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| 2 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachSince we're on r/seduction you can use this pickup line "Are you GitHub? Cause I want to open a new repository and commit forever" | /r/seduction | 19/12/21 07:48 PM |
| 2 | My weird unexpected strategy to get girls to approachI am currently a student and I wonder if you were self-taught or you attendted college? I want to be a backend dev too :D | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 02:55 PM |
| 6 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?Posts like these are what we NEED on this thread. There are so many shitty posts about inner game, abundance mindset and stuff like that nowadays. Don't get me wrong, all these things are important. Personally posts that helped me the most were those where it's written about what to do in a certain situation etc. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Girls never check me out..?Give bros some advices hahaha | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Girls never check me out..?Often when I am outside my friend tells me that girls are checking me out. I never noticed it, they're probably very discreet about it | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Finally managed to kiss a girl at the clubGreat job man, next time make those cheeks clapping LMAO Btw I am just curious how old are you? | /r/seduction | 30/11/21 05:16 PM |
| 3 | Finally managed to kiss a girl at the clubAny successful stories to share? Haha | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 03:33 PM |
| 8 | For menSame problem here man | /r/seduction | 28/11/21 01:54 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Peaky Blinders fans already rocking this | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Three (3!) girls asked me for my number this weekendThanks man. My biggest issue is my back - left side is stronger and bigger than right side, do you have any tips on how to fix muscle imbalances? | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 08:37 PM |
| 3 | Three (3!) girls asked me for my number this weekendYou must be tall or good looking or buff. I got the good looking and buf part. Started working out harder and seeing very noticeable muscle gains, lots of female attention lately. That's good to hear man. Do girls approach you or you get choosing signals? Btw. give us some workout and diet advices haha | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI use European metric system and I just googled "180cm in feet" haha | /r/seduction | 09/10/21 12:50 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelJust ask your barber to do a fade and ask him if it'd suit you. I think no one looks bad with fade | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelTrue, started lifting because my friend wanted me to join him and since then I'm hooked. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelSad truth haha | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelIt's all about the vibe you project | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelThanks anyways haha | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelTrue man, I've been there... eating like shit | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI meant bike cycling lmao | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelThanks man! | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelYes man, especially fade haircut. Got one yesterday and I would smash myself. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:20 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI had a haircut yesterday as well, really gives you a small confidence boost. Don't depend on choosing signals - take action instead. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:20 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI am 5'9 (180cm), and I also rock a beard 90% of time. What helps me to improve my face is -fade haircut -trim beard -skincare routine | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI am 22 now | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:15 PM |
| 5 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelOthers can explain it better, but in my experience it was stares, longer eye contact with a smile etc. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelYes I am white. You can improve your face by having a skincare routine. Apply moisturizer to your face at least once a day. Don't touch your face with dirty hands. Wash it with water at least twice a day. If you can get a daily face wash. I've never used it but people say that Tiege Hanley skincare system is the best skincare for men. If you have beard keep it clean and trimmed. Hairstyle. Go to the barbershop and ask for something that would suit you. I'd sugget to go with fade, it suits everyo… | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:36 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelThanks man, couldn't agree more. I was at both sides of spectrum tho. Been nerd guy when I was a teen, never approached girl until I was 18-19. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:34 PM |
| 9 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI worked out since I was 15(22 now). I wasn't consistent until maybe last year or two, when pandemic started I realized how much health and physical activity matters. Don't rely on motivation, there will be days where you feel like crap and gym is the last place you'd go to. Keep in mind that with good exercise routine and diet you can achieve body of your dreams... it just takes consistency. Rely on discipline instead. You are doing it for your own good. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 9 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelGlad you found it inspirational man, keep working | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelBuild muscle but try to get and stay lean | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelThis. I feel more energized through day and sometimes I don't even need a nap | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelTrue, besides of fitness I do cycling and basketball | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:22 PM |
