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he’s right though. it’s usually women that can’t get the guy to commit that are upset. why else would they be upset? it’s not going to be a guy that committed or a guy they don’t care about and when it comes to attractive women, they’re usually aiming for the type of guy who has options and is less likely to commit…which is why those guys have options lol
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:04 PM
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this has to be written by a woman who got rejected by a guy she liked women ghost guys all the time and use them for attention etc and move on fast from relationships (where do you think the term monkey branching came from? they move on WHILE IN the relationship lol)
/r/seduction21/07/26 11:02 PM
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i agree with the guy above because it’s not really possible to be romantic and boring, because romance has more of a charge to it. that’s what makes it romantic in the first place it sounds like you were trying to be seductive but it was coming off flat due to miscalibration
/r/seduction21/07/26 10:59 PM
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bro wtf is that profile pic 💀
/r/seduction17/07/26 11:54 PM
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had a casual situation go 3 years recently before i ended it
/r/seduction17/07/26 10:07 PM
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yeah i understand what OP is saying but it still doesn’t have any applicable value (the irony with that word lol) it’s just the usual “upgrade yourself as much as possible”
/r/seduction16/07/26 11:53 PM
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so what did he give a fuck about before that was hindering him exactly
/r/seduction16/07/26 10:50 PM
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who said become official fast lol. sounds like a high school kids advice
/r/seduction16/07/26 08:06 PM
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i like tits and pretty faces that usually does the trick
/r/seduction16/07/26 07:37 PM
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yes i do, and i bounce. guys can do all these mental gymnastics about how women think differently, but at the end of the day she’s an adult capable of knowing what your profile said and what is reasonably expected after having sex once and continuing to see someone if she draws a line of no sex, that’s fine, that’s her choice. but you don’t have to stay
/r/seduction16/07/26 05:13 PM
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most men are definitely beta, cheesy, or awkward just listen to date stories from women. 9/10 times it ends with me thinking “wtf are guys doing?”
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:23 PM
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these threads lately…lmao
/r/seduction16/07/26 02:21 PM
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this. What actually works is pretty simple but almost no one wants to do the work that it takes because it involves a lot of potential rejection, embarrassment, feeling down, and not getting immediate results that’s why these spaces online will go on forever. realistically everything that could’ve been said on the topic has already been said a million times, yet here we are with daily new threads somehow and that’ll never end
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:52 PM
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that’s the answer though because following any “method” is a waste of time and no one successful does that in other words the question itself is flawed
/r/seduction15/07/26 01:10 AM
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it can be done in a respectable way. just have a short conversation and see if she seems receptive at all, be the first to end it, then strike up another in the future, and if the vibe seems right ask her to coffee if she doesn’t seem into it, bounce
/r/seduction15/07/26 12:04 AM
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well i got bad news about this sub. it’s mostly about talking to strangers to see if they like you too
/r/seduction14/07/26 11:57 PM
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seeing someone working who you find attractive and wanting to start a conversation to see if there reciprocated interest is being a creep?
/r/seduction14/07/26 11:53 PM
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none, you take bits and pieces and field test all of it to see what’s real and what isn’t then youll know who the legit posters here are (there are only a handful)
/r/seduction14/07/26 11:28 PM
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that guys username is based on a doomer blackpill youtuber named RehabRoom, so he’s going to picture all women over the age of 23 being washed up and every guy being doomed unless they have 10/10 looks just incel dudes living online instead of irl. i mainly date mid 20s and still think there’s a lot of really hot women in their 30s
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:44 PM
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I tend to agree but also recognize that social media has made it harder to keep girls interested once you become the norm to her always new shiny objects around
/r/seduction14/07/26 09:33 PM
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you and every other post in history on here lol
/r/seduction14/07/26 07:37 PM
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PUA coaches who are heavy on “it’s all about skill bro” are mostly full of shit Blackpillers who are heavy on being screwed unless you’re above a certain looks threshold are mostly full of shit Extreme ends of each spectrum are true: someone with zero social skill whatsoever will largely be fucked unless they practice , but most people aren’t that bad. A charismatic god can also overcome some of the looks deficit someone who is a legit 1-3/10 is definitely at a big disadvantage and will have ver…
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:19 PM
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if we are talking about instagram baddie types and those girls at the top of the beauty scale, money and/or status is usually required, regardless of your level of game and looks contrary to what the PUA world would like you to believe, the hottest women go where the money goes because they have the power to not settle for less than that you’ll notice all the legit IG baddie type girls are always with dudes that have money / status there are exceptions occasionally where you might catch one thro…
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:53 PM
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myth. most of the hottest girls wait to be pursued, ESPECIALLY by the guy they’re crazy about due to intimidation / fear of rejection
/r/seduction14/07/26 03:45 PM
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yeah identity change is the hardest thing to do, if it’s even possible
/r/seduction14/07/26 05:55 AM
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crutch doesn’t carry over at all to being sober
/r/seduction13/07/26 02:51 PM
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i agree with OP and i’m at a similar age, but im dating 22-27 primarily. almost never date women 30+
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:48 AM
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150 dates in half a year is insanity lol wtf how were you even ensuring every single day was booked with new girls? or were these repeats?
