| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 24 | Negatively branding FDS in forums leads other women wary of joining and checking it out.Maus is a wonderful series. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/01/22 12:40 AM |
| 18 | To those raised by guardians in an age gap relationship, what did you observe?My parents met when my mom was nearing 18 and my father was nearing 30. My father had his second child with a second woman while meeting my mother. Apparently, my mother was friends with the second woman and messed around with my dad behind her friend's back. TBH, my dad wasn't shit, but he was my father. With my mother, he was emotionally and financially abusive, but he acted like a family man/good husband to others. I did not think of it as a huge deal, but with learning from FDS and moving aw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/22 03:39 AM |
| 16 | Meagan Good and Devon Franklin Divorce. Accusations of Negging and Emotional Abuse/ Control Games on His PartI also grew up in the Christian community. My parents weren't as rigid keeping me in line at church which helped me avoid the toxic stuff other kids had to deal with. With what I see with men in the church and how they get away with stuff, I feel weary of getting married. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 04:04 PM |
| 52 | Meagan Good and Devon Franklin Divorce. Accusations of Negging and Emotional Abuse/ Control Games on His PartI'm happy for her that she decided to leave him. I know that in these "Opposites attracts" relationships, it causes a lot of resentful compromises. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/21 01:45 PM |
| 6 | Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d…Olivia Wilde Olivia *Munn | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/21 12:45 PM |
| 10 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?And she doesn't have a not so great relationship with her daughter because she's her opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:37 PM |
| 23 | Who do you think is a High Value Woman TV female character?I can see Gloria from Modern Family as a HVW, but I don't see Alex as one. She puts down everyone who is beneath her in intelligence, makes herself a martyr for situations out of her control, and the men she dated in the series have some character flaws. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/21 03:36 PM |
| 340 | Let’s create a megathread: What is one of the best pieces of advice you’ve learned from this sub that has blown your mind or had the greatest impact on your life?To never mold yourself into their preferences because they will still leave you for someone else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 06:20 PM |
| 9 | For all the ladies who feel lonely sometimes...I feel that being alone sucks at first, but it rocks when you have the cards in your hand. I live in a somewhat busy city where I can keep being distracted. I tend to hold my tongue when I see people over-talk about their relationship, but I enjoy listening and asking questions because I care for them. People pity me for being single, but I put my head up high and say that I am happy being on my own. At least my advice for everyone is to be able to live on your own in an area that keeps you busy… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/21 02:31 AM |
| 112 | What are some examples of imbalanced relationships that stand/stood out to you in media? I’m currently rewatching Harry Potter for the first time since joining FDS, and I’m finding Hermione’s relationship with Ron… a lot less endearing than I used to 🥴Meredith and Derek. He was married and the power dynamics was a big no-no. After breaking up in the beginning of the show, he slut-shamed her and they still got back together. He never valued her until it was convenient for him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 01:56 AM |
| 17 | A list of famous, hot and rich HVM to give the ladies hope and freak out the LVM lurkersDidn't someone posted a article on FDS about Jason Momoa saying he enjoyed doing the r*pe scenes from GOT. That killed it for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/07/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Older queens if you woke up as a 20 year old again, what would you have done differently?This would be seven years ago. I wish I was able to cut contact and spend time with those who really cared for me and participated in other things. I wish I was able to follow through with what my therapist said about no contact and do better with my health and grades. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 10:59 PM |
| 5 | I hate how men truly believe that their looks don’t matter. That women aren’t “ Visual”Even then some gay men aren't clean themselves unless they are trying to impress their love interest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/04/21 12:37 PM |
| 11 | At least Trevor Noah gets it. He's using his platform to speak on violence against women and why it's up to men to stop it.I got scared for a bit that he did something inappropriate😖. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 6 | Feeling a lot of regret and sadness about how little self-respect I used to haveI have done a lot a stuff for male validation ignoring the potential relationships of good women. I thought that I needed to do things to be the cool girl or because social media says it was cool to get male attention or do things for them to like me. I have done things I regret and left me feeling gross of myself, but I am proud that I recognize my mistakes and use FDS to help me move forward and make amends with my friends and not try to impress crap men who will never give me the time of day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:49 AM |
| 29 | Reason 406 why I don’t believe most men deserve childrenGrowing up, I thought I only had my sister and I. Turns out, I was my father's third family. He had two kids from two different women and my mother would have not let us knew about them if she could. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 09:22 PM |
| 5 | I cried myself to sleep when I found out that the guy I loved thought I was an idiot and a weak slut because I just didn't know how to think well and study well because I couldn't find a guide and I couldn't figure out how to be a proper woman to be treated properly because of where I came from.Fucking yikes!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/21 10:48 PM |
| 23 | Black men will degrade and berate black women and want to only settle with us when their lives are in shambles. Why are black women always the ones meant to “fix” a black man who’s a mess? Kanye West needs a THERAPIST, not the labour of a ‘black queen.’And I laugh because the engagement was broken off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 01:27 PM |
| 58 | The wisdom in these verses... (book and author in tags)A Thousand Splendid Suns was one of the first books to make me cry. I ate up that book in less than 24 hours and I craved all of Khalid Houssani's books to read. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 3 | Thought of you ladies for some of the tidbits: “My Spouse Wants A Divorce Because I'm No Fun”Yikes! That sucks, but there's plenty of fish in the sea for me to subscribe to for financial advice on YouTube. Thanks for the headsup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/21 02:09 PM |
| 3 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceLike I get fleeting feelings, but I am not interested in being tied down right now because I am tired. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:58 AM |
| 48 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceFor someone who had only had a brief relationship during my first semester at university (currently 27), I needed this. Not interested in dating yet, but outside pressure can pull you down at times. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 09:47 PM |
| 6 | To all the Black Women on FDS: PUT YOURSELF FIRSTSubscribed to their email list. Thanks for posting this article. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/20 04:08 PM |
| 3 | “Have you ever considered having your hair thinned?”How the heck can you thin your hair? What kind of crap is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/07/20 07:28 PM |
| 2 | KHLOE KARDASHIAN IS A PICK MEBruh, I will admit that I felt bad for her, but after hearing how she would "steal" her boyfriends while they were in committed relationships the umpteenth time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/20 11:48 PM |
| 198 | Here for it! Level UP sis 👏👏👏Since she is now divorced with a banging body and a anticipated album, she would already make back 100x the amount she lost from the divorce in a snap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 03:39 AM |
| 19 | Retired PornStar Lisa Ann says the demand for extreme hardcore porn is pushing veterans out of the industry. Pornographers now rely on drugging young amateur women and forcing them into things during filming by surprise that they did not agree to, because experienced porn stars won't do it.The funny thing is Belle Knox hasn't been in porn for years and she is now in law school under a different name. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/04/20 07:28 PM |
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