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Sidebar. Gym. Bang other chics in abundance. Leave the garbage where it belongs. Iron Rule Of Tomassi #7: Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:11 AM
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They’re either attracted or they’re not. If they are then you’ll know. If they’re not, then next because it’s not negotiable.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:05 AM
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This is the best guide. You’re not quite at our age, but it’ll help explain the categories of women in regards to older men and which to focus on. Older Men / Younger Women (As always thanks Vas!) I’m 45 and enjoy fucking younger women. Currently two of my plates are 20 and 23. I usually have one in that range at least. You’re entering into a great age where the competition will continue to decline sharply each year as the men around you become fat lazy miserable fucks. What a great opportunity …
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:20 PM
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Fuck em and just fuck em.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 12:34 PM
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Personally, there’s way too much yapping about rules and stuff going on. I keep it vague. If they force the convo, then I set my foot down and ask if we’re having fun together and tell them I’m not going to label it. Also - for the clingers (and there will be a lot of them in the 26+ age bracket) - I add “We can talk about it again in 3 months but not before.” (Sidebar material btw) They know the drill. They don’t need it defined. And they don’t need to know names and specifics - that’s LTR stuf…
/r/askTRP14/07/18 12:31 PM
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You’re the prize. Say it daily. Own that shit. 45 here and still loving it. Having drinks with a new 24 yo tonight. Realizing you have plenty of time allows you to slow down and take your time. Figure out what YOU like and don’t compromise. Sidebar. Read. Build/maintain frame! You got this.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 10:23 PM
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I don’t really have a stance on cheating. I’m not for LTRs or monogamy. However, having cheating through many of my past relationships, it’s EXHAUSTING and the extra pussy you’re enjoying is at the very least offset by the drama and steps you have to take to get it on the side. Quality of life is more important to me. I’d leave the LTR for that reason.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:08 PM
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Old man musing here: There’s a story about an old bull and a young bull on a hill looking down at all the females below. The young bull says “Let’s run down there and fuck one of those heifers!” The old bull says “Let’s walk down there and fuck them all.” I wouldn’t rush to fuck a chic I’m marginally attracted too, but if she wants to make herself available and jump through whatever hoops to come fuck (which many will...A girl who wants to fuck you will), I generally always fuck them. You’d be s…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 02:56 PM
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As stated multiple other times, social media is online porn for females. It’s mostly just validation. That being said, I do use Snapchat with plates (meaning girls I have and am fucking regularly). But it’s just a way of communication like texting. What I can tell you is that having been the beta bux guy liking all the pics and commenting 💯🔥 etc to every hot girl - to now literally NEVER commenting on pics...There’s more pussy in ignoring that shit and not getting lumped into the masses of thirs…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:11 PM
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I’ve been in sales successfully most my life. What you’re selling really determines your approach, but for me in the current culture I do fact finding for the first minute or so (get the basic details of what they are looking for) - I even include my pricing if they’re insistent. After that though, it’s essential to go into the “why” - what are they using it for, what’s the goal, purpose, etc. That opens the doors for personal connection through whatever there answer is. “Oh that’s fascinating, …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 12:42 AM
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Take away her face and her pussy, do you really even want her? She sounds awful. Cut her loose and return to being happy.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:04 PM
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If you like younger girls (and who doesn’t) then fuck them. They are old enough to make their own decisions and some have decided that they like older guys. These are the ones to learn to spot. I’m 45. I may not look 45, but I act 45. I dress 45. Etc. My current plate range is 22 to 30 something. It fluctuates but that’s probably average as well. Good job approaching and talking to the girl. You obviously saw something you liked and noticed she liked you. Now get that feminized imperative social…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:36 AM
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She’s a plate. All plates break. Use her for your enjoyment. If you like it (or even the thought of it) then go for it. In my experience if you’ve already fucked her right, there’s very little you can’t do.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:06 AM
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Nope she doesn’t get any access to anything. Also don’t hide shit. If you wanna text then text. Hell, I answer calls mid conversation usually.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:35 PM