| 3 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelHaving physique like Chris Hemsworth, Michael B Jordan, The Rock, Anthony Joshua is my goal. | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:21 PM |
| 4 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelTbh I am white and I think that black guys always have better bodies and swag... almost always | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next levelI am 5'9 (180cm) tall, white European, average looking face but with fresh hairstyle and well trimmed beard I get a point or two more, a little bit of "nerdy guy" as well :) | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Gym and fitness really take things up to next level180cm (5'9) | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 09:15 PM |
| 2 | Why do some girls that find you attractive never give off signals???What did you do afterwards? | /r/seduction | 07/10/21 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to say to approach a girlWhy you can't do the same via DMs? I understand if you wanna differentiate yourself from guys in her dms haha | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:03 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]You could also ask a friend with a newer iPhone to take photos of yourself if you don't want to break the bank for photos. But basically you can hire any photographer you come across with | /r/seduction | 29/09/21 09:01 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Interesting stats. I am curious how do you look now haha | /r/seduction | 24/09/21 02:34 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Man that's what I was thinking all the time and someone finally said it I never saw a point approaching ton of girls like a hobby tbh | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I have a question, how much % of these 400 approaches were successful in terms of getting a number/ig, going on date etc.? | /r/seduction | 23/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Getting Attention Without TryingI am the worst spectrum- skinny fat. Thin arms, belly fat and love handles :( | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Flake on the dateOn the day of meeting ask her earlier if the deal still stands | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach a girl who left me on seen in person?How to know if she's interested haha | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach a girl who left me on seen in person?On your command sir! | /r/seduction | 17/09/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | Should I approach a girl who left me on seen in person?Thanks man, I'll try to approach in person from now on | /r/seduction | 16/09/21 07:52 PM |
| 1 | For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you?Honestly it's similar to yours | /r/seduction | 05/09/21 10:07 AM |
| 6 | For guys what piece of advice has always worked with you?Does it mean having good career and money,nice car, travelling or something else? | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Fashion is a big part of the seduction. So who do you follow for men fashion ?Just make sure clothes fit properly, you don't want to wear baggy jeans for example. And remember, good cologne will get you noticed more than Gucci belt ever will. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 08:52 PM |
| 8 | Fashion is a big part of the seduction. So who do you follow for men fashion ?I agree with you, but sometimes a guy can be dressed better with lower end of the range tho | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 08:51 PM |
| 5 | What if a teenager shares a book about seduction even tho the teenager is really good with game and he got alot of knowledge. would you guys take the book seriously?Hearing other experienced guys and their stories and advices is more valuable than every book out there in my opinion But if I had to stick to one book it would be "Models" by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 07:45 AM |
| 1 | For those American's who've been to Europe what's the biggest difference between American and European women?I see you have a minimum knowledge bro | /r/seduction | 17/08/21 03:39 PM |
| 4 | Lifting....Changed everythingCouldn't have said it better. I started working out at a freshman year in high school and it's probably the best decision in my life. It opened so many doors and possibilities for me, improved every aspect of life as well. I don't feel right when not working out anymore. | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 02:21 PM |
| 2 | Lifting....Changed everythingFor beginners I'd suggest Mike Thurston, he has some great vids on beginner workouts | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 11:35 AM |
| 7 | Lifting....Changed everythinglifting = going to gym and working out You need to do everything to maximize your results (dumbbells, barbells, machines). but free weights > machines every time | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 08:17 AM |
| 0 | Lifting....Changed everythingEveryone who consider lifting or needs some help on it, I'd suggest Athlean-X channel on youtube | /r/seduction | 09/08/21 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I had a worst approach ever and my friend ruined it even moreI felt like that at first... but now I don't even care :D | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 08:41 PM |
| 1 | I had a worst approach ever and my friend ruined it even moreThe thing that bothers me most is that I only have male friend groups, I wish I had female friend groups and we go outside together etc. Thanks for advices :D | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I had a worst approach ever and my friend ruined it even moreAnd you need to play cool and find a good comeback in these situations, and all that while being COLD AS ICCCE. This is exactly what I'm trying to achieve bro. How tf do I become that smooth? When I am in the moment I can't come up with good responses, only afterwards. It's like when you are arguing with someone and you come up with great responses and arguments after the argument is over, hope you know what I mean. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:05 PM |
| 2 | I had a worst approach ever and my friend ruined it even morewhat u did was a neg especially since you turned your back to them right after... I realized that when I came home... if he hadn't said that someone would eventually continue a convo. | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 12:02 PM |
