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Losing 15kg of fat is easy af. Now gaining 15kg of muscle is not something you can do within a year or maybe even 5 years of consistent work.
/r/seduction27/10/20 12:14 AM
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It's because you don't have enough experience. Once you sleep with a few, you'll realize they have flaws just like everyone. That being said, enjoy it. Falling head over heels for someone is quite a unique feeling and once it's gone, you can't really fall for someone that hard anymore. It's like that feeling when you were a kid and you think the entire world is pixie dust and rainbows. Nope hot girls are selfish and insecure just like you and getting one into bed won't change much.
/r/seduction26/10/20 01:11 PM
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I'd just send her memes and shit. That's what I'm doing to keep the girls I know invested during lockdown. I occasionally do a phone call or play an online game together like (Among Us) just to change things up. There are lots of stuff to do online. I would still try to escalate to such as getting to phone sex or sexting. Usually sending a good photo of yourself can get their thirst going.
/r/seduction24/10/20 10:16 AM
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For these situations, it's usually the person just doing their job. They are paid to be friendly to customers. The only way you can know for sure if by talking to her. You can start by asking a question about a product and then move to a free flowing conversation. I've actually picked up someone who was working at Walmart accidentally since she was on break, but they usually have some time to talk. You can't spend more than 20 minutes with them before they start getting anxious about getting in …
/r/seduction24/10/20 10:11 AM
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Yeah just show up and don't expect too much. She could be uglier than the photo, she could be psycho, you might not have chemistry, etc. Just follow up the morning of the date and confirm that she's still good to go. Lot's of women flake the date of the date especially if it's too long of a wait. Don't overthink.
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:29 PM
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My advise would be to ease into it or at least give him an idea that you are flirting with him. One off lines are overrated. Don't go from 0 to 100 because the guy would be like a deer caught in headlights. I was once working a retail job with a female co-worker. We were stocking something and I said I had to put something under something and she just blurted out "I wouldn't mind being under you." It was so out of the blue that I had no idea how to react so we just ended up talking about a diffe…
/r/seduction23/10/20 03:16 PM
1

Thrown out of your own house? Breh I refuse to believe this.
/r/seduction23/10/20 12:27 PM
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You need to qualify your interest. If some random guy starts talking to you out of nowhere without giving you a reason, you will also think the same thing. Asking open ended questions won't fix this either if you didn't qualify her. This is why a lot of people advise just going direct off the bat since your reason is apparent from the get go. The main difference between direct and indirect is the type of qualification you give the girl before going into a free-flow conversation.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:56 AM
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I'd be more worried about socially being behind than losing your virgin. I was pretty social growing up and it still took me quite some time to really understand the nuances of social interactions with many types of people and building an active social circle whether I was single or not. Most guys are just socially inept because they are too focused on the lay, so when their gf leaves them they have zero prospects and no social circle to facilitate having an active social life that aids in meeti…
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:37 AM
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So if he's paying everything then he probably owns the house, so she can't throw him out of his own house into the streets.
/r/seduction23/10/20 06:29 AM
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That why you get a gj instead and spend virtually zero. Coffee dates don’t cost much and if you get a rich gf it can go the other way around. No comment on the STD?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:35 PM
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10% of your income is not really cheap. I’d imagine they don’t have much quality control in terms of STD either. Also hooker sex tends to be boring af since they just lay there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:22 PM
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I spend about 40 dollars for one hour of sex with a top woman. Now it’s makes sense why people just love going on vacation there. That being said, $40 per week is $2000 per year. That’s not 5% of your income that’s 26%.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 02:08 PM
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So lets say you make 60k-80k per year (relatively well paid job) so you spend $3,000-4,000 per year and you have sex every week meaning you spend $50-$76 per week? You are either miscalculating how much you are spending or your “smoking hot” standard is pretty low because that $70 should get you some trailer trash deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:46 PM
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Most relationships begin with casual sex.
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:08 PM
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Highly doubt that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 01:06 PM
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Sounds expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/20 12:42 PM
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The VAST majority of dates I’ve had in the last few months were from times I gave them my number. So based on what you said, there has to be a unique situation as to why you left them your number. How did these women who were less interested text you back?
/r/seduction22/10/20 01:14 AM
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Well I think valuing your time over the girl is great. She will probably see you are not the type of bs with just from that. One thing I didn't mention is I like spontaneity, but that is only towards myself. I want to have the option. I don't like people being spontaneous with my time, so we definitely have that in common. I personally think that if you are happy with your life, that you should not mess with it. A girl who is too spontaneous for your taste will just mess up with what you got goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:45 AM
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The motivation is what makes it creepy. If your goal is to enhance the conversation or if it's for her own benefit, you have more chance of looking less creepy. Also she has to be attracted to you. Don't make a sexual comment to a girl that is not attracted to you. I once was on a gym date with a girl with DDs. Probably was the second date, but we weren't sexual or anything at the point. I forgot what machine she was on, but her tits just kept getting in the way. I told her if she needed me to w…
/r/seduction21/10/20 01:31 AM
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But that's why I have dates set up days in advance with a booking Yeah a day or two in advance is fine, but any more and they will just flake. If it's a girl who has a history of being reliable, I may schedule a week in advance, but in general, scheduling thing just didn't bring me results. My life is pretty open ended right now which really works for me, maybe once I'm tight on time, I'll like schedules. Right now a spontaneous lifestyle is the dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:14 AM
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Interesting. I get bored really easily, so the unpredictability of having no schedule just works for me. It's also much better when dating new people. Women are very fickle and scheduling anything with them is unreliable, so I just take each day as it is and it always ends up working out since I am more in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 01:04 AM
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Sometimes you can find it from people comment on your look. I asked my female friends and they said the athletic look really suites me. It can also just be something that you really resonate with. I go for the athletic look because I'm very much into bodybuilding, and the active lifestyle so it's a match. Joggers and tight long-sleeve tops with a v-neck look really good on me so that's pretty much signature look around summer. Your "best look" is basically your statement of who you are, so it's …
/r/seduction21/10/20 12:59 AM
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Yeah I don't like schedule anything when it comes to relationships. Scheduled sex, scheduled dining, scheduled Netflix time, etc are all very boring to me. You often times end up doing things you don't want to do and you do it halfheartedly. Eventually the original reason is lost and you just do it out of obligation. Both simply "show up" and eventually you have an extra layer of bureaucracy you'll need to push through. I much prefer to do it spontaneously and track how often it happens and deci…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/20 12:48 AM
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Choose a look and aim to be the best at it. i.e. go for the athletic look so get more muscular, buy sporty clothes that show your body, or go for the cute guy look and look like some male model.
/r/seduction20/10/20 01:16 PM
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Just relax. This is very annoying and confusing to deal with from the guy’s side. If you are just talking then just enjoy the convo instead of getting trapped in your head. Making it awkward will just make him feel like he did something wrong and he’ll pull back.
/r/seduction20/10/20 01:10 PM
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This. I wouldn’t do it regularly, however, from my experience it’s much better to do check ups on a semi-spontaneous basis where you remain attentive and investigate when you see something could possibly be off. Regular check-ups feel less authentic than someone actually asking because they care. Same motives and pretty much the same mechanism but different execution.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/20 12:59 PM
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Dude is just attractive and observant. He just uses cold reading and leading questions to find out the truth. The camera angles also help.
/r/seduction20/10/20 12:17 PM
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The reason engineers have trouble talking with people is because they can’t shut up about being an engineering. People like talking about themselves, so really just make them conversation bout them. That’s really it. Problem solved.
/r/seduction19/10/20 02:54 PM
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Women do what they have to do to survive. They are hyper aware of creepy people and hyper critical because they can easily be taken advantage of. It's not really their fault. Incels are the way they are because they get punished by society whenever they try to assimilate into society, so they decided to give up. This leads to bitterness and whining. Again not their fault either, but it does also stem from insecurity. Unfortunately both of these populations are unaware of their own biases and thu…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 09:56 AM
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Women are naturally insecure because they are the weaker sex. Any guy who shows any ill-will towards them will make them feel less safe, so yes an incel just hating a woman for a being a woman will make her feel insecure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:36 AM
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You know someone is insecure when they need to demean a normal person for being normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/20 06:20 AM
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That’s not how human rapport works. If that was the case, ugly people would not exist since they’ve be evolutionarily weeded out and be unable to procreate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:25 PM
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Lol you are brainwashed. If you are a social outcast, you need to be attractive to get anything. If you are part of a social circle, people will see you as a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:21 PM
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Unless you are genuinely a vile or selfish person, opening up to someone makes the relationship better. I’ve never opened up to a dude and felt good. My female friends and my gfs were all great people to confide in. They were empathetic and were willing to follow it up with financial support or whatever was needed. If the women in your life are shitty then you probably are horrible at filtering people.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:18 PM
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×××× what ways? Tell me. I'm listening. Tell 'em 'all is not so bad' - hold them sobbing ? Tell 'em 'clear your problems!' Lol have you had titties in your face during a long hard day? Just having a titty to lay on while you talk is some damn good emotional support. Women are built for emotional support. They ask you how you feel and make you feel good. Damn you must be missing out if your brain just can’t even think of one example. **** been month in child cancer hospitals and hospice. I know w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:10 PM
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There are ways to get support without being a little bitch lmao. It’s pretty obvious when someone hasn’t been in an intimate relationship. People naturally gravitate towards your self-interest once you establish actual deep rapport and not a transactional Relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 09:02 PM
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Your parents will die. Your friends are only slightly emotionally attached to you. They will all abandon you at some point. The only person you can really rely on is your SO the older you get. The dumbest thing you can do is get one that does not have your best interest at heart. You get old, you lose your looks and now this person knows all the intimate details about you. Yes you’d better be alone if that’s all you can get, but A LOT of people get a woman that can give them all those. It’s not …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 08:58 PM
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Yes, but you will get shitty results. If you are a 10 you'll only get 7s approaching you most of the time. Anyone who doesn't step outside their comfort zone will get less than they could get with proper action.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:40 PM
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I've been with virgins and women with very low n-counts. There is nothing special with being a virgin and a non-virgin. The behavior that is correlated with being a virgin and having low n-count is what matters. I've fucked some virgins that are straight up slutty af and high n count women that have a facade of conservatism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:34 PM
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A woman can't offer a MAN emotional support. Many guys get emotional support from women. There are different ways to offer emotional support. When it comes to the ultimate problems and decisions they all fail and are overhelmed by their emotions. Different brain structure in a female. I'm pretty sure you don't even know what the means. That's outdated scientific thought. Modern studies find no difference in amygdala structure of males and females. Trust - sorry. I do not buy that. Been too often…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:30 PM
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I do and many people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:25 PM
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I supposed some people can compartmentalize their needs and distribute it across friends and family. But you would be with woman you can't trust? Also what happens if your friends find a wife and you lose that companionship? You are stuck with a woman that you despise.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:25 PM
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So what does that mean if I'm male.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:20 PM
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Still waiting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:36 AM
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He has an annoying face as a tiny dude with zero social skills.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 07:33 AM
1

You need all of that and be attracted. If you can get it then improve yourself to the point that you can get what you want. Never settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 06:15 AM
1

So you don’t care about having a partner that has sex with you in addition to giving you emotional support, companionship, trust, financial reciprocity, commitment, and loyalty?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:44 AM
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If thats all you get then you are settling. You need to get sex and everything above to have a legitimate relationship, otherwise you are just being used.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:42 AM
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That’s the reality. Men always try to get in women’s pants even married ones. I know this from experience. I have female best friends I have to constantly check myself to make sure I don’t overstep my bounds and fuck up my friendship. That’s what 99% of men want. Women often befriend males for the benefits they can get from them i.e. connections, clout, money. That’s why I filter heavily for that when trying to make female friends and yes 99% of women are like that. Spoiler 99% of people are shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:40 AM
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This question literally made me lol. I have some indian friends and I think you are confusing punjabi with the general Indian population. Punjabis have more caucasian blood in them which makes their look fit the traditional western taste. Attractive people exist in any race, certain ethnicities just fit people’s constrained taste more than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:36 AM
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Emotional support, companionship, trust, financial reciprocity, commitment, and loyalty. If you are not getting that from a girl you’re dating, you are settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:26 AM
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The incel has a better v taper than chad tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:21 AM
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Can you show us a picture of an average handsome asian man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:18 AM
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I don’t count old people. For all you know their dick doesn’t even work. Old people are also way past the point in life where getting laid matters especially if they already had kids. There’s deeper purposes in life than sex. They concern themselves with other things like leaving a legacy, helping society, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:15 AM
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As horrible as a president he is, being 6’2 with blonde hair/blue eyes and decent face along tons of money/influence, he is far from an incel. He’s just old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:07 AM
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You don’t know whether those guys actually commit or your friends act like they didn’t want them anyways as a defense mechanism. Women auto-reject guys who they think are out of their league. And they do that because they’ve tried dating them in the past with bad results. It’s not complicated. They’ve done studies and women always end up with men with the same attractiveness level. They reason they can’t get more attractive men is because they don’t commit to them. Sex is not commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 05:02 AM
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An attractive girl tends to pick a more attractive man over less attractive men 99% of the time. Visa versa. There is no point in confusing yourself with the 1% scenario. The only confusing part is you don’t know who your competition is or how attractive they are, but 99% of the time the more attractive person is chosen. It’s literally this simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:39 AM
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Yeah but they usually hate the entire race not a contingent of people within the race.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 01:05 AM
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So you specifically hate SE asians and poor white people? You’re a picky racist aren’t you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:54 AM
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Yes women are oppressed. They are physically the weaker gender. That in and of itself is a huge deal. Men also REALLY want you to get in their pants using any method. You can’t walk anywhere without fearing for your safety, you have to watch how your show interest, watch how you dress, etc. Old people and authority figures often betray women when they are younger and they get introduced to the harsh realities of men’s nature at an early age. That being said, everyone has challenges. Oppression-c…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:49 AM
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People so emotional these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:43 AM
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Looks matter 99% of the time. That 1% everyone likes to cite as an anecdotal evidence is functionally meaningless. “Oh yeah looks matter because one time this guy almost died and had a heart attack in front of me who I was otherwise going to reject. He wasn’t my type, but a meteor hit and it spelled his name in the sky, so it made me somewhat consider him a bit, so yeah looks don’t matter teehee.”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:39 AM
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I think you are just unaware of your own bias. Or try to articulate your points better instead of blaming an entire gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/20 12:36 AM
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The issue is that most guys think you have to be a 10 to get a hot girl. That’s not the case, but attraction is still the most important factor. When you say, “as long as he is okay looking,” that shows that looks matter to you. You have your own looks threshold. If someone doesn’t have that they will have to compensate way more to have a quality relationship. An okay looking guy for an attractive girl is well above the average guy’s looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:51 PM
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Nope I like looking good because it resonates with my personality more. I obsess over the shape/proportion of my delts, pecs, tri and lats despite knowing women don’t care as long as I look strong. I have a vision of myself and that matters more to me. If you interview many pro body builders you’ll notice they don’t keep building muscle to attract women. They just like the look and they enjoy the process. Women do the same, they like looking good and they enjoy the process of shopping for clothe…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 06:01 PM
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“Best sex” for a girl is correlated with her attraction to the guy. You could be a sex champion and it wouldn’t mean shit if she is not attracted to you since her pussy will be dry and her flesh will be cold from lack of excitement.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:31 PM
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It’s not just women. Both genders have people that are born to be losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:17 PM
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I don’t know what to do any more. I tried losing weight but no matter how much I diet I just stay fat. So she effectively hasn’t changed anything and is frustrated that she is getting the same results smh. I’d relate to her frustration if she actually did something, but this is just loser mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 05:14 PM
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My opinion is this that looks matter a lot because good genetics is rare and it’s biologically programmed in women to desire attractive men. You can’t get past this requirement in dating. That being said you can’t entirely rely on that either. Most average men only have one thing great about them. Some guys are attractive and thats it. Some guys are great conversationalists and thats it. Some are rich and that’s all they have to show for. So on and so forth. You have to be attractive enough and …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/20 04:58 PM
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Don't shit where you eat. I personally don't pick up girls at work. I only make connections there to help my career. I've had girls outright hit on me and didn't because it's more drama than I wanted. I go to work, do my job, maybe have a beer with work friends and go home.
/r/seduction17/10/20 04:28 AM
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Women usually don't care about your actual age, they care if you look old. They also would care if you are old if it makes them look bad. Most 22+ women don't care about age as long as you look relatively same age as them.
/r/seduction16/10/20 04:51 AM
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Holy shit actual good advice on this sub. I had a similar mindset except my goal was to approach at least on girl in every area i.e. approach one girl in the cafeteria, one girl in the hallways, one girl in the park etc. I also always go for a no (sales tactic) whenever I'm in a conversation. This seriously gets addicting and rejection becomes superficial.
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:23 AM
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That's also a possibility. She was head over heels for me the moment she laid eyes on me. She was giving off one signs of interest after another. It was a weird thing to experience from such an attractive girl. There was definitely some element of luck involved. But looking looking at the other guys, I was definitely better than them looks wise. This girl didn't date much prior to meeting so she was not that picky. But again, her threshold changed quickly. A few months after we broke up, she pos…
/r/seduction15/10/20 08:06 AM
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Second, the bar for "genetic good looks" is much lower than most people think. Some attractive women have some low thresholds, but that's assuming, you are not competing with anyone. You are not only competing with their threshold, you are also competing with the other guys approaching her. Her threshold may be lower RIGHT NOW, but that changes so much and so quickly that tomorrow you may not be within her league. I know this because I remember approaching a 9 who was extremely receptive on her …
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:40 AM
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100%. The thing about looks is that functions pretty much like money. You won't know how important it is until you lose it. All these good looking gurus are oblivious to their own privilege, but hey they get hot girls and they sell their programs to desperate guys who are willing to believe anything for an inch of hope.
/r/seduction15/10/20 06:30 AM
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Being good looking is one but it isn't that big of a factor really. If you're really good looking but really awkward too then you won't do so well. Good looks are the biggest factor. If you are not good looking enough, you don't even get the chance to be awkward. Each girl has their good looks threshold. Unless you meet that threshold, you don't get to play. The better looking you are the larger pool of women you have.
/r/seduction15/10/20 02:08 AM
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It didn't really matter to me what information they give me. I based my evaluation on people on sub-textual signals like how they carried themselves, their fashion sense, how they look, how they speak. After that what matter to me what they did. If I ask them to go out and they either choose to make it difficult or hesitate then that's a cue for me to invest less into the relationship. To sleep with them, I care about whether they have an STD, or if they are psycho. If I am interest in making a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/20 12:52 AM
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Handing out your number is not good when dealing with strangers since every moment you don't engage her after the approach makes her forget about you. The first text is very time-sensitive and women delay a lot. If you can urge her to text you ASAP before they forget who you are and why they like you then it may work. Writing your number on paper is a superficial difference from just giving them your number. It's like scrap-booking. If you like doing it, do it for yourself, but it functionally m…
/r/seduction15/10/20 12:09 AM
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Women tie their worth to their beauty, men tie their worth to what they can provide. Working on your looks is not a bad trait. Obsessing over them to the point that you can't function normally in society. Nowadays it's not just women. It's men and women that get this pressure because there is a lot of benefits from being attractive that go way beyond dating. Career and social-satisfaction are correlated with being better looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/20 08:32 AM
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Five numbers from five girl is not actually five girls. Some of them will stop talking to you. Some of them will text back but won't be interested in going on a date. Some will go on a date, but wont be dtf. You are probably coming off from the high of getting some numbers, but the more you get number, the more you'll realize how meaningless they are. The longer you wait, the worse it gets too. So just text them all back and see what sticks.
/r/seduction13/10/20 03:05 AM
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This is silly. You only need eye contact if you are talking or intend to talk to someone. Looking at everyone and not approaching is the stupidest thing I've heard of.
/r/seduction12/10/20 10:37 PM
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True. The way I look at it is that you have a percentage batting average. Just an example let's say among 7s 50% might turn you down, among 8s, 80% will turn you down, among 9s 95% will turn and among 10s 99.99% will turn you down. It's not really reasonable to expect never to be rejected. And that's just the approach. You'll need enough yeses for you to actually get laid. If you are rejected, it either means you are not approaching enough or you going too high. This is also why working on yours…
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:45 AM
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This is the truth. The post is just telling what guys want to hear. Most of the signals you see are just them being friendly. Women are a lot more forward than men assume. This is why you approach because if you wait for them to show genuine interest you will end up depending on a reddit post to feel better about yourself. Seduction is more logistics than anything else.
/r/seduction12/10/20 12:23 AM
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I'm sure 10 years from now you'll be looking back to today and say "I wish adventures when I was ______" People either look for solutions or they look for excuses.
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:21 AM
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Your take on it is very shallow. It's important to think beyond seduction. It's a common mental strategy by commentators to "assume the premise." If you want to make a funny remark about how everyone hates you, you act like everyone hates you and you continue your bit with that assumption. Obviously not everyone hates you, and everyone knows that but you all have a great time. When talking to women, a very common thing that people do is assume the premise of attraction in order to play the "cock…
/r/seduction11/10/20 04:17 AM
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Talk about your life and what you're legit excited about Not always the case. Especially if you have educational background. I can talk for hours about investing, AI, business concepts, ancient history, but some people just don’t care about that or can’t digest the information. Whoever I talk to I like to ping their interest in a subject before getting into it. Rambling about your personal interest regardless of the other person is not socially sound advice.
/r/seduction10/10/20 03:28 AM
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Step 1: Be Attractive Step 2: Don't be unattractive Step 3: If you can't be attractive, write your salary on a notepad and slap it on your forehead.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/20 08:15 PM
2

