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I don't think anyone is fully understanding we all have things we don't agree with and don't want to hear the side of because we have a natural indifference towards it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:31 PM
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Say it directly to your face and listen to your opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 07:26 PM
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If you want to do it then yes
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:49 AM
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Friendships are just hard to navigate you don't know how people will feel if you say something or whether they'll get offended or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 09:07 AM
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Person A because it's rare to come across that level of closeness, if you don't have much in common with the second person I'll probably end soon anyway so there's no point in marrying them Also average isn't necessarily negative it's all subjective really
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 12:19 PM
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I can't speak for other people so I'm not gonna say "yes that's true."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:18 PM
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I have no idea I couldn't make that judgement because I don't have any legitimate figures to prove it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:14 PM
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It wasn't an analogy someone can spend alot of their time gardening perhaps they want to get a degree in the same thing Most of the time gardening is considered an at home hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:13 PM
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The best way to do it is for yourself that way you'll always have it no matter who is around you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:06 PM
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I mean if you're planning to become a botanical scientist you must like plants?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:04 PM
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Perhaps they are into film? Documentaries? Those types of media can be incredibly informative and interesting. Maybe some people don't believe so but say if you're into historical media, you could spend a great deal of time investing in that interest. To someone that's into clubbing it could seem boring in comparison but it's just a different interest really
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:03 PM
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I understand if you can't AFFORD that kind of thing. But if you can afford it... why not do it? Because they don't have the same personality as you which is ok we aren't made the same Isn't variety part of the beauty of life?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:00 PM
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How I see it is if you don't want to date someone like that then it's fine and vice versa but don't try to change them unless they're open to it. I'm sure most homebody individuals are looking for people that are similar to themselves anyway Also not all people who stay at home watch Netflix there are other types of media to consume Perhaps they like gardening or cooking. Maybe sewing? Painting? there's other at home hobbies to do so watching TV isn't the only thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:56 PM
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some people are not naturally monogamous but others are
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:18 PM
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For example I don't think someone who wants to have stability could date a rock star it's just not possible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:16 PM
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It is but they are also part of the entertainment industry, this means that all the appearances the partying etc they're used to it. This I'd what I'm talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 07:10 PM
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Well the second part is what I'm talking about Maybe it's the amount of kids you want? The home you want to live in? The features you'd like it to have? The location you want it to be in? The events you like attending? The people you associate with? The industry you work in? These are all important factors
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:24 PM
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Well personally I just see it as maybe fashion isn't their interest which is ok, I agree the people do tend to understand eachother more if there into the same things
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 05:20 PM
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Yes I think even the way you spend money also comes into this too technically. For example if you're a musician who buys a ton of records you might want to talk to someone that understands what you're into and gets your taste so if you put music on maybe it's important for them to be interested and engaged with it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:45 PM
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Yeah you are but I'm not necessarily talking about compatibility in terms of personality I mean more being apart of the same industry and stuff I was just asking if people think this influences a relationship in a positive way
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:41 PM
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I think what I'm also referring to is being on the same page so having a shared idea of what your future will be like
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:31 PM
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Yeah it is but I feel like it depends on your personality there are some people that want someone to have the same interests as them so
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:29 PM
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I guess It does have something to with it But it can also be circumstantial too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:27 PM
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True it's both nature based things right? So that's where the shared lifestyle comes into play.. if they hated going outside or doing outdoorsy things but the other person liked it that's when I don't see it working
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:11 PM
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This is what I'm referring to don't get me wrong there's nothing wrong with different personalities or values but if you're traveling in a direction that they don't want to go in, I see how it could make things tricky.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:08 PM
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I think the lifestyle has to be similar personally at least for you to easily spend time together if they don't want to do stuff your into? That makes it sort of difficult to connect with them in your free time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:06 PM
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I don't even know who that is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 05:31 PM
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t it's easier for women not to have sex than men as in choosing to be alone
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:07 PM
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The ick is a code word for "you don't like them fully and therefore natural parts of their personality make you annoyed." To me either you like something or you don't. If you're genuinely in love it's going to be all in with compatibility, I don't see how icks can exist if the personalities blend well together.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 07:04 PM
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I personally disagree that gender is the first thing people notice when forming a bond
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:42 PM
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But that doesn't always happen, I wouldn't say women always protect eachother and offer eachother things all the time in terms of everybody doing it for eachother
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 02:41 PM
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Women don't necessarily help eachother because their women. The sororities you mentioned flock together due to shared characteristics I doubt they'd act the same to another person in their gender that doesn't fit the requirements of their organisation. Clearly they have personality traits that are similar and that's why group is forming If you resonate with someone you'll be friends this isn't a gender thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:21 PM
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I think having a ton of phobias isn't really great for a person's mental health so I don't see why it's romantic in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 08:53 PM
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Two different personalities not working together
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:30 AM
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Sorry for your loss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 05:05 PM
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To be honest with you I'm not sure because I don't know any. It depends on your area though I think the demographic changes depending on location. So if you live in a place that's mainly made up of a certain type of person your more likely to see specific traits more frequently.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/22 10:32 AM
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I wouldn't be American
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 02:01 PM
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To be confident in themselves and grab opportunities/ don't miss out on things
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:17 AM
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True but I think it depends on how touched you are by those interactions there are people who require something deeper than that furthermore seeing it as trivial and lacking appreciation for that
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:57 PM
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I don't think compassion is enough for people to like you I mean perhaps they'll accept it if it's coming from the person they want but they might overlook it if it's someone else that's less significant to them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/22 10:04 PM
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They are not as interested as they used to be perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:28 PM
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I wouldn't lose anyone I only know my family and they couldn't care less if I do connect with people they can deal with my opinions
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 02:14 PM
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I don't know I think concrete results are more useful for everybody male and female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:06 AM
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A shocking discovery has been made
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 10:05 AM
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The amount of new internet terminology is insane who agrees?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:36 AM
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Isn't it just incel rhetoric for women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:36 AM
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I'm not scared of anything I guess I've just only known the teenager trope so yeah My life has improved with age so I'm excited I guess.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 08:31 AM
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Animals eat humans too though so.......
