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Fundamentalssixfeetunder98/r/seduction18/08/20 09:38 AM
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Lifestylesixfeetunder98/r/seduction22/09/20 05:22 AM
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Blocking is just another form of foreplay. She’s probably just playing REALLY hard to get.
/r/seduction22/09/20 11:20 PM
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Your initial texts are not interesting enough. When you send it is far less important than making it quirky or funny or interesting. Focus on this above all else.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:43 AM
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Timing is far less important than keeping every text interesting. If it warrants a reply she will reply regardless of timing.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:39 AM
1

You should be busy enough with your own life and multiple girls that there is a natural delay. The gap you leave is far less important than what you text. Make every single text interesting and warranting a reply and you’ll never fail.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:35 AM
1

You fucked up by leaving it in her hands. Even somewhat interested girls can flake if you leave it to them. You should have said it was all good and that you’d hit her up later in the week. To reinitiate write a really quirky text that is too interesting not to reply to. Don’t mention another date or anything.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:31 AM
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Have a wank JUST before you’re going to see her. This should chill you out a fair bit. Additionally just act aloof as much as you can. Don’t forget to play a bit hard to get or you’ll seem too interested.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:27 AM
1

Beware of these girls - they are very eclectic and often referred to as hippies.
/r/seduction22/09/20 05:24 AM
1

Who cares about who texts who first. Just send some funny/weird/random text that doesn’t make you seem desperate. The less forgettable your text the better and if it fails move on to a new chick.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:41 AM
2

You don’t need to be hot to be a pornstar.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:20 AM
1

You legend. Provide updates or RIOT 🔥
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:19 AM
3

You are making excuses here. You need to remove your ego and decide if you’re genuinely interested. If there was a real connection her snap score shouldn’t mean shit. You’ll go out with her and see what’s what irl. For all you know she has a bunch of really close girlfriends whom snap a bazillion times a day and realise none of the 200 are even to other guys at all. It really just sounds like you’re making excuses so you can fall back on something if you get hurt.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:17 AM
1

Forget about that girl. Widen your social bubble. Cold approach. Online dating. Keep improving yourself and make sure that girl knows you’re dating when you do. You’ll be amazed at the effect of her not being able to have you could have on her.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:07 AM
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Watch some Todd valentine videos on how to move from plutonic to sexual. Man-to-woman. You should be using each reply of theirs and working with it but if it’s just an emoji react then you could use something generic: ‘I always like it when girl who’s kinda cute slides into my DMs 😉’ Little push / pull by saying kinda cute.
/r/seduction09/07/20 09:42 PM
1

Hmm?
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:45 PM
1

Almost exclusively negging.
/r/seduction08/07/20 09:41 PM
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I only told them after we’d left the initial phase where I’m gaming a lot. I was comfortable and felt I could be myself so I mentioned it and both times they got all fussed by it. Live and learn...
/r/seduction08/07/20 05:59 AM
4

https://youtu.be/l9OkHE4XZ2Q Best
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:13 AM
1

Just start flirting in your replies. Some will be flirty back and some won’t...
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:11 AM
1

I have generally found girls do not react well to finding it out so I’ve stopped telling them. Some react very, very poorly. Game has a fairly negative stigma to it unfortunately.
/r/seduction08/07/20 04:04 AM
7

Yeh stop being an absolute pussy and ask her out directly. Good luck!
/r/seduction29/06/20 05:19 PM
9

Sounds like you’re doing exactly what you should be and dating some decent women. Congrats.
/r/seduction29/06/20 05:18 PM
0

So the trick is to be funny?
/r/seduction27/04/20 01:11 AM
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Can’t believe the misguided optimism in the responses. You are being friend zoned. Tell her if she wants to seduce you it will be much easier over a romantic dinner than I’m sweaty gym clothes. If she rejects the proper date suggestion you know where you stand and you gave it a shot. If she accepts you are in. Gym first dates never work. Terrible idea.
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:11 PM
0

Amazing. So it’s working well for you?
/r/seduction26/04/20 07:03 PM
10

My prediction: you’re in the friendzone and not getting out no matter what. Best of luck - hope I’m wrong!
/r/seduction12/02/20 11:53 AM
1

What’s the difference between your understanding and the sites?
/r/seduction05/02/20 08:27 PM
4

That sounds too aggressive to me. I’d go with “if you keep staring at me like that I’m going to have to ask you out” with a cheeky lingering grin...
/r/seduction05/02/20 08:24 PM
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She was never interested and most likely planned on ghosting so she didn’t have to deal with it. You should forget about this girl. Your optimism for Valentine’s Day is sadcringe worthy. Sorry to be harsh but it’s 100% reality.
/r/seduction05/02/20 08:19 PM
1