They are not completely strangers. I have a phase where we first meet frequently while I establish rapport and I evaluate Them. They are loose acquaintances at the very least. Imagine meeting a guy/girl at a party and exchanging contacts after hitting it off. You guys then get drinks/coffee just to get to know each other more. That can last for a few months until the relationship is stable enough to have intermittent contact once every 6 months where you greet each other like old buddies. I only…
/r/seduction09/10/20 06:41 PM
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She probably likes him just not as much as her top priority guy. My rule for being second batter is to invest very little into the relationship and do not say yes to dates unless she is very adamant about it. I've gotten laid from just keeping in contact with lukewarm girls. There is a huge difference, however, with doing this and being an orbiter. Orbiters invest a lot and get little. The trick here is investing as little as possible i.e. you only text them once every 6 months and don't pay/put…
/r/seduction09/10/20 04:42 AM
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This is a huge generalization on women. It’s highly subjective on the girl and the guy. You’ll be able to tell the farther you go into a relationship. The more your value to her is tied to superficial things the more like this is to he true. This is why you vet the women heavily. I personally never go straight into a relationship. I had several fwbs and among them always appears the one that just gravitates towards a relationship. You’ll see it in the choices she makes. Does she prefer to just f…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:40 PM
2

I’m don’t think fixing car is a analogy since fashion is visual. It’s comparable to accessorizing your car. Let’s say it needs to be repainted. You don’t just repaint it with whatever it’s color was, you repaint it with your favorite color and maybe put some decals on it to express your personality while abiding by aesthetic frameworks. When wearing clothes it’s very important to feel like you are expressing yourself since seduction has a lot to do with projecting a strong vibe. Your look and ho…
/r/seduction06/10/20 03:23 PM
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You need to find a style that represents your personality and looks good. This is what I love about fashion. If you do it right it becomes and extension of you and helps your social expression. For example you can wear fancy well fitting clothes that don’t resonate with you and just have meh confidence, or you can wear something you feel is you, but optimize to be well-fitting, color-matched and up to date with the trends and you’ll find yourself absolutely brimming with energy. Also consider ce…
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:34 AM
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The problem with working in a restaurant is that you barely have enough time to stand around let alone flirt with a customer. If they see you just messing with someone whether you are flirting with them or not, you will look bad since everyone else is busting their ass. My advice would be to quit your job and get a job that let’s you interact with customers freely like a bartender. There is a reason why most male bar tenders tends to be attractive. They get laid easy. You talk to a girl, serve d…
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:24 AM
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Your intuition is correct. If it’s a girl in my class I take it very slow. You don’t need to go direct. There are no advantages to it. The only reason you go direct is so that you get a girl interest and get her contact. This is more applicable to women you most likely won’t see again i.e strangers you meet in public. Going direct for a girl you have regular class with is not necessary.
/r/seduction06/10/20 02:53 AM
4

I’ve had a good amount of experience with approaching women and this is what I know. Men are sold the idea that charisma can male you a better catch. That’s not true because there is social skills and pick up skills. Social skills is something expected of you. You are expected to not he socially retarded and that’s it. You can increase your status by being more socially connected, however, but that is not really pick up. Pick up is picking up strange women. It’s the process of turning a stranger…
/r/seduction05/10/20 04:34 PM
3

For every girl who posts on here, there is a comment like yours. Just saying. It's a cliche at this point.
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:53 PM
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Women have so many options that the decrease in available dating pool virtually means zero to them. If they are in the lower end of the attractiveness they may feel it since they don’t have much options to begin with, but those are a small minority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/20 11:07 PM
1

I really depends on the group. I naturally gravitate towards the 1-2 leaders of the group and keeping them 100% engaged while the rest you can reel in occasionally. They have no actual power in the group so you can mostly ignore them. Almost go for the one with the most power.
/r/seduction04/10/20 08:49 AM
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Memories mean zero. Your emotional attachment to a girl is simply your brain tricking you. You judge a girl by what she does in the present and you move forward with zero regrets. She chose to break up with you, that’s her choice. You putting your energy into ranting and reminiscing about the past is a waste. Put your energy into solving your problems right now. Study why you are being rejected, how, when where and by who. I was in your position and instead of being a cry baby about it I simply …
/r/seduction04/10/20 08:16 AM
1

You have two routes. Accept lord jesus into your life or learn how to masturbate properly. Suicide sucks because most people fail to kill themselves instantly and instead sit there for hours suffering while incapacitated.
/r/seduction04/10/20 01:23 AM
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I love those types of women. They are a ton of fun. That's if they are the funny sarcastic type and not the bitchy bitter type. It leaves room for banter and it also means they are fair game to be roasted a little which makes the interaction way more dynamic mind games. It's like a game of poker. Neither you or her fully commits to showing interest, which keeps both of you at the edge of your seat during the entire dating process. When something happens, it's wild. So many girls make it too easi…
/r/seduction03/10/20 07:04 PM
2

Women on instagram edit their photos. I only actually belief they are that hot if they post a non-filter video. Every girl I’ve seen usually look uglier in the video and perfect in the photo. Women who did some cosmetic surgery also tend to look amazing in photos, but look weird in real life.
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:02 AM
2

I have somewhat of an opposite problem. I get really excited when I meet a new attractive girl. We go on a few dates and have fun and then after I get used to her face I start seeing flaws and I get turned off.
/r/seduction03/10/20 06:00 AM
1

This dude still blog spamming his shitty website.
/r/seduction02/10/20 12:34 AM
2

N count doesn't matter. It's LOOKING like you have high n count that matters. If you go to south east asia and fuck a bunch of prostitutes, you will get a high n count. It won't make a difference. On the other hand you can be attractive and have women swooning over you, but still be a virgin and people will love you. Women like the idea of a guy who can sleep with many women if he wants to, but don't want the reality of a guy actually sleeping with that many women. This is why dudes who brag abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/20 12:32 AM
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This is the only accurate answer here. There is a reason why men today are taller - because women continue to choose taller and taller men thus giving birth to babies that have genes for height. The next generation does the same. If you see certain culture have different body types for men it’s because those were the body types that women found attractive i.e. why Tongans often have huge men because it was desired by women back then due to tribal warfare.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/20 10:18 PM
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I don't like this message. Some chicks are idiots. Some will occasionally date a loser. It doesn't mean you should just be a loser and find a girl who is content with you being a loser. The reason that guy was small with questionable hygiene was because he probably thought he accomplished everything in life. That was me when I had a hot girlfriend, but that shit gets old quick. You get no drive and you become unhappy. You also become dependent on your "hot girlfriend" otherwise people won't resp…
/r/seduction29/09/20 05:34 PM
1

There is a lot of generalization in this post. There are different styles of humor and certain styles are more attractive than others. For example snappy clever humor is a lot more attractive than slapstick. Obscene humor can be seen as tasteless by a girl as opposed to story telling driven humor. There are many ways to inject humor into a conversation. Just because someone manages to be funny doesn’t automatically make them a dancing monkey. Additionally, you always need to switch to being genu…
/r/seduction26/09/20 10:10 PM
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I logged out.
/r/seduction26/09/20 01:44 PM
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I legitimately had sex with a mask on. Try it, it’s kinda kinky.
/r/seduction26/09/20 09:46 AM
2

It’s rooted in American culture. I personally don’t give a fuck what people think. The more people want me to drink the less I want to. If I haven’t drank in a few months sure I’ll get drunk, but I never want to make a habit of it. Alcohol is tied to so many health issues, cancers, heart disease, depression and more. What’s even more stupid is drinking alone like “wine moms” because it makes someone more likely to expose their body to alcohol on a regular basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/20 12:25 AM
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That girl will probably be from a lower socioeconomic background. If you take typical middle class American woman working a job that works a 80k/year job, she will pick the good looking guy who earns 50k per year over the average guy who earns 200k per year.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:32 PM
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Different women value different things. Stop lumping all women into one group. Someone who is from a poor country will value a guy with more money and stability over a good looking guy. If a girl is from middle class she will value status and power over stability and money. A lot of female celebrities that are 9s and 10s want get men with status and power because that’s Hollywood is pretty superficial. If you to look at your typical middle class woman who is not in that industry they will often …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:28 PM
1

I get what you mean when you say there are social issues that need to be addressed, however, any self-improvement whether health, finance, strength or academic is self reflective. You seek to improve yourself. You can't improve yourself if you are too focused on other people. The tragedy is when you give up on yourself because your "team" says so or you need to prove other people wrong. There are no teams, there is no pro-fat or anti-fat. It's you vs reality. You can argue with as many people an…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 09:59 AM
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Obesity is a health issue, not a social issue. That's where the real whooosh is at. Why worry about what people think of your lawn you when your house is on fire. It's illogical. Put out the fire first then worry about your neighbors.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 08:12 AM
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How does it relate to the very real stigma or people being demonized for the weight and the association with junk food saddens me, which in its own makes sense because of Socio-economical structures. Being obese IS bad, it's tied to all sorts of cancers, diabetes, heart disease, increase COVID death rate and more. You can't be healthy if you are obese. Humans are not hired-wired to be obese. Junk food IS bad because it's devoid of micro-nutrients and rich in harmful ingredients. It's also extrem…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 06:27 AM
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You can't gain or maintain weight without eating enough food whether it's Cheetos or anything else to maintain that weight. You can be someone with naturally higher weight due to increased hunger hormones, but it's always the amount of food you eat that causes the weight gain. It's literally impossible to move the weight up without putting something in your body. That's like standing on a weight scale and expecting it to go up for no reason. You always take something that was not on the scale an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 07:27 PM
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Just cancel due to something coming up, but do not reschedule. If she re-initiates through text, just take a long time to respond and we less receptive. Aka do exactly what women do to softly reject someone without making things awkward.
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:15 PM
1

Of course it's possible, but is it worth it. The effort it takes you to make that happen would be better used to just meet newer and hotter girls.
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:12 PM
1

So you added her on snap and are interested in her just like the her 90 other orbiters. None of your commonalities matter, you just wish it is. Make a move. Decide based on how she reacts. If she shows interest, escalate. If she doesn't put in effort, don't put in effort either. What I would do in that situation would be comment about something interesting that happened at the party. "Hey great chatting with you. Btw did you hear Enzo got black out drunk last night?" Whatever you do not message …
/r/seduction20/09/20 07:09 PM
1

This is such a loser mindset. Physical appearance is important. If you look fatter than before, chances are you are unhealthier than before. Your appearance is a direct result of your life choices. Anyone who chooses to look good for women will stop doing so once they get the girl and eventually devolve into a pudgy lump of sadness. Men who choose to look good as a long term goal end up with richer lives that goes beyond getting a girl. Studies have shown attractive people are more successful in…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 05:29 PM
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It really depends on the crowd you hang with. If you were to hang out with high value company executives and wear those overly metro looking clothes they’ll think you’re gay or think you are some designer. If you hang with hollywood socialites who are often in theater or music business, they often have more eclectic clothing styles, rakish will fit right in. Fashion is a tool and you change it accordingly. Knowing what to wear is part of the status signal that you are not some douche who has no …
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:27 AM
2

I guess you're from Earth. Here in Mars it's not unusual for marsianos to date marsianis 10 years younger or more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:03 AM
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I just wanted to say this one of the higher quality posts on here in a while with solid reasoning. Often posts here is some dude who who asked his three friends a loaded question and thinks it can be generalized to the greater population. I think, however, there needs more explanation as to how that ties to TRP. Polygny is not a TRP invention.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 03:58 PM
2

Good data but that data they use are for modern men, which is bound to be closer to 1 to 1 ratio. And they just simulated that data up to 300 generation so it will be skewed towards the training data.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 03:56 PM
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Yup. It's actually that addicting feeling that gets you hooked to cold approaching. You date someone new, you go through that exciting phase then it gets boring. Rinse repeat. The hotter the girl, the better the high. It's the same thing with girls except they like the thought of conquering a high status guy because it makes them feel like their status increases. Then they get this emotional high. This gives you an insight into the feeling you want to trigger in women. You want to make them see …
/r/seduction17/09/20 03:03 PM
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Yup try it. That’s why I’m low key glad when I get early bad approaches. There is state of flow you go into once you’ve warmed up enough and your conversations flow naturally with ZERO AA. For me, the earlier I get a bad approach the sooner I get to that state of flow since I’m force to shut my brain off.
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:29 PM
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Lol that’s actually hilarious. That happened to me a few times before when I accidentally approached an older woman. They tend to be more paranoid. But yeah keep approaching after a bad approach because it really tempers your confidence and everything else after that doesn’t really hurt. If approaches remain stinky, try to keep note of what you are wearing, your posture/positioning and the area. Those are usually the reasons people react that strongly to an approach.
/r/seduction16/09/20 05:11 PM
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This are unsurprising results, but it's good to establish some primary literature on the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 01:45 PM
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Also reading is good if it actually teaches you something. Most of the books on seductions are the exact same. After you read one you are done for the most part and all you have to do is approach. Try new things and do it again. Only thing I ever read was "The Game" and it didn't really teach me anything other than the fact that approaching women is an actual thing. Everything else I had to learn from trial and error and watching in-field videos and making friends with guys who actually approach…
/r/seduction16/09/20 01:42 PM
1

Female strangers(such as a girl you just meet in at a bar or party) Rarely, but it's often very general. i.e. love your shirt. love your pants. hair. You look like a movie star. Someone just pinched my bicep out of nowhere. VERY VERY VERY Rare someone ever say "you are hot" or something like that. Male strangers Rarely, but it is a lot more bro-ish. Looking swolle big guy. Bruh you got gains. shit like that. Some dudes outright say you are good looking bro. Some boomers called me pretty boy whic…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 12:12 PM
1

Some girls have emotional issues and are capable of sexual expression but not emotional expression. When you say cuddle, you are cuddling in your/her private room or just cuddling in public?
/r/seduction16/09/20 09:52 AM
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Yeah just walk around campus and talk to girls on campus. Unless it’s an entire engineering college, you should find some cute girls.
/r/seduction16/09/20 09:48 AM
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She’s not interested. Plain and simple. Go talk to girls in other majors. Im sure you have campus grounds.
/r/seduction16/09/20 07:20 AM
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Lol those are onlyfans strippers of course they will be in an open relationship. I actually have friend in open relationship and it never stays open and a lot of drag to deal with. I’d rather just spin plates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 07:15 AM
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Meh that’s hard to find
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 06:24 AM
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That’s just having an fwb.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:09 AM
0

What about having a new girl every 2 weeks, how do I find a partner who supports that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/20 03:02 AM
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He’s not really talking about what’s best for seduction. He’s talking about what’s best for a meaningful relationship. I’d argue focusing on yourself while being aware of social rules and boundaries actually makes you better at seduction. Seduction is attraction through a stronger frame, you want to move them to your reality. You strengthen your reality by knowing who you are, what you want and how you want to be in life. You are both saying the same thing. Just from a different perspective.
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:41 PM
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OPs post is just so quotable and such a feel good story while tugging at the right amount of common sense that you think it has to be true. Love is not an actual thing, however, most people are attracted to you for the most shallow reason. You building deep rapport, trust and commitment in conjunction with attraction is what a lot of people call love. But the reasons for those staying intact could be for the shallowest of reasons.
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:35 PM
1

