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MOOD FOR LIFEslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:04 AM
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#JustLVMThingsslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 06:36 PM
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STAY WOKEslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:55 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:05 PM
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NICE FOR WHAT?slothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 08:20 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:41 PM
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#JustLVMThingsslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:16 AM
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BAD SEX ADVICE slothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 01:57 AM
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LEVEL UPslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 02:18 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 03:14 AM
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NAH, SISslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 12:25 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨slothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:03 PM
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WHOLESOME CONTENTslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:03 AM
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LEVEL UPslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:58 PM
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#JustLVMThingsslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:36 AM
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BOOK REPORTslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:58 PM
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#JustLVMThingsslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 10:12 PM
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FDS SUCCESS!slothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 01:13 AM
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DISCUSSIONslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 04:51 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:53 AM
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FDS RESCUE MISSIONslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:33 PM
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#JustLVMThingsslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 09:41 PM
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BOOK REPORTslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:58 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:40 AM
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ROAST-A-SCROTEslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:31 AM
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RED FLAG 🚨slothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 03:04 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 12:34 AM
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DISCUSSIONslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:49 PM
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SCROTES MADslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:58 PM
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BOOK REPORTslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:58 PM
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Story time ☕slothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 12:34 AM
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BOOK REPORTslothsomesauce/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 02:15 AM
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Also, plan b is only effective if you weigh less than 160 pounds. It doesn't do anything if you weigh more than that. (Last time I checked, that is)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:19 PM
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The scurvy got him 😂😂😂😂 This is hilarious!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/20 12:01 AM
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You got it! Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 05:56 AM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:00 PM
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Yeah, maybe. I am more concerned about the mindset of her than anything. It is worrisome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:45 PM
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I will keep that in mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:36 PM
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Thank you 💙
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:35 PM
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Thank you! I feel cursed to be a straight woman. Haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 06:35 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 05:32 PM
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I paid $600 for 12 different dates, one to do each month of the next year. Each date had a handwritten letter as to why I chose it, included dinner and an activity. Bought an instax camera to take and print pics on the date and a photo album/journal combo to make a scrapbook of our adventures. We broke up 3 months later. You better believe I took that shit back! 9 months of prepaid adventures to do alone? Yes please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 03:18 PM
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Wow. That is amazing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/20 11:40 PM
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This! This needs to be the top comment! PREACH 2🙌🙌🙌 -Love someone who was so shamed for breastfeeding in public she changed to pumping.-
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 07:19 PM
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I wish I had this community when I was dealing with my ex. Gaslighting was his M.O. and it DESTROYED me. Glad I know better now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 11:54 PM
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Yep. This. 100! Get out now!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:58 AM
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Me, please!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 02:31 AM
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😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 05:10 PM
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I had to go to the sub to read to the end. I am so sad for her. To get to a point in a relationship where that is something you will do just to feel intimate with your partner...it has to be bad...so so sad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 03:08 AM
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No male has all 5: 1. Rock solid body 2. Treats women as people not objects 3. Doesn't watch porn 4. Cooks/cleans without being asked 5. desire/ability to please his partner in bed We can play too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 03:38 AM
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True! Something that happened to me was when an ex would put a hand on my arm or my leg it would feel like the heaviest, most uncomfortable thing ever. My brain would hyperfocus on where he was touching me. It felt awful, so awful I would have to move or ask him to stop. BIG RED FLAG! My body was physically repulsed!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 06:21 PM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 02:01 AM
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🙌 post it everywhere!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 03:57 PM
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Yeah...i saw it in Insta. 😞
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:25 PM
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Truth! Maybe that should be the shirt!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 02:25 PM
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This. All of this. Wish I could give a gold!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 08:20 PM
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It isn't about making a change for you to change an LVM. Its about making a change for you. Period. This change will then help you to not choose an LVM in the future, or not engage with one once you have determined he is an LVM. Edit to add: For you to say "most women aren't doing that" is a little appalling. That is a gross understatement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 04:26 PM
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I definitely get where you are coming from. To me, this is less of a "you are doing this wrong!" And more of a "hey, here is a potential underlying cause to why you keep doing this." It's all about leveling up to be the best version of you. 🙌😀
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 03:04 PM