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When this happens I simply tell them it’s moving to fast and point out that they are obviously more into this than you are so a break is needed. She will either walk away, take the break, or double down her efforts to prove what a catch she is since you must’ve missed it the first time. If she walks or takes the break then you can reinitiate later if you choose - If she doubles down just enjoy it while it lasts cause that plate will break hard eventually. Either way stop feeling guilty. She’s an…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:37 PM
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I have shared custody - divorced over a year ago. We have a 5yo that I get daily from school (even on her weeks) and we both coach his tball. So I see my ex A LOT. Stay the course. It gets better. It really does. I’ve gone through the anger in me rising up over her behavior...the shit tests...etc. It will get easier. A couple things from my experience: 1 - Keep reminding yourself of solipsism (not only does she NOT think she did anything wrong, but that you were completely wrong and she did what…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 01:18 PM
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Triadis3 nailed it - Every now and then I have plates just blow me to let them know their pussy ain’t special. You dont have to say it...They get it. If she cums via clit stimulation then she can get to work on that clit while you’re pounding that pussy whichever way feels best to you. As for the shit tests - Just laugh it off and remind her that you got yours (then tell her what sandwich she should be in the kitchen making)
/r/askTRP06/05/18 12:52 PM
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It all meshes together. Your game is directly reflective of your personal frame...Which in turn is a result of your physical, mental, and emotional state. Use the sidebar for foundation and build on it. Strengthen areas that are weak. Lift. Study. Approach. A word on studying: Most of us only retain a portion of what we read. I re-read up on hypergamy, solipsism, and gynocentrism often. Not because I don’t understand them, but because doing so reminds me of our reality and reinforces any weak ar…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 11:00 AM
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Solipsism is the most powerful tool in a woman’s arsenal.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:38 AM
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I work primarily in recovery circles and it’s honestly like anything else: It’s what you make of it. I know people who decide to get clean and do it without rehab...And of course others who’ve been through so many, they know more than me! From a trp perspective, I would use it as a forced monk mode. Open yourself up to positive personal growth from all areas. Great chance to focus on your physical health as well as emotional and spiritual. There’s lots of BP philosophy behind most recovery mater…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:21 PM
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Your SMV is prob a little low or your profile sends that msg at least. But also keep in mind that online dating sites basically warp any idea of SMV...Guys usually come off lower than they are (some guys can use the platform to their advantage but most don’t)...While women, thanks to our blue pill culture, typically get an SMV jump of +3 points... So that land whale who is actually a 4 operates in an online world where she is treated like a 7. I wouldn’t take offense that the big girls are messa…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 10:55 AM
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We are drowning in an ocean of Blue Pill culture. Every single thing around us - Music, TV, Movies, Ads, Relationships, Workplaces, Media, etc - All of it can (and should) be seen as one gigantic propaganda machine to any man who has tried to unplug. Chances are high you’re going to “mess up” - I do all the time - fuck it! Once you’re unplugged you realize that following some preplanned pattern to success is not what’s important! It’s the process that’s important. We have to learn to enjoy the j…
/r/askTRP08/04/18 01:18 PM
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Appearance is the quickest and easiest fix there is: As stated...Become a Keto Master. Read and learn how it works and then commit. Join a gym and lift. No dumbbells at home or whatever. Join the gym. Go. Lift. (This will start fixing the shyness too) Fashion (even as a fat guy) is essential. Just a simple investment in a few articles of clothing make a world of difference. Get a tan. Above all: Sidebar sidebar sidebar
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:05 PM
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Each their own. I find that the girls in the 18-23 category might not respond one month but will another. I usually have a few that have previously flaked but are worth a text. If nothing comes it after a few shots, soft next becomes a hard next. About 1 in 5 pay off. Not bad for minimal investment.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:55 PM
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That same energy spent on this one can be used to acquire 20 more just like her. You’re too busy to keep texting. Look at your schedule and invite her along to something you’re already going to be doing. If she comes great. If not, soft next. Hit her up again in 30 days. Rinse & repeat. And sidebar sidebar sidebar sidebar - you never outgrow it.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 11:29 AM
