shurk127 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Girl is in a relationship with a wealthy alpha that maintains impeccable frame and doesn’t put up with her shit tests. She feels neglected and hurt (hamstering ensues) Heh. Thanks for the heads up. I'd noticed a bit ago that I never received any feedback, but this account is just a TRP alt so I didn't know how much mind to pay it. Mind if I ask how you were able to tell that? (Also, I assume it's the mods of TRP/askTRP I'd need to ask...?)	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/15 12:08 AM
1	Wasn't sure what to do with this AMOG If they were already laughing together in the time it took you to collect yourself (realistically what, ten seconds max? Ten seconds is kindof an eternity) then he's probably at least a good friend, if not BF. If he was a total rando she'd be just as taken aback as you. You need to be able to distinguish that as immediately as possible, because even though shooting him down and getting back to where you were with the girl is unlikely at this point, if you can at least react in a friendly manner …	/r/seduction	30/09/15 07:14 PM
7	Wasn't sure what to do with this AMOG SMOOTH, dude.	/r/seduction	30/09/15 07:05 PM
2	Why Has My Wife Injected Herself Into A Relative Stranger's Death? Women love drama. It doesn't get much more dramatic than losing s loved one at a young age.	/r/askTRP	27/09/15 10:43 PM
1	Guys I fucked up. CLEARLY tell her that you are 100% done, there is no room for negotiation. It was fun, but it's over. Save the messages, every last one. Screenshots. Cease responding to her at all, immediately. Go no contact, none whatsoever, and in class treat her like any other classmate. Whether or not there is legitimacy to her claims, she is saying these things to you to get a reaction. She may continue and she may cause problems for you to a ridiculous degree, but at this point all you can do is give her …	/r/askTRP	27/09/15 08:50 PM
1	Walked out on a meetup. Did I miss anything? Well your user name cracks me up so I always take note, and I've rarely disagreed with anything I see you post. You're pretty fucking spot on.	/r/askTRP	21/09/15 10:30 PM
1	Walked out on a meetup. Did I miss anything? You always give excellent advice on here. Is this ♂ still a thing?	/r/askTRP	21/09/15 06:48 PM
2	Im not getting laid because Im not social enough. And this is why Mystery got left in the dust in like 2007. I'm so fucking happy I haven't had to read shit about "the cube" for about three years. The lessons learned from old-school pickup are valuable in that they give beginners a metered starting point to gain some confidence and learn that to be truly happy these traits need to be internalized rather than scripted. Sometimes, beginners need a bit of fake-it-til-you-make-it. Pickup is the fake, TRP is the make.	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 09:36 PM
1	Im not getting laid because Im not social enough. Honestly I hate their emphasis on smirking smiley-guy game too. It's pretty at odds with my personality, but I learned to adapt the lessons there to my needs. It's where I started, what got me into the manosphere, where I learned about body language, confidence, approaching, SMV, etc. its what led me to TRP ages ago. It's not an excellent community, but it is a solid starting point. The sidebar and materials linked are solid. Pickup is the genesis of TRP and I think having that background is ver…	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 09:28 PM
1	Im not getting laid because Im not social enough. Definitely. I see a lot of horseshit about divorcing TRP from pickup on here lately, and I think it's damaging to the perspective of what TRP actually is. This is an instance where a young man has a decent base, and needs to emphasize the confidence and social skills that running good game will bring him.	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 09:25 PM
1	Im not getting laid because Im not social enough. This is where the intersection of TRP and Pickup needs to be emphasized. Get on over to /r/seduction and read up on cold approaches, getting into state, and forcing yourself to go out and get experience. For a campus environment, place some importance on developing "day game." Pickup typically places importance on interacting with everyone to build up your confidence and become more comfortable interacting on an everyday/immediate level. This and day game should apply to your daily school life. …	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 09:11 PM
2	Ex wife makes a move It was an absolute miracle that I turned out to be infertile. my heart goes out to you for this, but as far as the ex goes, I guess it's an odd miracle. Either way man, best of luck to you. Seems like you're in a better place. Keep spending some time with your buddies and the new lady, keep focussing on improving yourself, and leave the ex in the dust where she belongs. Godspeed.	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 08:55 PM