Couldn’t pull cos your open relationship girlfriend lives with you. Wtf. What is your plan on a perfect date then, go back to hers?
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:31 PM
1

You are needy AF. ‘Accidentally added on Snapchat’ - best ever. Leave it for 2 months then send an intriguing text...
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:27 PM
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Well then you shouldn’t rape anyone...
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:23 PM
1

If you’re not sure if there is spark after 2 long dates then there isn’t a spark imo. You should YouTube escalation techniques also...
/r/seduction10/11/19 11:21 PM
1

Whilst I agree, a huge percentage of women already have heard of it and have their mind made up. If you encounter one that is even remotely stubborn then you’re in for a bad time. As a result, I believe it is better to avoid the topic altogether. The girl I told seemed really chilled and into me but a friend of hers had had a terrible experience with a guy that was running game on her. As a result she had her mind made up and nothing I could say would change it.
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:52 PM
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You’ve have a terrible misapplication of logic here. It’s not that I think there is something bad about it - it’s that there is a stigma about game theory and girls don’t know enough about it to understand it. So it’s easier to avoid it than to try and explain it.
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:36 PM
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Whatever you do - don’t tell her you’ve started using game theory on her. I had a really bad experience telling a girl about it and i regretted it immensely 🤦🏻‍♂️
/r/seduction16/08/19 06:42 PM
1

This. Maybe even months though.
/r/seduction06/08/19 03:08 PM
1

6’2.5 bruh
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:53 PM
1

No it’s a competitive dancer.
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:20 PM
3

Obviously don’t do this OP.
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:19 PM
1

“Hey, I always thought you were kinda cute and enjoyed our random bump-ins. Let’s grab a drink this Thursday at _____ around 8pm.” Honestly you’ve acted like a total pussy so far by not asking her out in person or even messaging once she accepted so it may already be dead but if you don’t message you’ll never know. GL & HF
/r/seduction06/08/19 02:16 PM
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imo either is fine but just make sure it’s crystal clear that it’s a date not a friendly hang out. If she rejects the date offer move on to the next girl.
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:02 PM
2

Are you talking pre or post hookup?
/r/seduction04/08/19 10:00 PM
5

I strongly suggest you move on and never approach a girl like this again. Try daygaming.
/r/seduction01/08/19 02:08 PM
2

It works to create an initial spark and interest. That is what 99.9% of the posts here are about - the early days of interacting with a potential sexual interest. After you’ve dated, had sex and are figuring out where to go from there, you don’t need to run game anymore. Just be yourself and if it works great. If it doesn’t then she’s not right for you long term. It’s not like you run game for years in a relationship. You’d be amazed at how many girls say they want genuine, open/honest guys then…
/r/seduction01/08/19 12:20 AM
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Reply ‘yeh - 18 inches.... aroooound’
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:42 PM
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Whole situation seems fine and you’re analysing it all well. Keep texts flirty and interesting for a bit then invite her to do something quirky. Try not to get shit faced and fuck it up like last time ya muppet (she told me to tell you this). GL & HF
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:41 PM
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Just re-open with a crazy story even if it’s a little made up. When she replies laughing or flirting back hit her up to go out again. ‘How are things’ has to be the most boring questions to ask ever.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:37 PM
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Loved your first response but really do not like this one. Firstly OP, do NOT ask what went wrong or anything of the like. It’s over if you do - I promise. Needy needy needy. Second, do not send a ‘hows it going’ text asking to meet up. Instead send something quirky/flirty/exceptionally interesting that she simply cannot ignore. Be boring and you will get no response. Random text idea to be accompanied by a cute dog pic: ‘Sooooo I was just at the dog park with a friend and this adorable little p…
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:32 PM
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Couldn’t disagree more. Recently discovered Hinge and have been inundated with amazing, down to earth women who want to fuck my brains out. I’ve not had so much action with quality women ever. And no, I don’t work for Hinge it has just genuinely turned my dating life around (combined with good study and use of game theory).
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:21 PM
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What an incredible read - thank you. As a musician myself about to head out on tour in the US I found it particularly interesting. I think she probably made plans to come see you with open mindedness but things got muddled a little as it got more serious with the guy she was dating in the time from when she suggested the idea to when she actually arrived. I think she was conflicted and probably if you forced a move she’d of allowed it but wasn’t going to actively lead you on to make one given he…
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:17 PM
1

Try being less boring in the conversation. You own with how are you - really?
/r/seduction31/07/19 03:59 PM
1