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:46 AM
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30s in general are insane
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:45 AM
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yeah i agree and i think it keeps getting easier all the stories i hear from women about other guys leave me thinking “wtf are guys doing?”
/r/seduction13/07/26 12:43 AM
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they’re not applying it right then
/r/seduction12/07/26 07:54 PM
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in my experience this is more internet theory than actual truth the women i know irl who are 6s and 7s aren’t dating the guys who are 8s. the guys who are 8s are pulling women who are also 8+ most are dating their looksmatch if anything i see women date down in looks more often than dating up
/r/seduction12/07/26 06:05 PM
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so in other words you’re the guy with the youtube channel / book and this is promo
/r/seduction11/07/26 06:48 PM
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i’d say that chick is weird as fuck for saying that in the first place and ignore her passing a shit test insinuates you want the girl and are verbally sparring with her to some extent, but i wouldn’t want this chick some shit tests aren’t worth “passing” (the idea of passing shit tests is low value in the first place and assumes you’re in a qualifying position). sometimes you simply smash the test by correctly acting like the person is a weirdo/dumbass if you need to play it off for the sake of…
/r/seduction11/07/26 06:08 PM
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it doesn’t sound happy
/r/seduction11/07/26 05:17 PM
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actually you’d be surprised at how many girls can’t get dick on demand from a guy that they find even mildly attractive even though they’re cute themselves it’s more like an illusion of options because the majority of those guys aren’t good options. it’d be like having a bunch of fat women after you with a few cute girls mixed in guys ghost women all the time, clearly want to pump and dump, or act really weird. attractive guys are pickier than you think too because of their own options it’s hard…
/r/seduction11/07/26 04:18 PM
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solid, opposite experience here try both anduse what works OP
/r/seduction11/07/26 07:27 AM
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dating apps, ig, cold approach, and social circle highly recommend mastering online
/r/seduction11/07/26 07:26 AM
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gift..absolutely not
/r/seduction10/07/26 11:16 PM
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you’re in your head girls in their 20s date guys 35-40 all the time also the truth is almost no girl is going to outright agree to a casual relationship declared upfront. it’s more of something you simply walk out until she puts pressure on “where is this going?” and then you can be honest about it many girls will bounce once they know you’re still seeing other girls but some will stay too regardless, you have to be absolutely slanging dick like a champion in bed
/r/seduction10/07/26 10:55 PM
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first is better than the second second still alludes to validating her view that you’re lucky even if the idea is abundance
/r/seduction10/07/26 06:04 PM
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this it’d be like saying “i didn’t kiss her on the date because she didn’t look like she wanted to be kissed” or “we were sitting too far apart” women wait for men to make something happen and don’t usually make the open window obvious
/r/seduction10/07/26 05:30 PM
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they sound like a bot or man larping highly doubt that poster is a woman
/r/seduction10/07/26 05:27 PM
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sex game sounds like it’s lacking and/or he’s projecting too much eagerness after sex
/r/seduction10/07/26 04:30 PM
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gotta go out and practice deliberately
/r/seduction28/06/26 06:13 AM
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girls who would win beauty pageants or be legit models
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:20 AM
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facts
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:19 AM
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what do you typically say to pull to their place instead of yours?
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:17 AM
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Are most of those women one-and-done? i imagine it being harder to maintain a fwb type situation with that setup
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:14 AM
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What do you usually say to pull back to theirs?
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:11 AM
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Have any idea what he says to go back to theirs? Same remodel thing?
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:09 AM
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bruh what are you saying? Being born male is an advantage. you sound way too in your head rather than taking action
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:04 AM
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For some guys the restriction isn’t money. I know a guy in his 30s at home who owns an exotic car and a multi million dollar business. A lot of the time it’s family health issues or just not wanting to abandon them in a time of need, or perhaps for some it’s things like having a chronic illness for years that set them behind. Either way, sitting there with blue balls until that passes doesn’t sound like a solution
/r/seduction28/06/26 12:03 AM
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What do you usually say to pull back to their place or what does the process look like?
