies but i try to keep it fun and there enough laughs 3) Touch has been missing, sometimes i have had my hand on their back or shoulder but other than that just hugs
/r/seduction04/05/24 12:05 PM
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