| 1 | I had a worst approach ever and my friend ruined it even moreI thought the same about the approach but friend ruined my vibe... You may be right, he wanted to shine through that. I won't make a big deal out of it. Thanks for reaching out man | /r/seduction | 08/08/21 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Not sure what I did wrongThis gives me hope and motivation my g, keep it up. How old are you, if you don't mind me asking? | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Not sure what I did wrongYou did great man! I would be shy and would never approach her when she's with family haha. How did you build up courage? | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 08:47 PM |
| 1 | I KNOW I CAN DO IT, I JUST DON'T KNOW HOW TO START...Man I'm having the SAME problem and you couldn't describe it better, any advice would be welcome | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 08:13 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what I did wrongI don't have experience with this so I can't help you out, but I am curious how did she act and respond before first date/when you met her? | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 08:06 PM |
| 5 | Guys I need some stupid pickup linesAre you a microwave? Cause you're mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm | /r/seduction | 06/08/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Here's everything I've learned about women, dating, sex, PUA, and seduction in my decades of life.Thank you for this man, this is the best post I've seen here. This will be my guidance in life in terms of dating, and here are some great life advices as well. I'd love to ask you some questions: What is your opinion on texting? Do you have any advices here? How the hell did you manage to pick up almost half the women you approached? 😅😅 Was it your looks, style, personality, charisma,humour, status...? How do I stop getting nervous around girls? I feel like I missed out on so many chances becau… | /r/seduction | 05/08/21 02:15 PM |
| 4 | My first cold approach at the gym & and my experienceYou did well just by shooting your shot my g, don't get discouraged | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 04:43 PM |
| 5 | Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?What does your friend do to attract chicks? Asking for a friend (: | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 04:41 PM |
| 5 | Is it normal for a girl to approach a guy?Are you aware of how did you present yourself? Confident body language, nice outfit, hair...? | /r/seduction | 04/08/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Always tell her your intentions before asking for numberThat's why I made this post. I see so many guys treating number as a goal | /r/seduction | 03/08/21 10:32 AM |
| 1 | A watch, subtle use of cologne, and a few solid color t-shirts that fit well. Effortless items that increase outward attractiveness and convey statusSpeaking of colognes, I have a question. Guys, did anyone use a cologne YSL Y eau de parfum? Smelled it earlier this week and it blew me away. Looking for a summer fragrance and it's my top choice among with D&G light blue intense and Dior Sauvage (2nd bottle) | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 10:04 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Those are some genius tips man. I am curious what's your opinion on skincare? I think it's as important as hairstyle | /r/seduction | 01/08/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Best one night stand story from a bar/dance club?How tf you guys get chicks at college, I feel like it was way easier in highschool :') Need some advices... | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?I don't want to lose a lot of muscle mass but i hope it's the best idea | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?My belly fat is what I'm struggling with the most, my back,chest and shoulders are solid but belly fat and love handles ruin proportions. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Do you have some advices on how to be likable? I struggle with conversations a lot, I tend to get creepy and cringey when talk to girls very easily | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Me too man, I am 22... | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?I have solid developed back and chest but arms and shoulders lack. Also I have a belly fat(skinny fat type) so idk what to do, bulk up and cut or vice-versa | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:19 PM |
| 2 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Now the harder part... to get jacked haha | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Man how did you hooked up with 30+ women? Did you rely on your looks only or? | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Looks do matter a lot in my opinion. Go and see my previous post here, a girl that I'm not physically attracted to dm'd me and said she is into me. She wrote something among these lines: Slightdrippin, I don't want to wander around bush and imma say that I like you... sorry for being honest and I hope I didn't bother you Since I am not attracted to her, I replied "I appreciate the honesty and I'll take it as a compliment :) ". What do you think man, was this a good response? | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Motivation UP lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?This comment really motivated me man. I am skinny fat, 5'9 but I dont want to get ripped, I'd rather have a look like Michael B jordan or something, not too ripped and not too bulky | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:10 PM |
| 9 | Guys who got fit and muscular, how did that help with girls?Glad to hear this man | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 03:06 PM |
| 3 | What to do if a girl DMs you but you are not interested?I just realized that man | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | What to do if a girl DMs you but you are not interested?I didn't open the message yet hahaha, thank you will do that | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 11:40 AM |