2	Ex wife makes a move Turns out he never said anything to his wife except that he thought I was happier then ever oh man was I wrong! Ha your boy has your back to the extreme. But this explains your ex's reaction entirely. She can't handle hearing that you're doing so well and totally goes off the deep end. I mean I'd still advise you ignore her, but the situation's a lot clearer now. Your bud is coming out as a totally solid dude here, sounds like a good and valuable friend, keep him around if you can handle his wif…	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 08:33 PM
1	Ex wife makes a move Your friend sounds like a beta bitch whose wife probably runs the show, or at the very least he's lacking in character/brains to not keep his mouth shut. Your ex comes across ratchet as fuck. Women say the craziest shit in these situations, just gunning for attention of any kind. Ignore.	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 08:12 PM
2	I'm sick of weightlifting should I just switch to mma? Dude, if you're sick of being sore, jiujitsu is the last thing you need to ever try. You don't know stiffness until you've been caught in a neck crank.	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 07:25 PM
3	A subreddit called "The red pill hangouts"? Putting together a list of redpillers' locations is asking for trouble. We're not looked upon too kindly by a lot of Reddit. Seddit does meetups. Maybe check that out if you're interested in IRL bro'ing out.	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 07:24 PM
1	I am fucking up a golden opportunity. I'm looking for ways to ask women out. In a work setting. Without coming off as creepy or overly invested. Without alcohol or a stream of bullshit lies. What part of that is hard to understand? The part where you defensively state that you don't want to "bullshit your way" into actually going out with these women, yet you're basically asking us for some kind of script to make it happen? Listen dude, TRP is not a cheat code. TRP is a set of strategies that, once applied, will bring you success wi…	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 06:49 PM
3	I am fucking up a golden opportunity. You're looking for answers but all you're doing is listing excuses as to why you can't act....not sure what it is you're actually looking for guidance on? I refuse to bullshit my way into a ONS Dude...what are you asking us?	/r/askTRP	20/09/15 08:57 AM
6	I just want to have sex with a lot of good looking women and live a hedonistic lifestyle, am I on the wrong sub? TRP is sexual strategy and nothing else. The crew of "monk mode" bitches are new to the scene and are mostly made up of do-nothing betas who are too scared to actually approach women. Do not listen to them. The reason things like a mission, career, meditation, etc are espoused on TRP is because these things, when practiced in spades, mold you into a person that women find fundamentally attractive. To use the vocabulary, these things raise your SMV. Having a "mission" and being career-focused esc…	/r/askTRP	19/09/15 07:12 PM
4	Broke up with Ltr of 9 months, a little help. Honestly, I think you're handling this superbly. You've got a great head on your shoulders for 18 years old. Be realistic in that it's okay to feel hurt after things like this happen, just keep in control of yourself and keep handling things like this and you'll be well, well off.	/r/askTRP	19/09/15 07:02 PM
3	Has TRP made you lose friends? If you hold yourself to a high enough standard, once you begin to hold those around you to the same, many will start dropping off very, very quickly.	/r/askTRP	19/09/15 08:10 AM
1	Bench press grip position? Agreed; flyes and weighted dips are where I've seen the majority of my chest growth from.	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 09:01 PM
1	Bench press grip position? Definitely, if you want chest mass, flyes are the way to go, no question! Bench is a great compound lift but is not exceptional for chest definition unless you target it (decline, close-grip, etc) You can always tell who in here has put their time in at the gym vs. on the computer.	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 08:59 PM
1	Bench press grip position? A wider grip purportedly puts more stress on the upper chest muscles This is incorrect. A close grip will hit your upper chest, if that is your goal. Wider/closer grips work different parts of the chest and accessory muscles (triceps mostly) of the compound movement. It is incorrect that a wider grip targets your upper chest. Wider grip hits your chest as a whole more, making those muscles bear the brunt of the lift. Compare it to the motion of a flye. Conversely too wide of a grip can cause und…	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 08:53 PM
6	Me [25M] with my wife [29F] of six years, is not sexually adventurous with me like she was in her college years before me. You, my friend, are in the perfect position to have your eyes opened to the realities of TRP. Hit the sidebar of the main TRP sub HARD, absorb some of the information, try not to stay in what we call "The Anger Phase" for too long while you digest it. TRP is all about learning to care for and improve yourself. You'll likely decide you want to leave your wife. You CAN turn things around within the relationship, MMSL and the married TRP sub can help you here – but it is NOT easy, and once you star…	/r/askTRP	16/09/15 08:44 PM