Yeah but that’s just the number. Some of those numbers will ghost or just won’t convert to a good convo.
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:42 AM
1

20 dates from 20 approaches? That has to be a typo lol.
/r/seduction15/09/20 09:37 AM
1

Right on. Bro find yourself a nice and supple Puritan girl!
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:34 AM
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Yeah that’s why I’m careful. I grew up with a lot of energy to learn new things so it developed into many different talents. I bragged about them, bragged about girls, bragged about my career, my connections etc. I attracted some superficial people and I wasn’t really aware of my douchebag status so I’ve become more aware of it, but I never not brag about anything. You just have to do it sensibly to add value to the conversation. And you also have to be careful to not make people feel inferior t…
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:31 AM
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Oh yeah breaking a PR is just an example. Being good at art usually has some clout to it and can carry some value in the eyes of the girl. Being proud about anything has value because it shows you have passion even if the girl doesn’t care about the actual thing you are bragging about. I feel like we’re saying the same thing here.
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:26 AM
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Yup in the real world scenario including good, shitty and average conversations. Some guys would claim to have better ratios, but they are usually cherry picking the good convos at that point. How many dates would you get from 20 numbers?
/r/seduction15/09/20 07:22 AM
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Man I’m the opposite. I need to hold back the bragging usually. Just do a lot of great things and you’ll naturally want to talk about them. With that, you’ll find a reason to bring up the fact that yesterday you were able break your bench PR. Also try hanging out with more narcissists.
/r/seduction15/09/20 02:02 AM
2

Usually when a girl talks about marriage there’s already a guy she calls daddy every night (if ya know what I mean).
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:55 AM
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It depends on the girl. Some girls are insecure about that and haven’t been exposed to the world much. Some are fairly experienced and get it’s not a big deal. I remember I dated a girl who looked like I shot her in the heart whenever I talked about my exes. Then she’d get all tense and excuse herself to the balcony. Some girls are fucking freaks and love talking about my past experiences then they ask you to do what you did to them. Just realize what type you are dealing with and adapt.
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:52 AM
1

Gj. Keep wearing brown pants tho.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:52 PM
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Can’t I’m allergic to blog spam.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:47 PM
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Lol this post legit made me laugh out loud. I’ve done more awkward shit than this, but you live and you learn. To give you some context, this is like someone shaking your hand and going, “So would you like to pay cash or credit?” It’s like you skipped a step. Keep approaching and next time at least talk to them first.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:45 PM
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Of course that wall of text has a link at the end.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:35 PM
1

Just google the sunset time for your local area.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:32 PM
2

Says the guy who keeps spamming shitty pick up vids. Simp harder bro.
/r/seduction14/09/20 09:26 PM
2

She isn’t interested. Plain and simple.
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:43 PM
1

Posting here is not going to get your views
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:41 PM
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I don’t think they’d even realize they are blocked unless they call, which women never do. Personally speaking, blocking is too emotionally reactive for me. I’d rather not text them out of indifference rather than hate. I just archive their texts. Don’t delete in case you need some evidence if they #metoo your ass.
/r/seduction14/09/20 02:38 PM
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Oh man never say that. That would have been some cringey convo. I have a feeling you are either really young or really old and should be learning about the basics.
/r/seduction14/09/20 08:01 AM
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...Oh I'm sorry, your answer had a real Karen vibe to it.
/r/seduction14/09/20 07:53 AM
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You are familiar with incels but not the term “lower value males?” Lol okay value means value, low means less. Go figure lmao.
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:49 AM
1

Clean look all the way. The stubble look is so over done. The only great thing about a bear is that it can hide your weak jaw and chin area. Clean shave means you need to have that chiseled jawline to rock it well. Beard makes it easier to distiNguish the neck from the jaw which is why it looks nicer on most people.
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:23 AM
2

It means you have eyes.
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:19 AM
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There’s a lot more demand for higher value males and less women go for lower value males nowadays. So yes there will be fierce competition for the limited amount of attractive guys available.
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:18 AM
2

Okay tod
/r/seduction14/09/20 03:14 AM
1

Ngl you need to gfto of that town asap
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:52 PM
1

Honestly though teen girls are just stupid af. This is why they have legal age at 18. That being said a teen kid who says he fucked a lot of girls in high school are usually mentally a little off and probably padding the shit out of their body count. I didn’t get laid in high school since I usually stuck with the normal kids and I’m thankful.
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:51 PM
1

Most girls you approach will be dismissive. How dismissive they are depends on the area. From my experience more exclusive areas have more receptive girls, the more they get approached by random creeps the meaner they are. Also the closer you resemble creeps, the more they will dismiss you. For example if most of creeps aredressed in denim pants and a hat, if you look the same as them they will dismiss you. For the most part you want to not look like the bottom tier and look like the top tier. B…
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:27 PM
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I try to stay away from boring questions. Like at a pool party I went to. When I arrive (I usually go early), I bs around with everyone guy or girl just to get people warmed up to me. I look for shit to do, drink, bs around with more people and just have fun. When I see a girl I like I just mention something casually “Hey did you try the margarita?” Bla bla. Just plant that seed. I then move on and talk to more people. As the day goes on and the party gets crazier and it gets darker I try to sta…
/r/seduction13/09/20 02:16 PM
2

You just turned 19 so you have lots of time. Most guys get laid through classmates, clubs and friend. You’ll benefit a lot from just getting socially involved (clubs, volunteering, etc) since that can give you an excuse to talk to more people in your community despite it being socially restrictive.
/r/seduction13/09/20 01:58 PM
2

I know some people who temporarily moved to cities for a higher paying jobs and travel home during weekends. It’s doable.
/r/seduction13/09/20 12:59 PM
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I know some people from Iraq and they say it’s not as strict as people assume especially in the cities. So maybe travel to the urbanized district and feel it out.
/r/seduction13/09/20 12:28 PM
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In 210 million matches per week and only 1.5 million of those amount to dates. Based on 2020 stats That’s 0.7% match to actual date rate. So in order to get 1 date on Tinder you will need about 143 matched. That’s fucking crazy and I don’t that amount of time on my hand to talk and bullshit with 143 women just to get one date. That’s fucking ridiculous. For every 20 girls I’d get a number from approaching in person I’d probably get 3-5 dates out of those on average. The Tinder stats I bet is ske…
/r/seduction13/09/20 11:16 AM
1

Seems like she was interested in him. Your story is hard to follow to be honest.
/r/seduction13/09/20 11:01 AM
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Are these song lyrics?
/r/seduction13/09/20 10:58 AM
1

Look at her mother, but also ask about her mother's lifestyle. If the mother looks about her age at 40 years old, but you find out that she works under the sun 24/7 that means her daughter will probably not age if she doesn't expose herself to sun damage. Body type is also genetic because of two reasons. The parents influence their daughter's lifestyle so if they are unhealthy, the daughter will also be unhealthy. Second is the number of fat cells you start with are genetic. People who's parents…
/r/seduction13/09/20 03:33 AM
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In person if someone starts talking about high value and low value I'll make sure to avoid that person permanently. Online it's just free discussion. 90% of the shit I say online I would never say in person.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:27 AM
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Online yes, but online is all bullshit. In real life you can see it's more realistic. That's why you never want to do online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 03:25 AM
1

When she’s not looking, quickly stand on your toes.
/r/seduction13/09/20 01:40 AM
1

Sent you a dm :)
/r/seduction12/09/20 11:11 AM
1

Hey dude harmless fun. If this gives you joy, I’d say keep at it!
/r/seduction12/09/20 09:24 AM
4

This reads like an AI wrote it.
/r/seduction12/09/20 03:46 AM
3

OLD is a waste of time. Approach women in person or meet people in real life and build your social circle from scratch.
/r/seduction11/09/20 12:36 PM
1

Do not take a maybe. This is a mistake a lot of newbies make. If you don’t value your time enough that are willing wait for a maybe date, she won’t value your time either. If she doesn’t value your time. She essentially doesn’t value you. In seduction, anything that is not an enthusiastic yes is a no. This will save you a lot of time and confusion.
/r/seduction11/09/20 12:18 PM
1

Just be yourself because it’s more fun for you is true to a certain degree. If “yourself” is unattractive to the girl, no yin yang bs will make her like you. Additionally, a lot of people’s “true self” is obnoxious and unattractive. You always want to be yourself but also consider the people around you. This is the type of preaching that created Karens. If every guy became himself despite of their surrounding that would be a very annoying social environment. That’s like seeing a bunch of wannabe…
/r/seduction11/09/20 04:44 AM
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There is stigma. It actually can have a lot more stigma than real life stripping because anyone can share a link of your onlyfans to your friends and family. With stripping you can have some deniability. Onlyfans will never be the norm. Even twitch, which is more mainstream never became the norm. There is simply not enough incentive to do it and there are too many other options for women. Again attractive people not just women have MANY MANY options to be successful in life without any of the dr…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 07:18 AM
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Ask her. It's possible her top dude bailed on her and you are her backup.
/r/seduction10/09/20 02:22 AM
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"I like Japanese food" is ambiguous, but a guy with good game can use that to ping for a date at a Japanese place. It doesn't signal interest, but it's an opening for the guy. Men are not psychic.
/r/seduction10/09/20 01:07 AM
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A lot of people can't take care of themselves let alone take care of a dog. If you already have or want a dog, that's fine, but don't just get a dog to pick up chicks. You'll just end up neglecting it if you don't really want it.
/r/seduction10/09/20 01:04 AM
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Chicks dream of being with an attractive virgin dude since the most common stereotype is that virgin guys are slimy and unattractive. You just broke the mold and I'm pretty damn sure she wet herself when you confessed to her. Women dig vulnerability and honesty. She will let you plow that til you get old, so don't even stress just enjoy your time with her. Talk it out, try to engage in foreplay and something fun like get in a bath tub and watch netflix, play a strip game, take body shots, go to …
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:57 AM
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Lmao "It's pretty simple just..." goes on to write the longest list of advice
/r/seduction10/09/20 12:50 AM
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You are getting played hard. You need to go radio silent. Do not read or reply to her messages. Block her on all platform. She already made a choice and you are just letting her abuse you. i feel like these are just accuses to explore what happens with this guy and if it doesn't work out she tries to come back to me i guess , Just some thoughts 100%. My gut says she already slept with him, but she is trying to to see if he will commit. He is keeping in limbo as a backup. You are absolutely getti…
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:11 PM
1

What are you doing step bro?
/r/seduction09/09/20 03:03 PM
1

Yes they are attractive IF you are lean enough to accentuate it. Most guys are over 15%. Most jawlines look best at around 12% body fat.
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:57 PM
1

Holy shit I just googled it and the legal age of consent in Italy is 14 years old?
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:53 PM
3

The top 10% of Onlyfans content creators make 73% of the money, but that is a very small amount of the creators. 90% of the women who use Onlyfans will fail to make over $200 per month.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:46 PM
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RemindMe! 10 years
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:11 PM
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Done! Hehe whoops my bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:09 PM
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Sorry, I edited the curse word out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:06 PM
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The main driver for growth of operators in an industry is the median income. For onlyfans, that's $180 per month. Only women who would fall for that are those who have lower socioeconomic status and don't have any other options aka the same women who become strippers. Stripping has been here since the dawn of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:05 PM
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Onlyfans had 60,000 creators in 2019. There are hundreds of millions of attractive western women in the world. Even if they were to quadruple their content creator base every year they wouldn't even get close to your prediction. Even tinder, which has maximum market penetration, broad appeal and minimal user investment, only has 8 million users and you expect only fans to gain near 100% penetration of attractive women? Onlyfans is a substitute medium for strippers. It's merely consolidating what…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:49 AM
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Think of it like shopping. If you don't like the products, the problem is there's not enough choices so go to other stores. If you can't get into the store you want, the problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:08 AM
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she spends every morning waxing, coloring her hair, shaving, putting on makeup, doing her work out routine, picking healthy meals, finding clothing that accentuates her best, and styling her hair attractively. Who waxes everyday? I thought the point of waxing is so that you don't have to do it everyday. Also you don't color your hair everyday, nor shave everyday. That doesn't really make sense. Additionally, If you need to put on so much make up everyday to be attractive then you are just lying …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:04 AM
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Unfortunately after looking at her posts, her problems may be deeper than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 09:39 AM
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Like drugs, people who turn to these things due to some other deficiency in their life don't do it in moderation.
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:48 AM
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Illusion mostly done with hair and makeup usually when they decide to look especially presentable. Especially if it's posted on instagram. Editing apps like face tune makes it even harder to tell. Most of the time when they are not as dolled up you won't even notice them. Being attractive is also the most visible contribution in a relationship. You don't know what other attributes the guy has. He may highly successful, very funny, or has a huge social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 05:14 AM
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I never said it's easy. I said it's not that hard. Your friend will eventually get a girl. May not be the girl of his dream, but it will be better than staying in one place feeling sorry for himself. Yes a good component of it is luck, but it's not blind. You need to put yourself in a position to get lucky. The probability of you getting a girl is higher when you go out, take care of yourself and socialize. You don't need to get out the house to lose weight. That's what home gyms are for. You do…
/r/seduction09/09/20 05:06 AM
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Give me an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:54 AM
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What you should do: Not get an escort Lose weight and get in shape Work on your social skills Don't use dating app they are crap OR You can get an escort, have no reason to improve yourself and live a long life of failure. Getting laid is not hard if you don't let yourself get so overweight and work on your social game. The fact that you are isolated and not doing anything is messing with your head and making you think you have no other option.
/r/seduction09/09/20 04:44 AM
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Most women I know often date down. Most women you know are either so successful that they can't find a guy who's at the same level or they are overestimating their value. Most women date up because they have more options in men. But yes women have less reason to be in a monogamous relationship today, which, again, is the reason most women date up. There is less reason for them to be with men and they have more options than they want/need.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 04:36 AM
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When I dated chick with big tits, I got into big boobs porn. When I dated an Asian chick I got into asian porn. When I dated a latina chick got into latina porn. Never had a thing for really fit girls with nice asses until I dated a super fit insta model. In my experience, porn is more of an extension of what a guy finds attractive IRL. Without having reality to base it on porn is just not that satisfying.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:22 AM
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Now you are making this about face vs height? You are the type that keeps moving the goal post. You should learn how to argue properly. I won't spend 30 minutes logging in and looking through a database to prove something to someone who can't be convinced.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:12 AM
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No they don't ask women, that's a survey not a study. These studies are evaluated for internal and external validity. When did I say it's personality? You keep trying to straw man this argument I never said it's about personality. Women care about face attractiveness and the lean-look.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:30 AM
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In a vacuum yes more experience equals better partner. In the real-world more experience includes more emotional damage, more trust issues, more bad habits developed, more physical wear and tear, more exposure to STDs, more likely to have bad relationship IQ (reason why they can't hold down a relationship) and more ties with bad people (which is why the past relationships failed). You are ignoring all other variables and just focusing on one. If you are the type who can overlook all of the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:24 AM
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Don't know him.
/r/seduction09/09/20 01:14 AM
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That's not even objective if it's based on your anecdotal experience. When did I reference what women said? It's based on studies that looked at their preference not self-reported data. Also people looking at you don't equal attraction. That means you stand out more in a crowd which is pretty obvious if you are bigger than the median, but it doesn't equal attraction. You are basing this on unreliable information.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:12 AM
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I'll rephrase it then. Most women don't go nuts for the steroids look they don't find the steroids look more attractive. Studies say so. Doesn't make sense from an evolutionary stand point. Women are way more face-oriented than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 12:31 AM
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You dont need to look 26fmmi to be attractive. That doesn’t even make sense from an evolutionary standpoint if that’s the case how did women find men prior to 1935 attractive. They even did a study on this and women picked either the lean guy with reasonably good amount of muscle over the steroid look. The stick thin and dude who looks like he trained for 1-2 year did better than the steroid look.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 11:50 PM
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Lot’s of bluffs and not enough chips on the table. Ask her out and force her to show her cards. She will either allow you to move the relationship forward or she’s just fucking with you. If she can’t give you a time and place, she is toying with you and move on.
/r/seduction08/09/20 11:44 PM
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The body is irrelevant to them unless the face is attractive. Leanest make the body and face look the best. They don't really care about what you bf percent is. Also you can’t get to 26FFMI without steroids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 10:48 PM
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Most good looking men don't use steroids since women mostly care about the face and just being lean. Good looking buff dudes on instagram are not representative of the general good looking men population.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 08:44 AM
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i have a lot prettier girls chasing me but i just dont like their personalities. I feel you. It's a common thing with pretty girls unfortunately. They look nice to look at and they make you look good, but god a lot of them are boring af. I can guarantee you this psycho chick is good in bed. Weigh your options breh.
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:34 AM
1

Shave it and get jacked. Rock the johnny sins look.
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:26 AM
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We'll have to wait and see if his finger gets itchy in 2 weeks.
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:22 AM
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If she's dtf and you really want to get laid why not. I don't get the impression you really want to gf her, however, be warned. I've been with women like that. They are very manipulative. Under no circumstance should you try and stick around after sex or see her regularly. She will ruin your life. As you'v learned, she's already been fucked up by abusive men in the past and she has a lot of emotional baggage that she will transfer to you. She seems to be surrounded by bad people and even her bes…
/r/seduction08/09/20 08:18 AM
1