| 2 | What to do if a girl DMs you but you are not interested?Actually I've seen her probably 1 month ago when going out, one of her friends approached my buddy. I had a small talk with her that night. One week forward and she followed me on IG. Several days ago she replied to my story wishing me a happy bday(I posted a story that today's my bday). Idk what to do :/ Why girls I'm into don't do this :( haha | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 10:23 AM |
| 6 | I approached my first girl ever yesterday and got her numberIn my country if a female isn't married she's considered a girl, and if she is then a woman. Idk, it's stupid but it's how it is lol | /r/seduction | 18/07/21 09:50 AM |
| 2 | How to project a strong positive energy and vibe what are the things you can doI watched him too, great guy | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 03:11 PM |
| 2 | How to project a strong positive energy and vibe what are the things you can doI've just been binge watching his videos, dude's the best dating coach ever tbh | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways to increase attractiveness?I am a software engineering student and I am very curious what kind of software he's making and how did he became a millionaire, if it's not a secret. Stories like these give me motivation haha | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 05:02 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways to increase attractiveness?Some watches can go up in price after some times, as I could heard | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 05:01 PM |
| 1 | What are some ways to increase attractiveness?This. Also if you are driving keep your car clean as well. | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 05:00 PM |
| 2 | What are some ways to increase attractiveness?Tobey Maguire* | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 04:59 PM |
| 2 | How much does genetics have an impact on your success with woman?Genetics are something that you can't fix, so if I were you I'd focus on things I can change and control: Hairstyle Grooming(shaving/growing beard, body hair, nails etc. Working out Dressing better (it's not about expensive brands, it's about how clothes fit you!) Money (do it for yourself, not the girls!) I am a true firm believer than even though if you are 1/10, by working out you'll get to 6/10. Wear something nice like button down and slim fit jeans with some chelsea boots and you are 7/10.… | /r/seduction | 12/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | First Night Approaching After Reading "Models" by Mark MansonThanks man, I'll try it ASAP ! | /r/seduction | 06/07/21 03:10 PM |
| 7 | I asked some woman what their thoughts were on cold approaches.Never ask a fish on how to catch a fish, ask a fisherman | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:17 PM |
| 0 | What's your 'go to' move to sexualise an interaction that's too platonic?Man I'm stealing this. Thanks :D | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:08 PM |
| 2 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Could you explain how did daughter acted in front of her mom? Was she "responsible" and open or shy the whole time? | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Mom wingmanned her daughter for me so she could get laid.Yeah it does feel odd, but I know some girls who have that kind of relationship with their mom. Idk, I wish something similar would happen to me hahaha | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:04 PM |
| 2 | First Night Approaching After Reading "Models" by Mark MansonPlease could you explain how did you win over the group, last night I went up to only one girl and it didn't go very well. What should I do, how should I act? Thanks in advance :) | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Fun night at the barI am curious if I'd go for number or ig tbh, what's your opinion on this? | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 0 | issues of feeling creepy doing pickup?You are not creepy if you don't think you are. Try to act normal... that's what helped me, the most awkward guy I know | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 10:28 AM |
| 4 | Fun night at the barGreat man, this is what I'm trying to do next time when hitting bars - try to get a number. Just one question, where did you buy these hi-fi earplugs? | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 10:10 AM |
| 6 | First Night Approaching After Reading "Models" by Mark MansonMan this is exactly what I'm trying to do these days. Approach a group with my buddies, talk to one I like and try to isolate her. This gave me a lot of ideas, motivation and some type of confidence. Congrats on your success... next time those cheeks will be clappin hahaha | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:55 AM |
| 1 | You can literally improve your game by 50% overnightTry to have fun and vibe with your group, that's how I started to feel more relaxed to dance | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:36 AM |
| 3 | How to approach the girl from the gym?I don't have one at my gym too but my university has. I know you want that gym chick but try to do this somewhere else if possible | /r/seduction | 04/07/21 09:28 AM |
| 1 | She stopped responding, what I should've done better?Also, we live in a smaller city, what if I see her in person again? What should I do? | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | She stopped responding, what I should've done better?I thought about asking her out if she responds... but it's obviously clear that she won't. What if I see her again in person? Chances are big because it's not a big city | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | She stopped responding, what I should've done better?I am so angry of myself now, better luck next time... haha Thank you brotha | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | She stopped responding, what I should've done better?Thank you man, this advice is pure gold. I spent so many fucking hours and days lurking here and watching yt videos and pua's but decided it's finally time for taking action. I dm'd girls before and it always ended up by girls leaving me on read... | /r/seduction | 02/07/21 03:55 PM |
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