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Women like a guy who understands basic English grammar and spellings
/r/seduction14/09/22 04:36 AM
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Living your life with the biggest concern for others’ feelings? I wouldn’t wanna live like that
/r/seduction07/09/22 05:59 AM
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Fuck you and your channel. Get a job entrepreneur
/r/seduction15/08/22 05:09 PM
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You can do both. 2 hrs a week is enough. Even 1 hour a week. You don’t have to give up Naomi or Canada to do something an hour a week
/r/seduction15/08/22 03:14 AM
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Do it on your off time
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:55 AM
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“Desperate and put blabla into blabla position” considered by who? You? Let’s say it’s considered by everyone around me including you, but I still do it anyways. What are you guys gonna do to me? Gonna beat me? Call the cops? Probably not. If she walks away I also politely walk away. So there is NOTHING you can do to me EXCEPT you CONSIDERED me as something negative? Do you think I care?
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:14 PM
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“Demonstrate”, “would they be considered as “” is up to the receiver, interpreter. Some people are receptive to that and some people will tell you to go fuck yourself. You don’t know what kind of people she is until you talk to her. And trust me, on your death bed, ‘I feel bad cos that girl whom I interacted with 40 years ago for less than 20 seconds thought I was desperate and was annoyed” will not be on your thought list. It doesn’t fucking matter.
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:11 PM
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We are all npcs. We are all playing behind a controller except we are too attached to this character so when the character is rejected we feel hurt. If op feels intimidated at the gym, then he should catch her outside and tell her that I saw you inside and you were cute but didn’t wanna bother you working out
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:28 PM
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Talk to her right outside of the gym. Anywhere but the gym, right outside the door of the gym is fine.
/r/seduction09/08/22 04:52 AM
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Firstly , the long scar is due to an old type of hair surgery and we don’t do that anymore. Currently FUE surgery leaves no scar. 2. If you have bad side effect from finasteride consult your doctor and adjust dosage. If not, only use rogaine which is minoxidil. I only used minoxidil after the transplant and no finasteride. The transplanted area has some empty spot with no growth sadly , but it’s not very visible and in its entirety looks good. Consider getting it while you still have hair. And s…
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:37 AM
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Just got hair transplant. I am not severely bald though just recession on the corners. Now I can’t stop playing my hair every day cos it so beautiful. Save up some money and consider it
/r/seduction06/08/22 05:29 AM
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Never get dating advice from a woman
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:10 PM
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Cheat sheet: do whatever comes up in my mind at the moment and tell the truth. Your cheat sheet, your tricks are manifestation of your active desire to not be rejected( if I do this and that she will think of me as this and that and positive and I will be accepted) this in as of itself is not something I think is right. If you just do whatever you want at every moment, and some of your words and behaviours lead to some woman perceiving you in negative light and rejecting you. Maybe she and you a…
/r/seduction30/07/22 12:03 PM
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That’s exactly the opposite of what I believe… you ONLY gain confidence when you encounter NEGATIVE experience when you approach… receptive girls and positive smiling interaction will teach you nothing but give you a good time and stroke your ego. ONLY interaction such as being ignored totally, or cold indifferent non-response face/voice will truly slightly traumatize you and let you grow some teeth, and incur incremental confidence.
