skepticaldreamer Archive

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2	How do I make new friends? Or just ask them what they're up to that night. If they respond, they will probably invite you. Before you know it, you'll be invited whenever they go out.	/r/seduction	07/03/15 09:59 PM
1	Sigh...love/relationships seem way better when you're younger. Well, the modern word "stoic" is sort of based on the philosophical movement I was referring to, but the modern word is just a small, superficial take on it and not really what its about. It's a lot more about evaluating your own mindset, perceptions and interpretations and realizing that you can't control unfortunate circumstances, other peoples' behavior etc. The Wikipedia Page will explain it better than I ever could. But TL;DR, it's all about learning to control your emotions and monitor you…	/r/seduction	02/03/15 01:00 AM
1	Sigh...love/relationships seem way better when you're younger. Dude. You're 21. I don't know why you're saying "relationships are better when you're younger" because you are young as fuck. If you came here for a pity party, this is the wrong place. Listen - all of this stuff you're saying? It's self-inflicted. Look into Stoicism, basically the practice of understanding and thinking about your interpretation/perception of the world. You'll eventually come to realize that you have complete control over your mind and how you react to things. I'm not saying thi…	/r/seduction	25/02/15 06:41 PM
1	Develop a routine: 3 things I do every single day before work for Inner Game Congratulations man, sounds like a great strategy. I've been incorporating exercise back into my routine the last two weeks and man does it feel great.	/r/seduction	31/10/13 02:31 AM
3	[Mini-FR] First Approach Ever! Star Bucks Girl..# close..sort of? I like this	/r/seduction	27/06/13 01:55 PM
2	Don't feel confident yet? Research tells us you will if you keep working at it. Ohhh, ok, I understand what you're saying now. For me, it was more the realization of this through failing. I meant failing more in terms of struggling to be happy - which for some can be harder than for others. But now I definitely do think like you. I guess the thing that helped me the most was becoming outcome independent for everything I do. Just realizing that the effort I put in is far more important than what comes out of that effort.	/r/seduction	30/03/13 10:16 AM
2	Don't feel confident yet? Research tells us you will if you keep working at it. Dude...you must have had no idea what I said in my first comment. This is completely irrelevant to what I was talking about. My point was that the fight through failure makes you a stronger, more confident person. All of these really have nothing to do with what I was saying.	/r/seduction	28/03/13 04:39 AM
2	Don't feel confident yet? Research tells us you will if you keep working at it. You're explanation of why you should not compare yourself to yourself doesn't make sense to me. How can you monitory your improvement if you do not compare things you can do today to things you couldn't do a few years ago? I'm not following.	/r/seduction	27/03/13 06:16 PM
6	Don't feel confident yet? Research tells us you will if you keep working at it. But failure is truly a great way to grow as a person. I never failed myself until I came to college, and though those first two years were rough, I've risen from the ashes and feel better about myself than I've ever felt before. I know that I faced failure. I know that I faced depression and won. I am a stronger and better person than I could have even imagined. This is why failure is a necessary, albeit, painful process for success.	/r/seduction	26/03/13 11:53 PM
2	Impossible to escalate? What am I doing wrong? Don't worry too much about it. I'm sure she is expecting it, but the key thing here is to escalate smoothly. I'm sure she already trusts you if she makes visible signs she wants to hang out with you. Next date, take her somewhere romantic, a place with a view. When you get out of the car or whatever, take her hand and lead her there. That's step one. Then, when you're sitting, looking at the view or whatever, as your sitting down with her, bring her close to you and have your arm around her. Aft…	/r/seduction	26/03/13 12:43 AM