4	Is there really any point in lifting? You don't lift for women. You lift for yourself. That being said, since I've gotten in better shape, the attention I get from women has tripled. I used to be one of the "skinny white guys with the toussled hair," and women were never this interested. PS - "Man crush Mondays" are what women want you to think they want, not what they actually want.	/r/askTRP	14/09/15 06:43 PM
3	My friend has been harassing me basically replying him as if he is my little sister, its sorta fun actually This is your problem. You're feeding into it. Honestly you all sound like a bunch of immature, silly little bitches. This situation is more dramatic than dealing with women. Knock that shit off and stop talking to this person.	/r/askTRP	14/09/15 06:36 PM
1	How would you interpret these two things that happen regularly on my nights out? Are you very good looking? To me, this sounds like you're a very good-looking guy who doesn't have great game (you're 19, that's not at all an insult.) I'll admit the consistently asking to "make out" throws me a bit, but if you're regularly experiencing women hitting on you and blatantly making things physical, this would make sense. The fact that it doesn't escalate or lead to anything is squarely on your shoulders - if you attempt to escalate and it still goes nowhere, well, women need attent…	/r/askTRP	12/09/15 11:00 PM
1	My plate is asking for permission... need advice Are you sure SHE sees herself as a plate? I partially agree with /u/kempff 's assertation, but there could be more here if she reads more into what you two have. This sounds to me like how a girlfriend asks her BF if the "girls night out" is okay with you. If you were in a relationship this could be a shit test to check your insecurity. Since you're not, this could be a shit test to see what your level of commitment is. Or, if they're male friends, it could be like /u/kempff says above and this …	/r/askTRP	12/09/15 06:15 PM
1	Why do girls think I'm "cute" and not "hot" etc.. Body language/how you hold yourself; manner of dress can also be a factor. This type of language is not an insult to your physical appearance, but it is an indication that you're not pressing "the right buttons" to present a strong masculine image. That's the main difference between "cute" and "sexy." That being said, I've never gotten more tail then when I started working on my physique and "manly" appearance (facial hair, hairstyle, dressing to accent my physique) and along with that came plen…	/r/seduction	09/09/15 08:37 PM
2	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? k	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:31 PM
1	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? Fair enough.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:24 PM
1	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? I'm sorry your fragile little ego is so hurt, dude. Must be my lack of experience because my asktrp account is so new!! Your responses to OPs initial question ad everything I've said here are so overly try-hard that it IS cringeworthy. And your immediate over-the-top aggression, to the point I envision you raging at your keyboard, reveals more insecurity than you realize. I know you fancy yourself some suave savant but you're coming across like an overbearing meathead. If I'm such a useless trol…	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:20 PM
1	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? You seem like a really calm, rational human being. Very alpha, sir. Tell me a bit more why you care so much what "everyone" or "the audience" thinks? EDIT: does EDITing your replies after the fact to look better have anything to do with all that experience? You're a mess and you can't handle being called out.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:10 PM
1	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? "The audience?" Jesus Christ dude, get over yourself with your shitty advice and inability to handle criticism. You clearly didn't read any of my responses. I gave you the only counter-example you need. You're too wordy in every pursuit in life, it seems.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:04 PM
2	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? How much better can a comment get? Heh, at least I know you're try-hard everywhere and not just with women. lol	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 05:56 PM
3	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? It's called a new account, dude. But please, feel free to judge me on that, I couldn't care less. If I pretended I was brand new or inversely invented a partner count in the hundreds would that change your perspective? I'm fairly experienced. I have slept with thirteen women in the past five months, so I do pretty well without being some prodigy or something. saying anything about "HB" numbers is irrelevant nonsense. I'm minimalist in everything I say and do with women and it works wonders for m…	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 05:54 PM