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I post this often, but this is the best guide I’ve read: Old Men and Younger Women - props to Uncle Vasiliy for a resource I still refer to often! Short answer: Everywhere. All the time. Approach everyone. As an older guy in a rural town, I approach everyone all the time. I’m sociable and friendly by nature. Being in a small town has disadvantages like no real locations to hang out and a small pool to choose from - However the advantages are that you can be well known easily and if you work out/…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:32 PM
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Yes and it actually gets easier and easier. Seems like the 18 yo are abundant lately. 20-25 are the norm. 25-30 are good but not as avail to meet. 30-40 are damaged. 40+ are bitter old hags. All that being said, there’s exceptions. I have a 37 yo plate that is my fav fuck right now. Go figure.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 01:33 PM
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1 - You can’t half-ass this stuff. It’s hard truth that must be chewed over and over because every single ounce of culture is preaching the lie. 2 - When you have kids you’ll realize they will always test your response but then your endurance. Shut tests are rarely one and done. As for your other 1-5 or whatever...They all concern your oneitis who seems very much BPD and cheating. Next - Ghost - Gym - Sidebar - Plates I doubt you’re in a position physically emotionally or mentally to do this, so…
/r/askTRP20/03/18 10:57 AM
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Not no, but hell no. I speak from experience. My first wife was beyond stupid rich - she was also an HB8 and a decent girl too. Even still - fuck no don’t marry her. Unless she won the lottery, money usually comes from a long line of power and that lineage will not let go of it. Which means you will be forced to either conform (BP overload) or break away and get old money divorce raped in the end. My marriage ended great but knowing what I know now, it was a fluke. Don’t let money be a motivator…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:47 AM
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“I like you” is a powerful reward to give to a plate. I use it sparingly, but always with great results. I will say age is a factor. 25+ are usually the ones I use it on.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 10:33 AM
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Mountains and valleys - it happens. The good news is that new 22 yo chics are made every single day...
/r/seduction12/03/18 11:28 PM
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I’m older (45) but usually keep at least one plate in the 18-21 bracket. If it’s morality that’s troubling you then just bang the 25+ If it’s that you can’t stomach their immaturity, then just bang the 25+ (though note I rarely find that age = maturity in women) My advice is be picky. Find ones you actually enjoy. Life is way too short to be banging chics you don’t like. However when you do find one you like, you will have to lead. You’re right they are submissive by nature and you must take the…
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:59 PM
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As you read up on the levels of dread, too much too soon can be detrimental. There’s an art to it. Start slow and build. In your case restart. Covert dread is best. Overt can be toxic, especially with insecure women (which is most of them)
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:31 PM
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It’s not religion. I live and “date” in these circles A LOT. You can get just as much pussy in a church as you can in a club. Same rules apply - isolate, escalate, and fuck them silly. I agree with the nuclear dread option in your case btw
/r/askTRP12/03/18 02:50 PM
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Missed opportunity - No big deal just move on. If she comes back around after this guy is done plowing her good, then plate her. Edit to add: Learn to use that photography/model shit and escalate. Potential gold if you do it right...
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:10 PM
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45 here and 1.5 years out of long marriage with kids. Even though you’ve been around TRP a while, you’re starting to internalize it and you 40+ years of cultural BP indoctrination is dying a hard loud obnoxious death. Let it die. Keep working on you. I can honestly say I feel better physically, mentally, & emotionally at 45 than I ever have in my life. You will too brother. And the pussy will just start rolling in. Just do the basics and at 45 you’ll stand out like a Greek god amongst your peers…
/r/askTRP11/03/18 09:24 PM
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I live in a rural area. The con is a smaller pool of women, but the pros are almost zero competition for a guy who takes care of himself and isn’t afraid to approach and have conversations. I have to drive 30-45 mins sometimes, but that was normal when I lived in the city too.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:57 PM
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You are entirely in her frame. Reset. Make her come to you. If she doesn’t, turn to move on.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 12:52 PM
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Sexting accomplishes nothing for you. Women are in the moment emotional. You might get her engine revved, but it won’t earn you any future credits because the moment will have passed. I once had a 23yo plate that would text out of the blue to hook up. She would talk about the guys sexting her and I eventually put it together that her calling me coincided with other guys either dating and. It escalating or sexting her. They basically did all the work and I got the results. Don’t be those guys.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 01:18 AM