/r/seduction27/06/26 11:55 PM
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no you found the guy who has found great value in coaches and i have nothing to gain off this discussion because im not selling anything nor have i suggested any specific coach you sound like a natural who is pitching this lazy idea of “just be u bro” Therapy is something that can be a piece of the puzzle for other reasons but has almost zero use for understanding the skillset of getting better with women it’d be like saying, “if you suck at public speaking just go to therapy dude” no you go to …
/r/seduction21/09/25 04:34 AM
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Yeah it’s normal and the part most successful dating guys making content online (or even just random guys posting here) don’t tell you about There’s too many variables. One girl might interpret your escalation as a positive that makes her feel wanted, then the next girl might view it as too pushy Some girls just want to date around too and have no intention of following up. They just want to have a good time for a night whether that’s going for a drink or sleeping with you The most attractive on…
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:52 PM
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you’re underestimating how badly some guys run dates and how their results can be improved by tweaking different things A passive guy that wants to get laid but always hesitates to pull the trigger and cant escalate well isn’t going to get anywhere with “just be yourself and don’t care” and that’s where coaching or posts on here can be helpful Then there’s guys who legit have terrible conversational ability, are very boring, and need specific feedback with their communication
/r/seduction20/09/25 03:46 PM
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I see. So i take it you never cold approach? Do you just use social circle to get girls or what is your method of going about it? I find this interesting since so many here love cold approach
/r/seduction18/10/24 06:31 PM
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So how do you approach girls to have options to work with while also projecting no interest and them actually sticking around for that when their investment is low?
/r/seduction18/10/24 04:59 PM
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Why is daygame a losers game? I've found night game to be more inconsistent due to girls being tipsy or having high energy with their friends and then once they come down from that they're different, etc. Curious to hear your thoughts
/r/seduction08/09/24 11:52 PM
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Going to bars solo always sounds easier than how it plays out for me. Most people are pretty standoff-ish or with their own groups and might briefly chat but then they are in motion moving elsewhere or going to talk to others so it turns into being unproductive pretty quickly and sitting at the bar alone talking to the bartender. Any advice to actually gain momentum and build things up throughout the night? I'd like to do this more, but it never works out the way i'd like it to even though im so…
/r/seduction23/08/24 01:48 AM
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100%. Girls that hot aren't doing that
/r/seduction29/05/24 05:37 AM
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Someone who gets it 🫡
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:10 AM
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This might be the stupidest thing I've heard I'd actually like to hear your reasoning on this because a discussion with other guys irl made me post about this. It's a thought i've had for awhile and a couple guys at the gym had the same viewpoint edit: another guy in the thread gets it In some way an approach is inherently going to provide validation, there's no way around that. You could control how much validation but ultimately I think trying to manage is just overthinking it. I think this is…
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:07 AM
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Appreciate the input comment that “you’d like to get to know her to see if her personality matches her looks” Seems like this is pretty close to validating her based on looks..seems like it'd be better to never mention looks at all, no? This sounds like you are more worried about your own ego getting humbled, than on whether you are feeding hers. I'm fine with rejection. I've actually been doing a personal cold approach challenge this month and after awhile it doesn't even really register in my …
/r/seduction29/05/24 04:02 AM
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No one said half of what you mentioned lol Nothing about women being the enemy Nothing about influencers Nothing about hating women for being attractive Get your bullshit out of here unless you're going to read the post
/r/seduction29/05/24 03:52 AM
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Definitely have streaks of good and bad. If i can get a girl on a date, it always goes well. My hit rate is seriously close to 100% The problem for me is landing consistent dates (online dating primarily). I always get consistent likes/matches, have a profile ive optimized over time really meticulously, have closed plenty of dates in the past, but still deal with many conversations going no where. Currently in a dry spell of about 4 weeks. Also had my first ever situation where a girl ghosted an…
/r/seduction01/05/24 05:51 AM
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Appreciate it!