Super physique as in you are buff with low body or just not fat? Big nose is not that bad, you can always get rhinoplasty.
/r/seduction08/09/20 05:14 AM
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See you’ll be fine. I bet you’ll be as quick when it’s smash time.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:25 AM
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Keep in mind that the reason most people are staring at you is because you are staring at them.
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:05 AM
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See that was pretty clever. How long did that take you?
/r/seduction08/09/20 03:03 AM
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OLD follows the demand. 2010 was the start of hook online hookup culture. Today there seems to be more dissent among the broad public. It’s already happening and you are seeing highly specific OLD either in a specific interest like hinge and slow dating, bumble with a female-centric design, and a bunch of race oriented dating apps. Curious to see if someone can capitalize a dating app for incels/redpillers. That would be pretty hard to get women to use. Maybe an app centered around sending someo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 03:00 AM
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Achievement unlocked: “Oh My God They’re Evolving”
/r/seduction07/09/20 07:39 AM
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This is why I'm totally against escorts especially for virgins. You could have worked on yourself and gotten laid the correct way. Instead you used a crutch and now just realizing what you actually need to work on. Move on from her. Learn to meet more girls. Build a proper social circle and make new friends. Your current group of friends seem lame af. Not gonna lie, based on what you'd written I think you will need to learn a lot of social skills and need to deprogram a lot of bad mentality. It …
/r/seduction05/09/20 10:40 AM
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It's all about what you look like. You can be 60 and look like you are in your 20s or early 30s and noone will bat an eye. If the girl looks too young, then that also would look weird. You also don't want to try so hard to look young that you look like this guy..
/r/seduction05/09/20 10:30 AM
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Age doesn’t matter as much if you attractive. I would date a 50 year old woman the exact same way I’d date a 20 year old if they look like a fitness model.
/r/seduction05/09/20 08:44 AM
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I’ve seen clueless men/women who got way better after they got a gf/bf. Accentuation vs improvement is based on the person’s shortcomings and not the gender. For example lack of social skills exist both in men and women. Getting a partner, the individual receives benefits through partner’s better social skills by being tagged along in social gatherings and meeting their SO’s friends. The only gender-exclusive scenario would be if an individual requires someone physically strong to improve their …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:57 AM
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This is highly relative on the guy. The moment I break up with a girl I’m out trying to hook up with a new chick. It’s much better to act than to sit there and feel bad for yourself. You also forget about the girl so much faster when you are out there figuring out how to get laid with the new girls you met. Women move on faster because they have more options and they are more in demand in the dating market at base level.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:11 AM
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Don’t you guys have showers in the locker room?
/r/seduction05/09/20 02:00 AM
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it’s really no different than any typical date since women tend to depend on you to lead the progression of the daye. Let them vent a bit. Bring up a relatable tangent that is more upbeat and take control of the narrative with a short funny story. People tend to have the emotional memory of a gold fish. Example: H: so yeah someone molested me as a kid. Y: damn that sucks. I feel really bad and thank you for tell me. H: it’s okay. It felt good to vent. Y: (before she can continue on another depre…
/r/seduction04/09/20 07:35 AM
1

Songs emotionally affect people. People make the worst arguments when emotional. It’s the reason people tend to put ip with more BS when it’s someone they like. Cognitive dissonance.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/20 06:48 AM
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You already had sex and you are still talking. It’s just a matter of what type of girl she is. If you want a gf and she just wants a fwb then you are barking up the wrong tree.
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:47 PM
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Walk without your dog and say hi then tell him about your dog problem.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:10 PM
1

Tell her to show bobs and vagene.
/r/seduction03/09/20 05:04 PM
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I have attractive close female friends and I have to remind myself how much more valuable they are as friends because they are not like any of the girls I typically meet. Logically speaking the value I get for being their friend far outweighs the need for physical pleasure, which I can get from any attractive girl. Women with interesting personalities, mutual respect and high self-awareness are far more rare than attractive women. Female friends do require more maintenance than a male friend tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 05:00 PM
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If you’ve been fucking a girl for 5 years the amount of money you’ve saved if that was a prostitute can buy you how ever many marriages you want. You obviously can just say no and get another gf who’s younger and more care-free at that point. Getting a prostitute is never cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 04:16 PM
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Vibe is what really sets it up. You can compliment with the wrong vibe and you’ll end up labeled a creep. Compliment with the correct vibe and you are seen as charming. Validation happens whether you compliment them or not. Just the act of approaching is validation. What I think should understand is how to validate behavior you want to validate. Validate her for just existing? Nope. Validate her for putting effort into something she has passion in? Sure, why not. Validate her for engaging you in…
/r/seduction03/09/20 08:08 AM
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Then that person has no idea how relationships work. I’ve had relationships where the women paid for everything because she was generous and had a better job. The majority are with women who have their own money. When I dated broke younger girls we just went on zero-cost dates like hanging out at the park or just watching movies at home and just fucking most of the time. The belief that girlfriends are the same as prostitutes are propagated by men who haven’t been in a relationship with mutual a…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:39 AM
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That's an expensive ass conversation. Lmao this. Everyone keeps saying having a gf is just the same as a prostitute since you always pay. That’s financially not even close to correct. Paying for every single time you have sex? And you also need to rent a room? These idiots are delusional if they think paying $100 everytime you want to get a handy is worth it and even more for sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 06:30 AM
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120 partners even at age 30 is a lot. I can list the potential problem of someone with too many partners off the top of my head. STDs - More STDs and random shit on their body just from being that physically close with so many people. Each person has their own strain of HPV. Emotional baggage - higher # of partners tend to have BPD. Like you mentioned they are a lot of fun, but that is because there is no emotional stability in your relationship. I’ve been with one who slept with around 20 dudes…
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:23 AM
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Frat events are great, you’ll get some needed experience. Good frats have collab events with sororities that make it easier to meet more girls on campus. I’d join more clubs though if I were you and don’t jump into a relationship right away. Build your social foundation first.
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:49 AM
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Just meet up with her at an initial neutral spot like a coffee shop after work and feel her out. If she keep showing interested ping her interest in switching locations like a bar. Don’t email back just ask her at work in person.
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:45 AM
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As a girl, you just give him chances and see if he takes them. An interested guy will take advantage. If he doesn’t, either he is not interested or the rest of it will be like pulling teeth since both if you are freaking shy af. One person in a relationship needs to have some confidence or it’s just going to be ridiculously drawn out like a korean soap opera where the main characters communicate through eye blink morse code.
/r/seduction03/09/20 02:39 AM
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Yes since I cut it off before I put in any more. I can already tell the following dates would have been all about her. No thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/20 02:25 AM
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Once went on a coffee date with a MILF in a downtown shop. She showed up in sweats and no make up and she complained about her ex-bf the whole time. She also had some mannerism that completely turned me off. All I had to do was say I got something coming up and left. Texted someone else and hung out with them at a different coffee shop. Low commitment first dates are the best. Low effort is not. If she put enough effort in how she looked and tried to be somewhat entertaining I would have given h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 11:05 PM
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More likely scenario: You were talking to them Virginity is brought up You start acting awkward out of nowhere They get weirded out and stop talking to you Not saying it’s the same, but I’ve literally tried to make girls believe I’m a virgin and just to fuck with them and it was just a nice conversation thread for like 5 minutes. It actually helped me transition the convo to sex. It makes zero difference. You are just making yourself awkward.
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:56 AM
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Yeah that’s actually pretty sensible. I feel like raising a kid with a wife/gf just seems like it’s more hectic vs raising one on your own and maybe getting your parents to help you out once in a while. Marrying someone just because you both want kids is a horrible idea. Better to raise one on your own while not being hostage to a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:57 AM
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Big butts, tattoos and piercings, fake tits, too much make-up and long-ass fingernails. You were prolly hanging around the wrong neighborhood because you are describing a hoochie mama.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:44 AM
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What’s accepted in media is not always what’s attractive in reality. There was a preference for thinner women in media back then and there is a preference for thicker women in media today, but men IRL prefer women with good proportions who are neither thin or thick. “Thick” women on social media tend to be fat and just use photo editing and shapers, but look horrible in person. Proportions and healthy muscle muscle mass will always trump being thinner or thicker.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 04:39 AM
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For the time I used dating apps, the only thing that worked was going for a numbers game strategy. I got laid a couple of times through OLD, but damn it was not worth it at all. It's very easy to get into, but it's a fool's trap. A lot of accounts are fake A lot of real accounts are inactive Those that connect fizzle out easily and the conversations are so boring compared to real life conversations where you can see their face when you say a funny joke. Those that don't fizzle out require so man…
/r/seduction01/09/20 09:28 PM
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The two are not mutually exclusive. You can seek to make yourself feel good and make other people feel good at the same time. Anyone who thinks they are approaching women to spread joy is high off his own farts.
/r/seduction01/09/20 07:32 PM
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I had a manwhore phase and women tend to not care or even get curious. People gossiped about me hooking up with such and such and the reputation actually attracted certain types of girls. The annoying thing is once in a while you get a drama queen who tries to stir drama if you pass them up or if they don’t get what they want. I’ve had a lot of women in relationships actively seek me out for some reason. I didn’t dumpster dive, I had the best results with 7+. Ugly women are actually very difficu…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 06:53 PM
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You need to define what “casual sex” is in this context. Are you talking about ONS or sex that was took a few dates was just casual. Also everyone drinks in social situations, for the most part it’s to determine if it’s the alcohol that leads to casual sex or if it’s going on parties that lead to casual sex. Being someone who had casual hookups without drinking but still attending social gatherings, I am more inclined to think that it’s the socializing that has more of an effect to casual sex. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/20 06:03 PM
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An actionable way to get better at sex is to improve your mindplay and foreplay. Mindplay makes her mind excited for sex. Foreplay makes her body excited for sex. If you hype each enough, she’s basically just waiting to blow once sex happens. That being said, some women are just sexually stagnant and will not respond well to sex until you’ve been working on them for a few months.
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:32 AM
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Make your play. Either ask her out or ping her interest to see how she responds. If she doesn’t respond favorably move on. Put her in the back burner for a bit then re-engage if she’s still boring af, find someone else. You are wasting your time at that point.
/r/seduction01/09/20 02:28 AM
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Dating is not a logical process because it’s all built on subtextual communication almost like a poker game where it’s comprised of a series of gradually increasing investments. Dating and relationships have no functional difference in terms of investments so yes dating should be a good predictor. When I first go out with a girl we go on low commitment dates such as coffee dates. She buys hers, I buy mine. Based on how much she is investing into the interaction, I decide whether I invest further…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 11:19 PM
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You are talking about situationally-forced friendzone which is what not what the general meaning of friendzone is. In your situation there is existing attraction, but the situation did not allow your relationship to be consummated. The girl is obviously still willing to make the investment because she was attracted to you, but the first girl had a BF and the second girl has ethical issues. The situation friendzone you, not the girl. The dynamic is completely different when the girl does not inte…
/r/seduction31/08/20 03:56 AM
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To turn to porn while I get nothing for too long, or limp dick and lack of enthusiasm when I try? That's porn addiction at that point is a whole nother can of worms. It's a recent phenomena that could have been due to men being exposed to pornographic images way too early in life. Even masturbation without porn is a thing. Porn didn't rven exist for the vast majority if history. Lol we have ways. Some guys masturbated to food packages that had women on it. Some guys use their imaginations. It's …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:57 AM
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Cold calls are usually made for more lower level stuff like signing up for membership to a site. Some companies still actually do that, its crazy. Point is, the cold caller is the employee, the food truck owner is well, the owner. I think even with the small profit margins, the food truck owner would probably make more than just a single cold caller who is trying to get you to sign up for exploretalent.com or whatever. I'm not sure you understand the different types of industries and how cold-ca…
/r/seduction31/08/20 02:42 AM
2

All men are this way. It's a scientific fact or at a least a very well accepted evolutionary theory. Homo sapiens aka modern humans are biologically wired to spread their seed to as many partners as possible. This is why we produce millions of sperm with low biological investment. Or penises are literally meant cum within a few seconds and then be ready within a few hours again. Only 3% of known lifeforms are monogamous by nature and we are not one of them. Throughout most of human history we ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 02:09 AM
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If she doesn't really want to be friends then that's a reason to leave, not the fact that she isn't interested in touching your PP. Most women who friendzone men don't mean it just like most women who say they have boyfriend just say it get rid of the guy. Are you being purposely dense? Going out on your own is like trying to make money doing cold calling, using friendship with women to give you opportunities with other women is like trying to make money with a food truck. So looks like you don'…
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:58 AM
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ED is prominent in overweight men due to increase in estrogen, it also drives down sex drive. Any guy with high sex drive jacks off to porn because we are biologically wired to be polyamorous. If he is healthy and gets regular boners, this man most likely has the most satisfyingly long bathroom breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:46 AM
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I would neither be with someone who jacks it to porn nor someone who flushes their money down a toilet. So you either want to be with guys with ED, extremely religious men or men who lie to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/20 01:39 AM
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Your biggest assumption is that the girl who wants to friendzone you actually wants to be friends. For the most parts friendzoning is what women assume to be a soft rejection. It is true most guys, especially the ones on here, seem to completely miss how useful female friends are. That being said anyone who values themselves don't just settle for what is given to them, they go for what they want. So if someone wants to be romantically involved with a girl, they don't just accept friendship as a …
/r/seduction31/08/20 01:17 AM
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Looks like I misread your post which is my bad. I thought you were one of those people who say "looks don't matter so there is no point in trying." That being said, I think accurate discussions about looks need to increase and incorrect assumptions about looks need to be dispelled, which can only done when talking about looks. Yes it's very important in dating. Yes you can do something about it. No complaining about it on reddit won't fix anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 05:19 PM
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I get what you mean. Socially adept people know how to calibrate their compliments. For example if all the girl did was put on some make up and dress up pretty nice to your coffee date, it's best to give conservative compliment such as "You look great." You also don't lose composure nor show that you are extremely impressed. You say it mostly to show appreciation for her efforts. If you say "wow you look so hot right now," with your jaw dropping it just makes you look like you haven't been on a …
/r/seduction28/08/20 04:52 PM
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Material items are important to women when when they lack attraction to you. If a girl likes you, anything you do/have automatically becomes attractive. If a girl doesn't like you, you can be a billionaire and it will still barely make the cut. Look up Anfisa and Jorge from 90 day fiance.
/r/seduction28/08/20 04:22 PM
1

I mean they are only hurting themselves them since they get stuck hating their life and affects their relationship with everyone around them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:13 PM
1

Enough is enough. Incessantly repeating the “looks matter” mantra is about as useful as saying the sky is blue. YES. WE. KNOW. No one, and I mean NO ONE, says looks don’t matter. But SO WHAT? What are we supposed to do with that? You are taking it negatively. Should all the non conventionally attractive people in the world just throw themselves in front of a speeding train? You are assuming non attractive people can't do anything. Looks matter needs to die. If you disagree tell me why. You liter…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 04:08 PM
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It’s a free discussion. Looks do matter. It’s a fact. It’s not even a direct assault towards you, yet you take negatively. It’s important to look at fact and evaluate them objectively so you come up with solutions to your problems. The biggest issue is your assumption that someone’s looks are static and cannot be changed. For the majority of the population you can improve your habits, health, and posture to jump up a whole lot. People do it regularly. Some lose weight and look amazing. Some star…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 02:19 PM
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The guy interacted with the purpose of dating you. You don’t want to date him, he said no thank you. Imagine it like a counter offer or pulling a switcharoo, most people won’t accept something that they not intend to get. It’s not just you tho. Men do the same, they just do the switcharoo after sex which tends to be fwb or fling. I personally see no fault in either person. Move on.
/r/seduction28/08/20 03:17 AM
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Biologically this is incorrect. This is isn't even a matter of opinion. It's a matter of fact. Male and female hippocampi and amygdalae are structured differently and grow at different rates which contributes to significant differences in how males and female process emotions. Women respond more emotionally to regular negative stimuli. Men habituate to negative stimuli which, for example, is why nagging is eventually tuned out by men, but the lingering unresolved conflict that caused the nagging…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/20 01:04 AM
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5-10 minute convo is okay. You'd want to stay as long as you want in there and go for an instadate if logistically possible. Unless you don't know how to filter early on during the convo, there is no way your 1-2 minute convos will outperform longer higher quality interactions. If you this how you'd do daygame, you might as well be swiping on tinder. You'd at least be making more use of your time that way instead of walking everywhere to make a minimal impression. Additionally, unless they live …
/r/seduction26/08/20 07:45 PM
1

If you have proper body language, people will just assume you already know her. Also it takes a lot of more effort to be memorable than it is to be easily forgotten. I could literally see someone take a shit in front of me at the mall and I'd forget their face the next week.
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:33 PM
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Nice and clean but 90% of conversation like this are flake, so misleading title. Good play on going for the number instead, but this is far from an optimal conversation. A girl asking for your snap or insta is the new way of saying I have to go, gives you an ego boost so you don't feel rejected, increases her followers and she gets out of there quick. Glad to be proven wrong since I've tried short convos the are just low risk low reward. You have to push through and go for a longer conversation …
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:20 PM
0

You seem like a platonic friend who is misinterpreting her interest.
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:11 PM
2

The most unrelatable part of 40 year old virgin is that a guy working a retail job can afford his own house.
/r/seduction26/08/20 04:06 PM
9

A woman with a penis is man. Straight men who like women with penises, aka men, are not straight men. They are gay men. Gay men who like men is nothing out of the ordinary.
/r/seduction26/08/20 02:26 PM
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I don't think it's TRP alone and it's not just men. Modern dating alone is very friendly to narcissists and people with BPD since someone has to be the abuser and someone needs to be the abusee.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/20 12:33 AM
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Anything that is set up "for socializing" like meetup.com or mixers are complete cringe events mostly composed of low value people you wouldn't want to meet anyways. If you want to go to events you want to go to events centered around a passion, interest or self-improvement. The key to creating a social circle is scouting for socialites. These people love socializing and maintaining contact with people. I have several friends that fit this personality type and all I have to do is to stay close w…
/r/seduction25/08/20 11:52 PM
1

It really depends on who you are. I've seen guys maintain frame and completely ignore shit tests, but if someone else did that it would be incongruent. For me, I like to gauge my response so it can range from 1-4 depending on the motive of their comment. Also don't be an insecure little kid: not EVERYTHING is a shit-test. If a girl pokes fun at you playfully, just have fun with it. The higher your tolerance for "shit" before feeling attacked, the better because that means you are that more secur…
/r/seduction25/08/20 11:00 AM
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That the term natural is overly romanticized. I grew up and was raised around women which makes me feel incredibly comfortable around them and I have an "sixth sense" when it comes to reading what they are thinking, but any guy who spends time in a social environment at any age will essentially achieve this so called "natural" sense in a few years if they don't have any kind of psychological deficiency such as Autism or Asperger's. You are better off spending this time immersing yourself in a so…
/r/seduction25/08/20 10:44 AM
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Lead the conversation. You can't lead the conversation if you don't have a basic framework for how you want the date to go. Usually it's good to start with banter/teasing at first. Notice a few things. Maybe comment on her camera quality, her outfit, her smile, her energy, basically just "read the room." Then go into the key points that you personally care about i.e. her hobbies, past relationship, her etc. Ask a few open ended questions, and tease in between so you don't sound like an interview…
/r/seduction24/08/20 05:26 AM
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That's why it's important to never be 100% invested into a girl. The moment the chase ends, the game ends. She gets bored, but more importantly you get bored. The reason a girl gets busy when you think everything is going in the right direction is because you stopped taking risks. You are too scared to lose her so you take very safe actions. Being extremely predictable, this gets boring quick and the girl starts feeling off. The girl doesn't quite know what's wrong except she know she doesn't fe…
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:00 AM
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Lmao this is the most slippery slope argument I've ever seen. So basically if you do anything to get anything it's prostitution. Oh wait I just SPENT 5 seconds walking to the fridge to get my cereal, coco crunch is a hoe. So everything is prostitution lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/20 12:48 PM
2