/r/seduction30/07/22 08:11 AM
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Idk they just seem different things. It’s like using hypnosis to get over your fear of getting out of bed is one thing , but using it to somehow get yourself to play golf every day and win a tournament just seems unrealistic. It’s like getting back from sickness is the realm of therapy but there are things in life that should be attributed to yourself. It’s like asking what alcohol brand to drink to approach girls. Yeah maybe once you drink it you can just get dates but it doesn’t make you feel …
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:07 AM
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I dont know what you meant by social media interactions. I am simply saying if a man say things, or does things with the intention of not being honest and true to himself, but to appear likeable by others, which is something totally out of his control, then his mind is weak
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:32 PM
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The obsessive pursuit of the avoidance and escape from rejection is exactly the root of fear, or the cause of anxiety. That’s why people are obsessed with pick up coach, pick up line, dating gimmicks: they would desperately find Anything to hold onto so they will not be rejected. The reality is that rejection will constitute the majority of the interaction regardless of your appearances, words and behaviours. The active pursuit of acceptance, or non rejection is just repulsive and cowardly. Acce…
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:45 PM
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How about just tell the truth instead of thinking people as machine in the sense that if you say this line, they will think a and will lead to result b? The intention of thinking of a witty response is under the assumption that a witty response will ensue people perceiving you in some positive way and will act in a benefiting way for you. But as arrogant and intelligent as your analytical mind is, the world and the people are influenced by billions of factors that your mind cannot think of. Ther…
/r/seduction27/07/22 05:04 AM
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Hey are there any books to self- hypnotize myself into believe the earth is flat ? No. MP3 does not help you approach 9 and 10s. And I don’t like the conception of rating people as points. You are responsible for your behaviours.
/r/seduction27/07/22 04:59 AM
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‘Hi I see you sitting here often. I find you attractive / you are pretty .’ Show your intent early, don’t hide it and be a creep. Be honest . You don’t care about the spot, you find her face beautiful
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:24 AM
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Techniques fade in the face of brutal unfiltered honesty. How about just tell the truth about what Color you like.
/r/seduction25/07/22 11:23 AM
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When you are this good looking, it does not fucking matter
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:51 PM
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Walk away. And ask someone else. Why guys always persist when woman clearly says no? You don’t really think there is a magic word you can say to make her have sex with you? You really think someone will answer say this, and she will turn around and suddenly be in love with you ? Just no, ask somebody new.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:20 AM
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Hi. You are pretty. And just wing it from there. Always express your intention within the first two sentences. If you hide your intention, I personally feel that it is creepy.
/r/seduction22/06/22 04:18 AM
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Not a native speaker. I got GRE vocabulary and Don’t understand a single word of this English
/r/seduction21/06/22 05:58 AM
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If you think it is. It is. It’s a self fulfilling wish. In actuality . No one cares about you . They don’t think about you that much at all. And even if she rejects you, she is not gonna remember the incident. You won’t too, at least you would not think of it at your death bed. In short, none cares and it doesn’t matter
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:48 AM
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How many times, 5, 50, or 500? You wouldn’t come back when the time becomes 500 because you would have had a girlfriend by then
/r/seduction19/06/22 02:18 AM
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I’m 26 never had relationship had sex with hookers I felt your pain. I don’t even have a job rn and I am deep in a pit. Hope we can all get better.
/r/seduction18/06/22 08:31 AM
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You need to meet some man offline and go out together. I met a crazy 21 years old in china met up for four times and approached a hundred times. Now i am back in Canada I am scared again alone. Find another man to help you, pat you on the shoulder
/r/seduction18/06/22 04:49 AM
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Always do direct approach. Your way works but the rate being low is just natural. Look up mike melhman in YouTube and watched his rejected 20 times video. That is the realist you can get in terms of what real picking up is like
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:20 PM
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I have been approached by personal trainer in the gym saying she liked my shoes and wanted my contact to send her the details on the shoes. I think that’s the way for ladies to approach men. Just say you likes something they wear and wants their phone number to send your the link. If they interested they will get your message
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:17 PM
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This guy also in Taiwan, why doesn’t he have problems? https://youtube.com/c/HeyGirl1
/r/seduction13/06/22 04:09 AM
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I am serious. I am a newbie but I largely believe mike melman’s materials. He said the same thing
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:22 AM
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I believe that is true(the 80% rate, if you are really good at words or good looking maybe 70%). 3 reasons:1. Personal experience, a lot of Girls who are not receptive simply walk straight , and not even looked in my direction, thus cannot see what I looked like. 2. When I first started picking up, this 21 years old wing in China who is insanely good looking and audacious, he approached it constantly at situations I did not dare and I saw him with my own eyes behind him, he constantly got reject…
/r/seduction12/06/22 06:20 AM
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You will be rejected 80% of the time regardless of your wealth , looks , intelligence, or whatever. No reason . It simply is. If you look like Leonardo dicaprio maybe you will reach 70% , 50% lowest. But rejection does not care about your looks, when I picked up girls in china, 50% of the girl who rejected me did not even look at me. They NEVER saw my face. They just heard me say my piece, picked up their pace. And not once glanced at me and walked. So, no, it doesn’t matter. Don’t use your logi…
/r/seduction12/06/22 04:51 AM
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“ I don’t date short guys” “ what a coincidence, I am the shortest guy in the whole world!” “. I don’t date men with glasses” “ I have the most severe myopia in the world “ “ I don’t date men who eat sushi” “ Japanese food my favourite food “ “ I don’t date men who plays game” “ I love PC gaming “ “I don’t date men who likes coffee” “ I love coffee and drink five cups every day” enough example for you? Just don’t deny whatever she says she don’t “date”, and admit that you are exactly what she do…
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:24 PM
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And I have never had a girlfriend. Same age. From the perspective of having life experience isn’t it fair to say I am pretty fucked?
