sinhaanip Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Conflict : The game and internal	Lifestyle	sinhaanip	/r/seduction	16/09/22 05:54 PM
1	Escalation not responded	Fundamentals	sinhaanip	/r/seduction	24/09/22 08:03 PM
1	Mail > Texting > Meet	Advanced (Certain Basic Skills Required!)	sinhaanip	/r/seduction	21/08/22 07:08 AM

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3	The one texting frameworks that consistently gets me laid with online dating. Great stuff man… But can you elaborate on the investment phase. That’s not pretty clear to me. Rest looks manageable.	/r/seduction	25/08/24 04:57 PM
5	Real Life Conundrum Work on your verbal game… Tonality, Choice of words, Body language.	/r/seduction	02/11/22 06:46 AM
3	I’m just sick and frustrated with dating now, but feel so alone. The last girl seemed so perfect, don’t really think it’s working out tho. Look… she won’t reach back. As much as I feel the situation. Go to the hospital, visit her, she how she is. But on top of it (a little game enters - can’t help), be icy cold. No neediness. Even take some flowers. But the aura you need to project, is non needy. Even after you come back, do not write to her. Give her the wait.	/r/seduction	01/11/22 04:35 PM
13	I’m just sick and frustrated with dating now, but feel so alone. The last girl seemed so perfect, don’t really think it’s working out tho. Your case is different man. So my advice won’t follow regular game principles. I think the girl is distancing you because she cares. So, I would recommend you to persist. Be in touch. Don’t inundate her with messages but don’t lose the touch. Go see her. And yet don’t push it.	/r/seduction	01/11/22 04:24 PM
1	How do I work on my confidence? By eliminating fear	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:46 PM
1	How to ask guy where he sees our relationship going? The best move will be to make him ask you, ‘where do you see it going’.	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:40 PM
1	She suddenly stopped responding . What should I do? For one thing, don’t write long and frequent texts. Forget that she told she’ll meet. Restart. No neediness. Act cool and display value.	/r/seduction	01/11/22 12:38 PM
1	How often have you seen the “spark” fade but later come back? yes i agree, and honestly speaking til this day i still think about the times/memories we shared and though i'm no longer hurting from it, it does still make me a little sad.	/r/seduction	31/10/22 02:53 PM
4	Girl ghosted me for 4 days after setting up second date, apologized after missing it You conveyed too much of desperation and neediness for that date !! So don’t overreact. Take a step back. Let it cool off. And gradually calibrate towards the date. It needs to be smooth. Not forced. Care to share the text you used to ask her out ?	/r/seduction	31/10/22 02:52 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? Ok if you say so. But I would have gone for the text.	/r/seduction	30/10/22 01:30 PM
1	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? I don’t want you to come across as the more needy one here. That’s a turn off. Communicate intent, without neediness. And be willing to let go.	/r/seduction	30/10/22 01:10 PM
0	When not getting a response, is it ever more beneficial to say you expect reciprocation and are pulling back before doing so, depending on perhaps the type of girl or how much you overpursued? Hmm… don’t write for 7-10 days. Let it cool off. Then send her a message like ‘ I think I’m kinda forgetting how pretty you looked.’ Or something on those lines. This generally gets a response, but then you have to escalate gradually and build tension.	/r/seduction	30/10/22 12:59 PM
2	How to respond to: “You can’t like a photo without starting a conversation” Do you not believe in sex before marriage )	/r/seduction	30/10/22 06:49 AM
2	How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement? Haha… but having said that… how do you maintain interest in a serious relationship. We can’t be an open book… can we. Their interest will still die …. No ?	/r/seduction	29/10/22 09:42 PM
2	How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement? Agree with you. I assumed we aren’t talking about the serious stuff here. ;)	/r/seduction	29/10/22 09:32 PM
1	Trying to hint to this girl I want to be fwb I understand you don’t want to take the no. Take a step back… build some more rapport. And re attempt.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 06:56 PM
22	How do you keep the relationship going past the initial excitement? What excites them is unpredictability, mysterious air of charm, sexualisation and gradual escalation. Never allow them to figure you out. Period.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 01:23 PM
2	Is it fair to say that if you’re wondering whether they’re really interested then the answer is no? Yes it’s true. But then the guy has to keep leading. Always. 2 steps forward, 1 back.	/r/seduction	29/10/22 07:30 AM
4	Keeping a solid 9 She says she’s drawn to power. That’s probably true with all women. Power can mean lots of things. She likes standup comedians and guys that bench press 300lbs.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:46 PM