Alternatively: Leave the poor wife and work on your Latina.
/r/seduction31/07/19 03:48 PM
1

Here’s a few ideas that may be causing it no one has mentioned (that I’ve read): - You’re bad in bed - You’re good looking but lack personality - You come across as player ish and only girls who want something brief sleep with you Sorry that these are all negatives but I’m just trying to help figure it out.
/r/seduction31/07/19 03:43 PM
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Don’t just ask her how her Summer has been. That is boring and every dude is probably hitting her up with the same lame questions. Ask something really quirky/flirty otherwise you’ll just be a friend.
/r/seduction31/07/19 03:37 PM
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Go out and daygame and find yourself another cousin. Easy.
/r/seduction31/07/19 02:31 PM
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Sure
/r/seduction30/07/19 01:57 PM
5

Put your arm in a loop and gesture for her to hold onto to you as you move around between locations. Girls love cheesy romantic shit like that and when she does it you’ll feel like a man and brood confidence. As for the kiss, find a nice spot and just stare directly at her for a while with a little cheeky grin like you want to kiss her. If she gives you a long eye contact then slowly go for it.
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:27 AM
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Stop sending boring messages like how you been. She has dozens of guys asking the same boring shit and chicks get over it. Tell her a crazy story that happened to you or make an unusual assumption about her. As for recovery, when she is back send her an interesting message about yourself or assuming something about her trip. Something that is so intriguing she can’t help but be curious and reply.
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:20 AM
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Answer in any way that isn’t predictable and boring like every other guy. Tell her a crazy short story about the time you punched a shark while surfing in Australia or got chased by the cops while skating through a mall. If she’s hot she probably has 100 dudes messaging the same boring shit every day. Give her something that makes you stand out and she absolutely has to reply to because it’s so bizarre. It never fails.
/r/seduction30/07/19 03:12 AM
3

Excellent advice from these 2 ^ They’re giving you a shit test - you just need to own it.
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:54 AM
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It sounds like you’re in a really good place. You’ve had a good reason for not making a move earlier and have waited a respectable amount of time so she knows she’s not just a rebound. It should be fairly easy to escalate with her as you already know her well and have good rapport. At the venue change try holding her hand as you cross the street. Take control as a man. If that’s too much then just put your arm out in a loop for her to grab onto. That is very date like behaviour and will rush you…
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:51 AM
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You’re off to a better start than 99% of the posts on here. Nice one. Make sure you have 2 locations for the date. Moving between venues is an important part of any date to keep things interesting/changing atmosphere. Including harbour walk inbetween is cool too. Use some push/pull and qualify her along the way to create good frame. Slowly escalate things throughout the date. Keep it flirty. Being friends at work it’s very easy to fall into work talk and boring stuff. Ask her about adventures, l…
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:33 AM
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Did you make it clear that it was a date and not just friends hanging outside the workplace? Do you have her number?
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:01 AM
1

Yeh - how have you not tried to kiss her after 3 dates?
/r/seduction30/07/19 02:00 AM
2

What girl crushes on a guy who liked a few of their photos and commented on one? MAYBE a 6 or lower but anything 7+ is inundated with dudes like this and they’re not on there hunting for dates. Perhaps if you’re a 9 or 10 it could kinda work but if you are, you’d be way better going out daygaming and tearing it up.
/r/seduction30/07/19 12:53 AM
1

You pulled her pants down and instantly pushed for the bedroom? I think here you definitely should have played with her or just gone down on her standing up. You do it right then there is almost no way for her not to want to fuck. Instead you push for bedroom and you give her a minute to think about what she's doing - seems like a mistake to me. Patience may end up being friend here in the end I guess though.
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:21 PM
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It sounds like you are constantly trying to bed her. Try using some push/pull. I might even just try not initiating anything at all. No kissing and letting her do all the work. Sometimes girls like it when guys stop pushing for sex all the time and she may just jump on you. You said you pulled her pants down - what happened there? Did you go down on her? If not, why not?
/r/seduction29/07/19 06:09 PM
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Solid af.
/r/seduction29/07/19 05:16 PM
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Qualifying is the process of making a girl feel like she has to qualify to spend time with you or be with you. It's like a pull/push with some gentle teasing and sets up good frame for yourself while gently lowering theirs. 'Oh you live in New Jersey (make disgruntled face), that's cool we can still hang out I guess' finish w/ cheeky smile. 'Oh really you prefer cats over dogs? I only date crazy cat ladies if they're super cool/sexy/whatever' 'You're a model huh. Anyone can be born with beauty -…
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:49 PM
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I completely disagree but to each their own. I think 90%+ girls would think it's creepy to be hit on by a random dude on Insta. I know a lot of girls (I have 4 attractive sisters) and they get messages from creeps all... the.. time. They hate it. Any moderately attractive girl (7+) is often inundated depending on their content. I've never hit up a random girl on social media unless I've met them irl. You can game anywhere. Anytime, any place. Evolution daily has some cool supermarket techniques …
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:19 PM
1