1	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? You're trying to rationally explain yourself to someone who deals in feels. It's a waste of time dude. Any of your responses would be better replaced with: .....And?	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 05:44 PM
1	Is it creepy to create a fake "run in" with a girl I met before? Keep at it my man. Confidence is key and is the hardest part in the beginning, before you have had enough experience to build true outcome independence... Always remember: too much confidence is more easily forgivable than too little.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 08:27 AM
1	Is it creepy to create a fake "run in" with a girl I met before? What have we learned? Men's behavior is only creepy if the woman finds you unattractive. The exact same behavior taken from an attractive male is seen as flattering. Doing exactly this has worked gloriously and consistently for me, but go ahead and do what suits you, if you think sneaking around and being dishonest with your intentions is the best way to start things off. I'd recommend you at the very least give her "I was in the mall so I thought I'd come say hi to you," but again, whatever sui…	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 07:00 AM
7	Is it creepy to create a fake "run in" with a girl I met before? You want to meet her, right? Then go fucking meet her. If things went as well as you say the first time, then she'll be receptive to an approach. Calm, confident, assertive MEN give women the tingles. You know what does NOT give them the tingles? Someone who needs to blubber around for an excuse to have a "reason" to talk to them. Your reason is that you fucking wish to do so. Being concerned about this shows that you're hung up on this singular interaction. It's the opposite of abundance mental…	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:41 AM
2	Is it creepy to create a fake "run in" with a girl I met before? It's only "creepy" if you're weaselly or indirect. If you show up and are straightforward, saying "I wanted to speak to you again," and then have a chance to carry the conversation, you are demonstrating intent and that you're not afraid to speak your mind or go after what you want.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:10 AM
2	Is there a correct way of handling the "you only want to fuck me" shit test? These are way too wordy and honestly cringe-worthy. Why are you explaining yourself?	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:06 AM
1	What is the red pill thing to do in this situation? (infidelity) TRP is amoral. You make your own choices based upon your own values, none of us can tell you what you ought to do. Read the sidebar sometime.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 06:03 AM
2	How to handle a phone in a relationship? Can't say I'm proud of it, but I will occasionally check the phone of every woman I seriously date for the rest of my life. Even being informed about women's nature and paying attention, i've learned too much horrifyingly deal-breaking shit this way to pretend otherwise. Say it's BP if you want, I promise you that you will never know what your woman truly thinks of you until you see it in her own words/actions.	/r/askTRP	09/09/15 05:59 AM
3	Women pledging commitment to you is like getting paid in monopoly money. It doesn't really count. Part of me wants to tell you to be careful and meter yourself, read MMSL and apply these things gradually to your life to save your LTR if you truly care for her. Another part of me wants to reiterate that my LTR ended because I finally manned up and let her know that certain behaviors of her were absolutely unacceptable; I stood up for myself and it led to our end. She was SUPER hot and had no trouble whatsoever finding the next branch to grab. That sucked but the man I am now would never let t…	/r/TheRedPill	09/09/15 05:16 AM
8	Women pledging commitment to you is like getting paid in monopoly money. It doesn't really count. Honestly, going too RP all at once is part of what drove her away. I overcompensated for deficiencies I realized I'd possessed in the course of that relationship, and the obvious insecurity of the change in me was like rocket fuel for her hypergamy. It seems it's a common thing here that men realize the position they've put themselves in and they swing way too hard into TRP tenets right off the bat. All that at once is certain to alienate a person who's used to the milder guy they first began to…	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/15 11:33 PM
17	Women pledging commitment to you is like getting paid in monopoly money. It doesn't really count. My ex of five years once told me when I went to visit family for Thanksgiving that she "couldn't possibly bear to be apart from me for a single night." Two weeks later I got a text that she was moving out "to focus on herself and try to go back to school." It's that immediate, gentlemen. BTW she was pregnant 2 months later. No school in her future. AWALT	/r/TheRedPill	08/09/15 05:59 PM