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27+ are damaged in my experience. They’re still very fuckable and enjoyably so, but they come with attached baggage/drama that the younger chics don’t usually have.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 10:50 AM
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I wouldn’t recommend it. Divorced a year ago and this past month plated my ex. It’s hard as fuck mentally/emotionally but I wanted the challenge. It’s been a great exercise in maintaining frame with someone who intimately knew the old BP me. I will drop her soon, because honestly it’s too much work (mentally). Internalizing the fact that without her face or pussy I don’t want her helped me get to the point where she’s just another girl I fuck.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 04:34 PM
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I always encourage immediate action from guys newly introduced to TRP. Failure is a great teacher and the successes they do have are great motivators (its how it’s worked for me as well). That being said, I constantly have to reinforce my understanding on women with the hard facts here. I’ve now read The Rational Male more times than I can count along with the sidebar just to keep my perspective clear. Internalizing every part can be elusive.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/18 02:37 PM
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Plate material at best. Tricky and LTR never line up. I understand her circumstances all too well. I work with people in this sad predicaments all the time. While it is sad and usually the result of unfortunate events, in 13 years I have never worked with anyone who did not heavily contribute to their circumstances of being homeless/jobless/addicted/etc. There is far too much baggage and damage for LTR. Better off cultivating new relationships versus donning the captain save a hoe uniform.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 08:01 PM
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Do not respond. Do not tell wife. It appears you’re feeling guilty about being “scummy” to your wife and that is clouding your judgement. I’m also guessing that this is not normal (maybe the first time) you’ve slept around on the wife since you didn’t use an alias, or condom, and you gave her your contact info. So the advice is simply: Do not! Do not respond to the girl. Do not tell the wife. Do not cheat again without protecting yourself. Do not use the word tummy. Have a drink. Enjoy the trip.…
/r/askTRP02/03/18 10:28 AM
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Since you’re reading The Rational Male, remember that you can not negotiate desire AND don’t ever go digging through the garbage. Your energy is far better spent on cultivating new relationships versus pouting effort into an old broken one. As BP tendencies kick in to argue all that logic just ask yourself this question: Take away her pussy and her face, do you really still want her?
/r/askTRP27/02/18 06:37 PM
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It’s a comfort buffet of sorts - No huge downside as long as you can manage the drama. Just keep your skills sharp for women in other brackets. Don’t get lazy. Have fun!
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:34 PM
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Yes - Even heavier on being intentional as a strong father figure (decision making, affection, kindness, etc I believe). The qualities you’d want her to find in a strong man.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:51 PM
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There are no neutral women. It’s either FUCK YES or NO
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:46 PM
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I have two boys (16 & 5). Lead by example. They will inherently pick up on how you live. Teach them how to be men. Let them ask questions.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 02:43 PM
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A text letting her know when/where to pick up the stuff (logistics). I’d leave them on the front porch and she can come get them. This isn’t to be mean. This is for your health. You are raw right now, absorbing some much needed truth as you unplug, but you BP self is raging against the new reality. Don’t write the note. Don’t text more than the logistics of stuff. Don’t apologize. Less is more during this time. I recommend sending the logistic text and then going stone cold no contact. Again not…
/r/askTRP27/02/18 12:16 PM
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The intense anger will subside as you internalize everything. Reading through side bar stuff twice helped for me. In the meantime use the angst to your advantage. Don’t just lift, join a gym and lift! As for the past relationship(s) and your now former BP behavior, don’t dwell on that shit. It happened and ultimately brought you right here. Most of us got here via paths we wouldn’t have chosen, but regardless we are all glad it led here!
/r/askTRP26/02/18 09:11 PM
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Don’t let SnapChat be your comfort barrier and definitely not your breaking point. Let her know you’re going out and she can join you. If she declines then next. I have no idea if most the chics I’ve fucked even have SC and I use it regularly. I do know they each said fuck yes to meeting up!
/r/askTRP26/02/18 10:30 AM
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As with anything, eat the fish and spit out the bones. When I read it, I noticed a ton of eye opening truth, but also saw that it was written to shake the foundations of a cultural epidemic. Had it been written in a thesis format, few people would’ve read it and even less discussed it. I think it does a good job of doing what he meant it to do...Case in point: Here we are discussing it in 2018.