Solid advice all round. Game isn't necessary/won't work that well at his age I don't think. Ways to meet/interact with girls your age: - Family friends' kids - Local mixed-sex sports teams - Online gaming (not ideal but has been known to work) - Friend's birthdays
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:09 PM
1

Very well written advice.
/r/seduction29/07/19 04:01 PM
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Saying 'maybe' to a fairly solid opener (like either of those you wrote about) is a definite IOD unless she says it cheekily with a smile. If they're cold in the first 30 seconds just move on, even if you do somehow crack her open you'd of spent that time better opening other options.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:59 PM
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I was exactly the same and found the best solution was to get so many women going that I couldn't get oneitis or too focused/over-analytical on any one. It lowers your care factor for each interaction whether in person or in text and subsequently makes you more appealing as they can see/feel that you are drowning in pussy haha. GL & HF
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:56 PM
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Women generally love dating younger guys. My biggest gap was a 33 year old when I was 21. The ticket is to just forget about the age gap and not bring it up. If they do, act totally cool with it and qualify them, especially if they give you a shit test. HER: 'I think maybe you're too young for me buddy' YOU: 'I had thought maybe you were too old for me initially but I'm starting to think I could actually like you'. Don't forget to just be your high value self and don't let it get to you if you s…
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:52 PM
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No. Don't ignore if SHE is initiating texting. Leave it some time, perhaps till next day and respond. Make your response fun/quirky/flirty so she feels a need to respond. Not just 'cool recipe, how's your day?'. Noone wants to respond to that boring shit. 'That recipe would taste good with the kangaroo meat I just bought. Yes, I actually just bought kangaroo meat to try - have you ever had it? I'm ready to go down under haha'. Obviously just an absurd example but do something like this.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:44 PM
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I usually make my first assumption a bit cheeky. Example, tall blond girl, clearly Swedish or something: 'You look like you're from Japan'. Usually gets a laugh or a reaction at the least. Say it with a cheeky smile so you don't get the condescending undertones. Short Spanish looking girl, 'I'm guessing you're a professional basketballer?' etc.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:38 PM
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You said 'Bet.' - wtf does this mean? Was enjoying the read but confused af by this. Just ask her out via snap. 'Hey, I think you're kinda cute and I want to take you out for dinner this Wed or Thurs.' She'll either give you the friend speech in which case who cares move on, or you've got yourself a hot date, easy game.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:34 PM
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Watch YouTube vids from Todd V and Tom Torero to get some tips and implement those in day-game. If you have a natural ability you should pick it all back up pretty quick. GL & HF
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:30 PM
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Agreed. If you're sure she is/was into you then just be direct. 'I was thinking maybe martial arts class wasn't the best way to get to know you - we should get a drink this Wed/Thurs instead.' Said with a cheeky smile and look directly into her eyes without breaking contact. If she says no then who cares, move on. If she says yes then you have a cool vibe and a definite hot date on your hands. GL & HF
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:27 PM
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Agreed. Don't call her, you'll probably fuck it up. Keep to simple texts and arrange a bar to meet for some drinks. After seeing she is as hot as her pics and isn't a total psycho take her home and make long, sweet passionate love to her (jokes just fuck her brains out)..
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:24 PM
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Stalking out random local girls and hitting them up is creepy and not what girls are looking for. Sure, it may work some % of the time, but it's almost never going to be a great avenue for meeting women. Girls want the fairytale 'we started chatting in the cold section of the supermarket' vibe. Not, 'he stalked me on instagram and eventually I let him fuck me' vibe - this isn't what they want to tell their friends. I'd suggest giving it up and going outside, getting fresh air and day-gaming inst…
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:21 PM
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100% this. The more you can be aloof and stand-off-ish the better in this situation. You definitely don't want to say anything like 'oh last night was great' or 'I wish we could do THAT again'. Act like you're busy AF and maybe even subtly allude to the fact you're dating others. GL & HF
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:18 PM
1