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:18 PM
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No. I just had immense trouble recently. On everything. I need to get myself out of this.
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:33 AM
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What if I have Trouble talking to old ladies?
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:24 AM
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27 and already a single dad. Me 26 never had a relationship and still using my mom’s money, and taking online course to get a job. Fuck me
/r/seduction11/06/22 04:23 AM
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There is no need to impress anyone and desire is suffering , the identification with your form is so painful. I am just spreading the good preach of Buddhism to relieve some suffering of lives those who happens to listen
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:13 AM
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You are in so much pain because you are so into this life. Free yourself by learning Buddhism and meditation.
/r/seduction06/06/22 06:00 AM
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Please please dont put word in my mouth, I never ever would ever blame anything on women as I harbour no negative feelings towards them. They just are. It is not the 'women's fault' because it is not a wrong thing.. I am just saying it is natural, it is not a thing that is wrong, hence noone's fault. It just is the majority of the interactions thats my point. And yes i do the same thing over and over again, and the results is always around 5-10%, which is normal.
/r/seduction02/06/22 08:31 PM
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There is no scar at all throughout the thing. Just do research FUE transplant. Ask a doctor and get it done
/r/seduction02/06/22 12:16 PM
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No. But you interpret it however you want. I always open from the side, never stop them in front. Stopping right in front is just too intimidating
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:14 AM
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no, never ever a front stop. Run up to her and open from the side, diagonal 45 degree. Never in front. I would even let her pass by me, I turn around, and open from the side. Never front, it’s just not right
/r/seduction02/06/22 06:02 AM
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hair transplant is the safest most done operations in terms of cosmetic surgery. Now my oral surgery is what is called risky, the doctor cut an incision inside my mouth, slice off some side jaw bones, and move my chin bone forward
/r/seduction01/06/22 11:40 PM
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OK. In this case maybe asks her, it seems to me that I have noticed you replie to me every time exactly 2 hours later. It made me wonder why that is.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:15 PM
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Not necessarily . It’s just your interpretation of it, what if they have an accident? What if they are playing games for hours or watching a movies or out shopping? What if they saw your text while walking, but forgot to reply?
/r/seduction01/06/22 06:12 PM
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Maybe they don’t text you back immediately is because they actually have a life and have things to do ? Not everything is centered around you
/r/seduction01/06/22 06:00 PM
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Plastic surgery . I did oral surgery and hair transplant. At least everyone can get hair transplants. No excuse
/r/seduction01/06/22 05:37 PM
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To each of his own way I guess. I just don’t ask for names , don’t care. I say whatever I want. Don’t care if it hurts my chances as long as I am honest as fuck because I already can make peace with the possibility that I may never have relationship in my life. I’m ok with it
/r/seduction31/05/22 12:57 PM
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I don’t do this , I don’t say my name and I don’t ask their name. It’s irrelevant. We are gonna see each other only once anyways, what’s the point of names? I usually say I saw you over there and I think you are pretty, and then I ask what they are doing today or what they doing in the city. Then I talked a bit about myself and asked if they are single. When they say yes , regardless of lie or not , I go away. If no, I talk a bit more and get numbers
/r/seduction31/05/22 02:08 AM
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Hello? Don’t you hear that she sprained her ankles? Give a sick woman a day of good rest at home can’t you ? Instead interpreting everything from your perspective, your needs and your desire
/r/seduction30/05/22 09:47 PM
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Who says a man has to drink? I am allergic to alcohol and I don’t fucking drink.