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:31 AM
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Yeah it's those rizz videos. I was more so curious how they were getting the footage and audio than the content itself necessarily. I was interested in possibly filming some in field even for my own review That's interesting though about hiding the insta360 on them. I was just looking at that camera on amazon and it seems like it would be fairly tough to hide to where the camera could still see the POV...especially in warmer months when you don't have as much clothes on. Any idea how they go abo…
/r/seduction27/03/24 05:30 AM
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Hard to build comfort with cold approach. Most guys will get crushed just as bad as dating apps. Its actually difficult in practice vs talking about it
/r/seduction25/03/24 07:48 PM
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Well you gotta be more specific of when to ask for each lol
/r/seduction25/03/24 07:48 PM
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A woman is even more likely to stay with you if you are a criminal who abuses her, than if you are needy, insecure, clingy, desperate. That’s how bad it is. so true
/r/seduction05/03/24 07:39 AM
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When going out, I’ve found women are way more distant and selective I'm glad someone else mentioned this and it's not all in my head. My boy and I noticed this but haven't really heard anyone else talk about it. It's very real and weird. Gym girls are even worse
/r/seduction27/06/22 01:54 AM
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it makes me feel like there's some simple stupid mistake that I could fix and I just can't seem to find it. yes! exactly. Haven't heard anyone else think of it this way besides me. It's so fucking frustrating at times because everyone thinks you're crushing pussy but its the opposite and an uphill battle most of the time
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:39 PM
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Glad someone finally posted this. This is the downfall of being a Chad or good looking. Everyone thinks its great and just a parade of pussy, but it's A LOT of this. Constantly being written off, assumed to be a fuckboy, and rejected because of it
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:36 PM
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Its not. It's more about not being fat/sloppy and the rest is just to give you confidence on your end of the encounter
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:35 PM
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Are you able to see the comments on the thread? If so, I pasted the original post above.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:33 PM
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Many times. The numbers aspect is like an addiction in a lot of ways, and I always end up going back eventually. There's always that curiosity of, "hmm I wonder if there's any new hot girls on there..."
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:31 PM
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I'll paste it here: If you guys haven't done so yet, I recommend making a fake girl profile to see whats on the other side of the app in your area. I decided to do so after my last post about noticing a drought with OLD in the last year or two and wondering what the deal is.... After about 20 mins of swiping all I could think was: what the fuck? I have a hard time believing all of these profiles are real because everyone in my city is apparently a 6'3 jacked lawyer/doctor/MMA fighter/engineer wi…
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:29 PM
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Looks like it's actually back now....? See if you can see it in this thread After reading your post and specifically the part about the app showing you the best off the bat and also bots, I think that makes a lot better sense of the profiles I was consistently coming across. It made it seem like 80% of guys on there were ballers top to bottom, and even after 20-30 mins of swiping.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:24 PM
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Same happened to my thread about making a female profile on an app to see the guy dating pool, and coming across a ton of Chad's I didn't expect to see. Not sure how I'm supposed to prove that without posting photos of a bunch of people/profiles that may not want their face on an internet forum, or being accused of cherry picking a few profiles to support my point etc. A lot of dating-related stuff is going to be anecdotes, so having a proof requirement X's out the vast majority of discussion fr…
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:10 PM
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I get what you mean even though everyone will react with shock to this, but it’s about sifting through them until you find some chill female friends just like guys. There’s some very cool ones out there once you get through the superficial catty ones
/r/seduction24/06/22 09:16 PM
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I understood the point he is conveying. Sounds like you’re just nitpicking to be annoying. This is obviously a post meant to give a word of encouragement to anyone questioning things or in a slump
/r/seduction24/06/22 02:04 PM
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Maybe it's just my city. Try it where you live and see what you find
/r/seduction08/06/22 10:01 PM
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I'm not Brad Pitt but I do modeling for fitness brands on the side so I don't know if thats entirely it exclusively
/r/seduction04/06/22 05:56 AM
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Polar opposite experience. I’ve done a good amount of male modeling work, been into fitness for years, have abs, great camera etc...most girls never reply or drop off after saying “hi” Tinder has largely been a wasteland for me outside of a couple meetups
/r/TheRedPill28/02/20 05:19 PM
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Mainly looking to plate chicks or hang out right now. A LTR is years away for me unless a unicorn fell in my lap, but even then I don't think that's a good idea having come out of a 6+ year LTR this year.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:28 PM
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First u/silver54 YOU DODGED A BULLET! I'm sorry your 6.5 year LTR ended with that. You however benefited from learning it 6.5 years in as opposed to 16.5 years with 2 kids and a world of problems. Still working on getting that abundance mindset back to fully view it this way, but logically I know you are dead-on and I'll look back on this later with a sigh of relief. If it's that important then you have the means(about 50k in the bank) to travel. I'll presume you're located in The CONUS. Taking …
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:27 PM
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Approaching women is probably not on the top of your list of concerns right now. You need to get an actual career going. I'm not saying you shouldn't do it, but you need to make your jop and career a priority, not women. I agree and that's where my head has been at. However, my ex being on my mind has been fucking with my head as well, so it's created this shit situation where I need to focus on career, but that would also be so much easier if this chick wasn't circling my head day and night. Th…
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:17 PM
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Appreciate the reply. I've been going out mainly at night which leads to a lot of superficial interactions so I'm wondering if I should switch it up to finding some meetups or other hobbies to meet people. Use Tinder as well. Start immediately, it will help you move forward and forget your ex. Roger that.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:13 PM
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Interesting. Do you have a link to his thread or know who posted that? That's some seriously fast salary progress just off the basic entry level certs!
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:11 PM
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Curious as to what path you pursued specifically. Any specific suggestions?
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