I disagree with this. He is a young guy and his ability to read things on the fly will not go well if he's already majorly into this girl. He is better off stating an intent to wanting to date her and facing rejection if it fails. With your situation it is very likely he is getting mixed signals all night and creates massive awkwardness. Just my opinion.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:12 PM
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Just man up and tell her you always thought she was kinda cute (slight push/pull here) and you think you should get dinner together one night. If she says she just wants friends then play it totally cool and stop wasting your time on her. If she says yes then you have a date and everything is crystal clear on the intention of the outing. ​ GL & HF
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:08 PM
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Just tell him to call you on his phone and have it out while talking and put volume to zero. Been doing this with my mate and works perfectly. If you need to take down her number either say phone is dead or hold it away so she can’t see the phone call in progress. You could take down the number at your end and he can say he’ll remember it to the girl. Gives more weight that you’re not just gaming every girl if you’re gonna remember her number.
/r/seduction29/07/19 03:02 PM
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Just qualify her. Yeh I thought maybe you were too old/young for me but I’m starting to think I might like you regardless. Say it in a fun flirty way. Just keep doing what you’re doing but don’t ask her out again straight away after she just ignored your last request. Brush it off and get the banter going again and when things are good re-ask.
/r/seduction29/07/19 02:33 PM
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No - you should go back to flirty texting for a while m and next time tell her you should meet on Friday or Saturday, don’t ask.
/r/seduction28/07/19 09:55 PM
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My success rate is almost zero when giving out number instead of taking. Bad move ime.
/r/seduction28/07/19 09:52 PM
2

Absolutely do not do this OP. Guaranteed friendzone.
/r/seduction28/07/19 02:28 AM
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After years of hitting on nurses after work I’ve found that the best method is to be patient 😉
/r/seduction28/07/19 02:14 AM
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16 is legal in Australia. Cya soon 👌🏻
/r/seduction27/07/19 11:38 AM
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If this party is so crazy then why are you sitting there calling her? It doesn’t really add up and makes you sound like a bit of a phoney imo, especially to her.
/r/seduction27/07/19 11:36 AM
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Your time is much better spent being outdoors and meeting women in a real life setting. In their mind they want a fairy tale and that never starts with ‘he randomly messaged me on fb’. GL & HF
/r/seduction27/07/19 11:30 AM
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Hot girls are fkn everywhere optimal strategy is to go find one that’s single and stop being a total moron.
/r/seduction27/07/19 04:34 AM
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Not to be rude but you sound like someone who has done absolutely no study of game or female psychology in the dating realm. I’m a 6’3, moderately attractive white male who went from being upfront and always having problems to using game/texting theory and I am, quite literally, inundated with girls since. Night and day. Being upfront and wearing your emotions may be optimal for some females but they are very, very few and far between.
/r/seduction27/07/19 02:28 AM
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Pick the one your vibing with Tell other two they are nice and that your pick is cheeky/naughty and could be trouble Start flitting with chosen one directly with gentle fun teasing If it’s vibing then try separate from the group for 1on1 GL & HF
/r/seduction27/07/19 02:12 AM
2

You are a creep. Stop what you’re doing immediately and go outside to meet women.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:58 AM
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She’s giving you like 3-5 word answers to your endless dribble and then you go for a date requests. tsk tsk
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:56 AM
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There are good and bad things here Leonard. It ends well which is the most important part.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:53 AM
2

These are all good tips but drop the smileys as they destroy the alpha male frame and replace it with beta male cuteness.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:47 AM
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Unless you are mad at game you should avoid ‘live chatting’ and instead message just a few times a day giving each response and put in some proper thought to make sure it’s interesting. Talking about her dad being from Texas is about as boring a question as you can get - no wonder she hasn’t replied. If you were texting right you’d of said, ‘Oh your dad is a crazy Cowboys fan huh, I bet he’s from Dallas and rocks up at every game on a horse with a whip screaming yeeeehaw everytime they score a t…
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:43 AM
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They’re bad in bed They’re immature Life experience is lacking/they’re not interesting Lacking intelligence Doesn’t have much potential to become gf material if that’s what you want Hard to find common ground for conversation Live at home w/ parents Still in school These are all generalisations obviously.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:35 AM
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Todd V Dating He is not hyped at all really when approaching and it helps him create great dynamics throughout the interactions.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:28 AM
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This. And don’t push too hard with conversations. Some girls are just boring and not worth your time even if they’re hot. A natural flow in communication is the foundation of a good experience for the night (or more).
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:27 AM
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This is correct and honestly, even is she is busy she will find time to send a text or apologise and say she’s busy so really the only option is that she’s not interested.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:25 AM
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Do NOT do this op. You are already struggling to hold back your obvious desperation/neediness - this will put you over the line. If she was keen she’d be messaging more and you wouldn’t be here asking for advice. I’m sorry to say but it’s somewhat unlikely you are going to have any luck with her again. Best bet is to leave her be for a bit and see if she messages again on her own. If she doesn’t then wait a week or so and send a ping message acting like you’ve hardly been thinking about her. Mak…
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:24 AM
1