Hypergamy is a component of dating, but it is not the only component of dating. There is a huge deal of logistics involved whereas a female will holdout for as long as possible for the best possible mate, but she will pick from those currently within her pool of candidates. This is why women with larger social circles have better mates as opposed to females who have limited social circles, women choose from those she has access to. A lot of men tend to use hypergamy as an excuse to not do anythi…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/20 12:53 PM
2

Yeah be careful taking advice from this sub. You feel lost because you are getting advice without any context. Male pick up theory do not necessarily translate to females. I.e. Everyone is telling you to approach males without considering the social norms associated with being a woman. Whenever you step outside social norms there are benefits and there are drawbacks. Women will have a better idea of what you are going through than a guy on this sub who is most likely more concerned about how to …
/r/seduction22/08/20 12:42 PM
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Even though this a good learning experience for you, you really don’t need to go to this length to get a guy unless the guys approaching you are too low quality. Most women would benefit more from learning how to improve their looks and learning how to filter quality guys than learning how to cold approach. You either young or not socially exposed because once you get a social circle going, they will just keep coming.
/r/seduction22/08/20 09:15 AM
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It's a matter of idiots attracting idiots. A guy who has no self-awareness tries to impress a girl by showing off his BMW he took a mortgage to buy. He thinks men are supposed to pay for dates because that's what men do. The girl who is not really attracted, but like the feeling of being with a dude who seems rich so she can brag to her equally shallow friends about how spoiled she is. The entire relationship so far is built on superficiality. They then keep dating each other and realize it's no…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/20 08:59 PM
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Hah sometimes you dive in there and you need to start using some neck muscles to buy some time.
/r/seduction20/08/20 08:42 PM
0

Your answer was fine. If she was looking for stable relationship, she will pass. If she was okay to play then she will stay engaged.
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:12 PM
2

You gave us zero background info.
/r/seduction20/08/20 03:09 PM
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Work on your foreplay game. Whenever I'm too nervous to get hard, we'd just make out, do some foreplay until I chill out and get hard. Don't make a big deal out of it, they will only care if you do. Maintain the sexual vibe.
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:50 PM
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Certain cultures and subculture have more sexual dimorphism requirements because there is a need for it. For example in relatively safe location-based cultures like BayArea there is not much need for taller bigger males since you all just work in offices anyways. In places like Texas where there is a lot of blue collar "manly" jobs people tend to go for taller males since a small guy can't safely herd cattle or haul sacks. In rap culture where there is a great deal of intra-male competition and …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 02:26 PM
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The term ghosting is overused. I think you mean not continuing a conversation if it’s uninteresting. If the person is being boring or unsatisfying then why invest more time, if they are not showing effort them leave them alone for a while. You can then re-engage whenever you feel like it to see if they are more interesting the second time around. If still not then put them in the back burner. Don’t block/ghost to get a reaction out of someone that just reeks of insecurity and bad vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:43 AM
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Forget about being alpha. Clarify what she means by I need to be alone. Any relationship needs clarity and communication even if she “needs space.” If she can’t give you that she doesn’t respect you. Move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/20 12:39 AM
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It really depends on how you'd define personality. Some people would consider psychological traits and tendencies to be part of a person's personally while some will consider psychological pathology to be anomalies that spoil a person's true personality. If it's the latter than really any personality is compatible with LTR since emotional damage is usually what keeps people from being a girlfriend/boyfriend material.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 04:16 PM
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From my experience, best way to engage with girls at the gym is by happenstance i.e. are you using that?, do you need help with that?, can I work in with you?, etc. My personal fave is just looking at them if they look like they are struggling with something and the conversation will naturally happen from there. There is this one spot at the squat rack that is so weird that women naturally struggle when putting up the bar because you need to lift it and then turn which require some strength and …
/r/seduction19/08/20 03:46 PM
0

N count is a rough estimate of how crazy the person is. If you are proud of having a virgin girlfriend who stands and stares at you every 3AM in the morning, then you need to redo your criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/20 02:29 PM
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This is true for a high value male, but not for a low value male. The reason is because high value males improve themselves at a young age (fitness, finance, health, social skills) so they go on an upward trajectory from age 20 to 40 which peaks when their status and looks is at an all time high since muscle, finance, social skills and clout take time to fully develop. For the average value or low value male, their peak is at 20-25 because they have have shitty habits like binge drinking, lazine…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/20 10:21 AM
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You can make other comments about his hands. Some girls also mentioned “wow your hands are so feminine looking” or they notice A callus or comment on my hands tans then they transition it to hand holding. Women’s obsession with hand holding that they put so much strategy into holding someone’s hand is interesting.
/r/seduction17/08/20 10:07 AM
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The most common tactic girls do is they go "Omg your hands are so huge" then they hold their hand up to mine to compare and then they close it up, bring it down and keep talking while holding my hand. Make sure to do it congruent to your personality. I had one girl literally hold my hand out of nowhere and then she let go and freaked out like she just snorted 10 pounds of catnip. Then went in to get seconds and just giggled. It was pretty adorable.
/r/seduction17/08/20 04:28 AM
1

Classes usually have posting assignments in the discussion posts. Just DM her through the schools app and ask about something she wrote.
/r/seduction17/08/20 04:20 AM
2

It's one thing to have problems and hangs up with sex. But it's another to try and control other people sexual expression because of your hang ups. So why are people like this? Why do they feel the need to control the sexual activities of other consenting adults? I have friends who are on the conservative side and they literally don't give a fuck about anyone else. In contrast, I have friends who literally go to all sorts of raves, go skinny dipping with a bunch people (men and women), throw swi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/20 04:10 AM
1

OP: She asked me where I'm at? What could that possibly mean??!?! Alpha Shifu: You have failed the alpha male test. Go back to square one.
/r/seduction17/08/20 03:48 AM
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Not seeking eye contact is logistically impractical. If you are trying to approach, you need to seek eye contact. If your aim is to socialize, you need to seek eye contact. It's a natural human thing to do when in a social situation. In fact lack of eye contact is a well-known symptom of individuals on the spectrum. If anything you should feel very comfortable seeking eye contact. You should feel good when you look people in the eyes because that is the basic component of creating a connection. …
/r/seduction16/08/20 10:50 AM
2

Making out is communicating through body movement. If you kiss her and she starts moaning and gets closer to you, that’s a green light to push a little bit such as kissing her neck. If she responds well to that you keep going lower to her cleavage. You’ll feel if she starts feeling icky about it like when she verbally or physically prevents you from moving forward. Otherwise you let it naturally escalate, but be very attentive to her body language and take any sign of reluctance as a sign to slo…
/r/seduction15/08/20 04:01 PM
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You gotta hit back when it’s that direct, but always do it in jest. Her: You are dumb You: Well someone has to be the brains in this operation since I am obviously the pretty one.
/r/seduction15/08/20 03:40 PM
1

Well damn that’s lucky. US is ground zero and density is getting worse by the day.
/r/seduction15/08/20 03:18 PM
1

Most of them are actual women. What are you basing this on?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 03:17 PM
0

Different set of principles.
/r/seduction15/08/20 08:33 AM
1

Inner game goes beyond holding your frame, it goes all the way to other things in life. It doesn't matter how long it takes or how painful it is, if you need to do something that needs to be done you do it. That is the meaning of strength for me. I literally have girls begging to meet me, but I'm telling them to wait and simply keeping them hooked through text and phone calls because it's simply not worth it. Again this is a novel virus that shows up once every century with unknown long term com…
/r/seduction15/08/20 08:33 AM
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Just looking at the number is not that useful. Like for example let's say a girl had 7 partners. If she was in her late twenties, and only 2 of those were hookups you can assume that she is not that risky of a girl to be in a relationship with. Now if she had 7 partners at 18 and all of those were drunken hookups, you should start questioning whether entering in a relationship with her is smart. If you're number is too low and you enter into a serious relationship, it may not be the best for you…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 05:51 AM
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It's a great time to work on yourself i.e. improve physique, grooming etc. I'm currently just hitting up people I already know instead of going out and bringing my physique to the next level. People who can't adapt to change are idiots. This shit happens once every hundred years and you can't deal with not getting laid? Is it worth risking being exposed to a novel virus that has unknown short and long term complications? Let's say you do get laid. Then what? You risked death and permanent organ …
/r/seduction15/08/20 05:34 AM
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This is the most American question here on PPD. Next up, do people who own guns cum more than people who don't. Stay tuned.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 05:21 AM
1

Overthinking. If you like her than ask her out, it will become obvious depending on how she responds.
/r/seduction15/08/20 05:19 AM
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Its due to several factors: Most “bad boys” are attractive because they find out they can do anything. Human nature takes over and they become douchebags. Women are biologically attracted to physical and behavioral dominance. This is why tall and muscular men are attractive and this is often associated with behavioral aggression. If you don’t look dominant, acting dominant can make you look more attractive. Of course this risk you getting your ass beat by an actual dominant male. Girls don’t lik…
/r/seduction15/08/20 04:25 AM
1

If you define “actual woman” as the average girl, you won’t find too many of them in any streaming porn site unless it’s revenge porn. The closest to an average girl porns sites have are the cam girl website and most of those women are strippers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/20 04:12 AM
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There is not secret plan for anything. Most of everything that happens in the world is by and large by accident. The fact that porn is more widespread if caused by the sudden availability of high speed internet, smart phones with cameras, and invention of cam girl business model. There has always been strippers and prostitutes and there has always been a demand for this sort of thing and it's just a new method of doing something that's been done thousands of years before just with new technology…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/20 04:26 PM
2

Depends, if I invite her out I treat her to at least one round and close the tab right away. If it's a coffee date I arrive early and order mine so she pays for her own. It's the same etiquette whether a guy or a girl tbh. Don't treat her differently just because she's a woman.
/r/seduction13/08/20 10:10 AM
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I wouldn't say it helped me develop more empathy but more like I save myself effort since I know who's mostly bsing lol. It helped me become hyper aware of body language and how they word replies. Yeah you legitimately sounds like someone suffering from PTSD. If you have flashbacks, I suggest you see a therapists because it can get worse. I have a friend who got sexually assaulted when she was a teen and she just blacks out.
/r/seduction13/08/20 09:55 AM
1

Actually studies that research basic concepts may seem stupid, but they are the cornerstone for later more important research. You have to understand the correlational and causal relationships of the basic components before you can move forward and establish further links to more advanced concepts. For example getting data on why guys prefer girls with hair over girls with no hair may seem common sense, but being able to have data on the variables governing the mechanism of choosing what's attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 01:35 AM
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That makes sense, and social media stalking is also horrible. Yup this experience actually made me better at understanding female psychology. Mind you, this was a small chick half my height and it still made me somewhat uncomfortable especially when she showed up out of nowhere when I was on campus. Must be way scarier for women.
/r/seduction13/08/20 01:28 AM
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Well I guess I'm also biased. Most of my experiences with women who prefer social media was bad. They were difficult, weird and awkward. I even had one that ended up stalking my FB. When I just went exclusive with women who trusted me with their number, the quality of my dates went up. I believe some degree of trust is needed to make any relationship work.
/r/seduction13/08/20 01:11 AM
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Emotional health, financial habits, psychological health, how much a girl genuinely cares about me and chemistry are more important than whether she has sex with me or not. There are other ways to show intimacy. It just so happens that women who tend to fall back on withholding sex before marriage have failed in relationships due to deeper reasons. I've dated girls who say they don't do blowjobs unless they are in a relationship. Something like that is obviously a manipulative tactic to gain lev…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/20 12:52 AM
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That's fine. If the woman doesn't trust me to not stalk her then she shouldn't give me her number. My experience, lots of women don't care since they hand out numbers like candy and the likeliness of someone stalking you through your number is really low. If someone cares that much, they would just look at the girls social media posts and find out where she hangs out 90% of the time.
/r/seduction13/08/20 12:37 AM
2

Just find a spot, hype it up by connecting it to something she mentioned in your previous convo, and depending on her reaction to that it will be obvious if she is just waiting for you to set the time and date.
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:27 PM
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Always aim for numbers. Women collect snapchat and insta followers like nobody's business because it helps them build clout. If you can't convince her to do such a small thing, you won't convince her to do anything else.
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:21 PM
2

"Women by penises" and "men with vaginas" lol
/r/seduction12/08/20 10:02 PM
1

In fantasy land or irl? Because I cant think of anything worse than an awkward dinner date with someone I dont care for. No it happens quite often. Women love to be wined and dined. Many might not think they are going for the meal but for the experience. I have a friend who does this and admits to it. She keeps getting invited to expensive dinners, all expenses trip paid to travel, free accommodation, etc. without doing anything but sprinkling a bit of flirtation and men keep on going because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/20 11:58 AM
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Actually it is absolutely a social construct and I know this because I did some undergrad research on this. Culturally for example, wearing a dress is considered manly in Scotland. In the US, being comfortable with homosexual innuendos shows that you are confident in your manliness, but you can't do that in Asian countries. Even within the same culture, manliness varies between sub-cultural silos. Among police and soldiers for example, manliness is the very reason the suicide rate is extremely h…
/r/seduction11/08/20 08:24 PM
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Like you mentioned the biggest problem with being a "real man" is that is completely different from one person to the next, so the label itself just makes it ambiguous. Just have your own principles and abide by them. It may seem insignificant difference but when it comes to self-reflective principles, it is better to keep principles defined in your head so that you are are less susceptible to cognitive dissonance and manipulation. Basically, the more defined your principles are, the more sure y…
/r/seduction11/08/20 11:44 AM
1

Neckbeard types don't really contribute much. They may develop mods for games but really seems about it. Lol so accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 11:17 AM
1

When was standing on two feet even an issue? Also when was being a warrior even relevant? I thought this was just about choosing how friendly you are to people.
/r/seduction11/08/20 05:39 AM
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A [GOOD PERSON] shows [RESPECT] to everybody. Don't be a community chest, just be who you are. I personally don't care if people think I'm a "real man." The whole real man ideology is cheesy af. There is no such thing as a real man, just people who use it to get men to do what they want to them to do. GIRL: Real men pay for their dates MEN: Oh okay hurrr durr I'm a real man better shell out 100 bucks for her then. Just be the type of person you can be proud of. That's it.
/r/seduction11/08/20 03:54 AM
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MM is really outdated. Women cruise through it the same way you would cruise through conversation with a beggar in the parking lot with a story about how his son has cancer and why he needs your 1 dollar so that he can save the world. Women can smell it a mile away and what most likely happened here is they were just attracted to you or were in a really talkative mood so they didn't mind. Also just go for a number or tell them you'll see them around. Never try to set up a complicated future meet…
/r/seduction10/08/20 11:29 PM
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The men obsessed with two-dimensional characteristics of women are the same as the women who put overly-specific requirements for men on dating apps. That being said, personality preference is a real thing. If a guy with a strong personality prefers an agreeable woman that is simply his preference. It's fine to be who you want personality-wise to be but the world doesn't owe you anything. Women are free to be as domineering, opinionated, dominant, etc as they want to be, but don't expect the dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 11:14 PM
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I wouldn't pay much attention to that. High value males are real people with real standards. As long as you have your principles and you pick your partners based on those, you are golden. However, I would stop hard rejecting women and start soft rejecting them. Soft rejection means is you keep them in your social circle, but you just rule them out as a potential partners. For example, the 7.5 was worth a hard reject because you don't really want to be around questionable people, however, the soc…
/r/seduction10/08/20 08:18 AM
1

Just meet her as if she is another friend. Don't stress too much. Don't think of it as a date since it's most not. It's probably going to be the three of you hanging out.
/r/seduction10/08/20 08:02 AM
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That's a great lesson for the girl in blue.
/r/seduction10/08/20 07:54 AM
1

No guy enjoys spending majority of his fortune on a wedding lmao.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/20 04:09 AM
4

If you find your interactions boring then that means you need to go for hotter girls.
/r/seduction10/08/20 01:19 AM
1

So value to women and society? You mentioned the list yourself, the men help protect society and women. If a village only had women, they’ll get raided and raped easily. I think it’s more that the value of men is reduced the more men there are. That’s the same for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:47 PM
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Incel-esque and fds-esque content need to both be controlled because the topics are repetitive and the users who post them are literally brainwashed. There really is no discussion because they are so close-minded despite putting CMV in their title. I don’t think they should be outright banned because if someone who does not belong to either community posts a similar question during a sensitive time in their life PPD can be a valuable source of knowledge to help them from falling into the FDS/Inc…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 05:40 PM
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People are confused by this because this is both a logistics and an attraction problem. First you need to meet women. If you don't meet women it doesn’t matter how attractive you are. If you meet women but are not attractive, you will have to meet so many women just to get anything. The trick is to maximize both. Most kids lack attractiveness and lack the logistical knowledge to propel relationship from point a to point b. So the solution is simply to socialize more and improve yourself more. It…
/r/seduction08/08/20 09:26 PM
11

Befriend her. Connections are very important in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 09:17 PM
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Quality over quantity, dont know why people want a body count. Maybe its a persons way of filling an abyss that they couldn't in their everyday life, a feeling of being unfulfilled. I'm always amazed guys brag about laying a lot of women while I stare at their date that looks like she was plucked straight out of a trailer park. Bragging about your body count is tacky af and is mostly done by men who have deep seated insecurity issues. High value males actually try to hide their body count becaus…
/r/seduction08/08/20 06:21 PM
1

Your profile does most of the heavy lifting here. You got some clout, good fashion and talent. If some dude with a blurry picture of his face in bad lighting did the same, it won't do anything.
/r/seduction07/08/20 04:43 AM
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One of my most memorable hook ups was with this 35 year old Asian chick who had a gorgeous fucking flat in Bay Area. She paid for my train, treated me to an entire day of eating out and fucking. Her shower had 10 million shower heads and I felt like I was being massaged by cherubs who just dipped their hands in moisturizing serum for 10 years. The view of the city was magnificent from her apartment's panoramic window while I was railing her from behind. She also had an IUD so I was able to nut i…
/r/seduction07/08/20 01:09 AM
1