/r/askTRP24/02/18 01:16 PM
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Start reading this series: Understanding Woman Sounds like your main hurdle is understanding love and the dynamics of women. You say that if you accept TRP, you’ll never be loved...As you study, you’ll realize you’re never going to be “loved” regardless. The version of love we’ve all been taught to seek doesn’t exist. Women cannot love you the way you love them. Also - Start lifting. It’s not only wise, but will help clear your mind and strengthen your attitude.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 08:08 PM
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I remember “graduating” from my house and a couple of dumbbells to an actual gym. I thought I had been lifting (had made some gains and lost some weight) but being able to actually lift heavier and go harder had a profound impact on my mood almost immediately. Wish I had made the move sooner!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/18 06:57 PM
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I’m in a very small town. I’ve gotten to the point where I’m just upfront with plates. They usually start the convo after sex, which is great because the best time to tell a plate “I enjoy our time together but I can’t commit to a relationship right now” is after you’ve just fucked her silly. Abundance mentality plays a huge role here. Some will storm off. Some will ghost. But most will simply accept it as the new norm. Just remember: Plates break. That’s why we spin multiples. Now go enjoy thos…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:40 AM
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For the divorced dads reading this: I’m mid-forties, divorced, with 50/50 one week on and one week off. Honestly it’s not a big deal to the 20-25 group (except when one is itching to hook up and I tell them no cause I have my kid). The 25-35 group eat it up like crazy...It’s one of the main things they go batshit crazy over, BUT they’re also the group looking to lock down a relationship. Learn how to properly navigate these waters and you’ll be swimming in pussy. The 40+ crowd doesn’t like it. M…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:54 PM
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You’re doing fine with this girl. Trust the process. Only thing I’d add is Abundance Mentality: Add another two chics to this scenario and I doubt you’d even be thinking anything about this stuff with her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:21 PM
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I like post wall chics in moderation. They usually don’t spin as long as younger plates, but there’s something to be said for experience. I’m also older too though so that may be some of it. The only real warning is that it can be a comfort buffer against rejection (Rational Male) that can develop into a habit so do what you enjoy, just stay sharp by approaching younger/hotter women.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 06:41 PM
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Ego can be tough, especially when it’s craving validation from females. I’m a “return to basics” guy. Sidebar refresh. Also Understanding Woman series helps remind me from time to time why we are where we are and why we do what we do.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 01:42 AM
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Solipsism either balances women’s hypergamy or makes it spiral out of control. In MOST cases (using the scenario OP wrote), the woman may see the benefits of the hot male actor, but the many facets of solipsism kick in: Morality, Her view of herself, her estimate of her own SMV, Family Dynamics, etc. Of course as noted over and over, we cannot expect this to ever be rational or even figure it out. Since we can’t predict or figure it out, we men do what we can, work on us. Lift, Do You, Dread, Sl…
/r/TheRedPill17/02/18 04:26 PM
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I apply it to plates mainly. Plates break. It’s a great reminder to be about you.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 11:06 PM
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Your relationship is over. You can try to salvage something by nexting her...But it doesn’t appear you have the willpower AND it’s probably not going to work. It sucks. I’ve been there. Use this time to reflect on you. Read the sidebar. Read it some more. It won’t “save” anything, but it’ll reveal exactly what’s happening and why...Plus give you the tools to formulate and action plan for yourself and move forward.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:47 PM
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I agree it’s almost impossible to regain (barring some heroic event or something). However, not everyone will respect you regardless, so I wouldn’t sweat it too much. It’s unfortunate sometimes, but just move on and follow the plan.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 09:20 PM
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No silver bullet to cure this. Sounds like you’re on the right path. As stated here and elsewhere: She’s not yours, it’s just your turn. She’s biologically programmed to behave like she did. She will not suffer any negative social side-effects for her behavior. She WILL get her a Beta (great one depending on her SMV). Be glad it’s not you!!! If you must, make a list of her real qualities. Positive and negative. You’ll usually find nothing outweighs her cheating, etc. Finally, as crude as it may …
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:17 PM
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Just do you. It’s your choice. If they’re not down with it: Next.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 03:29 PM
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This. Plates break.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 12:18 AM