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Here is what she said in the text: Two hallmarks of codependence - the addiction to control and approval. Many of my clients are aghast at the notion that their codependence is rooted in these two issues. . . The need to control someone else’s behavior so that they will feel good about said person AND behaving in a way that seeks approval, not to be loved for exactly who they are. . . In my example here you may want force him to stop talking to his ex (control) so that he will see you as the bet…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 04:59 PM
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Followed. Also, check out @acalltomen. Its a page to end violence against women and more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:40 PM
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Its like that moment in movies where her eyes meet his and she realizes she likes him, during a completely normal, everyday activity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 01:24 PM
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Pre-ordered mine! Let's do a book club!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 04:28 AM
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Preach! 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 01:14 AM
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This is such good advice!!! Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 12:51 AM
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But now, I’m going to let you in on a little secret: Timid guys aren’t as numerous as you may think. In fact, that cute guy who flirts with you and acts interested, but never actually does anything about it, can turn out to be a totally different breed of guy. He’s not timid, or awkward, or nervous. He’s manipulating you. Damn this hit me like a ton of bricks and makes so much sense. Great find!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:44 PM
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I never knew there was a term for this. This happened a lot in my previous relationship....and I always felt like the crazy one...now I know that is exactly what it was meant to do to me...wow. Thank you for sharing this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:45 PM
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😂😂😂 this made me spit take
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 11:19 PM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌 YES 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 02:42 AM
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Dude! I had no idea there was an app like this! I joined the BFF side and am so stoked!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/10/20 09:18 PM
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Fantastic response! I applaud you! 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:55 PM
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Done and done. ✅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:14 AM
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😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 12:07 AM
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That was unnecessarily rude. I said you were a negative Nancy because you called yourself that in my other post. You are more than welcome to feel strongly about saving the planet. You are also more than welcome to continue on scrolling when you see something that you do not agree with. The message of the pictures have now been completely lost to your environmental message and that is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:16 PM
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That was unnecessarily rude. I said you were a negative Nancy because you called yourself that in my other post. You are more than welcome to feel strongly about saving the planet. You are also more than welcome to continue on scrolling when you see something that you do not agree with. The message of the pictures have now been completely lost to your environmental message and that is sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:15 PM
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Wow. You are being quite negative!!! Edit: to change misogynistic language.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:02 PM
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Perfect Photoshop. Lol. It could be a three frame meme and yours could say "where FDS knows the bar is"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 02:29 PM
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This artist only has a certain number of balloons that he reuses for all of his art. Then he uses Photoshop to change their colors to create the asthetic he wants. Environmentally friendly artist who speaks the FDS truth?! Yes please!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:43 PM
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It isn't me, but I agree that sweater is amazing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:30 PM
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Read my response above. :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:28 PM
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Actually this artist reuses all of his balloons. He only has a certain number of each letter and then he photoshops them to be all the same color. He is super environmentally conscious and actually has many posts explaining his process in detail! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 01:27 PM
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Yep. 100. What sub was this on?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 11:34 PM
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Can I be honest? I am in my early thirties and am feeling this way....so I might venture a guess that it is starting much early than 40+ but maybe ramps up there abouts?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 12:16 AM
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This. This. This. This. God my ex gaslighted me so much I literally believed everything was my own fault. I believed I had to mold and fold myself down and completely change to be loved. I had stopped communicating any of my problems because "I was always starting problems" and acted "crazy" whenever I brought up my problems. His ex was "crazy" too. Stole his car and left it in a walmart parking lot, trashed. Let me tell you, by the end of our 3 year relationship, I applauded her. 2 years remove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:45 PM
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LOUDER FOR THE DUDES IN THE BACK LURKING ON OUR MF'n PAGE!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:47 PM
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Hell yeah!! Congrats!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 05:33 PM
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Same! My ex did a real number on me...it is hard to imagine me fully being able to trust again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:24 AM
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What app did you use to create this?! I love it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 01:56 AM
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This is a great article! Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:22 AM
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Sounds like an ex...however, maybe this is how we "rate" our exes! Instead of making a whole new app, we just use the apps that exist! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:22 PM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 11:59 AM
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Welp, we found a name! Now we need an app developer!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:28 PM
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This should be the top comment!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 09:09 PM
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Update us if/when you get responses. Your comment is GOLD!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:13 PM
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😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 07:12 PM
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Hell yeah! Women helping women! Love that! Also, laughing at him while he was trying to LIE to you more made me laugh. Like I can picture it! Haha. Anyway, I am so glad you dumped him and incredible things are in your future. 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:19 PM
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🙌🙌🙌 truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 11:27 PM
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This is absolutely disgusting. I cannot believe Amazon is allowing this. WTF.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:03 PM