3	Grown women and teenage girl argumentative strategies I don't know what's stupider, the fact that you wasted your time having this argument, or that you felt the need to attempt to waste ours trying to read it. You say you were shocked to see how TRP holds true....well, one of the first things you should have learned is to not have these arguments, especially not in public, especially not on fucking Facebook. I'm willing to bet half your replies are going to tell you to delete the thing outright. You have no frame to hold in this circumstance. I'm …	/r/TheRedPill	24/08/15 08:31 PM
2	Positive Changes, to your wardrobe! Rarely are women stylish. They are often fashionable. This is a distinction I don't know that I would have articulated on my own. I have fallen for a fair number of "fashionable" women because I was ignorant of the trends they were following and thought them clever. No wonder they turned out to be so boring.	/r/TheRedPill	12/08/15 08:35 PM
6	The Tenacity of Shit tests and Hamstering. He couldn't have ever been red pill. He's still a fucking high school kid.	/r/TheRedPill	11/08/15 10:27 PM
2	Surprised about Shit Tests Then you're worrying way too much about something slightly intangible. When your frame is solid, shit tests just roll completely off your back and you just identify the girl as being "sassy" or some shit. These days, I rarely even take note of the fact I'm being tested until I see her sexy, slightly-shocked, mouth-agape reaction.	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/15 04:17 PM
2	Become a bartender? How (I want to become a better man) I mean raising your social proof by being highly social; by being a familiar figure with others who go out frequently, as well as people in the establishment. We have tons of "regulars" at our spot. If they come in with a new girl, we treat them right, and we are tipped accordingly. Honestly, a good, friendly, sociable bouncer probably has the highest proof in the entire place (by definition he is built, is the first person you see in the place and therefore is fundamentally associated with it, …	/r/askTRP	10/08/15 12:09 AM
2	Become a bartender? How (I want to become a better man) Okay I think I'm the closest thing to your ideal situation here. I tend bar part-time, two (weekend) nights per week. Overall it is pretty fucking awesome and a lot of the things said in that thread are true, but there are some things you need to take into consideration. It took three years to get here. I have worked as a bar back, cook, server, and bouncer while working my way up. YES the money is good, but it looks like you're not interested in that. So, on to your (admittedly naive and over-o…	/r/askTRP	09/08/15 11:31 PM
2	Become a bartender? How (I want to become a better man) I don't know where you think all these "events" are that need "volunteer" bartenders. I have worked in the greater industry for years, and in my area at least this is definitely not a "thing." Bartenders only get paid $3.45/hr in my state anyway. It's not like you'd be saving anyone any significant money. And the caliber of the help (yes at a ritzy event the bartender is nothing more than "the help") reflects directly upon the organization involved. They don't want a rookie.	/r/askTRP	09/08/15 09:56 PM
2	How much of a red flag is this? She's honest to a fault. No, dude. AWALT exists 100% for certain things, and this is one of them. "Honest to a fault" does NOT mean the same thing to you as it does to a woman. Never doubt this.	/r/askTRP	09/08/15 06:50 AM
2	Am I in the wrong here? Everyone's a little insecure in some way or another. Don't stress about that; just focus on letting yourself feel "at ease." Fake it til you make it if you have to. The issue is simply that you were attempting to show a frame of confidence, and in going out of your way to make these statements you undermined that. Someone who was that confident in the things he professed (that he was entitled to date multiple people, that his respect was a valuable thing) wouldn't necessarily need to state them …	/r/askTRP	08/08/15 09:13 PM
2	Am I in the wrong here? This just means you overdid it a bit, like most people do when they're just starting off with TRP. It's not a problem at this juncture - it just means you're learning. The only things you mention are your "respect is earned" text and that you "mentioned" you were seeing other people. Both valid, but both cringeworthy in this context. While these concepts are valuable and attractive in a man, saying them aloud certainly isn't, and in fact reeks of insecurity in your new frame. If she didn't catch…	/r/askTRP	08/08/15 01:42 AM
11	Lessons in Hypergamy: What I learned on my vacation TL;DR: You spent your entire vacation not aggressively pursuing women, backing off from any competition or confrontation, and feeling superior while accomplishing nothing. Your numbered "lessons" are TRP 101 and serve as you rationalizing your complete lack of action. Did you even get laid?	/r/TheRedPill	21/07/15 12:51 AM
2	LPT: Don't repeat my name back to me excessively. Common sales tactic. I had a car salesman pull it so excessively that it was just hilarious. You just have to be aware of what constitutes this "excess" and strike a balance. Using her name shows investment and builds comfort, just don't veer off and get all creepy/sales-y with it.	/r/seduction	27/04/15 05:26 PM