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Was with a “good girl” last week who was shy as hell. It didn’t seem like she was responding to any kino...But she wasn’t saying no. Just stuck to the plan and kept escalating (even though it felt weird without any real response). Thirty or so minutes later she was naked going nuts in my bed. Always Be Escalating.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 11:27 AM
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Yeah I’ve considered that. Fortunately I’m pretty isolated. I’m a private contractor. Sort of a sales merc lol. Since my companies and products change from time to time, my card is very generic. Name. Number. Email.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 12:23 AM
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I do really well handing a girl my business card and telling her “Text me. It’d be cool to talk later.” with a smile. I’m selective in who I offer that to...Usually picking up on cues from them, etc. But it works great in most any public/rushed situation. Usually get a text within 8 hours. Approach, convo, and getting hers is always better when available. Always.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:16 PM
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Sounds like you’re on the right path. Carry on. Time will do the rest. Effort over Time = Success.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 05:26 PM
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She’s damaged. You can’t save her or change her. She wants neither. The whole “I can’t remember” is code for her cheating and it’s her way of altering her own reality to justify her cheating.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:53 AM
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In the past, I’ve done the rape scenario a couple of times (5-10 years back). She probably legit wanted it. Many girls fantasize about it, but HELL NO...Never would I do that again. Especially in this culture.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 12:38 AM
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I do text sporadically. I’ll have short conversations (especially in the beginning) but I make it a point to just disappear mid-convo. When I first read about this I thought it was crazy and no way it would work, but it draws them in like crazy. Just have to be on guard against weak self validation temptation. For reference though, I’m an old guy (45) and only have every other week to spin plates. I probably end up with more “stage 5 clingers” than most due to the texting but it is what it is.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 09:30 PM
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We’re swimming upstream in the current culture. Movies, music, books, social media, etc all promote this white knight BS. We have to be vigilant in deciding what we allow into our minds. The good news is we’re men. Improvise. Adapt. Overcome. I haven’t killed that MF off, but I try to keep him locked up and ball gagged most the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/18 03:54 PM
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Understanding Women Part 1 Part 1 (solipsism), Part 2 (hypergamy), and Part 3 (gynocentrism) combined cover this pretty well and the series is well worth the read.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:06 PM
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As with everything for us men, Time + Work = Progress. Over time if you do the work suggested here, this will not be an issue and actually be the best thing that could’ve happened. Understanding Woman Part 1 Read all these articles. You asked “how does someone...” - Understanding that females are biologically programmed to move on and have developed the ability to construct their own realities to justify their behavior is a huge step. Summary: Sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 10:36 AM
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I used to text all the time thinking it was good game, but the advice here is spot on. Minimal is best. Don’t be afraid to have a conversation or anything but you should be way too busy with your own life to carry on anything too long. Even when I have time, I drop out of text conversations randomly.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 06:52 PM
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In your current state I wouldn’t go. In a few months if you do the stuff suggested in this thread, you’ll not give a rats ass if she’s there with the whole local football team. Probably best to avoid her for now.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:12 PM
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Some really great advice already. One thing though...Find a way to laugh...A lot! Stand up, a show you like, a friend, something that makes you actually laugh out loud. For me, it was a huge help when I was in the day to day grind after LTR dissolved and TRP came crashing in like the Kool-Aid Man! (Plus it helps with game in the future). Also - As stated: DO NOT take her back under any circumstances! Oh yeah: Sidebar. Sidebar. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 06:45 PM
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Just some encouragement for you OP: I’m about a year ahead of you in a VERY similar divorce situation. Hate you had to go through all that hell, but the lessons learned will equal a freedom in the future that few men ever enjoy. Continue working on you for you. Every relationship (kids, friends, work, etc) going forward will benefit greatly in ways they never could have before all this.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 04:07 PM
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It’s tough to hear, but end this. Sidebar. Continue making improvements to yourself for yourself.
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 03:35 PM
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Ghost
/r/askTRP03/02/18 01:52 PM
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“always remember you will not be the last man to enjoy it” - Absolute truth!
/r/TheRedPill03/02/18 01:21 PM
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This.
/r/askTRP29/01/18 11:43 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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