I want to try to ask her out when i see her because i feel like if i don’t i might never get the chance to again...How should i go about asking her out or separating her from the rest of the group to talk to her? That's pretty ballsy, go for it. Depends on the party, usually the outdoor area is the best place to do this. What I usually do is invite the girl and the people we are in a conversation with to play a game or do something fun where you can separate from the crowd. After a round or two,…
/r/seduction07/08/20 12:57 AM
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I mean whenever I've been invited out by family I don't really want to spend time with them, but they treat me so I go anyways. I'd imagine it's that. I think it's men's responsibility to be better at recognizing when women are simply taking advantage of them for the money as opposed to hoping women will magically change.
/r/MensRights07/08/20 12:00 AM
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The fact that you are having doubt is because it doesn't work with your current principles. I never have and never will pay or sex because it goes against what I stand for. Also it's just a horrible deal. Driving all the way to a state where prostitution is legal and then paying for the hotel, paying for the girl, risking getting an std from a sex worker, hanging around questionable individuals, etc. Not to mention you don't learn anything, you have sex, but learned absolutely nothing. Instead o…
/r/seduction06/08/20 11:55 PM
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The best way to understand how a woman gets horny is imagine being able to have sex except you may get killed, have something implanted inside of you for 9 months or you can be considered not as cool once you do it. Also imagine women being this huge hulking beast that make you feel like they can just hurt you whenever they want to. At that point the instant gratification of sex becomes less enticing. Guys are horny and dtf because there is not much drawbacks to it once you put on a condom. It’s…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:57 PM
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If you let your fears control you, you’ll be living like this the rest of your life. You’ll need to do something at some point. Just don’t have expectations and focus on making sure everyone has fun at the place.
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:36 PM
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It could literally be anything at this point. Just go back act like nothing happened and just have casual convo. See if you can meet her on her break just a quick chat not a date. If she still doesn’t agree then she is definitely not interested and wants to make it clear by blocking any further advances.
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:30 PM
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This girl is really pretty and so is her friend, I just can’t imagine me hanging out with 2 really pretty females going good. Lol wut. Just go, it’s just the arcade stop overthinking.
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:14 PM
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Sounds like an anime move.
/r/seduction06/08/20 09:12 PM
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I think the problem is two extremes: never approach a woman and the camp that says you should never stop pursuing a woman. I do agree that approaching women is totally normal, but if they explicitly say to leave them alone the just do so. Plenty of fish in the sea.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 08:59 PM
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If it’s a stranger and she says leave her alone just leave her alone and find another girl. A girl saying “leave me alone” is a HUGE sign that she is not interested. What, you are going to think her facing slightly to the east is a clearer sign than her saying “leave me alone.” You gotta joking me. There are so many non-complicated girls out there. That’s like going to an apple field and going for that one apple guarded by dogs surrounded by barbed wires while there are 100 apples hanging right …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 10:54 AM
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I mean, yeah, if you listen to what feminists say, it is. "Just leave me alone I'm not interested" well than it's not nice to approach you, is it? But the asshole doesn't care. He'll do it anyways. And he'll get rewarded for it. Lol that is definitely not how you confidently flirt with a girl. If a woman says leave her alone she is not interested, she definitely not interested. No amount of pushing will make it change. You are confusing being bold and assertive with being dumb. A better example …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/20 03:59 AM
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Yup a lot of the really attractive women I've dated are the ones have had under 5 at times. They are also so much more social adapted and great at communicating. They also have waaaaaay less drama and emotional baggage and so they don't make you pay for the shit some other guy did to them. The approach was also often very smooth. They don't shit test as much from my experience they either give you a chance or they just ignore you politely. Attractive women are just so much better ngl. It's the a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 10:25 PM
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Not nerds necessarily and I even use the term weeb loosely. They are just people who have been caught up in the sudden change in social dynamics and they have no idea on how to adapt. Like one of them is now a business owner and another is about to be a doctor and they both incapable of finding a girl. I've tried to help them but it's just like trying to make a fat person lose weight, you can't force them to do the right thing. They have to help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 10:20 PM
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Don't get me wrong they are great people, they are just not the type you want to be around often. I hang out with them probably once every 5 years and I feel drained every time I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 09:38 PM
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You will want to pre-screen guys earlier in the dating process to see what they are looking for and end it if they show signs they are not looking for anything serious. You can't get a guy to commit, they either do or they don't. Women have the advantage of having a lot of choices early on so don't start dating a dude until your early pre-screening questions pass the test. You will have to create these pre-screen question yourself. Wording it a certain way will make it clearer. Stuff like their …
/r/seduction05/08/20 07:57 PM
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Your legs look fine. The most common reason people stare are you is because you were staring at them.
/r/seduction05/08/20 07:50 PM
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Yes there is a divide. I literally have opposing friend groups that are virgins and chads that get laid easily. There difference between the two groups is due to their, most importantly, attractiveness, social skills, exposure to women, and mentality. My virgin friend groups just plays game all day and doesn't get involved socially, they have zero social skills and are awkward af. I've just known them since a kid which is why I still hang out with them, otherwise I would not give them a fucking …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:29 PM
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Yeah that works, but just saying "Hey let's ____" also works. There is no magic spell. This and your version just has more energy behind the delivery and it looks like she doesn't have to do anything but show up. Saying "do you want to go to blank?" reeks of uncertainty and neediness which is why anything else works in comparison. Something like "Hey I'll cook you are meal," or "I found this awesome blank at the blank, you should come with me," or "I just found the best fucking place that will m…
/r/seduction05/08/20 07:18 PM
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They either say yes or they are lying. You don't believe me? What percentage of men who suddenly became successful break up with their wives/gfs and hook up with some new chick. Obviously they will say it's because the relationship fell apart, but really they started seeing women they previously thought unattainable started showing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/20 07:42 AM
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We were arguing about fiction books from a literature standpoint as in fiction books and then you switch the interpretation into something else. What the actual fuck lmao. That's like saying saying "I like orange" and then eventually saying "Oh I meant I LIKED an orange picture on facebook, I don't actually like it." You are oblivious to your own faults and you don't even see it. How tragic. I'm done here.
/r/seduction03/08/20 11:35 PM
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Are you serious? Again it seems like you should have read more, I never said fiction books were the only or even most important way to learn about a culture. You wrote this just 2 minutes ago. delusional - Someone who thinks it's possible to write a history book without any fiction. You just said literally moments ago that someone who thinks it's possible to write a history book without any fiction IS DELUSIONAL. You just said you said right here that you can't write a fiction book without ficti…
/r/seduction03/08/20 11:18 PM
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delusional - Someone who thinks it's possible to write a history book without any fiction. Oh shit I guess you can't write about ancient human history since they didn't write fiction books back then. Fuck archaeological fossils, physical evidence. Oh shit how can we decipher the culture of humans without fiction books. If only there were clothing, tools, biological remains, and geographical clues that could help us write history. "I was just pretending to be retarded." Doubt it. Blake is taught …
/r/seduction03/08/20 11:05 PM
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Your problem is not confidence it's authenticity. You can also call that the player vibe. This why it's sometimes good to induce some awkwardness in a conversation because it makes it feel more authentic and some girls find it cute. It worked out for the girl last time because you were genuinely in the moment when you were talking to her. Just remember that if you are not feeling the spark, they are probably not feeling it too. I would also try to stick around a bit longer if I were you 2-3 minu…
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:43 PM
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You are delusional, you've never read a history book. You should read a dictionary. Might want to look up the word "delusional." What fiction books are you reading that take 100+ hours lmao, how slow a reader are you. Imagine being a proponent for literature and completely wooshing on hyperbole. I also think it's funny your example of a fiction book is LOTR, have you heard of harry potter too? In all your literature classes that you've definitely taken. Lol again a literature proponent and doesn…
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:23 PM
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History books are full of fiction "lmao" Then you are reading the wrong history books. Fiction books are a window into the culture of a time period that is almost impossible to find anywhere else, that's why they are studied in college if you study history, alongside scholarly works, both serve different purposes. I took a great deal of literature classes in college and it's the biggest waste of time. It's just a bunch of kids pretending to understand what some dude 200 years ago meant. Meanwhil…
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:04 PM
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I’m not afraid to call guys my age out for it. I once pretended to be waiter, and asked a guy “if his niece wants a happy meal”. I don’t give a f....quit being a perv, if you don’t want me visiting your table! :)) Sounds like someone's jelly
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 09:50 PM
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Fiction books are a part of the combined knowledge of humanity through all of history, by deeming them "useless" you are cutting yourself off from a large part of that knowledge and deeming access to it a "waste of time" They have books for that. They are called history books lmao. Fictions books actually make it harder to get an accurate accounts of what happened in history because they are filled with bs. For the majority of history, fiction has primarily been used to indoctrinate people. Only…
/r/seduction03/08/20 09:16 PM
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Lol dude you said all fictions books are the "combined knowledge of all humanity." Do you realize how stupid that statement is? You're telling me Lord of the Rings is more important to humanity than literature associated with understanding how atoms function in the known universe? You have to be high of your own farts if you believe that statement.
/r/seduction03/08/20 09:01 PM
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If you guys didn't kiss or didn't do anything overtly intimate I wouldn't even worry about it. I have girls like this and I just keep them as connections so they might introduce me to other people. Just hit her up once in a while have a platonic coffee every few months and she will serve as a valuable asset in expanding your social circle. It's not all about getting laid right off the bat, you should play the long game.
/r/seduction03/08/20 08:46 PM
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Have you ever considered that maybe they just don't like you that much lol. For me picking up girls together is only something I do with my bestest buddies. I once picked up girls with work friends and they literally descended on the girls I initiated like a pack of hyenas.
/r/seduction03/08/20 08:44 PM
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My point is no book will help you get laid. These books are all personal picks by whoever put them together and people are willing to spend 100+ whatever hours based on some strangers recommendations when they could be spending that time working on actual life skills. Most of you are just book nerds cosplaying as the character in the books you are reading. Even more, I find it funny how triggered you are because I indirectly trashed whichever fiction book it is on this list that you worship. I'm…
/r/seduction03/08/20 08:39 PM
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Reading fiction is a hobby. It won't further your seduction knowledge in any way. Not to mention fiction books are not the "combined knowledge of all humanity" lmao.
/r/seduction03/08/20 07:44 PM
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Both should be open about how much debt they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 02:29 PM
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A lot of these books are a waste of time unless you are 15 yo and have no idea how the basic of the world work. Rich dad poor dad is the most overrated book on cliche financial advice. Also treated like the bible by people in MLMs. All the fictions books are pure waste of time. Read it if you want I’m sure they are well written, but it’s not a must just because you are a guy. Most people will have no idea how to use Art of War in life other than be an arm chair general.
/r/seduction03/08/20 10:08 AM
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Yeah and everyone seem to gloss over the fact that the documents revealed Bill Clinton was in his island too.
/r/MensRights03/08/20 09:04 AM
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And no, I am not some 10/10 good looking man, had almost no money to my name during college or was some smooth talker. Yup in the real world it's more different than TRP theory. Most people end up with the best guy in their social circle and the one that pulls the trigger. Most people have fairly small social circles. More successful men/women have wider and higher quality social circles and thus have a better pool to choose from thus getting better looking partners. Men who are able to get attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 11:39 PM
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Things that made it click: No one gives a fuck. People are 99% more likely to care than not care, so just do your thing. You are the one that cares the most, so stick to your own principles and make yourself proud. We will all die anyways. You can be the greatest guy in the world or the most hated man in the world, we will all go into the ground and none of this will matte. So yeah just enjoy yourself and live by your principles so you can live proud. We are all equal. People who try to oppress …
/r/seduction02/08/20 04:31 PM
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People here seem to confuse women moving on during the dating dance and moving on from a relationship. Detachment during dating is due to options and lack of escalation, detachment in relationship is due to lack of communication.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/20 02:57 AM
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Getting married to a budding feminist or Karen.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/20 09:40 PM
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Yeah I would make sure you complete your PhD program if I were you. That shit is expensive and there is more to life than getting laid.
/r/seduction01/08/20 09:32 PM
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Sure thing once we go out I'll be like "holup I gotta do something real quick."
/r/seduction01/08/20 05:16 AM
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It could and that’s fine. But then again, I literally talk to them regularly and I’ve been hyping up these dates like it’s the second coming of Jesus so they most likely wouldn’t want to miss it.
/r/seduction01/08/20 03:02 AM
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People need to be taught the basic logical fallacies in high school or something. Arguing about one thing and then straw manning someone just so they could validate some tangentially related topic is the most insane thing 90% of people do.
/r/MensRights31/07/20 10:30 PM
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How women show interest is very funny since they think something like "Looking at your lips" is a HUGE sign and if you don't do something it means you reject them. She feels rejected and you acting all awkward is probably making it worse. Just act normal next time you are around her and you may have another shot at it.
/r/seduction31/07/20 10:26 PM
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Only thing that can fix it is experience. Other than that, having good intentions and staying in the moment can get rid of anxiety. The anxiety comes from you secretly wanting something from her aka you are hiding the fact that you are attracted to her, so by ensuring you have no ill-intention will make you feel a bit more natural.
/r/seduction31/07/20 10:23 PM
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The thing about virginity is that it's not a deal breaker for a lot of women. In fact some prefer guys who are not as experienced. Women want the confidence of a guy who gets laid a lot, but they don't like the notches on his belt. It's like being attracted to a badass superhero, but not liking the fact that he kills people. It's seriously not a big deal. You can tell them outright if it comes up or later on, most women won't care. When around guys or groups, it's a different story since people …
/r/seduction31/07/20 10:06 PM
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My advice would be to yell “I win!” after you jizz to assert dominance.
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:41 PM
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Lol I like how look at dating like pokemon. Indian dude hits on asian girl. ...It’s super effective Indian dudes hits on tanned white girl. ...It had no effect. White girl got away.
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:30 PM
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Lol it took her six months? What a scrub.
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:23 PM
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Exactly this. And also hit up past social connections. Women right now are going insane dying for ANY kind of social interaction. I already have three dates set up once the COVID situation resolves itself. And it’s all because I went through my old texts and hit people up. I personally don’t think it’s smart to do cold approach right now. I’d rather not get laid for a year than get some unknown virus with possible long term effects.
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:20 PM
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The likeliness of you meeting a girl like Kylie is highly unlikely. She is not just attractive but a billionaire. You won’t meet someone like her nor even have a shot. Girls like her are hidden behind highly exclusive social circles and you need to not just be attractive but highly successful. The the attractive girls you will meet are the ones with a 9-5 job, going to college and have a small group of friends & family that make her happy. She will have an exploration phase, a few flings and a f…
/r/seduction31/07/20 05:14 PM
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I’m going to be honest it will get worse before it get’s better for you. A lot of the women saying it doesn’t matter are older women. I’m 6’2 and the younger the girl I date the more superficial they are tbh. I have dated tiny girls who say couldn’t date smaller guys. I’ve dated a girl who is as tall as me and she said she learned to not care about height. It’s highly relative and it’s honestly dependent in how make a first impression on the girl and height contributes to that first impression. …
/r/seduction31/07/20 04:17 PM
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I care about whether he is measuring his BF% correctly. When did I give advice?
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:48 PM
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No thanks.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:32 PM
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This is how you measure if you are actually progressing in fat loss goals. Monitoring how prominent your abs are is a common and quick way for people in the fitness community to judge just how lean their are.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:22 PM
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13% bf means you pretty much have a six pack or at least a 4 pack. So you do you actually have a 4 pack at least? Most people underestimate their body fat.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 09:02 PM
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Nope. A test implies he wants something from her, which is absolutely not the case.
/r/askTRP30/07/20 08:59 PM
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A lot of these things are people trying to attribute people not liking them as a person to something other than them being unlikeable. "Oh shit, people don't like me! It's probably because I'm too discplined/successful/smart not because I'm just not likeable."
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:55 PM
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Also I know men too can suffer from someone turning them down purely based on weight. However, I think it’s safe to say women suffer from this far more. Not really/ You should see just how much leeway an overweight woman has when she uses body shapers, makeup, hair style and uses online dating. Body shapers turn something that otherwise would have been unattractive into something more attractive by moving their leg fat up as their butt for example. There are also pushup bras that move belly fat …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 08:49 PM
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There’s also a matter of attractive people turning into assholes. It’s the attractiveness that made them popular, the asshole behavior followed after.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:34 PM
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If someone replied a one word response and showed no energy in the convo I either replied with one emoji just to not be rude or just stopped talking. Just a while ago, I was talking with an attractive blonde who used to be super receptive. The pandemic made our relationship a bit cold. I sent her a message on her bday just to keep in touch and she replied with a short lame response. I replied with one emoji. She tried to re-engage with a low-effort snap the week after. I left her on read. It's t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/20 04:02 PM
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If a is girl attractive enough she will never be alone no matter how bad her personality it. There will always be a fucker desperate enough to be with her. What will cause a girl to be alone will almost always be her looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 07:53 AM
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Lol absolutely not true. I once had a girlfriend I picked up the first day of college with no personality but she was absolutely gorgeous. She already had 5 guys going after her on the FIRST day of school. After I broke up with her due to sheer boredom there was already a dude waiting in the wings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:30 AM
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The assumption here is that being someone's second choice is the same as being someone's second option. That is not the case. It's fine to be someone's second choice assuming there are no other repercussions. Most people are not anyone's first choice. The problem is being someone's second option. Second option means they already made their choice and their choice was wrong and so they take all their emotional, financial, and social baggage with them and share it with the guy. Rather it's more im…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 04:26 AM
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Yup that's why I always compare the dating market to any market. In business the best way to get more money out of a client is by adding more of what they value to your service/product. Same thing for dating. The issue is it works equally in theory if we assume all people are the same, but it's very different in reality and I think that's what people have a problem with. Psychologically speaking, most women who only accept money and most men who only accept sex tend to be narcissistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 10:21 PM
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The problem with this argument is the assumption that you are powerless to be swindled. You got the price of admission correct, but you are one crucial component of the dating market - the negotiation. You don't just pay, you negotiate. If you are good enough, you won't have to pay before looking at the product. The other assumption is that the price is always money/sex. Different people value different things. Certain women value time over money, and certain guys value emotional validation over…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 09:56 PM
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People who have more options will be picky. If you are in McDonald's you know all the buns will be whatever comes with the meal, so you'll eat it right up. If you can go to Panera's, you can choose wheat bread, white, sourdough, etc. Some people's dating lives are like Panera and some people's dating lives are like McDonalds. People who have no choice will always be bitter since they are get the short end of the stick. Tough luck, that's how life is. The problem with your post is you don't disti…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 03:02 PM
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Yeah you didn't even address any of my points. I think you just want this to be the case regardless of reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:48 AM
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Some of the hottest girls I've banged approached me first and initiated sex first. Psychologically speaking yes they are lower value in relation to you, the girl will have to feel like you are higher value than them for them to see the value in approaching you. But in terms of other women, they are usually higher value than other women. Most attractive girls are tired of being chased and some of them like to take matters into their own hands by approaching higher value males instead of continuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:22 AM
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The clitoris is like an ice berg where the clitoris is the tip and rest of the muscle extends all the way into the vaginal wall aka the G-Spot. ..Sometimes I wonder how old the people are who ask these questions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:17 AM
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Driving and having sex are two extremely different things. One is about navigation and motor control where your primary concerns is not damaging property or putting people in danger. Having sex involves making sure you are aware of the dangerous of interpersonal relationships which takes a more mature brain to fully understand since it's highly nuanced. Most adolescents are easily manipulated and taken advantage of due to their lack of capability to understand consequences of sex such as pregnan…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/20 03:14 AM
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Here's a study for you. 58% of CEOs are over 6 feet when in general population it's only 14%. People have "prestige bias" and prefer to follow the lead of tall, attractive and charismatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:32 PM
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Here's a study for you. 58% of CEOs are over 6 feet when in general population it's only 14%. People have "prestige bias" and prefer to follow the lead of tall, attractive and charismatic people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:25 PM
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Lol except most CEOs are tall alphas. You sounds like someone who's never actually been around successful people. It's been known that good looking people are more successful and make more money.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:15 PM
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I find travel boring since 90% of places looks exactly the same. You visit you, you eat, you ride on something and you take pictures. It's better to have a goal in mind when you travel like learn about the culture of a certain native tribe or research about the history of the place for a month beforehand.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 06:07 PM
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If you can potentially get an alien in your body whenever you bust a nut, then yes you will also have high standards. Additionally, if you are physically weak and a person can overpower and forcefully put said alien in your body then you will also be way more careful. I'm amazed how most guys don't understand this key difference between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/20 12:05 PM
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I think this goes for both genders, as long as you keep forfill your partners needs the likelyhood of them cheating is lesser. Just keep in mind most men on TRP and what pill they declare have engaged in interaction with women who are always on the dating market because they can't hold on to a guy. The majority of women are normal. That being said this seems like a bleak outlook, sure we all are driven by biology but we've come to a point in our evolution where we can distinguish between morally…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 12:43 PM
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Anything that involves exchanging things of value is a market. The dating process is a market whether like it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 12:35 PM
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Markets are not governed any governing body. Markets are almost like an organism. To reduce it to the basic components, it's simply an exchange of things. People are willing to exchange things for some other thing if they think/feel they are getting good value.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 12:33 PM
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It's the dating market and it's just like any other market. When you are trying to buy rice you can either get angry at the rice for being so expensive or earn more money so you can buy the rice.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:59 AM
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Not for men. Men are biologically wired to have multiple female partners. It wouldn't take much to convince a guy to have sex with someone new. That's why a lot of attractive, high status men are caught cheating one way or another. Most guys don't cheat because they can't. It requires a great deal of self-awareness, commitment and self-control to be a loyal man. In contrast, women are just biologically wired to look for safety under a strong dominant male. As long as you remain relatively in con…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 05:56 AM
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Men are extremely shallow, but women have recently become more shallow than previous generations due to social media. Before, women just cared about a guy who can provide and make them happy, but now due to the proliferation of social media and it's stranglehold on people's self-esteem, having an attractive boyfriend to take pictures with and establish some social status is a necessity. It's not a bad thing, it's just a change of demands. Men who can't compete with demand get thrown out of the d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 01:23 AM
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The average woman is less likely to cheat than a guy because they don't see sex as a reward. Cheating women usually do so due to lack of intimacy while most men cheat because they want to fuck someone new.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 01:14 AM
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That phenomenon exists in non-culture species as well, so it's not really because it's due to upbringing. The very reason men make millions of sperms and women make one every month is because that's the biological strategy we have evolved to keep existing. It's biological. As long as men have unlimited amount of sperm and women risk a lot when they get fertilized, women will remain the selective gender. Not to mention the very anatomy of having a vagina is riskier. Women are prone to more infect…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:38 PM
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I look forward to the day when men compete with women with the same zeal that they compete with other men. That will never happen. The fact that female and male gender exist biologically primes women to be more selective than men. If somehow you can make it so that women are not more vulnerable than men and don't get pregnant then yes that is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:15 AM
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Online dating is extremely tedious. In order to fuck any of the girls I fucked from approaching them IRL would have had to go through thousands of messages online because anyone who is remotely above average online is already showered by dicks every second. The amount of fat girls with fake photos are astounding. There are also so many girls who are great texters but have zero personality in real life. It's just huge waste of time every step of the way. You are glued to your phone the entire tim…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 11:12 AM
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If you are talking about the 2019 Stanford study, that is a common misinterpretation of the data. Visualization in page 15. Online dating is more popular if you compare it with other methods individually, but offline methods of meeting is more popular than online as a whole. A socially active individual will likely meet someone in one of those offline locations. Dating location is a mutually inclusive situation for most people and noone is only allowed to meet at the church, or only allowed to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:53 PM
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Well yeah, you'd want to prioritize more extroverted hobbies especially if you haven't established your social circle i.e. picking up photography as opposed to gaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 10:41 PM
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If someone's only option in meeting women is OLD then you have bigger problems. Typically people meet partners through friends, at work, in school or in social groups. If you don't have good friends, is not socially engaged at work or in school or you don't get involved in social groups then you obviously have skipped on working on your social skills. Your problem with OLD is a symptom of a bigger problem. You literally have no social life. It's like seeing a homeless man complain about not havi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/20 12:21 PM
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My manager at work (a major UK bank in the City of London) is a single guy in his 40s and a possible virgin. Its not like people like him are just going to suddenly opt for less pay as some kind of act of spite. I mean his sex and doll and monthly donations to his favorite onlyfans contributor ain't gonna pay for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 10:11 PM
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I feel like any post on this sub with the word "men" or "women" should be replaced with "I personally." Just stop speaking for everyone and realize your problem is mostly created you and you need to do something to solve it rather than blaming society and staying in the same place.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/20 11:45 PM