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When I did couples counseling with my LVM narc ex, the same thing happened. Everything was my fault. She literally told me that when something bothered me, to keep it to myself and not bring it up. 🤔
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 02:49 AM
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While I firmly believe that there are some aspects to male behavior that does correlate with the biology of the brain, everything you have said here is definitely cultural. Our culture has basically groomed men this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:23 PM
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🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:20 AM
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I have definitely been feeling lonely and momentarily considered downloading an online dating app. Then I remembered I need to lean into this and learn to be on my own. So I did piyo instead. Ding ding! Level up!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 12:18 AM
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Mine would be the "make her chase you" part. Where he stops communication until you text him and give him all the power. How many times have I fell for that? SMH.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:02 AM
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Yeah, same. We are learning though! Did you hear that? That was us leveling up!! 🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 11:33 PM
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OMG just saw this and postes it too. Wtf. I could not even comprehend this nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:33 AM
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Wtf is this nonsense?! Hell no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 03:07 AM
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This hit me hard. 😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:37 AM
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I was one of these women. I lied about orgasms. Lied about having them and the number of them, out of my "job" to protect the guys' ego. Did it ever do me any good? Nope. I will not be this kind of woman again. They don't help protect or nurture our ego's so why should we? The stats are extraordinarily high, but not shocking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 09:51 PM
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😂😂😂 right. He doesnt even need me. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:27 AM
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I want to give you all the up-votes! Preach! 🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 08:05 PM
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I'm pretty sure I said this exact thing when I read this message. 😹
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:24 PM
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Your reply sounds rude and accusatory. If you are curious as to why I responded this way, a better approach to anyone would probably be closer to: Just curious as to why you responded to him once he showed himself to be an LVM? In my experience... You are almost in the realm of shaming me for it, which isn't very FDS of you, as we are all queens here in different parts of our journey towards self-respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 06:21 PM
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I'm not sure if you meant your reply this way, but it comes across as rude and accusatory. I don't owe you an explanation as to why I responded this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 05:23 PM
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So fucking true. 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:43 AM
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Reading these comments has me so broken hearted. I have a kiddo with a LVM. We are broken up and I'm currently working towards getting custody, but as anyone knows, it is a lengthy process. That means that my beautiful, intelligent, kind kiddo goes to dads 3 times per week and he undoes all the work I have put in. I have hoped beyond hope that what I am doing is enough, and I now see that it probably isnt. I will keep fighting for my kiddo but this just...it kills me tbh. 😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 01:17 AM
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Thanks! Bookmarked it for future use!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 12:47 AM
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Right?! I look back and think the same thing... I should have left!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:45 PM
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Yeah! Full on like he was waiting for me to carry him across the threshold but we were sitting. I had my hands locked onto the arm rests. 😂🤣😂 it was the most insane date I have ever been on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 07:28 PM
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OLD story time: 10 years ago I was heavy into the OLD scene. I was talking to a guy and he seemed sweet and kind so I agreed to a date with him. We went to go see one of the paranormal activity movies. Anyway, I'm standing out front waiting for this 6' + guy to walk up. Nothing...nothing...I see this guy who looks a little familiar start walking my way and I'm like no....no way. He is probably 5'2" and I'm 5'6". I didnt say anything at the time and figured oh well. At least I will get to see a g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:42 PM
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👉👈
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:35 PM
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This. I remember crying all the time over my ex. Over small things. Over big things. I would cry because I didnt know what I did. I would cry because I would bend over backwards to change every aspect about myself that he didnt like it. I would cry because I wasnt enough. I would ask people what I was doing wrong and none of them would have an answer. It was so mentally and emotionally abusive for that 3 years that I have been in therapy for a year now working through it. I see now all the ways …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:30 PM
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😂😂😂 thanks. This gave me a good laugh with my morning cup of coffee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 02:15 PM
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WtAF. I am speechless. I hope this is a troll post, but it probably isn't.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 03:36 PM
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One said...trust implicitly until given a reason otherwise...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 10:51 PM
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Me too!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 03:19 AM
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Preach! 🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:49 AM
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That is the perfect way to state it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 06:54 PM
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Got it from another sub. It was already blocked. 💁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 02:04 PM
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HA! Saw this too. Smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 01:11 AM
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💅right! I will keep my house for me..thankkssss.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:38 PM
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🤣 I actually thought he was sitting on a toilet but you are 100% correct.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:38 PM
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I have had 0 luck finding any HVM and I was OLD since January. Not worth it, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 11:11 PM
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I deleted all of mine too. There is no way we are going to find HVM on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 10:49 PM
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I am not sure If he is trying to come across as funny, but it is not! Not even a little bit. I felt the same way about that last part, that he would make a woman feel bad and happy in the same day. RED FLAGS! GET YOUR RED FLAGS HERE!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 02:42 AM
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I started employing FDS in my OLD attempt. I have definitely weeded out LVM...it seems every guy in Plenty of Fish is a LVM?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:47 AM
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