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:30 AM
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Yeah but why is it ok in the first place? I don't get why humans think they have more authority on earth than animals they don't. I mean so many things are enormous compared to us. Some animals can see better, hear more things
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:20 AM
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I think it is honestly I'm against someone choosing to alter another person's genitals so that means circumcision and FGM too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:14 AM
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I have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 11:10 AM
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I think some people don't need it and others do. Maybe that's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:08 PM
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I think confident or nice is too vague to describe a personality honestly it says nothing about their inner values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:07 PM
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Well perhaps it's not intentional I don't know really self admittedly
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:05 PM
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Well it's not a nice move but who am I to judge? Perhaps you have a deep seated fear of being ignored that causes you to act like that. It's the prospect of something for sure that you don't like. Is it Abandonment? Who knows
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 04:04 PM
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Everyone can ignore people I don't think it's a good enough indicator to be a psychopath.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:45 PM
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No. But it's the thought of getting a reaction and seeping underneath your skin that they love. Responding with hate can still be a sign of hurt, so the other person sees your hurting and that makes you hate them. Meanwhile they don't care that's the desired effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:33 PM
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When people ignore you it's because they expect you to care. They are basically waiting for you to be upset and if that time never comes and you move on without them it's unexpected for the person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:25 PM
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That's why everybody wants it now. The amount of opportunities are insane it's a good way to get to places.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:08 PM
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You ignore them back, beat them at their own game.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:03 PM
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It isn't this gigantic thing that can't be dealt with. All people need to do is shift their lifestyle around to accommodate with the times.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:42 PM
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Concerned for the state of straight dating? As if the gay community have it easier, they don't especially gay men. High standards still exist in those settings.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:26 PM
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I think the trouble is you might end up in a loveless marriage though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:24 PM
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Really? There are plenty of loners in religious settings that's why people often leave them. Especially if they were raised in it but struggle to relate to the things they're taught.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:24 PM
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It's irritating to constantly dwell on that all the time because other people don't care as much as I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 02:22 PM
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I think religion causes people to be a bit concerned about how morally just they are for the rest of your life. At least that's the case with me but I don't know about anyone else really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:03 AM
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Yeah I imagine that might make it more difficult though, what if you can't make friends easily? Also in some religions people are automatically married to a person that's chosen for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 08:20 AM
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They don't require it. They know they can use it to gain whatever they want to. It's a stepping stone nowadays if you can do it then most people can benefit from doing so .
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:18 AM
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They are not happy. Fame isn't what you think they do have panic attacks from being exposed to everyone. Once people know your name there's no turning back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:16 AM
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Making me feel like I can express myself without judgement. Feeling comfortable around them and in their space, so no anxiety Trusting them 100% Positive mentality in life or healthy mindset Happiness Talkative (so has many ideas)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 07:12 AM
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The e boys and muscular guys you're mentioning still have traits in common
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 05:29 PM
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People are unhappy for many reasons. Dating might just be one of them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:21 PM
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I said most people that doesn't mean everyone but it's typically a component, I'm not refusing to acknowledge people's experiences I know there and many exceptions. Consider my opinion to more that it's a component to alot of people of course that doesn't mean it's the only facet, but it is one of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 04:05 PM
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But I do think in terms of what is considered ideal within society some people might receive more benefits than others in certain areas considering those factors
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:41 AM
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Honestly nobody gets handed everything we all have shortcomings just in different areas, life doesn't go smoothly for example someone might have one thing and be without another
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:40 AM
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It is a truth to some but that doesn't mean others believe in it. About the second point who provides security then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:34 AM
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Ok but what makes a relationship last though?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:30 AM
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What wins women? In your opinion
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:21 AM
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Nobody said anything about awareness. Of course people are aware that's why there's criticism of it but sadly people get shut down by those in power positions.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:21 AM
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Don't get me wrong it's ok if people don't care I think they just find it hard to admit that sometimes you don't have to fake interest in other people's issues
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:15 AM
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However I think it's even more extreme than that accusation sometimes I've seen people get told that they are downright hateful or wrong for no reason and harassed just because they had a different opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 10:13 AM
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There will be differences generationally because of course collective trends and interests can change overtime in everything! however I think there is an overall universal standard with slight adjustments made to it depending on where you are and what point in time that you're born.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:01 AM
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Never said there was a universal truth. This about comforting personal truths avoiding ones true opinion, so you don't make yourself become hated by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:29 AM
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The truth is that those people know about other people's issues, but they don't care. If things change that's a threat to the pluses that they receive, their soft response is coloured by the need to appear "morally just" in today's society. As I've mentioned previously.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:28 AM
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I'm not trying to change society because I don't want to I'm just illustrating the way people operate under a guise due to new societal pressures to be "virtuous" or whatever the definition of that has become according to the government
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 08:25 AM
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The truth is that for most individuals, men or women appearance is one of the factors that determine attraction even though people tend to pretend that it doesn't. There are secondary factors they might be interested in, but that it's the make or break point. Not sure why some people pretend it isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 07:41 AM
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I think collectively there are desirable qualities that people can agree that they would like to have maybe these are shared ideas and values, I mean isn't that why cultures exist in the first place? However this doesn't mean you need to agree on what these things should be naturally people might gravitate towards those that understand their character the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:28 PM
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There isn't one everyone's idea of valuable qualities is different. We don't all like the same music, you can also hate parts of yourself that other people love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:24 PM
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