1	Do you think this guy was trying to impress me? I mean really ! Do women think like that !	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:17 PM
4	Keeping a solid 9 You’re probably right. There is a nice guy vibe with me. But I’ve never had a problem being blunt or calling out bratty behavior.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:16 PM
2	How often have you seen the “spark” fade but later come back? The question is not whether such things revive, but even if they do would you or rather should you be waiting for them. The straight answer is no. But does that mean, you don’t give a shot when the opportunity presents. No again. Go on with your life. Attack/ create high impact opportunities. Go for the kill. What it does is, it demonstrates high value without the neediness. But requires patience.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:14 PM
1	How often have you seen the “spark” fade but later come back? Really the best advice… but very difficult to implement.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:11 PM
9	Keeping a solid 9 I’m getting the nice guy vibes from you. While it’s great that you’ve brought it till here. Bring up the bad ass side into this but by still being yourself. Girls stick around guys who make them feel the whole spectrum of emotions plus allow them to be comfortable being themselves. If you could fix this, you should be fine. But again do not show neediness.	/r/seduction	28/10/22 03:06 PM
0	Was with a girl I managed to get for 2 weeks and it was the best time of my life but she left abruptly Many comments on letting her go and dealing with it, focusing on yourself etc. Agree with all that. But I don’t think that’s what you are really looking for. You need one last shot at her to see if it revives. Text her this (after a suitable gap ~2 weeks) : I think I’m kinda forgetting how cute you were. This would in all probabilities generate a revert. You will have to carefully escalate again from there.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 06:35 AM
1	friendly or feelings? Too early… she’s just getting to know you.	/r/seduction	27/10/22 06:28 AM
2	22M and interacting with hot girls is very nerve-wracking to me Be in the moment. Period.	/r/seduction	23/10/22 06:05 AM
1	Was she being sexual with me in text?? Tell her you can take her high without alcohol !	/r/seduction	22/10/22 01:05 PM
1	How does one learn text game? No amount of theory can replace actual texting experience. Although theory helps to relate what’s happening irl . So keep texting..	/r/seduction	22/10/22 10:18 AM
3	How do I stop limiting myself? Your circle represents your comfort zone. Talk to strangers, talk to everyone. Talk about everything… without hesitation. Start calibrating with girls and escalating / sexualising. Open up the gates of your mind. Read books like Models by Mark Manson etc. Work out and get in to the groove. Keep evolving.	/r/seduction	22/10/22 08:45 AM
9	I really want her but don’t know what to do next You aren’t making any move boy !!! It will die like this. Take initiative, escalate, ask her out. Be bold about it. Don’t forget calibration while escalating. If you continue what you’re doing, you’ll end in the friend zone sooner than you’ll realise. Sexualise the conversation gradually. Next time you see her… Walk up to her.. Tell her boldly that you that you seem to like her company… (not like her - directly) And see if you can ask her out for a coffee date or something. Build on from there.	/r/seduction	22/10/22 06:56 AM
2	I asked someone out for the first time in my life ! I’d love to see you convert this.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 04:34 PM
4	I asked someone out for the first time in my life ! See it can be interpreted both ways. Depends on the frame. The key is ‘mild’ persistence. Keep it causal and as if it never bothered you. It’s frame VS frame ;) Focus on the process and keep optimising. Cheers 🥂	/r/seduction	21/10/22 02:57 PM
2	Woman asking Men: Tips on keeping seduction going in long term relationship? Let us know how it went )	/r/seduction	21/10/22 02:55 PM
2	I asked someone out for the first time in my life ! Brilliant mindset.. dude. Next time you see her, ask how was the house tour. And if she doesn’t prefer coffee, go for the wine 😅	/r/seduction	21/10/22 10:21 AM
2	Woman asking Men: Tips on keeping seduction going in long term relationship? People have already suggested about deep communication and other deeper stuff so I’ll take a different path… Experiment sexually Which means - Hot wax, handcuffs, whips etc. Go along that thread.	/r/seduction	21/10/22 10:19 AM
1	Question: do guys here legitimately believe women have to be "earned?" Not all, some could be bought.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 07:31 PM
1	I’m not a big flirt with guys , I find I’m to shy Ask him ‘which perfume is that’ He says ‘agdgfkl’ You say ‘It’s good’ He smiles… and it starts.	/r/seduction	20/10/22 07:30 PM