Sounds like you’ve got a nice friend.
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:16 AM
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Best way is to delete her from all social media and from your phone contacts then find someone who is sane. GL & HF
/r/seduction27/07/19 01:14 AM
1

Where in Syd?
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:17 AM
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If you’re having success getting their numbers, having them text back and then they stop - you need to work on your text game. If you’re in this mental state it is probably coming through your texts too. Being too needy/desperate. Just have fun with it and stop taking it all so seriously. It’s a long process from beginner to even intermediate. Work out, hang with friends, enjoy your hobbies, be busy. GL & HF.
/r/seduction26/07/19 11:15 AM
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100% this ^
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:55 AM
5

Ok, firstly this chick is an idiot and totally fucked in the head. That being said, as soon as she says that I’m pulling the car over, completely taking control and fucking her right three and there. I’m hoping this is what you did?
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:54 AM
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You’ve already messed up by not being completely clear in your asking out - now you need to make things clear before you go and it becomes really awkward. If you’re gonna do the park thing then you’re probably taking wine or something to drink. Try a casual text ‘Hey, gonna buy drinks for our date tomorrow. Are you a red or white wine girl? Excited to finally take you out, always thought you were kinda cute.’ I must emphasise it is imperative you make it clear before the date or you are going to…
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:50 AM
1

This situation is bad/messy. Pick one of the other girls on your list and follow that up instead.
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:39 AM
2

The friend zone is a very specific place to get out of. Unless you play your cards exactly right you have little chance. Honestly, by the sound of things I think you have no chance but I’d love to be proven wrong. You’re just the friend who is a shoulder to cry on. You won’t cross-over unless you play it exactly right.
/r/seduction26/07/19 09:36 AM
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You’re a friend buddy. Through and through. Sorry to say. Girls will pretty much never talk openly about sex with a guy they’re interested in - only their male friends who are cemented in the friend zone.
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:39 AM
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How successful has that been for you? I’m not downvoting you btw.
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:36 AM
1

You can’t really - it’s just how a lot of women are ime. Just make sure your text game is on point and make sure she doesn’t feel like you’re expecting to fuck next time (or do anything for that matter).
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:35 AM
1

Every single message either has typos or is grammatically atrocious.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:08 AM
1

Um, it really looks like she is a prostitute.
/r/seduction26/07/19 01:02 AM
2

Agreed. The blueprint into her panties is to never bring sex up and just let it happen naturally. If she is sucking you off on the second date then she obviously really likes you but girls freak out when they feel like they’ve created expectations for further dates. Either ignore the topic or say you loved what you guys did in the bedroom last time but have no expectations moving forward. GL & HF
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:55 AM
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scratches head - No idea why you’re having limited success bro.
/r/seduction26/07/19 12:51 AM
1

Are you crAzY? DID YOU NOT READ THE BIT ABOUT HOW SHE SMILED THEN WALKED AWAY.. THIS GUY IS IN!!!!!!!11
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:36 AM
1

This is pretty sound advice OP. Go with this. RIP our streak is the worst thing you could write, ever.
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:34 AM
1

Try daygaming. YouTube how to do it and practice everything you’ve learned watching. Eventually you will become better and more consistent at talking with women.
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:32 AM
4

I disagree. Asking her to hang out is just a surefire way to friend zone. Tell her you completely understand and throw in you were in a bit of a weird place too for whatever reason. Make her believe there’s a chance you’re not going to be the pussy that just sat her down at 1 location for an interview date with no psychical escalation. Tell her that you guys should get a drink at x on either x or x time/date and make sure you don’t repeat your mistakes of first date. Remember also if you’re sitt…
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:22 AM
3

Improve your text game. It is so important in modern society as early on in relationships that is how ~90% of communication is done. Countless books/YouTubes to help. Be healthier/workout. This will help your mind, body and soul which will in turn make you more appealing to the lasses. Numbers game. Having a healthy number of girls on the run will help you not seem needy or desperate. It will also help you by making you realise which ones really stand out as potential gf material (if you’re into…
/r/seduction25/07/19 09:14 AM
1

Ya just need to pick a girl and ask her out in a fun manner..
/r/seduction25/07/19 01:21 AM
1

You need to make your intentions clear. You’re just a gay best friend right now. It doesn’t matter how you do it as it can’t get worse than this as far as getting laid goes. Just do it what have you got to lose?!
/r/seduction25/07/19 12:43 AM
1