/r/seduction30/05/22 06:54 PM
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I wish someone could hurt me. I am 26 never been in relationship. But I understood not to be surprised if a woman cheated. And never to be resentful. Accept people’s behaviour as they are and let emotions go through you without holding on to them. Learned it from spiritual teaching
/r/seduction29/05/22 10:02 PM
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it is the nature of women. But you should not blame her, there is nothing wrong with that. It is inherent in our species. Just accept it and let it go. You will learn more about people when you grow up. Accept it and still love woman- women are not designed to be loyal and this tendency of cheating is what evolves our species- do not hate on it, just accept it. be at peace with it
/r/seduction29/05/22 09:07 PM
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Nah I don’t care about clothes. Fashion is a scam created by wealthy owners and attractive models. I did oral surgery and hair transplant surgery instead. And get a 30 dollar black hoodie. Oh, and draw my eyebrows and am gonna dye my hair.
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:46 AM
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MADMAN
/r/seduction29/05/22 04:37 AM
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When she smiles back and looks at the phone I would rather just walk away. There is no need to proceed
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:54 AM
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A lot of girls are like this in China. Not a single girls respond like this in Canada yet. Girls in China act like you are invisible , let’s say 40 out of 100 approach
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:52 AM
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Wearing glasses affect how SOME People perceive you. If you wear glasses , certain groups of girls like you, if you don’t, another certain groups of girls like you. You just attract different sets of people. So, why do you care ?
/r/seduction29/05/22 03:49 AM
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I’m talking about there is nothing to improve with this specific situation with one specific girl. I am not telling him to stop trying with others. My point being when he gets rejected with a specific person, he should not ruminate and move onto showing intents to other women. Look at his title. He is troubled by one specific person
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:56 PM
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This is my point. There is no such thing as improving because there is nothing wrong with him.
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:49 PM
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From this videos I think there is great courage and audacity to be learned from these catcallers. Look at their face, they are not rich, getting a 80k job, having insane facial features. Yet they have the audacity to say something to the woman, although the attitude and the way they say them are wrong. I believe what we can learn from these videos is that these catcallers have worse jobs, poorer communication skills, worse facial features, in worse life situations than many people. If they have …
/r/seduction28/05/22 09:47 PM
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The problem is not what you did wrong. The problem is that why you think doing something wrong constitutes a problem. Life is just an experience without any labeling. Getting rejected , getting flaked or getting sex have no inherent, universal meaning. I am not telling you what to think but I urge you to derive peace and joy from every moment of your life, bring alive is the great joy, enjoy your breath and the senses, even you think they are negative (they are not, you label them. What if you e…
/r/seduction28/05/22 08:24 PM
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Why would you wanna share? To be validated by someone else? Why not just be present and enjoy the moment? They thinks of you much less than you think they would
/r/seduction27/05/22 11:38 AM
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Try approaching beautiful patients in palliative home
/r/seduction27/05/22 04:22 AM
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That’s your decision. Ask your heart what it is that you wanna do and follow it. My advice is don’t take those strategies , analysis and ‘if you do this she will respond that ‘ advice in this forum too seriously. You should focus on the experience, good or bad
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:45 AM
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For me I just do whatever I want, as long as every word I said, every action I took are honest. I ignore any advice to get into her pants because I don’t care, and I believe that the result of being honest is the best result , even though that could mean someone not liking me and leaving me immediately. Life is just an experience, not a examination where if you get sex you are right and if you don’t , you did something wrong and needs to be corrected and told how to act.