25	She keeps checking me out but avoids when i try to approach Well actually I like this ‘Disdain… ‘ What’s the point of wasting your attention on something you can’t have. But what if giving attention, could make you have it. So be certain. Plus the withdrawal of attention needs to happen at the right time to be effective ie if you’re playing psychologically. Else, it doesn’t even matter.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 02:58 PM
2	Is he flirting? Should I make a move? Drink with him and see what comes out ! You’ll be sure after that.	/r/seduction	18/10/22 02:54 PM
4	Need advice for this and a girl point of view I guess. Turn the tables. The foreplay should be so great, that she should beg for sex… as if to relieve her of the ‘torture’. And then leave her begging for more. Don’t give her sex. Walk out.	/r/seduction	17/10/22 02:25 PM
5	So guys, do you think this guy likes me? I mean really… That’s how women think ! Lol.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 01:56 PM
5	Do confident men manage rejection like this? Better calibration is always the answer. You always go for the number close after building some rapport. And you don’t have to be extremely direct always. E.g : after build some solid rapport and generating IOIs…you say, ‘Listen, I’ll have to leave. My friends are waiting. Would you like to catch up later sometime for a drink’ If she says yes, she won’t refuse to give your number. If she says no, you won’t be that hurt.	/r/seduction	13/10/22 11:54 AM
1	What does it mean when a girls texts me that "You're a hottie." It means… better don’t fuck up with your game.	/r/seduction	11/10/22 03:20 PM
1	Wingman at Bangalore, India Noida here )	/r/seduction	10/10/22 11:42 AM
1	"Work on yourself bro" is actually bad advice for young dudes If the objective is to get girls quick, - work on game ( how to approach, openers, body language, confidence, frame control, even text game, DiCarlo escalation etc ) - working on yourself (fitness, manners and etiquette, personality, grooming etc ) have a long term impact - slow and consistent positive results. So work on both !	/r/seduction	10/10/22 10:29 AM
1	Liking every selfie i post on social media. Displaying low value ( Game terminology )	/r/seduction	06/10/22 01:18 PM
1	Liking every selfie i post on social media. Well, he is definitely into you and wants to know you better. But he is DLV and neediness… so I don’t think it will go far once you know him. But give it a safe shot.	/r/seduction	06/10/22 12:03 PM
4	I can get numbers but not a date. What else… your text game !	/r/seduction	06/10/22 10:12 AM
9	Is a woman calling a guy "pretty" really a compliment? Should have called her ‘handsome’	/r/seduction	04/10/22 04:00 PM
1	I'm in a very confusing relationship and need advice Try pulling away and see if he tries to make an effort. You’ll get a hint. Then if he does, communicate in a calibrated way. Then based on the response, you can escalate or pull-off the set.	/r/seduction	03/10/22 08:35 PM
1	I'm in a very confusing relationship and need advice Even I didn’t get your stand clearly from the post !	/r/seduction	03/10/22 05:30 PM
1	Girl seems interested, but isn't texting back. How can I address this without coming across as needy? Few observations : - You have already come across as needy to her resulting in her low interest behaviour (Day off for her ! Will she do the same for you ? ) - you have to DHV and generate interest ( reduce texts from your side and match it to hers - in frequency, time delay between messages, and words as well… yes even words and interest level, tone etc) - Once you match it to her interest level or ideally display slightly lower interest than hers, she’ll be flummoxed and will try to figure out…	/r/seduction	30/09/22 03:20 PM
0	Meeting a girl from Tinder tomorrow. Never have really done this thing before any advice? (m23) Ask questions which appeal to her right brain.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 01:14 PM
59	things were going great and I told her my love for her De-escalate… Behave as friends and as if nothing has happened. Take it as casually as possible. Will ease the situation. And be proud of yourself, not sorry. The game needs to be played such that the girl expresses first. The moment the guy opens up, it fucking dies most of the time.	/r/seduction	29/09/22 01:12 PM
3	Advice request on this encounter? Everything was good, but a good morning text almost every time comes up as a needy text irrespective of the intent. Avoid sending gn gm i miss you texts. Develop comfort and escalate. Text is to get a date. Period.	/r/seduction	27/09/22 09:15 AM
2	Escalation not responded Perfect. Thanks. But how does one understand that she’s interested but we are going too fast ? That’s where I’m stuck.	/r/seduction	24/09/22 09:15 PM
2	Escalation not responded Should we back off and build comfort and then retry…	/r/seduction	24/09/22 08:46 PM
1	Escalation not responded Can you elaborate on re-evaluate ?	/r/seduction	24/09/22 08:45 PM
-3	Escalation not responded And then sexualise again ?	/r/seduction	24/09/22 08:10 PM