Honestly it’s hard to say at this point as you’re in so much deeper than you should be without having anyone show any intent whatsoever. So we find ourselves just swimming in an endless sea of the unknown haha. Look there is still some small chance but if I were you I’d just go out and daygame a bit and forget about them until they potentially move back and you can play it all completely differently/better haha. You are basically in no man’s land - just shoot a text ‘Hey xxxx, your sister is rea…
/r/seduction24/07/19 09:55 AM
1

Thanks for the update. Pretty much exactly as I expected/explained. Even with perfect game this was probably not possible as they didn’t seem invested from very early on. Think you sort of fell into the friendly tour guide role sorry to say. Make intentions clear right from the start next time. Get flirty with one early on. Better luck next time bro!
/r/seduction24/07/19 01:58 AM
1

Hahaha I like how you started out full troll and then tried to pull it back like this was a serious comment.
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:34 AM
4

Sounds like a one way ticket to the friend zone which you mentioned you are fine with so enjoy it!
/r/seduction23/07/19 10:33 AM
1

How’s it travelling u/floridafireball ?
/r/seduction22/07/19 02:15 PM
1

Might be your text game after the first date. Seems pretty likely if they’re making out with you then not wanting second date.
/r/seduction20/07/19 02:53 AM
1

+1 Send her a ping in 3 months to see what’s what if you really wanna
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:28 AM
1

I had this exact situation about a year ago. Almost a carbon copy. Pretty sure you’ll find she’s still a lesbian and was just a little curious/drunk on the night.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:26 AM
1

Sounds perfect but drop the smiley.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:22 AM
1

Do NOT follow this advice OP. Horrible.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:15 AM
1

Then you’re just sitting around waiting for her to initiate another date. ‘Np’ Wait a few days. Re-initiative flirty texting that led to the date initially. After a day or two of texts (or longer): ‘Hey let’s get that drink Wednesday or Thursday night’
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:14 AM
1

Right now you’re being the ‘gay best friend’ or shoulder to cry on as you put it. You need to stop fluffing around as a friendly buddy and ask her out. Be direct and make it man to woman. ‘You’re kinda cute and I’d like to take you out on a date but I feel your current situation is a bit messy’. You will have total clarity in the next reply.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:04 AM
1

Hinge as great as is the advice of the above dude.
/r/seduction20/07/19 01:00 AM
3

Yep - give it up I’d say. So many better looking women out there for ya...
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:59 AM
1

You’re sounding pretty needy in your last emails. Make plans to meet up and if she doesn’t want to then go out and daygame and stop using that site.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:58 AM
1

If you’re struggling stick to teases that are never offensive: You’re so goofy - it’s cute. When you said X I wasn’t sure we’d have a future but I’m actually starting to like you cheeky smile
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:51 AM
2

You’re an asshole bro. Stop fucking around with some other dudes chick. It happened once, whatever, but what’s the best case scenario here if you really think about it? She’s just using you and has absolutely no interest in any future with you. She said it herself. Leave her alone and starting gaming girls cuter than her that are single.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:45 AM
1

At this immediate point in time you should agree with the breakup and not seem needy. Use fitness to better yourself and go out and explore other women, use dating apps, hang with friends more. You’ll feel better after all of this and be more desirable to her or any other women you want.
/r/seduction20/07/19 12:26 AM
1

As you say, they have limited time in the area. If one of them is crushing on you they’re not going to waste a day wandering around doing random stuff without so much as a text. I used to be very much like you are now - always hoping for the positive when it seems like their interest is low but it just doesn’t work that way. I can pretty much guarantee you’re just a friend and nothing will happen sexually but for your sake I’d love to be wrong. BOL
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:26 AM
1

In my experience ‘sucks at texting’ means not that into you. I’ve never had a girl who was keen on me suck at texting ever. Especially if they’re just walking around doing nothing then you are very low priority - sorry to say. I’d personally be moving on due to misplays earlier in your game but if you must proceed then be direct.
/r/seduction19/07/19 12:16 AM
1

First 3 are solid options. Start laying foundations to get her back to yours. ‘Oh I have some amazing organic red wine at my place’ is my favourite (if they drink red wine obv). Say something like that early in the date then see if she’s keen to come experience it. Create the illusion it’s not just for sex. GL & HF
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:31 AM
2

Warning, harsh response coming in here. Don’t continue reading if you can’t handle the heat. It sounds a bit like you’re their gay text buddy. You’ve shown no intent and there’s every chance they didn’t reply that day as some other dude(s) hit them up directly and took them out. You’re speeding towards the friend zone unless you: pick one girl make intentions clear perhaps organise a wingman to help with all this start flirting with your choice instantly via teasing, negging, push/pull etc (eith…
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:27 AM
3