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lots more women getting into sex work... Got any source on that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 06:25 PM
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Lol this thread is so full of assumptions. First of all drug dealers are fucking nice af and it also depends on the drugs. I met one of my friend's MDMA and Weed dealer and he was chill af. On the other hand, I heard about someone's cocaine dealer and those guys are the quintessential "asshole dealer." Second "being an asshole" does not mean "you are fun." Most people are retarded af so they need to be an asshole to be exciting. Most people are too stupid to know how to be exciting so they rever…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/20 06:23 PM
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Maybe that's because they chose the guys who were looking for LTRs and didn't date fuckboys or "pick up artists". Exactly I dated a girl who had trouble finding commitment and of course most of the dudes she dated were like me (I was a huge fuckboy at the time). Not to mention her emotional issues itself rendered the relationship unstable and she kept-preemptively breaking with me. It's not hard to find a relationship if you have some sliver of self-awareness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:41 AM
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Exactly. That's a huge over-generalization of women. Certain types of women find it hard to find commitment either due to them being unattractive, just emotionally unstable or they have bad choices in men, but the large majority of people out there don't have trouble finding commitment. A lot of commitment issues are self-imposed.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/20 01:38 AM
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Porn is a sexual release. From a brain chemical standpoint, porn triggers oxytocin in men while seeing a celebrity for women mostly triggers excitable processes which would be endorphin, dopamine and serotonin. There is a certain intimacy associated with porn and sex which cannot be replicated by someone simply admiring an attractive celeb. Unless they are actively flicking the bean while looking at them, it is vastly different.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/20 05:47 AM
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25 years of dating meaning how many women and where did you meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 11:27 PM
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What are you basing this assumption on and what's the sample size?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 10:39 PM
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Not at all. Gay sex has the highest STD rates of all and finding a gay partner is way harder than finding a straight partner. Studies also found that gay relationships have higher levels of domestic violence. What's with everyone from this sub thinking women are impossible to lay. If you can't get laid with women AT ALL, your problem is likely communication related. Aka possibly socially retarded.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/20 07:58 AM
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So the girl has to be this ugly to get charged for false rape claims? We're all fucked.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/20 01:10 PM
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Because people on this sub are too insecure to take a virgin joke on the chin. Most likely because a good amount of visitors here ARE virgins coming from the incel subreddits.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/06/20 01:09 PM
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Lots of vapid boring dudes and lots of smelly women, so this is not accurate at all. A lot of guys have no social skills and have no dynamic in their verbal expressions. There are also a lot of attractive women with smelly hair because you are only supposed to wash it a few times per week and a lot of women have some weird smell because of make up and their sweat, or they don't shave, or just don't shower as much because they look cute. This is worse among younger women since the older girls I'v…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/20 06:27 AM
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I will pick a 5/10 female scientist or physician over a 10/10 Instagram model every time...Anyone here thinking the same way? No. 5/10 vs 10/10? Damn that's just outright false dichotomy. Being a scientist doesn't make someone a great partner and being 10/10 doesn't make someone completely devoid of intellect. I've hooked up with two engineers one I met at coffee shop and another I met during a mixer. Both were actually a bit more annoying and more promiscuous than the typical girl which is a de…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 11:34 PM
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Most guys don't care as long as she is hot. I personally do. For a serious relationship, I don't want to be associated with ratchet girl who grew up around some questionable people. Preferably I'd want to seriously date someone from a good family and you can tell she is refined and respectable. I don't care so much about the job as to whether she is just weird or not. For example someone from upper to middle class family who is working at a burger joint but while working on her bachelors is tota…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/20 03:02 PM
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Why do women initiate 80% of divorces if they’re so faithful? That proves against your point since studies show these divorces' final straw is often the spouse cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/20 11:26 AM
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Women in the workplace are snakes and it seems to me you are just oblivious so far to it. Middle aged women are the worst of this. Literal Karens who will push the responsibility to you as a guy and then have the audacity to constantlg berate you for how you do your job. It may be difference in work culture in your area, but in the companies I've worked at they have helped me get promoted, meet more business connections and are always sensitive to my work load. The best manager I've had was a fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:28 AM
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Yeah it's one of my issues. With girls you can be nice and they will be nice. With guys, if you are too nice some of them will use that as opportunity to dominate you and boss you around. The more attractive the guy the more secure he is and is a lot of more pleasant to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 09:14 AM
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I'm sure it does since women's body chemistry are out of whack during the whole pregnancy ordeal. Again I used to be totally against children until my sister had one. It's not as bad as I thought it was. Not gonna have children anytime soon though, I'd need to be a millionaire first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 07:22 AM
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I guess I'm the minority then. I think the mistake is that people have too many kids too fast or they didn't financial prepare for it. Except not everyone does, I know you know this, there are too many women out there who murder their kids, go to anonymous spaces to talk about their dislike of their kids, abandon the family without warning and leave everything behind to escape, etc. Yeah never knew anyone who murdered their kid. I'm sure it happens, but not as often as you seem to think. People …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:53 AM
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Women are way more fun and a lot easier to work with. All my female coworkers have been protective and helpful to me while guys are just the most annoying to work with because they are always paranoid that you are trying to "out alpha" them. The uglier and more unhealthy the guy, the worse they are too. I'm pretty sure this is biased since it's anecdotal, but damn 90% of dudes are annoying af to work with.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 06:05 AM
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Yup honestly most people hate "other kids." I thought I hated kids until my sister had a baby and there is just something primal about a child that is related to you. Once you have a baby, you end up loving them. Since women give birth to them, I'd imagine it's a stronger primal drive to love a child that is not only theirs but they went through heaven and hell to bring into existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/20 05:59 AM
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Exactly this. It's like a free sample of self improvement before they get you hooked up to a lifetime of hatred and excuses. FDS, TRP, and MGTOW are all equally filled with people that have failed in life and decided to life it up in the reddit comment sections.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 10:16 AM
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I mean yeah that's good, but who is to say you wouldn't have encountered any other helpful content online. When someone looks for a solution to a problem online, the credit should not really go to the content but to the person who went through the trouble of sifting through what they think will be helpful and putting it into practice. There is a good chance you would have improved whether you encountered TRP or not. There is also a possibility that you would have improved more if you encountered…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:29 PM
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I did way before and it's all the same, it's all fluff. Additionally, their ads for Pataya make it really hard to take the content seriously. Ad targeting reveal what type of guys frequent a webpage.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 07:09 PM
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Again, that's what they say on paper. That's not what it really is. You should look at the subreddit's main feed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 06:58 PM
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The biggest similarity is they both hate women. Both have morphed ideas of women based on their limited interaction with them. Both have failed to go beyond the small collective of women who are emotionally damaged instead of using their advantage as a man to move forward and look for better women. What the red pill says they are and what they actually are are two different things. Anyone with looks, status, game and money would be too busy improving themselves and coming with solutions to put t…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:56 PM
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I don't think you know where you are. TBP wasn't even being discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:43 PM
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Just wanted to say this is the type of shit that makes a difference for men's rights. Writing a well thought out response to relevant government officials and being diligent about following up is what brings about change, not inciting violence against women, or harassing women online which seems to be extremely popular many TRP-like subreddits.
/r/MensRights21/05/20 01:19 PM
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They are essentially the same. The biggest similarity is they both hate women. Both have morphed ideas of women based on their limited interaction with them. Both have failed to go beyond the small collective of women who are emotionally damaged instead of using their advantage as a man to move forward and look for better women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 01:11 PM
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You can say that, but it's not really a reliable way to define Chad let alone there are a multitude of reasons a barista will give someone a free drink. Even NSA could be due to a multitude of different variable such as two girls competing with each other, culture, the location, the timing and other factors. For the most part there is no way to really determine if someone is a Chad because he doesn't exist. He is all in our minds. One person's Chad is another person's Bob.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 11:33 AM
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Male
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 08:14 AM
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Okay that is huge. I can't find the journal article on this. Anyone have the link?
/r/MensRights21/05/20 04:52 AM
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Because the real answer is that these men haven't seen the real world. By enlarge my experience with women is pretty good and I attribute that to spending most of my time interacting with women offline. When I tried online dating, it was filled with weirdos. If I spent most of my time interacting with women online, I'd be feel pretty fucked up too. Most of these weird women online are the vocal minority. When I talk to real women in the real world, most of the time they are great. Way better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:44 AM
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You shouldn't ask for advice from people who have a stake in what you are asking about in general. That's like asking your local pothead about whether weed is good for your health. No shit they will be biased, it's mostly your fault for not realizing that. Never ever ever ever take female advice on anything. Or maybe have a middle ground. I think your problem is you keep thinking in absolutes. You went from "women can never be wrong about dating advice" to "women are wrong on everything."
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 04:31 AM
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Yeah the free stuff from baristas is not really a sign you are a Chad. It’s part of a marketing/customer appreciation effort or just people being nice. I’ve had free drink both from men and women for a variety of reasons and I feel no sexual energy from them. Some people are just nice. Even NSA is not even that good of a gauge since normal people also get that offered to them especially if the guy is highly social.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:49 AM
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This. Chad is a myth perpetuated by people on reddit that reduces a guy to a 2-dimensional caricature. It’s ambiguous enough that people can relate to him and project their aspirations unto while actively enabling their laziness so they don’t have to improve themselves because if you are not Chad then what’s the point. People seem think you are either a Chad or an incel and there is no middle point.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:41 AM
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Because men, unlike women, can’t hide their flaws. They also don’t have time to spend looking better. Also, for women, It’s easier to be really attractive without having touched a barbell. Women can just lose weight. Guys not only need to be the proper weight, we also need to built muscle, which takes way more time to build.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:32 AM
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Nope. Perceived attractiveness of women is definitely higher because they can hide flaws better and are socially acceptable to optimize attractiveness. First hair, varied clothing style and make up can hide flaws. Secondly women are taught/driven to improve their looks at a younger age. Understanding posture, forming habits that improve looks such as beauty sleep, skin care habits and understanding a variety of beauty techniques are some things an average 18 year old girl will know. Your average…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:28 AM
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Its both genders. I worked for a company that obviously hired mostly good looking people. For the most part, unattractive people look lethargic, unmotivated and incapable. They are also rewarded more for their actions so they tend to actually perform better as well. In sales, attractive people sell more. It’s just how it is. Instead of complaining, do your best to improve your looks and project yourself in a manner that reduces your looks’ disadvantages. For example if you have no jawline, fix y…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:15 AM
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Yeah this sub is getting overrun by incels. r/MGTOW hate is spilling over. Every single relationship I’ve had includes the girl begging for sex whenever possible and it’s down to taking control of the relationship and rekindling that dating excitement intermittently. I have a feeling a lot of guys are just lame people in general who can’t keep girlfriends or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/20 03:04 AM
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I read your entire post and you keep switching topic before actually making a point. You said men are more variable on all measure. What measures? Then you mention building huts. You mention how women are more nurturing and men are more like "lone wolves." That is factually not true since humans evolved culturally to stay together. That's how we survived, that's why we evolved the fear of rejection because if you get rejected by your tribe, you are dead. Men are not lone wolves. You mentioned re…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:55 PM
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There are a lot of benefits for not changing the name. I don't really see the benefit of changing it other than for the feels.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:32 PM
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The funny thing is that what women consider "toned" takes 3+ years of absolute dedication to attain. What women consider a "lean or skinny guy" takes a whole lot of discipline to maintain sub 12% body fat. It is true that face matters WAY more than muscles, but getting muscle and losing weight improve your face WAY more than you think. The sheer fact that gaining muscle improve face to body proportion, reduces face fat and improves your skin color (which was seen in studies as a variable in attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/20 01:29 PM
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Yeah that’s not how you perform a Reliable survey. The keywords are “I want” but now you are saying it’s about whether the world is a better place with or without sex robots. I personally think sex robots will never be a thing. VR/AR sex partners with conversational AI, however, used in conjunction with biofeedback sex toys are more viable in the near future.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/20 04:31 PM
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Damn I outgrew that phase when I was in my late teens. Parading around hot girls at parties gets old. “Oh wow she’s so pretty.” I’ve had guys literally congratulate me right in front of the girl like it some sort of accomplishment. It means absolutely zero. What happens when you have to go somewhere alone, are you just totally lost? How do you show your accomplishment? Do you just find any opportunity to bring up your “hot wife.” I’ve been there, it’s superficial. The most important things a man…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 05:53 PM
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The theories that the red pill have created are things that the stereotypical chad does without even thinking about That is actually not true and it propagates this idea that if you are an unattractive guy that you can't have a viable relationship. Dread - Maximize your social circle, learn how to talk to people, and communicate that you won't hesitate to leave her if she betrays your trust. This is easier done if you are attractive, but being capable and bold can get you this as well. Frame - F…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 04:02 PM
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And it makes sense since r/MGTOW is pretty bad. I thought it was overblown. I joined the sub because I believe that men should have the choice to go their own way, however, after lurking there all I saw was not about "going their own way," it was about discussing racism towards black women, encouraging violence towards women, unnecessary hate towards women and just being downright obnoxious. So many posts there were just men harassing women online with some one-liner. I gave them a chance I am n…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/20 03:44 PM
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This sub is becoming a bigger and bigger circle jerk as the day goes by. Before you know it, it won't even know what MGTOW means anymore. This is just stupid. MGTOW means men going their own way, yet they always find excuses to engage with women. Kinda hypocritical, like how women think.
/r/MGTOW16/05/20 05:33 AM
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The overwhelming majority of women who post nudes don't do it for the greater good. They do it because they have something to gain from doing so. Like I mentioned earlier this is not caused by one variable. This wouldn't be possible if high speed internet was not widespread and commercially viable to everyone. This wouldn't happen without the existing business model created by things like onlyfans, camsites and porn partner programs. This wouldn't happen without the proliferation of smartphones …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:21 PM
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I'll be the boring guy who says, it's both sexes fault. Real life is not sexy and it's often unsatisfying. Men and women have been exchanging sex services for years because they both gain something from it. Additionally, correlation does not mean causation. Everyone is stuck in this false dichotomy thinking that it can only be either caused by one or the other. Porn industry is an industry just like any other industry. In additional to societal change, industries are affected by government polic…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 09:07 PM
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I don't disagree. Relative to sex, it's easier to orgasm from clitoral stimulation for women. But relative to men, women it takes a lot more for women to orgasm. But going back to the original discussion. You are actually correct about the reasoning being due to the need for intimacy rather than sexual stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:59 PM
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Are you doing a Trump impression?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:42 PM
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Relative to men it's not. It often requires a great deal of emotion and anxiety-regulation because women associate a lot of stigma with sexual stimulation since society has programmed women to think being sexual is wrong. Functionally, it's harder for women to masturbate due to the structure of the clitoral hood. You almost definitely need 2 hands to pull up the hood stimulate it. You also require more space to spread before you can masturbate. Men can literally stand in the stall in a public ba…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:25 PM
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Still a bad deal. Not to mention it's illegal and it will be on your record if you get caught which will be with you forever when looking for jobs and housing. You'll have to go through so much just to have sex and you'll need to travel somewhere where it's legal. On top of that there is the possibility of getting an STD, getting robbed or killed, and you associate with some sketchy individuals. Many rich powerful men have also been backstabbed by their prostitutes like what happened with dela h…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:17 PM
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The problem with the word "love" is that has many meanings and people use it without knowing why the other one is using it. Love is used as a catch all term for people who do not have the mental aptitude to define a "good feeling" when they are with someone. It is also used as an anchor for manipulation. Love is oftentimes used a precursor to a commitment. Women would press men to say they love them instead of discussing commitment directly. It is also used as a way to escape responsibility. Men…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:01 PM
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Women should decide en masse to stop having casual sex A small group of women decide what every other woman should do? Have you even conducted a survey. Do you even care how other women feel about this? Even if we assumed 99% agreement, even if it violates one girl's right to decide for herself, that's a huge violation of human rights. Your premise would have had a point if it's with the assumption that it's something that each woman should considered for themselves and not imposed on them by a …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 03:50 PM
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Well I guess it also the intimacy that really want and they use sex interest as a gauge for their attractiveness, which is why r/deadbedrooms is mostly female. But also when it comes to posting, women just get way more attention when they post on the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 02:40 PM
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Paying for sex from a cost-benefit standpoint can be more expensive if you are average attractiveness and up. But then again, the less attractive you are, the harder it is to hold on to a girl so that's when paying for sex may give someone better return.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:18 PM
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Will men have trouble finding a life partner? Yes research has found that dating apps cause people to swipe more and commit less. Even though women have other source of information, they do use apps like Tinder to determine just how attractive they are, so if they see they are regularly matching with very attractive men, their sense of worth will match that and they will test the waters to see if they can land these high value men. So what will happen is there will be these relatively "lower val…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 01:13 PM
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This. Women talk about their problems more and have less output for sexual energy since it's harder for them to climax from self stimulation. Guys don't care as much about a dead bedroom since we can just wank off and be happy as shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:13 PM
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Oh man 80s movies are so good. Everyone looks so preppy and shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:05 PM
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Lol go play pretend somewhere else. Bye.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 12:03 PM
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Lol okay I'm starting to think you don't actually work for a research firm. The discussion portion always reflect the main hypothesis and results in layman terms. Unless you are looking for the variables or checking internal/external validity, you don't need to cite the other part. I already did that and the study looks solid. If you doubt it's validity then tell me why. Here I'll make it even easier for you. This value is similar to the result generated in the previously proposed model which ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:28 AM
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What specific data am I supposed to pay attention to that you’re claiming vindicates your point? Dude I quoted it. That's the discussion portion. You should know this. Here is the most definitive statement In general, our findings support the conclusion of the previous works that similarities in attractiveness between coupled individuals occur even though the similarity is not the primary consideration in searching for partners and each individual only seeks attractive partners, in agreement wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 11:06 AM
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Monogamy is useful because it is the most efficient way to create a family. The family is also most efficient social unit to raise children and have people take care of you when you get sick, fall under tough times or get older. Community is what helped humans and it's ancestors survive for millions of years. Monogamy is relatively new though. Throughout most human history, polygamy was the most common format.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:48 AM
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In summary, we studied the effect of topology on the process of human mate choice. In general, our findings support the conclusion of the previous works that similarities in attractiveness between coupled individuals occur even though the similarity is not the primary consideration in searching for partners and each individual only seeks attractive partners, in agreement with the matching hypothesis. When topology is present, the extent of such similarity, measured by Pearson coefficient of corr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:43 AM
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Studies would disagree. Both genders try to get the most attractive mate. The dating market does the rest. People you end up with, most of the time, are at the same attractiveness level as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 10:30 AM
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Disability benefits because she fat most likely. That shit needs to be fixed. Men or women all these unhealthy people are a burden on the system.
/r/MGTOW15/05/20 10:21 AM
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Meh I have nothing against women with onlyfans. When there is demand, there are people who profit from it. Calling it an honest living would be a stretch. First of it's not maintainable - you get old and ugly and your source of income is done, onlyfans users are often sketchy af, socially stigmatized, and low barrier to entry.
/r/MGTOW15/05/20 10:16 AM
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Shit talk game 10/10 Flirting game -9999
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 12:53 PM
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Lol where did you come up with the 10 inch rule, a trip to your local brothel?
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 03:07 AM
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6 is workable, it's the girth that's important otherwise it's like trying to find the last bread stick in the barrel.
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 03:05 AM
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So why is he on tinder???
/r/MGTOW14/05/20 03:02 AM
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Meh
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 02:33 AM
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Yes because you are too smart to make a mistake. Again. Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:40 AM
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Lol don't you mean r/woosh Ironic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/20 01:31 AM
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Lol what.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 07:22 PM
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Glad you guys did it. This sub was starting to look like trash. I’d rather have good debates than random angry users screaming at each other with their own bias overly showing at every comment/post.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:20 PM
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Yeah that’s not FDS anymore that’s just being a reasonable person. You are misdefining FDS. Their extreme mindset is what makes FDS users what they are. This is like saying you support Trump supporters because they want to conserve America, but I don’t support their racism without realizing that 90% of the remaining trump supporters are racist. You won’t find an FDS girl with the things you mentioned. The very thing that define FDS is the entitlement. Not to mention whenever someone identified w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/20 06:04 PM
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Wtf are you talking about I just got got here. Man you high, you literally haven't mentioned anything other than the lyrics from smooth criminal.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 11:58 PM
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political lean has a lot to do with a lot of parts of how people think and behave Correlation does not mean causation. The most likely scenario is people in your area think the same way you do and liberals in your area act a certain way, so you are basing this assumption off of anecdotal experience.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 11:49 PM
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So is your default reply just to pretend to be slightly clueless? First you ask why I'm mad and now you ask if I'm okay. Are you reading off the lyrics of your favorite boy band?
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 11:44 PM
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Political lean has nothing to do with how people date. Again not everything is political. And of course you don't agree with hard left if you are leaning right smh.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 08:03 PM
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I disagree. I'm left leaning and never once do I allow that sort of shit when dating.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 07:47 PM
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Lol so what if I get mad? You have some weird boundaries for someone who touts normality. First you can't post your own shit on your feed, and now you can't be mad? BOBBY: Hey you can suck some other dude's dick, but never post videos or express any kind of human emotion otherwise I will downvote your comment and call you a weirdo on reddit.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 07:44 PM
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Lmao yes you do.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 04:55 PM
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FDS is not hard left. Don't make this political.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 04:49 PM
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Lol okay. The woman literally cheated on him and the dude is the psycho for sharing something on his own personal social media account. Whatever dude.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 04:45 PM
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Spoiled women don't handle consequences well because they can usually cry and everything fixes itself. Most attractive women are spoiled af.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 04:42 PM
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Yeah except women get to hit and throws shit at dudes who cheat on them. They get to punch you and you are supposed to take it. Meanwhile ya'll think it's a huge crime that this dude recorded a girl for manipulating him. This woman is taking advantage of men and should be treated the same as a guy taking advantage of women. The more people know it, the better.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/05/20 04:41 PM
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Just bad humor all together and just dumb. This is the type of thing a histrionic woman would do. Like he hates feminists, yet he distinctly finds ways to talk to them?
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:20 AM
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This is actually true. Relationships are based on how much someone invests into. If only one is investing, there is obviously something wrong.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:14 AM
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If you put yourself in a disadvantageous position, you have no one else to go to. Dude did this to himself by leaving the royal family and now he is at the mercy of his wife. So dumb.
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 07:11 AM
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I'm not really opposed to marriage if it helps build legacy. Not everyone wants to be a wandering idiot who has no family to turn to. But leaving the ROYAL FUCKING FAMILY to be with a girl is just the stupidest shit I have ever seen. I seriously want to know how you justify this. At some point you need to step back and evaluate whether someone you are close to has been a positive force in your life or a negative one. It makes me think this guy is just an idiot. Dude probably thinks he's in a Dis…
/r/MGTOW07/05/20 01:15 AM
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People are just trying to find excuses for their failures at this point. Leave dogs out of this. I don't want to see people purposely hurting dogs to make a point or some shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:51 PM
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Yeah don't throw black women under the bus. They deserve more respect than being compared to Lilith.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 10:46 PM
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What's even funnier is that she's active right now yet is not commenting on this thread. Like she obviously only posts on this subreddit 100% of the time. It's kinda sad how the only place she feels like she belongs despises her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 02:31 PM
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To find like-minded people and agree with them. That’s all of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:33 PM
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Who hurt you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:27 PM
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It’s really dependent on the guy. I’m close friends with a perpetual bachelor. He’s in his 40s and still looks like he’s in his 20s, he mostly just works, works out, saves money (Cheap as fuck) and dates college chicks. That being said he never had trouble with women even when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/20 01:22 PM
1