2	Does the phrase "strike while the iron is hot" applies to dating? Most part of the charm and attraction is because of the unknown. When it’s figured out, it dies. So don’t be an open book and be mysterious and cryptic. There’s more to it… don’t come out as needy etc. To increase your perceived value. And yes strike when the iron is the hottest. Remember, play as if you are the prize to be won/ earned.	/r/seduction	16/09/22 04:55 PM
1	Advice I think I understand you. Firstly, Don’t focus on the girl, focus on the process. -Try becoming more social, more confident. Get out of your shell. Speak to strangers, start connecting with them, start having good conversations. - Read ‘The Game’, ‘Models’ and ‘How to influence people… ‘ and ‘ Seduction’ You’ll be a different man.	/r/seduction	11/09/22 05:57 PM
1	Does women looking at you always mean they find you appealing? Evaluating	/r/seduction	10/09/22 07:11 AM
3	A new problem with approaching that happening to often this days, how do you guys manage your way around it Expert PUAs diffuse this anticipated hostility by following up that intrusive ‘hi’ with something like… I’m sorry to barge in like this but I saw you from across the street and couldn’t stop myself from coming up and saying a hello. So What are you upto… Then follow it up with… Ah Which Perfume is that. She’ll say ABC. Take a pause and say - it’s good. She’ll be smiling. Now the ice is beginning to break. Keep chiseling and build up on this. Keep your confidence at peak level. Else this would fa…	/r/seduction	09/09/22 05:08 AM
1	Holding a convo with this type of woman You know what… never ask the ‘why’ and the ‘whats’ in the beginning. Ask them questions which takes them on a emotional peak or makes them feel more. Feel the energy and try navigating and escalating with that. This will be a much more successful approach. Rather than the analytical whys.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 06:00 PM
2	What are some specific flirty things I can say and do when conversing. Ah which perfume is that… She says… xyz Give a pause… look somewhere else for a second. Look back and say - It’s good. She’ll be smiling. Build up from there.	/r/seduction	08/09/22 05:54 PM
20	y’all need to be more confident Since we are being so idealistic, do you go and open men or wait for them to come to you ?	/r/seduction	08/09/22 04:01 AM
3	Learning from my failure(s) Brilliant ) especially sitting with the back facing the girl ;) should have gone for the kill.	/r/seduction	05/09/22 05:21 PM
3	the approach anxiety is way more complex than what u might think I’ll give you a real example… A girl comes to me in an edm gig and says you look sad. (I was just relaxing and getting a break) I say - after a pause - looking into her eyes intensely- ‘then make me happy’. The delivery took her off guard. After some time she is still hanging around but we didn’t say anything. I say - which perfume is that. She said Charles Jacob. I said it’s good. And she is already smiling. After some time, she was still standing close and our hands/ body had rubbed a multiple…	/r/seduction	02/09/22 02:50 PM
2	What does it mean when she comes to your place in obv baggy, non-racy clothes Don’t overthink. Try to get her out of those through calibrated escalation and sexualisation.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 09:52 AM
3	If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies? What attracts is not the hobby. It’s the personality which one assumes you to have, because you have those hobbies.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 08:45 AM
3	the approach anxiety is way more complex than what u might think Don’t deconstruct the fear. Feel it and go through it. Hack your behaviour. (Alcohol helps but optimise that too ) Get a rock solid opener and calibrate the conversation. Take in their body language cues. And escalate. Sexualise. Be relentless about the process. And keep optimising.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 08:44 AM
1	Girl asked me for my number She’s playing the waiting game and acting as any other girl would. Don’t text her now. Give it some time. (3-5 days) Then you can drop a text. But don’t call. Calibration is the key. Right now you need to gauge her interest level. Think about the text which you’ll be sending. Should not give away desperation or too much of interest. A playful tease with a reminder to connect.	/r/seduction	02/09/22 04:50 AM
5	Escalating at a girl's house? Catch her body language and other cues. Escalate basis that… in a gradual and calibrated manner. Sexual innuendos -> non sexual touches -> mild sexual touches and so on	/r/seduction	01/09/22 07:14 PM
1	40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong? Haha…You gotta tell what are you texting them. Too little context on the shared link. That one text needs to hook them to your conversation and compel them to know more about you. Has to be unique and interesting to say the least.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 09:54 AM
0	Approaching girls in college, what contact info do I get? Insta -> Contact number -> Date -> Sex	/r/seduction	01/09/22 09:50 AM
