skierinthedesert Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
10	Confirmation bias can be your biggest enemy.	skierinthedesert	/r/seduction	08/12/16 04:18 AM
6	[FR] Kind of confused on what happen the past few days when friend and her friend stayed at my place	skierinthedesert	/r/seduction	02/11/16 03:11 PM
5	Can I take what my female friends say at face value or are the being nice?	skierinthedesert	/r/seduction	07/11/16 06:18 AM
1	I've been trying to fix my self esteem but can't seem to do it. Any suggestions?	skierinthedesert	/r/seduction	15/10/16 01:41 PM

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2	Just an observation about this sub... There's a whole host of reasons as to why people are bad at social situations. Everything from they had a close group of friends from being very little to leaving for college and they never learned to interact outside that circle to crippling social anxiety. But that's the point of the sub because people that have always been good at it don't get why it's just not some easy fix. It's easy for them so they dont understand why it's hard for someone easy. I had this discussion with a fwb and she di…	/r/seduction	09/12/16 06:41 AM
1	How would you approach this situation?: friends gives you a girls number (with her permission). She knows who you are but have only spoken once. I mean I guess it could be interpreted that way. She happened to be attractive and we got along really well. My friend introduced us because we both happened to be Jewish.	/r/seduction	08/12/16 04:21 AM
1	How would you approach this situation?: friends gives you a girls number (with her permission). She knows who you are but have only spoken once. I got my previous girlfriend this way. I actually had never even spoken to her. I was moving to a new town that she was also looking into moving too. My friend gave me her number with her knowledge. If she knows about it then she at the very least finds you physically attractive/interesting. Unlike giving their number out in person a girl typically doesn't agree to have their info passed by someone to someone else they aren't interested in. Don't ask her out in the first few texts. Try to have s…	/r/seduction	06/12/16 04:38 AM
1	Probably going to be talking to a friend, alone, in the back seat of my car this week. How to pull it off? Yeah, just no	/r/seduction	05/12/16 07:11 AM
3	Refusing to go as friends? I mean don't be a dick about it but there's nothing wrong with saying that you want to go to this event with someone who wants to be more than friends.	/r/seduction	21/11/16 07:04 AM
2	Help with flakey girl. Gone out with her twice. Both had a great time. She seemed genuinely interested. But has flaked multiple times. Two possibilities: You didn't fuck her when she gave you two opportunities. She's not interested in a long term thing and after two times of you not making move she's moved on. She missed work to hang out with you, she's interested and you need to chill the fuck out. People gte busy she's obviously been making time for you so give her some fucking space.	/r/seduction	20/11/16 10:31 AM
1	In a new city, alone - where do I start? The only hash experience i have had ended with me getting unknowingly invited to an orgy... that didnt end so well but highley recommended! The whole thing wqs very sexually charged. At least the group I met	/r/seduction	20/11/16 09:45 AM
2	physical escelation in social circle Yes they are relying on their social circle but they aren't usually hooking up with the girls that are their friends. They are leveraging the fact that girls tend to be friends with other girls and hooking up with those girls. I'm also not a fan of "accidentally" touching someone. More often than not its much more obvious that it wasn't accidental then people think. That waffling isn't attractive, make your intentions clear.	/r/seduction	11/11/16 05:45 PM
1	physical escelation in social circle Its because they are already your friends. For the most part girls do not being surprised by guy friends suddenly trying to be more then friends.	/r/seduction	11/11/16 04:26 PM
1	Can I take what my female friends say at face value or are the being nice? Thank you. This seems like the most likely answer. Do you have any advice on how to convert this interaction? I've always felt that I do fairly well as a wholr socially it's just that I had some very negative experiences dating in middle school and early high school that seem to still be influencing me and are hard to shake deapite the female attention i have recieved since.	/r/seduction	08/11/16 04:50 AM
3	[FR] Kind of confused on what happen the past few days when friend and her friend stayed at my place That seems kinda of like emotional blackmail...	/r/seduction	03/11/16 06:01 AM
1	[FR] Kind of confused on what happen the past few days when friend and her friend stayed at my place Not butthurt just trying to learn from it.	/r/seduction	02/11/16 05:29 PM
1	[FR] Kind of confused on what happen the past few days when friend and her friend stayed at my place We were far past kissing already.	/r/seduction	02/11/16 05:28 PM