Yeah if some youtuber gets that much donation they will make a youtube video about it with a shocked face as a thumbnail.
/r/MGTOW06/05/20 01:54 AM
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That's true and they are currently getting a lot of private subsidies through women-only programs. That being said, I have seen some successful ones since I interviewed for a woman-owned company with primarily females. Advantage is they usually have great HR policies. Bad thing is they have horrible growth rates. Looked like a delightful company to be an employee in though. As for studies, I think there is not enough info to consider women unfit for leadership. Your bias may be affecting your ju…
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 03:12 AM
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Can't find the study about 'society', what's funny it was done by women themselves. It was about sharing snacks with other kids. Boys shared with everyone. Girls shared only with those they liked. I would consider that a study on sharing bias during developmental years rather than running society. Also a lot of confounding variables such as the age which can't really applied to extrapolated to society since we are not run by children. Boys also tend to be more aggressive than girls at earlier ag…
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 02:34 AM
2

Chad and Stacy are made up. Attractive people are attracted to other attractive people in terms of dating and socializing, but all other variables are exaggerated. People make it seem like all attractive people are automatically sociopaths. What usually happens is they find less attractive people either invisible or boring when socializing/dating so they just end up in their own social circle that are usually more attractive. That's it. If it's something else like a hobby, they act like every ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:24 AM
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There are even 'studies' that prove that women can't run society because of their selfish nature (which is more than evident thanks to feminism). Source?
/r/MGTOW05/05/20 02:04 AM
4

You are both over/under estimating Adam driver. Dude is average face-wise, but he has a lot going for him in terms of eloquence, height, posture, social status, and money. Also he has those high cheek bones that women tend to obsess over. Some women are into blue eyes, some are into brown eyes, but all women are into high cheekbones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:01 AM
2

You know it's going to be good when a comment is formatted like an APA paragraph.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 10:05 PM
3

Instinctual drive is strong. Certain animals species die right after copulation and they still do it.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 09:13 PM
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Yup OPs theoretical model is incorrect: OPs Model: Online Listing - Online Message - In Person Hook Up Correct Model: In Person Meet - Online Social Media Search - In Person Interaction - Online Interaction - In Person Hook Up From my experience as long you have an okay social media presence you are fine. I’ve gone on a date with a chick who was talking with an instagram influencer who looked like a greek god. Well guess what he has to travel and he has too many choices in too many places. In th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 08:17 PM
2

It’s the reason I did not sleep around and the reason don’t just throw around my weight. Like I had a phase where I posted every chick I hooked up with on instagram and you realize quickly that it’s douchey af. So you start being more lowkey about it. You have one main and a few side chicks, but damn you don’t fucking advertise it. It’s the difference between being your broke fuckboy and your well accomplished professional player who keeps thing classy in public but gets mad pussy behind closed …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 07:56 PM
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Not really. Views may be high but conversion rate is low. It’s far from the norm. I heard about this group and I do ascribe to not giving in to women’s bullshit, but there are a lot of silly shit that’s said on this sub. Don’t get me wrong I think women are overly-prioritized today in so many ways: at work, dating, socializing, etc. I want this community to thrive as an opposing force, but you guys are doing it wrong with all the negativity and hatred. You drive away people with a lot to lose an…
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 07:43 PM
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It’s a bullshit post. That’s like saying “stop using the word history and say her-story.” This is some weird attempt to control people.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 07:30 PM
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Yeah it’s literally like a leg cramp x100. Some women get ripped and need stitches. It’s hours of that too. The reason they do it is because it’s primal and programmed into the female brain.
/r/MGTOW04/05/20 07:22 PM
1

Well I took a look and the thing about MGTOW is they are willing to go about their own way, but once in a relationship they don't really aspire to work with the person they are dating. I'm going my own way, but if they choose to go my way too and we agree on things with some degree of understanding, I consider us going the same way. If at any point they prove otherwise than I go my own way. Applies both to girls I'm dating and friends. They have a lot of pre-assumptions before someone has a chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 04:10 AM
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You might be right. I haven't really heard about sigma males. Dude I'll probably binge watch a bunch of wolf documentaries now just to learn more about sigma males.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:56 AM
1

Yeah but isn't mgtow strictly against dating women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 03:55 AM
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Yeah dude, don't stress just keep improving and aspire others to do the same because being trapped in this bubble of I'm better/worse is unneeded imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:23 AM
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Holy shit, I met a similar girl who was married. This chick absolutely reeks of sex appeal. When we go out, guys just give her all sorts of signals, she's irresistible. I've been out with other more attractive girls. Don't get me wrong she's this skinny blonde Russian chick, but this girl by far got the most attention than the objectively more attractive girls. And I realized it was because she was just giving out these subtle signals. And it was probably why I was so attracted to her. She was j…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:21 AM
2

Unintentional. I've met so many girls who start shit talking their own bf once they meet someone new and better. Usually it gets brushed under the rug, the branch swing eventually stops, and she stays with him, but if the dude that is better tries to get with the girl, that's when the branch swings wider and wider until she let's go of the other one and goes for the other. Dudes too it too, it's just harder.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:06 AM
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Yeah I thought about this too, but people always try to manipulate for something. Attractive people get taken advantage of for their looks, but ugly people can also be taken advantage of for their money, connections, or just time. The problem with being ugly is that you get shunned by society, so it still requires a great deal of emotional intelligence and self awareness to function properly.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 01:03 AM
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This is true, but what people don't realize is that there are absolute gorgeous women on the other end of the spectrum. People just need to be realistic. You are not as good or bad as you think you are. Alwayshave an inclination to go towards the mean - most people are average.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:58 AM
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External locus of control blah blah. Thinks they're so clever they can just manipulate people with fucking game. Lol. It deserves the mockery it gets from bluepillers and fds prudes. Yeah that's internal locus of control.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:51 AM
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I honestly think they misuse the term omega. Just because you are 5'5 does not mean you are automatically omega/beta. And being tall and attractive does not mean you are automatically alpha either. I'm on the above average side (tall, attractive, social, athletic, dated hot chicks all my life etc whatever) and I consider myself omega. I say I'm omega because I don't aspire to be an alpha with all the responsibilities and pressure of staying at the top, yet I don't want to be someone's beta where…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 12:50 AM
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You need to visit r/instagramreality
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:08 AM
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TRP and FDS are two sides of the shame shit bag coin. And both think they are woke when they literally just went from one imprisoned way of thinking to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 01:58 AM
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Yeah I applaud the dude for exercising his right. I would have just ran.
/r/PussyPassDenied09/04/20 06:04 AM
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