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:42 AM
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You are still analyzing it. Maybe for this once, Stop using your mind to bend the narrative to your liking, or devise some “plan” to get it your way . Just let it go. There are things in this world that are meaningful to be solved like formula. And there are things that happened for no reason , or for reasons you shall not analyze. Accept it and let it go. Do not reject the pain, but neither hold onto it. Just be present in whatever you are doing and let it go. I would recommend the book power o…
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:22 AM
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Your next step should be getting your act together, ignore her and move on. And accept your emotion but let it come and let it go, handle the rejection like a man as if nothing has happened without any resentment or any rationalization, analysis
/r/seduction14/05/22 08:14 AM
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waste of time, either do not reply or reply “k”
/r/seduction12/05/22 07:16 PM
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I lift. It’s the only thing positive going on in my life. Another thing is my mom still giving me money, which is actually bad. I need to get my act together, get a job, driver license, and a girlfriend !
/r/seduction11/05/22 03:53 AM
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I am also 26. Did 100 approaches in china, quited my job a year ago and used mom’s money to do surgeries in china. Currently just returned to NA. Wanted to approach but I was anxious because I am jobless , do not have a wing, and living off my mom’s money . I am in no place to give any advice to you because I have never had a girlfriend. I think I am just expressing myself here because I am in a bad place in my life. I didn’t study much for job training, living off my mom’s money, and did not ap…
/r/seduction10/05/22 09:22 PM
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“Are you proud of me?” “ I don’t think about you at all”. This is a badass line from don Draper in madman
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:56 AM
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Don’t care. Playing number’s game
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:55 AM
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thats so cringe. Just say I was just getting some coffee and saw you over there. Thought you were attractive.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:52 AM
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How about “ hey I feel there is a connection between us. I think you are kinda attractive. Wanna go for a coffee? If you don’t feel the same way, we can go back to where we were” just be a man and tell the truth.
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:44 AM
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Don’t care about the sign. Do whatever you want and state your intention. Feeling euphoria when given good sign is a bad thing because it just means you will feel the same or more magnitude of pain when rejected. You as a man should be a mountain. Unmoved by either compliments or full-on debilitation. Just politely state your intention. And do not REACT TO their reaction.
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:23 AM
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Be insanely brutally honest and life will become an adventure. How about instead of asking men here as if this is a problem, you just straight up tell her” hey recently I enjoyed doing things with you , but I always feel fatigued during our conversation. What do you think about that? “ that will lead your life truthfully to an interesting and adventurous place. Put up no scheme. Use no strategy. Just say whatever you truthfully feel without filter and let the adventure begin
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:12 PM
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After 100 approaches , I learned that I will just do low energy approach in the future. Just talk to the girl like you are talking to a clerk, or in the tone of asking you mom to wash your clothes. Because 80-90% of the time you will get rejected no matter what you do, that should be e expected. And once I have experienced that ratio of receptiveness vs rejection, it is inevitable that your attitude and vibe exude low energy and nonchalance. In my opinion , this is the non-neediness.
/r/seduction15/02/22 07:05 PM
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It depends on the degree of the “confession” saying “ i thought you looked attractive. I wanna know you a bit wanna hang out?” Is fine but saying shit like full on love poem and “ I love you “ is just cringe and insincere and makes her think you are fantasizing in your head
/r/seduction15/02/22 06:58 PM
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As of today i still get the sense she feels awkward around me. She makes eye contact with me everyday but never says anything. She's always acting goofy and trying to get other guys attention when I'm near her. Please do not expend your energy into sensing, deducing and contemplating on how she 'feels' or 'acts'. It is none of your business. Focus on your life, not her feelings. She is nobody to you
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:49 AM
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DO NOT apologize if you DIDNT do anything wrong. It makes you weak, There is nothing unlawful and immoral about you telling you like her. Instead, you should have just told her" I understand you said no. I hope we can be professional and friendly going forward." But DONT apologize.
