Conversation Topics

skullirang · 2020-09-13T14:16:42+00:00

I try to stay away from boring questions. Like at a pool party I went to. When I arrive (I usually go early), I bs around with everyone guy or girl just to get people warmed up to me. I look for shit to do, drink, bs around with more people and just have fun.

When I see a girl I like I just mention something casually “Hey did you try the margarita?” Bla bla. Just plant that seed. I then move on and talk to more people.

As the day goes on and the party gets crazier and it gets darker I try to start talking to the girls that have warmed up to me. We will usually be sitting in a corner with a small group and talk about life. I try to direct some personal questions towards her out of curiosity.

Depending on how we are vibing, I just approach her directly and say something like “Hey what you said earlier got me thinking.. bla bla bla.” I see how she hooks and then WHILE she is hooked and we are deep in convo I ask her to go sit somewhere because it’s tiring af to stand and have a deep conversation.

This is where the majority of the REAL ge starts because you can either become someone who is interesting and cool or you can make the right moves and you can be someone who is intriguing and sexy. You seduce through your vibe, how you look at her, how you frame your questions and how you imply and inject sex into her brain while talking.

A lot of these things you can’t just write a script for. You have to react to them naturally in the moment. So if you are asking us “should I ask us about her work,” you haven’t even learned the basics of what you need to learn to get to the important part.

I really suggest you learn about general social skills before learning about seduction. It’s like trying to learn how to do a deadlift when you can’t even get off the bed. You will most likely get a lot more benefit exposing yourself to just socializing with people and the seduction will naturally click into place once you have the opportunity.

latte_raz · 2020-09-14T02:22:34+00:00

Cold reads and observations about the person work well. Don't interview them, where are you from, what do you do etc. Frame a question like "You don't seem like you're from around here". Way more interesting than asking where are you from, because they're going to want to find out why you made that assumption. Talk about the other person, people love talking about themselves.

excentrik-art · 2020-09-14T12:34:20+00:00

Literally nothing. Less serious the better. Just joke around, turn her questions and inquiries (to a reasonable degree, dont be a dick) to a joke and just have fun while talking. Include more people, and just make fun with everyone

Title	Conversation Topics
Author	Apprehensive_Remote4
Upvotes	12
Comments	3
Date	September 13, 2020 1:34 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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