She seems super high maintenance. Put her at the bottom of your list and focus on other girls if you don’t want a girlfriend. She doesn’t seem like someone who is looking for a fuck buddy and that’s all you want so yeh...
/r/seduction18/07/19 01:20 AM
2

Wait 3 months. Send a picture ping or text msg and judge her reaction. Something that relates to jokes you had or something you spoke about that is memorable. Make it something really interesting or bizarre that warrants a reply or gives her a laugh and makes her think about how good those initial first dates were. Also go watch texting tips videos on YouTube it sounds like your text game is horrible (as mine was until recently). GL & HF
/r/seduction17/07/19 04:23 PM
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I always get downvoted for being harsh but this really is the worst first date idea ever. You’ll probably have no issues as you’ve known her for ages and she seems pretty keen but if anything can kill a vibe, it’s being hot and stinky during a date. The other guy suggested take a shower together which, in my opinion, is terrible advice. Shower (anything but especially sex) is always a bit awkward unless you know the person really well. First time sex in a shower is a cause for disaster. If I wer…
/r/seduction17/07/19 03:33 AM
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Not sure how much more specific I can be when stating: Don’t consider seeing her bra as her flirting Flirt properly, be direct and make it man to woman Man up and get her number
/r/seduction12/07/19 09:55 PM
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Everyone is different but I think this is about as poorly as you can play it. As it stands you have no idea if she’s interested, no flirting other than an interest in the river which could be a totally plutonic visit. Don’t look into the fact she exposed her bra a bit - I have 3 sisters and half the time their tits hang out or they give an eye full to my mates completely unintentionally. Should have made it clear you were interested sexually by properly flirting, then getting her number. As it s…
/r/seduction12/07/19 08:08 AM
1

State your intention to avoid friend zone. Outside of this I don’t think it really matters too much what you say - you are in.
/r/seduction06/07/19 06:07 AM
1

In this situation it’s important to have a few pre-prepared questions that are quirky and interesting to make you stand out from every dickwad that hits on her everyday. GL
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:31 AM
1

I do think you’re over thinking a little bit but it’s good you’re not in too deep seemingly. I’d stick to your plan and if you don’t manage to see her in the next day or two initiate with a quirky text ‘just saw a squirrel fall from a tree and it reminded me of that story of yours’ Something that is interesting and elicits a response. GL
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:29 AM
2

This is absolutely horrible advice. Do NOT do this OP. For your own sake.
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:20 AM
1

Whatever you do, do NOT double text. Chicks are never too busy - I’ve learned that the hard way. Explore more girls and GL
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:14 AM
1

You are way out of your element here buddy. Not wanting her to think it’s a date is a one way ticket to the friendzone. Make your intentions clear and keep texts flirty to avoid fz.
/r/seduction05/07/19 05:07 AM
1

I had this exact situation pop up yesterday. I ended up saying ‘Hey, a friend has said he wants to head out tonight in (insert really cool area w hot chicks) so let’s do another time’. She ended up suggesting 3 days later and were locked in for Sunday. For you I would suggest do this then go back to occasional texts and random flirty pic along the way.” Until you think she’s back and ready to be more firm with a plan.
/r/seduction05/07/19 02:57 AM
1

You should be laying seeds throughout the date of things at your place of interest. I have this amazing new drone. I have a guitar. I have organic wine you should try. I have a big deck with a view, come sit on my deck. You need to put up a facade that they’re not just coming back for sex or they will feel you think they are easy for saying yes.
/r/seduction05/07/19 02:28 AM
1

You shouldn’t but you will and you’ll blow it with the girl. Unfortunately this is inevitable. Right now you have the choice of the girl or the booze. I promise you won’t be able to manifest both in a positive way. If you can then you might just be a God amongst men.
/r/seduction05/07/19 02:16 AM
1

‘Hey, I’m gonna be about 15 minutes late this evening, let me know that’s all good...’ Or similar.
/r/seduction05/07/19 02:06 AM
2

imo you have almost no chance here buddy. It’s sounding very friendly. Wait a few days and send a flirty pic or gif somehow related to things you’ve talked about. When they’re ‘too busy’ or stop replying you’re in dire straights, always.
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:13 AM
1

Literally anything other than what you wrote. Sorry to be harsh but it’s super cringey. Leave it a day or two and say ‘All good - I ended up going out with some mates to (insert super cool club name) and had an awesome night’ Then leave it another day or two if no response and chime back in with random flirty banter. After she is back in the vibe offer more options on when to meet up.
/r/seduction05/07/19 01:09 AM
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This
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