/r/seduction26/01/22 05:48 AM
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You can only feel humiliated when you allow yourself to. You have labelled and interpreted an event as "being humiliated". If you do not interpret it as such , it will not be humiliation. For example, it can be interpreted as "gaining xp for my real-life character to level up", so for every girl who rejects you, you are actually gathering experience points for your virtual character in your head. And believe that with sufficient xp you will become stronger. Everything is just a point of view. NO…
/r/seduction23/01/22 06:25 PM
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subed to your youtube channel nice content
/r/seduction22/01/22 10:24 AM
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I absolutely fucking love PC gaming more than anything else. But I do understand that, as I grew much older, I have a sexual need. So I will just keep going out and picking up, regretfully with only moderate efforts, until I get a girlfriend to fuck like once a week so I can go back to full-time gaming. There is no such thing as a superior way of living, sure some people look down upon others because they sleep with more women. But that is not necessarily an indicator of life because there is no…
/r/seduction10/01/22 01:54 PM
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I am 25, never had relationship, never knew what it felt like to have someone who is not a sex worker crave your body. I am also Asian, and will be permanently living in NA. I have attributed my relationship failures to my face up until last year when I fixed it the best I could with oral surgery. And naturally after that, the concept of picking up girls came to mind and haunted me for months of insomnia. Fortunately, I met a 21 years-old mentor and I started my first serious pick up (I did pick…
/r/seduction10/01/22 09:16 AM
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Well guess what, I have never been able to get a relationship. Noone except my parents wants anything to do with me. This pain and trouble you have is an extremely privileged one. I cant wait to bump up my approach number to 1000 and see if a relationship would occur and would like to feel such kind of heartbreak and distress.
/r/seduction08/01/22 05:30 AM
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do not approach gym trainers waitress or shop workers IF YOU INTEND to go there again ( if you are travelling or not going to revisit, go ahead) this is a tip from a coach that can save you a lot of troubles because you don’t know how they will react. Some girls can hate you and make it difficult for you to go there again
/r/seduction07/01/22 09:03 PM
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Not sure what that meant either. Here’s a useful quote for everybody: “Be born attractive, it is important” - Leonardo Dicaprio
/r/seduction07/01/22 05:18 AM
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Just wait or let it go. Talk to other girls
/r/seduction03/01/22 08:06 PM
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I am looking to find new wings to teach me a thing or two when I got back to North America. I certainly have huge issues in my approach but knowing where I was coming from, a kid in freshman year sneaking out of dorm at 5am to do laundry just to avoid seeing peers or saying hi to people, a kid who pretends he wasn’t in his dormitory when friendly floor mates knocked on my door to invite me to parties, I would say I have gone a long way. There are so many nights after I did 5-10 approaches , I la…
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:11 PM
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I quitted my job for a oversea surgery and am unemployed . But I am working on getting a new job, get the reason to wake up and get a schedule soon
/r/seduction03/01/22 06:07 PM
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25, no friends, never had girlfriends never had relationships, I absolutely fucking love video games and watching movies anime tv by myself, nevertheless I forced myself to pick up 100 girls, no dates yet. And I really don’t enjoy taking to people and I fear asking them out. But I guess I will just keep trying and land a long term relationship to solve my sex drive problem so I can be myself again - a recluse who plays video game- there is nothing wrong with not having friends or not living the …
/r/seduction03/01/22 04:43 PM
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You liked her and she doesn’t like you. Just take her word for it and please please don’t think for her “reasons” of saying she has a bf because it is none of your business. Be a gentleman and move on and don’t be a creep please
/r/seduction31/12/21 12:35 PM
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She had a bf, can’t you find a new girl? Why are you obsessed with this one
/r/seduction31/12/21 09:09 AM
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30% of the men between 18-40 don’t have a sex life. That’s the statistic. But I suspect that the truth is like half of the population of male do not have relationship freedom( meaning they are either involuntarily single, or they are in a relationship dictated and abused by female), I suspect only 20% of male have true sexual abundance in life. My point being this is supposed to be extremely difficult