1	Should I still send value text to someone who ignored my last two messages? No ! Punish her, keep the text as short as possible. But this will work if you were able to build some interest in the first place. Else, let it cool down. Give a gap of a few days or a week at least. Then re- initiate if it’s dying. But keep it terse. Slight negging.	/r/seduction	01/09/22 03:40 AM
1	Distinguishing friendly behavior and romantic interest While dating at workplace is not recommended. It’s just a guideline. Lol. If you really want to go with it, sexualise and gradually escalate. Calibration is the key.	/r/seduction	28/08/22 07:06 AM
1	What do I say when women ask me, “how many girls have you slept with”? How many do you think ? (Deflecting it back) Not enough ( confident tone) You mean slept or penetrated ? (humour) Umm, Still looking for a real woman ;)	/r/seduction	28/08/22 06:23 AM
1	Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a day Study Ross Jefferies… Don’t go into deep/ heavy conversations or things appealing to the rational mind. Make her ‘feel’ more. Talk about moments where she felt the rush of life. Sexualise the conversation - ask her about her perfume… Give a compliment (good if it’s indirect). Build from there. Keep escalating. Take cues from her body language and calibrate. Bring physical escalation - touches and so on. Steal a kiss at the right moment. And be prepared to lose it all. Because if you worry about …	/r/seduction	27/08/22 07:48 PM
2	Girl decides to start being receptive and texting again, trying to meet up for a hobby but then she doesn’t respond for a day Classic case of failed escalation. Escalate, sexualise, turn her on (text or in person- doesn’t matter)	/r/seduction	27/08/22 11:18 AM
5	How do I flirt with a coworker Ask her, “which perfume is that” She tells you the name. Tell her it’s good. She’ll already be smiling. Build it up from there.	/r/seduction	27/08/22 07:12 AM
6	Any clever/witty replies to, "Why would I want to get to know u?" 1. ‘to know why you shouldn’t, you might as well should’ 2. ‘To minimise future regret’ And other related replies… 3. ‘Ok - Let’s assume you don’t want to know me better. Can you answer why ?’ Flipping the question back. Assumption : It’s just about starting the conversation, nothing more.	/r/seduction	19/08/22 11:06 AM
1	one specific girl Fine tune and Don’t be a simp	/r/seduction	19/08/22 10:15 AM
1	None of this advice works for me. I have tried exercise, new clothes, dating apps, cold approaching, none of it works. What’s your in-field & online app process ?	/r/seduction	19/08/22 05:11 AM
4	Lost my virginity last night, here's some takeaways / after-thoughts How long were you guys chatting before being invited to her place	/r/seduction	18/08/22 06:43 PM
2	How do I sexualize a conversation? Certain topics lead to sex like… Tattoos , Drugs, Fetish, Parties etc. Feel them on the spectrum… Try to lead to that end of the spectrum.	/r/seduction	18/08/22 04:12 PM
3	Have you ever felt like this? Step 1 : Can you smile at a girl… See how she reacts. Without any expectation.. Step 2 : Give her a compliment. See how she reacts. Without any expectation… And build on… Don’t expect anything. Crack the code.	/r/seduction	18/08/22 08:24 AM
3	Have you ever felt like this? Go step by step… If your objective is to pick up girls from anywhere…. And you have low self esteem… start by giving random friendly comments to girls on streets … like nice top etc. You need to gain confidence. Build up your confidence… you just need to work on your mindset. You don’t have to be a 10 to pick up girls, it’s just good social skills. Play the game as if you have nothing to lose. And at this point, you really don’t have.	/r/seduction	18/08/22 03:31 AM
1	Guys, I think fucked up... Don’t overthink… say whatever comes to your mind… (exclude perversion )	/r/seduction	13/08/22 11:12 AM
1	Guys, I think fucked up... Gradually reduce the alcohol and faze it out ;)	/r/seduction	13/08/22 10:07 AM
-5	Giving out your number to a waitress Never give yours ! You lose control over the game.	/r/seduction	13/08/22 07:16 AM
1	Do women who smile at you want you to approach them? Go find that out, by giving a friendly flirtatious one liner !	/r/seduction	13/08/22 06:07 AM
4	Guys, I think fucked up... Hmm… few hacks which worked for me : 1. Get a little drunk and approach them, alcohol reduces anxiety 2. Expect nothing, and give it your best shot 3. Keep optimising the process When you go in without expecting anything, you have nothing to lose and you become dangerous af my man !	/r/seduction	13/08/22 06:06 AM
1	How to initiate touch? The key is calibration. Adjust to the situation. ( Variables : Duration, Touch intensity, and the place where you touch ) Gradually escalate. Made it look so mechanical.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 12:54 PM
1	is your goal one woman or multiple? Great question. After that one ‘loyal’ girl went, I am fine with multiple girls ) Reconfiguring my value system.	/r/seduction	12/08/22 11:34 AM
6	What's your go to opener for approaching a girl on the street? Very observational indeed )	/r/seduction	11/08/22 09:35 AM