slenderman404 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How to convey confidence if all you’ve experienced is rejection? U Glad ly hug w rg tho r him r him u up milm	/r/seduction	05/02/22 05:26 PM
0	[deleted by user] Thanks, I will look into it!	/r/seduction	18/01/22 07:08 PM
–	[deleted by user] I guess I was talking more about intimate vibe. What's phase shift?	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:50 PM
1	got left on delivered for 24hrs. I thought everything was going well. Loll I literally went through the same thing you did last year and I messed up. Don't make the mistakes I did. If you need advice on anytime, don't afraid to pm or dm me on here. Don't chase when she pulls away. Don't put relationship as your priority and just focus on you. Set up a date as soon as possible for sure. Good luck!	/r/seduction	18/01/22 06:49 PM
3	got left on delivered for 24hrs. I thought everything was going well. Try not to do a lot of your interactions through phone. Just contact her to set up dates and talk to her face to face. Don't obsess over her and just do your own thing. I know it is easier said than done but if you continue to pester her, it is going to get worse. Give her time to miss you. Your absence will remind her how much she wants you. Trust me, don't make the same mistake I did and scare her away. If she is losing interest, there is nothing you can do about it so just relax, and focus on…	/r/seduction	18/01/22 04:51 PM
2	Help with this Shit test It sounds like she just want to you take the lead and just set the date. Just give her a location, time, and whether or not you are picking her up and stuff. Most women want the man to be his masculine so she can be in her feminine. Don't worry about what she might think because if the place you picked or the time don't work, she will tell you. Send a message like "Ok, Little Italiano at 5:00 pm. Don't worry about anything, just bring your sexy self." Something like that. Hope this helps	/r/seduction	18/01/22 04:45 PM
0	19F, I like regular guys, more of a conversationlist rather than hey look I have a cock! Only if guys were not creepy in person/dms, the flirting game would be sooo goood! What do you like to talk about? I love learn about people :)	/r/seduction	14/01/22 10:48 PM
5	Reached out to a girl I used to talk to and only were friends with, after few messages she said we should grab a coffee and go for a walk in the park, is this a generic normal meet up or probably something ‘deeper’? It honestly could be either one. Us men seems to sometime mistake nice gesture as flirting but regardless, it is a good sign. The fact that she initiated a hang out must mean she wants you in her life one way or another. You can take the hangout as the stepping block to build interest. Just remember to not think too much and just have fun with her. This could be her testing the water to see how you guys match each other energy. If she had fun with you, then maybe she will develop more feelings f…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 07:44 PM
14	[deleted by user] Great! I am proud of you. There is a saying that goes, " In life, we must choose between two pains. The pain of action or the pain of regret. And the pain of regret last a lifetime." Now it would seem a little less scary next time you approach!	/r/seduction	14/01/22 07:35 PM
3	[deleted by user] There are not really anyway ways to become really witty or flirty if you are not like that naturally but you can create situation where it is more likely to be. For me, when I am more comfortable and not nervous, I am wittier and more flirty. Like with girls you don't like or with your friends, you are more relax and can joke and be witty a lot easier. So practice talking to girls and get use to being in that relax state. The more practice you get talking to pretty girls, the more relax you will…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 02:02 PM
53	[deleted by user] Him rejecting doesn't make you any less. It is just the fact that maybe you are not his type and it is not personal. I am sure there are people out there who thinks you are absolutely gorgeous. Look at it this way. When you try to do a jigsaw puzzle and one piece don't fit into another, does that make those pieces less valuable? No, the pieces just need to find the correct match. Dm me and we can talk more about it if you like :)	/r/seduction	14/01/22 03:53 AM
1	Getting compliments Whenever a girl gives you a compliment, maybe you can say something like, " Hey if you like me, just let me know." With a wink in a joking manner. See how she reacts.	/r/seduction	14/01/22 02:46 AM
2	Shifting focus to being social and having fun conversations Have you heard of the three seconds rule? Basically, whenever you think a girl is cute, down down from 3 and immediately to approach her. Don't let your mind wonder cause it will make a million excuses. After awhile, you will realize it is not that big of a deal to go up to girls. In terms of what to say, there is no one right answer and everyone is nervous. Just go for anything at all and see how if it works. If it doesn't, hey, she is probably just another stranger you never going to see again…	/r/seduction	14/01/22 01:54 AM
3	Never been to nightclubs. How to act? If you are talking about small talks that escalate, I would start by mentioning something about them. If you see a girl dancing, slowly dance next to her and be like " love your dance move" or "you gotta reach me how to do that". These "openers" serve two functions, A) you are complimenting her but not her look so you don't look like a creep and B) gauging her interest. If she is interested in you, more than likely, she will either dance with you, dance on you, or take the chance to get physical…	/r/seduction	13/01/22 09:02 PM
9	Never been to nightclubs. How to act? Just have fun and don't focus too much on picking up girls. Go up to people and just dance or talk and just enjoy yourself. When other people see that, they will join you since you created a fun atmosphere around you. Don't be shy, people in the club are there to have fun. Enjoy yourself and you will attract people to you. Good luck!	/r/seduction	13/01/22 04:26 PM
2	Confidence Do things that will make yourself proud. For example, if you promised yourself you will do something today, do it and you will build self respect that way. Slowly, you will be proud of yourself and realize you're the shit. Also, I find that saying to myself "be more confident" is so abstract to understand. Instead, tell yourself to not be result oriented. "It is what it is". Do things cause you want to and be ok with not getting what you want. The sooner you understand that everything is not for…	/r/seduction	12/01/22 11:29 PM
1	[deleted by user] What are y'all conversations like? Did you ever talked about anything sexual or hinted at it and in anyway. If so, how did she react? I have dated a lot of shy girls and there are different types. There are shy girls who are more traditional and won't do hook up or one night stand. There are shy girls who are only shy in the beginning but opens up sexually when they get to know you. It depend on the girl. I would test the water with her and see how she reacts at first. Be confident and jokingly …	/r/seduction	12/01/22 11:23 PM
1	Me and this girl have been poking each other on Facebook and I don’t know what to do Most girls won't initiate an intimate opportunity since most women want the men to take the lead. If you are interested in her, just message her and be like " Hey, lemme grab you a drink at a bar (or wherever) and I will let you poke me irl." Something to that effect.	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:59 PM
79	Do you think it's harder to attract women if you wank reguarly? Some people believe that by not masturbating, it motivates you to go out and find a woman to be with. But in your case, it seems to not matter. I would focus less on doing x or y to attract women and just do things for yourself. Ask yourself whether you want to do it or not and how does it benefit you? Also, I think your mentality about women liking uninterested might be slightly skewed. Women like a men who are confident and is ok if he gets rejected. It shows that he is not desperate. Acting l…	/r/seduction	12/01/22 10:46 PM
9	3 Ways To Start Getting Dates Even If You're A Struggling Newbie Where do you go to meet women? Any advice?	/r/seduction	12/01/22 12:34 PM