/r/seduction26/12/21 04:41 AM
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25, worked out for a couple of years, amassed a lot of fitness knowledge, quitted during COVID but started working out again, did hair transplant and oral surgery, got my eyebrow trimmed and drew my own eyebrows, used the ordinary for skincare routines, spoke four languages, started learning picking up , used dating apps for a couple years. With all that under the belt, finding a mediocre woman is still incredibly difficult and I never had relationship. The harsh truth is mating opportunity is s…
/r/seduction25/12/21 06:06 PM
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I am not expert at this since I never had relationships. But from my experience of picking up 80 girls and texting the 10 number/social media I got, I just built comfort with each of them, and asked them for a coffee. If they reject me there is literally nothing I can do because you can’t negotiate attraction. Maybe just leave this girl and focus on other things for a couple of months and say hi to her after that
/r/seduction24/12/21 03:18 PM
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Honestly ,Feel like you should meet a new girl
/r/seduction24/12/21 09:27 AM
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Currently approaching in an Asian Country, but back when I was in Canada I was more direct than you. And I never go to bars because I am allergic to alcohol and only approach in the mall. In my lines I never say “interesting /nice dress”, I always directly point out that “ I think you are cute/ attractive “ or recently I say “ your face above the mask / your eyes and eyebrows are attractive , though I cannot see the rest of it”
/r/seduction23/12/21 05:26 AM
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Cut them loose, I picked up 70 girls the past month got 10 contact and got no dates yet. Just asked once and move on if you get a no.
/r/seduction19/12/21 05:20 AM
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Ok. I guess i just tried to apply what i learned about 'push-pull' and failed. noted. yes i am too serious thats why im 25 and never had a relationship
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:32 AM
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Whats wrong with that? i am trying to do a push-pull. you are cute physically(pull), but your personality is yet to be determined(push). pls honestly i dont know what is wrong with me
/r/seduction17/12/21 09:11 AM
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you are cute physically , just not sure what you are inside/personality wise yet.
/r/seduction17/12/21 05:48 AM
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How about “you are playing hard to get. If you continue, I will talk to someone new “
/r/seduction09/12/21 12:18 AM
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It is really a stupid thing to overthink with so long a post. How to ask her out? “Hey, I want to ask you out” isn’t that simple ? You asked how only because you are scared of rejection. Well, deal with it
/r/seduction08/12/21 10:38 PM
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Good job! I also have anxiety picking up in the gym because I think all the big jacked dude are gonna look at me and bash me up. Which is an irrational fear. Nobody fucking cares about me. I am also taking baby steps to the approach, currently have big major fear approaching set of 2 or more people. I can only comfortably approach a woman by herself. Gotta find a wing and encourage each other!
/r/seduction08/12/21 11:47 AM
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I agree. If possible, try approaching her when she walks out of the gym(in public), or when she is lying in the massage chair. Approaching when someone is sweating working hard is stressful for a newbie. I cannot do it myself. The best I have managed is to approach when the girl is on a treadmill at a slow pace without a headset on her ears.
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:03 AM
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Dont approach. Try the following first: yell in public (people will look at you like you are fucking weird, I want you to look into people's disgusting stare at you, and be ok with it. Tell yourself that you are still worthy of love and noone is gonna hurt you) do push-up in public.(I have never done this, but a friend recommended to me to alleviate anxiety) Ask a stranger(man or woman) for 100 dollars.( They will reject you, and that is the point. Be comfortable with being rejected). Or ask the…
/r/seduction08/12/21 09:00 AM
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Stop thinking. What you will do is you will walk up to her before you leave, and say “ I am just about to leave. I saw you over there and think you are attractive. I wanna know you” then it comes down to a yes or no. I am also nervous picking up in the gym. If you can manage it, try to talk to her outside the gym , which should reduce the pressure. It’s just simply a yes or no question once you ask it and you can be put to rest once it is done. Don’t look at her don’t care about what she does ju…
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:33 AM
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